1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,400 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Matt from DC. 2 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 2: How are you, Matt. I am doing fantastic. Thank you, Matt. 3 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 2: You're in a throuble, yes. 4 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: Sir, well I was. I was talking to you your 5 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: cowork in the radio station. Man, these are one of 6 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: those situations where you walk in and you're like, oh, 7 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: I've main great and sugar pumps, and then then it's 8 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: it's a lingering, just stink that never ends. Later to 9 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,319 Speaker 1: never let me joy to. 10 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 3: Walk you through it. 11 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 2: Wait, so wait a minute. First, give me the setup. 12 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: So your throuple is you and. 13 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 1: So it's actually me and my best friend. First of all, 14 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: we're day So it's me and my best friend, Rusty 15 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: and his partner who I don't know how much I 16 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: can ever share it, but he's actually an MPD But anyway, 17 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: no more, No, we're just go to So it all 18 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: started with just me and my best friend. 19 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 2: There's no wait. So wait, just so, just so I'm 20 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: real clear. So it's you, Rusty. We'll just call police officer. 21 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 3: So yes, we call it clove. 22 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: So it's you, Rusty and the police officer. Rusty rush 23 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: ste is your best friend, and Rusty and the police 24 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 2: officer are a couple. A couple. Boyfriend boyfriend, Yep, exactly, 25 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 2: you got it. 26 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: You're tracking it. 27 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 2: Okay, how did you how did you get invited in? 28 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: Well, like any any good situation, I was propositioned. So, 29 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: I mean it started off just me and my best friend, 30 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: and you know, he way at the beginning introduced me 31 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: to his boyfriend. They were great, but I kind of 32 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,479 Speaker 1: realized right away there was little like ques and innuendo. 33 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: It's almost like the two guys at the bar. You know, 34 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: they give me like, hey, we saw you from across 35 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: the room. 36 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 2: Right, But had you had you how long? How long 37 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: have you and Rusty prior to getting into a throuttle? 38 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 2: How long have you and Rusty been really really good friends? 39 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: Oh man, we've been friends for god at least, having 40 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: like probably five or six years. 41 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:55,919 Speaker 2: It was there ever any sexual or relationship attraction between 42 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: the two of you. 43 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: No, That's what's kind of crazy about all this, And 44 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: that's actually what I want to I want to explain, 45 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: is funny I ended up, I think, becoming like a 46 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: placeholder in the relationship when they kind of started to 47 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: stale out. Does that make sense. 48 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, sure so. 49 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: And it's kind of funny because at first, it's so set. 50 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just like anything you know you're going 51 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: You're like, oh this is fun, you know, you know, 52 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: more the merrier. But then it becomes I don't know, 53 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: little by little, there's like a shift. And that's why 54 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 1: I don't think any of these strumble situations will ever 55 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: work long term. 56 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: There becomes like. 57 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: A shift of like, oh, yeah, hey, why don't you 58 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: just come over? And oh hey, uh yeah, Rusty's busy, 59 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: why don't you why don't you come come, come spend 60 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: the night? And then before you know it, it's just 61 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: you can sense the the intention behind it, and it's 62 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: it ends up being these situations where it's almost like 63 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: you're taking a place with something or filling a void. 64 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: No fun intend and that sounds funny. 65 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm filling the whole Elliott that existed. 66 00:02:59,360 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 4: Right. 67 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,959 Speaker 2: So now let me ask you this. Let me ask 68 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: you this, is this the first thrupple you've been. 69 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: In, you know, like a legitimate way. Yes, I mean 70 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: obviously I'm young and dominanceil you know. So I mean 71 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: I've had fun, I've had. 72 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: Like yeah, no, but that's different having a threesome. You know, 73 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 2: this having a threesome and being in a thruple are 74 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 2: completely different things, completely different things. 75 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: Now, yeah, yeah, this is definitely first. 76 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 2: But so if this, if this thing kind of peters out, 77 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: will will you be the one that is dismissed from 78 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: the from the thrupple? 79 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: Oh for sure, foreshore. And this is the thing. 80 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 3: This is why I kind of like keep warning to anyone, 81 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 3: any couple, hetero don't matter. These situations have an underlying intention. 82 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 3: Whether it's a lack in the bedroom, whether it's an 83 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 3: emotional disconnect, whether it's like. 84 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: A boredom, it doesn't really matter. This is why I 85 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: don't really think these situations ever pan out. 86 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 2: Now, you know, you know that there are people who 87 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 2: who will argue with you, of course, of course. 