WEBVTT - The Regret 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.600 It's a mojo in the morning show, Shannon, This topic 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:05.800 that you're about to bring up right now is a 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:10.480 learning lesson to all of our listeners that try to 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:13.240 do what you can in the moment, right now today, 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:15.200 because you never know if there will be another. 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:16.760 But what happened, I'm sorry about this. 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:21.320 Yeah, I got some really, really terrible news on Saturday 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:24.720 evening that one of my friends from college, a sorority 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:27.600 sister of mine, passed away unexpectedly in the middle of 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:30.920 the night. Younger than me. She was two years two 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:37.080 years younger than me, and she an like an incredible person, 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.320 a teacher, a mom of a three year old little girl, 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:44.959 a wife, and it was just such a tragic thing 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.080 that happened that she died in her sleep and she 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:52.280 didn't wake up the next morning, and it just has 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:55.480 really it honestly is still so surreal to me that 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:59.200 she's not here anymore. But it's one of those situations 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:02.840 where we were really close in college, especially being in 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:05.200 the same sorority. We lived together, you know, for a 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:09.280 handful of years, and then we kept in touch after college. 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:13.880 She came to my bachelorette party, my first wedding, and 0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:18.280 then after that, we just kind of like lost touch. 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:21.800 And it wasn't like we weren't friends anymore. It's just 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:25.640 the visits became phone calls, and then the phone calls 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:30.120 became texts, and then the text became a DM here 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:33.560 and there or a like on Instagram, and then you 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:36.640 hear that this this person is no longer here and 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:41.640 I have so much regret of not keeping in better 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:42.200 touch with her. 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.240 Did she did she battle in illness or what was? 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:46.680 No? 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.960 No, they did they tell you what's going on? 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:55.080 Essentially, she had a seizure, a seizure in the middle 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:57.600 of the night and no no history of it's just 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:01.040 because her husband was out of town work. Wow, so 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.440 she was by herself with the baby. 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:04.680 That's even worse because I know it's really a terrible 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:07.120 susus bad saying this, but I feel like if if 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:08.840 you know that they're sick and you have time to 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:11.040 be able to go, hey, you know, I want to 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:13.440 spend some time with you. Yeah, but this gives it 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:17.360 is You're right, it is a lesson and you just 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:19.440 don't know, you don't know when your time is. 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:19.680 Uh. 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:22.520 It really made me sit and reflect and go there 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:26.120 are certain people in my life that I love so 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:29.960 much and I hold, you know, such a special place 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:34.160 in my heart for and I don't necessarily, you know, 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:35.919 pick up the phone and keep in touch with them 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:38.240 or hang out with like we always say, oh, we'll 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.240 get together, we'll get together, and you never get together. 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:43.280 And so that's the purpose of me bringing this up 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:44.960 is like, do those things that you say you're going 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.640 to do or call that person today that you they're 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:49.800 on your mind, but you're like, oh, yeah, you know 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:51.960 the next time I'm on a long road trip, I'll 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.359 call her. No call them. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:57.440 Well she uh, you know, you talked about how it 0:02:57.520 --> 0:03:01.960 seemed like when you after you her wedding, you guys 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:05.400 kind of stopped talking to each other. Was it a 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.720 mutual thing or did one of you try to call 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:08.080 each other? 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:10.959 What was it? She's just like, yeah, like proximity. 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:14.480 She she lives in Indiana, lived in Indiana, and. 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:18.720 Yeah, do you what do you remember about her when 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:23.040 you first met her, you know, at college and you 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:24.480 guys first came so she. 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:26.520 Was really really she had grown up with one of 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:28.920 my best friends who I had already known, who was 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:31.000 my age, and so then she came to the school 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:34.200 and she was just She's one of those people that 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:38.120 loves everybody and everything. Like she she was a huge 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:40.120 cat lover, which you know my feelings on cats, so 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:42.400 she would always try to make me like cats and 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:45.560 I would say, Sam, it's not going to happen. 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:47.080 Happened. 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:49.840 But she was just so sweet and she had such 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:51.880 a spunk about her. 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:53.880 You know, it's weird. 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:55.960 We worked together for a couple of years at the mall. 0:03:56.040 --> 0:04:00.600 It just I literally we have a group like a 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:03.360 shared album that we're trying to make some memory books 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.160 for her daughter. Her daughter's only three, and we want 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.840 her to you know, know her tell stories about her 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:09.800 Mommy know, her mom is with the we feel like 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:11.520 our friend group. It's the it's the least that we 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:13.720 could do is make like chat books or stat books 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:16.560 or something. And I look at photos. I'm like, this 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:18.640 is not even real and she's not here. 