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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you? Producer? Tailor's here who got yelled at

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Speaker 1: yesterday because you have not made provisions for securing your

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Speaker 1: real idea and you're mad about it. Yeah, what did

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Speaker 1: we read this morning? It's not going to be forty

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Speaker 1: five dollars every time you want to fly.

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Speaker 2: Yep, if you don't have your real idea or your passport.

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Speaker 1: And here's the danger. The danger that I read is

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Speaker 1: if you don't do it ahead of time, and then

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Speaker 1: you get to the airport and you're like, I'll just

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Speaker 1: pay my forty five bucks and get this handled. They

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Speaker 1: could deny you if your ID doesn't check out some

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Speaker 1: for some reason. Oh no, So you could get there

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Speaker 1: with all your stuff, pay your forty five bucks and

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Speaker 1: there could be a snaffoo in the system.

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Speaker 2: Oh goodness, Well, make sure to bring your passport.

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Speaker 1: At least I'm trying to tell her not to mess

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Speaker 1: with the DMV. You don't listen to me. I know

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Speaker 1: anybody who's trying to mess with the DMV will tell

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Speaker 1: you don't mess with the DMV anyway. How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good?

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm doing all right. Yesterday was freezing.

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Speaker 1: Yes I went home and there was a request to

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Speaker 1: make turkey tortilla soup with the last the leftovers. Yummy,

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Speaker 1: So it's here. We're gonna test drive it. It's a

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Speaker 1: little spicy, but it was good last night.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: I was really arrogant about it yesterday. I tried to

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Speaker 2: I'm sure? Well, I'll have to taste test it today

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Speaker 2: and be the real judge.

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Speaker 1: This is me yesterday in the kitchen. I think this

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Speaker 1: is my best work. He says, every time hang out

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Speaker 1: with us while you're waking up, we appreciate you. Start

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Speaker 1: one on one three. We were talking about this yesterday,

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Speaker 1: but it bears repeating because everybody's getting away for the holidays.

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Speaker 1: Maybe this is the year you finally meet your significant

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Speaker 1: other's family and it's making you anxious. Here are some

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Speaker 1: pro tips on how to win the family over, and frankly,

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Speaker 1: you can use these even if you've been with your

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Speaker 1: family for years. They might work. A couple of these

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Speaker 1: things are not easy because it basically says be your

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Speaker 1: authentic self, but not that authentic. You gotta read the

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Speaker 1: number one, read the room it says, right, I got

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Speaker 1: producer Taylor with me, by the way, she's helping me

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Speaker 1: out behind the scenes quite a bit.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: You can meet her officially Tay Love with two E's

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Speaker 1: on Instagram. But you said something funny to me off

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Speaker 1: the air, you said, and we'll get into it in

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Speaker 1: just a second. I said, have you ever met your

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Speaker 1: boyfriend's parents, you know, when she's dating or whatever, And

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Speaker 1: she was like, yeah, they don't typically like me. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what's not to like. To be honest with you,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think I know your true self.

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Speaker 1: I think that's the problem. But what they do say

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Speaker 1: is number one, be yourself, but number two match their energy.

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Speaker 1: Says This helps with anyone you're trying to impress, whether

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Speaker 1: Match the vibe, reflect their energy. If they're reserved, you

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Speaker 2: It is like, be yourself, but actually change everything about you.

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Speaker 1: I saw this in real time over the holiday because

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Speaker 1: my neighbors came over and they're horribly inappropriate. Oh great,

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Speaker 1: we sit around it. This is what we do. Does

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Speaker 1: anybody else have these neighbors? You sit around, you drink,

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Speaker 1: I literally had to sit them down. Okay, you too,

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Speaker 1: These are grown ass adults. I was like, you, guys,

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Speaker 1: So if you're trying to impress your significant other's family,

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Speaker 1: match their energy. That's rule number one. Unless you meet

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Speaker 1: producer Taylor's mom, her energy is not to be matched.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's her own thing.

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Speaker 2: She beats her own.

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Speaker 1: Number two on the list, listen carefully. Active listening one

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Speaker 1: this is just applicable in life. I'm sure my wife

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Speaker 1: for half These are like just just life skill in general.

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Speaker 2: Right, this is what they teach you on communication classes.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Maintain good posture. The way you carry yourself

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Speaker 1: can affect your confidence and your anxiety levels. Stay grounded

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Speaker 1: and at ease. Keep your back straight and your shoulders relaxed.

