1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of The Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,279 Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys. 3 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 2: I've been cheated on. Unfortunately, I'm sure a lot of 4 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 2: people listening right now. Maybe you have been cheated on 5 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: in the past. This has never happened to me. This, 6 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 2: my opinion, could be the worst situation of being as 7 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 2: far as cheating goes. And by the way, welcome to 8 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 2: ninety three three FLZ. Welcome to the Joe Show. We 9 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 2: do wore the roses on Tuesdays and Thursdays. We called 10 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 2: a boyfriend who's living with his girlfriend and who sent 11 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 2: flowers to another woman, and odds are they have been 12 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: together romantically and intimately in the bed that his girlfriend 13 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: lays in every single night. Eight hundred four or nine 14 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: ninety three, ninety three. If this has happened to you before, Jennifer, 15 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 2: this exact thing happened to. 16 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 3: You, Yes, good morning, it has. I was rolling my 17 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 3: eyes when I was listening to this today. 18 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: How long ago did that happen to you? How did 19 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 2: you find out? I mean, what's your story? 20 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 3: Sure? Sure? 21 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: So? 22 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 3: This is about five or six years ago. It was 23 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 3: a guy I was dating for about a year. And 24 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 3: the thing is men don't realize women know when your 25 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: behavior changes. And he was just acting really off, and 26 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 3: I always go with my gut, and something felt different. 27 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 3: And I went to his house early that morning because 28 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: I knew something was strange, and I saw the woman 29 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 3: coming down the stairs, so I waited until she left, 30 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 3: and I went and knocked on his door, and sure enough, 31 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 3: she was in there changing his bed sheets, his killowcase, 32 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 3: wrapping it all up as if he was like cleaning 33 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 3: up the entire bedroom, which I was just in the 34 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 3: night before. So and I looked at him and I 35 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 3: said to him, Oh, are we spring cleaning at six 36 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 3: in the morning all of our bed stuff when you 37 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 3: should actually be getting ready for work, him not knowing 38 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 3: that I just saw her moments prior going down the stairs, 39 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: and he was caught. 40 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: Jennifer, do you hold any anything against that woman? She 41 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,959 Speaker 2: obviously she knew about you. To me, I mean, I'm 42 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 2: not a kind of a bad person when it comes 43 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 2: to this. I hold grudges. If I feel like I 44 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: am wronged by someone. It takes a lot for me 45 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 2: to forgive. Do you hate this woman? No? 46 00:02:54,639 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 3: I no, No, it's the man's behavior. The woman goes 47 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,119 Speaker 3: along with it. I'n't even talked him. He's actually reading. Yeah, 48 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 3: it's he's remarried again. I felt be bad for the 49 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: new wife, but he was a very narcissistic man and 50 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 3: I and I wanted to tell Laney on the phone. 51 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 3: I tried to give him another chance stupidly back then 52 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:26,399 Speaker 3: and later, Yeah, I caught him again. I caught him again. 53 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: Jennifer, thank you for calling in and sharing your story. Genuinely, 54 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: thank you so much for doing that. Now you know, 55 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: Jennifer says, it's it's the guy, it's the cheater. I 56 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 2: can't hold anything against her. That's not necessarily for Derek, Derek, 57 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: I here, this is your first time we're actually calling in, right, Yes, Erica, 58 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 2: thank you for calling. Yeah, tell me about your story 59 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 2: because when when you know, we talked to the last person, 60 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 2: she's like, I don't hold it anything against that woman, 61 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 2: but but this happened to you your was it your husband, 62 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: was it your or was a boyfriend? It was a 63 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 2: boyfriend bringing another woman into your guys as bad And 64 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 2: you say, you know at that be basically. 65 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 4: Sorry, but yeah, I'm like what I've been through, Like 66 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 4: he brings other women in and it's like They make 67 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 4: you to be the crazy person that, oh no one's sleeping, 68 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 4: like changing the bands, sheet and stuff. That's kind of 69 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 4: stuff we look at. But really, I just want to say, 70 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 4: these women they are so they like, they're so brave. 71 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 4: They're coming in these women houses with with their men, 72 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 4: And how do you not know that they stay with someone? 73 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 4: The house is set up like they're in a relationship. 74 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 4: Why are why are they so comfortable with them? Some 75 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 4: women just do not care. 76 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 1: They just do not care. 77 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 4: I do not understand it this going around. They're doing 78 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 4: it a lot. They're doing it a lot. I do 79 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 4: you not know that Leopard is a man? Right guy? 80 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 3: Why do you have I don't know all this air fresheners. 81 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: Guys don't have air freshner plug ins in their walls. 82 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: Guys don't have like fruity body body wash. 83 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 2: If you walk into a man's place, oh nice set, 84 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 2: he's got flowers, right, there's another woman in that home. 85 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: If you walk. 86 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: Eyes, If you walk into a man's home and he's 87 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 2: got a blanket on the. 88 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 1: Cast, have the bare minimum of sheet. 89 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 2: Derek, you're a great person. 90 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: You're a great caller. 91 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 2: I would love if you call him more and is 92 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: this your first time ever listening to the show. 93 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 4: No, I've been listening to you guys for like three 94 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 4: or four years. 95 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: Wow. 96 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for for doing that and 97 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 2: and you know, making us a part of your day 98 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 2: that totally makes my day. And I hope that you're 99 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 2: a part of my day as well. More often, so 100 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: call him more often. Okay, right, thank you, all right, 101 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 2: We love you. 102 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: This portion of The Joe Show podcast is powered by 103 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa accident attorneys.