WEBVTT - 7am Hour - Champagne Problems 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.920 And in the morning show on Katie w B Viki's 0:00:02.960 --> 0:00:06.080 won yesterday. Yay, she lost last night. I don't care 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:07.920 how you feel about that. I don't really care myself 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:08.520 that much. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:09.120 Uh. 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:12.640 And tonight it is going to be the Eagles and 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:15.560 the Chargers. I hate the Eagles, so I'm going to 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:17.000 be pulling for the Chargers. 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:22.840 So yeah, a football not a football fan at all. 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:24.840 I almost said a gold just now, but just by 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:26.800 association next. 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:27.360 To Philly here. 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:30.280 They want to change the name of American football, uh 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:33.559 to instead of football, they want to change it to 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:34.000 something else. 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:35.800 They want to call it pig skin. You heard about this. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:38.600 It is done technically soccer if you like, say it 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:40.040 in Spanish technically. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:42.880 Yeah, well in football, that's football in around the world, 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:44.880 that's what they call soccer. We call it soccer. 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:47.600 Uh. And they want to change it to something else. 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.199 But pig skin is dumb. Skin is kind of did 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:52.479 they also say butterball or yardball. 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:55.360 Something they might have, but it's not going to change. 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.120 It's still going to be football. Uh. 0:00:57.360 --> 0:00:59.800 So we're we're you know, we we basically talk about 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:02.080 our life here on the show, and Bailey has got 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:06.080 I don't think it's a dilemma or a decision that 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:08.119 you've already made of what's going on. 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:11.119 Yeah, so this is it's a long story short here. 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:14.840 So I have a young woman who is kind of 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:19.000 like my niece. So my sister dated this guy for 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:22.360 about ten years in her twenties, and he had two 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:25.800 kids and one a girl who was five when I 0:01:25.840 --> 0:01:28.800 met her, and his son who was two. And they 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:31.640 for a while, like when my sister and I still 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:34.600 lived at home with my mom, these kids were also 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:37.319 kind of living with us too, and so I've watched 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:39.480 these kids like grow up. And then my sister and 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:43.280 her boyfriend broke up, and I kept in contact with 0:01:44.319 --> 0:01:47.680 his daughter. Her name is Jaden, and so Jaden now 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:51.440 is eighteen, and I see Jaden probably once or twice 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:54.720 a year, but we still stay in contact, like over Instagram. 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:59.680 She's a senior in high school now and her parents 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:04.080 do not care about her. So she left her mother's 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:07.400 house because you know, fundamental differences. 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:08.920 She moved in with her dad. 0:02:09.800 --> 0:02:12.040 And he's the one that dated my sister, and he's 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:15.520 kind of you know, flighty as well, like left the 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:18.799 state to kind of go find himself in Colorado, like right, 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:23.040 when Jaden was starting high school, got someone else pregnant 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:25.400 in Colorado. So he's got a kid in Colorado. He 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:28.200 left his two kids in Minnesota. He ended up coming 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.880 back to Minnesota. It's a weird, long story. So Jade 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:34.200 was living with him and then she was on a 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:37.520 school trip and he texted her saying that he lost 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.240 to their apartment and so then he moved in with 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:44.040 some random like friend of his and essentially said, Jaden, 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:47.440 good luck to you. And she wasn't like a I 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:49.840 guess not allowed, but like wasn't welcome back in her 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.840 mother's home or didn't want to go back to her 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:54.600 mother's home for whatever her reasons are. So she lived 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:56.800 with her boyfriend and now she's living with her friend, 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:00.480 which is, I mean great, I'm glad that her friend 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:01.639 has you know, a bit. 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:03.799 But the offshoot is she wants to move you want 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:04.520 her to move in with you? 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:04.880 Yep. 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.279 So the so now Jaden. 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:10.920 Is applying for colleges all around the state and she 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.000 asked me the other day, if I get into a 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:17.440 college down by you can I live with you? And 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.080 I sat on it for maybe like five hours, and 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:22.160 then I just said, like we would have to talk 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:24.519 about it more and like figure it out some more, 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:27.239 because in my brain, like she'll go to college, she'll 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.280 meet friends, and then her and her friends will all 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:33.120 move in together, like that's how it works in college. 