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Speaker 1: We're getting ready for Second Date Updates. Chris, Good morning,

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Speaker 1: what's going on with you?

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Speaker 2: I went on a date with this girl and I

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Speaker 2: thought we hit it off really well, and now she

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Speaker 2: ghost to me.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea what happened.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll find out. We'll get her on the phone,

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Speaker 1: find out why she's blowing you off. Second Date Updates

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Speaker 1: starts next with John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 2: Somebody said they saw.

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Speaker 4: That.

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Speaker 2: I can say, you gotta do you don't go back

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Speaker 2: to me.

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Speaker 4: The next segment we're going to do is called Second

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Speaker 4: Date Update, because that's what we're going to try and

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Speaker 4: get and that's what the bit is called.

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Speaker 1: Second Date Updates starts right now on John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, it's time for Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: You meet somebody you've got on a date, you expect

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Speaker 1: there to be a second date. There isn't one. You

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Speaker 1: come to us. That's what Chris is doing. Good morning, Chris,

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Speaker 1: what's your Sorry?

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Speaker 5: I'm really certain what.

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Speaker 1: I don't know? So I met this girl on Facebook dating.

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Speaker 5: Of all places. I really don't know what's going on. Honestly,

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Speaker 5: her name's Amani. She's awesome, funny, we went out. She's

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Speaker 5: a big foodie. I know, we were talking all these

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Speaker 5: restaurants and stuff, and then you know, I have had

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Speaker 5: a date went well and we were you know, texting

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Speaker 5: that forwards and just got less and less frequent as

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Speaker 5: time went on, and now she just stopped talking to me.

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Speaker 2: She did the drift like you text right away and

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Speaker 2: then she starts texting less and less to sort of

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Speaker 2: fade out. And so it's not like a total ghost.

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Speaker 6: Is there anything you can think of that would make

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Speaker 6: her do that other than she just wasn't feeling it.

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Speaker 5: No, we we ended the date. She hugged me and

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Speaker 5: kissed from the cheek like I thought it went well,

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Speaker 5: Like I'm not getting a kiss on the cheek or

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Speaker 5: she you know, like I don't want to talk this

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Speaker 6: Yeah, pretty impersonal, right, I'm would kiss my friend, you know.

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Speaker 5: You good bye?

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Speaker 1: Okay. So since then you've texted her and no response.

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Speaker 1: Is that where it's left.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's pretty much where we're left off.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what we will do is we will call

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Speaker 1: it imani and we're gonna find out why she's blowing

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Speaker 1: you up. How long ago was the most recent connection

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Speaker 1: with her or contact with her.

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Speaker 5: It's like a week or two, okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: Looks back to see exactly what it was.

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Speaker 1: But a week or two okay, all right, So hang time,

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Speaker 1: we'll get her on the phone. We're gonna find out

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Speaker 1: why she's blowing you off.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: Second date Update. It continues next with John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, we're in the middle of second

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Speaker 1: date update. You got Chris Animani.

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Speaker 2: Well, Chris Cinemani had a great first date. They met,

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Speaker 2: they chatted, the conversation seemed like it was going swell.

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Speaker 2: The date ended with a kiss on the cheek that

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Speaker 2: might have been the kiss of death. As Imani has

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Speaker 2: faded into the ether like a phantom. Chris wants to

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Speaker 2: know what quent from.

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Speaker 1: So is she maybe what did he say? Not feeling it?

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Speaker 1: Is that what he says?

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Speaker 2: That's what I said?

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Speaker 5: I said?

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Speaker 6: Is there something else that I mean? Because it seems

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Speaker 6: to me like she just wasn't feeling it. So she

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Speaker 5: Right, Chris.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna get on the phone. Okay, So you

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Speaker 1: stay quiet, Okay, all right, so just relax. This could

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Speaker 1: go horribly wrong.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, is.

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Speaker 4: This a moni?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 4: My name is Peyton I'm with a John, Jay and

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Speaker 4: Rich and we just wanted to talk to you on

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Speaker 4: the radio really really quickly if you have time this morning.

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Speaker 5: Okay, sure, this won't take long.

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Speaker 1: But we do a radio show and a lot of

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Speaker 1: our radio shows about relationships right communication, And we were

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Speaker 1: talking to a guy that said he went on a

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Speaker 1: date with a girl. He said he was a great date,

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Speaker 1: he thought there was something there and now there's nothing

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Speaker 1: calling you because you are that other person. So we

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Speaker 1: kind of wanted your opinion on the date and maybe

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Speaker 1: why did things fizzle out? Did you not like him?

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Speaker 1: Did you like him too much? Does that ring a

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Speaker 1: bell at all? Imani?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: You do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Who I'm gonna say, I'm gonna count one, two three.

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Speaker 1: Let's say his name is Sam. One, okay, two three, Chris,

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Speaker 1: It's Chris, Yes, go ahead, Okay.