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Speaker 1: Don't perform we've talked about we've covered that, be yourself

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Speaker 1: and then finally, and this one has bit me in

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Speaker 1: a massive hugger.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than meeting someone that's not a hugger.

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Speaker 1: And you didn't ask, you didn't get consent, You just

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Speaker 1: And I'm Mexican, so it takes like a half hour

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Speaker 1: to leave a function. Yes, if you don't say goodbye

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Speaker 1: But my ex like, literally we stood at the door,

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Speaker 2: probably is to bring something. Don't come empty handed. Bring flowers,

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Speaker 2: Okay? Well, Marcus, I just listened to three other things.

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Speaker 1: Any tips would be great. You can use the talk

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Speaker 1: if you're streaming Star one on one three right now.

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Speaker 1: I love this. People are talking about the life lessons

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Speaker 1: to that in just one second. Joined by producer Taylor

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Speaker 1: good Morning. You can follow her at Taylove on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: She has been extremely helpful. I'm gonna talk about you

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Speaker 1: So life lessons people wish they'd learned sooner. Number one.

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Speaker 1: I love this. Don't wait on anyone for anything, period,

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Speaker 1: full stop. And this person writes, I don't say this

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Speaker 1: out of bitterness or maliciousness. I've just spent way too

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Speaker 1: waiting for people. Set your limits, set your boundaries. That

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Speaker 1: On top of that, time is everything. And they say

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Speaker 1: Od I'm like fifty two and I'm already like, I

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Speaker 1: So Taylor and I are talking about life lessons you

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Speaker 2: One thing I was thinking about is how anger is

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about how elaborate on that, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally. I know you realize that when you meet people,

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Speaker 1: We're all on this rock, just trying to figure trying

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Speaker 1: this one too. Somebody wrote, nobody's really thinking about you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I have my own sitcom going on and

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Speaker 1: it's not commercial break yet. This one I don't necessarily

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Speaker 1: do some homework. We have access to the internet now, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: What's happening in entertainment news, the biggest stories of the

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Speaker 2: day and everything people are talking about today.

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Speaker 1: In the Bay. Our dad joke of the week just

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Speaker 1: Did you laugh yesterday? Was it a good one? Sure?

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Speaker 1: Arguably my best work to date. He says every week.

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Speaker 1: sharing the poll that is up on the Star one

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Speaker 1: This is their inaugural toy drive, so we're trying to

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Speaker 1: thank you to wou Ye and everybody over there for

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Speaker 1: what they do for the community right here in San Francisco.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Amazon just launched a brand new ultra

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Speaker 1: fast delivery option. They're calling Amazon Now, have you heard

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Speaker 1: about this yet? So they're launching it in Seattle and

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Speaker 1: Philadela and you can get your stuff in thirty minutes

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Speaker 2: No way, that's high speed.

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Speaker 1: Cause, dude, I remember when I was like two days.

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Speaker 1: Really wow, and it's free. All I gotta be is

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Speaker 1: a Prime member. Wow. They offer everyday essentials and groceries

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Speaker 1: in about thirty minutes, produce pantry staples, toilet trees, pet supplies,

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Speaker 1: seasonal items. Prime members can get it for about four

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Speaker 1: bucks per order, non Prime at fourteen. The idea is

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Speaker 1: they want you to have the corner store experience without

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Speaker 1: having to leave the couch.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hease with me.

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Speaker 1: We'll see when it rolls out into the Bay. Starting

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Speaker 1: next year, travelers who show up at the airport without

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Speaker 1: their real ID or another accepted form of ID will

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Speaker 1: have to verify their identity online at the airport and

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Speaker 1: pay a forty five dollars fee every time they fly.

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Speaker 2: So wild to me, I won't I don't understand.

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Speaker 1: Taylor, who doesn't get mad on anything, walked in and

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Speaker 1: goes okay, I have to rant about something. But then

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Speaker 1: she teed off on the DMV and real ID And

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Speaker 1: why is this even a thing? I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: It's too much. At the end of the day, I'm

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Speaker 2: still twenty five. I still exist.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes you have to fall in line, and I'm

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Speaker 1: the last person to say that, but sometimes I'll say

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Speaker 1: it again. Do not mess with the DMV. As someone

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Speaker 1: who spent years battling thousands of dollars for note just

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Speaker 1: to prove a point, you will lose.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: Pray for me when I go into the DMV later

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Speaker 2: this week.

