1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: So we're midway between the holidays and Valentine's Day. And 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 2: to most of us that's just the time of year, 4 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 2: but to single women with a boyfriend, these are the 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 2: days in which they are hoping something happens. Like if 6 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: something happens, like a proposal, it would not be shocking. 7 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: It's Christmas, right, everybody wants because they see their friends. 8 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 2: A lot of women get engaged on Christmas, a lot 9 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 2: of women get engaged on New Year's Eve, and a 10 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 2: lot of women get engaged of Valentine's Day. And just 11 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 2: a simple scroll through Facebook, if you even still use Facebook, 12 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 2: somebody's friends of somebody is going to post that picture 13 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 2: with the ring. It's usually sometimes it's subtle. Sometimes it's just, 14 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: you know, the two of them in a hug, but 15 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 2: her hand is fan over his chest. That's one of 16 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 2: the moves those girls do. Or it's just a close 17 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 2: up of the ring if it's any good. But girls 18 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 2: notice stuff like that. So if you were thinking that 19 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 2: it might happen, because you've been dating for a couple 20 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 2: of years now and you've gone to a couple of 21 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: weddings of your girlfriends. Maybe you haven't discussed it with 22 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: your boyfriend, but in the back of your mind, right, 23 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: you would not be floored if he proposed on Christmas 24 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 2: and New Year's. But Christmas came and went, New Year's 25 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: came and went, nothing happened, all right. But now that 26 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: now we're halfway to Valentine's Day and a lot of 27 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: women are getting anxiety. They're just having a just you know, 28 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 2: they want it to happen, but they don't want to 29 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: say they want it to happen because everybody's talking about 30 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: how women don't want to be married, right, that's like 31 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: the big story. I don't know the graphs that are 32 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 2: out there of women, single women under the age of forty, 33 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 2: they're just not marrying at all. But that's definitely true, right, 34 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: you see these graphs all the time. I'm wondering for 35 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 2: the single women under forty that are, for lack of 36 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 2: a better word, you know, with a guy. I don't 37 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 2: like the word relationship. We've talked about that. I'll explain 38 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: that by the way, so I won't use it. But 39 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: if you got like a steady guy, a guy that 40 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: you bring to the house on Christmas Eve or around 41 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 2: the holidays, a guy that you're with three or four 42 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 2: or five or six New Year's Eves. Right, So whatever 43 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 2: you call that guy, you're not You're you're unmarried and 44 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: under the age of forty. But it's not necessarily where 45 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: you want to be. So I understand all of that. 46 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 2: So Valentine's Day is coming and it's going to be 47 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 2: a bit of a disappointment. Well there's anxiety leading up 48 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: to it, and then if nothing happens, you know, is 49 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 2: just a slog until Thanksgiving. And you know, you may 50 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: not want to admit it, but you know when you 51 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 2: leave Thanksgiving dinner and say, all right, well look I 52 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 2: wait to leave early. Yeah, he's got to get back. 53 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: I got you know, the dogs. So but thanks for everything. 54 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 2: Great seeing you, Aunt Carol or Grandma or whatever. Right 55 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: when the couple leaves in the kitchen, when everybody's washing dishes, 56 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 2: that's all they're talking about. They're talking about you. They're saying, 57 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: how long has she been dating Colin? Oh gosh, I mean, 58 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: I mean it's you know, before the baby was born. 59 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 2: So you know, like families measure like when the youngest 60 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 2: person in the family was born, that's how they measure time. 61 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 2: You know, so that's what they're talking about or are 62 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:49,839 Speaker 2: they gonna get married? 63 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. 64 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: Well have they said anything? So has she said anything 65 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 2: to you? No? No, she's I mean she seems happy. 66 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 2: And you know what, if they're happy, that's great. Like 67 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 2: this is the conversation that goes on, well for regular people. 