1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: And in the morning show on Katie w B Viki's 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: won yesterday. Yay, she lost last night. I don't care 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: how you feel about that. I don't really care myself 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: that much. 5 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 2: Uh. 6 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: And tonight it is going to be the Eagles and 7 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: the Chargers. I hate the Eagles, so I'm going to 8 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: be pulling for the Chargers. 9 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 3: So yeah, a football not a football fan at all. 10 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 4: I almost said a gold just now, but just by 11 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 4: association next. 12 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 5: To Philly here. 13 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: They want to change the name of American football, uh 14 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: to instead of football, they want to change it to 15 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: something else. 16 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 5: They want to call it pig skin. You heard about this. 17 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 4: It is done technically soccer if you like, say it 18 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 4: in Spanish technically. 19 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, well in football, that's football in around the world, 20 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 1: that's what they call soccer. We call it soccer. 21 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 5: Uh. And they want to change it to something else. 22 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 3: But pig skin is dumb. Skin is kind of did 23 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 3: they also say butterball or yardball. 24 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 5: Something they might have, but it's not going to change. 25 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 5: It's still going to be football. Uh. 26 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: So we're we're you know, we we basically talk about 27 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: our life here on the show, and Bailey has got 28 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a dilemma or a decision that 29 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: you've already made of what's going on. 30 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is it's a long story short here. 31 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 6: So I have a young woman who is kind of 32 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 6: like my niece. So my sister dated this guy for 33 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 6: about ten years in her twenties, and he had two 34 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 6: kids and one a girl who was five when I 35 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 6: met her, and his son who was two. And they 36 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 6: for a while, like when my sister and I still 37 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 6: lived at home with my mom, these kids were also 38 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 6: kind of living with us too, and so I've watched 39 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 6: these kids like grow up. And then my sister and 40 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 6: her boyfriend broke up, and I kept in contact with 41 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 6: his daughter. Her name is Jaden, and so Jaden now 42 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 6: is eighteen, and I see Jaden probably once or twice 43 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 6: a year, but we still stay in contact, like over Instagram. 44 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 6: She's a senior in high school now and her parents 45 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 6: do not care about her. So she left her mother's 46 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 6: house because you know, fundamental differences. 47 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 3: She moved in with her dad. 48 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 6: And he's the one that dated my sister, and he's 49 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 6: kind of you know, flighty as well, like left the 50 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 6: state to kind of go find himself in Colorado, like right, 51 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 6: when Jaden was starting high school, got someone else pregnant 52 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 6: in Colorado. So he's got a kid in Colorado. He 53 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 6: left his two kids in Minnesota. He ended up coming 54 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 6: back to Minnesota. It's a weird, long story. So Jade 55 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 6: was living with him and then she was on a 56 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 6: school trip and he texted her saying that he lost 57 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 6: to their apartment and so then he moved in with 58 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 6: some random like friend of his and essentially said, Jaden, 59 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 6: good luck to you. And she wasn't like a I 60 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 6: guess not allowed, but like wasn't welcome back in her 61 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 6: mother's home or didn't want to go back to her 62 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 6: mother's home for whatever her reasons are. So she lived 63 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 6: with her boyfriend and now she's living with her friend, 64 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 6: which is, I mean great, I'm glad that her friend 65 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 6: has you know, a bit. 66 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 5: But the offshoot is she wants to move you want 67 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 5: her to move in with you? 68 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 2: Yep. 69 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,279 Speaker 3: So the so now Jaden. 70 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 6: Is applying for colleges all around the state and she 71 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 6: asked me the other day, if I get into a 72 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 6: college down by you can I live with you? And 73 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 6: I sat on it for maybe like five hours, and 74 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 6: then I just said, like we would have to talk 75 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 6: about it more and like figure it out some more, 76 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,239 Speaker 6: because in my brain, like she'll go to college, she'll 77 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 6: meet friends, and then her and her friends will all 78 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 6: move in together, like that's how it works in college. 79 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 6: So that's kind of like my thought process. But I 80 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 6: want her to have a home. She deserves a home. 81 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 6: She deserves to have one singular adult person who cares 82 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 6: about her. And if that's me, then it's me. She 83 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 6: can't move in with my sister. My sister has, you know, 84 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 6: a family, and I have nothing, like I have a cat, 85 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 6: like so, and I'm planning on buying a house eventually, 86 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 6: Like right now, if she moved in with me, it 87 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 6: would be kind of crappy because I live in a 88 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 6: one bedroom apartment. But if I buy a house, like 89 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 6: I could even be looking for a house that. 90 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 5: Way, when thinking about when you think about having her 91 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 5: move in. 92 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 3: It wouldn't be until she starts college, so now. 93 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 5: Which is next August, Okay. 94 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 3: Probably, so it would be a while. 95 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 6: And she and she said, it's if she gets into 96 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 6: a school down here, she might end up going to 97 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 6: a school somewhere else. I feel like her situation is 98 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 6: primed her for some like good scholarships potentially, like she 99 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 6: has nothing. 100 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 3: She just has nothing, and she. 101 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 6: Is such a good kid, so it would be different 102 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 6: if she was like kind of a screw up, you know, 103 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 6: and like, well. 104 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: That's my big question, is like my first response is no, 105 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: they're family members of mine that would love to move 106 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 1: in with me. I would not let them because they 107 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: are kind of lifelong screw ups and they would continue 108 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: to be. I think that sometimes, you know, we all 109 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: look at like, if we do right. 110 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 5: For the world, the world will. 111 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: Do right for us. And it doesn't always work that way. 112 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, if you give your bum of a 113 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 1: sister a thousand dollars, you think, okay, this is going 114 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 1: to give her her struggle, she'll blow it on nails 115 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: and pizza and weed, and then one another thousand dollars. 116 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: So I think sometimes we look at some people and 117 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,119 Speaker 1: we go we want to help them. They'll go ahead 118 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: and they'll do exactly what they should do. And it's 119 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: not always that way. But you say, she's not a 120 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: screw up. 121 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 6: No, she's not like that at all. She's like, you know, 122 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 6: in NHS or whatever, she just did her like school play. 123 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 6: She was like never allowed to really be involved in school. 124 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 5: So what would you do? What would you do? 125 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: You think that Bailey should let her sort of niece 126 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: move in, So would you call her your niece? Would 127 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: you let her move in? I would approach with caution, 128 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: That's just me because I know that you're a wonderful person, 129 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: You're very giving. But I would approach with caution because 130 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: what you don't want is for her to get there. 