WEBVTT - Hook Up in Grand Forks

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<v Speaker 1>I got an email I gotta read to you about

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<v Speaker 1>a hookup that had a twist. This person would not

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<v Speaker 1>be on the radio, but I'm gonna read it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Dave Jenny Bailevant. I am exhausted because you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>practically my life Monday through Friday mornings. I got to

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<v Speaker 1>share my story with you. Why am I exhausted? Here's

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<v Speaker 1>the story. I wasn't meeting anybody on Hinge because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>my radius of men was too small. So I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make it bigger and go all the way

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<v Speaker 1>to Grand Forks, down to Moine and out to Green Bay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. So they got They just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>cast a bigger net. Yeah, you got to. So I

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<v Speaker 1>met this guy who lives up in Grand Forks like

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<v Speaker 1>a month ago. We seemed to click, and pretty soon

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<v Speaker 1>he's calling me to He's telling me to come up

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<v Speaker 1>for the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's exciting. It's kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>A risky little venture. You know, he's not across town.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not meeting over at Caribou for a coffee. You're

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<v Speaker 1>going all the way with Grand Forks for the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently she packs bag heads on up. He says, he

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<v Speaker 1>has horses and we can go horseback riding. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be great. Well, that's kind of cool. There's like a plan.

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<v Speaker 1>They put some thought into this, got a plan. So

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<v Speaker 1>I drive up there. I go to his place, which

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of like a little rundown, but it was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Used to belong to his parents. He shows me around.

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<v Speaker 1>We go horseback riding on Friday. So here they are

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<v Speaker 1>on Halloween. I guess it was just this past Friday

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<v Speaker 1>is Halloween. They are on the horses and he's like

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<v Speaker 1>showing her around and their horseback riding, and that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cool. That sounds like a great start, right. We

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<v Speaker 1>get back to the house and immediately ran out of

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<v Speaker 1>things to talk about. MM, like nothing, and he was

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<v Speaker 1>nervous and uncomfortable. So I said, is there a bar

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<v Speaker 1>in town we can go to? Yeah, that's a good idea, yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So we go to this bar in town and immediately

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<v Speaker 1>a guy he knows comes up to say hi, and

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<v Speaker 1>that guy and I hit it off right away, like

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<v Speaker 1>one of those instant chemistry kind of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Here, she is how far is Grand Fort?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I was curious. It's four and a half hours

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<v Speaker 3>from the twin cities.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's up at the bar. They've run out of

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<v Speaker 1>things to talk about. It's night number one. They've still

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<v Speaker 1>got all of Saturday and Saturday night and part of Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>and things are not looking good. They're at this bar

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<v Speaker 1>and here comes a guy that she's got some chemistry with.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh random, so is the online guy is sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>playing on his phone, pretending not to notice. The other

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<v Speaker 1>guy and I are dancing. How awful would that be

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<v Speaker 1>for the other guy.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't sound like it is at all. He's just

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<v Speaker 4>chilling doing his own thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>He had this girl come up, And anyway, they're dancing

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<v Speaker 1>and pretty soon getting pretty cozy with each other. So

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<v Speaker 1>we agreed we wanted to leave with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>But who's gonna tell Guy number one?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she's staying at the hinge guy's house. Correct, Well

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<v Speaker 5>that's gonna Oh so sorry, I gotta go out and

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<v Speaker 5>be with this other guy for a while, but then

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<v Speaker 5>I'll stop back in for my stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, there's where the change of plans came in.

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<v Speaker 1>So I let his friend go tell him that we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to leave together, and the guy and I

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<v Speaker 1>left together. Only thing was my stuff was still at

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<v Speaker 1>his house, so we had to ask if we could

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<v Speaker 1>go buy his house.

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<v Speaker 2>To pick up my stuff. Okay, yea, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only are you saying, hey, guy number one, I

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<v Speaker 1>really like your friend. We're gonna leave, can we come

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<v Speaker 1>by the house and pick up my stuff?

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<v Speaker 5>That is such like a I don't that was if

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<v Speaker 5>I was the first guy, the hinge guy, I would

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<v Speaker 5>be so not sad, but like my pride would be

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<v Speaker 5>definitely shaken.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And then she kind of mentions that Guy number

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<v Speaker 1>one pretended not to mind, and honestly, I think he

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of relieved. You would be relieved. You'd be

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<v Speaker 1>a little hurt, a little sad, but you'd be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh, thank god.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh if you weren't hitting it off, yeah, probably cool.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd probably be okay.

