WEBVTT - When Does Ashley Make It Official? 

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<v Speaker 1>This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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<v Speaker 1>Farrah and Farrah, Tampa accident attorneys.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Nashville, your girlfriend's still here?

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<v Speaker 3>No, she left.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you feel an empty void now?

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<v Speaker 4>No, because I do like my space.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I enjoy distance, because as soon as she left,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, okay, I'm going to lay in bed,

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<v Speaker 3>do anything I want. And she's kind of the same.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't even talk when she got back. I was

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<v Speaker 3>just like, hey, did you make it home? She took

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<v Speaker 3>a nap, and I just did all my Sunday errands

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<v Speaker 3>and relaxed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But did I wake up this morning and miss her? Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>When is she going to move here?

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<v Speaker 3>When probably we're like official and we're seriously dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you had that conversation yet?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we've had that conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Really?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you got to talk about the future, especially distance.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, we've talked about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And she does horses?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>She don't do them. She births them. She's a vet tech, right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so she delivers the horse babies.

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<v Speaker 2>Can she do that here?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Florida is actually Ocala and a couple other places here

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<v Speaker 3>in Florida. They're known as, like, they have the best

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<v Speaker 3>horse hospitals. Our friend, Phillip, his family, they own horses

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<v Speaker 3>out there, so he kind of was familiar.

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<v Speaker 2>They do?

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<v Speaker 4>Yep. That's how I found out. All right, cool. We

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<v Speaker 4>have a horse ranch, like, right down the street from us.

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<v Speaker 2>Caballeros. And Spanish for horse.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh!

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<v Speaker 4>I did not know that. Why do you know that?

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<v Speaker 2>Because my last name is Carballo.

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<v Speaker 4>It's close to Caballero.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, some people say your last name means horse. And

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<v Speaker 1>I say, no, it really doesn't. So you guys, when

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys think that Ashley and her girlfriend are

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<v Speaker 1>going to move in with each other?

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<v Speaker 4>I've always been dating for three months. I think very soon.

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<v Speaker 4>That's my guess. That's way too soon.

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<v Speaker 3>I probably wouldn't even make it official for another six months.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to understand the distance. When you see someone

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<v Speaker 3>every day in the same state, I guess, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you can move a little quicker. But, like, the distance,

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<v Speaker 3>I still got to get to know her. I got

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<v Speaker 3>to see her on a bad day. I got to

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<v Speaker 3>see her on a good day. We had an argument,

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<v Speaker 3>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Got to see that.

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<v Speaker 3>Because what if she, like, turns into someone completely different?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just like, hey, like, I'm not liking this.

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<v Speaker 5>800-409-9393.

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<v Speaker 1>At what point do you have that type of conversation?

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<v Speaker 1>At what point do you move in with each other? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I moved in with each other in about all of

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<v Speaker 1>four weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>That was quick.

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<v Speaker 3>I have another best friend, Ashley. She and her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>have been together two years, and they don't live together.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting. How quick was it for Sean you.

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<v Speaker 3>Just had seen?

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<v Speaker 2>Very, very quick.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, what quick? Two days?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you live in the house that you lived in now?

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<v Speaker 3>So I bought my house by myself, and then we

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<v Speaker 3>started dating, and we were together all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, just move in.

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<v Speaker 6>See?

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<v Speaker 4>That's what it is when you're in the same state,

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<v Speaker 4>in the same city.

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<v Speaker 2>Where did he live?

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<v Speaker 4>He was with his parents.

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<v Speaker 2>So you wanted the.

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<v Speaker 4>She wanted that in the house.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, come on. Literally, you're here all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>She wanted an implication.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted someone to take out the trash.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm mad at that.

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<v Speaker 4>He was supposed to walk the dogs.

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<v Speaker 5>You're here.

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<v Speaker 2>Might as well come on in.

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<v Speaker 4>He was supposed to walk the dogs. He didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to do that. Yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Hector. Hey, Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>When should Ashley and her girlfriend seriously start thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>moving in with each other?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, there's no telling. You know, sometimes you get

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<v Speaker 5>with somebody and you click and you can't be without them.

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<v Speaker 5>And sometimes you're just like, you know, you need a

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<v Speaker 5>little time to get to know them. So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>that's where she's at, you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think Ashley is going to move slower on

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<v Speaker 1>this than normal because of how much she likes this girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's what I think it is.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know because, again, like she said, the distance

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<v Speaker 5>is an issue, you know? And you got to see

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<v Speaker 5>how it works out, you know?

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<v Speaker 6>Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 5>By the way, Joe, caballo is horse. Caballero is gentleman.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, caballero.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, wait, wait. Caballero. Oh, but no R.

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<v Speaker 4>No R.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no. Only in gentleman, but caballo is horse.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I knew that. I tested you.

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<v Speaker 5>There you go. There you go.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew you knew that. Hector, I wanted to see.

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<v Speaker 2>I said it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, if Hector calls in and corrects me,

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<v Speaker 1>then he knows. But if he doesn't, then he doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm not correcting you. I'm just helping you out.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not correcting you.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 2>He's clarifying. It's okay to correct.

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<v Speaker 4>He's being your amigo.

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<v Speaker 2>I was wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right. See what I did there?