131 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 1: Then you're trapped. She doesn't have anywhere to go, and 132 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: now she doesn't have anywhere to go. And if she's responsible, great, 133 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: but if she's irresponsible, what do you. 134 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 7: Think, Jenny, Yeah, I mean I think Bailey has the 135 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 7: kindest heart ever, and like it's amazing that she's willing 136 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 7: to do this. I just know if I was in 137 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 7: the same position, I would try to help her find 138 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 7: and housing the best I could to not have to 139 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 7: have her live with me. I don't think I could 140 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 7: do it at this point in my life. But Bailey 141 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 7: is a better person than me in that way then. 142 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 6: And I don't think I'm like a better I don't 143 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 6: think I'm better than anybody. I just like because people 144 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 6: are saying, like, well, this is going to disrupt your life, 145 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 6: but like my life has been the same for my 146 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 6: like for the foreseeable like past, I've. 147 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 3: Had the same exact life. 148 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 6: So if this is the first thing that's disrupting my 149 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 6: life and it's for somebody I care so much about, 150 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 6: then it's worth it. 151 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 8: Yeah. 152 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 5: My concern is just we had to take a break. 153 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 3: Okay. 154 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: I do want to hear what you want to say 155 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: on but we do need to take a break. I'd 156 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: love to hear what you say too, because I think 157 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: this is a really it's a wonderful thing. But I 158 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 1: just don't want you to look at the world in 159 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: rose colored glasses and think it's all going to turn out. 160 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 5: Okay. 161 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: I want you to examine it for a while and 162 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 1: think about whether it's a good idea. And my worry 163 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: is that she'll get there and then you'll be trapped 164 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 1: in an ugly situation and she'll have nowhere to go. 165 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: I want to hear what you think. We'll come back 166 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,679 Speaker 1: in a second on KDWB. Oh my God, we're on TV. 167 00:06:59,120 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 5: Wow. 168 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: Check us out on YouTube Dave Ryan TV. We are 169 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: going to do a Christmas wish coming up. Masscara Alert 170 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 1: coming up in about another ten to fifteen minutes. Live 171 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: as it happens on Katie abb So, Bailey has somebody 172 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: who's close to her that she calls her her niece 173 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: because she's not really her niece, but she feels like 174 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: a niece. She's eighteen and she has not good parents. No, 175 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: that's just the way it is. And so Bailey is 176 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: thinking about letting this person, her niece, move in with 177 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: Bailey because she has really where is she living now? 178 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 6: She lives in Duluth with She lives with a friend 179 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 6: of hers that she met at church and her their 180 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 6: family is letting Jaden live with them until. 181 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 3: School is over. 182 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 5: How long is she live there now? 183 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 3: She's only been there a couple of weeks. 184 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 5: Where does she live before that? 185 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 3: Her boyfriend's house? 186 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 5: What happened there? Just broke up? 187 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 3: No, they didn't break up. 188 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 6: She said that living with him was kind of affecting 189 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 6: their relationship because they didn't have like their own private 190 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 6: spaces because they weren't expecting to bring in Jayden because 191 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 6: her dad. She was living with her dad, and then 192 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 6: her dad lost the apartment. They got, you know, evicted 193 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 6: from the apartment, and he essentially told Jayden good luck man. 194 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: I just want to say, if you had good parents 195 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: that took good care of you and were responsible and 196 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: set you on the right path. Thank them as often 197 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: as you can. Thank them frequently. Because I had such 198 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: great parents. We never struggled with, like you know, we're 199 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: like any kind of problems or losing the house or 200 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: anything like that. So if you are, you are very blessed. 201 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: If you have good parents. I know that mom drives 202 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 1: you crazy sometimes, but you were very blessed. So the 203 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: question is you've already decided to do this, and she'll 204 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: move in at the end of next August when she 205 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: starts school with you. 206 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 6: If well, yeah, that's if she gets to She said, 207 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 6: if I get into a school down there, can I 208 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 6: move in with you? And in my brain I think, well, 209 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 6: you should live in the dorm so you can create 210 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 6: a community. But if she's gonna need somewhere to go 211 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 6: on breaks, weekends, whatever, I want my house and someone 212 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 6: who loves her to be that spot for her. 213 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 5: Okay, not a full time move, it's just like weeks 214 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 5: and weekends and that type of thing. 215 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 3: We would have to talk about it. She just asked, 216 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 3: can I move in with you? 217 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: And I said yes, okay, So we're looking at different 218 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,679 Speaker 1: opinions here, and there's all kinds of different opinions and experiences. 219 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: We're going to talk to Kelly first, randomly. Kelly, do 220 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: you think it's a good idea or a bad idea? 221 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 5: What do you think, Kelly? 222 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 3: I think this is Kelly is online a lot? 223 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 5: Is this? Leah? I what's your name? 224 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 9: My name is Leah? 225 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 5: Okay, Leah, I'm sorry, go ahead. 226 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 10: I think it's a good idea. It's something that my 227 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 10: mom did when I was younger, and it worked out 228 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 10: incredibly well for my friend. If she hadn't done it 229 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 10: to help her out, she probably would not be where 230 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 10: she is today, super successful nurse. I just think if 231 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 10: it's something that you can do, you should do it 232 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 10: weekends is holidays. You're going to give her a chance 233 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 10: she might not otherwise have. 234 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you know I've made a difference. I didn't 235 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: realize it. It was going to be like you hope she 236 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: gets into a dorm. She doesn't get into the dorm. 237 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: If she can live with you full time, I. 238 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 6: Mean that's she I don't know if she really has 239 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 6: like a lot of knowledge of how you know, like 240 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 6: dorms and like college stuff works. So she's like, well, 241 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 6: if I live with you, I'll save money so I 242 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 6: don't have to spend it on dorms. And I'm thinking, like, 243 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 6: let's get you a scholarship for free room and board 244 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 6: because I need you to live in a dorm so 245 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 6: you can create like community, fine friends, because that's you're 246 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 6: gonna end up living with those people anyway, Like I 247 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 6: lived with people from college all the time. 248 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 5: Kelly, what did you think? What did you and you 249 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 5: have an opinion? 250 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 9: Kelly, I just think that what Bailey is trying to 251 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 9: do is great, and if it's on weekends and holidays, wonderful, 252 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 9: But I think full time. You know, you have to 253 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 9: remember this is a girl you said didn't have a 254 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 9: lot of extra things in high school. So she's also eighteen. 255 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 9: She's going to want to be doing things that maybe 256 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 9: Bailey doesn't agree with, or things that Bailey might be 257 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:57,079 Speaker 9: surprised by. 258 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 6: I know, I get what you mean, because like obviously, 259 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 6: when we're all eighteen, like young, especially you know, in 260 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 6: early twenties or whatever, we're gonna be like crazy, like 261 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 6: let's go party, party, party, And I just don't think 262 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 6: that she's that kind of person. It would it would 263 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 6: be so much easier for me if she was kind 264 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 6: of like a some kind of screw up, you know, 265 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 6: like doing making bad choices. 