Speaker 1: Back with second date update. Literally trying to help you
Speaker 1: find love. The more I talk to people about dating,
Speaker 1: the more treacherous I hear that it is.
Speaker 2: So we're here to help. If you go on a.
Speaker 1: First date and let's say you're date ghosts, we will
Speaker 1: call them with you on the line to try to
Speaker 1: figure things out, see why they might have ghosted you.
Speaker 2: You know, sometimes it works out in a second date.
Speaker 2: Let's see if we can get that done for our
Speaker 2: guy him. Are you there?
Speaker 1: I am, Hey, Hey, so I want to hear all
Speaker 1: about this date. Tell me about Eli. How'd you guys meet?
Speaker 1: And then what'd you guys do for your first date?
Speaker 2: All?
Speaker 3: Right? Well, we we met on grinder, Okay, but it
Speaker 3: wasn't an immediate meet.
Speaker 2: We like, it wasn't like a right away.
Speaker 3: We talked for a little bit and then we met
Speaker 3: a couple of days later for tacos and margaritos.
Speaker 1: Okay, because correctly, if I'm wrong with like, grinder can
Speaker 1: be immediate, right, it can be like sitting ten feet
Speaker 1: to your left, let's go.
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much that's what grind grinder usually Okay, but
Speaker 3: I don't know. We we got to chat him and
Speaker 3: we decided that we wanted to see if it would
Speaker 3: be more than just kind.
Speaker 2: Of a grinder slow play. How often does this happen?
Speaker 2: Not very? Okay? So, how was the date?
Speaker 3: I mean it was really it was really awesome when
Speaker 3: we booked on musical theater and we both we both
Speaker 3: cry at the last ten.
Speaker 2: Minutes of so go, I mean, who doesn't, right?
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I thought he was really sweet and funny
Speaker 3: and like he was really honest. We we really we
Speaker 3: really had a lot to talk about.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, and he just ghosted, just gone.
Speaker 3: He just ghosted. I haven't heard from him.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 1: All right, let's call him. I mean, that's why we're here.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call him. We're gonna have you on the line.
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Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hello, May I speak to Eli? Please? This is him Eli.
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Speaker 4: Okay, what is the did I win a conscious with up?
Speaker 2: You don't listen to the morning show?
Speaker 4: Do you heavy? Now? And then? But not like often?
Speaker 2: Not religiously.
Speaker 1: Okay, we're doing second date update right now? Does that
Speaker 1: mean anything to you?
Speaker 4: It does not.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So I got a call from a gentleman that you
Speaker 1: went out with not too long ago, went out with
Speaker 1: for for tacos, and his name's Hyman. He's saying that
Speaker 1: you ghosted him, and I'm just calling kind of on
Speaker 1: his behalf to try to figure out why if you
Speaker 1: ghosted A and B, what happened?
Speaker 2: Did you ghost?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I did?
Speaker 2: Okay, did he do something wrong?
Speaker 4: I mean, on it, I'll say this. The date was fun.
Speaker 1: But because so here's here's what he told me. He
Speaker 1: told me that, like and I wrote it again. He
Speaker 1: told me that the date felt really honest.
Speaker 4: So that's the problem. It was too honest. Like but
Speaker 4: he was literally he was talking about like planning ahead,
Speaker 4: like his few games. He gave me his five year plan,
Speaker 4: and it was like when he meets the right guy,
Speaker 4: he wants to get married. He wants to have like
Speaker 4: a house in Berkeley, he wants two dogs, a share closet.
Speaker 1: Like.
Speaker 4: He was telling me all that before we ordered Keto,
Speaker 4: and then he reached over and like touched my wrists
Speaker 4: and said, I can tell you fall in love quickly
Speaker 4: as well, and I'm like, no, I don't like I mean,
Speaker 4: don't get me wrong. He was a nice guy. He's attractive.
Speaker 4: Like the conversation was good, but like it was just intense,
Speaker 4: like really intense. He kept correcting my spaniss like when
Speaker 4: I was ordering something, he would like correct me, which
Speaker 4: I thought was kind of annoying.
Speaker 2: Oh I wasn't ask you if you thought that was annoying.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 4: The first time was cut, but the second time I
Speaker 4: was like, okay, I get it Spanish is my first
Speaker 4: leg was like this is getting kind of a bit much.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, So basically like he was too fast, too furious,
Speaker 1: kind of.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like he was telling me about like what the
Speaker 4: dog's names would be just a lot.
Speaker 2: Sure here.
Speaker 1: The thing about it is is that time is actually
Speaker 1: listening right now. We'll try to use this as a
Speaker 1: teachable moment. Sorry, I'd love to bring him on, if
Speaker 1: that's okay?
Speaker 3: Sure him?
Speaker 2: Are you there?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Hey? Hi?
Speaker 1: So, uh you can see how this might be a
Speaker 1: little bit accelerated, right, Yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Mean, I mean I was joking kind of. I mean,
Speaker 3: you know, as I said, grinder is usually wham dam.
Speaker 3: But since we were actually going on dates. I figured
Speaker 3: it would be funny to joke about, Hey, we've done
Speaker 3: the whole get grinder immediacy and now we're clearly ready
Speaker 3: for a future together. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm gonna be honest with you. It didn't
Speaker 4: seem jokingly to me, Like it seemed like you were
Speaker 4: just genuinely looking for like something more and I'm just
Speaker 4: trying to have fun. I'm not looking at that road
Speaker 4: down the road. I'm not looking for relationship or dating
Speaker 4: or boyfriend or anything like you're on like a whole
Speaker 4: other level. And I respect that you're honest about whatever
Speaker 4: you're looking for, but I am not, in any way,
Speaker 4: shape or form I'm looking for any type of commitment
Speaker 4: or anything like that at all.
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't say that's too bad because I thought,
Speaker 3: you know, if we were actually meeting up and having
Speaker 3: a conversation instead of getting right to.
Speaker 2: Make and stuff.
Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes I just want to get dinner, but
Speaker 4: like I don't want to but you were really just
Speaker 4: pushing it.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 4: It just seems like you're really looking for that guy,
Speaker 4: and I hope you find it, but it's just I
Speaker 4: can't be.
Speaker 2: That guy, right, Hang on, you guys hang on.
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