1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Well, it was quite to day yesterday for the Real 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: Housewife of Lemon Grove over here. 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: I don't know why you're saying that for so many 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: things to start pack here, I live in Lisa. 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with Lemon Grove at all. 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 4: You have a very Real Housewives top on him, sheer 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 4: leopard through the top top. 8 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I was watching. If I was watching Real Housewives. 9 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: At all points today, I'm going to expect a martini 10 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: to be thrown in my. 11 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 6: Face, no doubt about it. 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 5: I don't hate it hate. 13 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 1: It's gorgeous, like the it's gorgeous. 14 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 3: Thank you, I'm gorgeous. 15 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 6: No, Now what what cast is? 16 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 7: She? 17 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:39,959 Speaker 3: Is she? 18 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: You know? 19 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 6: Real house. 20 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 5: Definitely not. 21 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, Emily's Emily is the one that gets wild at 22 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 4: the reunion. 23 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 5: She slipped the tables. 24 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 4: She's she's doing like the gun with her hand pointing 25 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 4: at somebody. 26 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: Like you, bitch, full hair and makeup, looking great. Yeah, wow, 27 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: Yeah it was. It was quite a day for not 28 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: for picking out outfits, but but there was a lot 29 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: going on in your world yesterday. 30 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it was a busy, busy, busy day. It's 31 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 2: been a busy, busy couple of weeks. Yeah, my dad 32 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: is older, he's in his Dave. No, it's Dan. He's 33 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 2: in his late seventies by now. And he's actually been 34 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 2: living with my sister for many years now, and sweet 35 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 2: Ann she's got a big house of poiloma she helped 36 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: out with her sweet baby Charlotte who's No. Seven, and 37 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: all this other stuff, and so he's been living there 38 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 2: for years and it just kind of a wasn't working 39 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 2: out anymore. 40 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 5: Ran its course, why go ahead? 41 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 3: Course? 42 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 5: How come we never moved in with you? 43 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 3: Guys? 44 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 2: I live in a shoe like I mean, I live 45 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 2: in a nine and forty square foot house. 46 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 5: So you do have a guest room. I have a 47 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 5: guest room. I felt like Doug would fit right in. 48 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 3: What's his Dan? 49 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 2: It's damn, it's Dan. You met him multiple times Thanksgiving together. 50 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, remember we broke bread together and so it 51 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: stopped working out. 52 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 5: So well, that's surprising, that's surprising. 53 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, he's a little I love him. Thank you 54 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 2: dad for serving our country. That purple Heart recipient. 55 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 5: That means he got injured. 56 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, shrapnel, bad shrapnel from way. 57 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 3: He's got really wild stories. 58 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 2: That's crazy, pretty crazy. So you know he's uh, he's 59 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: been through it in his life. Great great dad, always 60 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 2: coaching softball. Funny guy, actually very dry sense of humor. Uh, 61 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 2: just got a little case of the stort. Haley put it, 62 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 2: case of the grumpies. 63 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 6: You get older, he's a ramp up, the grumpies. 64 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 5: Ramp I got one of those. 65 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 7: Do you do? 66 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 5: My dad quite grumpy. 67 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 6: He caught the grumpies as well. 68 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: He is. He's got a case of it. Oh yeah, 69 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: I'm hoping gets over it. 70 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 3: I've been hoping that for years. 71 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 5: Do they come out of it? 72 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 3: It didn't happen? Is there there's no cure. There's no cure. 73 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 2: I found a glass of Scotch will cure it for 74 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 2: a little bit, okay, but then it does take a turn. Okay, 75 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 2: So okay, it's really yeah, good enough okay. 76 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 3: And so that kind of ran its course there at 77 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 3: my sister's house. 78 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 6: I could see how that could happen. 79 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 7: It's it's a nice offer, but it's a lot, a 80 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 7: lot to have somebody come live in here, even if 81 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 7: they're a family member, like I don't. 82 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 3: Know how she did it. That's a long yeah. 83 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 2: And then also he's older, so he needs more medical attention, 84 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And like that's a bigger 85 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: house to be walking around with his walker. He's on 86 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: oxygen all the time. That's too much. 87 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: So we believe he couldn't have moved in. This guy's 88 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: eighty U who could have been his caretaker? You know 89 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: how great would two together? 