WEBVTT - Work Life 

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo in the morning show.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to ask you guys a question and tell

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<v Speaker 2>me if you think that this is.

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<v Speaker 1>Weird. Okay, so you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys know that my son Joe hosts that radio show

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<v Speaker 2>called The Joe Show. You can hear them weekday afternoons

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<v Speaker 2>on our Detroit radio station, Channel ninety five five, or

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<v Speaker 2>you can check them out they're in Tampa on the

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<v Speaker 2>iHeartRadio app ninety three to three FLZ.

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<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Joe Ashley, who used to be on our show in

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<v Speaker 2>Jed along with Katie do this radio show all the

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<v Speaker 2>time and it's great and they're very close. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you follow them on social media, which you can live

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<v Speaker 2>with Joe Show or something, you can see that they

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<v Speaker 2>hang out with each other all the time, like they're

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<v Speaker 2>always going out for each other's birthdays, they go on

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<v Speaker 2>vacations together. I mean, they're closer even probably than we

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<v Speaker 2>are as a show, and we're really a close show.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was having a conversation with them and I

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<v Speaker 2>found this to be really odd, and tell me if

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<v Speaker 2>you think this is weird. Ashley Nicks, who many of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners know personally because she was very good when

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<v Speaker 2>she was on our show, has been dating a girl

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<v Speaker 2>for a long time. I mean we're talking six months,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe four to six months. Not Joe, not Jed, not Katie,

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<v Speaker 2>not anybody has met this girl. They've been dating for

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<v Speaker 2>six plus months. They have gone out with families and

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<v Speaker 2>friends and all this stuff. This girl has never come

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<v Speaker 2>at all to anything, and they have never met her personally.

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<v Speaker 2>It got to a point where I said to Joe,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe this is a fake friend Joe, and Joe goes

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<v Speaker 2>Joe says to me, he goes, Dad, No, she's dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley is just very secretive with her people. I said,

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<v Speaker 2>we I want to know what she looks like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate to bring you into this, Zach, but Zach

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<v Speaker 3>has also been I've seen someone for a while and

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<v Speaker 3>he keeps it very quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but his has not reached a six month period,

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<v Speaker 1>has it. I don't know. No one knows. Two questions though, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>So, First question is is this typical behavior from Ashley?

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<v Speaker 2>No, because I used to well, I'm back in the

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<v Speaker 2>day when she was here. She had a girlfriend that

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<v Speaker 2>we talked about on the radio all the time. She's yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Second question is has she ever brought someone up and

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<v Speaker 4>that negatively impacted their relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be no, that could be that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the reason why I will say this though with

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<v Speaker 2>the whole work life thing. Yeah, you know, I think

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<v Speaker 2>that there is a point where if you're that close,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's it's okay to not introduce your coworkers to

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<v Speaker 2>your spouse or your boyfriend's girlfriends whatever they're dealing is.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think if you're in the field like we are,

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<v Speaker 2>or friends with people, like if all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 2>I had heard that, you know, Kevin, you've been dating

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<v Speaker 2>this girl for seven eight months and you haven't brought

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<v Speaker 2>her around us, I would go, all right, what's she

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<v Speaker 2>got going on? Like, what's going you know, maybe this

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<v Speaker 2>girl is like I don't know, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't know if that's I don't know if that's weird though,

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<v Speaker 4>because it could be a protection thing. Sometimes you just

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<v Speaker 4>want to keep something protected and close to the vest

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<v Speaker 4>until either you feel comfortable or you have understood that

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<v Speaker 4>this is a real thing. And maybe she had a

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<v Speaker 4>date in mind where she like, look, I'm gonna just

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<v Speaker 4>get it six months. You say six months, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 4>give it six months. If she's still around, then I'll

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<v Speaker 4>bring around Because a lot of people are often like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, these are my these are my family members,

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<v Speaker 4>these are the people I love the most, and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not just about to bring a random around in front

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<v Speaker 4>of them.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, here's the story with you know, the whole

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<v Speaker 2>Zach thing, going back to the Zach thing, because now

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking about Zach go and it just brought a

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<v Speaker 2>really interesting thing up. How long is it gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>before all of a sudden we get to see if

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<v Speaker 2>Zach and this girl you know, I already met her, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you matter, but he had are they? Are

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<v Speaker 2>they that kind of boyfriend girlfriend in it? Because the

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley thing is interesting because I wanted to ask her

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<v Speaker 2>this question too, because I'm really fascinated with Lesbian's I.

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<v Speaker 1>Wanted to ask like, do you guys, are you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Planning like uh, you know, like you're gonna get married

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<v Speaker 2>one day, six months, bro move in with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>And all of us on the show have gone through

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<v Speaker 2>different types of relationships, and people have gone through different relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>I always felt like some there was always a period.

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<v Speaker 2>Help Bianca practically brings her boyfriend or you see him

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<v Speaker 2>on FaceTime like every five, like she's very open about

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<v Speaker 2>showing that, or a guy like Zach is not he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't he doesn't trust us or love us or what.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that I just keep my love life separate

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<v Speaker 1>from my work, wife.

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<v Speaker 3>My work.

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<v Speaker 2>But also I've noticed, like I haven't met Tony's wife,

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<v Speaker 2>Like there's just things that you know, keep.

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<v Speaker 1>Said, Really, Tony's not married to a wife. He's got

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<v Speaker 1>a husband. You never met Brooke at all, not once?

