Speaker 1: And in the morning show on Katie w B Viki's
Speaker 1: won yesterday. Yay, she lost last night. I don't care
Speaker 1: how you feel about that. I don't really care myself
Speaker 1: that much.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: And tonight it is going to be the Eagles and
Speaker 1: the Chargers. I hate the Eagles, so I'm going to
Speaker 1: be pulling for the Chargers.
Speaker 3: So yeah, a football not a football fan at all.
Speaker 4: I almost said a gold just now, but just by
Speaker 4: association next.
Speaker 5: To Philly here.
Speaker 1: They want to change the name of American football, uh
Speaker 1: to instead of football, they want to change it to
Speaker 1: something else.
Speaker 5: They want to call it pig skin. You heard about this.
Speaker 4: It is done technically soccer if you like, say it
Speaker 4: in Spanish technically.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well in football, that's football in around the world,
Speaker 1: that's what they call soccer. We call it soccer.
Speaker 5: Uh. And they want to change it to something else.
Speaker 3: But pig skin is dumb. Skin is kind of did
Speaker 3: they also say butterball or yardball.
Speaker 5: Something they might have, but it's not going to change.
Speaker 5: It's still going to be football. Uh.
Speaker 1: So we're we're you know, we we basically talk about
Speaker 1: our life here on the show, and Bailey has got
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a dilemma or a decision that
Speaker 1: you've already made of what's going on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is it's a long story short here.
Speaker 6: So I have a young woman who is kind of
Speaker 6: like my niece. So my sister dated this guy for
Speaker 6: about ten years in her twenties, and he had two
Speaker 6: kids and one a girl who was five when I
Speaker 6: met her, and his son who was two. And they
Speaker 6: for a while, like when my sister and I still
Speaker 6: lived at home with my mom, these kids were also
Speaker 6: kind of living with us too, and so I've watched
Speaker 6: these kids like grow up. And then my sister and
Speaker 6: her boyfriend broke up, and I kept in contact with
Speaker 6: his daughter. Her name is Jaden, and so Jaden now
Speaker 6: is eighteen, and I see Jaden probably once or twice
Speaker 6: a year, but we still stay in contact, like over Instagram.
Speaker 6: She's a senior in high school now and her parents
Speaker 6: do not care about her. So she left her mother's
Speaker 6: house because you know, fundamental differences.
Speaker 3: She moved in with her dad.
Speaker 6: And he's the one that dated my sister, and he's
Speaker 6: kind of you know, flighty as well, like left the
Speaker 6: state to kind of go find himself in Colorado, like right,
Speaker 6: when Jaden was starting high school, got someone else pregnant
Speaker 6: in Colorado. So he's got a kid in Colorado. He
Speaker 6: left his two kids in Minnesota. He ended up coming
Speaker 6: back to Minnesota. It's a weird, long story. So Jade
Speaker 6: was living with him and then she was on a
Speaker 6: school trip and he texted her saying that he lost
Speaker 6: to their apartment and so then he moved in with
Speaker 6: some random like friend of his and essentially said, Jaden,
Speaker 6: good luck to you. And she wasn't like a I
Speaker 6: guess not allowed, but like wasn't welcome back in her
Speaker 6: mother's home or didn't want to go back to her
Speaker 6: mother's home for whatever her reasons are. So she lived
Speaker 6: with her boyfriend and now she's living with her friend,
Speaker 6: which is, I mean great, I'm glad that her friend
Speaker 6: has you know, a bit.
Speaker 5: But the offshoot is she wants to move you want
Speaker 5: her to move in with you?
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 3: So the so now Jaden.
Speaker 6: Is applying for colleges all around the state and she
Speaker 6: asked me the other day, if I get into a
Speaker 6: college down by you can I live with you? And
Speaker 6: I sat on it for maybe like five hours, and
Speaker 6: then I just said, like we would have to talk
Speaker 6: about it more and like figure it out some more,
Speaker 6: because in my brain, like she'll go to college, she'll
Speaker 6: meet friends, and then her and her friends will all
Speaker 6: move in together, like that's how it works in college.
Speaker 6: So that's kind of like my thought process. But I
Speaker 6: want her to have a home. She deserves a home.
Speaker 6: She deserves to have one singular adult person who cares
Speaker 6: about her. And if that's me, then it's me. She
Speaker 6: can't move in with my sister. My sister has, you know,
Speaker 6: a family, and I have nothing, like I have a cat,
Speaker 6: like so, and I'm planning on buying a house eventually,
Speaker 6: Like right now, if she moved in with me, it
Speaker 6: would be kind of crappy because I live in a
Speaker 6: one bedroom apartment. But if I buy a house, like
Speaker 6: I could even be looking for a house that.
Speaker 5: Way, when thinking about when you think about having her
Speaker 5: move in.
Speaker 3: It wouldn't be until she starts college, so now.
Speaker 5: Which is next August, Okay.
Speaker 3: Probably, so it would be a while.
Speaker 6: And she and she said, it's if she gets into
Speaker 6: a school down here, she might end up going to
Speaker 6: a school somewhere else. I feel like her situation is
Speaker 6: primed her for some like good scholarships potentially, like she
Speaker 6: has nothing.
Speaker 3: She just has nothing, and she.
Speaker 6: Is such a good kid, so it would be different
Speaker 6: if she was like kind of a screw up, you know,
Speaker 6: and like, well.
Speaker 1: That's my big question, is like my first response is no,
Speaker 1: they're family members of mine that would love to move
Speaker 1: in with me. I would not let them because they
Speaker 1: are kind of lifelong screw ups and they would continue
Speaker 1: to be. I think that sometimes, you know, we all
Speaker 1: look at like, if we do right.
Speaker 5: For the world, the world will.
Speaker 1: Do right for us. And it doesn't always work that way.
Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, if you give your bum of a
Speaker 1: sister a thousand dollars, you think, okay, this is going
Speaker 1: to give her her struggle, she'll blow it on nails
Speaker 1: and pizza and weed, and then one another thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: So I think sometimes we look at some people and
Speaker 1: we go we want to help them. They'll go ahead
Speaker 1: and they'll do exactly what they should do. And it's
Speaker 1: not always that way. But you say, she's not a
Speaker 1: screw up.
Speaker 6: No, she's not like that at all. She's like, you know,
Speaker 6: in NHS or whatever, she just did her like school play.
Speaker 6: She was like never allowed to really be involved in school.
Speaker 5: So what would you do? What would you do?