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:19.839 You know, it's weird. 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:23.000 I experienced death at such a young age when my 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:27.200 mom had passed, but I became kind of you know, 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:29.840 whenever you'd have like a relative that would die, I'd 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:31.839 be like, oh, my uncle just died, or you know, 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:33.680 I kind of like because you already dealt with a 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:37.400 big death of a family member. It's not until you 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:42.359 lose somebody that is your age and or somebody that 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:45.800 was like well, close friend of yours that you go, 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:51.120 holy crap. It makes things like life real At that moment, it. 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.599 Feels very fragile all of a sudden, that she went 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:57.320 to sleep on Thursday night, yeah, and didn't wake up 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:58.080 on Friday morning. 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.640 And it's wild to say this, but I I'll say 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:04.320 this guy had a bunch of buddies that committed suicide. 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.320 When we were in high school and then college and stuff. 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:10.000 We had probably three people that I knew that committed 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:15.440 suicide for you know, really sad situations for their family 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:18.120 and friends and all of us. But when somebody just 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:22.159 dies of like a natural cause where they you know, 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:26.040 or some kind of an illness that's not a mental 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:29.479 health illness, you sit there and you go, oh, my god, 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:31.360 that could happen to me, you know what I mean, 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:34.880 Like this really could happen. And then you start realizing, 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:37.479 holy crap, like you're right, I want to connect. And 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:40.080 it always takes something like this to make you start 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:43.720 reconnecting with people. Yes, but then as time goes by, 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:46.680 it fades and you go back into your daily routines. 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:50.200 And I say, I use the word proximity because I 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:52.760 feel like that is really important for friendship, Like you 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:57.240 tend to you tend to stay in touch with on 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:59.520 a daily basis, the people who you see all the time, 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:00.200 right it. 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.120 Yeah, so I'm sorry. 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:06.800 Yeah, and think of the time that you're wasting with us. Yeah, 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:10.440 you could have easily gone to know. It's no, It's 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:13.480 funny like back, you know, a couple of weeks back, 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.440 you know, seeing the people that that showed up at 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:20.200 that occasion that I had, you know that at the celebration, 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.520 Like I'm like, man, you kind of realize who some 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:25.960 of your your true buddies are and friends are and 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:27.520 family members are and stuff like that. 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:29.919 But he said she was like two years younger than you, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:31.039 like sixty eight. 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:41.440 We're trying to make jokes, Hey, hugs to to you 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:43.200 Shannon on that one, but also prayers. 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:44.400 We have to keep prayers for. 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:47.119 That year old, her husband and her daughter. 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:50.560 Yeah. I could not imagine, like I just a three 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:51.120 year old. 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:54.920 You know, that is just that's just awful to know 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.760 that your your your mom is is not there anymore. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.080 And the husband who's out of town. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.080 You know what I mean, like not to be there 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:04.200 and able to be there not only for your wife, 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:05.920 but for your daughter needs. 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:08.760 To feel a sense of guilt because he was sleeping 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:10.320 next to her, would he have noticed? 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:12.600 Yeah, yeah, I don't know. 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:15.800 You don't you always hear these, uh these stories sometimes 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:20.560 of where somebody will have like that, like a seizure, 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.040 or they'll have like an aneurysm. 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:24.440 And yes, you're like, what is you want to know 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:26.200 the craziest part of this they were able to pinpoint 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:28.040 her time of death for Apple Watch. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:31.080 Really yeah, they a Watch. 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:35.400 Eight four four Mojo Live text nine five five zero zero. 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:38.920 Is is our telephon number? You know, it's kind of interesting. 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:41.160 I did this a few years ago, and I'm going 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:43.680 to go back to it now. Every day, memory, I 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:45.480 would tell you, or every week, I would try to 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.880 reconnect with somebody who I hadn't talked to in a while. Yeah, 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:49.760 and just out of the blue call and leave even 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.880 a voicemail message. And so I would start calling people 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:57.160 that hadn't talked to in maybe a couple three years 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:01.160 or whatever. And I found myself honestly reconnect with people. Yeah, 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:02.280 maybe this is something to do. 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:04.680 Again, Yeah, because it's not that you don't like those 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:07.280 people anymore. It's just life gets in the way and 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:10.160 there are people that you love and you want a 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.880 relationship with, but we are like I hate the word busy, 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:15.200 but we all get to busy and there's so many 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:17.520 things and you forget about the things that are and 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:20.360 the people that are really really important pieces to your life. