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Speaker 4: So my ex just won't leave me alone, Like he's

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Speaker 3: Okay, but no, no, so you broke up.

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Speaker 1: You's like you don't text him back, You're not like, hey,

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Speaker 4: We've been done. We've been done.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So then he wants to he wants to underpants,

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Speaker 4: I send him a pair and he's so excited and

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Speaker 3: Of him or something. And so what did he respond?

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Speaker 3: That's a good bit. Write it down, Jenny, send panties.

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Speaker 4: He didn't, He just blocked me.

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Speaker 3: Well, and that's probably what you want in the first place,

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Speaker 3: I would have said block him earlier. But I'm here.

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Speaker 3: How genius of an idea was this? Yeah, oh smart ideas.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, sure, I'm I'm glad he was in on it. Okay, Hey,

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Speaker 7: Because someone texted and said she should have sent crusty

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Speaker 3: Bailly. Do they sell granny panties at thrift store? They do.

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Speaker 8: Used underwear, but they they do sell used swimsuits.

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Speaker 3: And as far as I'm concerned, hot take swimsuits.

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Speaker 3: They don't put on somebody else's socks. I could Would

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Speaker 1: Who is playing face Off?

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Speaker 8: A lot of TV. Well, I've got a little theme

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Speaker 7: Friend Seinfeld cheers, I'm not good at sign Yeah, those

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Speaker 3: Praiser. Hey, you got something at the end there. Good job. Okay, great, sweetie.

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Speaker 7: Cartoon TV shows rug Rats, Arrangers, Mickey, mouse Bugs, bunny Bugs, Bundy,

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Speaker 3: Because I crushed it? Okay, okay.

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Speaker 8: Your first category, Dave, and you're gonna name as many

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Speaker 8: All right, fabulous, And your final category, David, is cartoon.

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Speaker 3: TV shows Scooby Doo, I'm a Scrappy Doo, Peanuts, Teenage Mutant, Ninja, Turtles, Bugs, Bunny, Roadrunner, Bug,

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Speaker 8: one here in TV channels. Jenny, you got ten, pretty good. Dave,

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Speaker 9: it comes. Jenny, you got five. Yeah, I did really

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Speaker 3: I didn't think of anything. I got you all right?

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Speaker 10: I mean it's it's it's honest, it's it's awful, it's

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Speaker 12: He is everything else.

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Speaker 11: But I mean it is bad where I don't know

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Speaker 3: Get over or that's a good question, but I want

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Speaker 1: It's like push push push push, pump, pump pump push push, push, pump,

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Speaker 1: Is that a problem, Jenny, Yeah, some guys think some

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he's on and then he's like grab a,

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Speaker 3: and what about me? All right?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, Let's be real. Intimacy is such

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Speaker 2: To be like effectively communicating and it doesn't seem like

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Speaker 7: Somebody text and so that he can get better at sex.

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Speaker 7: So this should not be a deal breaker. Go see

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Speaker 7: Like, that's just yeah, it's that's an uncomfortable conversation and

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Speaker 3: Right, I do totally.

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Speaker 8: A lot of people are saying, you know, hey, you

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Speaker 1: Thing that there was this girl that I dated, and

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Speaker 8: How many times? I'm just trying to think, like, is

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Speaker 3: And then the next time it comes back around and

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Speaker 7: So without having the sit down conversation when you're actually

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then they still do it that way. Well,

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Speaker 3: the problem is she's been have you been kind of

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Speaker 1: Really quick because we got to take a break. We

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Speaker 1: So basically we're not trying to be sillacious or do

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Speaker 1: it's not dirty or vulgar. It's that's the love and

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Speaker 1: pretty good. I don't have your name. My phone screen

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Speaker 3: What's your name, Edie? Okay, what you want to say

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Speaker 4: Well, just listen to the conversation. If it's worth the

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Speaker 3: Just like Dave said, you got to have the conversation.

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Speaker 4: I've been married for twelve years, got married very young,

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Speaker 11: I did take it because I thought that's what I

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Speaker 3: And I thought that's what girls had to kind of do.

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Speaker 4: If it's not the best, just act like it's all right.