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Speaker 1: You have your appointment. I do good for you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Don't mess with the DMV or the irs. That's our

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Speaker 1: that's our life. Lesson today, let's see, we'll go to

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Speaker 1: sports really quick. Your sharks one yesterday sixty three was

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Speaker 1: the final against Utah. They'll be at the Shark Tank

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Speaker 1: tomorrow night against Washington. The puck drops on that game

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Speaker 1: at seven o'clock. The Dubs will be hosting Oklahoma City tonight.

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Speaker 1: That's going to be a tough one. Oklahoma City is

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Speaker 1: literally twenty and one and they're a good team. That

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Speaker 1: will be a Chase Center, So make sure it's rocking.

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Speaker 1: Tip off at eight o'clock, Go Dubs. And that is

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Speaker 1: what's trending all right. Coming up in a few minutes,

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Speaker 1: we have Oh, I forgot all about your poll pardoner, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: We have a pull up right now on the start

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Speaker 1: one one three FM Instagram stories. Let's close with that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is National Mutt Day, so we're asking what

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Speaker 2: kind of mutt has the most energy. Is it a

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Speaker 2: they just all wild?

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Speaker 1: All right, well, some for our dog lovers.

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Speaker 2: Let us know.

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Speaker 1: Back with second date update, literally trying to help you

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Speaker 1: find love. The more I talk to people about dating,

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Speaker 1: the more treacherous I hear that it is. So we're

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Speaker 1: here to help. If you go on a first date,

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Speaker 1: and let's say you're date ghosts. We will call them

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Speaker 1: with you on the line to try to figure things out,

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Speaker 1: see why they might have ghosted you. You know, sometimes

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Speaker 1: it works out in a second date. Let's se if

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Speaker 1: we can get that done for our guy. Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: May are you there?

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Speaker 5: I am Hey?

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Speaker 1: Hey, So I want to hear all about this date.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about Eli. How'd you guys meet? And then

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Speaker 1: what'd you guys do for your first date?

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Speaker 4: All?

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Speaker 3: Right? Well, we we met, I'm grinder, okay, but it

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Speaker 3: wasn't immediate meet we.

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Speaker 5: Like, it wasn't like a right away.

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Speaker 3: We talked for a little bit and then we met

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Speaker 3: a couple of days later for tacos and Margarita's.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because it's currently if I'm wrong with like, grinder

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Speaker 1: can be immediate, right, it can be like sitting ten

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Speaker 3: Let's go pretty yeah, pretty much that's what grinder.

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Speaker 5: Grinder usually is. Okay, but I don't know.

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Speaker 3: We got to chat in and we decided that we

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Speaker 3: wanted to see if it would be more than just kind.

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Speaker 1: Of a grinder slow play. How often does this happen?

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Speaker 4: Not?

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Speaker 1: Very okay?

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Speaker 3: So how was the d I mean it was really

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Speaker 3: it was really awesome when we both love musical theater,

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Speaker 3: and we both we both cry at the last ten.

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Speaker 5: Minutes of So Go.

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Speaker 1: I mean, who doesn't, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, I thought he was really sweet and funny and

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Speaker 3: like he was really honest. We really we really had

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Speaker 3: a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, and he just ghosted, just gone.

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Speaker 4: He just ghosted.

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Speaker 3: I haven't heard from him.

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Speaker 1: Huh. All right, let's call him. I mean, that's why

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Speaker 1: we're here. We're gonna call him. We're gonna have you

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Speaker 1: on the line. Have you been on second D Update before? No,

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Speaker 1: I have not. This is exciting. Okay, all right, hang

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Speaker 1: on the line. We're gonna play a song. Let's regroup it.

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Speaker 1: I've got HIGHM on the phone. He was telling me

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Speaker 1: about his date with Eli. They met on grinder and

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Speaker 1: connected for an actual date a couple of days later.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we were laughing because my grinder is typically immediate.

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Speaker 1: It's typically like a like a homing device almost, it is.

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 3: It's more like a hey, what are you into.

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Speaker 1: Right now in the moment, I'm on your left something

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Speaker 1: like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm on your left. Here, here's a picture of

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Speaker 3: my junk.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you know what we're breaking ground. You

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Speaker 1: guys went out. It was tacos, It was in Oakland,

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Speaker 1: and you guys both love musical theater. I wrote it down.