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.440 Isn't this the time of year where we get caught 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.080 up in the crap? You know, we get caught up 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.240 in the holiday stuff, and we do get to the 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:28.720 point where it's like I feel like we're just in 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:32.720 this moment of our lives from now until the end 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:34.199 of the year. We're just trying to get to the 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:37.800 end of the year, and we're missing days, like we 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:41.360 really are missing moments and days and stuff. Like I 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:43.400 was looking at my calendar and I was looking at 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:47.680 the holiday party is on I think it's like the 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:49.760 sixteenth or something like that or whatever it is this summer. 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:51.559 I was looking at it was in my calendar. 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:54.640 And I'm like, oh God, but it's like I just 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:57.760 race through and just do appointments and I don't enjoy it. 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:00.120 And then yesterday, like we had that pod luck. I 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:03.080 actually enjoyed hanging out with her. It was really a 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.480 lot of fun. It was good to connect with some 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:07.199 people and just be able to sit there and just 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:09.520 have a meal. What's up, John, How you doing? 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:11.360 How you doing? 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:14.960 I'm okay, buddy, Shannon's the one struggling right now. 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:20.760 Yeah. I was calling in with a similar situation. My fiance. 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:23.760 She had a friend come over and I met her 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.280 for the first time. We had some drinks that evening, 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.920 so we didn't let her drive home. Next morning, she says, 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:32.960 I'm gonna go see my son because she got a 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:33.800 call from her son. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:34.720 I'll be back. 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:39.080 While she was gone, she ate something with pistachios and 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:43.520 had an allergic reaction, went straight to the hospital. While 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:46.559 she was there, wound up with pneumonia and died. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:48.240 Like within twenty four hours. 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:51.320 Here, I'm waiting for this. Here, I'm waiting for this 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:54.480 lady to come back this evening, you know what I'm saying. 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:56.240 And it never came back. 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.880 He was just that fast, perfectly healthy before that. 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:00.360 John. 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:03.719 I'm sorry, buddy. I'm sure it's a struggle. I'm sure 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:07.520 you're you're you're having a tough time. I hope that 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.560 you listen to this and know that we're we're going 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:12.280 to comfort you, buddy with some thoughts. 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.520 I mean, it's for them, but it just really played 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.360 with my psychology in my mind. 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:18.640 You know. 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.319 You know here I just met this lady. She says 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.880 she's coming back, and next day I know she's passed away. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:26.319 Yeah, you know, it's weird. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:29.440 That's awful, buddy. Thank you, Thank you for calling in 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:32.400 and sharing that. Man, we're thinking of those guys. What's up, 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:38.120 hey Chock, Hey, hey Mojoe, what's going on? 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.880 So my mom bugged us for three months to pre 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:45.040 come and help her pre playing her funeral. She was 0:10:45.160 --> 0:10:48.280 not sick or anything, and eight days later she was 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:49.640 in a car accident and died. 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:54.560 Oh my god, is she what do you what do 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:56.000 you equate that to? 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.800 I mean, is it one of those things where she 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:02.160 kind of had a a feeling or something. 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:08.680 So yep, she was, Yep, perfectly fine. We were planning 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:11.280 a trip to Sicily later in the year and wow, 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.960 and the same thing that Shanna talked about her Apple 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:18.440 watch told us she was in an accident. That's how 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:19.040 we found out. 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:23.800 That reminds me of a story about a radio mentor 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:26.400 friend of mine that I've talked about before on the air, 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:29.960 But Kid Kradick was a legend in the radio business. 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:34.600 He's a Hall of Famer and Kid he for years 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.560 woke up so many different people. But he also gave 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:41.320 guys like me and people like Shannon and Kevin and 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:44.320 Anna somebody to listen to and aspire to be. And 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:47.600 he did a radio topic on Friday about planning your 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:51.800 own funeral and then died that weekend, and uh, And 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:54.679 it's like it's almost kind of like you think to yourself, 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:57.440 like your his you know, mom planning in this funeral. 0:11:57.520 --> 0:11:59.880 It's almost like something sending you this, you know what, 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.199 I'm going to do this thing, so it makes it nice. 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:06.000 But it's almost like maybe God's way of telling you, Hey, 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:07.480 you know what, you're coming home. 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:10.000 What's going on? Kelly? 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:14.120 So my dad we all met out for Sunday breakfast 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:18.800 and he was going to come to my house afterwards, 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:22.200 and I just had a baby, so I wasn't paying 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.280 attention to the time. My mom called me and she's like, Hey, 0:12:25.320 --> 0:12:27.360 has your dad made it over there? I haven't heard 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:30.360 from him, And I was like, no, I haven't. And 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.200 it turns out he had a heart attack while he 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:39.040 was driving over to my house, and he got resuscitated 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:42.199 three times but ended up passing away in the hospital 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:43.520 after that. 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:48.040 But good. 