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Speaker 3: No, absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: Just let him know, like, hey, it feels a lot

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Speaker 11: Feel better if you do it this way, or let's

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Speaker 3: I think conversation piece is definitely needed in this.

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Speaker 11: You do not have to suffer through that.

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Speaker 1: Girl, because the longer it goes on, the lot harder

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Speaker 1: is going to be to fix the whole thing. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: Stephanie's on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Give me your sum up your problem with your boyfriend

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Speaker 11: I I love everything about him, but a sex.

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Speaker 3: Is awful, awful, awful.

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Speaker 1: And we were talking about, you know, not just how

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Speaker 1: I remember when I was brand new it like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know. So then you learn to like just

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Speaker 1: And you know what else you can do. You can

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Speaker 3: Your lips.

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Speaker 7: Stop looking at I'm not looking at you, at the

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Speaker 1: All right, So the question is, and we've got a

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Elliott, What do you want to share with this?

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Speaker 3: Elliott?

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Speaker 1: Well, you guys were speaking about how you bring it

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Speaker 12: And then bring up his interest rather than hers and

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Speaker 12: kind of you know, hey, so what do you like?

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Speaker 6: What position do you like?

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Speaker 6: Well, I like this and I like that, which would

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Speaker 12: Her to kind of expread that and then when they're

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Speaker 6: Let's try to remember what remember when I told you.

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Speaker 8: Let's try that, So making it seem like he's the

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Speaker 3: The ball in his court. Okay, gotcha.

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Speaker 1: Why do you think, Elliott, that so many guys are

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Speaker 3: Why do you think so many guys are clueless?

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Speaker 1: I think it's just.

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Speaker 12: Social media and everything.

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Speaker 4: They have you know they have these these younger you

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Speaker 1: Is and what you know bathing should be and you

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Speaker 1: know they just I don't know yourself, Elliott. Time to

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Speaker 3: Being the highest.

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Speaker 13: Oh man, listen, I want to be a sex therapist.

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Speaker 3: Let's put it like that, Alli Alliant, are you single?

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Speaker 8: I am? I am?

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Speaker 3: And what's city you from? Yeah? Park, not too far

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Speaker 3: Let's just be so. In the capital P world, the

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Speaker 8: I think a lot of text messages that are saying like, hey,

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Speaker 8: So having I I think the people who are saying hey,

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Speaker 3: Because he might not be hearing you in that moment.

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Speaker 2: Somebody texted and said they need to have a Subprina

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Speaker 3: And should do a sex position on stage on this one?

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Speaker 3: I like this one. Does he preheat the oven first

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: use like a good twenty five and time broilers. You

440
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Speaker 3: got to make that type of time really things. We're

441
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Speaker 3: actually talking about making a recipe right now, which she

442
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Speaker 3: sucks at anyway, So I don't know why she's concerned.

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Speaker 1: Okay, basically let's get let's answer her question though best

444
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Speaker 1: we can. She wants to know, Okay, the relationship workout,

445
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Speaker 1: even though the love in his subpar.

446
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Speaker 3: And a lot of people are agreeing that, yes, it can.

447
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Speaker 3: You have to teach him, but maybe not right in

448
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Speaker 3: the moment.

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Speaker 8: As it's happening, because he might not be hearing you

450
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Speaker 8: in that moment, but having to have a conversation about

451
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Speaker 8: it and communicating, because if you can't communicate, then you

452
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Speaker 8: shouldn't be doing it in the first place.

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Speaker 7: Jenny, I was gonna say, a lot of people are saying,

454
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Speaker 7: just try to communicate because he seems to be a

455
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Speaker 7: really good person in all other aspects.

456
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Speaker 3: That sex is definitely something that you can teach people.

457
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Speaker 3: It sucks that you have to.

458
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Speaker 1: But here's something interesting in text message at katiewb one

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Speaker 1: and thanks for all these My husband has aspergers, no

460
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Speaker 1: social cues, exact sex issues. Great guy, but no clue

461
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Speaker 1: in the bedroom. They want to know what to do,

462
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Speaker 1: but they can't emotionally handle being told interesting.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you have to be able to be emostly like

464
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Speaker 2: to be told that. I and I don't know if

465
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Speaker 2: other people are like this. Sometimes I'll ask, like can

466
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Speaker 2: I am I doing something wrong? Not in that moment,

467
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Speaker 2: but I'll ask can I be doing something better? Because

468
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Speaker 2: I care about pleasing my partner? So I hope that

469
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Speaker 2: he's like that, that he's willing to care about pleasing

470
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Speaker 2: your partner too.