90 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 6: That's a bad idea. 91 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: They could they could share war stories. Problem that Dan 92 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: could have talked about Vietnam? Who living with you? 93 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 3: I par scotch and swapping stories. 94 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 6: I don't know. 95 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 3: Okay. 96 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: The problem is my dad likes to walk around and 97 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 2: tell me everything I'm doing wrong, and I know that 98 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 2: the boo likes to go walking around. 99 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 3: So I feel like that would clashing at each other. 100 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe because they both can't be wrong. 101 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 3: And you see what friend would watch that show? 102 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: So we were looking high and low and found a 103 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 2: great place for him to go. Okay, yeah, and so 104 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 2: it's like a it's assisted living. Yeah, so it's not 105 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 2: it's not clinical by any means at all. It's just like, no, 106 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 2: it's like a cool place in near bubble. 107 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 5: Apart if you will. 108 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, totally, but one of those places. I mean, I'm 109 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 2: sure that there's so many places like this, but I've 110 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 2: never looked into them. So I'm just new to this stuff. 111 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 7: I toured quite a few my grandma back in the day, 112 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 7: and then every one my grandma back in the day. 113 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 6: And then every time you do what tour. 114 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 7: They want to treat you to lunch, and that's always 115 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 7: hit or miss because some of these places, their lunches 116 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 7: are legit. But so some of these places it's like 117 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 7: straight cafeteria and you're like, I have to eat this. 118 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 2: Well, that's funny you said that, because on we did 119 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 2: a tour my sister and I and we really like 120 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 2: the place and it's like an old hotel and it's 121 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: like super charming and all this other stuff super charming. 122 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 4: Really place seems like the greatest place on earth because 123 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 4: it's super cute and super charred. 124 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 6: Well that's what an old Vietnam vet is top of 125 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 6: his lips. 126 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 4: I just have a feeling Emily is going a little 127 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 4: over the top. We have a super cute. All those 128 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 4: are super cute, so many of them. 129 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 2: Fiveper cute, super charming, And so I did a tour 130 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 2: with my sister and we liked it. 131 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: Then the next step was to go do a tour 132 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:51,679 Speaker 3: with my dad and. 133 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 5: Did he this is so charming? 134 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 2: He didn't, Okay, he didn't. He was saying more under 135 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 2: his breath. Look at all these old f's that was said, 136 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 2: they look very There was some people sitting in the 137 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 2: little theater that they have, and he said, they look 138 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 2: like they're dead already. Again again these kinds of things 139 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 2: opposite of my reaction, a little different. But I was 140 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: going over the top walking him around, saying, look how 141 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 2: cute and charming. 142 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 5: This that would make me hate it. Yeah, he's right there. 143 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 3: And we did do a lunch that I wasn't I 144 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 3: didn't expect. 145 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 6: Yeah. They always force a lunch on you. 146 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 3: We have to sit there with the tour guide. 147 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 6: Yeah, and you have to eat it in front of them. 148 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 149 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, which is like you know, Sky's Wheel of food. 150 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 7: For me, it was it was not a good thing. 151 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 3: But I do have to say the food was good. 152 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 3: I heard. 153 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 2: It's like actual chef. It's not like hospital food. They 154 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: do do meetings. I found out once a month with 155 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: the with the residents meet with the chef and they 156 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: all get to voice their concerns of what they liked. 157 00:06:53,120 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 2: But they didn't like this all that. I would like 158 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 2: love to be a fly on the way. 159 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear that. The chef's like, okay, yeah, 160 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: I'm never going to change it. Okay, you know we did. 161 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 5: We did. 162 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take mango out of the menu. Sorry I 163 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: offended you. 164 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 2: This is like the biggest take for these people, the 165 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 2: residents there, concerned about huge, big like those beatings must 166 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: be the most important thing. 167 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: My parents are looking into different assisted living places and 168 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: all they care, They're not going to no, all they 169 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: care about is the food. That's all they care about. 