Speaker 1: You think that Bailey should let her sort of niece
Speaker 1: move in, So would you call her your niece? Would
Speaker 1: you let her move in? I would approach with caution,
Speaker 1: That's just me because I know that you're a wonderful person,
Speaker 1: You're very giving. But I would approach with caution because
Speaker 1: what you don't want is for her to get there.
Speaker 1: Then you're trapped. She doesn't have anywhere to go, and
Speaker 1: now she doesn't have anywhere to go. And if she's responsible, great,
Speaker 1: but if she's irresponsible, what do you.
Speaker 7: Think, Jenny, Yeah, I mean I think Bailey has the
Speaker 7: kindest heart ever, and like it's amazing that she's willing
Speaker 7: to do this. I just know if I was in
Speaker 7: the same position, I would try to help her find
Speaker 7: and housing the best I could to not have to
Speaker 7: have her live with me. I don't think I could
Speaker 7: do it at this point in my life. But Bailey
Speaker 7: is a better person than me in that way then.
Speaker 6: And I don't think I'm like a better I don't
Speaker 6: think I'm better than anybody. I just like because people
Speaker 6: are saying, like, well, this is going to disrupt your life,
Speaker 6: but like my life has been the same for my
Speaker 6: like for the foreseeable like past, I've.
Speaker 3: Had the same exact life.
Speaker 6: So if this is the first thing that's disrupting my
Speaker 6: life and it's for somebody I care so much about,
Speaker 6: then it's worth it.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: My concern is just we had to take a break.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: I do want to hear what you want to say
Speaker 1: on but we do need to take a break. I'd
Speaker 1: love to hear what you say too, because I think
Speaker 1: this is a really it's a wonderful thing. But I
Speaker 1: just don't want you to look at the world in
Speaker 1: rose colored glasses and think it's all going to turn out.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 1: I want you to examine it for a while and
Speaker 1: think about whether it's a good idea. And my worry
Speaker 1: is that she'll get there and then you'll be trapped
Speaker 1: in an ugly situation and she'll have nowhere to go.
Speaker 1: I want to hear what you think. We'll come back
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Speaker 1: as it happens on Katie abb So, Bailey has somebody
Speaker 1: who's close to her that she calls her her niece
Speaker 1: because she's not really her niece, but she feels like
Speaker 1: a niece. She's eighteen and she has not good parents. No,
Speaker 1: that's just the way it is. And so Bailey is
Speaker 1: thinking about letting this person, her niece, move in with
Speaker 1: Bailey because she has really where is she living now?
Speaker 6: She lives in Duluth with She lives with a friend
Speaker 6: of hers that she met at church and her their
Speaker 6: family is letting Jaden live with them until.
Speaker 3: School is over.
Speaker 5: How long is she live there now?
Speaker 3: She's only been there a couple of weeks.
Speaker 5: Where does she live before that?
Speaker 3: Her boyfriend's house?
Speaker 5: What happened there? Just broke up?
Speaker 3: No, they didn't break up.
Speaker 6: She said that living with him was kind of affecting
Speaker 6: their relationship because they didn't have like their own private
Speaker 6: spaces because they weren't expecting to bring in Jayden because
Speaker 6: her dad. She was living with her dad, and then
Speaker 6: her dad lost the apartment. They got, you know, evicted
Speaker 6: from the apartment, and he essentially told Jayden good luck man.
Speaker 1: I just want to say, if you had good parents
Speaker 1: that took good care of you and were responsible and
Speaker 1: set you on the right path. Thank them as often
Speaker 1: as you can. Thank them frequently. Because I had such
Speaker 1: great parents. We never struggled with, like you know, we're
Speaker 1: like any kind of problems or losing the house or
Speaker 1: anything like that. So if you are, you are very blessed.
Speaker 1: If you have good parents. I know that mom drives
Speaker 1: you crazy sometimes, but you were very blessed. So the
Speaker 1: question is you've already decided to do this, and she'll
Speaker 1: move in at the end of next August when she
Speaker 1: starts school with you.
Speaker 6: If well, yeah, that's if she gets to She said,
Speaker 6: if I get into a school down there, can I
Speaker 6: move in with you? And in my brain I think, well,
Speaker 6: you should live in the dorm so you can create
Speaker 6: a community. But if she's gonna need somewhere to go
Speaker 6: on breaks, weekends, whatever, I want my house and someone
Speaker 6: who loves her to be that spot for her.
Speaker 5: Okay, not a full time move, it's just like weeks
Speaker 5: and weekends and that type of thing.
Speaker 3: We would have to talk about it. She just asked,
Speaker 3: can I move in with you?
Speaker 1: And I said yes, okay, So we're looking at different
Speaker 1: opinions here, and there's all kinds of different opinions and experiences.
Speaker 1: We're going to talk to Kelly first, randomly. Kelly, do
Speaker 1: you think it's a good idea or a bad idea?
Speaker 5: What do you think, Kelly?
Speaker 3: I think this is Kelly is online a lot?
Speaker 5: Is this? Leah? I what's your name?
Speaker 9: My name is Leah?
Speaker 5: Okay, Leah, I'm sorry, go ahead.
Speaker 10: I think it's a good idea. It's something that my
Speaker 10: mom did when I was younger, and it worked out
Speaker 10: incredibly well for my friend. If she hadn't done it
Speaker 10: to help her out, she probably would not be where
Speaker 10: she is today, super successful nurse. I just think if
Speaker 10: it's something that you can do, you should do it
Speaker 10: weekends is holidays. You're going to give her a chance
Speaker 10: she might not otherwise have.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you know I've made a difference. I didn't
Speaker 1: realize it. It was going to be like you hope she
Speaker 1: gets into a dorm. She doesn't get into the dorm.
Speaker 1: If she can live with you full time, I.
Speaker 6: Mean that's she I don't know if she really has
Speaker 6: like a lot of knowledge of how you know, like
Speaker 6: dorms and like college stuff works. So she's like, well,
Speaker 6: if I live with you, I'll save money so I
Speaker 6: don't have to spend it on dorms. And I'm thinking, like,
Speaker 6: let's get you a scholarship for free room and board
Speaker 6: because I need you to live in a dorm so
Speaker 6: you can create like community, fine friends, because that's you're
Speaker 6: gonna end up living with those people anyway, Like I
Speaker 6: lived with people from college all the time.
Speaker 5: Kelly, what did you think? What did you and you
Speaker 5: have an opinion?
Speaker 9: Kelly, I just think that what Bailey is trying to
Speaker 9: do is great, and if it's on weekends and holidays, wonderful,
Speaker 9: But I think full time. You know, you have to
Speaker 9: remember this is a girl you said didn't have a
Speaker 9: lot of extra things in high school. So she's also eighteen.