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Speaker 3: So you and I have to punch you. God, he's

472
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Speaker 3: trying to be friendly.

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Speaker 1: God. Hey, Stephanie, I think that the good news is

474
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Speaker 1: you can work it out, but it's going to take

475
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Speaker 1: some work.

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Speaker 11: Okay, this has been so helpful, really, I think for

477
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Speaker 11: a lot of people.

478
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Speaker 1: Honestly, I think a lot of people have realized I'm

479
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Speaker 1: not the only one with a clueless man in the bedroom.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 10: It sounds hopeful.

482
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Speaker 11: So I definitely am gonna, you know, bring it up

483
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Speaker 11: and ask him, uh, you know, put the ball in

484
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Speaker 11: his court.

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Speaker 1: Change lives one thousand dollars from kdwble would you change

486
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Speaker 1: about your boobs? I'm sorry, it was just talking about

487
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Speaker 1: the keyword, but you go ahead.

488
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Speaker 3: What did you just say, we know what the keyword is?

489
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Speaker 3: Moving on? Okay? Really?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So what would you change about your boobs? My gosh,

492
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 3: right now, yeah, right now, you have a list list

493
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Speaker 3: out you guys can be a part of this conversation.

494
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Speaker 3: But yeah, we'll ask what would we change about Bailey's boom?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

496
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Speaker 3: What you would change about your knockers?

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Speaker 8: Oh, let's see, I would so right now, there's one

498
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Speaker 8: of them is like an A cup and the other.

499
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Speaker 3: One's like almost an A cup. Yeah, it's like the

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Speaker 3: smallest one.

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Speaker 8: I would want a B cup I think, and like

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Speaker 8: a not like a almost a B cup and a

503
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Speaker 8: B cup. I would want them both to be healthy

504
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 8: B cups, both solid B cups with solid bees. That

505
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Speaker 8: would be really nice so I could look more proportionate. Jenny,

506
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Speaker 8: what would you change about your boob?

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Speaker 7: So we have brought this up plenty of times on

508
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Speaker 7: the show before, but I've got higher naps. Oh yeah,

509
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Speaker 7: so I'd probably just bring them down a few centimeters

510
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Speaker 7: because I wear tops that I'm constantly concerned that something's

511
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Speaker 7: going to slip out.

512
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Speaker 3: Oh it's going to peek out over your shirt. But

513
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Speaker 3: I don't want them to go too much lower, because when.

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Speaker 1: They are is the dumbest kind of I mean, I

515
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Speaker 1: respect it, but this is probably the most incongruent conversation

516
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: we've had.

517
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Speaker 3: On the show.

518
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Speaker 7: Finished when they're out loose in the open, for like,

519
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 7: say a gentleman. Yeah, I like what they look like

520
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 7: out that way because they look perkier than they are,

521
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 7: you know. And I'm getting to the age where I

522
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Speaker 7: might get a little lifty, you know. I want them

523
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Speaker 7: to stay up.

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Speaker 3: A bit and then just on their own.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I will say that is the one perk of

526
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Speaker 8: having small boobs is that they seem to be perky

527
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Speaker 8: all the time, even though in my heart I'm not

528
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Speaker 8: perky about it, but the way that they are sitting

529
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Speaker 8: is naturally perky.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, if you just turn the rate.

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Speaker 1: I was having trying to have a conversation about winning

532
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Speaker 1: a thousand dollars important stuff, and then I had planned

533
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Speaker 1: to talk to Vaunt about the possibility of Final Destination seven,

534
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: but then I got interrupted by Bailey going or Jenny

535
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Speaker 1: going one last thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do get some hairs. Yeah, well I don't

537
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 3: be all to be gone, to be gone forever and

538
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 3: ever forever.