170 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: It's a big deal. 171 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 3: And so anyway, we my dad was okay with it, 172 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 3: a quotes okay. 173 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 5: With not much of a choice. 174 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 3: I'm thrilled about moving. 175 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: Out of Point Lomo with my sister and everybody. But anyway, 176 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 2: so we decided we're in. We're we're going to do it. 177 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 2: That's where he's going to go. And so we've been 178 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 2: gradually like kind of moving stuff in and so this 179 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 2: yesterday was moving day. 180 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 5: Big official, official, official. 181 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 3: Official, official moving day. 182 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 2: And so that was of course just a scene because 183 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: getting my dad, like my sister kept saying, the one 184 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 2: thing you can't forget when you move in tomorrow. 185 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 3: Because I was Robert, my man, Robert and I were 186 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 3: the ones doing it. 187 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 2: Don't forget Dad, Like you gotta load him up, you 188 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: gotta make sure he's on. 189 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 3: In that truck. Don't forget Dad. He needs to be there. 190 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 2: He's just been kind of like kicking and screaming about 191 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 2: this whole thing, dragging his feet a lot. And so 192 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: we get there yesterday, Robert and I, and we start 193 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 2: unloading my dad up, and it's just a scene because 194 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 2: he's on oxygen and getting him in there, and immediately 195 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: he's just being grumpy, and I'm like sitting there the 196 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: whole time was stop. 197 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 3: I don't want somebody to. 198 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 2: Hear you, because like they want you to be excited 199 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 2: to be there. The whole point is to do all 200 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 2: of these activities and stuff. And so the very first 201 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 2: thing when we're walking into the building getting ready, getting 202 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 2: our little passes, you know, your badget security clearance to 203 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 2: go in there, and all of a sudden, out of 204 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 2: the elevator that we're waiting to go up into to 205 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: go to his apartment, out comes activity director. 206 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:01,559 Speaker 5: Oh, here we go. 207 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 7: Here. 208 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:03,559 Speaker 5: We got a. 209 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 2: Bad john that says his name's big words, big letters, 210 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 2: activities director, A big smile, smile, Hell yeah, and he's 211 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 2: he's a happy guy. 212 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 3: He's he's the one in charge of all. Okay. 213 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: He sees a new resident, he's got to get you, 214 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 2: got to get in there. It's ond Yeah, he's the 215 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: welcome He's the welcome wagon. 216 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: Is he like Ben Stiller in Happy Gilmore. He's very 217 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: happy in front of you butt. 218 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 3: He's telling my dad that he's pulling yard duty. 219 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 2: No, this guy seemed really actually legitimate, awesome and happy. 220 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 5: Okay, son, your dad shuffleboard going on. 221 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 3: He was adorable and charming. 222 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 6: Oh like the place, like the place, and so he goes, 223 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 6: he goes, Hi, how are you? 224 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 3: He goes, my name is I run the activities here. 225 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 3: And my dad didn't even stick his hand out. He barely. 226 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 3: He gave him a head nod and a grunt. 227 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 2: Oh boy, okay, and he goes, yeah, we got a 228 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: whole list activities. 229 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 3: They're al you know, on a on a poster in 230 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 3: the elevator. They're in every hallway about what we have 231 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 3: going on. 232 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 2: We have you know, exercises, we do a we do 233 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: a sight seeing trip where once a week where they'll 234 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 2: get into like the big shuttle bus and they go 235 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 2: to like drive around Coronado or go drive up. 236 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 4: To this sounds exactly like when I used to go 237 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 4: to rehab. 238 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 5: Really, yeah, you get dropped off and you don't want 239 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 5: to be there. 240 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're miserable, and the people they are overly excited 241 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 4: to have you. Yes, so and then they tell you, hey, 242 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 4: we called it a druggy buggy. They get a white 243 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 4: van and they take you to like places to get 244 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 4: out once a week, and then and and eventually by 245 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 4: like you're you're we have like thirty days for the 246 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 4: most part, By like week, the second, second and a 247 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 4: half week you're there. You start to come around a 248 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 4: little bit, and and and then by the end, by 249 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 4: like the by the end of it, you love that guy. Really, 250 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 4: that's just that's just Todd. You love Todd. You love 251 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 4: Todd the first, but the first like week and first 252 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:00,040 Speaker 4: like two weeks, you hate them. By the end, you 253 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 4: can hugging him here. 254 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 6: You're going to miss him. 255 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 5: I wonder how he's doing. 