Speaker 9: She's going to want to be doing things that maybe
Speaker 9: Bailey doesn't agree with, or things that Bailey might be
Speaker 9: surprised by.
Speaker 6: I know, I get what you mean, because like obviously,
Speaker 6: when we're all eighteen, like young, especially you know, in
Speaker 6: early twenties or whatever, we're gonna be like crazy, like
Speaker 6: let's go party, party, party, And I just don't think
Speaker 6: that she's that kind of person. It would it would
Speaker 6: be so much easier for me if she was kind
Speaker 6: of like a some kind of screw up, you know,
Speaker 6: like doing making bad choices.
Speaker 3: But she's so like I don't know.
Speaker 6: I can't describe her because obviously no one on the
Speaker 6: show knows who she is except for me. But I
Speaker 6: mean a lot of people are texting in saying like
Speaker 6: it sounds like she has zero like positive adult role models,
Speaker 6: and that's all I want to be for her and
Speaker 6: have have her have a home. So even if like yeah,
Speaker 6: like if she has her boyfriend over and I'm like,
Speaker 6: oh gosh, this guy again, it's like a price I'm
Speaker 6: willing to pay, like as long as she's not doing
Speaker 6: drugs in my house, like and I she wouldn't as
Speaker 6: far as I know, she wouldn't.
Speaker 3: If and if she did, then I don't know her.
Speaker 6: At all, I guess, but I feel and I understand
Speaker 6: what people where people are coming from with that, like
Speaker 6: you're gonna regret it, You're gonna regret it.
Speaker 1: Well, I just worry for you because I you know,
Speaker 1: you've got a great little life. I know that you've
Speaker 1: got you know, you live alone, and you've got you know,
Speaker 1: the opportunity to do it. I just want it to
Speaker 1: work out, right, But because I worry that if for
Speaker 1: whatever reason, it doesn't work out, now she's there with
Speaker 1: nowhere to go, then what are you gonna do?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 3: Then where are you playing?
Speaker 6: And then couldn't I be like a stepping stone for
Speaker 6: her to figure it out? Because like, I don't think
Speaker 6: she has someone to help her. She doesn't know how
Speaker 6: to drive. Like she has a job, so at least
Speaker 6: she's like, you know, she's worked in a couple of
Speaker 6: jobs before, so she has that drive, but like she
Speaker 6: needs somebody to teach her how to drive. She needs
Speaker 6: somebody to be like, hey, I found this cool job
Speaker 6: for you, maybe you could do this, or hey, what
Speaker 6: are your hopes and dreams?
Speaker 3: Where do you want to go with your life? Let's
Speaker 3: make it happen for you? Because she doesn't have that.
Speaker 1: Here's a couple of time we had a tone of
Speaker 1: text messages a lot of people who had experiences. Yes,
Speaker 1: let her move in. Every kid deserved to have one
Speaker 1: adult who showed him love. I took in two of
Speaker 1: my nieces at separate times while raising two of my own.
Speaker 1: It wasn't always easy, but never once regret it, and
Speaker 1: their both told me the impact that it made to
Speaker 1: have someone who they could trust, someone who helped them
Speaker 1: is someone who they could rely on. And I think
Speaker 1: sometimes it's true that somebody like that will move in
Speaker 1: with someone who's a little bit sketchy, and the sketchy
Speaker 1: person does not make their life better, it makes it
Speaker 1: hard on everyone.
Speaker 7: Can I ask you this, Sily, do you think if
Speaker 7: she does move in, are you gonna set like kind
Speaker 7: of strict to ish ground rules to the extent of, like,
Speaker 7: I know you're in college, but like we're not going
Speaker 7: to be up partying until you in the morning. Like yeah,
Speaker 7: you think you'll set those boundaries at least.
Speaker 6: For me, Yeah, because I don't think she would like
Speaker 6: go out of her way to break any of those.
Speaker 6: And also, like, depending on where I buy a house,
Speaker 6: it's not like I'm buying a house in dinky town,
Speaker 6: you know, So it's not like she can.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, I'm gonna go walk over because she can't drive.
Speaker 6: So it's not like she's gonna be out partying and
Speaker 6: then like stumble in because what if I live in
Speaker 6: Saint Louis Park, you know.
Speaker 3: And I think it's just so that.
Speaker 6: She has a stable place to call her own which
Speaker 6: she has not had so long.
Speaker 1: So there's somebody like that in my family, and I
Speaker 1: won't be specific, but there is somebody who had not
Speaker 1: the best parents. They raised her and gave her a
Speaker 1: place to live in food and that type of thing,
Speaker 1: but they did not set her on the right path.
Speaker 1: And to this day she is still struggling right And
Speaker 1: she'll put up something on Facebook that says, hey, can
Speaker 1: anybody give me money for gas or groceries? Because I
Speaker 1: don't have anything right now. Yeah, and it's because of
Speaker 1: a lot of bad decisions, because she never really learned
Speaker 1: to make good decisions.
Speaker 5: So that's a tough one.
Speaker 1: I admire you for considering it, because I'm a turd
Speaker 1: and I would be like, can you move in with Jenny?
Speaker 1: Maybe your uncle Carl. Carl's got a lot of room, Carl,
Speaker 1: can have you come move there?
Speaker 3: Can I read something?
Speaker 6: Mean? Somebody just says to me, Bailly will bail out
Speaker 6: of the show due to this niece. Bailey's trying to
Speaker 6: be a mom because she can't have one of her
Speaker 6: own children.
Speaker 3: I mean, that was pretty that jumped.
Speaker 6: Me write that in Yeah, come on now, hey, you
Speaker 6: know what You're right, I don't have a kid. I
Speaker 6: don't have a family. If this is the family that
Speaker 6: I get dealt with in my entire life, then this
Speaker 6: is the family I want.
Speaker 3: Period.
Speaker 4: I want you to be able to do this because
Speaker 4: you're able to, you know, and I'm glad that you're
Speaker 4: helping somebody, But I want you to be able to
Speaker 4: still stand on your two feet. I'm not saying that
Speaker 4: you know that will happen, but you know you you're
Speaker 4: content with the life that you have. You know, you
Speaker 4: have cap and you have your one bedroom apartment. I
Speaker 4: don't want it to become too much for you then
Speaker 4: both of you suffer.
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe I.
Speaker 6: Just maybe I need a change, like because I've you know,
Speaker 6: I've had the same life for a long time. So like,
Speaker 6: if this is the change, maybe she can be better
Speaker 6: for me too.
