WEBVTT - She's Changing Him  

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<v Speaker 1>B Joe in the Morning Show. I think every guy

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<v Speaker 1>has dealt with this some way, shape or form in

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<v Speaker 1>their friendships, and Zach is dealing with this right now. Zach,

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<v Speaker 1>who is our executive audio producer of the show. Zach

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<v Speaker 1>has a friend of his that has changed. What usually

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<v Speaker 1>changes a guy, Kevin, What changes a guy? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>think there are a few things could be job, but more.

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<v Speaker 2>Than often is when he gets a little some something

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<v Speaker 2>between a woman's legs.

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<v Speaker 1>Which one is it? Zach a little bit of bolt.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't have many. This is literally my only friend.

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<v Speaker 3>But he's on his second wife and he got a

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<v Speaker 3>court marriage so very quick. I didn't really get a

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<v Speaker 3>chance to meet her. But recently he is now changing

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't like it. I'm trying to actually avoid

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<v Speaker 3>hanging out with them because I can't stand her.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's trying to go vegan. That's some one.

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<v Speaker 3>He smells real bad last time I hung out with him,

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<v Speaker 3>because he's changing his deodor into all natural. He's dating

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<v Speaker 3>a hippie kind of well not dating, he's married.

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<v Speaker 4>He's married.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not with that would but it's not for one second. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you say you got one friend, Yes, So he's probably

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<v Speaker 1>very depressing to us that. No, no, no, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my only friend that's going through a second marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, on a friend going I thought you said

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<v Speaker 1>you only had one friend. No. Secondly, can we go

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<v Speaker 1>back for a second. This guy is such a good

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<v Speaker 1>friend that you haven't even met his now wife. Well

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<v Speaker 1>he lives out of state. Okay, okay, yeah, Oh so

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<v Speaker 1>he lives out of state and got married and you

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<v Speaker 1>recently saw him and he smells.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, like he smells really bad, modes like all natural.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, how does this affect you? But

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be around him because he stinks.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, they're moving back to Michigan like this summer,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know, I just don't want to hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's it's interesting. It's interesting how guys change, and

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<v Speaker 1>usually women are the reason why women can change a guy,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's the power of the pea. Usually guys change

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<v Speaker 1>in regards to they don't want to go out anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they they're not as fun. It's definitely not

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<v Speaker 1>as fun. But I never have known a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>changes and becomes a vegan because of a woman. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I listen, they live together.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm assuming that's more so when you start to see

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<v Speaker 2>the change. And I've been in a relationship before, where

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<v Speaker 2>when you move in with the woman, she's starting to cook,

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<v Speaker 2>she's starting to buy the groceries.

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<v Speaker 1>Even you start to eat differently. I had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of parfaits in my last relationship. Couldn't tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>If I can tell you what a parfet tastes like before,

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<v Speaker 2>then I'll eat all kind of stuff. What do you

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<v Speaker 2>mean parfet like a parfe yoga yoga, granola, blueberries and strawberry.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had that before. That sounds delicious. There I

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<v Speaker 1>was missing out this whole time. Is she still single?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to hang out with Boom for myself. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the power of the pea. I want to I want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to guys who have been through what Zach's

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<v Speaker 1>going through, where you're the friend on this or you're

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<v Speaker 1>the guy, and talk about the change that guys make.

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<v Speaker 5>This.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to have a guide topic here. This is

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<v Speaker 1>we get a lot of women. No, you say you

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<v Speaker 1>like guys, make sure there's some black guys in this one.

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<v Speaker 1>I want guys to call us up and tell us

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<v Speaker 1>how you changed because of a girl, or call up

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<v Speaker 1>and talk about the buddy of yours that changed eight

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<v Speaker 1>four to four mojo live eight four four six six

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<v Speaker 1>five six five four eight or text nine five five

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<v Speaker 1>zero zero, call me whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you'll even tell based on how your friend starts

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<v Speaker 2>to dress, because if they really in a relationship, she'll

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<v Speaker 2>start buying his clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>He'd be like, bro, where are you looking?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to spit on him because obviously, like

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<v Speaker 3>he's getting healthier, or maybe they're dressing nicer, so they're

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<v Speaker 3>doing something better for themselves. But I know you back

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<v Speaker 3>in second grade, you're this guy, like you just had

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<v Speaker 3>McDonald's last year and we went.

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<v Speaker 1>All out, you know, but maybe he's becoming this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think if you know they're living out of state,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think if you got to know her, you'd

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<v Speaker 1>be more okay with how he's changed, because maybe you'll

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<v Speaker 1>like her, but you don't know her and you've not

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<v Speaker 1>been around her enough to be able to like her.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably that's probably the case, But I don't like her.

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<v Speaker 1>If she thinks she's thanks know, he stinks because he stinks.

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<v Speaker 1>Any like you say that he's gone natural with his

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<v Speaker 1>deodorant and stuff like that. Certain people should not be

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<v Speaker 1>going natural and right I support that, Like I point

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody in the studio, guy wise, you should not

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<v Speaker 1>be natural. I would never do that.

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<v Speaker 2>No natural people, I'm telling you they I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if they think that they smell good or if they

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<v Speaker 2>don't care how they smell. They just want to make

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<v Speaker 2>sure that whatever they're using as natural. But I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's the they don't want the chemical.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your priority, which I get text here here seven

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<v Speaker 1>three four says Zach, Are you going to be hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with him a lot when he moves back? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably hope it's just him. What if what if

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't let him hang out with you? Looks like

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<v Speaker 1>I got I've had hanging out with you guys more. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had that. I was accused of that, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I've had friends that they did this. I was accused

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<v Speaker 1>of not hanging out with my guy friends when I

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<v Speaker 1>had met Chelsea the first time. Like I had a

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<v Speaker 1>guy that Eric, who used to be actually a producer

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<v Speaker 1>of my show at the time. No, not that Eric.

