WEBVTT - Second Date Update: He Didn't Look Like His Photos  

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date up date module in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, why are you not getting a call back?

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to find out Cameron is getting ghosted after

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<v Speaker 2>going out on a date, and we're going to find

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<v Speaker 2>out what's going on today, Cameron.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, buddy?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, I'm all right.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on doing? Okay? So you guys were met online? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I met her on Tinder?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, met on Tinder. What did you guys do on

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<v Speaker 1>your date? Went to a Red Wings game?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, last night. I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went to a Red Wings game and then

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<v Speaker 2>after the game was over with what did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we didn't kiss or anything. I just brought

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<v Speaker 3>her home and that was it and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, what do you do? Do you hogger? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you give her like a little hug? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I went in for the hug because you know, she

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<v Speaker 3>was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think the vibes were good at the game? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>were you guys getting along?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was really good.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't I don't really know what's going on because it

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<v Speaker 3>seemed like good vibes and she seemed great.

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<v Speaker 5>By We don't think it's a bad thing that you

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<v Speaker 5>didn't kiss or do anything at like.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually think that.

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<v Speaker 5>That's really nice and respectful that the date ended with

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<v Speaker 5>a hug and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Leaver wanting more.

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<v Speaker 2>She's on the phone with us. We're going to find

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<v Speaker 2>out what's going on. Raina is on with us right now. Cameron,

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<v Speaker 2>say hi to Raina. Hey, Hey, hey, Raina?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? How you doing today?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I'm okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, are you nervous or are you uncomfortable? What are you?

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<v Speaker 2>You sound like you're not as excited to be on

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<v Speaker 2>the air with us.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it's kind of weird just to be, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>to get a call.

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<v Speaker 2>From Okay, all right, well guys, what's going on? Is

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<v Speaker 2>everything okay? Is there a chance that we could have

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<v Speaker 2>another date with Cameron?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that?

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<v Speaker 6>Well? He just I mean he's not He's not what

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<v Speaker 6>I saw he was he was going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what did you think he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be?

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<v Speaker 6>He just don't know. He just looks totally different.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, so he looks different. Did Why does he

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<v Speaker 2>look different? What is different about Cameron? I'm assuming you

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<v Speaker 2>were looking at pictures of him?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, he didn't like Yeah, he was on Tinder,

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<v Speaker 6>and like he doesn't look anything like his photos.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's the difference if you don't mind us asking

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<v Speaker 2>just to get a perspective on what you were thinking

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<v Speaker 2>compared to what he looks like.

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<v Speaker 6>He's like one hundred and fifty pounds heavier at least.

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<v Speaker 6>He just yeah, it's not I mean, I'm just not

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<v Speaker 6>my type of guy. I'm not really into that. Not

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<v Speaker 6>my idea of the man Cameron.

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<v Speaker 2>Our pictures deceiving that you that you have on your

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<v Speaker 2>profile or up on social media.

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<v Speaker 7>Or or.

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<v Speaker 3>They're of me. Uh they're a couple of years older,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, but like it's still my faith, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>my my weight fluctuates.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's kind of crazy. Man, I'm the same person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't. I didn't expect this.

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<v Speaker 6>You're like a whole person skinnier in those pictures, So

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<v Speaker 6>it's just I did not expect that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's not nice. But like.

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<v Speaker 3>People gaining his weight all the time, man, I didn't. Yeah, okay, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm still the same Mags.

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<v Speaker 2>But Raina, did you have fun at the game though,

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<v Speaker 2>at least, like did you did you enjoy does his

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<v Speaker 2>looks matter when you're going out and going to a game.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, yeah, I mean it was fine. We had

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<v Speaker 6>a good time. Like he's a nice guy, like he

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<v Speaker 6>you know, like we got along okay. But like I'm

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<v Speaker 6>just not I'm just not like I'm just not into that.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not jail.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there a reason why I like what, Cameron? Is

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<v Speaker 4>there a reason why you still have these pictures as

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<v Speaker 4>your many pictures and not more recent photo.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel good in them. I mean my face is

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<v Speaker 3>the same, I've gained a little more weight. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't know, and they make me feel the

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<v Speaker 3>way I actually feel, and I'll probably get back there

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<v Speaker 3>at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it.

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<v Speaker 3>Comes and goes, you know. So he just caught me

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<v Speaker 3>at a at a big moment, I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>And I gotta be honest with you. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>will tell you this. People do it all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>People post their good stuff. I mean, my photo that's

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<v Speaker 2>up on my social is definitely my best, but it

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<v Speaker 2>looks like you well, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, not from the not from the waist down. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't wait, I'm feeling bad for this poor guy

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<v Speaker 2>because I've I've gone through that, but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was really bad for him too.

