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Speaker 1: Hey, but put your phone in the middle before you

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Speaker 1: before we even sit down and eat, put your phone

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Speaker 1: in the middle of the table, would you eight and

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Speaker 1: four ninety three ninety three? What would you do if

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Speaker 1: that happened to you on a very first date? This

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Speaker 1: is left on right on ninety three three fl Z

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Speaker 1: where you and by the way, if you have submitted,

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Speaker 1: especially recently, I promise you we're going to get back

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Speaker 1: to you as soon as possible. We are getting to

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Speaker 1: the point now where we're getting a lot of submissions

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Speaker 1: for everything that we do, and you can submit at

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Speaker 1: ninety three three flz dot com or shoot us a

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Speaker 1: dm at at Live with Joe Show. I promise you

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Speaker 1: we will get back to you as soon as possible. Now,

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Speaker 1: we received a submission from a man by the name

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Speaker 1: of Nathan who was wondering about Tessa, who we've got

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Speaker 1: Tessa on right now.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Tessa, Hi, Hi.

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Speaker 1: So I called Tessa a couple of days ago and

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Speaker 1: and you know, asked her would you want to come on?

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Speaker 1: And we had a guy by the name of Nathan

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Speaker 1: get in contact. You know, do you know, Nathan? Do

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Speaker 1: you remember all this? Why exactly did your ghost And

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Speaker 1: also please don't get in contact with him before we

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Speaker 1: go on the air. And from the sounds of it,

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Speaker 1: you did all that, and thank you, Tessa. Tessa, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna pick up Nathan and kind of like what I

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Speaker 1: said to you, just be.

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Speaker 2: Honest with him.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay, it's.

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Speaker 2: Kind of what I've been alluding to.

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Speaker 1: Something happened at the dinner table and hey, Nathan, Hi,

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Speaker 1: all right, so Tessa is already on Tessa, just let's

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Speaker 1: not I know it's kind of an awkward thing to do,

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Speaker 1: but let's not waste any time. Get right into it.

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Speaker 1: Why did it bother you about the whole phone situation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I've never experienced anything like that before.

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Speaker 3: I'm wondering who, who, who does that? I mean, like,

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Speaker 3: we did not speak before this, and so this is

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Speaker 3: my first impression. This is the first time I'm getting

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Speaker 3: to know you. And immediately it's we've got rules. Put

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Speaker 3: your phone down on the table, like I can't have

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Speaker 3: it in my bag, It can't go in my pocket,

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Speaker 3: it can't.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: It was like, immediately, you've got rules for me and

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Speaker 3: how I'm supposed to behave, and it was just it

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Speaker 3: was the biggest dick.

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Speaker 4: It's gross.

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Speaker 5: I mean, okay, it just confuses me. How you say

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Speaker 5: that you got the ink. I mean you say it yourself.

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Speaker 5: We're getting to know each other, and me putting my

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Speaker 5: phone in the middle of the table shows that I'm

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Speaker 5: giving you my undivided attention, Like I wanted to get

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Speaker 5: to know you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you can. You could do that, but like,

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Speaker 3: you don't get to dictate what I'm gonna do. Like

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Speaker 3: maybe I would have followed suit if you're like, hey,

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Speaker 3: this is something I do or show respect or whatever,

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Speaker 3: but you were just like, this is what I expect

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Speaker 1: I would say, why can't you keep that phone in

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Speaker 1: your pocket, Nathan and just.

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Speaker 2: Like not touch your phone. But I'm gonna be honest

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Speaker 2: with you.

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Speaker 1: I give my phone to my fiance every time we

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Speaker 1: I put it right in your purse because I have

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Speaker 1: a complete inability to not have it ring and me

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Speaker 1: not immediately look down at it or me think about

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Speaker 1: That'd be a funny topic to say on the show.

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Speaker 1: I got to write this down. I have a massive

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Speaker 1: phone issue now. To ask someone though, to like partaking

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Speaker 1: that on a first date, it might take a little

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Speaker 6: What do you think, eyk, I think it's odd because

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Speaker 6: I would I'm one, I don't really know you, so

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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna just put my phone in the middle

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: You just have to trust and know that I'm not

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Speaker 6: gonna be on my phone texting or you know, scrolling

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Speaker 6: social media while I'm trying to get to know you.

