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Speaker 1: In a minute. I want to get into probably in

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Speaker 2: Into four ways to improve your relationship in sixty seconds.

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Speaker 2: So if you're in a relationship, you're going to want

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Speaker 2: to hear this now. I asked the three of you, Rich, Kyle,

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Speaker 2: and Peyton to remind me to get to that in

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Speaker 1: I get distract.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited to hear that, so.

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Speaker 2: Right, because it's really good. It's four ways to improve

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Speaker 2: your relationship in the sixty seconds.

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Speaker 1: First, Hi, Ariel.

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Speaker 4: Hi, good morning. I have a story for Kyle.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, let's hear.

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Speaker 4: Okay. So every time you talk about your son Easton,

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Speaker 4: it reminds me so much of my son. They're the

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Speaker 4: same exact age and they have very similar personalities. We

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Speaker 4: actually had the pleasure of going to see your World

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Speaker 4: for the first time for both of us this summer

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Speaker 4: thanks to you guys we won tickets last year. Oh

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Speaker 4: my gosh, Hi, and it was an incredible time. It

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Speaker 4: was such a good experience for us. It was such

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Speaker 4: a special moment. But we walked in and he hates

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Speaker 4: rides similar to your son. He's very timid, and he

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Speaker 4: saw the Swings and I'm like, oh, this is a

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Speaker 4: and he wanted to go on it, and I was

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Speaker 4: so excited. I was trying to calm myself down, like

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Speaker 4: oh yeah, yeah, let's do it and not be too

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Speaker 4: excited for him. But we got on the swings. I

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Speaker 4: think he was having a great time, and then it

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Speaker 4: was coming down to a slow down and we got

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Speaker 4: stuck on the swings up in the air. Oh no,

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Speaker 4: and the ride shut down and we were stuck on

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Speaker 4: there for probably like twenty minutes, and it was a

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Speaker 4: little nerve racking because they told us like, all right,

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Speaker 4: but just stay in your seats. And everybody started jumping

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Speaker 4: off and like trying to get out of the gate

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Speaker 4: and the gate was locked and they're like, we can't

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Speaker 4: let you guys out. The gate is locked. When the

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Speaker 4: ride it stuck, And so it was a little intimidating

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Speaker 4: for him, and I was so sad because that was

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Speaker 4: the very first thing we did all morning and he

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Speaker 4: refused to go on any ride.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're like, no, not at this time.

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Speaker 4: I know, I was so proud of him, and I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 4: just could be it. And then of course that had

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Speaker 4: We had an amazing time there. It was it was

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Speaker 4: so much fun, but it did ruin rides for the

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Speaker 4: rest of the trip.

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Speaker 3: I hate that.

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Speaker 5: And like one thing can ruin everything else.

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Speaker 1: It's like big or death.

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Speaker 3: The darkness is always at the surface.

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Speaker 5: No, but like the first time you try like a

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Speaker 5: new food. If you have like like eggs, but you

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Speaker 5: try scrambled eggs, but maybe hard boiled eggs are your thing,

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Speaker 5: but you tried scrambled eggs, all of a suden you

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Speaker 5: don't like eggs. It's like that one thing that for

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Speaker 6: My son Christopher still hates eggs because of the first

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Speaker 6: time he tried eggs. I wanted to eat something and

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Speaker 6: like an hour. Stubborn versus stubborn. He's fifteen now. Still

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Speaker 6: he won't touch eggs. Won't touch him.

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Speaker 1: Ariel, thanks for calling in, Thank you for listening, Thank you,

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Speaker 1: love you days. Hey, Vicky, what's up?

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Speaker 7: Hey, good morning, guys. Well, I was hearing the story

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Speaker 7: about the parking lot situation and the money flying in

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Speaker 7: the bank, and I wanted to share, guys something fun

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Speaker 7: that I do with my family for a birthday, graduations,

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Speaker 7: special occasions. Instead of giving gifts, everybody always wants money.

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Speaker 7: So what I do is I get big stacks of money,

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Speaker 7: all different dominations, denominations.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what religion they are exactly.

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Speaker 7: I throw the money up in the air randomly a

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Speaker 7: piece of forget to try to catch it. They get

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Speaker 7: three tries, so however much money they can catch it

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Speaker 7: the three tries, then they get to keep it, but

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Speaker 7: it can't touch the ground. I love that.

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Speaker 5: You just get like so fun making it rain in

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Speaker 5: the club, No it is, It is.