68 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 2: If it's an Italian house, that's not the way it 69 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: goes down. It's much different. They're like, what's going on? 70 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 2: I mean, somebody, you need to talk to her? Right, 71 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 2: Like it's a little bit more intense, but nevertheless, it's 72 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:19,239 Speaker 2: being discussed, whether you know it or not. Your family 73 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 2: or whoever you're close to. When you're not there are 74 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: wondering why he's not proposed to you. And I think 75 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 2: a lot of single women kind of know that. So 76 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 2: it's important that I give you the rules because there 77 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 2: are rules to these things and I know them and 78 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 2: I don't think you do. So Rule number one, stop 79 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 2: calling these things relationships, Okay, very important, lou Penrose. Rule 80 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: number four, words matter, So choose each word carefully. Don't 81 00:04:53,800 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 2: be flippant about your life, and cover with words. We're 82 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 2: in a relationship, we've been in a long term relationship. 83 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 2: There is no such thing as a relationship. A relationship 84 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 2: means everything, and it means nothing. Like I have a 85 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 2: relationship with my mailman. I see him. I tipped him 86 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 2: for Christmas. I mean we know each other, like I 87 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 2: because he's always dropping off stuff Like I like, that's 88 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: a relationship. I have a relationship with my wife. I 89 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 2: have a relationship with my son's sixth grade class teacher. 90 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 2: Like everything is a relationship. So it means nothing because 91 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: it's everything. So dismiss your dismiss that term, disabuse that term. 92 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 2: It's a meaningless term. Number two and this one's gonna 93 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 2: be tough to hear, but somebody's got to tell you, 94 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 2: as a woman after the age of twenty one, there 95 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 2: is no such thing as a boyfriend. Stop using the 96 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: word boyfriend. It's frankly unbecoming, and as you get into 97 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 2: like your late thirties and forties, it's icky to the 98 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 2: rest of us. For a single woman, there are only 99 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 2: three things that exist in your life. There is an acquaintance, 100 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 2: There is a fiance, and there is a husband. There 101 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 2: is nothing else, nothing else. Now, you can introduce your 102 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 2: acquaintance to your family as a friend, but he's not 103 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 2: a boyfriend. A boyfriend is a lyric and a nineteen 104 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 2: fifties pop song for fifteen year old girls. So stop 105 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: calling this person your boyfriend. He isn't. There is no 106 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 2: such animal. There's just no such thing. Rule number three. 107 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 2: If you are ever thinking of getting married, then what's 108 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 2: going on with this guy has to have an expiration 109 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 2: date has to You can't just keep waiting. So eighteen 110 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 2: months eighteen months if you're, for lack of a better termautal, 111 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 2: like this term either going steady. If you're choosing to 112 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 2: see this acquaintance regularly, and I would recommend you don't 113 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 2: do that. I would recommend you see him as often 114 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:36,239 Speaker 2: as you like, but also see other people that want 115 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: your attention and invite you out. 116 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: On a date. 117 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: You should not be exclusive with somebody until you're engaged. 118 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 2: That's what an engagement is. Exclusivity with one person with 119 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 2: the intent of walking down the aisle, but for what. 120 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 2: And I know people do do this and think what 121 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 2: I'm saying is old fashioned, but it's not old fashion. 122 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 2: It's very smart. But if you don't want to see 123 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: anybody else, you just want to see this acquaintance, then 124 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 2: you check your calendar and eighteen months. Eighteen months. That 125 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: gives you one cycle of Christmas Eve, New Year's Eve, 126 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, your birthday, fourth of July, like one cycle, 127 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 2: and then the back half of whenever you started dating. 128 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: And then if there isn't a ring in a date 129 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: by the end of the eighteenth month, it's done. You're done. 130 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 2: Why are you still going to events? Why are you 131 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 2: still going to family functions? Why are you still going 132 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 2: out to dinner with this person? Why there's no reason 133 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 2: to It starts to get humiliating for you, whether you 134 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 2: know it or not, to show up to your parents' 135 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 2: house Thanksgiving and Christmas, and you know, over and over 136 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: and over again with the same guy who refuses to 137 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 2: commit to you for life. So eighteen months ringing a date, 138 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 2: then you show them the door and that's that. It 139 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: doesn't mean you have to be mean to them, but 140 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 2: what you don't have anything common thereafter, because your life's 141 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 2: moving forward. And I say these things not to be 142 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 2: unkind or to pick on you, but I see women 143 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 2: do this. They move in with a guy and you 144 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 2: know they think, oh, well, one day we'll get married, 145 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: but not right now. We're working on our careers. It's 146 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: very expensive. Weddings are expensive. You know we're not ready 147 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 2: for that commitment. Blah blah blah blah blah. And you 148 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: know what happens. Days become weeks, and weeks become years, 149 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 2: and then statistically speaking, you wind up older broker statistically speaking, 150 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: and just as I'm married. So follow my rules and 151 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 2: you'll win this game. 152 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 153 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 2: So Usha Vance is the wife of Vice President JD. Vance. 