Speaker 1: Just a second date update module in the morning.
Speaker 2: Why are you not getting a call back after you
Speaker 2: went on a date. We're going to find out what
Speaker 2: is going on? Why is Bill getting ghosted?
Speaker 1: Bill? What did you guys do on your date?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning. What's going on, buddy?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we met at a gym, took her to dinner.
Speaker 1: Why is your back to my house?
Speaker 4: I mean super nice?
Speaker 1: He got her back to your house. You got her
Speaker 1: back to your house.
Speaker 2: And you know when I always say this, when you
Speaker 2: can get them to come back to your house and
Speaker 2: hang out with you, and how you guys would just
Speaker 2: hung out or did you guys have fun or weld you?
Speaker 4: I mean we you know, yeah, we hung out. I mean,
Speaker 4: I you know, I had a couple of chores to
Speaker 4: do and stuff, but I mean it's like things I
Speaker 4: had to take there.
Speaker 2: So she would So the day went so well that
Speaker 2: she just said, hey, you want to hang out some more?
Speaker 1: And then you guys ended up doing that.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we just again it's super casual. She's chill and okay, like, hey,
Speaker 4: you know went back to my house.
Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you this question. Have you been
Speaker 1: trying to call her? Text? How have you been trying
Speaker 1: to communicate with her?
Speaker 4: Oh, it's been it's been a week, and so that's
Speaker 4: why I'm trying to.
Speaker 1: Get your help.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna find out what's going on. Jackie is
Speaker 2: on the phone with us right now. Bill, say hi
Speaker 2: to Jackie. Hey Jackie, Hello Jackie. Have you noticed that
Speaker 2: Bill's been trying to talk to you? Have you been
Speaker 2: getting his calls and texts?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 1: And have you been just busy? Is that what's going on?
Speaker 3: No? Okay, there's nowhere to go, nothing to do, nothing
Speaker 3: to say.
Speaker 1: Okay, come on, okay, Now what happened? Why does he
Speaker 1: make it seem so nice and a man pleasant? Everything?
Speaker 3: Well, he won the lottery that night. It was a
Speaker 3: very nice dinner. I will give him that. It was
Speaker 3: very nice, and he invited me back to his house.
Speaker 3: I thought, okay, you know, we're having a nice time.
Speaker 3: I'd belage to continue chatting. And I walked in and
Speaker 3: his house looked like a hurricane had gone through.
Speaker 1: Okay, and his.
Speaker 3: Idea of a fun evening was to ask me to
Speaker 3: clean his apartment.
Speaker 1: Wait, come on, he asked you to clean his apartment?
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. So I realized that I wasn't on a date.
Speaker 3: It was a job interview.
Speaker 1: Wait what like, what were you doing? Did what did
Speaker 1: he ask you to do? Specifically?
Speaker 3: Do you know what guy's single guy's homes look like?
Speaker 5: I do?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, if you have that visual, then you know
Speaker 3: there was nothing that had been done. So I realized
Speaker 3: that it was now a charity case. I felt sorry
Speaker 3: for him. I figured, well, you know, I'll be the
Speaker 3: nice one here. I'll clean it up and then I'm
Speaker 3: getting out of here and I never want to see
Speaker 3: him again because this is ridiculous. I mean it was.
Speaker 3: It was rude, it was, it was obnoxious. It was did.
Speaker 1: You did you comment? Did you comment on it at all?
Speaker 6: Like when you walked in, did you make any quick
Speaker 6: joke or remark to acknowledge like what you were experiencing.
Speaker 3: I really tried not to, but it was hard. I
Speaker 3: think I said, wow, you know, how long have you
Speaker 3: lived here?
Speaker 6: And after that is that when he brought it up,
Speaker 6: well like maybe you need to clean it then?
Speaker 1: Like was he that kind of well?
Speaker 2: It was?
Speaker 3: It was. It was there was an assumption in place
Speaker 3: that you know, and he was making big jokes about
Speaker 3: how fun it would be, and he sat on his butt,
Speaker 3: and you know, and and it's like and as I said,
Speaker 3: all I wanted to do was I realized that, you know,
Speaker 3: he needed some help, and I wasn't going to sit
Speaker 3: in that house the way it was. I had to.
Speaker 3: I was either get out of it or land him
Speaker 3: at hand.
Speaker 1: Bill, explain yourself. Okay.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'd love to explain myself. Okay.
Speaker 4: So she came over and yeah, she made a comment.
