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Speaker 1: When you've been in a crash and your mind's racing,

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Speaker 1: when you've been hurt at work and don't know what

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Speaker 1: to do. You know who to call? Farah and Sarah.

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Speaker 2: Tampa ninety three three f l Z. You we all

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Speaker 2: enjoy the show today? Or we having fun?

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Speaker 3: Yes, having a time of our life.

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Speaker 2: What happened to Katie? Well, no, let her get her headphones.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to wear someone else's headphones. I doubt

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Speaker 2: that she does. We should have the yackety sax song

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Speaker 2: I'm ready to go at all time? You don't know

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Speaker 2: the yackety sax song yakity yet, don't talk back? You

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Speaker 2: really don't know the yakety sex?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know it?

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Speaker 3: Who started it?

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Speaker 1: Let me listen?

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Speaker 3: Are they gonna sing?

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Speaker 1: Oh where the Jackey.

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Speaker 3: Park Home from?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what they call it? Say whenever you

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Speaker 1: see someone run and try to chase it or something.

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Speaker 4: Actually, it's very popular in like Scooby Doo episodes each other.

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Speaker 1: You know the yackety sax song? Right? That song you

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Speaker 1: were just playing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I said when when you ran? We should have

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Speaker 2: the yackety sacks ready to play, Jed, stand up and

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Speaker 2: start running in the studio as I play this, watch here,

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Speaker 2: first stand up and start running.

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Speaker 1: That's not how you run. I mean like run back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: not that good, not that good? All right, now go

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Speaker 1: sit down? Okay, alright, ready, now get up and run. Okay.

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Speaker 3: It adds a little bit more to it.

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 2: Music.

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Speaker 3: It definitely makes all right.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's get into this. Do compliments make you feel uncomfortable?

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Speaker 2: If it does, it could tell a little bit about

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Speaker 2: your personality eight four o nine ninety three ninety three.

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Speaker 2: You could text it at ninety seven seven two zero.

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Speaker 2: Why do compliments make us feel uncomfortable? The first question

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Speaker 2: is do compliments make you feel uncomfortable?

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Speaker 1: Depending on what it is depends on who it's coming from.

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Speaker 3: Joe, I would agree with that, Jed.

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Speaker 1: If it's a stranger, I can handle it flawlessly. If

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Speaker 1: it's someone I know, I'm like, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: to say. It's that weird. Katie. Did you get a

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Speaker 1: lot of compliments after last week? I did? How did

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Speaker 1: that make you feel really good? It does? Yeah? So

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't do well. I want to be liked. I'm

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Speaker 2: not gonna be. I don't want to be liked. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to have friends. No, I want to be liked.

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Speaker 2: I want everyone to like me. I can't do the

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Speaker 2: whole compliment stuff like. I can't at all. I can

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Speaker 2: go through mine and Tommy's text thread. Tommy's our boss.

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Speaker 2: Anytime he says anything, I immediately have to change the subject,

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Speaker 2: or I have to ass on whatever he's complimenting.

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Speaker 1: Or you compliment them you like flip it.

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Speaker 2: Ah, sometimes not all the time. In eight hundred four

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Speaker 2: O nine ninety three ninety three, that's what I want

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Speaker 2: to know right now, is I want to know you know?

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Speaker 2: Do you feel uncomfortable with compliment? Let's see.

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Prime example, Hey, I was thinking about the show today.

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Speaker 2: Just listen through everything. You guys sound so great, you

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Speaker 2: sound so happy. I'm absolutely loving this, to which I responded,

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Speaker 2: while I appreciate it, I really don't. Please give me

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Speaker 2: three things that you did not like about today's show

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Speaker 2: so I can.

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Speaker 1: Get ready with that a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't receive compliments.

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Speaker 2: Well, the compliments are supposed to feel good. This is

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Speaker 2: what psychology today says. According to psychologists, praise can make

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Speaker 2: you feel awkward. And uncomfortable though. Okay, when you don't

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Speaker 2: feel you deserve the praise, a compliment feels wrong. It

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Speaker 2: feels as almost if you're being pressured to continue doing

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Speaker 2: what these people perceive as being good.

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Speaker 1: Thoughts on that.

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Speaker 3: I think that makes sense one, But I also think

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Speaker 3: it's more of the person. Whereas you know that you're

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Speaker 3: doing well, you just I don't know why you can't resisve.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you do, No, I don't. But you're also a perfectionist,

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Speaker 3: so I feel like you could think there's part of

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Speaker 3: that in that window where there's still more you can

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Speaker 3: be good at. So you'll never you will never be

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Speaker 3: able to receive a compliment.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm working on accepting a good show now that

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Speaker 2: Katie's on the show. Okay, because before you, when it

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Speaker 2: was just the other two in the room we'd finished show,

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Speaker 2: I'd go this sucked.

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Speaker 1: That sucked, This was bad. That was bad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't want you to feel bad, So

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that anymore out loud.

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Speaker 1: Are you sheltering me? Yes?

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Speaker 3: You just have like a little list next days.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my journals are dear journal. This you like compliments though,

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Speaker 2: I bet it's something like a guy who likes it, Like.

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Speaker 4: I said that it depends, but no, I'm like, go ahead, No.

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Speaker 3: Just last week you were talking about being compliment but

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Speaker 3: you're like, I think it was a backhand compliment because

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Speaker 3: someone said I had an old soul.

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Speaker 1: We're like, no, that's a great compliment, not a compliment.

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Speaker 4: You're making me seem like I'm like an old fart

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Speaker 4: and that's no. I like old fart things for sure.

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Speaker 3: But it means that you're wise, you're mature, you're smart.

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Speaker 1: Smart I'll take, but I don't want to be seasoned.

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Speaker 1: You don't know. It just sounds like you're gonna put

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Speaker 1: that deep fror.

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Speaker 3: He likes compliments, so he likes when I go, oh, Jed,

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Speaker 3: I left your arms, He's like, yeah, I got a

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Speaker 3: nice armsh.

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Speaker 4: This sounds a little creepy, Katie. But before in the past,

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Speaker 4: Katie has our Katie uh Ashley has mentioned how great

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Speaker 4: my nipples.

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Speaker 3: He has great nipples. He has great as Look at

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Speaker 3: Ariola's nice? Are they perfect?

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Speaker 4: They're nice?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Your why didn't you just flick his nipple? What

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Speaker 1: was that you got to show it up? They why

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Speaker 1: you do that? Why didn't you let me do that

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Speaker 1: with your tongue. I said that wrong. When you've been

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Speaker 1: in a crash and your mind's racing.

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Speaker 2: When you fall in in a store and are blaming yourself,

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Speaker 2: when you've been hurt at work.

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Speaker 1: And don't know what to do, you know who to call.

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Speaker 1: Farah and Sarah Tampa