154 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: She announced earlier this week that she's expecting baby in July. 155 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 2: This will be the couple's fourth and it comes. The 156 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 2: Trump administration is elevating their pro family messaging and celebrating 157 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 2: mothers who have careers. Here's the story. 158 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 4: Being a full time working mom does require planning, but 159 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 4: it does challenge the idea that women have to choose. 160 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 4: The White House has been pushing incentives to encourage families 161 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 4: to have more children. It's part of enough for to 162 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 4: tackle the declining birth rate, which in twenty twenty four 163 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 4: reached a record low. The administration, for instance, is trying 164 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,439 Speaker 4: to lower costs and expand access to IVF. The One 165 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 4: Big Beautiful Bill also increases the Child Tax Credit. 166 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, so there's a couple of things that the federal 167 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: government can do to create conditions better for people that 168 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 2: have families. I don't like the sound of this. Not 169 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 2: a fan. And here's why I don't want. If the 170 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 2: incentive is to lower taxes on everybody, whether they have 171 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 2: children or not, I'm down. In fact, I'm more than 172 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 2: down with it for it lower taxes on everybody. It's 173 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 2: not fair to do incentives just for people that have children, 174 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: because not everybody has children, and we're all Americans. I 175 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 2: don't like when they target these incentives like this because 176 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 2: this is not what government is supposed to do. Government 177 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 2: is not in the baby making business. It's none of 178 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 2: my government's business if I start a family or not. 179 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 2: I'm free. And I know a lot of people are 180 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 2: going to disagree on me with the on this. Because 181 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 2: of the report of the declining birth rate. Did you 182 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: give the numbers there before? 183 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 4: Reached a record low. The administration, for instance, is trying 184 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 4: to lower costs and expand access to IVF. The One 185 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 4: Big Beautiful Bill also increases the child tax credit. 186 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, child tax credits. That's that's not fair. That is 187 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: money that's coming out of the treasury. Therefore, there's fewer 188 00:11:56,320 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 2: dollars for federal services and federal expenses that have to 189 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 2: be made up by people that don't have children. That's 190 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: not good. If the government wants to streamline IVF, I 191 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 2: have no problem with that. That's just industry regulation. There's 192 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 2: no problem. But there is a declining birth rate in 193 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 2: this country. That is a statistic. I think that the 194 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 2: federal government should be dispassionate about. I don't want the 195 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 2: government incentivizing us to have children, nor do I want 196 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 2: the government penalizing us for having children. This is not freedom, 197 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 2: This is government overreach into your life. How does that 198 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 2: sound to you? Look, I get that we have a 199 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 2: declining birth rate, but these are active choices, and it's 200 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 2: okay for American society to change. If people look, I 201 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,599 Speaker 2: have three sons. I'm very happy with my choices. It 202 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 2: was a time that we considered a four and I 203 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 2: couldn't be happier. And that's the choice I made as 204 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 2: a younger man. I did not think I would have children, 205 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 2: and I was not planning on having children, and it 206 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 2: all changed when I met my wife, who I'm told 207 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 2: also felt like she didn't want to have children. So 208 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 2: it was about our marriage that changed our opinion of 209 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 2: having a family, Like I wouldn't have had children with 210 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: anybody else, and now I have a house full of loud, 211 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:33,680 Speaker 2: screaming Italian boys, so like it's my life. The things 212 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 2: that happened in my life are happening my way. And 213 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 2: there's no amount of child tax deduction that would have 214 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 2: changed my mind if I wanted to have children, nor 215 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 2: would increase in a child what is it? The child? 