Speaker 4: What if Michael Jackson say I'm going to make a
Speaker 4: change for once in mine.
Speaker 1: Well, remember Michael let Jermaine move in with him because
Speaker 1: Jermaine didn't have anything else.
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Speaker 7: All right, jumping the gun here a little bit with
Speaker 7: fifty Cent, who is absolutely being the most petty guy
Speaker 7: I've ever met in my life. And honestly, I'm kind
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Speaker 7: which broadcasts on ABC, and he specifically picked ABC because
Speaker 7: it's one of the few channels that he knows is
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Speaker 5: Wait, well, let.
Speaker 1: Me tell you I watched the entire documentary. Diddy was
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Speaker 5: Did.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, did you see the interview whenever, Well, it's in
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Speaker 5: Who your favorite villain?
Speaker 8: Never mind? Don't know why that sounds like, Oh, I say,
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Speaker 3: And he's like.
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Speaker 4: him as a villain. Fifty is just such a stir
Speaker 4: as the pot messy energy person.
Speaker 5: It's so funny.
Speaker 7: Well only with people that he thinks deserves it though. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: Seriously watched the documentary and you're like, oh, man, I
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Speaker 5: Yeah, but he was a bad human.
Speaker 3: I just like that. You're like, I like what Curtis said.
Speaker 3: You guys are on a first name basis.
Speaker 5: Yeah, me and Curtis, Yeah, you would hang out.
Speaker 1: He's so funny because Curtis came to the radio station
Speaker 1: one time years ago and he comes in and I
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Speaker 8: Yeah, I shared cheese and crackers.
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Speaker 7: She's found that I feel like she's been in a
Speaker 7: few sper cheesy. Yeah, Netflix movie is anything.
Speaker 3: I do definitely like some of them.
Speaker 7: However, I will say I watched a movie this weekend
Speaker 7: where a woman pretends to be Santa so she can
Speaker 7: work at a ski resort to get her daughter a
Speaker 7: discouns so her daughter can go to some snowboarding school.
Speaker 7: It was awful. This isn't though, I okay, no, this
Speaker 7: isn't her at all. It's just a new one that
Speaker 7: came out. It's called My Secret Santa, and it was
Speaker 7: like on another level of corny that I feel like
Speaker 7: I just couldn't get into. So it was a movie
Speaker 7: I had on in the backgroum for like feel good reasons,
Speaker 7: but not because I was like entertained whatsoever.
Speaker 4: The only reason I'm low key excited about this is
Speaker 4: because it's a Disney World thing, the one in Florida,
Speaker 4: and it's the first of its kind. If you've ever
Speaker 4: watched I think it's on Disney plus Disney Weddings.
Speaker 8: I don't know what it's called.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's actually a really nice fit, like you watch
Speaker 4: people have their weddings at Disney. As corny as it sounds,
Speaker 4: it is a bit magical. It is magical.
Speaker 6: I have actually I have a friend who got married
Speaker 6: at Disney, which is so Bonker's expensive and you have
Speaker 6: to wait until the park is closed, so you either
Speaker 6: have to get married at like six in the morning
Speaker 6: or at like nine point thirty at night.
Speaker 3: To get married at Disney, they close it down for you.
Speaker 7: They allow you to have a like cap of amount
Speaker 7: of people that.
Speaker 3: You were allowed to bring. I don't know, I think
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know. If I was.
Speaker 7: Probably like I guess if you have Disney all to yourself.
Speaker 7: You probably they probably don't care that much amount of people,
Speaker 7: but then they probably have to like escort you around.
Speaker 3: Though you know that sounds great. I don't know.
Speaker 6: Well, no, I know it's all great, but on a
Speaker 6: horse drawn carriage, yeah, sign.
Speaker 12: I think.
Speaker 7: In the last Katy Perry won super Instagram Official with
Speaker 7: Justin Trudeau, so was the former Canadian Prime minister. And
Speaker 7: apparently she plans to release her eighth album in the
Speaker 7: beginning of next year, in the first half, I should say.
Speaker 7: And you know, when she was recording this during her
Speaker 7: like tumultuous year with breaking up with Orlando Bloom, there.
Speaker 3: Were some songs that were written about him.
Speaker 7: But now people are wondering if those will even make
Speaker 7: the cut because now she's in a happy relationship. So
Speaker 7: is she gonna like go out there and talk about heartbreak.
Speaker 4: Probably not on she deserves a win, though she needs
Speaker 4: a win after the big year she's had.
Speaker 5: She does seem seriously.
Speaker 7: I mean, of course it's Instagram, it's the highlight reel
Speaker 7: of life. But she seems pretty happy with this guy.
Speaker 7: There's a video they had of each other and they
Speaker 7: just like looked at each other with those googly.
Speaker 3: Eyes of like, oh, you're the one for me.
Speaker 5: Ah.
Speaker 1: All right, that's the Dirk brought to you by sixty one
Speaker 1: two Injured Heimer and Lammer's Injury Law. Let's get into
Speaker 1: it right now. Live another Christmas Wish on KDWB one.
Speaker 5: On one point three kt W The Dave Ryan in
Speaker 5: the Morning Shows Christmas Wish.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Melissa, Good morning Melissa. You've been listening to
Speaker 1: KTWB for how long?
Speaker 3: Since? I was in third grade?
Speaker 5: Third grade?
Speaker 3: And I'm not a young human.
Speaker 1: No, you're old now, stop it, stop it, stop it.
Speaker 1: You are you're a teacher.
Speaker 3: An educator. I'm an administrator.
Speaker 5: I see.
Speaker 1: Okay, And so how do you know Ingrid that you're
Speaker 1: doing the wish for today?
Speaker 13: Ingrid is an employee at our school and has been
Speaker 13: for quite some time. And her children, two of her
Speaker 13: four children went through our school as well.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 13: She's a pair of professional at our school and is
Speaker 13: kind of the heart and soul and then also works
Speaker 13: in the office in the summertime.
Speaker 5: Okay. And she's been really going through it.
Speaker 3: Lately, really going through it lately.
Speaker 13: Yeah, just uh, she's on her second round of cancer,
Speaker 13: head cancer. During COVID fought it and then it is
Speaker 13: it's back Ingrid is one of the most genuine people
Speaker 13: you will ever meet. She's got a heart of gold
Speaker 13: and is truly the most positive person. She's kind of
Speaker 13: the heart of the school because of her positivity. It
Speaker 13: just radiates every just love people like that. Yeah, we
Speaker 13: we just love to be around her. She lights up
Speaker 13: a room, every room and it's never a wooe is
Speaker 13: mee situation?