266 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: But she's so like I don't know. 267 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 6: I can't describe her because obviously no one on the 268 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 6: show knows who she is except for me. But I 269 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 6: mean a lot of people are texting in saying like 270 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 6: it sounds like she has zero like positive adult role models, 271 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 6: and that's all I want to be for her and 272 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 6: have have her have a home. So even if like yeah, 273 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 6: like if she has her boyfriend over and I'm like, 274 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,439 Speaker 6: oh gosh, this guy again, it's like a price I'm 275 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 6: willing to pay, like as long as she's not doing 276 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,719 Speaker 6: drugs in my house, like and I she wouldn't as 277 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 6: far as I know, she wouldn't. 278 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 3: If and if she did, then I don't know her. 279 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 6: At all, I guess, but I feel and I understand 280 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 6: what people where people are coming from with that, like 281 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 6: you're gonna regret it, You're gonna regret it. 282 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: Well, I just worry for you because I you know, 283 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 1: you've got a great little life. I know that you've 284 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: got you know, you live alone, and you've got you know, 285 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: the opportunity to do it. I just want it to 286 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: work out, right, But because I worry that if for 287 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: whatever reason, it doesn't work out, now she's there with 288 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 1: nowhere to go, then what are you gonna do? 289 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 5: You know? 290 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 3: Then where are you playing? 291 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 6: And then couldn't I be like a stepping stone for 292 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 6: her to figure it out? Because like, I don't think 293 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 6: she has someone to help her. She doesn't know how 294 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 6: to drive. Like she has a job, so at least 295 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 6: she's like, you know, she's worked in a couple of 296 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 6: jobs before, so she has that drive, but like she 297 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 6: needs somebody to teach her how to drive. She needs 298 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 6: somebody to be like, hey, I found this cool job 299 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 6: for you, maybe you could do this, or hey, what 300 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 6: are your hopes and dreams? 301 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 3: Where do you want to go with your life? Let's 302 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 3: make it happen for you? Because she doesn't have that. 303 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: Here's a couple of time we had a tone of 304 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: text messages a lot of people who had experiences. Yes, 305 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: let her move in. Every kid deserved to have one 306 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: adult who showed him love. I took in two of 307 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: my nieces at separate times while raising two of my own. 308 00:12:56,760 --> 00:13:00,080 Speaker 1: It wasn't always easy, but never once regret it, and 309 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: their both told me the impact that it made to 310 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 1: have someone who they could trust, someone who helped them 311 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: is someone who they could rely on. And I think 312 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: sometimes it's true that somebody like that will move in 313 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: with someone who's a little bit sketchy, and the sketchy 314 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: person does not make their life better, it makes it 315 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: hard on everyone. 316 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 7: Can I ask you this, Sily, do you think if 317 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 7: she does move in, are you gonna set like kind 318 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 7: of strict to ish ground rules to the extent of, like, 319 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 7: I know you're in college, but like we're not going 320 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 7: to be up partying until you in the morning. Like yeah, 321 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 7: you think you'll set those boundaries at least. 322 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 6: For me, Yeah, because I don't think she would like 323 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 6: go out of her way to break any of those. 324 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 6: And also, like, depending on where I buy a house, 325 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 6: it's not like I'm buying a house in dinky town, 326 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 6: you know, So it's not like she can. 327 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 3: Like, oh, I'm gonna go walk over because she can't drive. 328 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 6: So it's not like she's gonna be out partying and 329 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 6: then like stumble in because what if I live in 330 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 6: Saint Louis Park, you know. 331 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 3: And I think it's just so that. 332 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 6: She has a stable place to call her own which 333 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 6: she has not had so long. 334 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: So there's somebody like that in my family, and I 335 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: won't be specific, but there is somebody who had not 336 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: the best parents. They raised her and gave her a 337 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,079 Speaker 1: place to live in food and that type of thing, 338 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,200 Speaker 1: but they did not set her on the right path. 339 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 1: And to this day she is still struggling right And 340 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,959 Speaker 1: she'll put up something on Facebook that says, hey, can 341 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: anybody give me money for gas or groceries? Because I 342 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: don't have anything right now. Yeah, and it's because of 343 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 1: a lot of bad decisions, because she never really learned 344 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: to make good decisions. 345 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 5: So that's a tough one. 346 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: I admire you for considering it, because I'm a turd 347 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 1: and I would be like, can you move in with Jenny? 348 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: Maybe your uncle Carl. Carl's got a lot of room, Carl, 349 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: can have you come move there? 350 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 3: Can I read something? 351 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 6: Mean? Somebody just says to me, Bailly will bail out 352 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 6: of the show due to this niece. Bailey's trying to 353 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 6: be a mom because she can't have one of her 354 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 6: own children. 355 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 3: I mean, that was pretty that jumped. 356 00:14:54,320 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 6: Me write that in Yeah, come on now, hey, you 357 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 6: know what You're right, I don't have a kid. I 358 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 6: don't have a family. If this is the family that 359 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 6: I get dealt with in my entire life, then this 360 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 6: is the family I want. 361 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 3: Period. 362 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 4: I want you to be able to do this because 363 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 4: you're able to, you know, and I'm glad that you're 364 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 4: helping somebody, But I want you to be able to 365 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 4: still stand on your two feet. I'm not saying that 366 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 4: you know that will happen, but you know you you're 367 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 4: content with the life that you have. You know, you 368 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 4: have cap and you have your one bedroom apartment. I 369 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 4: don't want it to become too much for you then 370 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 4: both of you suffer. 371 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 3: I mean, maybe I. 372 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 6: Just maybe I need a change, like because I've you know, 373 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 6: I've had the same life for a long time. So like, 374 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 6: if this is the change, maybe she can be better 375 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 6: for me too. 376 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 4: What if Michael Jackson say I'm going to make a 377 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 4: change for once in mine. 378 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: Well, remember Michael let Jermaine move in with him because 379 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 1: Jermaine didn't have anything else. 380 00:15:52,200 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 5: So kd W B. Let's cover the dirt, o't gay. 381 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 1: If you want a holiday playlist guaranteed to make everybody happy. 382 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 1: They did some research and they found out that there 383 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: are twenty very happy Christmas songs. We will cover the 384 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: top three happy Christmas songs at number three. 385 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 5: But a bright time. 386 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 3: It's the right time to rock the way. 387 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 8: Jingle. 388 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: But now they base this on it's got to be 389 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: in a major key, lively and vibrant vocals at tempo 390 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: between one hundred and PM and of course that's simple 391 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: yet catchy. Here is the number two happiest Christmas song. 392 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: At Lea's. 393 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: Leise and the number one happiest Christmas song, will get. 394 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 7: Your s little deal? 395 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 3: Will you hate you. 396 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 11: A lot? 397 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 5: I'll play now on Cool. 398 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 7: All right, jumping the gun here a little bit with 399 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 7: fifty Cent, who is absolutely being the most petty guy 400 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 7: I've ever met in my life. And honestly, I'm kind 401 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 7: of here for it because you know, the documentary came 402 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 7: out that he did produce whatever on Netflix this last 403 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 7: week about Diddy, and he sat down with Good Morning America, 404 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 7: which broadcasts on ABC, and he specifically picked ABC because 405 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,959 Speaker 7: it's one of the few channels that he knows is 406 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 7: broadcast in prison, so that Didty could see the interview 407 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 7: with him and his little smile on his face the 408 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 7: entire time. 409 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 5: Wait, well, let. 410 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: Me tell you I watched the entire documentary. Diddy was 411 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: way worse than anybody could have imagined. He was abusive, 412 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: he was violent, He was is a criminal. He stole 413 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: money from people. He wouldn't pay these starving artists that 414 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: worked for him. 415 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 3: Did. 416 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 1: He would put himself into everybody's video so he would 417 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: get paid for a role in the video, even if 418 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: he shouldn't have been in the video. 