216 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 3: Uh? 217 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 2: What's the term? 218 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 5: Half? 219 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,559 Speaker 4: The One Big Beautiful Bill also increases the child tax credit. 220 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, a child tax credit, Like you can you double 221 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 2: the talent child tax credit. It doesn't matter, like nobody's 222 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 2: having an extra child because oh hey, if we have 223 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 2: a child, we can take credit and take it off 224 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 2: our income taxes. Like nobody thinks like that. So I 225 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 2: don't want the government doing that. And there's something about 226 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 2: it that is too involved in our personal lives. And 227 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 2: I get it. It is right hearted. They think it 228 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 2: would be a great thing if Americans settled down, got married, 229 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 2: have families, because good things happen for society when that happens. 230 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 2: People buy houses, they put roots in the ground, They 231 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: all of a sudden become members of a community and 232 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 2: their town and they write they So that's stimulates economic 233 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 2: activity in that town because when you have kids, you 234 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 2: don't drive too far, and now you care about your 235 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 2: town because you have kids, and you want to know 236 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 2: who's disabled car is across the street. You want to 237 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 2: know the number of code enforcement because you have kids. 238 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 2: You don't want your community and your town and your 239 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 2: cul de sact to look like hell. So a lot 240 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 2: of good things happen when people get married and have 241 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: children to streets, neighborhoods, cul de sacs, and towns because 242 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: you all of a sudden don't put up with crap 243 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 2: that you otherwise wouldn't care about if you were just 244 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 2: a single person. And you know it's good for schools. 245 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: We built the entire society based on the assumption, at 246 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 2: least with respect to public education for free. We built 247 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 2: the entire society based on the assumption that people would 248 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 2: grow up, meet somebody pretty, marry her, you know, pick 249 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 2: her up and carry her over the threshold of a 250 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 2: house or an apartment, and start having a family. And 251 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 2: that's why we have an elementary school like walking distance 252 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: from almost every house. Well, if people stop having babies, 253 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 2: we really need to like, reconsider how we're funding the 254 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 2: schools and why do we have this many schools? Right Like, 255 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 2: it changes everything, And then you know the house thing. 256 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 2: Right there are starter homes, small single family homes, townhomes, townhouses, 257 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 2: small detached houses only a third bedroom and right, move 258 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 2: out of your house, graduate college, move in with a 259 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 2: buddy in an apartment building. I did this corner of 260 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 2: Lincoln and Washington in Venice. Then you know, you move 261 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 2: out of that bachelor scene and you get married and 262 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: you and your wife get an apartment. You save up money, 263 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: you buy a house, small house, start having a family. 264 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 2: Now there's not enough bedrooms. Got to sell that house 265 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 2: and move into a bigger house. What that does is 266 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 2: free up the apartment that you and your buddy lived 267 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 2: in for the next generation of guys graduating high school 268 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 2: and moving out of their family house. And then you 269 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 2: move out of that small house with only three bedrooms. 270 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 2: That opens up a three bedroom, small little house for 271 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 2: the couple that doesn't have any babies yet but want 272 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 2: to have babies. And then you move into a bigger house. 273 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 2: And then you raise your children in that house, and 274 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 2: then they go off to college and you sell the 275 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 2: house and you and your wife get a small all 276 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 2: you know, a small place in the senior world, and 277 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 2: you know, you save your money and you fly over 278 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 2: the country to see your grandkids, and that that that 279 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 2: frees up that three thousand square foot house with the 280 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 2: backyard for the next generation of family that needs now 281 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 2: a backyard with a swing set, walking distance to a park. 282 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 2: So like it all, It was all designed this way, 283 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 2: and trust me, planning directors at every city in Los 284 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 2: Angeles spent an awful amount of awful long lot of 285 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 2: a lot of time planning this. Where do we build 286 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 2: houses well, where do we build small density, Where do 287 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 2: we build single family houses? Where do we put the apartments? Right? 