Speaker 1: Before we get into a scam here in a little bit,
Speaker 1: We're gonna phone scam in just a little bit with
Speaker 1: a five lies to tell your mom. Kevin would like
Speaker 1: to define something and have a defining moment here on
Speaker 1: the showy.
Speaker 2: I want you to be my dictionary. I want all
Speaker 2: of you to be my dictionary. This is more of
Speaker 2: me asking a question. Obviously I have my own thoughts,
Speaker 2: but I would like to start with hearing you alls.
Speaker 2: When you hear the word or you hear the phrase
Speaker 2: I'm dating someone, or if you say I'm dating someone,
Speaker 2: what does that mean to you?
Speaker 3: It means that you're off the market. Yeah, you are
Speaker 3: in a relationship with the person you're dating.
Speaker 4: Wow, Joe, you obvious.
Speaker 1: You know if you're dating somebody, you are. I believe
Speaker 1: you are exclusive. I think that you have to exclusively date.
Speaker 1: Although I know because if you're dating someone, if you
Speaker 1: just say hey, I'm dating, then that means you're dating around.
Speaker 5: You can do that.
Speaker 1: But if you say I'm dating someone, then that's the
Speaker 1: one person that you're dating. Now there there is a
Speaker 1: technicality to this whole thing, and the technicality is that
Speaker 1: you haven't settled on this is who I want to
Speaker 1: be with.
Speaker 2: You, lady and Bianca as well. What are your thoughts?
Speaker 1: Well, Bianca is married to somebody now she doesn't date them.
Speaker 1: She goes and she plans her life out Ladies talking.
Speaker 4: Or Hi, sorry, I'm running Brianna through some infos.
Speaker 5: Have you heard what? He what?
Speaker 2: His question was no, So the question go ahead. The
Speaker 2: topic is on dating and how you define dating. So
Speaker 2: if you say I'm dating someone, or if you ask
Speaker 2: someone what they're doing, like, oh, yeah, I'm dating, Like
Speaker 2: what does dating mean to you?
Speaker 5: Dating means in a relationship.
Speaker 6: If I'm seeing somebody, I'll say i'm seeing or talking
Speaker 6: to them.
Speaker 2: So if so, seeing someone is completely different and saying
Speaker 2: I'm dating.
Speaker 3: Someone, Yes, I'm seeing and dating to me is the
Speaker 3: same if I say I'm talking to somebody it's very fresh.
Speaker 4: Yeah it's fresh, but yeah, I.
Speaker 5: Still you're getting to know that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's actually relationship.
Speaker 2: To me, yes, because seeing seeing to me says monogamy.
Speaker 2: To me, that means we're in a relate, like I'm
Speaker 2: seeing somebody. If so, this all came about because I
Speaker 2: feel like I'm dating someone but and I'm only going
Speaker 2: out on dates with this person, but we're not in
Speaker 2: a relationship, and in my mind just at a very
Speaker 2: base foundational, maybe immature, maybe child like definition, because we're
Speaker 2: going on dates and we're hanging out, we're dating, but
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean that we're dating each other. But it
Speaker 2: doesn't mean we're in a relation. Yeah, but we're not.
Speaker 2: I'm not in a relationship. I'm not in a relationship
Speaker 2: till I say, hey, we're in a relationship until we
Speaker 2: have that conversation.
Speaker 5: If I'm dating, we're just going on dates. Bro, like
Speaker 5: we dating we dayton not around though, But I'm saying
Speaker 5: but I don't.
Speaker 7: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't like to date around with a whole bunch
Speaker 2: of people. This is not how to operate. But it
Speaker 2: doesn't mean we're in a relationship, like we're going on
Speaker 2: days like we're dating.
Speaker 4: Why is this so important right now? Like why are
Speaker 4: you asking us this?
Speaker 2: Because I think I think the conversation needs to be had,
Speaker 2: and I also think that I like to get women's
Speaker 2: point of views and maybe the next that will be
Speaker 2: be asking her what she think.
Speaker 6: Is going on?
Speaker 4: That's the important question.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I want to talk to DD too.
Speaker 1: What would you feel like inside if you found out
Speaker 1: like playing my couch.
Speaker 4: Right now, and a couple of million people question.
Speaker 1: What would you feel like if if she said to you, yeah,
Speaker 1: I went out with this guy the other night.
Speaker 5: I wasn't true. I wasn't true.
Speaker 2: When you say that, yeah, I mean I would because again,
Speaker 2: that's her right, we're not in a relationship.
Speaker 4: But your stomach would you be like, oh crap?
Speaker 2: I mean I might feel a little way, but I
Speaker 2: wouldn't be Listen, I don't have a right to fill away. Okay,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean if that makes sense, because I.
Speaker 5: Haven't said don't do that.