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Speaker 1: You said, the conversation felt honest. The problem is Eli

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Speaker 1: has ghosted, So let's call him and try to figure

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Speaker 1: some things out. Okay, go ahead and mut your phone.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Hello, Hello, May I speak to Eli?

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Speaker 1: Please? This is him Eli? This is Marcus from Star

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Speaker 1: one on one three iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what is the Did I win our conscious with it?

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Speaker 1: You don't listen to the morning show?

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Speaker 4: Do you heavy now and then?

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Speaker 1: But not like often? Not religiously? Okay, we're doing second

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Speaker 1: date update right now? Does that mean anything to you?

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Speaker 1: It does not. Okay. So I got a call from

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Speaker 1: a gentleman that you went out with not too long ago,

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Speaker 1: went out with for tacos, and his name's Hyman. He's

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Speaker 1: saying that you ghosted him, and I'm just calling kind

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Speaker 1: of on his behalf to try to figure out why

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Speaker 1: if you ghosted A and B, what happened? Did you ghost?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I did?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Did he do something wrong?

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I'll say this, the date was fun.

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Speaker 1: But because so here's here's what he told me. He

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Speaker 1: told me that like and I wrote it again. He

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Speaker 1: told me that the date felt really honest.

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Speaker 4: So that's the problem. It was too honest. Like when

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Speaker 4: he was literally he was talking about like planning ahead,

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Speaker 4: like his few games. He gave me his five year plan,

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Speaker 4: and it was like when he meets the right guy,

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Speaker 4: he wants to get married, he wants to have like

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Speaker 4: a house in Berkeley, he wants two dogs, a share closet.

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Speaker 4: Like he was telling me all that before we ordered cato,

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Speaker 4: and then he reached over and like touched my wrists

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Speaker 4: and said, I can tell you fall in love quickly

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Speaker 4: as well. And I'm like, no, I don't. Like I mean,

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Speaker 4: don't get me wrong. He was a nice guy to try.

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Speaker 4: Like the conversation was good, but like it was just intense,

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Speaker 4: like really intense. He kept correcting my Spanish, like when

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Speaker 4: I was ordering something, he would like correct me, which

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Speaker 4: I thought was kind of annoying.

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Speaker 1: Oh I wasn't ask you if you thought that was

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Speaker 1: cuter if that was annoying, But all right, the.

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Speaker 4: First time was cute, but the second time I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: I get it, Spanish, isn't My first leg was like

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Speaker 4: this is getting.

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Speaker 1: Kind of a bit much, right, Okay, So basically like

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Speaker 1: he was too fast, too furious kind of.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like he was telling me about like what the

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Speaker 4: dog's names would be, just a lot sure hear.

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Speaker 1: The thing about it is is that I'm is actually

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Speaker 1: listening right now. We'll try to use this as a

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Speaker 1: teachable moment. Sorry, I'd love to bring him on.

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Speaker 5: If that's sure him.

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Speaker 1: Are you there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, hi, So, uh you can see how this might

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Speaker 1: be a little bit accelerated.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I mean, I mean I was joking kind of.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, as I said, grinder is usually

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Speaker 3: wham bam, but since we were actually going on dates,

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Speaker 3: I figured it would be funny to joke about, Hey,

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Speaker 3: we've done the whole skip grinder immediacy and now we're

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Speaker 3: clearly ready for a future together.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm gonna be honest with you. It didn't

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Speaker 4: seem jokingly to me, Like it seemed like you were

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Speaker 4: just genuinely looking for like something more and I'm just

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Speaker 4: trying to have fun. I'm not looking at that road

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Speaker 4: on the road. I'm not looking for relationship or dating

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Speaker 4: or a boyfriend or anything like You're on like a

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Speaker 4: whole other level. And I respect that you're honest about

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Speaker 4: whatever you're looking for, but I am not in any way,

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Speaker 4: shape or for I'm looking for any type of commitment

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Speaker 4: or anything like that at all.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's honestly, that's too bad because I thought, you know,

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Speaker 3: if we were actually meeting up and having a conversation

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Speaker 3: instead of getting right to make and stuff.

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Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes I just want to get dinner, but

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Speaker 4: like I don't want to, but you were really just

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 4: It just seems like you're really looking for that guy,

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Speaker 4: and I hope you find it, but it's just I

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Speaker 4: can't be that guy.

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Speaker 1: All right, hang on you too. That's going nowhere now officially.