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<v Speaker 1>Not that Eric does a voice pression is a different one,

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<v Speaker 1>and he would say that I wouldn't hang out with

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<v Speaker 1>him anymore now that I was with Chelsea. Well, you're

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<v Speaker 1>in love, you want to be with so you're with

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<v Speaker 1>him all the time. What did you do two or like,

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<v Speaker 1>did you show him more express? Did you hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with him a little more so that relationship our relationship

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<v Speaker 1>went sour. Yeah, I've had friends who completely stopped hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with guys because they were bad influence guys because

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<v Speaker 1>the girls and meaning bad influence guys, their girls didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like them out with other guys that were single and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks one thing women have to understand is that

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<v Speaker 2>you think I'm the bad influence when you really don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know who your man really is. And it'd be

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<v Speaker 2>that part like like say, for example, you, me and

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<v Speaker 2>Zach are really great friends, right and I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>know you like that, and then you get in a

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<v Speaker 2>relationship with Zach. You then meet me, you get around me,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like, oh, man, keV is charismatic, he a player.

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<v Speaker 1>There are women around Zach. I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with him.

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<v Speaker 2>And the whole time you think I'm the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't really know who Zach is. Hey Ian what's up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo in the morning. Good morning guy. Good Zach

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<v Speaker 1>and his best buddy are not feeling the same way.

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<v Speaker 1>This best buddy likes this girl so much he got

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<v Speaker 1>married to her, and now Zach's feeling that he's changing.

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of feel the same way. My best buddy

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<v Speaker 4>from high school he got this girl and completely stopped

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<v Speaker 4>talking to me. And I found out through his dad

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<v Speaker 4>that he ended up buying a house with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, How long had they been together? About year

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<v Speaker 1>and a half? Oh wow, So did you have you

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<v Speaker 1>hung out with her and him? Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I actually got invited to their Thanksgiving and Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the only time I got. That's nice Thanksgiving and Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>That's wonderful, his dad did.

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<v Speaker 2>How was it when you got around him? Were things

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<v Speaker 2>as they always had been? Or was it awkward?

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<v Speaker 1>He makes it to be.

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<v Speaker 3>How they always been.

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<v Speaker 4>But you can see the the energy between those two

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<v Speaker 4>that she doesn't really like and going out on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting makes me sad. Man, he lost his longtime best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>He seems hurt by it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it was rough. It was rough for the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>But does he have a lot of other guy friends

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<v Speaker 1>that he also lost or are you the only guy

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<v Speaker 1>friend that he's lost. I talked to you.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a buddy of mutual and I talked to

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<v Speaker 4>him and he said, yeah, he doesn't really talk to

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<v Speaker 4>him either.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wow, that's too bad. B Yeah, go

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<v Speaker 1>get your man, all right, take care of this. Text

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<v Speaker 1>says seven three four says he needs to detox first,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why he smells L O L. Tell your friend

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<v Speaker 1>to use Oh I got it, Ashley, And hey, Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>this is for Zach's friend who is now gone vegan.

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<v Speaker 1>A girl made him go vegan. That is power of

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<v Speaker 1>the pe right there.

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<v Speaker 5>He needs to detox first from the aluminium deordorant. I

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<v Speaker 5>went vegan like eight years ago and it was rough.

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<v Speaker 1>So detox meaning he needs to clean his body out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, so once he's eating cleaner, it'll take a while,

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<v Speaker 5>but once he's eating cleaner it will help. But the

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<v Speaker 5>aluminum deodorant kind of clogs rapports. So at least go

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<v Speaker 5>aluminum free because he's gonna smell for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley, I got to ask you a question about dating.

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<v Speaker 1>You're vegan. Have you ever had a guy changed to

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<v Speaker 1>be vegan because he wanted to impress you or.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, well, I hope it wasn't because he wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to impress me. But my husband went vegan and my

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<v Speaker 5>oldest desbund it too.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did your husband go vegan?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. He was into health and nutrition and

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<v Speaker 5>he said he did.

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<v Speaker 1>His research and thought it was the better route. I

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<v Speaker 1>would have started healthy. I wonder if guys do it

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<v Speaker 1>jump on a vegan bandwagon with their girls, because otherwise

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<v Speaker 1>they'll have to figure out food for themselves.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he can cook. He knew what he cooked before,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, he met me, So sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think it's cool though, Like you meet

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that does something different, they expose you to a

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<v Speaker 2>different way of thinking and life, and you know, jump on.

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<v Speaker 1>You went pescatarian. I remember I didn't do that for

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<v Speaker 1>no pedo.

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<v Speaker 2>The girl I was dating at the time had did

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<v Speaker 2>a fast and preparation. I was like, I'll join you

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<v Speaker 2>and never came back.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's some of the best texts that we got off

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<v Speaker 1>this last conversation. For keV the power of the parfe.

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<v Speaker 1>For Zach, I think Zach should definitely stay away from

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<v Speaker 1>the smelly man when the hot summer months are here.

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<v Speaker 1>And in another one, for all the guys listening to

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<v Speaker 1>the show. This one is for two four eight. Do

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<v Speaker 1>not let a woman changed you from being with your

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<v Speaker 1>best buddies and exclamation points at the bend. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know we're going to the strip club. You don't seem

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<v Speaker 1>like a strip club. I've never been, Actually, can I

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you, two guys, just going into a

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<v Speaker 1>strip club is kind of lonely, Like it's it's got

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<v Speaker 1>to be like a group of guys together, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>for a bachelor party and stuff yaff you're at home.