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.360 So that's kind of like my thought process. But I 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:38.240 want her to have a home. She deserves a home. 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:42.240 She deserves to have one singular adult person who cares 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:44.400 about her. And if that's me, then it's me. She 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:46.200 can't move in with my sister. My sister has, you know, 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:49.600 a family, and I have nothing, like I have a cat, 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.280 like so, and I'm planning on buying a house eventually, 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:53.840 Like right now, if she moved in with me, it 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:55.640 would be kind of crappy because I live in a 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:59.880 one bedroom apartment. But if I buy a house, like 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.840 I could even be looking for a house that. 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:04.600 Way, when thinking about when you think about having her 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:05.000 move in. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.880 It wouldn't be until she starts college, so now. 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:08.680 Which is next August, Okay. 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:10.720 Probably, so it would be a while. 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.040 And she and she said, it's if she gets into 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:15.000 a school down here, she might end up going to 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:17.320 a school somewhere else. I feel like her situation is 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:20.440 primed her for some like good scholarships potentially, like she 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:21.080 has nothing. 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:23.240 She just has nothing, and she. 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:25.080 Is such a good kid, so it would be different 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:27.320 if she was like kind of a screw up, you know, 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:28.279 and like, well. 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:30.800 That's my big question, is like my first response is no, 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:33.640 they're family members of mine that would love to move 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.600 in with me. I would not let them because they 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:40.520 are kind of lifelong screw ups and they would continue 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.080 to be. I think that sometimes, you know, we all 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:44.760 look at like, if we do right. 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:47.280 For the world, the world will. 0:04:47.080 --> 0:04:50.640 Do right for us. And it doesn't always work that way. 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:52.719 It's like, Okay, if you give your bum of a 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.840 sister a thousand dollars, you think, okay, this is going 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:58.160 to give her her struggle, she'll blow it on nails 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:01.640 and pizza and weed, and then one another thousand dollars. 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:03.640 So I think sometimes we look at some people and 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:06.119 we go we want to help them. They'll go ahead 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.280 and they'll do exactly what they should do. And it's 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:10.120 not always that way. But you say, she's not a 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:10.760 screw up. 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:13.000 No, she's not like that at all. She's like, you know, 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:16.279 in NHS or whatever, she just did her like school play. 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:20.280 She was like never allowed to really be involved in school. 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:23.560 So what would you do? What would you do? 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:26.680 You think that Bailey should let her sort of niece 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:29.360 move in, So would you call her your niece? Would 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:31.520 you let her move in? I would approach with caution, 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:35.479 That's just me because I know that you're a wonderful person, 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:38.080 You're very giving. But I would approach with caution because 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:40.200 what you don't want is for her to get there. 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:43.560 Then you're trapped. She doesn't have anywhere to go, and 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:47.599 now she doesn't have anywhere to go. And if she's responsible, great, 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:49.800 but if she's irresponsible, what do you. 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.240 Think, Jenny, Yeah, I mean I think Bailey has the 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:55.000 kindest heart ever, and like it's amazing that she's willing 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.520 to do this. I just know if I was in 0:05:56.560 --> 0:06:00.200 the same position, I would try to help her find 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:02.800 and housing the best I could to not have to 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:06.120 have her live with me. I don't think I could 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.920 do it at this point in my life. But Bailey 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:10.680 is a better person than me in that way then. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:13.080 And I don't think I'm like a better I don't 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:16.120 think I'm better than anybody. I just like because people 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:18.400 are saying, like, well, this is going to disrupt your life, 0:06:18.760 --> 0:06:21.760 but like my life has been the same for my 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:24.919 like for the foreseeable like past, I've. 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:26.080 Had the same exact life. 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.279 So if this is the first thing that's disrupting my 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:30.839 life and it's for somebody I care so much about, 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:32.039 then it's worth it. 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:32.599 Yeah. 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.160 My concern is just we had to take a break. 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:34.440 Okay. 