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Speaker 1: Gift giving, gift buying? What the heck do you want

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Speaker 1: for Christmas? Honukah season? Do you ever struggle with who

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Speaker 1: to give gifts too? That's the question? Taylor is here, Hello,

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Speaker 1: my new producer. You could follow her online at Taylove.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever struggle with who to give gifts to?

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of families. Do you ever have

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Speaker 1: trouble deciding who gets a gifted who doesn't?

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Speaker 2: Like? Depends on how good we're we're doing.

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Speaker 1: In the moment, how good we're standing. Only during the

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Speaker 1: good years are going to get a gift from me.

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Speaker 1: So there is an etiquette expert. Her name's Elaine, and

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Speaker 1: she has what she calls the onion method. And I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I agree with it, never heard of it.

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Speaker 1: It says, if you're on a budget, just imagine an onion.

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Speaker 1: The center of the onion represents the center of your life.

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Speaker 1: These are the people that you prioritize the most, so

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Speaker 1: like for me, it would be my wife, my daughter.

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Speaker 1: Then you work your way outside the ring in terms

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Speaker 1: of the amount of money that you're going to spend.

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Speaker 1: This is the part I don't agree with necessarily. Let's

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Speaker 1: say you have a large family. One of your siblings

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Speaker 1: the others on holidays because maybe they live out of town.

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Speaker 1: The inner sibling would get the priority gift and the

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Speaker 1: others may only get a card.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna start some fighting, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Somebody's gonna die today.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, can you imagine that phone call? Oh I

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Speaker 2: would be upset?

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Speaker 1: Is the Taylor on the other end of that line,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry she gave you what now?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I would take it.

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Speaker 1: So personally, I got a Starbucks gift card and you

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Speaker 1: got what. Now, maybe it'll work for you. Here's what

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Speaker 1: we do and my family is we give gifts to

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Speaker 1: and then if we've got nieces and nephews and my daughter, everybody,

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Speaker 1: they all get gifts. Okay, The problem is I forgot

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Speaker 1: to tell my mom about our new thing this one year.

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Speaker 1: It just happened, and she got a card. I still

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Speaker 1: haven't heard the end of that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I bet.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, the onion method, there you go. The center of

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Speaker 1: the onion is your inner circle, and then everybody else

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Speaker 1: represents a layer. When you're gift giving, you can decide

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Speaker 1: how much money you want to spend on them. Maybe

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Speaker 1: you've got your own method. I'd love to hear it.

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Speaker 1: You can leave a talkback on the iHeartRadio app that

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Speaker 1: Right now, it's time for good news.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes all you need is one a good thought to

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Speaker 2: make it a great day. So let's do this. It's

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Speaker 2: good news on Star one on three.

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Speaker 1: So we give you good news twice in the morning.

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Speaker 1: a family of Angels in the South Bay who have

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Speaker 1: Fair shooting on Black Friday. You probably heard about that

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Speaker 1: But then here's this family who literally lives across the street,

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Speaker 1: wife grew up, and they just the the The dad,

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Speaker 1: his name's Martine, he said that he thought he was

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Speaker 1: being pranked because all the the on the ring cam

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Speaker 1: you could see all like dozens of people running to

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Speaker 1: his front door. And he said, he said, I thought

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Speaker 1: I was being pranked because I all ran to the

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Speaker 1: and I realized there was something bad going on. I

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Speaker 1: just let them into the house. One of the ladies

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Speaker 1: who took shelter in his house said, we landed in

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Speaker 1: the street of our wonderful new friends, the Angels. The

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Speaker 1: Garcia family. It was the breathtaking moment. They felt the love,

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Speaker 1: the comfort, and the door opened like just a couple

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Speaker 1: of angels. They do have somebody in custody on that shooting.

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Speaker 1: That's more good news. But if you know the Garcia family, man, seriously,

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Speaker 1: that is a that's the next level good Samaritan, guardian

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Speaker 1: angels stuff. Just dozens of people rushing into your home

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Speaker 1: because they need shelter and they need help. Appreciate you

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Speaker 1: guys down there. It's time to play the bass favorite

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Speaker 1: trivia games called What You Know About That.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Producer Taylor. Welcome everyone. Let's say good morning

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Speaker 1: to your contestants. Good to us Bade and Walnut Creak,

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Speaker 1: and say how to Erica, Good morning.

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Speaker 5: Erica, Good morning, How are you good?