288 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: They were all planning based on the assumption that you 289 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:47,880 Speaker 2: are going to get married and have children. So if 290 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 2: you don't want to do that, that's your call and 291 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 2: it's your life. But we have to rethink the way 292 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 2: we design everything. 293 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty demand. 294 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 3: You want to get more people married, change the divorce laws. 295 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 3: Until that changes, marriages will continue to decline because frankly, 296 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 3: man are sick of it. 297 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 2: An I appreciate the call. I hear this a lot 298 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 2: from men who got burned in family court. Look, I 299 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 2: I disagree. I just disagree. We've had the same laws 300 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 2: on the books and people didn't always get divorced, but 301 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 2: in the rate that they're getting divorced now. So you 302 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 2: don't get married with the intent to get divorced. And 303 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:41,160 Speaker 2: if you have, if you're getting married older, you're gonna 304 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 2: have things in your portfolio, whether you have savings or 305 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 2: whether you invested in a house, or even just if 306 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 2: you invested in your retirement. The years you invested in 307 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 2: your retirement, you have or you certainly ought to have 308 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 2: by the time you're like in your thirties, some wealth. 309 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 2: They may I'd be a lot of wealth, and you 310 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 2: might be upside down and you're net worth is zero, 311 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 2: but you ought to have like some if you're working 312 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 2: for a company and you put money in their retirement 313 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 2: fund or something, I mean, you ought to be Well. 314 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 2: Certainly nobody should be marrying you if you're thirty and 315 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,120 Speaker 2: you don't have a pot to spit in, so you're 316 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 2: not really marriage material in the first place. Not a 317 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 2: catch as far as I'm concerned. If I was a woman. 318 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 2: But if that's the case, if you think, well, you know, 319 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 2: I have a bit of money saved for my retirement 320 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 2: and it's mine and or you know, I have this condo. 321 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:43,159 Speaker 2: If you're that concerned. They have these tools called prematteral agreements, 322 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 2: and there's nothing wrong with them. I know they are, 323 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 2: you know, hyper sensitive and pop culture. If you watch 324 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 2: Sex in the City. Carrie refused to sign one. Charlotte 325 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,479 Speaker 2: got all freaked out about it, and all four girls 326 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 2: talked about it. Oh my god, a prenuptial agreement. That's unromantic. 327 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 2: It's not. It's a smart tool. And if you have 328 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 2: any you know, any possessions, or if you have anything 329 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 2: at all, you should sign it. All it says is 330 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 2: should the marriage end in divorce, each party takes out 331 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 2: what they brought in. That's all. So that's it. It's 332 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 2: it's very reasonable. And if she doesn't, if you own 333 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 2: a house, or you have a sum, a pretty good 334 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 2: sum in your retirement that you've been building up because 335 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 2: you've been sacrificing and maxing, you're the money that you're 336 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 2: allowed to put in your four oh one k, and 337 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:39,159 Speaker 2: she won't get married to you because should the marriage 338 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 2: end a divorce, she thinks she deserves to one hundred 339 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,119 Speaker 2: percent of all a fifty percent of all of that 340 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 2: or fifty percent of the house. Forget it, then she's 341 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 2: not the You don't want her. Kick it to the 342 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 2: gutta and get yourself a nutter, So choose well too. 343 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,439 Speaker 2: I'm not just saying go get married. Everyone should go 344 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 2: get married, start getting married and have children because the 345 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 2: Trump administration wants you to do it, or because Usha 346 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,920 Speaker 2: is having a fourth baby. I'm saying, if you want 347 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 2: to be a married person, then be a married person. 348 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 2: But don't tell me that it's the divorce laws that 349 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 2: are stopping people from getting getting married. No, nobody's thinking 350 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 2: about divorce if they're seriously thinking about getting married. Here's 351 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 2: a viral video of a woman. She's getting fed up 352 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 2: because guys are becoming two I don't even know what 353 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 2: to call that. It's the opposite of chivalry. For the 354 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 2: longest time, women wanted to be equal. So now guys 355 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 2: are calling their bluff and treating them as equals, even 356 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 2: on dates. And she's just fed up one other date 357 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 2: and it's like. 358 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 6: It was good the bill came. The bill didn't come. 359 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 6: He asked for the bill, and he said two bills. 