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:35.960 I do want to hear what you want to say 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:37.360 on but we do need to take a break. I'd 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:39.280 love to hear what you say too, because I think 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:41.480 this is a really it's a wonderful thing. But I 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:43.120 just don't want you to look at the world in 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:45.280 rose colored glasses and think it's all going to turn out. 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:45.599 Okay. 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:48.000 I want you to examine it for a while and 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.160 think about whether it's a good idea. And my worry 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:52.440 is that she'll get there and then you'll be trapped 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:54.360 in an ugly situation and she'll have nowhere to go. 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:55.840 I want to hear what you think. We'll come back 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:58.679 in a second on KDWB. Oh my God, we're on TV. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:06:59.440 Wow. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:03.640 Check us out on YouTube Dave Ryan TV. We are 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:06.200 going to do a Christmas wish coming up. Masscara Alert 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.720 coming up in about another ten to fifteen minutes. Live 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:12.840 as it happens on Katie abb So, Bailey has somebody 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:14.840 who's close to her that she calls her her niece 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:16.840 because she's not really her niece, but she feels like 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:22.200 a niece. She's eighteen and she has not good parents. No, 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:24.960 that's just the way it is. And so Bailey is 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:29.600 thinking about letting this person, her niece, move in with 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:32.840 Bailey because she has really where is she living now? 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:36.600 She lives in Duluth with She lives with a friend 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:39.080 of hers that she met at church and her their 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:43.080 family is letting Jaden live with them until. 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:43.440 School is over. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:45.440 How long is she live there now? 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:47.040 She's only been there a couple of weeks. 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:48.080 Where does she live before that? 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:49.160 Her boyfriend's house? 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:51.040 What happened there? Just broke up? 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:52.040 No, they didn't break up. 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:54.080 She said that living with him was kind of affecting 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:57.320 their relationship because they didn't have like their own private 0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:01.640 spaces because they weren't expecting to bring in Jayden because 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.720 her dad. She was living with her dad, and then 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:07.400 her dad lost the apartment. They got, you know, evicted 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:10.120 from the apartment, and he essentially told Jayden good luck man. 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:11.960 I just want to say, if you had good parents 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:13.920 that took good care of you and were responsible and 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:17.320 set you on the right path. Thank them as often 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:19.920 as you can. Thank them frequently. Because I had such 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:23.240 great parents. We never struggled with, like you know, we're 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:26.520 like any kind of problems or losing the house or 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:28.800 anything like that. So if you are, you are very blessed. 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:31.200 If you have good parents. I know that mom drives 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:35.679 you crazy sometimes, but you were very blessed. So the 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:38.800 question is you've already decided to do this, and she'll 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:40.720 move in at the end of next August when she 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:41.480 starts school with you. 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:44.199 If well, yeah, that's if she gets to She said, 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:46.080 if I get into a school down there, can I 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:48.360 move in with you? And in my brain I think, well, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.080 you should live in the dorm so you can create 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:53.400 a community. But if she's gonna need somewhere to go 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:57.800 on breaks, weekends, whatever, I want my house and someone 0:08:57.800 --> 0:08:59.400 who loves her to be that spot for her. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.760 Okay, not a full time move, it's just like weeks 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:02.920 and weekends and that type of thing. 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:04.480 We would have to talk about it. She just asked, 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:05.199 can I move in with you? 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:08.120 And I said yes, okay, So we're looking at different 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:10.679 opinions here, and there's all kinds of different opinions and experiences. 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:14.400 We're going to talk to Kelly first, randomly. Kelly, do 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:17.160 you think it's a good idea or a bad idea? 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.720 What do you think, Kelly? 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:21.679 I think this is Kelly is online a lot? 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:26.240 Is this? Leah? I what's your name? 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:28.120 My name is Leah? 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:29.480 Okay, Leah, I'm sorry, go ahead. 