1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, and it's back from the weekend. Y'all, 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: it's time for second date update. Let's go ahead and 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: bring Kevin on directly. 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 2: Kevin, are you there? 5 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here. 6 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: I'm going good man. How are you you holding up? 7 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm doing okay. I'm just really confused about something. 8 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 3: But sure, I'm doing all right, I. 9 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: Guess, but sure, dang, my guy's got some pipes. Is 10 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: that your morning voice? Is that your regular voice. 11 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 3: Voice? 12 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 2: I guess? So sorry late night? Yeah? Okay? Why am 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 2: I so distracted? That's weird. 14 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: Listen, tell me about your date with Rosa. How did 15 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: you guys meet? And then like, what did you what 16 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 1: did you guys? 17 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 3: Do? We met online? It seems like we really really connected. 18 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 3: We're both from Oakland, so we decided to go get 19 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 3: some cocktailed and with such a good time. So I'm 20 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: just kind of confused because she kind of like disappeared 21 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 3: right and I never heard from her. 22 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 2: How was the date? 23 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 3: It was amazing? 24 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 2: It was okay, which you talk about it? 25 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 3: We have a lot in common actually, like we have 26 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 3: talked about like our favorite music, like we're both like 27 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 3: Kendrick Lamar. We talked about traveling, like she likes to travel, 28 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: so to why we both talked about how we really 29 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,119 Speaker 3: wanted to go to Greece some day. It was super cool. 30 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 3: She was like she was like very down to earth, 31 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 3: like very chill, but like she was also really funny. 32 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 3: She's had me like cracking up. We were cracking jokes 33 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 3: and it was like one of those things like you know, 34 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 3: like you're talking talking, talking, and like we're basically like 35 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 3: shut down the bar, like you're not realizing anybody's there, 36 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 3: just like time flew by. So yes, I'm just kind 37 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: of confused why I like reach out to her, but 38 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 3: I haven't heard back. 39 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: I feel like if we drop it down into first 40 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: gear and have you keep talking, they're gonna be like 41 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: six ladies that are gonna want to date you and 42 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: we won't even. 43 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 2: Have to do this, like it'll be we'll just start over. 44 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: I have to okay, listen, we're gonna we're gonna call 45 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: Rosa and okay, we're gonna try to figure out a 46 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: if and why she ghosted and b I would love 47 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: to grab you a second date. 48 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 2: So can you hang on the line, Yeah, yes, thank you. 49 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: All right, you're gonna listen in but please mute your phone. 50 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 3: Hello, this is Rosa. 51 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,839 Speaker 2: Hi Rose, It's Marcus calling from Star one O one three. 52 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 2: Good morning. Hi. 53 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So I do a morning show for iHeartRadio on 54 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 1: one on one three am. 55 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 4: I in the radio right now. 56 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 2: I mean, would you is that okay? 57 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 3: Maybe? Yes? 58 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, maybe? 59 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 3: I don't know. 60 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: So we're doing Second Date Update. It's a segment that 61 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: we do. It's a dating segment. And we got a 62 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: call from a guy who says he took you on 63 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: a first date and he I'm we're thinking you ghosted 64 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: and we just trying to figure out if you ghosted 65 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: and if you did why that's a lot of info? 66 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: Wow? 67 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry? Can I can we talk about your date 68 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:53,399 Speaker 1: on the air? 69 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 2: His name is Kevin? 70 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 4: Oh my god, Kevin? 71 00:02:58,760 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: Did you ghost for Kevin? 72 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 4: I did? 73 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 2: I did? 74 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 4: I've been following this. I've been following this woman online 75 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 4: who just says, like, uh, like just block and delete, 76 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 4: block and delete. If like their behavior is not one 77 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 4: that aligns with yours, just block and delet. 78 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 2: So was he was he out of pocket? 79 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 3: Like? 80 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 2: What happened? 81 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 3: Now? 82 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 4: I'm like kind of questioning myself a little bit about this. 83 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 3: But okay, first of all. 84 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 4: Kevin was super cute. His voice, Oh my god. I 85 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 4: remember the first time we talked on the phone. I 86 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:28,119 Speaker 4: was like, oh, his voice is so good. 87 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: We had. 88 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 4: We did have a good time, and we had a 89 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: good time. We went to a bar. We're talking for 90 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 4: a long time, right, Okay. 91 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 3: But here's the thing. 