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<v Speaker 2>Amigo means friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Amigar means friendly horse.

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<v Speaker 6>Amigar.

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<v Speaker 2>We love you, Hector.

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<v Speaker 4>Love you.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, have a great day.

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<v Speaker 4>Stay dry. But yeah, I'm definitely going to be moving

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<v Speaker 4>extra slow with this.

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<v Speaker 2>And you guys have already talked about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but we're both moving slow. I even saw, she

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<v Speaker 3>posted and she was like, yeah, I enjoy dating without

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<v Speaker 3>being in a relationship and putting a title.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, let's get to know each other first.

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<v Speaker 2>She posted that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we both, and I liked it.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did she post that?

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<v Speaker 3>Because we were having the conversation because so many people

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<v Speaker 3>will date for like two months.

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<v Speaker 4>Not even two months.

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<v Speaker 2>Where did she post it?

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<v Speaker 4>Threads.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people will post for like two or date for

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<v Speaker 3>like two months or even less and then get into

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship and then it fails. So it's just like

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<v Speaker 3>you wasted your time. Like, well, I put a title

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<v Speaker 3>on it. Just get to know them first. I genuinely

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<v Speaker 3>want to be your friend before anything because if I

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<v Speaker 3>can't be your friend, then I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Just like how you and Alyssa, that's your friend. Do

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<v Speaker 4>you follow her? Yeah, I follow her on there. That's

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<v Speaker 4>how we met. But I don't follow her on anything else.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't follow her on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is the same thing as Threads?

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's more posts. Threads is like Twitter.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I know what Threads is.

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<v Speaker 1>I got like a billion notifications this weekend because of

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<v Speaker 1>it and I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Realize that I had Threads.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I go in there and I like and

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<v Speaker 3>share your posts for our page.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you don't follow her on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't because that's all photos. I don't need to

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<v Speaker 3>see it. I usually see it when I'm with her.

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<v Speaker 3>She'll show me, but I don't need to follow you

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<v Speaker 3>on social.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a boundary.

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<v Speaker 3>We already discussed this. I didn't follow any of the

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<v Speaker 3>girls I previously dated either on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you follow her on Instagram, does it mean.

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<v Speaker 6>Like we should expect that they're moving in?

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<v Speaker 4>Never following her on Instagram. Gotta have that boundary. Because

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<v Speaker 4>I told you, I like going and having a conversation. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>how was your day?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to see it. I want to have

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<v Speaker 3>the conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>It ruins the moment.

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<v Speaker 6>It ruins it.

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<v Speaker 4>Because then I'm just like, okay, yeah, you told me.

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<v Speaker 2>How would you know how her day is through?

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<v Speaker 4>Instagram? Because people are like, what did you do? They

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<v Speaker 4>post everything.

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<v Speaker 6>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>Typically, people post everything. They're like, oh, I went to

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<v Speaker 4>the store.

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<v Speaker 2>How was my day? Well, Bucky Irving doesn't check the weather.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you're not the typical 30-year-old woman who's posting

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<v Speaker 3>all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Everything they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Who says I'm not a typical 30-year-old woman?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying that.

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<v Speaker 2>What if I want to be one?

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<v Speaker 4>I see the things that you post.

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<v Speaker 3>30-year-old women ain't posting monkeys in a tuxedo.

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<v Speaker 4>Or, I don't know, in a spaceship. He does one

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<v Speaker 4>of those monkey videos.

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<v Speaker 3>Or, I don't know, walking down the street smoking a cigarette.

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<v Speaker 6>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe a 30-year-old woman should start posting AI monkeys?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm going to start telling her to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to start telling her to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>In other words, you would follow her if she posted

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<v Speaker 2>AI monkeys?

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<v Speaker 4>No, because then you'd be like, follow you.

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<v Speaker 2>You want me to call her and tell her that's

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<v Speaker 2>how she can get to follow?

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<v Speaker 4>We don't want to follow each other.

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<v Speaker 2>What happens if I request to follow her?

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I was going to say. Like, should we

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<v Speaker 4>follow her? She probably won't accept y'all. That hurts my feelings.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to say she DM Katie that we follow

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<v Speaker 4>each other. Wait, wait, wait.

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<v Speaker 6>Why wouldn't she accept Katie?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I don't follow any of her friends until we're together.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to mix anything on social. Just because

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<v Speaker 3>if there's a breakup, then I got to go through

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<v Speaker 3>all this unfollowing. How many girlfriends have we ended up

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<v Speaker 3>following because of Jed?

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<v Speaker 2>Two. Exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's no shade to Jed, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Respectfully, I don't follow Rodina yet.

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<v Speaker 6>What?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I follow Rodina.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

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<v Speaker 4>She doesn't follow me either.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

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<v Speaker 6>This is a good conversation, and we're hitting our time.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, we're going to have to talk about that later.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if I want to talk about that

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<v Speaker 6>next or in the 7 o'clock hour.

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<v Speaker 2>Either way.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have a lot of social media rules.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well, hold on.

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<v Speaker 5>Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 4>I should do a social experiment. And if I request Nashville,

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<v Speaker 4>I wonder if she'll accept. She probably won't.

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<v Speaker 2>It's coming up.

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