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Speaker 1: How are you? What's going on this morning? On my

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Speaker 1: way to work at the hospital? Which one John mu

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Speaker 1: or Walman Creek? Okay, yeah, been there, loves it. Welcome,

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Speaker 1: thank you, it's going in the mission district. Say he too. Laura,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Laura. Hi, what are you doing this morning?

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Speaker 2: And taking my daughter this school and then going to work?

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Speaker 1: I love it. What's your daughter's name?

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Speaker 3: Josie Fay?

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Josie Fay. Remember no helping. Mom's got to

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Speaker 1: do this on her own. You know the rules. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, everyone, perfect, all right. The game's

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Speaker 1: super simple. It's five trivia questions, fifty second to answer them,

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Speaker 1: all personally, going to be asked separately with their opponent

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Speaker 1: on hold. Whoever gets the most Rightancis wins. And if

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Speaker 1: you don't know an answer, just yell out, pass and

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Speaker 1: we'll come back to the question if we have time left. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, So Laura and Josie fego on holding the

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Speaker 1: mission district and we start with Erica and Walnut Creek.

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Speaker 1: All right, Erica, it's your moment, all right. Question number one?

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Speaker 1: In what year did the Titanic sink? Was it seventeen twelve,

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Speaker 1: eighteen twelve or nineteen twelve ohne twelve? Which US state

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Speaker 1: is known as the Sunshine State.

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Speaker 3: Florida?

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Speaker 1: What is the longest running Broadway show? How many oceans

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Speaker 1: are there in the world?

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Speaker 5: You know seven?

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Speaker 1: What tech company originally used the slogan think different?

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Speaker 5: I don't know Microsoft?

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Speaker 1: All right, goes on holding Wanna Creek, and we pick

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Speaker 1: up Laura in the Mission District in Sam Francisco. Here

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Speaker 1: we go.

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Speaker 2: Question number one, in what year did the Titanic sink?

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Speaker 2: Was it seventeen twelve, eighteen twelve or nineteen twelve?

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Speaker 1: That nineteen twelve? I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: Which US state is known as the sunshign state? Also

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Speaker 2: no idea?

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Speaker 1: Uh, Sunside State, Florida.

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Speaker 2: What is the longest running Broadway show?

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Speaker 4: Of course?

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Speaker 3: Line?

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Speaker 2: How many oceans are there in the world?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Or five?

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Speaker 2: What tech company originally used the slogan think different? Can

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Speaker 2: you repeat them? What tech company originally used the slogan

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Speaker 2: think different?

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Speaker 1: Man, I'm not good at the tech company. No idea?

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Speaker 1: We are out of that on line for me? Hang

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Speaker 1: on all right. Erica comes back and Walnut Creek. We'll

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Speaker 1: see how she did against Laura in the Mission District

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Speaker 1: in San Francisco. Question number one, in what year did

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Speaker 1: the Titanic sink? Was it seventeen twelve, eighteen twelve or

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Speaker 1: nineteen twelve?

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Speaker 2: Erica said nineteen twelve. Laura said nineteen twelve. The answer

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Speaker 2: is nineteen twelve.

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Speaker 1: Nice points all around. Question two, which US state is

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Speaker 1: known as the Sunshine State?

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Speaker 2: Erica said Florida. Laura said Florida. The answer is Florida.

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Speaker 1: Doing well so far, ladies. Next question, what is the

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Speaker 1: longest running Broadway show?

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Speaker 2: Erica said Katz. Laura said a chorus line. The answer

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Speaker 2: is The Phantom of the Opera?

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Speaker 1: No points. Next question, how many oceans are there in

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Speaker 1: the world?

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Speaker 2: Erica said seven, Laura said five. The answer is five.

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Speaker 1: Nice. Finally, what tech company originally used the slogan think Different?

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Speaker 2: Erica said Microsoft. Laura ran out of time. The answer

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Speaker 2: is Apple. Laura is our winner.

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Speaker 4: Laura.

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Speaker 1: Final score three to two. Nice score. What are you

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Speaker 1: talking about?

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Speaker 2: Play with us again at weekday mornings at eight oh five.

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Speaker 1: Am and add to what you know about that podcast

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Speaker 1: All Right, I'm getting out of here. Gillian's on the way.

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Speaker 1: Next more star music for your workday should be nice

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Speaker 1: up again? Maybe not? Since fall is here in winter

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