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<v Speaker 5>It does not define who he is or what he

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<v Speaker 5>would feel like in a relationship or anything. However, I

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<v Speaker 5>can see where Rena was, you know, where she saw

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<v Speaker 5>him for the first time. I was like, wait, you

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<v Speaker 5>don't look like the guy like I understand that she

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<v Speaker 5>was taken aback by that.

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<v Speaker 1>And this happens to women all the time. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>guys too, you mean where women where women? Yeah? Hey, Amanda,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on?

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<v Speaker 8>Good morning everyone, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>What are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, girl, girl, I'm not saying you're wrong because that

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<v Speaker 8>happened to me in the past. Matched with a guy online,

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<v Speaker 8>met him in person, he was significantly heavier. Granted, I

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<v Speaker 8>still found him very attractive, and I had no issue

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<v Speaker 8>with the weight game, but it is extremely deceiving. And

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<v Speaker 8>it's not to put him down by any means, not

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<v Speaker 8>by any means. But when you're putting yourself out there

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<v Speaker 8>like that, you want the other person to have an

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<v Speaker 8>accurate representation of you so that one something like this

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<v Speaker 8>doesn't happen, and two you want them to be attracted

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<v Speaker 8>to you now, not what you look like two or

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<v Speaker 8>three years ago. But girl, all respectfully. You you you

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<v Speaker 8>say it a little better? Yeah, I doesn't mean to

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<v Speaker 8>look like the whole person heavier. That's kind of wrong.

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<v Speaker 6>I was trying not to say it at all.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't I didn't even.

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<v Speaker 6>Want to say it at all. And then I get

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<v Speaker 6>called by the radio to like I explained that I

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<v Speaker 6>was trying to not say anything.

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<v Speaker 7>Get that.

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<v Speaker 9>But yeah, I'm not saying you're wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Am everybody born with TechEd Emily? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi? Good morning?

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<v Speaker 7>How are you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening with you? Would you want to say?

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<v Speaker 6>I just wanted to say, honestly, I think he watched

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<v Speaker 6>the bullet He sounds like a loser, and he cut

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<v Speaker 6>on a good day, and you know, I think that

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<v Speaker 6>he can do way better.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right? Not happy with uh raina hair? What's up, Lisa?

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<v Speaker 9>My question is what's the what's how much difference was

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<v Speaker 9>his weight?

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<v Speaker 1>Cameron? She said, a bottling? Then the two leader? Cameron?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah, do you have a number on how much

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<v Speaker 2>weight difference there is from the photos?

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<v Speaker 1>That's really none of your business? Okay, all right? He said,

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<v Speaker 1>none of our business.

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<v Speaker 9>I get it, all right, Turning ugly, Andrew what's up, Andrew? Hey,

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<v Speaker 9>I just think Raina was super shallow for the way

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<v Speaker 9>that she, you know, didn't give him a chance, and

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<v Speaker 9>I think she should have just been a little bit

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<v Speaker 9>more upfront with him as to why and instead of

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<v Speaker 9>ghosting just making him feel really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>Apparently she didn't know the right way to go about

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<v Speaker 4>saying it, and some people have called her out seeing

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<v Speaker 4>she's mean, so maybe she just didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 4>through the mean parts of his face.

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<v Speaker 1>Anthony, what's up?

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<v Speaker 7>What's going on? This is a first time, technically a

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<v Speaker 7>long time. I was on the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>You got me. Okay, what's going on? Delivery?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay? I think the girl she's correct. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 7>could have been so blaint about it, but it could

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<v Speaker 7>have been a little nicer about it. I guess she's

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<v Speaker 7>not wrong at all. If I would have went on

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<v Speaker 7>a date and there's a whole human more extra that

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't see him.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything, Anthony, Listen, here's the deal. It's not about It's

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<v Speaker 1>not about that. It's about who the person is. And

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<v Speaker 1>you went to a game having fun. I mean, come on, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, man.

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<v Speaker 7>If I'm looking, if I see some beautiful girl and

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<v Speaker 7>I go and don't see a beautiful girl, like are

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<v Speaker 7>you saying I'm looking for?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you seeing that big girls can't be beautiful Anthony, No,

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<v Speaker 2>they can.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we listen.

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<v Speaker 4>We are trying to be nice and respectful and we

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<v Speaker 4>should be. But at the same time, false advertisement is

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<v Speaker 4>a real thing. And if you, if you, if you

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<v Speaker 4>show up to your favorite restaurant and they say you're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna come out with it with the big steak and

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<v Speaker 4>the fries and they bring you out a little bitty

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<v Speaker 4>veggie play, you gonna be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be perfectly.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. You got my back right.

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<v Speaker 2>There, especially poor Cameron. Camer would be upset if you

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<v Speaker 2>got one of them. God, Cameron, I gotta be honest

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<v Speaker 2>with you. I think you're a wonderful guy, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think there are plenty of absolutely ladies that would love

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<v Speaker 2>to hang out with you. And I think you're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do fine, my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, get up.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the home of the thirty on the thirty,

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