419 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 5: Did. 420 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 1: He was an awful and probably still is an awful person. 421 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: I'm on Curtis's side on this one. 422 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, did you see the interview whenever, Well, it's in 423 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 4: that interview where the asked him about his favorite villain? 424 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 5: Who your favorite villain? 425 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:29,479 Speaker 8: Never mind? Don't know why that sounds like, Oh, I say, 426 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:30,400 Speaker 8: who's your favorite villain? 427 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 3: And he's like. 428 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 4: I like Diddy and he's just like like I like 429 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 4: him as a villain. Fifty is just such a stir 430 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 4: as the pot messy energy person. 431 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 5: It's so funny. 432 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:44,360 Speaker 7: Well only with people that he thinks deserves it though. Yeah, 433 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 7: that's the thing about him that I. 434 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:46,479 Speaker 5: Can did he deserves it? 435 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: Seriously watched the documentary and you're like, oh, man, I 436 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 1: knew did he was a bad boy? 437 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, but he was a bad human. 438 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 3: I just like that. You're like, I like what Curtis said. 439 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 3: You guys are on a first name basis. 440 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, me and Curtis, Yeah, you would hang out. 441 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: He's so funny because Curtis came to the radio station 442 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 1: one time years ago and he comes in and I 443 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 1: thought he'd be all like, you know, thug life and 444 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 1: bad ass and not talk to you know whatever. He's like, hey, 445 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: how are you And I'm like, oh, I'm Dave. He's like, 446 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: I'm Curtis. Good to meet you, and I'm like, wow, 447 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: he's just super friendly. The in for a play date 448 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: like that. 449 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, I shared cheese and crackers. 450 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 6: Vant Your world and My world are coming together. Vans 451 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 6: launched a collectionist shoes featuring K Pop Demon Hunter characters, 452 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 6: which vant you still have to see. It's an objectively 453 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 6: good movie. 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It's Lacey Shabbert, the girl we 464 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 4: know for was it Mean Girls? 465 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 466 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 3: Mean Girls? 467 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 4: And she because she does all the Christmas movies, she 468 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 4: has a special coming out. 469 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 12: I'm incredibly excited. I'm so honored to share. But I 470 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 12: will be starring in the all new twenty twenty six 471 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 12: Hallmark Christmas movie Holiday Ever after disney World Wish Come True, 472 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 12: filming right here on location at Walt Disney World Resort. 473 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 7: She's found that I feel like she's been in a 474 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 7: few sper cheesy. Yeah, Netflix movie is anything. 475 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 3: I do definitely like some of them. 476 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 7: However, I will say I watched a movie this weekend 477 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:40,120 Speaker 7: where a woman pretends to be Santa so she can 478 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 7: work at a ski resort to get her daughter a 479 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,880 Speaker 7: discouns so her daughter can go to some snowboarding school. 480 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 7: It was awful. This isn't though, I okay, no, this 481 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 7: isn't her at all. It's just a new one that 482 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 7: came out. It's called My Secret Santa, and it was 483 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 7: like on another level of corny that I feel like 484 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,400 Speaker 7: I just couldn't get into. So it was a movie 485 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,880 Speaker 7: I had on in the backgroum for like feel good reasons, 486 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 7: but not because I was like entertained whatsoever. 487 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 4: The only reason I'm low key excited about this is 488 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,120 Speaker 4: because it's a Disney World thing, the one in Florida, 489 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 4: and it's the first of its kind. If you've ever 490 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 4: watched I think it's on Disney plus Disney Weddings. 491 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 8: I don't know what it's called. 492 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's actually a really nice fit, like you watch 493 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 4: people have their weddings at Disney. As corny as it sounds, 494 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 4: it is a bit magical. It is magical. 495 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 6: I have actually I have a friend who got married 496 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 6: at Disney, which is so Bonker's expensive and you have 497 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 6: to wait until the park is closed, so you either 498 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 6: have to get married at like six in the morning 499 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 6: or at like nine point thirty at night. 500 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 3: To get married at Disney, they close it down for you. 501 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 7: They allow you to have a like cap of amount 502 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 7: of people that. 503 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 3: You were allowed to bring. I don't know, I think 504 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:44,640 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know. If I was. 505 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 7: Probably like I guess if you have Disney all to yourself. 506 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 7: You probably they probably don't care that much amount of people, 507 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,119 Speaker 7: but then they probably have to like escort you around. 508 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 3: Though you know that sounds great. I don't know. 509 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 6: Well, no, I know it's all great, but on a 510 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 6: horse drawn carriage, yeah, sign. 511 00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 12: I think. 512 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 7: In the last Katy Perry won super Instagram Official with 513 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 7: Justin Trudeau, so was the former Canadian Prime minister. And 514 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 7: apparently she plans to release her eighth album in the 515 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 7: beginning of next year, in the first half, I should say. 516 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,120 Speaker 7: And you know, when she was recording this during her 517 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 7: like tumultuous year with breaking up with Orlando Bloom, there. 518 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 3: Were some songs that were written about him. 519 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 7: But now people are wondering if those will even make 520 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 7: the cut because now she's in a happy relationship. So 521 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 7: is she gonna like go out there and talk about heartbreak. 522 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 4: Probably not on she deserves a win, though she needs 523 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 4: a win after the big year she's had. 524 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 5: She does seem seriously. 525 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 7: I mean, of course it's Instagram, it's the highlight reel 526 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 7: of life. But she seems pretty happy with this guy. 527 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 7: There's a video they had of each other and they 528 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 7: just like looked at each other with those googly. 529 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 3: Eyes of like, oh, you're the one for me. 530 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 5: Ah. 531 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: All right, that's the Dirk brought to you by sixty one 532 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: two Injured Heimer and Lammer's Injury Law. Let's get into 533 00:22:55,560 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 1: it right now. Live another Christmas Wish on KDWB one. 534 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 5: On one point three kt W The Dave Ryan in 535 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 5: the Morning Shows Christmas Wish. 536 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,399 Speaker 1: Good morning, Melissa, Good morning Melissa. You've been listening to 537 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: KTWB for how long? 538 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 3: Since? I was in third grade? 539 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 5: Third grade? 540 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 3: And I'm not a young human. 541 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: No, you're old now, stop it, stop it, stop it. 542 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: You are you're a teacher. 543 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 3: An educator. I'm an administrator. 544 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 5: I see. 545 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: Okay, And so how do you know Ingrid that you're 546 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: doing the wish for today? 547 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 13: Ingrid is an employee at our school and has been 548 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 13: for quite some time. And her children, two of her 549 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 13: four children went through our school as well. 550 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 5: Okay. 551 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 13: She's a pair of professional at our school and is 552 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 13: kind of the heart and soul and then also works 553 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 13: in the office in the summertime. 