WEBVTT - Ryan Keeps it Real with Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus in the morning. Y'all know what time it is?

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<v Speaker 2>Is?

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up? Daytime. Let's bring Ryan on. Ryan are

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<v Speaker 1>you there?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey? Hi guys, So are you Hey man, big fan

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<v Speaker 3>of the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks, bro here to help you out. I understand you've

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<v Speaker 1>been on a date. Her name was Brooke and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys met online? Was was the message that you sent me?

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<v Speaker 1>So did she? Was this a full ghost?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? It was a full ghost. That's a good way

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<v Speaker 3>of putting it.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you guys do on your date?

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<v Speaker 4>While we were in Walnut Creek and had some drinks,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and you know, she.

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<v Speaker 3>Was funny, great, good time. We talked, you know about work.

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<v Speaker 4>And life and dating burnout and lapped about everyone pretends

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<v Speaker 4>they're fine with it really not, you know, And I

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<v Speaker 4>thought things were going really well, thinking, you know, that

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<v Speaker 4>was a good hang, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, and then here we are. I don't know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>she just disappeared.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, let's see if we can get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I'll call her and then and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>ask her, like straight up, how the date went for her. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to get you a second date, but b

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to actually just get you some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I would really appreciate it because everything seemed to be

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<v Speaker 4>going really smooth, and I would go out with her

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<v Speaker 4>again in a heartbeat.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's see what we can work out. Let's call

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<v Speaker 1>her because I want to figure out why she ghosts.

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<v Speaker 1>You go ahead and go back on you, Bud, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi is this Brook? It is

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Brook. This is Marcus Culling from Star one on

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<v Speaker 1>one three. Good morning, Hi, Hi. I don't suppose you

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<v Speaker 1>listened to my show? Do you?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry? I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to wake you up so early. So I

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<v Speaker 1>do a radio show. We do a segment called second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, and I got floated your phone number by

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who took you.

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<v Speaker 3>On a date.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Ryan, And Okay, he's feeling like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you ghosted, and so we're just trying to figure out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll be blunt with like, what did my

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<v Speaker 1>guy do? What did he do wrong? It's very me

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just assuming something went side with did you go?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess? Okay, there were just two things that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of stuck with me. I just couldn't shake them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>First he casually admitted that he doesn't use a top sheet.

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<v Speaker 2>He just uses like a fitted sheet and a comforter,

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<v Speaker 2>and he was he just said, like, oh, top sheets

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<v Speaker 2>are pointless fabric, and you know they're always in a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch at the bottom of the bed and create unnecessary laundry.

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<v Speaker 2>And he said this very confidently, like this was a

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<v Speaker 2>lifestyle choice of his.

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<v Speaker 1>God, we were just talking about this this morning. Producer

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor doesn't use one either, but don't most hotels do this?

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<v Speaker 2>No, there is always a top sheet.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, I mean, I guess the theory would be that,

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<v Speaker 1>like they wash them every time we get new guests,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm certain Ryan probably does not because he's a dude.

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, was there so there's something else?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Later in the night, he mentioned he sets up

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<v Speaker 2>like multiple alarms every morning and then he ignores all

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<v Speaker 2>of them. And he said, I like easing into consciousness.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he said that every you know, eventually his

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<v Speaker 2>body just wakes up when it's ready. And listen, I

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<v Speaker 2>know both of these things, when you just take them

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<v Speaker 2>as one thing, like look at each thing, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>either thing is technically wrong, but like together they just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of create a picture. I can't unsee. It just

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<v Speaker 2>felt like chaos adjacent.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the most descriptive way I've ever heard somebody

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<v Speaker 1>explain somebody chaos adjacent. Well, so part of this is

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<v Speaker 1>that Ryan is listening right now. We're trying to I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I always say we try to use it

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<v Speaker 1>as a teachable moment. I'm sorry, but Ryan, are you there?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I guys, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>So you don't use the top sheet? Is that confirmed?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't understand entirely why this is a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>I sleep hot, you know, like it it's just like

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<v Speaker 4>the top sheet like traps heat, and like this is

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<v Speaker 4>just about like getting up and going and going to

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<v Speaker 4>work and going to bed. Like I don't need to

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<v Speaker 4>make it complicated to make the bed with the top

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<v Speaker 4>sheet every day and all the pillows. What if I

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<v Speaker 4>needed to do that right, you know, like that's just extra.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of extra, this alarm thing sounds ridiculous. My wife

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<v Speaker 1>would punch me if I didn't get up when the

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<v Speaker 1>alarm goes off. If I realize you're a solo guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to get somewhere here right, Like we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to have a lady in our life.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I can work on the alarms.

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<v Speaker 4>I understand that situation, you know, and it's just I

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<v Speaker 4>know it sounds bad, but I still get to work

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<v Speaker 4>on time. I just don't leap out of bed like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, just instantly, like I'm in a movie or something.

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<v Speaker 3>I just it's something that like I've had forever, I

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<v Speaker 3>have been single a little while. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, right, I get that it's not the coolest, look,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's these are things that I could work on,

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<v Speaker 4>having a woman around consistently and being alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, I can see how that looks bad.

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<v Speaker 2>To real I understand, like you're relaxed by this just

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<v Speaker 2>makes you seem like unmanaged Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>If we look at this from Brook's perspective, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to help you along here. If we're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>her to spend the night, how about we make a

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<v Speaker 1>few adjustments.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, I'll buy the best top sheets on the planet.

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<v Speaker 4>I could find the highest thread count, whatever it takes.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm a good guy, Look, Brook, I'm teachable. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just rusty, right, you know, I'm not trying to scare

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<v Speaker 3>you off.

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<v Speaker 1>So Brook, I feel like we're making some progress. Can

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<v Speaker 1>we get to a second date with this? Can we

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<v Speaker 1>get a do over?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't need perfection. I just need efforts. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and clean sheets. But I would give it another date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes it's happening. Oh my god, I wasn't ready.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on, Yes done, fresh sheets.

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<v Speaker 1>No arms, and the countbelly. Destiny is wrong. We have

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<v Speaker 1>a second date.