Speaker 2: I think, as a man, if I feel a certain
Speaker 2: way about you, I don't want you dating other people,
Speaker 2: and I'm going to take the necessary steps not only
Speaker 2: vocalize that, but in my actions show you that.
Speaker 3: I want to ask my question, what is stopping you
Speaker 3: from wanting to be in a relationship with just her?
Speaker 5: You got to relax now that.
Speaker 1: It's way too who it is.
Speaker 3: And I finally got to see a photo of her,
Speaker 3: and if you're listening, you are stunningly beautiful.
Speaker 4: But like, why so, why are you so scared you
Speaker 4: like her?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 2: You know I asked myself those questions too, But for
Speaker 2: right now dating, I feel like I just have a
Speaker 2: different definite.
Speaker 5: I have a different definition.
Speaker 2: Than you are, like ya, because in my mind, it's like,
Speaker 2: what's the difference between dating and being in a relationship?
Speaker 4: Nothing?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 8: So you are wanting you are in a relationship if
Speaker 8: you if you say you are dating Susie, you and
Speaker 8: Susie are exclusive and committed to each other as you
Speaker 8: are dating.
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Speaker 5: Let's bring Miguel on the show here. Yeah, what's up, Miguel.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm an assimilar situation right now where I'm seeing
Speaker 6: somebody and to me, it feels like we're just like
Speaker 6: hanging out getting to know each other and going on dates.
Speaker 6: But I feel like she feels like we're in a relationship.
Speaker 5: Y'all having six.
Speaker 9: Here?
Speaker 5: Are you seeing other people too?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 5: Going on dates with other people? Are just her just
Speaker 5: her relation.
Speaker 6: I don't like to I don't like to go around
Speaker 6: and date either.
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying, Migauel.
Speaker 2: We're just trying to understand who these people are, and
Speaker 2: by doing that, you have to speak.
Speaker 6: Time with them exactly, And I feel like until we
Speaker 6: one of us say like we're going exclusive, like we're
Speaker 6: going to date, then I don't feel like we're in
Speaker 6: a relationship.
Speaker 1: How would you feel, I always say this, How would
Speaker 1: you feel if somebody else was with your girl that
Speaker 1: you're seeing, dating whatever?
Speaker 6: Honestly, I wouldn't mind it.
Speaker 5: So when you have that wouldn't make you feel.
Speaker 10: Because I always feel you don't like her that much. Yeah,
Speaker 10: I always feel like that you don't like her. What
Speaker 10: does that answer tell y'all? The answer tells me, Yeah,
Speaker 10: that he's not into her at all. He's waiting for
Speaker 10: something better to come around. But if you start feeling
Speaker 10: like a little bit of man I don't.
Speaker 3: Like this or jealous this girl said to you, keV,
Speaker 3: stop shut up. Hey, no, you brought up the topics
Speaker 3: your fault. What if this girl said, hey, this weekend,
Speaker 3: I'm going away and you were like, oh, where are
Speaker 3: you going? I'm going to you know, Florida with some
Speaker 3: other guys. I'm going to Florida with Miguel for the weekend.
Speaker 2: How you feel, Phil, I would feel a little way,
Speaker 2: But that still doesn't mean that we're in a relationship.
Speaker 2: Do you I think you can like somebody and fill away.
Speaker 2: Like say, for example, when you were dating West early on,
Speaker 2: Let's put it back on you dating West early on,
Speaker 2: and you were starting to develop feelings, but you guys
Speaker 2: were just seeing each other or talking, and you asked
Speaker 2: him the same thing. He's like, yeah, I'm hanging out
Speaker 2: with the girl I felt the way relationship.
Speaker 5: Would you just like him enough to feel.
Speaker 4: That would not be okay with me? That would not
Speaker 4: have been okay with me.
Speaker 2: But would it be enough for you to say, Okay,
Speaker 2: I need to lock this down and be in a
Speaker 2: relationship simply because I just don't feel okay.
Speaker 3: No, But that would be that would give me a
Speaker 3: lot of information as to how I felt about him
Speaker 3: and what I wanted moving forward with him.
Speaker 5: And vice versa.
Speaker 1: The Miguel, that guy that just called up, Like his
Speaker 1: response to me says, he's not into this girl, that
Speaker 1: girl that he that he likes. How would you feel
Speaker 1: I'd be okay? Yeah, Well, either you're lying to us
Speaker 1: or you're not into it her. And by the way,
Speaker 1: you know what it goes back to. It goes back
Speaker 1: to when you're a kid. You remember when you were
Speaker 1: a kid and some kid was playing with your toy,
Speaker 1: and you saw you when your mother let some other
Speaker 1: kid play with your toy because they didn't have something.
Speaker 2: There's there's no sense of ownership here, or there's no
Speaker 2: sense of responsibility because again we haven't said we're in
Speaker 2: a relationship.
