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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. We always joke about

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Speaker 1: Ashley saying she's never been ghosted in her life, she

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Speaker 1: was never blown off. Is that that's true? Yeah, I'll

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Speaker 1: get you go, miss perfect. We're live a ninety three

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Speaker 1: three FLZ. It's the Joe Show. Time for left on right.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever been ghosted? Katie? No, and I've never

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Speaker 1: been dumped?

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Speaker 2: Fun fact.

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Speaker 1: Well wow soon Hillary, You and I have it in

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Speaker 1: common then, But Hillary, Hi, good morning, Good morning Hillary.

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be nice to be as perfect as Ashley

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Speaker 1: and Katie? I guess, but we can only dream. So Hillary,

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Speaker 1: I did talk to Carson last night, so let's uh,

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Speaker 1: let's bring on Carson, who you know, we can save

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Speaker 1: the awkward hellos and everything. But Carson, and you know,

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Speaker 1: when we did talk last night, You're like, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: know I might have screwed up by not saying anything

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Speaker 1: to her, but from the sounds of it, and you guys,

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Speaker 1: stop me if I'm wrong on this, but you guys

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Speaker 1: were pretty much like dating for about a month.

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Speaker 2: Carson exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Carson, go ahead, let's talk to Hillary. And why

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Speaker 1: did you decide to call it quits.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's pretty simple. It's just that she,

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Speaker 2: you know, she lives beyond her means, and I can't

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Speaker 2: be with somebody who I don't think is fiscally responsible.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel that way?

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Speaker 3: Hillary, I'm just I'm baffled because you live just as

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Speaker 3: fast and loose as I do.

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Speaker 2: It's not like.

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Speaker 3: It's not like me. I live in an apartment, dude, Like,

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Speaker 3: what do you like?

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Speaker 4: So I have a nice car?

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Speaker 3: Heaven forbid?

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Speaker 4: I give myself nice things, and I am nice to myself.

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Speaker 4: Like come on, you're seriously gonna judge me based on that?

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, look here, that's rich. Yeah, yeah, you give

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Speaker 2: yourself nice things and that's okay, but if you can

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Speaker 2: afford them. Okay. So here's the thing. I'm a dentist.

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Speaker 2: She's a dental hygienist, so I know how much he makes. Okay,

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I can afford to give myself nice things. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I live within my life.

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Speaker 3: What the hell would you say that?

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Speaker 4: If you love me? You love me like, you don't

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Speaker 4: know all of my circumstances. So maybe my parents help.

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Speaker 4: But I am an only child, and of course, okay,

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Speaker 4: I am going to accept my parents' love through a

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Speaker 4: car occasionally. But Perston like, how dare you judge me

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Speaker 4: like that? We have not dated long enough for you

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Speaker 4: to even like.

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Speaker 3: Get to know my true character?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that is I think I just learned

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Speaker 2: your true character when we've only been dating for about

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Speaker 2: a month. I don't love you, I like you, but

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Speaker 2: for you to say if you love me, you love me,

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Speaker 2: we're not there yet?

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Speaker 1: All right? Well, here real quick, and this is where

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Speaker 1: always Radio gets a little lot weward because I got

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Speaker 1: to handle the business. Eight hundred four O nine ninety

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Speaker 1: three ninety three. I'd love for you guys to call in.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk with Hillary. Let's talk with Carson. Carson not

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Speaker 1: giving Hillary a call back. He says, you're not living

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Speaker 1: within your means. You're spending a little bit too much. Hillary. Uh,

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Speaker 1: he says, not the case. I'm perfectly fine. Eight hundred

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Speaker 1: four own nine ninety three ninety three. Would that be

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Speaker 1: a turnoff? Do you look at the people's finances and

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Speaker 1: how they live and make a judgment about that? I mean, Ashley, Katie, ladies,

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Speaker 1: where are you at?

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Speaker 5: So as long as your bills are taking care of me.

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Speaker 5: You're not asking me for any type of funds to

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Speaker 5: help you pay a bill. That I'm fine because I

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Speaker 5: only have an issue if you're going out and buying

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Speaker 5: all this lavish stuff and you're home isn't taken care of,

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Speaker 5: Like why your lights ain't known?

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Speaker 2: Why Carnos late?

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Speaker 5: Like that's when I had the issue. But no, I'm

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Speaker 5: not gonna be pocket watching. That's that's not my problem.

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Speaker 5: Like you do what you wanted to do with your money.

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Speaker 5: You work hard for it.

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Speaker 1: You've been in a relationships so for people and ask

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Speaker 1: you for that's.

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Speaker 5: Been the red flag. That's why I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I gotta go.

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Speaker 4: Do you see what it be?

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Speaker 5: Bat now? Hill?

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Speaker 1: Are you ever asked for money from a guy besides day?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely not, absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: I never have to ask my father. My father loves

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Speaker 4: me and adores me as he should, and you know,

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Speaker 4: heaven forbid, I do not. I do not have crazy

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Speaker 4: bills like I I took care of myself and maybe

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Speaker 4: maybe it's not like you looked at my freaking crowdit

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Speaker 4: card bill at this point, dude, like, don't judge before

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Speaker 4: you know the full story. That's insane.

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Speaker 1: Carson. Is there any chance that maybe you are. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: is there any chance that maybe potentially you want a

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Speaker 1: woman who who needs to depend financially more on you

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Speaker 1: rather than able to buy Yeah, clock that, whatever that means,

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Speaker 1: clock it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna nif that in the bud. No, I want

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Speaker 2: a woman who is able to take care of herself

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Speaker 2: and doesn't need me to do it. I want to

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Speaker 2: have a partner. I don't want to have a leech ray.

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Speaker 1: What do you think.

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Speaker 2: I get where he's coming from if I'm looking at

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Speaker 2: it the same way he is. It's not the fact

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Speaker 2: that she doesn't have money now or she's not taking

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Speaker 2: care of herself now. It's the fact that, you know,

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Speaker 2: this help that she's getting isn't gonna last forever. And

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Speaker 2: if she is relying on this to a certain extent,

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Speaker 2: what's going to happen when that help goes away? You

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Speaker 2: know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: No one says she's relying on the help. Though no

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Speaker 5: one says she's relying on the help, She's not saying

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Speaker 5: that she's struggling any sort. So to assume that she

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Speaker 5: is just because she's out buying lavish things for herself,

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Speaker 5: Like I said, maybe you just upset because you can't

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Speaker 5: buy those things for her.

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Speaker 2: No, No, that's ridiculous. I'm saying I know how much

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Speaker 2: a dental hygienis makes and the thing she has has

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Speaker 2: do not add up to that.

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Speaker 5: I know people.

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Speaker 2: For those things.

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Speaker 5: You upset that she's good at managing her money, clearly

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Speaker 5: because she can clearly pay her bills and.

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Speaker 2: Money. Yes, that she's.

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Speaker 5: Knows how to manage her money. You can't be upset

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Speaker 5: about that.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 5: To handle your doesn't It doesn't matter how much you're making.

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Speaker 5: As long as you're able to manage what you have.

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Speaker 5: I guarantee you can buy whatever the.

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Speaker 2: Whatever you want, what you want. Let me calm down.

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Speaker 2: And that mentality, that mentality is why so many people

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Speaker 2: are in debt.

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Speaker 5: No, that's gonna listen, matter how much money.

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Speaker 2: You make, Yes, it does. If the money coming in,

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Speaker 2: you can money you can't get left all right?

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Speaker 5: Every week, Jesus Christ, we will have them on a

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Speaker 5: line every week.

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