554 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 5: Okay. And she's been really going through it. 555 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 3: Lately, really going through it lately. 556 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 13: Yeah, just uh, she's on her second round of cancer, 557 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 13: head cancer. During COVID fought it and then it is 558 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 13: it's back Ingrid is one of the most genuine people 559 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 13: you will ever meet. She's got a heart of gold 560 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 13: and is truly the most positive person. She's kind of 561 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 13: the heart of the school because of her positivity. It 562 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 13: just radiates every just love people like that. Yeah, we 563 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,959 Speaker 13: we just love to be around her. She lights up 564 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 13: a room, every room and it's never a wooe is 565 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 13: mee situation? 566 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: Isn't that amazing? Because there are people who are like that. 567 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 1: Moon Over at KS ninety five was like that. He 568 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 1: was very sick, and that guy was just always full 569 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 1: of jokes and how are you and he would never complain. 570 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: There are people like that. We're gonna get on the 571 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: phone with her in a second. First, I want to 572 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: check in with our boy. We call him Brandon from 573 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 1: Uh He's sorry, Brandon from College Muscle Movers. 574 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 5: Hi, Brandon, good morning. What city are you in this morning? Brandon? 575 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 3: I'm in Chaska, Oh okay. 576 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: Just down the road from chan happening. Yeah, thanks for 577 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,160 Speaker 1: doing this. If you want to move and you're we're 578 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: gonna be We soon get a hold of Brandon at 579 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: College Muscle Movers. It's college musclemovers dot com. Correct, Brandon 580 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 1: will come to your house. We'll pack everything up. He 581 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 1: promises not to break anything, uh and get it all 582 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 1: move to your new location. 583 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 5: Brandon. 584 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: Thanks for delivering the wish this morning. We'll check back 585 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 1: if we need you. We're going to call. 586 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 3: We're gonna call Ingrid's daughter. 587 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 5: Okay, to make sure we get. 588 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:26,160 Speaker 3: Ahold of somebody. 589 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 8: Yeah. 590 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: Okay, So, Jenny, if you will call this number right there, Jenny, 591 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: that is the number we're gonna call live for Christmas 592 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: wish and deliver the wish as it happens here on 593 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 1: katogb work top line, top line. Okay, there we go. Hello, Hello, Hey, 594 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: it's Dave over at KATWDB. Can I talk to Ingrid? 595 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 2: Oh? 596 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 5: Hi, Ingrid? 597 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 8: How are you good? 598 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: Good Ingrid? It's like I said, it is Dave over 599 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 1: at KATWB radio, and I'm here with a coworker slash 600 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 1: friend of yours, Melissa. 601 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 5: Say hi, Melissa, Hi, Ingrid. 602 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 3: Patty's here too, just so you know. 603 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 14: Oh gosh, guys, Hi. 604 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 5: Would you have any idea why we're calling? 605 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 14: I have no idea. 606 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 11: Chelling. 607 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: So we do a thing over at katia be called 608 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,880 Speaker 1: Christmas Wish We've done it for years, and we try 609 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 1: to find people who are going through something, a challenge, 610 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 1: a struggle, uh, and we want to make your day 611 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: a little bit brighter. So we ask people who listen 612 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: to the show to tell us about somebody who they 613 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 1: know that could use what we call a Christmas wish. 614 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,239 Speaker 1: And that is when Melissa wrote in to tell us 615 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 1: about you, Ingrid, and she wrote us a letter to 616 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: tell us your story. If you got a minute, can 617 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 1: I have Melissa read that story to you? Yeah, okay, 618 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 1: whenever you're ready, Melissa, Okay, it's okay. She's got it 619 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: on her phone. She's got to find it here, take 620 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: your time. This all happens live. So okay, here we go. 621 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 3: Dear Katie W. B. 622 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 13: I am writing this letter on behalf of our amazing 623 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 13: charter school community, for our dear friend Ingrid. Ingrid moved 624 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 13: to Minnesota from Florida around nine or twenty eighteen as 625 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 13: a single mom so her kids could have an exceptional education. 626 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 13: She applied to work as a para at our small 627 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 13: charter school and has been working with us ever since. 628 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 13: During COVID, Ingrid received devastating news that she had cancer. However, 629 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 13: Ingrid was strong and resilient. She worked the entire time 630 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:41,120 Speaker 13: during her treatment and had the most positive attitude. Ingrid 631 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,919 Speaker 13: went into remission. However, last month found out her cancer 632 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 13: was back. As devastating as this news was, Ingrid has 633 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 13: begun her treatment plan once again with positivity and resilience. 634 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 13: Ingrid is one of the most generous people I know. 635 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 13: She would literally do anything for anyone. She is so 636 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 13: critical to our small community in his love by all. 637 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 13: If you ask any of the middle school students who 638 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,640 Speaker 13: their favorite person is, it is always Ingrid. She lights 639 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 13: up every room that she enters, and I know the 640 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 13: holidays are causing a burden on her right now. Our 641 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,119 Speaker 13: school's Christmas wish is that Ingrid could have some relief 642 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 13: during the holiday season and shower her with love so 643 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 13: her worries and burdens can be lessened. Thank you so much, 644 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 13: Katie w B for making this wish happen. We love 645 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 13: you so much, Ingrid. 646 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 1: Ingrid, It's obvious that you're just one of those amazing 647 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: people that is all about everyone else and never about 648 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: you or your challenges, and we love you for that. 649 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: And there's obviously a lot of love that your school 650 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: wants to share with you, and so we are doing 651 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 1: some things just to make you smile, make the girls smile. 652 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: We have Jamie, no James, James a boy. Jamie's a boy, 653 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 1: and Madison is thirteen, and we have some things for 654 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 1: your family just to make you smile and to make 655 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: you make it so you know that you're appreciated and 656 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 1: uh and supported and cared for. So that's what we 657 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: do with Christmas wish. So let's start off with Madison. 658 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: Madison is your thirteen year old she's fourteen. Now, okay, 659 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: we heard that she loves Starbucks. Is this true? 660 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 661 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 5: Good? 662 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: Good, good good, So we got her just some things. 663 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: We got her one hundred dollars Starbucks gift card and 664 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: a Starbucks tumbler and ornament. 665 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 5: I guess that you know. That's that's what she's got 666 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 5: to have. 667 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 1: Also some different nail polishes and a Shields gift card. 668 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: So she's into sports athletics. 669 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 3: I think Jamie is, but either the whole family. 670 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 1: Okay, good, and we got a two hundred dollars Ulti 671 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 1: Beauty gift card too. For Jamie, your eighteen year old boy, 672 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: we got him a two hundred dollars Shields gift card. 673 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 5: He's a Steeler. Is this Steelers fan? Is this the story? 674 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 11: He is a Steeler? 675 00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 5: I'm sorry. We got no. 676 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,480 Speaker 1: We got Steelers everything. We got Steelers flannel, we got 677 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 1: Steelers this, we got Steelers that, so that'll all be 678 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:08,840 Speaker 1: delivered to the house. We got a like a Nike 679 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 1: hoodie and just some other goodies for the kids, so 680 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: they'll have something. I know you'll have some things under 681 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 1: the tree. Do you have a tree up yet, Ingrid. 