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:33.240 I think it's a good idea. It's something that my 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:35.560 mom did when I was younger, and it worked out 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:38.679 incredibly well for my friend. If she hadn't done it 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:41.360 to help her out, she probably would not be where 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:46.360 she is today, super successful nurse. I just think if 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:48.160 it's something that you can do, you should do it 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:53.079 weekends is holidays. You're going to give her a chance 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:54.320 she might not otherwise have. 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:57.440 Okay, yeah, you know I've made a difference. I didn't 0:09:57.440 --> 0:09:58.920 realize it. It was going to be like you hope she 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.120 gets into a dorm. She doesn't get into the dorm. 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.120 If she can live with you full time, I. 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:05.520 Mean that's she I don't know if she really has 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:07.600 like a lot of knowledge of how you know, like 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:10.360 dorms and like college stuff works. So she's like, well, 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:12.240 if I live with you, I'll save money so I 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:14.280 don't have to spend it on dorms. And I'm thinking, like, 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:17.040 let's get you a scholarship for free room and board 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:19.320 because I need you to live in a dorm so 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.839 you can create like community, fine friends, because that's you're 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:24.680 gonna end up living with those people anyway, Like I 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:26.280 lived with people from college all the time. 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:28.960 Kelly, what did you think? What did you and you 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:29.480 have an opinion? 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:34.280 Kelly, I just think that what Bailey is trying to 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:37.800 do is great, and if it's on weekends and holidays, wonderful, 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:40.680 But I think full time. You know, you have to 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:44.080 remember this is a girl you said didn't have a 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:48.840 lot of extra things in high school. So she's also eighteen. 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:52.760 She's going to want to be doing things that maybe 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:56.319 Bailey doesn't agree with, or things that Bailey might be 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:57.079 surprised by. 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:01.280 I know, I get what you mean, because like obviously, 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.920 when we're all eighteen, like young, especially you know, in 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:07.440 early twenties or whatever, we're gonna be like crazy, like 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:10.440 let's go party, party, party, And I just don't think 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:12.520 that she's that kind of person. It would it would 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:15.199 be so much easier for me if she was kind 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:18.200 of like a some kind of screw up, you know, 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.280 like doing making bad choices. 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.600 But she's so like I don't know. 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:24.559 I can't describe her because obviously no one on the 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:27.200 show knows who she is except for me. But I 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:28.960 mean a lot of people are texting in saying like 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:32.640 it sounds like she has zero like positive adult role models, 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:34.720 and that's all I want to be for her and 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:37.480 have have her have a home. So even if like yeah, 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:39.600 like if she has her boyfriend over and I'm like, 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.439 oh gosh, this guy again, it's like a price I'm 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:44.600 willing to pay, like as long as she's not doing 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:47.719 drugs in my house, like and I she wouldn't as 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:49.120 far as I know, she wouldn't. 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:51.760 If and if she did, then I don't know her. 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:54.439 At all, I guess, but I feel and I understand 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.040 what people where people are coming from with that, like 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:57.600 you're gonna regret it, You're gonna regret it. 0:11:57.800 --> 0:12:00.480 Well, I just worry for you because I you know, 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.199 you've got a great little life. I know that you've 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:03.840 got you know, you live alone, and you've got you know, 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:07.440 the opportunity to do it. I just want it to 0:12:07.480 --> 0:12:10.240 work out, right, But because I worry that if for 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:14.280 whatever reason, it doesn't work out, now she's there with 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.360 nowhere to go, then what are you gonna do? 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:16.920 You know? 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:18.440 Then where are you playing? 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:20.839 And then couldn't I be like a stepping stone for 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:23.200 her to figure it out? Because like, I don't think 0:12:23.240 --> 0:12:26.040 she has someone to help her. She doesn't know how 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:29.160 to drive. Like she has a job, so at least 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:31.000 she's like, you know, she's worked in a couple of 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:34.120 jobs before, so she has that drive, but like she 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:36.640 needs somebody to teach her how to drive. She needs 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:39.280 somebody to be like, hey, I found this cool job 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.280 for you, maybe you could do this, or hey, what 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:42.360 are your hopes and dreams? 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:43.800 Where do you want to go with your life? Let's 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:45.720 make it happen for you? Because she doesn't have that. 