92 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 4: I have a pet peeve. And he was doing it 93 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 4: all throughout the night. And I can let this go 94 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 4: because he's cute, I'm having a good time, but I couldn't. 95 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 3: Okay. 96 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 4: So the first thing that is my pet peeve is 97 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 4: he was cracking his knuckles, not just his knuckles, but 98 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 4: like his hands, his neck, not even that, like he 99 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 4: even got up once and like cracked his knee, Oh god, 100 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 4: like cracking her back throughout the whole Like he actually 101 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 4: was really kind of worried and was like, hey, it's 102 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 4: something going on. 103 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 2: Like they what do they call that? Is that self chiropracting? 104 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 2: When is that? 105 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 4: I asked him, like what's your deal? Like why are 106 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 4: you why do you keep like cracking your Are you okay? 107 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 4: And he was like oh no, He's like I'm fine, 108 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 4: I'm just keeping a line. And I was like, uh, 109 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 4: I don't know if that's how that really works, right, 110 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 4: Like I don't think cracking your knuckles keeps you aligne 111 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 4: and so, like I brought it up, he was like, well, no, 112 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 4: I read that on Google. It's like that's basically what 113 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 4: a chiropractor does, okay. And I was like, oh, have 114 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 4: you ever been to a chiropractor? And he was like, no, 115 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 4: I don't go to the doctor. 116 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 2: And I was like, what like it at all? 117 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 4: Like at all? Like he doesn't go to the doctor ever. 118 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: What does he do when he gets sick? 119 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 4: That's what I asked him. And he was like, I 120 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 4: listened to my body. I do what my body tells me. 121 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 4: And he's like, I look things up on Google. He 122 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 4: was like, I don't need to go to the doctor 123 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 4: and spend a bunch of money to have them tell 124 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 4: me what I can figure out on Google. And I 125 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 4: come from a family of medical professionals, and I don't know. 126 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 4: That's not my jam, Like I just that's a red 127 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 4: flag about this guy where if he's not going to 128 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 4: the doctor and he's very confident, like I'm not the 129 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 4: kind of guy that goes to the doctor. I'm like, 130 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 4: I don't want that, okay. I'm looking for the longevity 131 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 4: not to have to like take care of somebody because 132 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 4: their back is all broken because they keep cracking at themselves. 133 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean? 134 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 2: Sure? 135 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: So here's what's up. I've actually got Kevin listening right now. 136 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 2: What Yes? 137 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: So this is like a teachable moment type situation. I'd 138 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 1: love to bring him on if that's okay. Maybe we 139 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: can hash this out. Maybe we can reach a moment 140 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: where hey. 141 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: Kevin, are you there? 142 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 143 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: Do you legit not not go to the doctor? 144 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 3: No? Like that's no. I felt like, first of all, 145 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 3: like I don't know why this is a big deal, 146 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 3: Like it's a muscle tension, Like I had muscle tension 147 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 3: in my body, Like everybody cracks their joints, So it's 148 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 3: really not anything of the ordinary. 149 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: Not even worried about that. 150 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm more worried that you don't seek professional medical help 151 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: when you need it, like at all. 152 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. Now, I really feel like anything you can know 153 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 3: is really like online, And I really feel like the 154 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 3: doctors is kind of like a scam. They're kind of 155 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 3: like a racket. They just want your money, like they 156 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: just want to they kind of like tell you anything 157 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 3: that you feel like you want to hear, just to 158 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 3: put you on some sort of prescription, and I feel 159 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 3: like Big pharm is a scam, Like they're all they're 160 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 3: trying to do is get your money. Like I just 161 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 3: listen to my body, and I like, do it holistically, okay, 162 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 3: Like I don't need anything else. 163 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 4: I just Kevin. I respect you listening to your body. 164 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 4: But it's the idea of not ever going to the 165 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 4: doctor like ever and just self diagnosing online. I think 166 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 4: that is delusional behavior. Health issues should be left up 167 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 4: to medical professionals like full stop. Like I cannot date 168 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 4: a guy who thinks that he knows everything and thinks 169 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 4: that he's better and smarter than people who have gone 170 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 4: to school for years. 171 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 3: I just can't. 172 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 4: I don't want to date somebody who's healthcare plan is 173 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 4: five All right. 174 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 3: Cool, you're lost? All right? 175 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 2: Hang on you guys, hang on. 176 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 177 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 2: I don't even have a comment on that anyway. Second 178 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 2: date update