539
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Speaker 8: Yeah that and like boob sweat, which I don't get

540
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Speaker 8: a lot of because there's not a lot of boob,

541
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Speaker 8: but when it's like really hot out and then like, yeah,

542
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Speaker 8: I apologize, my boob like sits on top of.

543
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Speaker 3: Like my first like belly roll and it's kind of

544
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Speaker 3: like sweaty. Yeah, you know what I mean. I know

545
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Speaker 3: what you mean.

546
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,120
Speaker 7: Like sometimes if I have a like right, for example,

547
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 7: the the little table in front of Bailey and I

548
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 7: I could just like PLoP mine on there if I want. Yeah,

549
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 7: I do enjoy that about my boobs that I can

550
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Speaker 7: just call.

551
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Speaker 3: They're like kind of yes. So they did the roller

552
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 3: coaster one, they did the bridge one, the race car one,

553
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 3: they just did the high skyscraper things truck we're talking about.

554
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Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question? Do you yes? If

555
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 3: you're gonna be supportive, you can ask a question. Get

556
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 3: it supportive like a bra and please text it if

557
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 3: this is an HR violation or not. Jenny, is this

558
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: a real concern?

559
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: Are your nips that high that you worry that when

560
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 2: you wear a tip top they could pop out?

561
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 3: They're that high? Absolutely, I'm shoulders to watch. Depending on

562
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 3: the offhan I'm wearing.

563
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 7: I give a responsibility to one of my girlfriends for

564
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 7: the evening, like you're on nip slip duty. Okay, Yeah,

565
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 7: And it was a fun game that I played in college.

566
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 7: If you could guess where my nips were, I bought

567
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 7: your drink. If you got it wrong, you bought me

568
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 7: a drink. It was a fun little college game. I

569
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 7: can circle my boobs, that was another thing I always

570
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 7: Circle does mean like I can shimmy home and then

571
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Speaker 7: they can go on one big loop.

572
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Speaker 3: They teach you that in burlesque school. Is that you

573
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 3: do too well?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's a it's like, you know, you're shimmy and

575
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 8: then your your tassels go in a circle, and then

576
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 8: if you lift one arm, it goes in a different way,

577
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 8: and then you lift the other arm, it goes a

578
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 8: different way.

579
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Speaker 3: And then there's some big boobs I can't remember. Yeah,

580
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Speaker 3: are they big? Would you just say Susan had big boobs?

581
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 3: She could probably do the circle thing too. I'm calling hr,

582
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 3: I love the first. Sure can do the circle phone

583
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 3: with her boobs?

584
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,439
Speaker 8: Come on, now, you know what I think that they

585
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 8: should invent and it's actually like terrible that they haven't yet.

586
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 8: So if you have giant boobs and you get a

587
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 8: breast reduction. Everyone's like, good for you, babe, good for you.

588
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 3: You do you.

589
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 8: But me, as a tiny boobs person, if I say,

590
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 8: oh I want bigger boobs, people be like, love them.

591
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 3: The way they are.

592
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 8: But I just want to take a suction like cup,

593
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Speaker 8: put it on my sister's boobs, take some of her

594
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 8: boobs because I know she doesn't want all of them,

595
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 8: and then just suction them and siphon them right into

596
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Speaker 8: my boobs.

597
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 3: How come they haven't come up with that yet? What

598
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 3: happened between you and your sister?

599
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 2: Like I don't feel comfortable asking this, Like the genets

600
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 2: from your mom, I don't know.

601
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 3: You know, my sister got all the good ones.

602
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Speaker 8: She got the big old boobs, and she got the

603
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Speaker 8: pointy chain thank you. I have these tiny little boobs

604
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 8: and I got a round dog face.

605
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 3: Shut stop it. But still that's what I would want.

606
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 3: I want to siphon her boobs to thank you. I

607
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 3: would really appreciate it.

608
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Speaker 1: I mean, I turned the microphone on a little while

609
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: ago and I was like, Okay, let's talk about the

610
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: thousand dollars keyword, which again is star and you should

611
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: use it on katiewb dot com to enter that, and

612
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: then five ten minutes from now we get a Sabrina

613
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: Carpenter keyword, and then all of a sudden, you know

614
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Speaker 1: it's supposed to be the Dave Ryan in the Morning Show,

615
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: but I don't.