Speaker 4: I was like, I was kind of embarrassed. I was like,
Speaker 4: you know, I started picking things up. She's like, oh,
Speaker 4: let me help you. And I was like, oh cool,
Speaker 4: So you know, no you offered to help.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
Speaker 4: You weren't like be grudging about it, like, oh yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't mind.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me actually let him explain, let him explain.
Speaker 4: You were so you were so held in on making
Speaker 4: that place look perfect for you to sit in it
Speaker 4: that I didn't think you minded. I we kind of
Speaker 4: made a game out of it.
Speaker 3: Was fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So she she herself, so you you mean, I said, hey,
Speaker 2: you know, do you mind, and she's like, no, I
Speaker 2: don't mind, you know, And then oh so you did
Speaker 2: kind of ask Okay, we're getting two very different stories.
Speaker 2: But were you were you telling her to clean stuff
Speaker 2: up or were you or was she just getting up
Speaker 2: and doing it.
Speaker 1: I didn't tell her to do anything.
Speaker 4: I made the assumption that, look, if you want to clean,
Speaker 4: here's the stuff to clean it.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so real quick, real quick. The way it went, well,
Speaker 2: let me let me I want to ask this to
Speaker 2: to Bill, and then I'll ask you the.
Speaker 1: Same question too.
Speaker 2: So when she came over, she was the one that
Speaker 2: made a big deal about how bad the house looked
Speaker 2: or how messy it was. And then who was the
Speaker 2: first person to say, let's start cleaning?
Speaker 1: I said to her.
Speaker 4: She she kind of made a little bit of a
Speaker 4: stink intended. I said to her, look, you know, if
Speaker 4: you don't you know, if you want to do something
Speaker 4: about it, I'm not going to stop you. And she
Speaker 4: started cleaning. I was like, cool, all right, great, I
Speaker 4: don't know, I just met her. Maybe she's, you know,
Speaker 4: the knat freak. I'm not.
Speaker 1: I didn't think it was a big deal.
Speaker 2: Because well, but here's the here's the thing though, that
Speaker 2: I think is interesting and I'm and I don't want
Speaker 2: to initially just say, Bill, you know, forced you into
Speaker 2: cleaning his place or or did this if you didn't
Speaker 2: want to do it, why did you do it?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: Why why not just be like back off and just
Speaker 2: go all right, well, you know, I'm gonna go home
Speaker 2: or whatever.
Speaker 7: Well, I I thought getting the food out of the
Speaker 7: sink and the dirty dishes was just a nice thing
Speaker 7: to help. I said, oh, listen, really, just help you
Speaker 7: clean up the kitchen. And that's all I did is.
Speaker 3: I said, let me just help you clean up the kitchen.
Speaker 3: And that's and I said, let me help you clean
Speaker 3: up the kitchen, and all of a sudden he just
Speaker 3: sat and expected it to get done. And at that point,
Speaker 3: at that point, it was like, as I said, I
Speaker 3: felt it was a charity case. And I figured, I'm
Speaker 3: going to help this guy out, and then I'm leaving
Speaker 3: because he clearly can't manage on his own, and I
Speaker 3: don't want to have anything else to.
Speaker 4: Do with him.
Speaker 3: But this is no way for a human being to live,
Speaker 3: So out of the goodness of my heart, I said,
Speaker 3: you know what, he needs some help.
Speaker 7: But the fact that he did nothing to help.
Speaker 3: Do his own cleanup with annoying. So I did a
Speaker 3: little bit and then I got.
Speaker 1: The hell out of there.
Speaker 8: All think that Bill is in the right, But I
Speaker 8: also think that women, myself included, we need to get better.
Speaker 8: Like Mojo said, at just saying how you feel like, oh,
Speaker 8: you want me to clean? No, what do you think
Speaker 8: this is? Because it's almost enabling his behavior?
Speaker 1: Rhonda, what'd you want to say?
Speaker 3: She is definitely wrong. Why even invite somebody to your house?
Speaker 3: And you know it was a.
Speaker 2: Nasty Wait, so who's in the wrong. He's in the
Speaker 2: wrong for what he did.
Speaker 3: He's in the wrong.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he couldn't even even invited her at the house
Speaker 6: and in that type of thing.
Speaker 2: But Ronda, he says that that's how he lives. That
Speaker 2: was not that bad that it was it was that
Speaker 2: bad to her.
Speaker 3: I mean, I how he lived when he was at
Speaker 3: his mother's house.