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<v Speaker 3>If a guy came to come see me and they

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<v Speaker 3>hit it off with my friend and I wasn't vibing

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<v Speaker 3>with them, I'd be like cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So we go back to Guy number tues place and

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much banged all weekend, That's what she said. Pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much banged all weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why she's tired.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he did leave to go to a quick trip

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<v Speaker 1>to get a pizza on Saturday night. But we probably

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up eight times, eight times from Friday night to

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday afternoon. When I left. I'm exhausted. I can't walk,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can't stop smiling eight times in disguise.

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<v Speaker 2>Ever see that dude ever again? Is that how it ends?

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<v Speaker 3>She doesn't tell us the follow up, like, have they

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<v Speaker 3>been Well, I guess this just happened this weekend, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Yesterday this time yesterday, she had one leg over here

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<v Speaker 1>and one leg over there.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if she weday, well, we're exactly I.

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<v Speaker 5>Want if she knows his name, maybe I have any

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<v Speaker 5>short I wonder if she knows his last.

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<v Speaker 2>Name, maybe she'll write in, maybe she'll call in. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>we can get her on tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>She would not be on the radio, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's because she's probably a little bit embarrassed but also proud. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a crappy thing to do, to abandon your rank.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, I think all three people

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<v Speaker 1>walked away or limped away happily.

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<v Speaker 5>You would think, because like if the first guy's like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh cool, Yeah, I'm so relieved that I don't have

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<v Speaker 5>to deal with this, You're still your ego is still hurt.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because you had this whole It's not like it

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<v Speaker 4>was just a random like, oh, let's go to uh

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<v Speaker 4>North Loop. Like no, this was a four hour trip

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<v Speaker 4>for her, the commute. You had everything planned and that's

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<v Speaker 4>your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>So a woman met a guy. He met him online

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<v Speaker 1>a month ago. He seemed like a nice guy. So

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<v Speaker 1>she drives all the way to Grand Forks this past Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>just a couple of days ago, and he's like, come

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<v Speaker 1>on up, spend the weekend. I got horses. We'll go

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<v Speaker 1>horseback riding. So they went horseback riding. They came back

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<v Speaker 1>to the house and they immediately ran out of things

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about. So she says, is there a bar

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<v Speaker 1>in town? They go to the bar in town, They

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<v Speaker 1>meet one of his buddies. The buddy and this woman

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<v Speaker 1>hit it off spectacularly. She leaves with this guy, goes

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<v Speaker 1>to the first guy's house to pick up her stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>spends the weekend with one leg over here and one

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<v Speaker 1>leg over there. They said they hooked up eight times,

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<v Speaker 1>which to me sounds exhausting.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so tiring. Eight times. That's a lot of time.

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<v Speaker 1>You you've been to town a couple of times, is

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<v Speaker 1>eight times in one weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>A lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it was a Friday to a Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>Friday to Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think eight times could equate to yes, a

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<v Speaker 3>full forty eight hours.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that could.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, what's the math on that one? So a day?

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<v Speaker 2>It depends on if they went back to back six hours.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot you got to figure out here.

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<v Speaker 5>This is not the kind of math problem that I

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<v Speaker 5>thought I would be doing this morning.

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<v Speaker 6>We've got a word problem for you. There we go, kids,

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<v Speaker 6>one leg over here, one log over there. So and

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's great. But what do you think of her?

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's great she instead of having a miserable

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<v Speaker 6>weekend watching TV and silence with horse owner, she rode

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<v Speaker 6>something else.

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<v Speaker 5>I think she was determined to get some action. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>so it was like whatever happened had to happen. She

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<v Speaker 5>was like, I'm here for it because this is all

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<v Speaker 5>I want is this action thing. So she was willing

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<v Speaker 5>to drive four and a half hours. She's willing to

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<v Speaker 5>like spread the.

