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Speaker 1: For variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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Speaker 1: it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus back with

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Speaker 1: second Date Update. I want to grab Vanessa real quick

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Speaker 1: and let's let's just get started. Vanessa, are you there,

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Speaker 1: I'm here. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We got things to do, girl. We got to get Logan.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm calling about Logan.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: We met the coffee and san Mateo.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and he was just like.

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Speaker 3: Warm, easy to talk to.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you know.

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Speaker 3: We compared our favorite books. We had like a couple

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Speaker 3: in common. We vented about our rosses. He we bonded

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Speaker 3: over the fact that, like both of us think breakfast

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Speaker 3: Britos are the highest form of morning cuisine. And he

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Speaker 3: has like a sense of humor. We she just she

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Speaker 3: like seemed like a real grown up and I was

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Speaker 3: into it.

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Speaker 1: Isn't it funny the things we use about in group

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Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five are so it's like.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, our breakfast burrito is awesome.

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Speaker 3: It was a revelation.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, what were our.

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Speaker 1: Parents talking about back in the day, right, Like, I

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Speaker 1: guarantee you it wasn't Who's got the best breakfast burrito?

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Speaker 1: Thanks Instagram? Can I just say your voice is ASMR

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Speaker 1: like this is you're like the third person this week

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Speaker 1: who has just blown us away with with their for

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Speaker 1: you I could Yeah, I'd chat with you all day long.

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Speaker 3: This is great, welcome coming from a professional.

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Speaker 1: Let's not get ahead of ourselves. Honestly, I'm a I'm

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Speaker 1: a trained monkey. In fact, I better get to work here.

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Speaker 1: So the goal is to get Logan on the phone.

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Speaker 1: The second goal is to get him to talk about

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Speaker 1: your date. I want to figure out because he ghosted, right.

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Speaker 3: Yes, he ghosted. I have no idea why.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna get him on the phone. We're going

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Speaker 1: to try to figure out what his perspective of the

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Speaker 1: date was.

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Speaker 2: Okay, can you hang on for a song?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a very simple coffee date in San Mateo.

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Speaker 1: Let's figure it out. Go ahead and meet your phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now. What Hi, can I

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Speaker 1: talk to Logan? Police Logan?

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Speaker 2: This is Marcus from Star one on one three from

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Speaker 2: the morning show. Hi. Yes, I don't suppose you listen

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Speaker 2: to the show, do you?

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Speaker 4: I do not?

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Speaker 2: Okayry totally fine. So it's a radio show.

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Speaker 1: We're doing a segment right now that I would love

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Speaker 1: to have you on if you have a minute to

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Speaker 1: be on the radio with us. It's called second date Update.

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Speaker 1: It's regarding a date you've been on recently. I got

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Speaker 1: floated to your phone number from a lady who says

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Speaker 1: you took her out on a date and that she's

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Speaker 1: feeling ghosted. So I'm just trying to figure out if

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Speaker 1: something went sideways or what happened. Do you mind talking

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Speaker 1: about your date with Vanessa?

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Speaker 4: No? No, I don't mind talking. No, that's cool.

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Speaker 2: Okay, how did it go? I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: if if she did something wrong.

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Speaker 4: So the first twenty thirty minutes of the date were

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Speaker 4: actually amazing, and I actually really liked her, and I thought,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like we were kind of really getting

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Speaker 4: along and and you know, she's really funny, she's really pretty.

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Speaker 4: But there was a time where it kind of got

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Speaker 4: uh accelerated.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: I know?

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Speaker 4: So she okay, so she like there was a point

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Speaker 4: where you know, we're really kind of vibing, getting along,

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Speaker 4: and then she was like, Okay, I have to show

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Speaker 4: you something on my phone. And I was like, okay.

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Speaker 4: I figured she's gonna show me like her dog or something,

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Speaker 4: or I don't know, nephew or I don't know, you know,

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Speaker 4: it's just something normal. Then she like out this like

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Speaker 4: in tenth lift of like it was like a Pinterest

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Speaker 4: and it was an entire wedding board.

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Speaker 2: There was one detail so like wedding board.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like a Pinterest like wedding board, like everything that

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Speaker 4: she wants in her wedding, like the dress ring style,

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Speaker 4: she like expects the venue like she's already saving for

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Speaker 4: the color ballad. Then like she swiped like an other

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Speaker 4: board and it was it was literally labeled future Family

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Speaker 4: and it had like the architectural style of her dream home,

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Speaker 4: the like the like the like the freaking back yard

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Speaker 4: was laid out. I mean, if she even had one,

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Speaker 4: that was what my kids will probably look like based

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Speaker 4: on the type of man. It was like intense. So

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Speaker 4: I just sat there like kind of stunned. I didn't

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Speaker 4: really know what to say because I was like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, I mean I just met you, right, Okay,

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Speaker 4: yeah you know so yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So this is the part of the call, So

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Speaker 1: Vanessa is actually listening right now. We're just trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out what went sideways.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, Logan, sorry, I'm just a little shocked. I

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Speaker 3: was just a little shocked. It's vision boarding. Everybody does it.

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Speaker 3: Manifestation is powerful. I like you, it's you look like

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Speaker 3: you have never seen a Pinterest board. Like we were

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Speaker 3: raised in a barn. I mean, if you're scared from

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Speaker 3: like a little bit of lace and a little bit

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Speaker 3: of good lighting, then that's your issue.

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Speaker 4: I think, like, listen, you're making it way more chill

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Speaker 4: than it was. It was very intense and it was

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Speaker 4: a lot to put on family times. Just oh my god,

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Speaker 4: this plated plan our home for two.

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Speaker 3: There is no time to waste some time with people.

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Speaker 3: So I want to make sure you have the same

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Speaker 3: vision as me, and I'm manifesting it. It's called planning ahead.

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Speaker 3: Adults do it.

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Speaker 4: But you like literally told me to grow out my

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Speaker 4: hair and then i'd like fit your perfect aesthetic. And

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, okay, I was I.

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Speaker 3: Was being helpful. You would be cuter if you did that.

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Speaker 3: You're going to figure it out on your own in

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Speaker 3: like a week or two, and then you'll be like,

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Speaker 3: oh wow, okay, I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like we need to let's take a beat here

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Speaker 1: for a sec. Vanessa, you obviously know what you want. Uh,

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Speaker 1: This might be a lot for one person on a

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Speaker 1: first day. I'm just going to say that, I don't

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Speaker 1: I respect your ability to have a vision for what

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Speaker 1: you want in your life.

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Speaker 2: This might be a lot for somebody. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It was not as intense. It was not as intense

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Speaker 3: as he's describing it. He's making it sound like weird.

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Speaker 3: I was not weird.

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Speaker 4: I mean it was. It was frankly weird. It was almost,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I felt violated. She was liked because

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Speaker 4: of this like predetermined you know, thing that I'd fallen into.

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Speaker 3: It was what everybody does. They look at pictures of

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Speaker 3: people and they pick them because of a predetermined thing.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's you're looking at it like a photo and.

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Speaker 2: What they're interested in, you guys at the end of

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Speaker 2: at the end of the days.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't this honestly doesn't sound like a match to me,

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Speaker 1: less unless logan I'm bringing the room wrong.

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Speaker 4: The second No, it was it was too much for me. Frankly,

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just you were really nice.

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Speaker 2: But that was like a lot a lot, all right,

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Speaker 2: hang on, hang on, I'm calling it anyway. It is

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Speaker 2: a lot