616
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Speaker 3: You're an engineer and you know how to create one

617
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 3: of these boob siphons. Can you let us know, please?

618
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 7: Thanque that would be really the lot of text coming

619
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 7: and that says they sit down, Yeah, we want to

620
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Speaker 7: hear this is best segment.

621
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Speaker 3: I'm not even trying anymore. Yeah, I'm not even trying anymore.

622
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Speaker 7: HR violation to the max? What are you talking about

623
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 7: having a friendly conversation? Sometimes I think we forget though

624
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 7: that like other people hear the conversations, you know, like

625
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Speaker 7: we kind of think that it is just the two

626
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Speaker 7: of us talking.

627
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Speaker 3: Bucket of content. Jenny, can I be on NIP duty today?

628
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 3: I can just hear this conversation what I'm wearing tonight.

629
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Speaker 3: You'll be on NIP duty for me too.

630
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: Say you're working at United Healthcare, you're down and eating prairie,

631
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: you're dying like a conference room or there's a big

632
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: zoom call and you're trying to talk about the new

633
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: budgets for whatever, and then a couple of like somebody's like, hey, Bailey,

634
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: what would you change about your boobs? And it just

635
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: throws the whole thing. It's just not right.

636
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Speaker 3: Well, that sounds like an environment I want to work.

637
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: The thing is, we always have like ideas for how

639
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 8: we want to change our boobs, we just never get

640
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 8: the platform to talk about it.

641
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: And platforming women is really important.

642
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 8: Yeah, women support women, Dave, we do what would you

643
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 8: change about your boobs?

644
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 2: Day time?

645
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 3: To break it? I'd give some to you, Bailey.

646
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we wouldn't normally do this on Halloween because it

647
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with Halloween. But there's some urgency

648
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: to this caller. And we're talking to Becca right now. Becca,

649
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: we're live on the radio right now, and we got you.

650
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: We're going to use you next week for group therapy.

651
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: We thought there's some urgency to this one, so really quickly,

652
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: and I know it's kind of a long story.

653
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 3: Tell me what you are faced with with this wedding.

654
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Speaker 3: What's up, Becca?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, So my husband has a best friend who just

656
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 12: recently got engaged. Bride is lovely. We have some things

657
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 12: in common. She's nice and we've known each other for

658
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 12: just over a year, I think. Okay, late lately the

659
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Speaker 12: groom has been kind of hinting that I will be

660
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 12: asked to be a bridesmaid. The problem is, I don't

661
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 12: really know this girl. We're friendly, we're not really friends.

662
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 3: Sure, did you?

663
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 4: We've hung out one on one and.

664
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 12: The conversation seemed kind of quiet, a little bit strained,

665
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 12: and pretty like superficial. Yeah, and this couple lives about

666
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 12: like an hour away from the city, so we kind

667
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,479
Speaker 12: of see them sporadically, but we're supposed to see them

668
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 12: this weekend. So I'm getting a little bit anxious about

669
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 12: you know, can I can I say no to being

670
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 12: a bridesmaid? How do I do so without you know,

671
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 12: embarrassing myself or her? Because anyone said no to this

672
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 12: before and it's been fine.

673
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: And I don't want to put words in your mound,

674
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: but I did I read in there that's like, you know,

675
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: all the duties that come along with the bridesmaid, with

676
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: the bridal shower and the bachelororette party and all the things,

677
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: and you don't necessarily have or want to invest the

678
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 1: time with, you know, respectfully, somebody you don't know.

679
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 12: That queen did I get that, right, Yes, I just

680
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 12: you know, I kind of picture myself, you know, sitting

681
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 12: in the corner, not really knowing anyone, and then you know,

682
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 12: not having any fun memories or anything like about the

683
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 12: bride to contribute when you know you play those the

684
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 12: classic how well do you know the bride game?

685
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 11: Oh yeah, those like kind.

686
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 12: Of standard things that go along with the showers and

687
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 12: the bachelorette parties. And just as a note, I'll also

688
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 12: be about four months postpartum when the wedding occurred. I'm

689
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 12: not really sure that I will feel or look my best.

