WEBVTT - Butt Dial Heartbreak  

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo in the morning. I got so excited last night, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting down getting ready to watch the Detroit

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<v Speaker 1>Pistons game, and I'm all of a sudden excited when

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<v Speaker 1>my phone rings and I see Shannon's name appear on

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<v Speaker 1>my phone. I mean, not that you'd get just excited

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<v Speaker 1>that you get a phone call at night when you

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<v Speaker 1>were out watching a game. I mean some people would

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<v Speaker 1>look at that as a disturbance, but I rarely get

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<v Speaker 1>a late night telephone call from one Shannon, and all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, I'm like racing to pick up my

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<v Speaker 1>phone and it went away, and I'm like, oh, what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if her phone service went out on her,

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<v Speaker 1>only to get that beloved text right afterwards that said

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<v Speaker 1>sorry butt dial. I was so sad at that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I got so like, oh God, like this thing came

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<v Speaker 1>over me. I don't know what it was. It was

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<v Speaker 1>this moment of being a middle school kid and having

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<v Speaker 1>that girl that you went to school with that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even recognize you anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Very sad moment in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, God, yeah, It's like slow mowing movies where you

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<v Speaker 3>see the girl wave at you and you think she's

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<v Speaker 3>waving and then you turn around and it's her.

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<v Speaker 2>Best friend behind me. Yes, that's what it was. Very sad.

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<v Speaker 1>So I looked at that text for quite a while

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<v Speaker 1>as I sat there, and I thought to myself, little

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<v Speaker 1>Tommy was coming back in a moment of not knowing

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<v Speaker 1>what I was going to do. I felt like for

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<v Speaker 1>a moment there I was wanted, and then butt dial

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<v Speaker 1>was came late.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>So I sat down and I wrote this as a

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<v Speaker 1>topic tonight because I wanted to ask this question. First off,

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<v Speaker 1>what were you doing? Why was your butt dial?

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<v Speaker 4>So I was in the car in the because basically

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<v Speaker 4>I'm an uber for my children at I I live

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<v Speaker 4>in my car and.

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<v Speaker 2>I, oh, I'm sorry, let me get the sad music.

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<v Speaker 4>I uh, you are on my favorites list on my

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<v Speaker 4>car play.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 4>But my sister Jacqueline is right above you, and I

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<v Speaker 4>went to call her and I accidentally hit your name

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<v Speaker 4>and I realized it very quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I like that Jacqueline is just above me. That

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<v Speaker 1>means I'm in the family realm of the favorites. That's

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<v Speaker 1>actually kind of nice.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, but I was really trying.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay. That's okay, But I will say this to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You have those moments too, like when you do, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>butt dial, that could be moments that are actually kind

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<v Speaker 1>of good, Like I could have picked up the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and could have heard that moment where Shannon was yelling

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<v Speaker 1>at her kids, like I could have had one of

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<v Speaker 1>those if it was a true butttal, which, by the way.

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<v Speaker 5>We're talking about you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, Which, by the way, are my favorite butt dials.

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<v Speaker 1>My favorite butt dial is usually from one of my buddies, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>when he will butt dial and you hear three and

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<v Speaker 1>a half minutes of full on conversations of him talking

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<v Speaker 1>to people. Has anybody ever had a butt where they

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<v Speaker 1>butt dialed somebody and they left a bunch of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>on their probably voicemail, or the person actually was listening

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<v Speaker 1>and you said something about them.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd love to hear those stories. I usually just hear,

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<v Speaker 2>but you.

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<v Speaker 6>Just hear it sounds like you're obviously in a pocket

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<v Speaker 6>or something like, you don't actually hear words, and it's

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<v Speaker 6>four minutes is just my dad's but.

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<v Speaker 1>Chandon brought up a really good point before the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, I was going to bring this up

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<v Speaker 1>as the topic at this moment, she goes, why do

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<v Speaker 1>we even still call it a butt dial?

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody keeps them in? Very true?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean for guys, it's probably their front pockets,

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<v Speaker 1>and for women it's in their purse probably.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, not even that, but everybody has or should have

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<v Speaker 5>a pass code.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's really hard to but accidentally butt dial somebody

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<v Speaker 4>because you have to be in your phone already.

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<v Speaker 2>It isn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't, though, I for some reason, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there's some updates I've done to my phone that make

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<v Speaker 1>me like, my flashlight still goes off all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>What I feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm literally, you know, an eighteen year old man with

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<v Speaker 1>my flashlight on all the time with some of the

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<v Speaker 1>new updates that are there.

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<v Speaker 6>So the worst sometimes is when you have a family

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<v Speaker 6>member that you know want to talk your head off,

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<v Speaker 6>and you make a mistake and call him and you

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<v Speaker 6>do your best to try to end the call immediately,

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<v Speaker 6>but for some reason they get that one call and

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<v Speaker 6>then they call you back.

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<v Speaker 2>You like, yeah, I'm sorry, Oh, well, how are.

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<v Speaker 6>Things going, Like, bron didn't mean to call you in

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<v Speaker 6>the first place.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's wrap this up.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four six

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<v Speaker 2>What's the most.

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<v Speaker 1>Awkward butt dial you ever received or you ever sent?

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<v Speaker 1>And is it more awkward if you're talking to another

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<v Speaker 1>person in communicating or is it more awkward if you're

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<v Speaker 1>in your car like singing they're getting you like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know whatever, listen you're listening to on the radio or

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<v Speaker 1>on your streaming services, singing along to it. Good morning

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<v Speaker 1>is the Mojo in the Morning Show. Nice to have

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<v Speaker 1>you here with me and Channon and Anna and keV Lydia, Bianca,

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<v Speaker 1>Zach and of course everybody working hard behind the scenes

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<v Speaker 1>here on our show today. Uh, you know, it's funny

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<v Speaker 1>though about your you calling. At that moment, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>to myself, Oh god, Shannon's sick, Like I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was something she just she just traveled. And then it's

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<v Speaker 1>always one of those things. I'm like, wow, her voice

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<v Speaker 1>sounded good this morning. Actually, your voice sounds great.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds better, I know.