682 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, it's a Charlie Brown tree, but I like it. 683 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 5: Okay, good, good. 684 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 1: So I mean, even with all these things going on, 685 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: you're still, you know, concerned about making Christmas wonderful. You're 686 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 1: for your kids, right, absolutely, of course. Well there's things 687 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,959 Speaker 1: for you too, mom. We've got first of all, we're 688 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: gonna send you over to Target. We got a two 689 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 1: hundred dollars Target gift card to pick up whatever you need, 690 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 1: whether it's fun stuff or whether it's tiede laundry detergent 691 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 1: and bounced dryer sheets, whatever you need over there. A 692 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars Amazon gift card, a fifty dollars Crumble 693 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: Cookie gift card. The word is you love peanut butter cookies. 694 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 5: Is this true, okay? 695 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 1: And we're going to send you out to Woodhouse to 696 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: do the massage and the spa day and you can 697 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: find out more on Woodhouse spas dot com. Thanks to 698 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: those guys for helping us out and for the whole family. 699 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: We got a two hundred dollars Crispin Green gift card. 700 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 1: That's a lot of salad. Shout at it is a 701 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: lot of salad. Shout out to Alex, Talia, Jeremy, Liz 702 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 1: and the entire Crispin Green team over in Chan Happening 703 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: and Plymouth for their donation. One hundred dollars Broadway Pizza 704 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: gift card thanks to Sarah everybody at Broadway Pizza, and 705 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: then even Oil Changes thanks to Aiming and everybody at 706 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: Valveelin for that. And one hundred and one dollar Holiday 707 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: Station Stores gas card and those are all for you. 708 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 5: Is it going to change your life? 709 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 1: Probably not, But we just want you to feel the 710 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 1: love and appreciation and support from your community and your teachers, 711 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 1: your your fellow educators and everybody here and who listens 712 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 1: to Katie WB to make your holiday a little bit 713 00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 1: more bright. 714 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 14: Okay, I really appreciate it and I love them too, 715 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 14: very much. 716 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 3: We love you, Ingrid. Thanks guys, of course. 717 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. How are you feeling today, Ingrid? 718 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 10: I actually I'm feel really good and I did my 719 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 10: makeup and takes a lot of guys. 720 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 5: Time time for a duel over. 721 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 6: Yeah. 722 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: And so you're undergoing you're undergoing the the treatment or 723 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: you're going back to treatment? 724 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 5: Is that right? 725 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 1: I'm yeah. 726 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 11: This is Friday. 727 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 10: Will be my fifth Cara chemo, fourth or fifth chreatment. 728 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 14: Yes. 729 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we wish you nothing but the very best 730 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,479 Speaker 1: in your challenges with your health. 731 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 14: And yeah, I really appreciate it. 732 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 1: Well, a lot of people really appreciate you. And the 733 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: kids too. Where are the kids this morning? 734 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:49,320 Speaker 11: I have Madison here. 735 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 14: Jamie's not present at the time. 736 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 5: Okay, so he's still sleep and get that kid up. 737 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 3: Get that kid up. 738 00:32:58,480 --> 00:32:59,959 Speaker 1: I'm so glad we get a chance to do this 739 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: for you, and just hope you feel all the love 740 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 1: and support from your community and your friends. 741 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 11: Okay, thank you so much, guys. 742 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:09,880 Speaker 3: We'll see you later, Ingrid. 743 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 11: All right, seeing a few. 744 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 14: Thank you. 745 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 5: You're gonna go to work today. Can't you give her 746 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 5: the day off? 747 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 13: I try, Christmas is having a day off. 748 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 5: Thank you. 749 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: Bring happy holidays Merry Christmas. 750 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 14: So much Merry Christmas. 751 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 1: And that is Christmas Wish on KDWB, brought to you 752 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 1: by Holiday Station Stores, Treasure Island Resort and Casino. We 753 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 1: raised about twenty five hundred dollars on Saturday with a 754 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 1: live podcast and we're so happy about that. Oh, I've 755 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 1: got money in my pocket from Juanita. Juanita Wanita gave 756 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: me extra money. So so there there's an extra money 757 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: from Juanita. 758 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 3: So hey, Christmas wish money. 759 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: Hey smells sweeter Christmas Wish on kd WB. Christmas Wish 760 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: on What Good Rich, Most Wish what point three KDB. 761 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give shout out to everybody who came to 762 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 1: the live podcast. On Saturday. We did a live podcast 763 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 1: of the Minnesota Goodbye, which if you don't know what 764 00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 1: it is, it's our after the show podcast, and we 765 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:13,840 Speaker 1: had a lot of fun. Somebody said the only problem 766 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: I had with it was it was too short. We 767 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 1: went for an hour, but maybe. 768 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 5: People want a little bit more. But we had a 769 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 5: lot of fun. 770 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: Whan Nita was there, Mike was there, Secretary Brie was there, 771 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 1: but yet your friend Tony was there. 772 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:28,240 Speaker 3: So much. 773 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 1: We had a lot of fun and if you want 774 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 1: to see I think it still lives on YouTube. If 775 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 1: you want to go on YouTube and search for Minnesota Goodbye. 776 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 3: Or on the iHeartRadio app you can listen to it there. 777 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: To listen there as well. And we raised, like I said, 778 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,440 Speaker 1: about twenty five hundred dollars. Was helps out hugely with 779 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 1: Christmas Wish. And if you want to nominate somebody for 780 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,479 Speaker 1: Christmas Wish, go online to KDWB dot com slash wish. 781 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 1: You're going is it too late? No, We're going to 782 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: fish do wish all this week, all the next week 783 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 1: and possibly if we have enough money, and maybe we 784 00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: will and maybe we won't to do with the two 785 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: days right before Christmas break starts, so Monday and Tuesday 786 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:06,680 Speaker 1: of the following week, so at least another two weeks 787 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:12,480 Speaker 1: or so, Katie, and donations are key. We really need donations. 788 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,399 Speaker 1: We get a lot of help from people who listen 789 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 1: to the show. If you want to make a big donation, 790 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 1: it is tax deductible and we take very good care 791 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 1: of your money. We call every single wish to kind 792 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 1: of do a background check if you will, and make 793 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: sure that they still need the wish and make sure 794 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: there's not other big funding because a lot of people 795 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:34,800 Speaker 1: are like, yeah, we put together a go funding and 796 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 1: raise twenty eight thousand dollars. Well that's great, but then 797 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:39,879 Speaker 1: we probably won't be able to help with that wish 798 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 1: because there are some that they just don't have that. 799 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 1: So go nominate and go donate please. It's kind of 800 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: a fun story. I asked her if she would be 801 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,000 Speaker 1: on the air, and she said, well, I guess so, 802 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:55,800 Speaker 1: because it's kind of interesting. 803 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:56,280 Speaker 5: Megan. 804 00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 1: First of all, congratulations Megan, newly engaged, engaged. 805 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 14: It's really excited. 806 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,800 Speaker 5: But I'm good for you. That's awesome. 807 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 1: So, but there's a little bit of a problem that 808 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,280 Speaker 1: you haven't addressed with your fiance. 