Speaker 5: So you have every right to operate the way.
Speaker 1: You don't need to sometimes say it. You can actually no,
Speaker 1: I think you do feel it. What's going on, Wanda Hey?
Speaker 7: So simply put, from a woman's perspective, it means I'm
Speaker 7: in a relationship. From a man's perspective, it means we
Speaker 7: just boing. Period. That's that's I had to say that
Speaker 7: because you know, I want.
Speaker 1: To get bleaked.
Speaker 11: But that's what I believe.
Speaker 7: That's what it is from a woman's A woman's mind
Speaker 7: is when she says she's dating this relationship, we you know,
Speaker 7: we're emotional. We want that that feeling a relationship. Of course,
Speaker 7: especially if we you know, baking cookies, you know, we
Speaker 7: become emotional. Man, they can they could just let go.
Speaker 7: They can do what they want and go about their business,
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: So it's easy for them.
Speaker 2: Ask Kevin if he's baking cookies, with us. I'm not
Speaker 2: putting nobody's business out there. I don't learn to be
Speaker 2: more protecting?
Speaker 5: Is he how?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 3: I know he really likes her because he just said that. Okay, never,
Speaker 3: you've never done that.
Speaker 2: I'm more sensitive to people's emotions. Now I'll be I'll
Speaker 2: be wild sometimes I'm on a while.
Speaker 5: Hey is it Laren?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 5: What's up?
Speaker 7: Hey?
Speaker 6: Hey, hey, Hey, I'm I'm proud of you. I think
Speaker 6: you're ready to get caught.
Speaker 5: Ready it might be happening. I know Shannon just pointed
Speaker 5: that out.
Speaker 6: He asked that question. I heard the growth in his voice.
Speaker 6: He sounds like he's ready to get caught.
Speaker 4: What does that mean? Someone explained to get in a relationship?
Speaker 5: Is he saying ready to.
Speaker 4: Caught me be in a real Who makes up these
Speaker 4: dumb phrases?
Speaker 1: The culture? Shannon, I can't believe you don't you don't understand.
Speaker 1: I can't believe you don't understand that our vernacular. She's
Speaker 1: a kitch, Miranda.
Speaker 5: What's on? Miranda?
Speaker 6: Hell?
Speaker 11: Else?
Speaker 5: Hi? Miranda keV is ready to get caught? What's going on?
Speaker 11: So think about it in two different analogies. This way,
Speaker 11: you're giving all your energy to the person that you're dating.
Speaker 11: How are you supposed to truly authentically know that person
Speaker 11: when you're mixing energies with other people. Also, if you've
Speaker 11: got a dinner plate, you got your main andre on
Speaker 11: that dinner plate, that's who you're dating. How are you
Speaker 11: supposedly like supposed to actually and with all these side dishes?
Speaker 4: And keV only eats one thing at a time.
Speaker 11: Right, so you have to really enjoy the main course
Speaker 11: and not get distracted by all the.
Speaker 4: Main mashed potatoes, corn Cather.
Speaker 1: Kevin eats the sides before he gets to the main course.
Speaker 1: I think he only all. I think he likes the
Speaker 1: main course. Right now, Thanks Miranda, You guys are hold
Speaker 1: on and saying Amanda. We go from Miranda to Amanda.
Speaker 1: What's going on? Every lady wants to comment on this?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 9: Oh? Yeah, hello, hi there, first time, long time. So
Speaker 9: my question in regards to this is, if you're dating,
Speaker 9: and if dating is considered exclusive, then say you decide
Speaker 9: that you know, I'm not really enjoying spending time with
Speaker 9: this person, do you have.
Speaker 11: To break up at that point?
Speaker 5: Great question? You tell us no, y'alla.
Speaker 2: Ones that say dating is in a relationship she asks me,
Speaker 2: I think you actually have to have some kind of
Speaker 2: verbalization of we're not going to see each other anymore,
Speaker 2: isn't work?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I think that you have to give, because
Speaker 1: you can't let somebody's feelings just lay.
Speaker 4: I don't strain her along if you're.
Speaker 1: Like so, if so, Amanda in Kevin's thing that he's
Speaker 1: in right now, Like there have been girls he hangs with,
Speaker 1: and then there have been girls he's tried to pursue.
Speaker 5: This is a.
Speaker 1: Girl that sounds like he is very interested in, so
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think that this
Speaker 1: is I think you have to if you all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, Kevin say this isn't working, I.
Speaker 5: Think you have to verbalize it ain't working. I would
Speaker 5: do that for sure.
Speaker 11: Yeah, but right now it is working.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's working. We're dating though, we're.
Speaker 5: Going on date Kevin's that means we're dating, right, Kevin's exclusive?
Speaker 5: Are you exclusive?
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