690
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 12: And I know it's you know, people aren't looking at me,

691
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 12: but I just if I'm included in a wedding, I

692
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 12: want to be able to support one percent.

693
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: So the big question is you're looking for advice, like

694
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: how do you say no because you think they're going

695
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: to maybe ask you this weekend because today's Friday, and

696
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: you think that they may maybe ask you this weekend

697
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: because you're going to see them, And you're like, eeke,

698
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt anybody or.

699
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 3: Look mean, but I don't really want to. That's kind

700
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 3: of the question, right, right, And you.

701
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 12: Know it's it's more just because I just don't feel

702
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 12: like I know her. The groom has already kind of

703
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 12: declared who his groomsmen will be, and so now it's

704
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 12: kind of down to the bride and she's she's got

705
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 12: some sisters, so.

706
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 8: I know that.

707
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 3: But you might be a little bit of a space filler. Two.

708
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 12: Yes, that's exactly kind of how I feel. I'm like,

709
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 12: you know what, am I just there to make things

710
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 12: even on both sides, because that's not really a great

711
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 12: feeling either.

712
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: No, I totally get that. I don't want to cut

713
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: you short, but we have to move through a break here.

714
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: But what I'm going to do is that you can

715
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: keep your radio on and find out what people say,

716
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: because I'm going to guess that's somewhere somebody is listening

717
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 1: who's had to say no for the same reason, or

718
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: a bride who's asked and they said no and they

719
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: said no in the right way or the wrong way.

720
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: So Becca, keep your radio on. We'll have some answers

721
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: for you.

722
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, thank you? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Happy Halloween,

723
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 3: good luck. I don't know why I'm whispering. I don't know.

724
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 3: I don't want her friends to hear. Well, we've already

725
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 3: gotten some text messages, so we can come back to

726
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 3: those at the other side.

727
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: A lot of ideas. Love to hear what you think.

728
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: A little special treat for you. We actually put on

729
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: our Halloween costumes from last night, so you can see

730
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: them on YouTube Dave Ryan TV if you want to

731
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: go check those out. They are not actually full costumes

732
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: because I don't have my makeup on. I was Jenny, yeah,

733
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 1: and Bailey's wearing her hat, but no green makeup.

734
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 3: Now, I had a green face last night. It took

735
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 3: me like thirty minutes to put it on, so I

736
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 3: wasn't about to do it again.

737
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 1: The funny part is you look a little bit like

738
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: Inspector Gadget because you were wearing your hat on top

739
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: of your headphones.

740
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you look a little bit like Inspector Gadget, Right, Bailey,

741
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,280
Speaker 3: I think you look like the guy from Curious George.

742
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 8: That's what everyone thought I was gonna be because I

743
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 8: asked for a yellow hat and they were like, ooh,

744
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 8: You're gonna be Curious George.

745
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 3: And the man in the yellow hat. And I didn't

746
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 3: say otherwise, so it was a bait and switch. You

747
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 3: can see us on YouTube Dave Ryan TV. Jenny, I am.

748
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 7: Tina Carlisle because I am Bailey's boyfriend. I'm Bailey's girlfriend

749
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 7: from the Mask. That's Cameron Diaz's character in the Mask.

750
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 7: And Dave, I'm obsessed with the fact that your little

751
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 7: uh barber or not wait, necklace is hanging between your

752
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 7: cleavage right now, it's just being held up by your boobies.

753
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 3: Does it work out?

754
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 2: He's Jenny and you go world, yeah, yeah, wow, yeah yeah.

755
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 2: And I'm a little orphan any I have the full

756
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 2: costume one, I have my wig, I have my red dress.

757
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 2: That's all you have for your costume though, those two pieces, well.

758
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, well the bit I was wearing leggings last night

759
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 1: yoga pants is what you girls call him. Yeah, leggings,

760
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: and I don't have those on today. So I we're

761
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: from the from the neck up right now, shoulders up.