809 00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 5: What is the problem? What's going on? 810 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,319 Speaker 14: I mean, I would like to preface this by like, 811 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 14: I'm very excited by being engaged, and I'm very happy 812 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 14: with everything. But the ring is a really big and 813 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,840 Speaker 14: I don't mean like it's too big, like it's gonna 814 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 14: fall off my hand. I mean like it's a solitaire 815 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 14: and it's like two and a half carrots, and like 816 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 14: I'm small, you know what half is? 817 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 5: Two and a half is pretty basis size. 818 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: It's a it's double the size of a tick tack, 819 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 1: I would say, probably double the size of a yeah. 820 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 14: Yeah, And I'm just like it's a little goudy, like 821 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,360 Speaker 14: I feel just I don't know. I'm like, it's tacky 822 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,719 Speaker 14: to have him I'll ring this big and like do 823 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,319 Speaker 14: I do I say something, because then do I come 824 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,399 Speaker 14: off I'm grateful, like I know, you know, he had 825 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 14: to save up all a lot to get it for me, 826 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:02,920 Speaker 14: and I don't want it to be like. 827 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 1: Oh, depending on the quality, that's probably that's probably at 828 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 1: least a ten thousand dollars diamonds. Depending on the quality, 829 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:13,320 Speaker 1: it could be up to many thousands, many dozens of thousands, 830 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 1: it depends on the quality. 831 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,000 Speaker 14: But he spent a lot of money bad to be like, oh, 832 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 14: it's a lot. 833 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. 834 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 5: I don't know what to tell you. 835 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,760 Speaker 1: I would from a guy's perspective, when a guy buys 836 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,600 Speaker 1: you a big ring, it's because he loves you so 837 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: much that he wants you to like he wants the 838 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,439 Speaker 1: world to see I bought her a giant ring. 839 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 14: You going down the okay ring, Okay. 840 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 3: You're a little bit more modest. 841 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,480 Speaker 7: I can tell then, because like if someone got me 842 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,480 Speaker 7: a ring that was too big. 843 00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 3: I'd be like, hell, yeah, yo, baby, Well you also. 844 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 5: Have giant hands. Why you're you're a giant man hands? 845 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,279 Speaker 7: Well they're They're not giant in the sense that they're 846 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 7: like long or anything. They're just like they're thick sausages. 847 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 5: She can pull them a basketball. 848 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but this girl's got dainty, little princess hands. 849 00:37:59,360 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 10: Yeah. 850 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 14: I'm just I'm just a girl. 851 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 5: Does it I mean does it? Does it? 852 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: Is it one of those stones that's just a solitaire 853 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 1: that's gonna catch on your sweater when you put your 854 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 1: coat on. 855 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 14: Yeah, okay, it's out there for for everybody, dissy like, 856 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 14: I mean, it could go on top of the Christmas tree. 857 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 5: Are you gonna get. 858 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 1: Are you gonna get used to it? You've worn it 859 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 1: now for a week and a half. Are you gonna 860 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,959 Speaker 1: get used to it? Because you will get used to it? 861 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:34,479 Speaker 8: Yeah. 862 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,759 Speaker 14: I mean, I'm not worried so much about like it 863 00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,479 Speaker 14: being a hindrance to me as much as like, does 864 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:47,239 Speaker 14: it look ridiculous? You know, like no, look like does 865 00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 14: it look tacky? 866 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 15: Like? 867 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 14: I don't know, like. 868 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,040 Speaker 5: Am I Okay, I'm gonna say. 869 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:52,880 Speaker 14: Thinking too much about this? 870 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 5: You probably are. 871 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:55,880 Speaker 1: But but if you don't like it, that's your perfect 872 00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 1: right to not really like it because it's too big. 873 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 1: But I will say two and a half carry, which 874 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 1: is not ridiculous. You go go to Cove and why 875 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 1: is that at some time and look at the rings 876 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 1: on some of the people in Cove. They are ridiculous 877 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,240 Speaker 1: because it's like that's an eight carrot ring the size 878 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: of a peanut, M and M. Yeah on this and 879 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,839 Speaker 1: that that. I mean, good for you if you can 880 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 1: afford it, that's great, but that's a lot of rings. 881 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 7: Someone texted and said, Dave, you're way off on the price. 882 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,920 Speaker 7: My two carrot diamond was twenty eight thousand. 883 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 5: That's what I mean. It depends on the quality of 884 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:28,800 Speaker 5: the diamond. 885 00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,200 Speaker 6: I just think though, if it's if it feels like 886 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:36,040 Speaker 6: costume jewelry to you and it's like gaudy, you have 887 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 6: to wear it forever. So if you don't say something 888 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 6: now or try, you know, like I don't know, fix 889 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,360 Speaker 6: it now, then you're gonna be wearing it forever and 890 00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 6: just like take it to your grave, which I mean, hey, 891 00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 6: maybe you should take it to your grave. 892 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 3: I don't know. 893 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 1: Megan and maybe so she'd make it is that she 894 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 1: got a ring for a proposed and engaged on Thanksgiving 895 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 1: break and the ring is a two and a half 896 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,279 Speaker 1: carrot diamond, and she's like, it's too big. 897 00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:57,880 Speaker 5: It's not me. 898 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,880 Speaker 1: Here's a text that says may It says my steak 899 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 1: is too my steak is too juicy, and my house 900 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,719 Speaker 1: is too nice. Enjoy your ring and flaunt it. 901 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,600 Speaker 14: Like, yeah, I feel like these are definitely like champagne problems. 902 00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,719 Speaker 14: But I'm also like, you're right, this is something I 903 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 14: have to wear for the rest of my life. 904 00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:16,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 905 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:18,759 Speaker 1: Well, we have somebody on the phone here, Bailey, not 906 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 1: our Bailey, but another Bailey. What do you think about 907 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 1: the ring? Should she stop complaining and just enjoy it? 908 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: Or what do you think? Bailey? 909 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,760 Speaker 11: Uh? Hello, so I am actually in the same exact 910 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 11: situation right now. Oh I got proposed to over thanks 911 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:37,320 Speaker 11: Giving break. It is way too large. Mineus five carrots. 912 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:41,320 Speaker 1: And like it looks like wait, vont stopped damning? 913 00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 14: What she it looks like a what it looks like 914 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 14: costume jewelry? 915 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 11: Like said when I got it, and I was waiting 916 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 11: for the ohaha, but you can pick out your own 917 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,520 Speaker 11: And that never happened. That shoe never dropped and I'm like, oh, 918 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 11: this is the real thing. 919 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, Davecy said it was five carrots. 920 00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 1: That's got five carrots, five carrits is comparable to probably about. 921 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:04,360 Speaker 5: An M and M right, well maybe larger, maybe larger 922 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 5: than it's worth dam So that's worth the damn. 923 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 11: To be you're wearing this thing around. I used my 924 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 11: hands all the time, and that was kind of my out. 925 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,800 Speaker 11: So I was I you know, I mentioned multiple times 926 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,480 Speaker 11: like I used my hands, I boked, I do woodworking, 927 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 11: like it gets in the way. So that was an 928 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 11: easy out for me. But for the collar, the other 929 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 11: out I had was it holds out my hair, it 930 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 11: hurts my hand, it gets caught on my jeans. Like 931 00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 11: I just started mentioning those things. And then I was like, hey, 932 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 11: like sat down one day and I was like, hey, 933 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 11: maybe we need something more practical rather than saying it's ugly, 934 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 11: and was the costumes. You know, it's just something a 935 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:40,720 Speaker 11: little more rapid. 936 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,880 Speaker 1: Did he or they? Did they go out and like 937 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,360 Speaker 1: pick one that's more agreeable. 938 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,560 Speaker 11: Uh, yes, we have looked a few times and are 939 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 11: trying to find trying to go to the middle ground. Okay, 940 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,799 Speaker 11: but was definitely respected to the conversation after I said 941 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 11: it pulled out my hair. 942 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: Okay, it didn't hurt his feelings because I guess if 943 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 1: a guy gets you were anybody gets you a five 944 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:05,800 Speaker 1: carrot ring, he is saying, I love you so much. 945 00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: I could have got a used Camaro for that kind 946 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 1: of money, but I bought something for you instead. No 947 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:14,160 Speaker 1: regrets that. 948 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,320 Speaker 11: You told him, No regrets. 