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:51.120 I mean it's been three years now, so you know, 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:54.520 he was just a jokester. So my best advice is 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:57.520 when you're feeling sad, just think us their jokes, Just 0:12:57.559 --> 0:13:01.600 think us their personality. Just kind of be like ah, dang, 0:13:01.800 --> 0:13:04.640 Like you know, you need to get mad for them 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:08.040 not being here, but at the same time, it's just 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:09.880 better just to joke around and be like, oh, he 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:14.160 would have done this. Yeah, Kelly, you gotta you gotta 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:17.040 have a positive outlook and make sure that you just 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:18.480 honor them. 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:22.000 Yeah, that's a great as they wouldn't want to be sad. Yeah, 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:22.800 that's a great plan. 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:25.920 And actually something I tell Chelsea all the time, especially now, 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:29.960 you know, since after she she got diagnosed with cancer, 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:33.080 was take pictures, like she never would want to be 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:35.000 in a picture. Take a picture. Who cares how you 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.520 feel like you look. Take a picture because we all 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.959 want to remember whoever that person is through the eyes 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:46.200 of pictures, you know, and going through you know, pictures 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:47.760 for you has to be amazing to be able to 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:49.120 look at some of the stuff that you guys did 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:52.040 when you're in college, funeral home. Tom, we haven't heard 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:53.880 from you in a while. Tom, where have you been. 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:58.040 I've called to the times and never got through. But 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:02.120 that's okay, okay, questions to me. Listen. You gotta remember, 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:05.400 you guys, we come to this world naked, and we 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:08.160 come into this world with somebody needing to take care 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:11.040 of us. The same thing happens when we die. We're 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.880 gonna come leave this world naked and someone's gonna give 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.840 us our lands bath. You have to remember, too, every 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:21.440 day is a blessing. Okay, every minute that you met, 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:24.440 there's one minute less that you're gonna have. So you 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:26.920 got to put all the petty stuff behind you. 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:27.400 Tom. 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:30.640 You look at as a customer, don't you. 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:30.760 No? 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:31.200 I don't. 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:34.000 Yeah, you do, you son of a bed and look 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:35.520 at like the old men and old ladies and go, 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:36.480 I'm probably gonna see her. 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:39.680 No. But the funny part is when I go to 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:42.000 church and stuff, all the old ladies and old man 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:43.800 come up and give me big hugs. 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:47.800 Yeah, there's Tom. It makes me look to Tommy owns 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:51.880 one suit it's black, right, No, I own. 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:56.720 Several suits, but yeah, most of them are blast all 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:01.920 the fact that the man there is we have to 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:05.560 reach out to the people that we love because so 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:06.600 much time. 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:09.400 He doesn't count sheep. When he sleeps, he counts cask 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:15.880 he does those caskees add up to dollars for funeral time. 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:19.920 You guys, you guys all joke about it, but it's 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.160 a lifestyle with funeral director. You see people that you know, 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:26.200 you see people that you talk to every day. Another 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:28.160 week later, they're not there anymore. 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:29.480 Man. 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:32.400 Question for you, Tom, if somebody close to you passed away, 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:37.400 would you be the one to them naked? 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:41.840 Like, Oh, well, I'm not. I'm not actually a license 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:46.320 more attation. My son is and and we have all 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:49.520 license more attitions working for us. So I wouldn't be 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.440 the one necessarily preparing you. 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:52.320 Yeah, you're just doing the planning. 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:56.080 Would you want your son to prepare you? 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:59.280 But you know that's a tough question, that really is. 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:01.440 I don't know that I didn't want to. That'd be 0:16:01.520 --> 0:16:02.040 up to Hill. 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:06.080 Yeah, yeah, uh, all right. Will you take care of yourself? 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:06.800 Tom? 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:09.240 We love you so much. You go hold on real quick, 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:10.600 hold on, stand on the phone bill. What did you 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:12.560 want to say? 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.640 Hey, hey, Mojoe, I told my daughters put me in 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:18.040 a basebook cap, polo shirt and shorts, breathing in a suit. 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:22.800 Has anybody ever been buried Tom? And anything other than 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:24.920 a suit? I want to be buried in. 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:29.960 Some guys that people come in that couldn't afford it suit. 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:33.920 Oh jeez, hey Tom, Okay, yeah, do you give them something? 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:34.080 Well? 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:36.960 I have I have suits in my closet. I got 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:42.520 like just for that. Put in a suit? 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:43.840 Can I can I be? 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:46.520 I can put I can put you on one n 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:47.360 will probably come up to. 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:51.320 His ankles and they won't just keep yeah, keep the 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:53.560 the other end closed, Tom, Can I be buried in 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:54.520 a Lions jersey? 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:55.680 That's what I would like? If I want to be 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:57.200 buried in the Lions, you can be. 0:16:57.560 --> 0:17:00.720 You can memorialize your you can momorialize your funeral any 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:04.520 way you want. There's you can we can get a cask, 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:06.760 especially maybe that's Alliance casket for you. 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:10.320 All right, Well, take care of yourself. Guys, appreciate you 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.920 being on with us and Shannon. Our prayers to your 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.720 friend's family. That's that's sad.