762
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 1: So if you want to see us on YouTube, we'll

763
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,320
Speaker 1: have these costumes on for the next out to know

764
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: twenty minutes, fifteen minutes, not a whole lot more because

765
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 1: this thing is very itchy. But you see a bunch

766
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: of pictures from Boo Bage last night on Dave Ryan

767
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 1: Show on Instagram, So we talked to a woman Becca

768
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: a little while ago. Really interesting question, and I'm gonna

769
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: sum it up for you. Basically, she knows her her

770
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:18,720
Speaker 1: husband's friend is getting married. They don't know his fiance

771
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: very well, but she's very nice. They've known each other

772
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: for about a year and they've had conversations Becca and

773
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 1: the woman the bride, and it's like, you know, it's

774
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: a okay conversation, but you know one of those where

775
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 1: you're not really hitting it off and you make polite conversation,

776
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: you struggle for something to say. And so she thinks

777
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 1: that they are going to ask her to be the

778
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: one of the bride'smaids, and she doesn't want to. And

779
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: the simple reason is she just doesn't know this woman

780
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 1: very well. And she's worried that if she does the

781
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: festivities and the bachelorette party and the bridal shower that

782
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,760
Speaker 1: she won't know anybody and she'll sit in the corner

783
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 1: and she just doesn't want to. Nobody likes that. So

784
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 1: she thinks they're going to ask her this weekend. That's

785
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 1: why we put her on right away instead of waiting

786
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: till group therapy on Tuesday. What should she do if

787
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: you've been declined by a potential bridesmaid. Is there a

788
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: polite way to do it? If you've declined to be

789
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 1: a bridesmaid?

790
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 3: Is it? What did? How was the reaction? What do

791
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:17,919
Speaker 3: you think she should say?

792
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 1: And we got a ton of text messages, but first

793
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: we got a bunch of phone call, or at least

794
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: one phone call. So let's see if we can talk

795
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: to John a little bit different perspective. John, tell me

796
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 1: your story.

797
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 3: What happened?

798
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 6: So, yeah, I will asked to be a groomsman. This

799
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 6: was about five years ago and I barely knew the guy,

800
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 6: talked to him maybe a handful of times at the time,

801
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 6: and he just randomly asked me.

802
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 3: And when he asked me.

803
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 6: I said, if you need me to be, I will

804
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 6: because it's your day. I'm happy to help you. But

805
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 6: at the same time, I don't feel comfortable being a

806
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 6: groomsman yet. If you want to get to know each

807
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 6: other more or get to get together more often, then sure,

808
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 6: but I'd rather just be a person to be there

809
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 6: and help you and have fun with you.

810
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 3: Guys, what did you end up doing? Did you actually

811
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 3: end up being a groomsman or.

812
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 12: Did you not?

813
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,360
Speaker 6: I actually did not. They found other individuals to be

814
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 6: a groomsman and I'm still friends with him actually.

815
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: And he took it, okay. I think sometimes I think

816
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 1: it happens with men more than women. Sometimes there are

817
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: guys that just don't have enough friends. She's got six friends.

818
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: He needs to round out that side of the ceremony.

819
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:27,879
Speaker 1: So he'll like be like, I don't know, I got

820
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: six friends. Yeah, And so they sometimes, But then you

821
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 1: see the wonderful weddings where the guy has got like

822
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: ten groomsmen up there and they've known each other since

823
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: third grade and they played football together and it's like

824
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 1: so cool. And then there's other ones that just don't

825
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 1: work out.

826
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 3: And we have some text messages that are kind of

827
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:45,919
Speaker 3: saying the same thing about the woman as well.

828
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 8: One says, don't say no. It's a chance to get

829
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 8: to know her better. She might not have a lot

830
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 8: of close friends, yes. Another one also says, she doesn't

831
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 8: have close people in her life. She may feel that

832
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 8: you would be a good person to have by her

833
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 8: side at this point, but you can just be completely

834
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 8: honest with her and tell her that you don't think

835
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 8: you could show up in the way that she would

836
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 8: need you to a lot of people are saying, blame

837
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 8: the baby, blame the baby, and that's kind of like

838
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 8: a running thing, especially if you're only if your four

839
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 8: months postpartum, say that you can't devote one hundred percent

840
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 8: and that you won't be able to do it, and

841
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 8: people are saying, hey, that reasoning sounded perfect, and I

842
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 8: think that would be an acceptable no.