Speaker 1: Isn't that amazing? Because there are people who are like that.
Speaker 1: Moon Over at KS ninety five was like that. He
Speaker 1: was very sick, and that guy was just always full
Speaker 1: of jokes and how are you and he would never complain.
Speaker 1: There are people like that. We're gonna get on the
Speaker 1: phone with her in a second. First, I want to
Speaker 1: check in with our boy. We call him Brandon from
Speaker 1: Uh He's sorry, Brandon from College Muscle Movers.
Speaker 5: Hi, Brandon, good morning. What city are you in this morning? Brandon?
Speaker 3: I'm in Chaska, Oh okay.
Speaker 1: Just down the road from chan happening. Yeah, thanks for
Speaker 1: doing this. If you want to move and you're we're
Speaker 1: gonna be We soon get a hold of Brandon at
Speaker 1: College Muscle Movers. It's college musclemovers dot com. Correct, Brandon
Speaker 1: will come to your house. We'll pack everything up. He
Speaker 1: promises not to break anything, uh and get it all
Speaker 1: move to your new location.
Speaker 5: Brandon.
Speaker 1: Thanks for delivering the wish this morning. We'll check back
Speaker 1: if we need you. We're going to call.
Speaker 3: We're gonna call Ingrid's daughter.
Speaker 5: Okay, to make sure we get.
Speaker 3: Ahold of somebody.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, So, Jenny, if you will call this number right there, Jenny,
Speaker 1: that is the number we're gonna call live for Christmas
Speaker 1: wish and deliver the wish as it happens here on
Speaker 1: katogb work top line, top line. Okay, there we go. Hello, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: it's Dave over at KATWDB. Can I talk to Ingrid?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 5: Hi, Ingrid?
Speaker 8: How are you good?
Speaker 1: Good Ingrid? It's like I said, it is Dave over
Speaker 1: at KATWB radio, and I'm here with a coworker slash
Speaker 1: friend of yours, Melissa.
Speaker 5: Say hi, Melissa, Hi, Ingrid.
Speaker 3: Patty's here too, just so you know.
Speaker 14: Oh gosh, guys, Hi.
Speaker 5: Would you have any idea why we're calling?
Speaker 14: I have no idea.
Speaker 11: Chelling.
Speaker 1: So we do a thing over at katia be called
Speaker 1: Christmas Wish We've done it for years, and we try
Speaker 1: to find people who are going through something, a challenge,
Speaker 1: a struggle, uh, and we want to make your day
Speaker 1: a little bit brighter. So we ask people who listen
Speaker 1: to the show to tell us about somebody who they
Speaker 1: know that could use what we call a Christmas wish.
Speaker 1: And that is when Melissa wrote in to tell us
Speaker 1: about you, Ingrid, and she wrote us a letter to
Speaker 1: tell us your story. If you got a minute, can
Speaker 1: I have Melissa read that story to you? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: whenever you're ready, Melissa, Okay, it's okay. She's got it
Speaker 1: on her phone. She's got to find it here, take
Speaker 1: your time. This all happens live. So okay, here we go.
Speaker 3: Dear Katie W. B.
Speaker 13: I am writing this letter on behalf of our amazing
Speaker 13: charter school community, for our dear friend Ingrid. Ingrid moved
Speaker 13: to Minnesota from Florida around nine or twenty eighteen as
Speaker 13: a single mom so her kids could have an exceptional education.
Speaker 13: She applied to work as a para at our small
Speaker 13: charter school and has been working with us ever since.
Speaker 13: During COVID, Ingrid received devastating news that she had cancer. However,
Speaker 13: Ingrid was strong and resilient. She worked the entire time
Speaker 13: during her treatment and had the most positive attitude. Ingrid
Speaker 13: went into remission. However, last month found out her cancer
Speaker 13: was back. As devastating as this news was, Ingrid has
Speaker 13: begun her treatment plan once again with positivity and resilience.
Speaker 13: Ingrid is one of the most generous people I know.
Speaker 13: She would literally do anything for anyone. She is so
Speaker 13: critical to our small community in his love by all.
Speaker 13: If you ask any of the middle school students who
Speaker 13: their favorite person is, it is always Ingrid. She lights
Speaker 13: up every room that she enters, and I know the
Speaker 13: holidays are causing a burden on her right now. Our
Speaker 13: school's Christmas wish is that Ingrid could have some relief
Speaker 13: during the holiday season and shower her with love so
Speaker 13: her worries and burdens can be lessened. Thank you so much,
Speaker 13: Katie w B for making this wish happen. We love
Speaker 13: you so much, Ingrid.
Speaker 1: Ingrid, It's obvious that you're just one of those amazing
Speaker 1: people that is all about everyone else and never about
Speaker 1: you or your challenges, and we love you for that.
Speaker 1: And there's obviously a lot of love that your school
Speaker 1: wants to share with you, and so we are doing
Speaker 1: some things just to make you smile, make the girls smile.
Speaker 1: We have Jamie, no James, James a boy. Jamie's a boy,
Speaker 1: and Madison is thirteen, and we have some things for
Speaker 1: your family just to make you smile and to make
Speaker 1: you make it so you know that you're appreciated and
Speaker 1: uh and supported and cared for. So that's what we
Speaker 1: do with Christmas wish. So let's start off with Madison.
Speaker 1: Madison is your thirteen year old she's fourteen. Now, okay,
Speaker 1: we heard that she loves Starbucks. Is this true?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Good?
Speaker 1: Good, good good, So we got her just some things.
Speaker 1: We got her one hundred dollars Starbucks gift card and
Speaker 1: a Starbucks tumbler and ornament.
Speaker 5: I guess that you know. That's that's what she's got
Speaker 5: to have.
Speaker 1: Also some different nail polishes and a Shields gift card.
Speaker 1: So she's into sports athletics.
Speaker 3: I think Jamie is, but either the whole family.
Speaker 1: Okay, good, and we got a two hundred dollars Ulti
Speaker 1: Beauty gift card too. For Jamie, your eighteen year old boy,
Speaker 1: we got him a two hundred dollars Shields gift card.
Speaker 5: He's a Steeler. Is this Steelers fan? Is this the story?
Speaker 11: He is a Steeler?
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. We got no.
Speaker 1: We got Steelers everything. We got Steelers flannel, we got
Speaker 1: Steelers this, we got Steelers that, so that'll all be
Speaker 1: delivered to the house. We got a like a Nike
Speaker 1: hoodie and just some other goodies for the kids, so
Speaker 1: they'll have something. I know you'll have some things under
Speaker 1: the tree. Do you have a tree up yet, Ingrid.