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Speaker 7: So much fun. And they get three triso whatever's down

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Speaker 7: it again. But anyway, Christmas has come in all kinds

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Speaker 7: to you guys and your listeners.

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Speaker 1: What's the most amount of money someone's ever caught?

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Speaker 7: Well, so I get like, so to put it upon

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Speaker 7: the holiday. Of course, you know, I'll start with like

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Speaker 7: five hundred dollars because they're not going to catch all

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Speaker 7: five hundred, two hundred and fifty three hundred dollars.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 6: Wow, it'd be cool if you put a like a

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Speaker 6: the holiday, it'd be cool. If you're like, if you

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Speaker 6: don't catch at least fifty, you owe me one hundred.

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Speaker 6: That would be kind of cool.

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Speaker 7: You can put your own twist to it, That's for sure.

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Speaker 7: You can put your own twist to it. But uh,

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Speaker 7: a lot of my family is and we get videos

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Speaker 7: of it and stuff, you know, with money flying, because

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Speaker 7: you were saying your you know, your bunny machine needs

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Speaker 7: to have it is hard to catch your money. And

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Speaker 7: I fly at all different directions to make it fine.

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Speaker 7: And we have these like and stuff going in the

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's so boring getting an envelope and opening, oh,

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Speaker 7: here's one hundred dollars. Okay, who but you know like this,

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Speaker 7: it's fun.

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Speaker 1: That's true, Vickie, thanks for calling in.

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Speaker 7: I have a great morning. Bye bye.

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Speaker 2: What happened to our money machine? Is it like in storage?

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Speaker 2: We should just have it like in our studio. Just

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Speaker 2: have just to test it out.

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Speaker 5: Before it is in storage. Somewhere do we have a

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Speaker 5: storage We have to ask Ken. Ken is the jack

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Speaker 5: of all trades in our building. He knows everything, so

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Speaker 5: we'll ask him. Okay, John, Jay, how can we improve

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Speaker 5: our relationship?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Hold on, hold on?

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Speaker 3: Oh good job, I forgot I for some Okay.

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Speaker 2: A psychologist shared his tip for how to improve your

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Speaker 2: relationship in just one minute a day. Okay, get into

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Speaker 2: the routine taking sixty seconds to give each other your

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's one minute.

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Speaker 1: We should be able to.

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Speaker 2: Do that minute. I mean we like all four of us?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't mean it with

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Speaker 3: No, no, we don't need to do If we.

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Speaker 2: Do within us, there's nudity involved.

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Speaker 1: What I mean, if it was us, there would be no,

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Speaker 1: here we go.

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidd These are four things to improve your

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Speaker 2: with your boyfriend, girlfriend, and husband wife. A one minute

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Speaker 2: hug after a long day of work, even a twenty

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Speaker 2: second hug can lower cortisol and boost the bonding hormone oxytocin. Okay,

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Speaker 2: A moment of gratitude before bed, each of you share

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Speaker 2: one thing you're appreciated that day.

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Speaker 1: It could be big or small.

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Speaker 2: You just have to be consistent and do it every night.

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Speaker 2: I like that a quick morning check in. Take a

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Speaker 2: you're carrying today and how can I support you carrying?

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Speaker 7: I know when you wake up sometimes in the morning

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Speaker 7: you're like, oh, you gotta deal with this.

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Speaker 3: What am I caring?

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Speaker 6: I just woke up.

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Speaker 3: Ask me at the end of the day, what am

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Speaker 3: I carrying? Or middle of it?

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Speaker 5: Maybe middle of the day would be better for that.

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Speaker 1: Uh, here's another one. A silent ritual.

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Speaker 2: You could keep deep you try deep breathing or even

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Speaker 2: just hold hands to it for sixty seconds a day

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Speaker 2: and you'll feel more connected.

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Speaker 1: So those are four ways to prove your relationship in

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Speaker 1: sixty seconds. Those are pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're great.

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Speaker 2: We used to do a thing my wife and kids.

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Speaker 2: We would do a six second hug. You have to

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Speaker 2: hug each other for six seconds and as longer than

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Speaker 2: you think. And then I started taking it to twenty seconds.

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Speaker 2: I feel, I just feel something happens, something magical happens

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Speaker 2: in the twenty second hug, I like.

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Speaker 3: A long hug.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes this it gets too long. You're like, Okay, how.

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Speaker 3: Do you know when you've just reached the threshold.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It's like it starts to like when you like you

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Speaker 5: open your eyes and you kind of look around like, oh,

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Speaker 5: we're still hugging.

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Speaker 1: Okay, move along. You're like, next,