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<v Speaker 4>No, you did meet her, yeah, because she was at

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<v Speaker 4>she was at Shannon and Wes's like wedding celebration, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>and Brooksman had a lot of personal stuff that We've

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<v Speaker 4>had a lot of different things.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think an appropriate amount of time is?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you know what I by? First off,

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, it always.

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<v Speaker 2>Is funny to me when you meet somebody's spouse, because

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<v Speaker 2>you'd go, I never thought they would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Together, Like I did.

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<v Speaker 2>They get together our boss Kim and her husband Phil.

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<v Speaker 2>When I met him, I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I thought for a second there I was like

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<v Speaker 2>with Kim, like you don't you picture somebody a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit different? And then you realize after you meet him

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<v Speaker 2>and get to know them, like, oh, they're a perfect

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<v Speaker 2>couple of guys. When after a while, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you're thinking like I thought that.

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<v Speaker 1>They I didn't realize that that was the spouses. But

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<v Speaker 1>go to with the Zach thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go back to as far as how

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<v Speaker 2>pro long I feel that if we're all like friends

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff up you bring around, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like if I have like a in which I want

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<v Speaker 2>to have this coming up here soon with the weather breaking,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to have everybody come over to the house

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<v Speaker 2>and hang out of the house, and I want you

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<v Speaker 2>guys to bring you know, friends and you know and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, look, I'm hoping exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So we have I have met her, Mojo has not

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<v Speaker 3>met her? Have you brought her around other groups of

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<v Speaker 3>people like your your other friends? Okay, so it's really

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<v Speaker 3>just like a work and love life, keeping it separate.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. I respect that it's going to be a topy.

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<v Speaker 1>Has she has she come over to your sister's house.

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<v Speaker 1>Has your sister met her? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's a big one. That's your sister's I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>really seen my sister either. I'm just like, does your

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<v Speaker 2>sister want to meet her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but she's just like not yeah, but they all

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<v Speaker 3>know about her, so it's not like people.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I want to know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, Nicole knows. Nicole wants make a comment on

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<v Speaker 2>the Ashley next thing. What do you want to say?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, Okay, So caap, have you ever heard of the

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<v Speaker 5>U haul lesbians?

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<v Speaker 4>I heard you say I've only heard of super rules,

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<v Speaker 4>but please tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Me you haul lesbians are the ones who will move

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<v Speaker 1>in within a month and get married. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that's wild. So the relationships go very fast. I am

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<v Speaker 1>just pulled up.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, quick question for you over under on how long

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<v Speaker 2>you think it's going to be until Zach lets us

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<v Speaker 2>meet his girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying it'll be about two more months.

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<v Speaker 2>Give it two more years. Okay, all right, what's up, trash?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen. I'm gonna have to hold Mojo's hand when I

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<v Speaker 5>say this. Okay, as the bold star lesbian, I'm licensed

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<v Speaker 5>to say this. Yes, Mojo, you can never ever again

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<v Speaker 5>and say that you're obsessed with lesbians. It gets off

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<v Speaker 5>the worst creeper vibe. Every lesbian in the state shuttered,

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<v Speaker 5>every lesbian was like, oh no, Mojo, I love lesbians.

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<v Speaker 1>What's wrong with that? Why you got to say that?

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<v Speaker 5>We wanted you to like, we want you to love

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<v Speaker 5>you from a distance. Okay, but when you say things

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<v Speaker 5>like you're obsessed with us or you're overly interested in us,

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<v Speaker 5>it gives off that like specific movie type with the

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<v Speaker 5>heels and the stilettos.

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<v Speaker 2>That okay, Can I tell you what happens? My wife

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<v Speaker 2>since she cut her hair, gets hit on more by lesbians.

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<v Speaker 2>It's wild.

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<v Speaker 5>Me and my wife have long hair, so Chelsea she

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<v Speaker 5>grows it back.

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<v Speaker 1>They're hot lesbians too that are hitting on her, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Like they're we're hot. Me and

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<v Speaker 1>my wife are hot.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>One the other day was flirting with Chelsea. Were at

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<v Speaker 2>the restaurant. I'm like, guys, I'm here. You know what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Mike? How you doing? LEI relationships are counted in dog years. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>we still have the last color. Mike. You're a bad man.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on. That's well, that's me. I work in women's basketball,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's it's always anytime we have Like, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>you got some stories. I have a lot of stories,

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<v Speaker 1>probably half I can't share on the end.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait the other hand, do they bring do they bring

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<v Speaker 2>their girlfriends around the team, or do they hiding them

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<v Speaker 2>from everybody?

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<v Speaker 3>It just depends, like I've I've been I've been doing

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<v Speaker 3>what I what I do for like twelve years, So

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<v Speaker 3>it just kind of depends.

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<v Speaker 1>People are more open and not. But it's it's really

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<v Speaker 1>interesting to see like, oh, that's that's who you're with

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<v Speaker 1>or that, and we we judge from a distance.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let me ask you this because I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I've heard this on ESPN, but I've never actually talked

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<v Speaker 4>to a coach of a women's basketball team. Do all

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<v Speaker 4>of their cycles coincide? I promise you, I promise you.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard this. I'm not making this. Ah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and you can tell because they will come into

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<v Speaker 3>practice and every single one of them coach, today's not today,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Bet you. Though.

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<v Speaker 2>That means for a great game on the court, for

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<v Speaker 2>every we get, every loose loose ball