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<v Speaker 1>Other end net nothing that if she was just looking

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up, I ain't got no shame in that

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<v Speaker 1>at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the guy, like the friend that she ended

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<v Speaker 4>up going home with I only think he's wrong because

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<v Speaker 4>that was your friend's girl, not girl really, but because

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<v Speaker 4>they just met on hinge. But like, you know, you

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<v Speaker 4>don't take home your buddies for a girl.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just the weird thing of being like, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to bring her home with me, but I've got

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<v Speaker 5>to bring her back to your house to pick up

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<v Speaker 5>her stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that cool? Like? What in the car? Run of

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<v Speaker 2>the engine waiting? Yeah, oh my gosh, just trading off far.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you if you went out of town

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<v Speaker 1>or met somebody, or you drove. Maybe it didn't drive

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<v Speaker 1>that far. Maybe you drove like from Little Canada to

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<v Speaker 1>White Bear Lake it took you ten fifteen minutes to

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<v Speaker 1>get there. Did if you met up with someone for

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<v Speaker 1>the first time this weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>How did it go?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you spend the night? Did he spend the night?

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<v Speaker 1>She spend the night? How far did you drive? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it awkward? I think I told you the time that

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago, I met up with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Las Vegas. I dated this girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>flew back to see her two months later, and we

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<v Speaker 1>ran out of things to talk about. On the ride

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<v Speaker 1>from the airport to her house. It was a miserable

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<v Speaker 1>long weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>I had this boy that was really into me in

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<v Speaker 5>college my senior year, and like right before I graduated,

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<v Speaker 5>we were like pretty close. And then I moved to

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<v Speaker 5>Florida to work at Disney World, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to come see you. And by that point

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<v Speaker 5>I had already gotten over him, and so he he

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<v Speaker 5>drove and got on a bus and came all the

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<v Speaker 5>way to Florida and it was the most awkward, like

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<v Speaker 5>two days ever. So similar situation, but I didn't meet

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<v Speaker 5>up with some random other person and we hit it

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<v Speaker 5>off there, So not that same.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of text messages regarding this whole situation, we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to wrap up good for her. Eight times isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that much when the sex and is brand new? I disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>I eight times in one weekend? Oh no, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of agree. It's not a lot when it's new and

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<v Speaker 1>fresh off adrenaline.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, I think you're thinking that it's like an hour

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<v Speaker 3>every single time. What could have happened was like they

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<v Speaker 3>hook up right away, you're still laying there, you're in

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<v Speaker 3>a high.

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<v Speaker 2>Thirty minutes later.

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<v Speaker 3>Hook up again, yes, right off the bat, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Right break it down for it six morning Saturday.

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<v Speaker 3>You wake up the next morning and everyone's horned up

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<v Speaker 3>in the morning after some cocktails at least I am,

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<v Speaker 3>and so then you're gonna get it on. Then you

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<v Speaker 3>go out, you get your coffee, you have a little

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<v Speaker 3>launch or brunch or whatever mid afternoon. From afternoon delight,

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<v Speaker 3>we're up to four times that would get to Saturday evening.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that they probably had more drinks at that point,

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<v Speaker 3>and then they got real wow. He was tossing her around.

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<v Speaker 3>They were doing backflips and stuff three times right there.

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<v Speaker 3>Sunday morning, wake up, one last time. Eight times they

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<v Speaker 3>were bing bang boom.

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<v Speaker 4>And the all the momentum is there because you're just

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<v Speaker 4>off the high of like I want to keep doing this.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to keep doing this, So that's all you're

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<v Speaker 4>thinking about while you're doing drinks and all those other things. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>text messages at Katie WB one. I mean, honestly, you

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<v Speaker 4>never really know if you're going to hit it off

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<v Speaker 4>with the person until you meet him. So original guy

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<v Speaker 4>is probably like whatever, and glad he didn't have to

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<v Speaker 4>spend the weekend awkwardly trying to act interested or like

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<v Speaker 4>they have anything to talk about, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>very true. I think that the first guy was probably like,

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<v Speaker 4>he's not stupid. I mean, she found him charming and

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<v Speaker 4>funny and whatever, so he's not stupid. They just didn't

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<v Speaker 4>have anything to talk about. Probably all they talked about

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<v Speaker 4>was like, Oh, it'll be really it'd be really fun

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<v Speaker 4>to come up, and that's once they Once they had

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<v Speaker 4>exhausted that topic, there was nothing else. Definitely sucks in

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<v Speaker 4>the moment, but I think he dodged the bulletin. The

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<v Speaker 4>original guy, Yeah, I think so, because he probably was like,

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<v Speaker 4>if she's willing to just up and leave like this,

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<v Speaker 4>then she wasn't for me.