360 00:21:56,440 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 2: Ooh man, that cuts right, like he's like, the state's 361 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 2: over waiter check please right away, sir, and it's two bills. 362 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 1: WOWSA. 363 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's uh that's not fun to hear, I guess, 364 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 2: but it is. It's a sign, right, I mean, it's definitely. 365 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 2: It's definitely a signal of the date not going well. 366 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 2: But she went on like she she tried her best 367 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 2: to not think about that and just not say anything, 368 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: even though she clearly didn't like it. 369 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 6: And if someone says I want to take you out, 370 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 6: then I want to be taken out, which means to 371 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 6: me to pay and whatever. 372 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 2: So we did that. 373 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 6: I paid, and it's fine. 374 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. See it's not fine. It's not fine. And you 375 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 2: know it's not fine. Don't say it's fine. Uh. It 376 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 2: it broke your heart. It hurts you because you wanted 377 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 2: to be special. You wanted someone taking you out to dinner, 378 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 2: asking you out, and then taking you out and then 379 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 2: telling you, oh, and you'll be paying for yourself now 380 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 2: that the date is over. That's uncool. So but but 381 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 2: keep your dignity, like smile, they're like, oh, and then 382 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 2: reach in your purse and get your credit card and 383 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 2: smile and get through the uber and say good night, 384 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 2: and then throw away his number. This is not a 385 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 2: good guy, Like, this is nobody that you ever need 386 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 2: to see again. But she tried to resurrect it. 387 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 6: And then he said are you free this week? 388 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 2: And he said yeah? And then I talk bad answer. 389 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 2: Are you free this week? 390 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 391 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 2: No, you're not free. You are busy searching for another 392 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 2: person that actually will treat you with dignity and pay 393 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 2: for your dinner. 394 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 6: And then he said are you free this week? And 395 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 6: he said yeah? And then I texted him after and 396 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,719 Speaker 6: I'm like, I had a nice time, thanks, And then 397 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 6: he read. 398 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 2: Donald Tech he did not have a nice time. You 399 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 2: were having a nice time and it came crashing down 400 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 2: because he was treating you with disrespect. See, this is 401 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 2: the problem. Women are trying so hard to make things 402 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,640 Speaker 2: work that are not working. This is never gonna work. 403 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 2: You never want to see this guy again. You do 404 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 2: not want this person to be in your life. You 405 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 2: don't want him to be the father of your children. 406 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 2: If your daughter came home and told you this story, 407 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 2: what would you tell your daughter to do? Why would 408 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 2: you do something that you would advise your daughter not 409 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 2: to do. 410 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,239 Speaker 6: And then I texted him after and I'm like I 411 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 6: had nice time to thanks, and then he read it 412 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,239 Speaker 6: and didn't respond, and it's like, okay, I don't know, 413 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 6: Like I'm just tired of it, but like I just 414 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 6: like want a gentleman. 415 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 2: That's right, you deserve a gentleman. So go find yourself 416 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,479 Speaker 2: a gentleman. The way to achieve that. Here are the rules. 417 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 2: If you're trying to find a gentleman that is worthy 418 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 2: of your time and you can see yourself having a 419 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 2: future with that might include a ring and a date, 420 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 2: here's how you do it. When somebody asks you out 421 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 2: for a date. Here's your answer. Now write this down. 422 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 2: You have to say it exactly the way I tell you. 423 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 2: Don't try and modify it. Don't try and improve upon it. 424 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 2: It cannot be improved upon. So ione asks you on 425 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 2: a date, oh uh sure, when Friday. I can't go 426 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 2: out with you on Friday, I have a date. I am, however, 427 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 2: available on Saturday. Exactly like that. Say it exactly like that. 428 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 2: And if it's Saturday, I can't go out with you 429 