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<v Speaker 5>I thank god.

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<v Speaker 4>Seven weeks of that weird voice thing, yes, which they

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<v Speaker 4>figured they finally figured out what it was.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Amy, how you doing, Hi, good morning, How

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<v Speaker 1>are you fantastic?

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<v Speaker 2>Amy? Who is the butt dialer? So?

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<v Speaker 7>I have a co worker that was trying to get

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<v Speaker 7>a hold of a different co worker and he didn't

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<v Speaker 7>answer the phone, and my coworker thought the phone hung up,

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<v Speaker 7>and he accidentally left a voicemail talking nothing but crap

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<v Speaker 7>about the other guy, and the other guy got the voicemail.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, what was it like in the office the

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<v Speaker 1>next day?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Luckily it's too separate like locations, so that was fine.

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<v Speaker 7>It was no tension, but you know, he probably felt

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<v Speaker 7>like a double ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I always love the talking crap thing because I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>if there's any legitimacy to the crap that they're.

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<v Speaker 7>Talking, Like, Oh yeah, that guy's definitely got a reputation.

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<v Speaker 7>He's kind of a.

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<v Speaker 1>Douche, right exactly. If everybody knows the whole story, they're

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<v Speaker 1>siding with him. What's going on? Anna, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>It's is it Anna? Or Anna?

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<v Speaker 2>Anna? Anna? What's up?

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<v Speaker 9>Anna?

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<v Speaker 8>I was just calling to say with butt dialing in general,

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<v Speaker 8>I feel like the older generation does it more often

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<v Speaker 8>because you never lock your phone before putting it in

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<v Speaker 8>your pocket.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, my mom does it like four times a day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is true.

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<v Speaker 1>You just kind of automatically assume that it's gonna lock

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<v Speaker 1>itself at that moment, you know, right, Yeah, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It is interesting and usually it is the older people,

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<v Speaker 1>way older than even Shannon, because she's not that old.

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<v Speaker 5>You get a phone call for me today for saving.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is funny that they just sit there and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they're Willy Nelly with her, although I just said,

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<v Speaker 1>Willy Nelly, what's going on, Danielle?

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi?

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<v Speaker 10>Good morning everyone. And so I was really angry with

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<v Speaker 10>my brother. We we are like twins. We're not twins,

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<v Speaker 10>but we are.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot alike.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, And anyways, I was so mad at him that

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<v Speaker 10>I accidentally buttled him and I called him ugly, stupid

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<v Speaker 10>and narcissisust did be.

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<v Speaker 2>I was ticked at him. He heard all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, how did you butt dile?

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<v Speaker 2>Explain?

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<v Speaker 1>Explain that we were you talking to him prior to that?

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<v Speaker 1>And then he No, he has the same.

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<v Speaker 10>Name as my dad, and I was so mad at

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<v Speaker 10>him i changed it to his first name.

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<v Speaker 2>My brother goes by.

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<v Speaker 1>His middle name.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, so I changed his name back to Bell, like

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<v Speaker 10>my dad accidentally called my.

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<v Speaker 2>Brother yeah, my dad. Yeah, yeah, it wasn't great.

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<v Speaker 10>Uh that fight lasted an extra two week just because

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<v Speaker 10>said I said, should not have said it.

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<v Speaker 1>But and again, all all those words you just said

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<v Speaker 1>were about your brother.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was angry.

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<v Speaker 10>I was ticked at him.

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<v Speaker 2>He did some terrible things to me. Oh, man of

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<v Speaker 2>each other, and he was in a different time in

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<v Speaker 2>his life.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, does he still have that? Does he you think

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<v Speaker 1>he kept that?

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, he saved it.

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<v Speaker 2>He brings it up at Christmas.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>There are times I look back at some of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that are still on my phone and there are

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<v Speaker 1>butt dials there, the conversations that you can hear.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Chris, good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, two years ago I got.

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<v Speaker 1>Married and the day of my wedding, I put myself

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<v Speaker 1>one in my pocket.

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up calling the police by mistake the day

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<v Speaker 2>the day I was getting married.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to I had to explain what was

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<v Speaker 1>going on because we're going to send.

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<v Speaker 2>Out an officer for a welfare check. And I said no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>no need And they're like, well.

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<v Speaker 3>Do we need someone out and uh take you away

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<v Speaker 3>to get you away.

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<v Speaker 2>From the wedding, save me.

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<v Speaker 7>They're all good, but they were laughing about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's funny. That is that?

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<v Speaker 1>That is one of those signs on your wedding day, Angelica.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? Angelica?

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<v Speaker 9>Good morning, Morning show, Good morning, what's up? So this

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<v Speaker 9>guy I was talking to was that some after hour

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<v Speaker 9>clefting and he butted out with me while he would

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<v Speaker 9>get another girl's number.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, so you busted his ass?

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<v Speaker 2>Huh?

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<v Speaker 9>I sure did. All a heart would put my numbering up.

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<v Speaker 9>So every time I talked to him about put my

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<v Speaker 9>numbering up.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking to him, he must he must be good that

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<v Speaker 1>you're still talking to him.

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<v Speaker 9>You was wariod.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the real bird.

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<v Speaker 2>If you know what I hold on, you call that

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<v Speaker 2>a booty call, right exactly. If you know what, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you. Angelica. I love you.