843
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the reasoning is just like completely justified.

844
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: My girlfriend, Alyssa, her sister got married and so she

845
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: asked the other sister and she was like, sorry, I

846
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 2: just don't want that responsibility. And that's her sister. So

847
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 2: this girl, Becca's not even like close.

848
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 7: What would you do, Jenny, Oh, I would definitely just

849
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 7: blame having a child. I'd be like, I'm sorry, my

850
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 7: life is like too busy. And I do think that

851
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 7: that's like a truthful answer mixed with a passive aggressive answer,

852
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 7: and I think that that's perfectly fine because she doesn't

853
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 7: owe this person anything.

854
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 3: She barely knows this person. I don't know.

855
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 7: I would definitely say no, no matter what, because being

856
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,720
Speaker 7: a bridesmaid is a hefty duty.

857
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 8: Someone did suggest being a personal attendant, so you could

858
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 8: say like, I can't, I can't be a bridesmaids because

859
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 8: I can't put in that effort for you. But I

860
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 8: would be willing to be a personal attendant because I

861
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,240
Speaker 8: do feel bad, Like if this is a girl who.

862
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 3: Doesn't have a lot of friends and that's why she's

863
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 3: asking you, Ye, that's what I feel.

864
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, right, Because then like if you're a personal attendant

865
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,919
Speaker 8: and if you offer it up, like hey, I can't

866
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 8: be a bridesmaid because I'm going to be four months postpartum,

867
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 8: but I would love to be a personal attendant, then

868
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 8: it's still like a no, but versus just a no.

869
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 7: I think you can feel bad, but you also have

870
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 7: to think that like is it really her responsibility to

871
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 7: take on the financial toll of being a bridesmaid when

872
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 7: she's barely friends with this person?

873
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does cost money. That's not fair at all.

874
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,720
Speaker 8: This texta is my sisters and I were all asked

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Speaker 8: to be in a wedding of someone we didn't really know.

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Speaker 8: We said yes because we felt concerned, but it was

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Speaker 8: or cornered, but it was awful.

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Speaker 3: Don't do it. I would say, you are honored to

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Speaker 3: be asked, but unfortunately you will be unable to do

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Speaker 3: it due to having a new baby. That's a reasonable reason.

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Speaker 1: Finally, rap things up with Secretary Brie. So the dilemma is,

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Speaker 1: she's I think somebody that she doesn't know very well.

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Speaker 1: She is probably going to ask to be asked to

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Speaker 1: be a bridesmaid in her wedding this weekend, not the

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Speaker 1: wedding of this weekend, but she'll ask this weekend. She

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to because she doesn't know her well and

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Speaker 1: doesn't want all the duties that come along with it.

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Speaker 3: Wrap it up for me, Secretary Brie, what do you think?

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Speaker 4: Don't do it?

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Speaker 13: Don't do it at all if you're not feeling it,

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Speaker 13: you don't have the financial resources, and you don't know

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Speaker 13: the person well. Do not feel guilty saying no. My

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Speaker 13: half sister asked me to be her maid of honor.

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Speaker 13: I don't have a relationship with her, didn't I said

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Speaker 13: yes because I felt obligated. I didn't know a single

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Speaker 13: other bridesmaid in the wedding party, barely knew any guests.

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Speaker 13: It was the most miserable experience, and I had to

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Speaker 13: travel up to the North Shore, spend a ton of money.

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Speaker 3: And I wo on it as simple as that. All right,

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Speaker 3: thank you, Brie.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back in a second with katiew But I

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Speaker 1: was going to say, we got a keyword for Sabrina Carpenter.

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Speaker 1: But also, if you ever an issue that you're like,

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Speaker 1: I need some advice and I don't know who to ask,

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Speaker 1: somebody listening to the show's got some advice for you

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Speaker 1: because they've been in that same situation. We'll be back

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Speaker 1: in a second on KTIEWB with you Can't make This

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Speaker 1: Stuff Up. We're going to talk about there's something with

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Speaker 1: the new iPhone that people are they They're like, am

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Speaker 1: I imagining this or is it really happening. Yes, it's

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Speaker 1: really happening, and I'll tell you about it.