Speaker 11: Yeah, it's a Charlie Brown tree, but I like it.
Speaker 5: Okay, good, good.
Speaker 1: So I mean, even with all these things going on,
Speaker 1: you're still, you know, concerned about making Christmas wonderful. You're
Speaker 1: for your kids, right, absolutely, of course. Well there's things
Speaker 1: for you too, mom. We've got first of all, we're
Speaker 1: gonna send you over to Target. We got a two
Speaker 1: hundred dollars Target gift card to pick up whatever you need,
Speaker 1: whether it's fun stuff or whether it's tiede laundry detergent
Speaker 1: and bounced dryer sheets, whatever you need over there. A
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars Amazon gift card, a fifty dollars Crumble
Speaker 1: Cookie gift card. The word is you love peanut butter cookies.
Speaker 5: Is this true, okay?
Speaker 1: And we're going to send you out to Woodhouse to
Speaker 1: do the massage and the spa day and you can
Speaker 1: find out more on Woodhouse spas dot com. Thanks to
Speaker 1: those guys for helping us out and for the whole family.
Speaker 1: We got a two hundred dollars Crispin Green gift card.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of salad. Shout at it is a
Speaker 1: lot of salad. Shout out to Alex, Talia, Jeremy, Liz
Speaker 1: and the entire Crispin Green team over in Chan Happening
Speaker 1: and Plymouth for their donation. One hundred dollars Broadway Pizza
Speaker 1: gift card thanks to Sarah everybody at Broadway Pizza, and
Speaker 1: then even Oil Changes thanks to Aiming and everybody at
Speaker 1: Valveelin for that. And one hundred and one dollar Holiday
Speaker 1: Station Stores gas card and those are all for you.
Speaker 5: Is it going to change your life?
Speaker 1: Probably not, But we just want you to feel the
Speaker 1: love and appreciation and support from your community and your teachers,
Speaker 1: your your fellow educators and everybody here and who listens
Speaker 1: to Katie WB to make your holiday a little bit
Speaker 1: more bright.
Speaker 14: Okay, I really appreciate it and I love them too,
Speaker 14: very much.
Speaker 3: We love you, Ingrid. Thanks guys, of course.
Speaker 5: Yeah. How are you feeling today, Ingrid?
Speaker 10: I actually I'm feel really good and I did my
Speaker 10: makeup and takes a lot of guys.
Speaker 5: Time time for a duel over.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And so you're undergoing you're undergoing the the treatment or
Speaker 1: you're going back to treatment?
Speaker 5: Is that right?
Speaker 1: I'm yeah.
Speaker 11: This is Friday.
Speaker 10: Will be my fifth Cara chemo, fourth or fifth chreatment.
Speaker 14: Yes.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we wish you nothing but the very best
Speaker 1: in your challenges with your health.
Speaker 14: And yeah, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Well, a lot of people really appreciate you. And the
Speaker 1: kids too. Where are the kids this morning?
Speaker 11: I have Madison here.
Speaker 14: Jamie's not present at the time.
Speaker 5: Okay, so he's still sleep and get that kid up.
Speaker 3: Get that kid up.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad we get a chance to do this
Speaker 1: for you, and just hope you feel all the love
Speaker 1: and support from your community and your friends.
Speaker 11: Okay, thank you so much, guys.
Speaker 3: We'll see you later, Ingrid.
Speaker 11: All right, seeing a few.
Speaker 14: Thank you.
Speaker 5: You're gonna go to work today. Can't you give her
Speaker 5: the day off?
Speaker 13: I try, Christmas is having a day off.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Bring happy holidays Merry Christmas.
Speaker 14: So much Merry Christmas.
Speaker 1: And that is Christmas Wish on KDWB, brought to you
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Speaker 1: raised about twenty five hundred dollars on Saturday with a
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Speaker 1: the live podcast. On Saturday. We did a live podcast
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Speaker 1: it is, it's our after the show podcast, and we
Speaker 1: had a lot of fun. Somebody said the only problem
Speaker 1: I had with it was it was too short. We
Speaker 1: went for an hour, but maybe.
Speaker 5: People want a little bit more. But we had a
Speaker 5: lot of fun.
Speaker 1: Whan Nita was there, Mike was there, Secretary Brie was there,
Speaker 1: but yet your friend Tony was there.
Speaker 3: So much.
Speaker 1: We had a lot of fun and if you want
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Speaker 3: Or on the iHeartRadio app you can listen to it there.
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Speaker 1: You're going is it too late? No, We're going to
Speaker 1: fish do wish all this week, all the next week
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Speaker 1: or so, Katie, and donations are key. We really need donations.
Speaker 1: We get a lot of help from people who listen
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Speaker 1: sure that they still need the wish and make sure
Speaker 1: there's not other big funding because a lot of people
Speaker 1: are like, yeah, we put together a go funding and
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Speaker 1: we probably won't be able to help with that wish
Speaker 1: because there are some that they just don't have that.
Speaker 1: So go nominate and go donate please. It's kind of
Speaker 1: a fun story. I asked her if she would be
Speaker 1: on the air, and she said, well, I guess so,
Speaker 1: because it's kind of interesting.
Speaker 5: Megan.
Speaker 1: First of all, congratulations Megan, newly engaged, engaged.
Speaker 14: It's really excited.
Speaker 5: But I'm good for you. That's awesome.
Speaker 1: So, but there's a little bit of a problem that
Speaker 1: you haven't addressed with your fiance.
Speaker 5: What is the problem? What's going on?
Speaker 14: I mean, I would like to preface this by like,
Speaker 14: I'm very excited by being engaged, and I'm very happy
Speaker 14: with everything. But the ring is a really big and
Speaker 14: I don't mean like it's too big, like it's gonna
Speaker 14: fall off my hand. I mean like it's a solitaire
Speaker 14: and it's like two and a half carrots, and like
Speaker 14: I'm small, you know what half is?
Speaker 5: Two and a half is pretty basis size.
Speaker 1: It's a it's double the size of a tick tack,
Speaker 1: I would say, probably double the size of a yeah.
Speaker 14: Yeah, And I'm just like it's a little goudy, like
Speaker 14: I feel just I don't know. I'm like, it's tacky
Speaker 14: to have him I'll ring this big and like do
Speaker 14: I do I say something, because then do I come
Speaker 14: off I'm grateful, like I know, you know, he had
Speaker 14: to save up all a lot to get it for me,
Speaker 14: and I don't want it to be like.