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 2: on Saturday, I have a date. I am nevertheless available 430 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 2: for Sunday brunch. You will instantly become so attractive. There 431 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 2: is nothing in that alta that you could buy that 432 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 2: could make you more attractive than you saying that to 433 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 2: somebody that asking you out on a date. Write it down. 434 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 435 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 3: A lot has been said today, but you definitely rock. 436 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 2: You better believe I rock. Maybe there's just far too 437 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 2: many men out there that are tired of get and 438 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 2: take advantage of a free meal. How can a man 439 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 2: be taken advantage of by a woman looking for a 440 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 2: free meal? You asked her out, You asked her out. 441 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 2: You said you're great, Uh, wonderful meeting you. This has 442 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 2: been a lot of fun. When can I see you again? 443 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 2: Are you available on Friday? You you you initiated the date, 444 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:48,479 Speaker 2: The invitation was yours. You have to supply the party 445 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 2: and look, man, if you're too cheap to buy a 446 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 2: girl dinner, stay home. 447 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 5: Prose. 448 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,120 Speaker 1: Marriage is the icing on the cake. 449 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,120 Speaker 2: I could eat just the fond it hearing get screwed 450 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 2: in divorces. 451 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 7: I'm a woman and was divorced and I got screwed. 452 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 2: I'm still paying my ex husband money after thirty years. 453 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 2: Thirty years. Wow, that's a I mean, that's a retirement plan. 454 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 2: He's got a good lawyer, that is, Yeah, you've got. 455 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,120 Speaker 1: A bad lawyer. 456 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 2: Thirty years all right, Well, that seems to me that 457 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 2: you were a high earner and he wasn't. And these 458 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:37,360 Speaker 2: things matter, right, Love is not enough. Love is important, 459 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 2: but love is not enough. You got to be a fit. 460 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 2: So if you are dating, don't date below your station. 461 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:46,360 Speaker 3: Heyleu. 462 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:51,639 Speaker 2: Oh my god, are people seriously talking about this freezing 463 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 2: cold that people are going to have in the Midwest 464 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,119 Speaker 2: for three whole days? 465 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 5: Wow? 466 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 3: I mean, come on, man, h three days. I think 467 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 3: they'll be okay. 468 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think they'll be okay, but there'll be no 469 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 2: food in the grocery store for about a month. 470 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 5: Hey, Lou, I'm desre. Thank you so much for actually 471 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 5: talking about the German deli in Big Bear. Then they're once. 472 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,199 Speaker 5: I'm going there on Valentine's I am super excited to 473 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 5: try the German deli. I've been eating liverwort sandwiches brought 474 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 5: worse in sauerkraut my whole life. My parents have taught 475 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 5: me it. I know, I'm one hundred percent pure German. 476 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 5: My parents are German, but it's my great grandparents that 477 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 5: are from Germany, so I don't know anything about my roots, 478 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,719 Speaker 5: and I can't wait to go to that deli. Thank you. 479 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 2: Well, take a picture of yourself there and then send 480 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: it to me. I'm pretty easy to find at Loupenrose 481 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 2: on x Lou Penrose Radio on Instagram. Uh, I don't 482 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 2: know what I am on threads. I don't know how 483 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 2: I have a Thread's account. Is it because it's all 484 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 2: meta and it's automatic. I don't know. I don't understand. 485 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 2: I just don't have the time to go to all 486 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 2: these accounts. But uh, Instagram and and and access pretty 487 00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,680 Speaker 2: much and yeah, have yourself a ball. It is just 488 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 2: an unbelievable place and I can't eat there enough. You 489 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 2: gotta be like if I lived in Big Beer, I 490 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 2: would probably eat at that German deli every day and 491 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 2: then I would be like Bobby Hill with gout. Remember 492 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 2: what happened to Bobby Hill from King of the Hill. 493 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 2: Kept going to the show Biz deli and having chicken 494 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 2: liver sandwiches and he got gout. So but yeah, it's 495 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 2: I mean, it's a liver worst. As an Italian liver 496 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 2: worst is a rarity, but you always see it and 497 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 2: as a kid, I'm like, what it like? I always 498 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 2: wanted it. It's an interesting smell. And I think I 499 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 2: had a friend who was of Hungarian descent and he 500 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 2: he didn't eat liver worst. I think it's that other 501 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 2: word you were saying, it brought worst, maybe another worst, 502 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,479 