Speaker 2: But I sometimes some people think that place is a
Speaker 2: train wreck, and it's really not that much of a
Speaker 2: train wreck. He just got stuff laying around. I mean,
Speaker 2: he's got dishes in his dish or sink. I guarantee
Speaker 2: there's people listening right now that have dishes in there, saying, Kenny,
Speaker 2: what's going on?
Speaker 5: Hey, I just want to say, build this an opportunity
Speaker 5: here that could have been like a four play opportunity.
Speaker 1: He could have got her in an out you know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, go dress up, get your house clean, and then
Speaker 5: have some song.
Speaker 2: He needed to be a little bit more gentle. Hey,
Speaker 2: question for you, Kenny, when you have a date over
Speaker 2: for the very first time, do you make sure that
Speaker 2: it's really spotless?
Speaker 5: So I'm married now, but yeah, when I was single,
Speaker 5: I was always make sure my house was spotless.
Speaker 1: It was the only time over.
Speaker 2: That was the only time that I actually had cleaned
Speaker 2: my place was if I was going to have a date.
Speaker 1: Paris, what's happening? What's up you guys? Nothing much? What's
Speaker 1: going on? You got into comments? I'm just saying I
Speaker 1: can see why Bill is single. It sounds like a scumbag.
Speaker 8: Okay, Why why would you invite a female over to
Speaker 8: your house knowing it looks like that?
Speaker 1: Bill? Any explanation to that?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's who I am. I'm not going
Speaker 4: to try to put her front and be somebody I'm not.
Speaker 3: That's the way my house looks.
Speaker 1: You love me for me, all right? I don't know, bro,
Speaker 1: not just that that doesn't look right. Jordan, what's up?
Speaker 1: Second date up tape?
Speaker 5: I don't really who's telling the truth or who's not.
Speaker 5: But he kind of lost me when he's hated her.
Speaker 2: Handing her a rag and you know, a little soap
Speaker 2: in a bucket, it's probably not a good idea.
Speaker 1: What's up, John, How you doing so?
Speaker 7: I'm doing good, guys, Thank you.
Speaker 1: Hey, she definitely sounds older. She might not be. She
Speaker 1: sounds older, at least older than him, so.
Speaker 3: She's probably not looking to try to.
Speaker 8: Take care of somebody on a first date, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.
Speaker 5: And then if.
Speaker 8: Your apartment was that dirty.
Speaker 3: Why would you even think about taking a female back
Speaker 3: to your apartment?
Speaker 1: I mean, I know I don't use that word, but yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's silly.
Speaker 2: I gotta be honest with you. I will say this.
Speaker 2: I don't think that either one of these guys. I
Speaker 2: don't like they're a match and has nothing to do
Speaker 2: with their voices. It has everything to do with the
Speaker 2: fact that from the get go, I don't know where
Speaker 2: the fun part of this date was, Like, I don't
Speaker 2: think that there was any fund West.
Speaker 1: What's up? Well, what's up, good buddy? What's going on?
Speaker 3: Not much? I was just saying, they're honestly.
Speaker 1: Both just you know what. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I mean you should have claimed the house,
Speaker 3: but I mean she is just I don't.
Speaker 1: Know, it would be tough. Yeah, I get it, all right, James,
Speaker 1: what's up? And she could come to my house and clean,
Speaker 1: but I'll.
Speaker 8: Pay her.
Speaker 1: Jackie? Uh what do you? By the way, Jackie, what
Speaker 1: do you do for a living? If you don't mind
Speaker 1: me asking sales?
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is and is your place clean? Like
Speaker 2: if I went to your place right now, would your
Speaker 2: place be like spotless?
Speaker 3: Absolutely?
Speaker 2: And it's been a week Bill, just the way she
Speaker 2: says it, it's just that floor.
Speaker 1: It's been a week, Bell, Is your place still clean?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 4: No, it's not.
Speaker 1: How fast did it get messy?
Speaker 4: I mean it's just me so, you know, maybe two
Speaker 4: three days. But I just you know, I never caught
Speaker 4: up on what you did. But you know, I was
Speaker 4: going to say, I didn't want to sound crass, but
Speaker 4: I thought it was kind of hot when she was
Speaker 4: doing it.
Speaker 1: So, oh no, I gotta said that night. I would
Speaker 1: have helped things a little bit.
Speaker 3: Maybe.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you guys for being on second date updowns.
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Speaker 3: I just wanted to say that they sound like they've
Speaker 3: been married and this is just a usual night for
Speaker 3: them in their vickery over who's going to do the
Speaker 3: dishes and clean the kitchen.
Speaker 1: It's true, isn't it