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:47.720 Here's a couple of time we had a tone of 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:50.360 text messages a lot of people who had experiences. Yes, 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:52.360 let her move in. Every kid deserved to have one 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:54.000 adult who showed him love. I took in two of 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:56.720 my nieces at separate times while raising two of my own. 0:12:56.760 --> 0:13:00.080 It wasn't always easy, but never once regret it, and 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:01.920 their both told me the impact that it made to 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.719 have someone who they could trust, someone who helped them 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:07.200 is someone who they could rely on. And I think 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.720 sometimes it's true that somebody like that will move in 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:12.520 with someone who's a little bit sketchy, and the sketchy 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:15.160 person does not make their life better, it makes it 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:16.520 hard on everyone. 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:19.920 Can I ask you this, Sily, do you think if 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:23.520 she does move in, are you gonna set like kind 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:26.160 of strict to ish ground rules to the extent of, like, 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:28.040 I know you're in college, but like we're not going 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:30.360 to be up partying until you in the morning. Like yeah, 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.559 you think you'll set those boundaries at least. 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:34.760 For me, Yeah, because I don't think she would like 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:36.400 go out of her way to break any of those. 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:39.320 And also, like, depending on where I buy a house, 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.120 it's not like I'm buying a house in dinky town, 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:43.560 you know, So it's not like she can. 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:46.080 Like, oh, I'm gonna go walk over because she can't drive. 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:49.240 So it's not like she's gonna be out partying and 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:51.400 then like stumble in because what if I live in 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:52.720 Saint Louis Park, you know. 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:55.080 And I think it's just so that. 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:58.880 She has a stable place to call her own which 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:00.520 she has not had so long. 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:02.760 So there's somebody like that in my family, and I 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:05.120 won't be specific, but there is somebody who had not 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.400 the best parents. They raised her and gave her a 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:09.079 place to live in food and that type of thing, 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:11.200 but they did not set her on the right path. 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:15.320 And to this day she is still struggling right And 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:17.959 she'll put up something on Facebook that says, hey, can 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:20.200 anybody give me money for gas or groceries? Because I 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:22.560 don't have anything right now. Yeah, and it's because of 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:26.280 a lot of bad decisions, because she never really learned 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:28.400 to make good decisions. 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:30.800 So that's a tough one. 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:32.880 I admire you for considering it, because I'm a turd 0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:36.600 and I would be like, can you move in with Jenny? 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:40.480 Maybe your uncle Carl. Carl's got a lot of room, Carl, 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:41.760 can have you come move there? 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:42.960 Can I read something? 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:46.320 Mean? Somebody just says to me, Bailly will bail out 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:48.320 of the show due to this niece. Bailey's trying to 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:49.920 be a mom because she can't have one of her 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:50.640 own children. 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.560 I mean, that was pretty that jumped. 0:14:54.320 --> 0:15:01.840 Me write that in Yeah, come on now, hey, you 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:03.680 know what You're right, I don't have a kid. I 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:05.680 don't have a family. If this is the family that 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:08.000 I get dealt with in my entire life, then this 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:09.000 is the family I want. 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:09.520 Period. 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:13.520 I want you to be able to do this because 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:15.240 you're able to, you know, and I'm glad that you're 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:16.760 helping somebody, But I want you to be able to 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:18.520 still stand on your two feet. I'm not saying that 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.720 you know that will happen, but you know you you're 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:23.280 content with the life that you have. You know, you 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:25.160 have cap and you have your one bedroom apartment. I 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:26.920 don't want it to become too much for you then 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:27.800 both of you suffer. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:28.720 I mean, maybe I. 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:31.440 Just maybe I need a change, like because I've you know, 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.480 I've had the same life for a long time. So like, 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:35.880 if this is the change, maybe she can be better 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:36.360 for me too. 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.880 What if Michael Jackson say I'm going to make a 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:47.120 change for once in mine. 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:49.920 Well, remember Michael let Jermaine move in with him because 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:51.360 Jermaine didn't have anything else. 0:15:52.200 --> 0:16:03.200 So kd W B. 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