Speaker 2: but it's shaped like liverle worst, and he swore by it, 503 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 2: and I tried it, and it's it's distinct. It's a 504 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 2: required taste, but it is so good. And for years 505 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 2: I've just been eating the liver worst that they have 506 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 2: at the deli counter at the grocery store. And I 507 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 2: was in Big Bear and I had liverle worst, and man, 508 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 2: it's a game changer. You'll never go back to Boar's 509 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 2: Head after that. So you're gonna have a blast. And 510 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 2: they have real pretzels. The sour kraut is served steaming hot, 511 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 2: which is interesting and it's real quaint. And it's right 512 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 2: there on Big Bed Boulevard, like right before you go 513 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 2: to the village, walking distance from my cabin, which I'm 514 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 2: looking at the Big Bear cam at those two the 515 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 2: eagles that everyone talks about. I know, Gary and Shannon. 516 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,479 Speaker 2: They're on the eagle beat in Big Bear Lake. And 517 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 2: there is an egg under Jackie, so maybe this effort 518 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,960 Speaker 2: by the Trump administration to expand families, maybe the Eagles 519 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 2: got caught wind of it and they decided to go 520 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,239 Speaker 2: ahead and have an egg. So and I don't know 521 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,040 Speaker 2: if they were able to deduct you know, the egg 522 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 2: in this tax year, if they had the egg before 523 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 2: December thirty first, if they were able to take advantage 524 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 2: of the expansion of the child tax credit. I don't 525 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 2: know how that works with eagles. But maybe they're excited 526 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 2: about Usha and decided to go ahead and have themselves 527 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 2: a baby eagle. But it's all very exciting. Gonna be 528 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 2: pretty cold in Big Bear this weekend, but not nearly 529 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 2: as cold as it will be in Minneapolis. Hey, under 530 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 2: Armour had a breach. I don't know how under Armour 531 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 2: got my email address. I have a lot of under 532 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 2: Armor clothing. Following the Colin Kaepernick thing, my mother in law, 533 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 2: who was married to a Vietnam veteran who died from 534 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:50,280 Speaker 2: Agent Orange, very patriotic and she did not like the 535 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 2: disrespect to the flag from Colin Kaepernick and decided that 536 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 2: no more Nike, and so for my birthday and for Christmas, 537 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 2: I would get under Armour from her, and I have 538 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 2: no idea what under Armour knows about you or me, 539 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 2: but somehow the information got lead. 540 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 7: Under Armour says seventy two million of their customers' email 541 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 7: addresses and other personal information were parlined in the data 542 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 7: breach late last year. 543 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 2: Email Edger I could get email Edger like, how is 544 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 2: that a big deal? What other information would a clothing 545 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 2: company have from you? Right now? I'm like your credit 546 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 2: card in for me? That's why does under Armour even 547 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 2: need email addresses? And who cares if somebody knows that 548 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 2: you bought stuff from under Armour. 549 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 7: The clothing retailer says there are no signs that hacker 550 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 7: stole any passwords or financial information involved in online transactions. 551 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 7: A cybersecurity company says some of the records taken included names, 552 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 7: birth dates, genders, and zip codes, and under armo. 553 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 2: Genders and zip codes say, some of these data breaches 554 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 2: I think we don't need to worry about. Like if 555 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 2: you told me that visa or my wife's Nordstrom card 556 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 2: got you know, got broken into, and someone was out 557 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 2: there charging even more things on a Nordstrom card, then 558 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 2: I'd be concerned. But I think with under Armour, I 559 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 2: think will be. 560 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 7: Fin Fox person says any implication that sensitive personal information 561 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 7: of tens of millions of customers has been compromised is unfounded. Tombergotti, 562 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 7: Fox News. 563 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 2: All right, so we're saying, did you know that In 564 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 2: and Outs Burgers funds are based from sourdom? I did 565 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 2: not know that. Didn't taste any sour dough at In 566 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 2: and Out, But thanks for the tip. Hey, Lou, you 567 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 2: forgot about Tommy's double cheeseburg with Chile. Mmm mmm. The 568 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 2: delicious good call right there. Tommy's makes a good burger, 569 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 2: and tomorrow is National Burger Day. Keep that in mind. 570 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 2: Lou Penrose on kf I AM six forty live everywhere 571 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 2: on the iHeartRadio app 572 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 1: KFI AM on demand