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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode. Oh, I tell you what. My

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Speaker 1: question is, who's supposed to ask who when it comes

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Speaker 1: to getting married? And it's a very unique situation. I

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Speaker 1: think this is partially made up, but it's still It

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Speaker 1: just kind of it raises my eyebrows a little bit.

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Speaker 1: What would you do? Dubs?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of red flags because this woman on

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Speaker 2: TikTok decided to propose to her boyfriend of fourteen years.

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Speaker 2: They also have four kids, and they live together at

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Speaker 2: his parents' house, and she really wanted to get married.

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Speaker 2: So she's like, you know what, it's been fourteen years,

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Speaker 2: he hasn't asked. I'm gonna flip the script. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to get down on one knee and ask him. So

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Speaker 2: I wonder, like, what would you do? Or what do

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Speaker 2: you think about this? It's good bad? Wouldn't you wonder

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Speaker 2: why he hasn't yes?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Because you know that he knows that you want to

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Speaker 1: be married to him, right, So you know that? So

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Speaker 1: you talk back on the iHeartRadio app let it rip

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Speaker 1: wed love your thoughts on this kind of stuff. I

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Speaker 1: think is there a little flag going on?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: I understand that they're they've been to the other fourteen years,

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Speaker 1: they have four kids. Number one, they're living with his

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Speaker 1: parents still after that time, which isn't the end of

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Speaker 1: the world. I get that, but doesn't that make it

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Speaker 1: kind of assess where things are going a little bit already?

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Speaker 1: I mean, things really aren't moving, you know, you're not

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Speaker 1: really moving out on your right And I'm not ripping anybody,

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Speaker 1: not being judgmental, but just kind of some things are

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe there's a reason that they're they're kind

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Speaker 1: of stuck in this particular position. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And he has also told her that he wants to

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Speaker 2: spend the rest of his life with her, and she's like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: well let's get married. And I'm like, I don't really

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Speaker 2: think you need to get married to spend the rest

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Speaker 2: of your life with somebody. Well, what do you say?

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Speaker 1: Talk back on the iHeartRadio app let her rip They've

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Speaker 1: been together fourteen years, and I just think if he

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Speaker 1: hasn't done it by now, you already kind of know

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Speaker 1: what the answer is, right, but so be it. What

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Speaker 1: do you think?

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Speaker 2: Cime on, y'all?

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Speaker 3: What's the kamalaw about this? I mean, isn't it like,

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Speaker 3: if you've been together for over eight ten years then

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Speaker 3: it's like kam a law K one two is my country.

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Speaker 1: Good point? Is that still an effect? I don't know

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Speaker 1: common law. It used to be like seven years, wasn't it.

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Speaker 1: And if you're together seven years of living in the

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Speaker 1: same premises or sharing the same bills. I thought that

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Speaker 1: you were kind of automatically married, and I think that

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Speaker 1: is for the state of Minnesota. But maybe I'm wrong.

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Speaker 1: I think it used to be that way. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it still is.

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Speaker 3: Go for it.

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Speaker 4: Fourteen years living at mom and dads. Can we say lazy?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely absurd? No no, no, no, no, no no, they

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Speaker 4: don't even deserve to be married. Sorry, kids are no kids? Nope,

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Speaker 4: go away, run away, see you buy.

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Speaker 1: But you have children together, you don't want to break

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Speaker 1: all that up. I mean, I get what you're saying,

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Speaker 1: but you know, the kids kind of throw the whole

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Speaker 1: thing up. If there weren't kids and you're living in

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Speaker 1: your boyfriend's parents' house for fourteen years, I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: kind of a pretty strong sign that maybe things aren't

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Speaker 1: moving along right. But I mean the kids are involved.

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Speaker 1: That complicates things a little bit. What say you? Talk

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Speaker 1: back in the iHeartRadio at.

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Speaker 3: From Arne Chris, My question is, why do you need

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Speaker 3: a piece of paper to tell the other person that

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Speaker 3: you love them? Marriage is just a civil contract. Why

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Speaker 3: do you need a piece of paper to say that

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Speaker 3: they've been together for fourteen years, they're clearly in love

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Speaker 3: with each other. You don't need a ring or a

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Speaker 3: piece of paper to solidify or tell everybody that you're

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Speaker 3: in love with the other person.

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Speaker 1: I totally get that. I totally understand that. My personal viewpoint,

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Speaker 1: I personally I love marriage. I like marriage. I like marriage.

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Speaker 1: O God, it's kind of my thing. Not gonna get

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Speaker 1: off on my old preach wagon here, but that's that's

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Speaker 1: that's that's just me. But I understand to that. I

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Speaker 1: would say hell no, hell no. Really I was in

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Speaker 1: the same.

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Speaker 2: Situation, but not for as long.

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Speaker 4: If he wanted to, he would do not post heck no.

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Speaker 1: Okay, pretty emphatic. Yeah, but she did go from a

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Speaker 1: couple of hell knows to a heck no. So she's

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Speaker 1: kind of working her way towards for his size. Maybe

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Speaker 1: let's take one more.

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Speaker 3: My biggest question about the lady that's going to propose,

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Speaker 3: what is she going to do with because no, I

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Speaker 3: mean three four kids together?

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Speaker 2: You know, fourteen years.

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Speaker 1: All that stuff.

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Speaker 3: Good point, it doesn't seem much a good idea unless

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Speaker 3: she talks to him about her beforehand. But I'm assuming

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Speaker 3: she has and he still hasn't done it, so I

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Speaker 3: wouldn't do it well.

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Speaker 1: Some guys like to wait at all, little bit. They

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Speaker 1: don't really know for sure what's going on, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah, I mean it's not drinking his feet,

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Speaker 1: he's just thinking about things. He's processing.

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Speaker 2: They have four kids together, they're tied together for life,

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Speaker 2: with or without the marriage.

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Speaker 1: Some guys take fourteen seconds, other guys take fourteen years. Whatever. Hey,

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Speaker 1: thanks for listening to this episode of I'll Tell You What.

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