949 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, Bailey. Laurie is on the phone. What 950 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 1: is your advice? Megan got a ring. It's too big. 951 00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,280 Speaker 1: It's like the diamond is too big. She thinks it's gaudy, 952 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:27,759 Speaker 1: it's not her. What should she do? What was your experience, Laurie. 953 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:32,439 Speaker 15: Well, High morning crew. I would keep it no matter 954 00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 15: how big it is. If someone loves you that much, 955 00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,480 Speaker 15: you should look at it every day and say somebody 956 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 15: loves me that much. 957 00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think that's very true. Thank you bunch 958 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 1: of text messages too. 959 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,279 Speaker 6: I you know what, I have a feeling though, Like 960 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,839 Speaker 6: you know how people get a ring and then they 961 00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:55,319 Speaker 6: start wearing those like silicone rings because they're like, oh, well, 962 00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,319 Speaker 6: this one I don't want and I don't want to 963 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 6: lose my really nice ring, So I'm just gonna wear 964 00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 6: the sil cone one and then that's their ring then 965 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:02,959 Speaker 6: for the rest of time. 966 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 3: So I don't want that to happen to Megan. 967 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 1: Man if I got somebody a big five carrot ring 968 00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,839 Speaker 1: and they went down to Walmart and got a silicone ring, 969 00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:12,319 Speaker 1: I would not speak to him. 970 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 15: And I. 971 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not saying this is the case for 972 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,360 Speaker 7: Meghan on the phone, but like, you might not know 973 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,480 Speaker 7: your partner very well if you ended up getting them 974 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,400 Speaker 7: a ring that was like way too big for their liking. Yeah, Like, 975 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 7: especially that caller who's had a five carrot and she 976 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 7: does a lot of handwork. 977 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, what are you doing? Feels a little off or 978 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 3: like the partner not knowing her well enough. 979 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 6: A lot of people are texting and saying, once you 980 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 6: put a wedding band with it, it will look so 981 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 6: much better. Or get a dual band or something to 982 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,440 Speaker 6: have small diamonds on each side and it can come 983 00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 6: together better and not look so large. 984 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 1: Okay, somebody else on the phone, Brad, what did you 985 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,279 Speaker 1: want to suggest to Megan about the ring that's too big? 986 00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: The diamond that's too big? 987 00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:50,920 Speaker 5: Brad? 988 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 2: I mean, you can have a big ring, girl, but 989 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 2: you also got to have another ring too. It's you 990 00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,320 Speaker 2: can't wear that ring everywhere and when you go different places. 991 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 2: Me and my wife have different rings. She doesn't wear 992 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:07,320 Speaker 2: the break your finger ring all the time, break. 993 00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,399 Speaker 3: Your ring exactly. See that's what I mean. 994 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 6: Like you you have like another another ring that you 995 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 6: wear so that you don't like damage. 996 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:15,800 Speaker 5: I guess it's a big point. I've never heard of 997 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 5: that before. 998 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,479 Speaker 3: So just get yourself a ring that you can wear 999 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 3: all the time. 1000 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,920 Speaker 8: I've heard of not fake, not another ring, but faux rings. 1001 00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:23,719 Speaker 4: Like I know somebody that's a firefighter and they have 1002 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 4: I don't know what it's called, but it's like a 1003 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,520 Speaker 4: rubber ring that they still wear on their hand. 1004 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 8: But obviously you're not gonna wear your wedding ring into 1005 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 8: a fire. 1006 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I got I got a 1007 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:34,600 Speaker 2: rubber ring for my finger because I'm a carpenter. But yeah, 1008 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:36,160 Speaker 2: for her, she has two rings. So when you go 1009 00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,239 Speaker 2: to Mexico, you don't have your fake. You don't have 1010 00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,520 Speaker 2: your your finger breaker on there, you have your fake, 1011 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 2: your fake. You know, the ring is just a ring 1012 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,280 Speaker 2: when you're were married for thirty six years. 1013 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, that ring is just a ring, married for years? 1014 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:49,920 Speaker 5: Thank you? 1015 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 1: Brand appreciate that a bunch of text messages tell her 1016 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,320 Speaker 1: to calm down. Two point five is not even that big, 1017 00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:05,160 Speaker 1: says this text from me, DNA D here's another one 1018 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: from a man. Don't take away the moment. Your guy 1019 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,480 Speaker 1: will likely adhere to your request. But it's not about 1020 00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:13,320 Speaker 1: the ring. It's what the ring represents, and your partner 1021 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 1: picked it out for a reason. But then somebody says, 1022 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 1: I disagree with anybody who said he did it because 1023 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: he loves you so much. No, he's dumb and just 1024 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,200 Speaker 1: saw the price tag but didn't think about whether she 1025 00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,400 Speaker 1: would like it and whether this is going to be 1026 00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:27,319 Speaker 1: your response or not. 1027 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 3: So yes, I do think. I don't know. 1028 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know what I'm allowed to say, 1029 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 7: so I'll keep my mouth shut. But Vince casually talked 1030 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,359 Speaker 7: about like if you were to propose to Alissa, and 1031 00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 7: I know that they've like looked at rings and stuff, 1032 00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 7: and I feel like Vaant has done the like background 1033 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,440 Speaker 7: work to figure out what Alyssa wants. 1034 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,360 Speaker 4: You have to do research. Yes, you have to do research. 1035 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,919 Speaker 4: I wouldn't think about like, oh, did they use their hands? 1036 00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,319 Speaker 4: I mean I guess I would, but I still think 1037 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 4: Alyssa deserves the ring that she wants, and whenever that 1038 00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,440 Speaker 4: time comes, we have gone shop and she's told me 1039 00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 4: about the band and I know her size and the 1040 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,680 Speaker 4: mounting and I don't know what any of that actually means, 1041 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,879 Speaker 4: but I wrote it down. But I wrote it down 1042 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 4: and shout out to the people at Wedding Day Diamonds 1043 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 4: when we went, super. 1044 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:14,880 Speaker 1: Helpful shout out we d Diamonds. Absolutely. Okay, So Megan, 1045 00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:17,279 Speaker 1: what is the consensus here? I think that if you 1046 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 1: want to, you can go back to him and say, 1047 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:23,760 Speaker 1: I love you, this is wonderful. I just want something 1048 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,799 Speaker 1: that's a little bit understated. I appreciate it so much, 1049 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,719 Speaker 1: and then, you know, don't make him feel bad about it, 1050 00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 1: but then make him understand that, you know, you got 1051 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,400 Speaker 1: to wear this is going to get caught on your 1052 00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: sweater for sure. 1053 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,360 Speaker 14: Yeah. Like I mean, like he knew and wanted a solitaire. 1054 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 14: I just didn't think I had to tell him, don't 1055 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,160 Speaker 14: get a diamond too big, because I just felt like 1056 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,479 Speaker 14: that's you know, usually girls are like, oh I wish 1057 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,960 Speaker 14: I had a bigger diamond. So I just didn't assume 1058 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 14: that I would get a diamond bigger than I wanted. 1059 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,920 Speaker 14: I just was like, this is the style I liked. 1060 00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,800 Speaker 14: I didn't think I had to gap him something to go. 1061 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 1: Well, I either if you're happy with him one way 1062 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,920 Speaker 1: or another, it'll work out. This won't break you up. Megan, 1063 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 1: good luck. My diamond shoes are too tough. 1064 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:12,200 Speaker 3: If you have like long hair. 1065 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,040 Speaker 7: She can like run her hands through his hair and 1066 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 7: purposely try to get the ring stuck and yank it. 1067 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 3: And be like, oh no, I don't want to be 1068 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,440 Speaker 3: doing this all the time. I should probably give me. 1069 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:24,400 Speaker 1: A ring exactly. That is what That's not really a 1070 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,680 Speaker 1: group therapy. That was just somebody with a with an 1071 00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: interesting story thanking. 1072 00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:28,640 Speaker 5: Megan. Appreciate it.