Speaker 1: Oh, depending on the quality, that's probably that's probably at
Speaker 1: least a ten thousand dollars diamonds. Depending on the quality,
Speaker 1: it could be up to many thousands, many dozens of thousands,
Speaker 1: it depends on the quality.
Speaker 14: But he spent a lot of money bad to be like, oh,
Speaker 14: it's a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know what to tell you.
Speaker 1: I would from a guy's perspective, when a guy buys
Speaker 1: you a big ring, it's because he loves you so
Speaker 1: much that he wants you to like he wants the
Speaker 1: world to see I bought her a giant ring.
Speaker 14: You going down the okay ring, Okay.
Speaker 3: You're a little bit more modest.
Speaker 7: I can tell then, because like if someone got me
Speaker 7: a ring that was too big.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, hell, yeah, yo, baby, Well you also.
Speaker 5: Have giant hands. Why you're you're a giant man hands?
Speaker 7: Well they're They're not giant in the sense that they're
Speaker 7: like long or anything. They're just like they're thick sausages.
Speaker 5: She can pull them a basketball.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but this girl's got dainty, little princess hands.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 14: I'm just I'm just a girl.
Speaker 5: Does it I mean does it? Does it?
Speaker 1: Is it one of those stones that's just a solitaire
Speaker 1: that's gonna catch on your sweater when you put your
Speaker 1: coat on.
Speaker 14: Yeah, okay, it's out there for for everybody, dissy like,
Speaker 14: I mean, it could go on top of the Christmas tree.
Speaker 5: Are you gonna get.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna get used to it? You've worn it
Speaker 1: now for a week and a half. Are you gonna
Speaker 1: get used to it? Because you will get used to it?
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 14: I mean, I'm not worried so much about like it
Speaker 14: being a hindrance to me as much as like, does
Speaker 14: it look ridiculous? You know, like no, look like does
Speaker 14: it look tacky?
Speaker 15: Like?
Speaker 14: I don't know, like.
Speaker 5: Am I Okay, I'm gonna say.
Speaker 14: Thinking too much about this?
Speaker 5: You probably are.
Speaker 1: But but if you don't like it, that's your perfect
Speaker 1: right to not really like it because it's too big.
Speaker 1: But I will say two and a half carry, which
Speaker 1: is not ridiculous. You go go to Cove and why
Speaker 1: is that at some time and look at the rings
Speaker 1: on some of the people in Cove. They are ridiculous
Speaker 1: because it's like that's an eight carrot ring the size
Speaker 1: of a peanut, M and M. Yeah on this and
Speaker 1: that that. I mean, good for you if you can
Speaker 1: afford it, that's great, but that's a lot of rings.
Speaker 7: Someone texted and said, Dave, you're way off on the price.
Speaker 7: My two carrot diamond was twenty eight thousand.
Speaker 5: That's what I mean. It depends on the quality of
Speaker 5: the diamond.
Speaker 6: I just think though, if it's if it feels like
Speaker 6: costume jewelry to you and it's like gaudy, you have
Speaker 6: to wear it forever. So if you don't say something
Speaker 6: now or try, you know, like I don't know, fix
Speaker 6: it now, then you're gonna be wearing it forever and
Speaker 6: just like take it to your grave, which I mean, hey,
Speaker 6: maybe you should take it to your grave.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Megan and maybe so she'd make it is that she
Speaker 1: got a ring for a proposed and engaged on Thanksgiving
Speaker 1: break and the ring is a two and a half
Speaker 1: carrot diamond, and she's like, it's too big.
Speaker 5: It's not me.
Speaker 1: Here's a text that says may It says my steak
Speaker 1: is too my steak is too juicy, and my house
Speaker 1: is too nice. Enjoy your ring and flaunt it.
Speaker 14: Like, yeah, I feel like these are definitely like champagne problems.
Speaker 14: But I'm also like, you're right, this is something I
Speaker 14: have to wear for the rest of my life.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, we have somebody on the phone here, Bailey, not
Speaker 1: our Bailey, but another Bailey. What do you think about
Speaker 1: the ring? Should she stop complaining and just enjoy it?
Speaker 1: Or what do you think? Bailey?
Speaker 11: Uh? Hello, so I am actually in the same exact
Speaker 11: situation right now. Oh I got proposed to over thanks
Speaker 11: Giving break. It is way too large. Mineus five carrots.
Speaker 1: And like it looks like wait, vont stopped damning?
Speaker 14: What she it looks like a what it looks like
Speaker 14: costume jewelry?
Speaker 11: Like said when I got it, and I was waiting
Speaker 11: for the ohaha, but you can pick out your own
Speaker 11: And that never happened. That shoe never dropped and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 11: this is the real thing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Davecy said it was five carrots.
Speaker 1: That's got five carrots, five carrits is comparable to probably about.
Speaker 5: An M and M right, well maybe larger, maybe larger
Speaker 5: than it's worth dam So that's worth the damn.
Speaker 11: To be you're wearing this thing around. I used my
Speaker 11: hands all the time, and that was kind of my out.
Speaker 11: So I was I you know, I mentioned multiple times
Speaker 11: like I used my hands, I boked, I do woodworking,
Speaker 11: like it gets in the way. So that was an
Speaker 11: easy out for me. But for the collar, the other
Speaker 11: out I had was it holds out my hair, it
Speaker 11: hurts my hand, it gets caught on my jeans. Like
Speaker 11: I just started mentioning those things. And then I was like, hey,
Speaker 11: like sat down one day and I was like, hey,
Speaker 11: maybe we need something more practical rather than saying it's ugly,
Speaker 11: and was the costumes. You know, it's just something a
Speaker 11: little more rapid.
Speaker 1: Did he or they? Did they go out and like
Speaker 1: pick one that's more agreeable.
Speaker 11: Uh, yes, we have looked a few times and are
Speaker 11: trying to find trying to go to the middle ground. Okay,
Speaker 11: but was definitely respected to the conversation after I said
Speaker 11: it pulled out my hair.
Speaker 1: Okay, it didn't hurt his feelings because I guess if
Speaker 1: a guy gets you were anybody gets you a five
Speaker 1: carrot ring, he is saying, I love you so much.
Speaker 1: I could have got a used Camaro for that kind
Speaker 1: of money, but I bought something for you instead. No
Speaker 1: regrets that.
Speaker 11: You told him, No regrets.
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, Bailey. Laurie is on the phone. What
Speaker 1: is your advice? Megan got a ring. It's too big.