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean, I'll be honest, I haven't really been

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Speaker 7: getting back to him because I just I don't think

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Speaker 7: knew it pretty quickly after the date, so I don't know,

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Speaker 7: I just didn't want to like, Okay. When we first matched,

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Speaker 7: like I looked at this profile and I saw, like,

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Speaker 7: all these pictures have been traveling, and I thought that

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Speaker 7: was amazing because I love going on vacation, Like I'm

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Speaker 7: always down for a trip somewhere you, somewhere warm with

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Speaker 7: good food and drinks and just relaxing. But when we

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Speaker 7: actually went on the date and started talking about it more,

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Speaker 7: I realized we mean two totally different things when we

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Speaker 7: say travel, Like, this man is not a vacationer. He

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Speaker 7: is a traveler. I'm talking Antarctica trip hiking through jungles,

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Speaker 7: backpacking through mountains, waking up at five am to go explore.

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Speaker 3: Like some remote villa.

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Speaker 2: Sounds cool, oh sure, But like.

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Speaker 3: For me when I think, like I want to go

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Speaker 7: Drink something fruity, get a massage, eat good food, and

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Speaker 7: he's talking about like we'll rent a car and drive

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Speaker 7: around the island and hike volcanoes.

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Speaker 3: Twelve hours, and I'm just thinking like absolutely not. Like

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Speaker 3: I respect it.

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Speaker 7: It's cool that he's sort of adventurous and everything, but

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Speaker 7: it just sounds exhausting to me, and.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I just realized pretty quickly our versions

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Speaker 7: Just not the same, and so I don't learn how

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Speaker 7: to say that without sounding like a jerk. And now

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Speaker 7: the texting's just kind of fizzled out.

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Speaker 3: So you know, here we are.

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Speaker 6: It's actually really smart that you think of that. My

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Speaker 6: she wants to sit on the beach, have some cocktails

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Speaker 6: and relax. Like a vacation to her is her doing nothing,

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Speaker 6: and her husband is the hike. He wakes up at

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Speaker 6: go the entire time. And she's like, this is a

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Speaker 6: relaxing vacation. I do not feel reset whatsoever afterwards. And

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Speaker 6: it is a point of contention. So I kind of

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Speaker 6: feel like it's smarter of you to realize that before

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Speaker 6: you get into it.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: I'm with you.

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Speaker 2: Chris just laughing.

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Speaker 3: Wait what is that noise?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, that's just that's hilarious.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, who's laughing?

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Speaker 5: Oh me? Chris?

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Speaker 7: Wait, oh god, yeah, that's okay, got off the laugh,

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Speaker 7: got it?

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Speaker 3: I remember, I forgot about that laugh Okay?

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Speaker 5: Oh, I mean I mean good enough.

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Speaker 7: That's my defining trait.

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Speaker 3: I knew it's sounding familiar, but I'm like, who in

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Speaker 3: the world is like cackling like that in the background.

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Speaker 5: Okay, first off, it's not tackling in the seconds. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I put this together because I could tell you were

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Speaker 5: kind of pull it away and I had no idea why.

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Speaker 6: Uh so you.

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Speaker 7: Actually called the radio station because you liked me that much?

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I thought that they went great, and then

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Speaker 5: the textas started getting weird and I was like, well, okay,

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Speaker 5: what did I do?

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Speaker 3: Well, that's actually kind of cute. I'm not gonna lie,

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Speaker 3: but I have.

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Speaker 5: To say the reason you gave that I traveled too much?

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Speaker 7: Do you travel too much?

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Speaker 3: It's the way you.

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Speaker 5: Traveled because I like to explore.

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Speaker 3: Chris, you said if we went to Hawaii, we'd wake

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Speaker 3: up early and hike volcanoes. I go to Hawaii to

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Speaker 3: sit on the beach with a drink.

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Speaker 5: Okay, fair, but like there are beaches after the hike.

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Speaker 3: The hike is what I have a problem with.

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Speaker 2: Man, this sounds an awful lot like a conversation I've

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Speaker 5: Listen, I'm not against relaxing. I just like to see

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Speaker 7: I just don't want to be climbing a mountain on vacation.

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Speaker 3: But honestly, I hang out again.

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Speaker 2: Though we'll start there.

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Speaker 5: I love it not on a hike. I'm guessing right,

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Speaker 5: I'm with her.

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Speaker 4: I hate hiking, like walking just to walk, like for

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Speaker 4: no reason, no things. I know the views are probably nice,

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Speaker 4: but I'm good. I can look on that on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: But I'm with you too, Kyle, Like I feel like

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Speaker 4: if you have to, if you feel like you need

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Speaker 1: But there's a happy medium, Like if they became a couple,

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Speaker 1: you go to Hawaii, she can hang out of the

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Speaker 1: beach and then he can go explore the foot volcanos,

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Speaker 1: or you do a little bit of both. I have

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Speaker 1: do all the foodie stuff.

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Speaker 2: And that's cool. Yeah that could be you guys, find

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Speaker 2: a way around it.

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Speaker 1: I like you guys, Oh, do you guys want to

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Speaker 1: go out again?

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Speaker 3: It's like to yeah, I'm down, okay, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, well hold on, we will set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on a fun Maybe we can send you guys over

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Speaker 1: to r I to get some hiking boots and go

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Speaker 1: to one of those climbing go to a climbing as.

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Speaker 6: Like, maybe maybe a give car to a bar.

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Speaker 1: That's Second Date update with John Jane Rich