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Speaker 1: That's ridiculous, Daddy. You're on with Tessa and Nathan. Nathan

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Speaker 1: and then the very first date, before they even sat down,

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Speaker 1: said hey, phone in the middle.

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Speaker 2: Put that phone in the middle.

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Speaker 4: What do you think for me?

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Speaker 7: I guess I got in the car a little late.

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Speaker 7: I it would depend on how he said it.

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Speaker 4: If you're going to be.

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Speaker 7: Pushy and bossy about it, no, But if you were

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Speaker 7: saying it nicely and you said you just want to

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Speaker 7: get to know each other.

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Speaker 3: I think I.

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Speaker 7: Also kind of am very addicted to my phone. And

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Speaker 7: if he was like, hey, let's get to know each other,

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Speaker 7: let's put our phones in the middle, I would be

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Speaker 7: okay with it. But if he was like, this is

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Speaker 7: do No, you can't do it like that exactly.

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Speaker 2: I see, I don't.

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Speaker 8: I don't see an issue with it really because he's

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Speaker 8: I mean, he's being himself. If he's like, hey, put

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Speaker 8: your phone in the middle, then clearly it's like, you know,

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Speaker 8: right there and then there they're like, you know, you

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Speaker 8: don't want to be with.

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Speaker 7: Them, right right, it's right if he says it like that,

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Speaker 7: and that's then he's showing himself. If he's saying put

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Speaker 7: it in the middle, and this is what my rule is.

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Speaker 3: No, mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Debby Celeste. Yes, Hi, you're on with Tessa

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Speaker 2: and Nathan. What do you think?

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Speaker 9: Honestly, I agree with you, Joe. I don't know why.

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Speaker 9: I feel like you makes you kind of a big

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Speaker 9: deal out of it the middle of the table. I

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Speaker 9: feel like, if I understand, he wanted to kind of

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Speaker 9: show her, oh, I'm giving you my undivided attention. But

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Speaker 9: you can do that by just literally showing her that

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Speaker 9: you're not on your phone. You know, it could be

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Speaker 9: in her purse, it could be in his pocket. It's

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Speaker 9: just a matter of the gesture itself. I mean, I

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Speaker 9: understand what he's trying to say like, oh, I want

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Speaker 9: us to pay attention to each other. We're getting to

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Speaker 9: know each other, but it's kind of a little forceful

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Speaker 9: to say, oh, I need your phone in the middle

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Speaker 9: of the table exactly. I would have walked out, you

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Speaker 9: would have last I would have laughed. I would have

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Speaker 9: been like, I don't know who you think you are.

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Speaker 2: But that's a lot you think about.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like I told myself, like I should have. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: I should have. I told myself next time anything like

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Speaker 3: that happens. Hou there's never next time, but I would

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Speaker 3: I would walk out next time.

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Speaker 2: And why is that?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Well no, yeah, go ahead, And Nathan, I just want

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Speaker 4: to say, it's not supposed to be like that serious.

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Speaker 4: We're on our phones all the time. Hey, we're on

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Speaker 4: a first state, Like let's just put our phones in

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Speaker 4: the middle of the table and hear each other out.

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Speaker 4: Like I don't see what's so crazy about that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're dolinating like expectations. You're like this is

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Speaker 3: what I expect, you know what I mean? Like you're

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Speaker 3: you're putting it out there like these are my rules.

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Speaker 3: It's like I don't have to obey your rules, Like

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Speaker 3: who am I who do you think I am? Like,

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Speaker 3: that's not I don't come in and immediately like subject

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Speaker 3: myself to your rules, like okay, I mean like.

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Speaker 5: All right, I don't I don't get it. I don't

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Speaker 5: get it.

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Speaker 1: Well at the end of the day, maybe that's why

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Speaker 1: Tessa never even responded to her phone has been in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the table since, and that's what happened.

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Speaker 1: But I like that, all right, Tessa and Nathan, I'm

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Speaker 1: assuming no chance for another day. No, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: figured thank you Nathan, and thank you Tessa, and sorry

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Speaker 1: Nathan that things didn't work out. But maybe maybe you

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Speaker 1: learn from now on. Just phone in the pocket on

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Speaker 1: the first Yeah, right, ninety three three fl We got

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Speaker 1: to pick up the energy. By the way, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: pick it up next