Speaker 1: It's like the diamond is too big. She thinks it's gaudy,
Speaker 1: it's not her. What should she do? What was your experience, Laurie.
Speaker 15: Well, High morning crew. I would keep it no matter
Speaker 15: how big it is. If someone loves you that much,
Speaker 15: you should look at it every day and say somebody
Speaker 15: loves me that much.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think that's very true. Thank you bunch
Speaker 1: of text messages too.
Speaker 6: I you know what, I have a feeling though, Like
Speaker 6: you know how people get a ring and then they
Speaker 6: start wearing those like silicone rings because they're like, oh, well,
Speaker 6: this one I don't want and I don't want to
Speaker 6: lose my really nice ring, So I'm just gonna wear
Speaker 6: the sil cone one and then that's their ring then
Speaker 6: for the rest of time.
Speaker 3: So I don't want that to happen to Megan.
Speaker 1: Man if I got somebody a big five carrot ring
Speaker 1: and they went down to Walmart and got a silicone ring,
Speaker 1: I would not speak to him.
Speaker 15: And I.
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not saying this is the case for
Speaker 7: Meghan on the phone, but like, you might not know
Speaker 7: your partner very well if you ended up getting them
Speaker 7: a ring that was like way too big for their liking. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 7: especially that caller who's had a five carrot and she
Speaker 7: does a lot of handwork.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what are you doing? Feels a little off or
Speaker 3: like the partner not knowing her well enough.
Speaker 6: A lot of people are texting and saying, once you
Speaker 6: put a wedding band with it, it will look so
Speaker 6: much better. Or get a dual band or something to
Speaker 6: have small diamonds on each side and it can come
Speaker 6: together better and not look so large.
Speaker 1: Okay, somebody else on the phone, Brad, what did you
Speaker 1: want to suggest to Megan about the ring that's too big?
Speaker 1: The diamond that's too big?
Speaker 5: Brad?
Speaker 2: I mean, you can have a big ring, girl, but
Speaker 2: you also got to have another ring too. It's you
Speaker 2: can't wear that ring everywhere and when you go different places.
Speaker 2: Me and my wife have different rings. She doesn't wear
Speaker 2: the break your finger ring all the time, break.
Speaker 3: Your ring exactly. See that's what I mean.
Speaker 6: Like you you have like another another ring that you
Speaker 6: wear so that you don't like damage.
Speaker 5: I guess it's a big point. I've never heard of
Speaker 5: that before.
Speaker 3: So just get yourself a ring that you can wear
Speaker 3: all the time.
Speaker 8: I've heard of not fake, not another ring, but faux rings.
Speaker 4: Like I know somebody that's a firefighter and they have
Speaker 4: I don't know what it's called, but it's like a
Speaker 4: rubber ring that they still wear on their hand.
Speaker 8: But obviously you're not gonna wear your wedding ring into
Speaker 8: a fire.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I got I got a
Speaker 2: rubber ring for my finger because I'm a carpenter. But yeah,
Speaker 2: for her, she has two rings. So when you go
Speaker 2: to Mexico, you don't have your fake. You don't have
Speaker 2: your your finger breaker on there, you have your fake,
Speaker 2: your fake. You know, the ring is just a ring
Speaker 2: when you're were married for thirty six years.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that ring is just a ring, married for years?
Speaker 5: Thank you?
Speaker 1: Brand appreciate that a bunch of text messages tell her
Speaker 1: to calm down. Two point five is not even that big,
Speaker 1: says this text from me, DNA D here's another one
Speaker 1: from a man. Don't take away the moment. Your guy
Speaker 1: will likely adhere to your request. But it's not about
Speaker 1: the ring. It's what the ring represents, and your partner
Speaker 1: picked it out for a reason. But then somebody says,
Speaker 1: I disagree with anybody who said he did it because
Speaker 1: he loves you so much. No, he's dumb and just
Speaker 1: saw the price tag but didn't think about whether she
Speaker 1: would like it and whether this is going to be
Speaker 1: your response or not.
Speaker 3: So yes, I do think. I don't know.
Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know what I'm allowed to say,
Speaker 7: so I'll keep my mouth shut. But Vince casually talked
Speaker 7: about like if you were to propose to Alissa, and
Speaker 7: I know that they've like looked at rings and stuff,
Speaker 7: and I feel like Vaant has done the like background
Speaker 7: work to figure out what Alyssa wants.
Speaker 4: You have to do research. Yes, you have to do research.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't think about like, oh, did they use their hands?
Speaker 4: I mean I guess I would, but I still think
Speaker 4: Alyssa deserves the ring that she wants, and whenever that
Speaker 4: time comes, we have gone shop and she's told me
Speaker 4: about the band and I know her size and the
Speaker 4: mounting and I don't know what any of that actually means,
Speaker 4: but I wrote it down. But I wrote it down
Speaker 4: and shout out to the people at Wedding Day Diamonds
Speaker 4: when we went, super.
Speaker 1: Helpful shout out we d Diamonds. Absolutely. Okay, So Megan,
Speaker 1: what is the consensus here? I think that if you
Speaker 1: want to, you can go back to him and say,
Speaker 1: I love you, this is wonderful. I just want something
Speaker 1: that's a little bit understated. I appreciate it so much,
Speaker 1: and then, you know, don't make him feel bad about it,
Speaker 1: but then make him understand that, you know, you got
Speaker 1: to wear this is going to get caught on your
Speaker 1: sweater for sure.
Speaker 14: Yeah. Like I mean, like he knew and wanted a solitaire.
Speaker 14: I just didn't think I had to tell him, don't
Speaker 14: get a diamond too big, because I just felt like
Speaker 14: that's you know, usually girls are like, oh I wish
Speaker 14: I had a bigger diamond. So I just didn't assume
Speaker 14: that I would get a diamond bigger than I wanted.
Speaker 14: I just was like, this is the style I liked.
Speaker 14: I didn't think I had to gap him something to go.
Speaker 1: Well, I either if you're happy with him one way
Speaker 1: or another, it'll work out. This won't break you up. Megan,
Speaker 1: good luck. My diamond shoes are too tough.
Speaker 3: If you have like long hair.
Speaker 7: She can like run her hands through his hair and
Speaker 7: purposely try to get the ring stuck and yank it.
Speaker 3: And be like, oh no, I don't want to be
Speaker 3: doing this all the time. I should probably give me.
Speaker 1: A ring exactly. That is what That's not really a
Speaker 1: group therapy. That was just somebody with a with an
Speaker 1: interesting story thanking.
Speaker 5: Megan. Appreciate it.