256 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 2: You think there's a chance my dad will do we 257 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 2: bowling tournament in guy the way we remember on the 258 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: list today at eleven thirty. 259 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:17,079 Speaker 5: Guys think it's going to take a while, But he's 260 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 5: got no choice. He's gonna come around. He's gonna come 261 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 5: around him, and they always do, they always do. 262 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. 263 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:27,839 Speaker 5: I'm telling you my dad's reacting. We bully, that's wild. 264 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 5: Two thousand and eight. 265 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:30,719 Speaker 3: Would you want to get in there? 266 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 5: Pretty good at it? There's just there's just better technology. 267 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 5: I mean, it's more about being active, I know. So yeah, yeah, 268 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 5: I'm thinking about them that these old guys that we 269 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 5: are VR headset. 270 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 2: Okay, And I did see they have spaghetti and meatballs 271 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 2: on the Wait a minute, So that was like, I 272 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: do a. 273 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 5: Weekly stop by for Emily's dad. 274 00:11:58,840 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 6: That'd be so nice. 275 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 3: A meal, meal and a game an activity. I think 276 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 3: he would like that. 277 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 2: This will be good, should be good for us. And 278 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 2: so that was like not the greatest start, but get 279 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 2: him into is into his place, and I'm just like, 280 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 2: I need to get him in there. And then now 281 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,319 Speaker 2: what's he's sitting somewhere? We can like really start moving 282 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 2: everything in and out and all that other stuff. And 283 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 2: so we continue doing that and get everything moved in 284 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 2: like and all. 285 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 3: It was fine. 286 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 5: He was just he's just bring his chair. I know 287 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 5: he has a chair that he likes. 288 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 3: That's yes. 289 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 2: The chair was the last thing my dad in the 290 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 2: chair were like, but we had well because we couldn't 291 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 2: remove it from my sister's house. 292 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 3: That's all he sleeps in. 293 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 2: He doesn't sleep a sleeps in the chair. He sleeps 294 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 2: in like this chair and it's one of those old 295 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 2: people chairs. 296 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 5: You press the button and it moves up. You didn't 297 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 5: have to. 298 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 3: I wanted to. I wanted to act it out. 299 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 5: I really wanted to know to act out. I didn't know. 300 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 2: If you do really she does, oh wow, And so 301 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 2: we get him in there and get him situated, and 302 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: you know, he's just typical grouchy guy the whole time. 303 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 2: Something did happen on my way out that I maybe 304 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 2: shouldn't have done. 305 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 3: I ran into Carol in the hallway. Carol was. 306 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 2: Resident Bunette Darnet. She was the one putting in like 307 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 2: she was like, I guess she's a resident, but she's 308 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 2: like the head of like the welcoming kind of committee. 309 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 2: Like she says, another head they give these people times. 310 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 2: She just wants to be an active person. She's probably 311 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: like a sky back. Yeah, this would be right, So 312 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 2: super sweet lady, kind of you know, nice attractive older. 313 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 7: Carol. 314 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 2: And Carol goes hi, you know, are you guys moving 315 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 2: in and I go, yeah, I go, yeah, my dad's 316 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 2: you know, Dan. 317 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 3: And he's in room blah blah blah blah blah. And 318 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 3: he's a little rough around the edges. 319 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 2: I said, so if you see him in the hallway, 320 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 2: you know, he will open up eventually, you know, once 321 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 2: he once, he has to know you, who's like pretty 322 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 2: cool and funny. And she's, oh, okay, why should I 323 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 2: stop over, and said, I said, yeah, make sure I 324 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 2: make my way over there. Oh no, I talk to 325 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 2: my dad later, Carol stopped. Course, she's not very thrilled 326 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 2: about the visit. 327 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 3: He didn't like the visit. 328 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 5: There wasn't an instant, not yet, not yet, not yet. Yeah, 329 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 5: I'm hoping she's going to work on it. 330 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 3: She's gonna work on it for me. 331 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 2: So uh, I'm eager to call him in a little 332 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 2: bit and see how the first day is. 333 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 5: Dang, all right, Well that's that's a lot. 334 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 1: It is a lot. But I'll let you know how 335 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 1: it's going when I swing by for the tournament.