88 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: And I'm actually jealous because I I think those people 89 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: that do find those relationships, I'm actually I almost respect 90 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: because I feel like that's a very hard thing to accomplish, 91 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: a balance. I'm uture respect, you know in any of 92 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: these situations you want to have all that, But the 93 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: reality is, I think, especially dudes, we're just we're just 94 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: terrible people, are you know, They're just terrible people, and 95 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: our intentions are a prime lens to kind of override 96 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: I got your feelings, all right, Well. 97 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 2: Keep me posted, keep me up to date, all right, 98 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 2: my friend? Oh for sure, Elliot, all I do no, 99 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 2: Because here's what I'm wondering. So let's say let's say 100 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 2: just the three of us are in a throttle. Right, 101 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: So let's say let's say that, and it doesn't matter 102 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: who who was like together first and then got invited 103 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: in or whatever. But let's say we've been in a 104 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 2: throuble for five years Filer, myself and Diane, and five 105 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 2: years down the road, Diane and Tyler decide they want 106 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 2: to boot me out of the throttle. Seemed inevitable? Is that? Like, listen, 107 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: in breaking up or relationship ending sucks. I mean, by 108 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 2: and large, no matter what, somebody comes to you and says, hey, yeah, 109 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 2: I don't want to be in a relationship with you anymore. 110 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 2: Is it? Is it harder when the two people together 111 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 2: decided to nix you. I want to say yes, because 112 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: you've got that. Like, for example, if it's just Diane 113 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: and I and Diane decides she wants to break up 114 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 2: with me, I still may be hurt, but that's a 115 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 2: decision that Diane made. Now the three of us are 116 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 2: together and you guys come to me and go, hey, 117 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 2: we want you out. I know that the two of you, yes, 118 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 2: have been having conferences and meetings and now you want me, Like, 119 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 2: I feel like that would be harder, Yeah. 120 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 5: Because it's almost like two people are breaking up with you. Yeah, 121 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 5: even though they've come to as a unit in the throttle, 122 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 5: it's still definitely multi layered. Not that one on one 123 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 5: isn't multi layered, but it just feels like there'd be 124 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 5: more layers. 125 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 2: And you were the fun one to begin with to 126 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 2: be brought in. Also, let me ask you this. Let's 127 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 2: say Diane and I are married and then we bring 128 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: Tyler in. It's still a thruple. So Diane and I 129 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 2: are married, and then you're just You're you're the third 130 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 2: person in the throttle. 131 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 5: Okay, this is this really muddy is the water? 132 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: Because marriage, no, well a little bit, but that that happens, 133 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: that happens. 134 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 5: In thropples, right, But then you're talking now about a 135 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 5: legal side. 136 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 2: To this, But that does happen. I know, but it's 137 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 2: and I'm not just it's just swinging. Oh yeah, dating. 138 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: I mean, listen, even you could be in a long, long, 139 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 2: committed relationship and not be married and breaking up as 140 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 2: a thousand times easier than if you're married. But walk 141 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 2: through this scenario. Diane and I are married and we've 142 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 2: been married for a number of years. We bring Tyler 143 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 2: in as the as the friend, right, and it goes 144 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: on for a number of years, and then you two 145 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: come to me and say, Elliott, we want you out, 146 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 2: which also means I'm getting divorced. That's got to be 147 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 2: a kick in the balls, like that's got to be 148 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 2: a real foot in the nuts. 149 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 5: Yes, absolutely, but that goes on. I just read about 150 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 5: it because it's more complicated. It's still also getting divorced. 151 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 5: But even if you and Diane had been together forever 152 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 5: and not married, I enter the picture and then we 153 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 5: want you out emotionally, that's pretty heavy as well. 154 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's still it's a layer worse when I 155 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 2: now have to get divorced because you probably go back 156 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 2: and go I would probably still be happily married if 157 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 2: we didn't invite you in. Can you look at it 158 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 2: that way? 159 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 5: Or when you're in a threatle, do you have to 160 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 5: remove yourself from that sort of thinking? 161 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: I can't. I've also never been in a throttle. 162 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 5: Inviting a third in is all about elevating the dynamic. 163 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: I don't want to elevate. No, it sounds like you're 164 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 2: blaming for everything was great till we brought Tyler in 165 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 2: for five years. But that's what I mean, like, it's 166 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 2: got to be a while. It's got to be a while. 167 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 2: I don't think this is anything we've ever. 168 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 5: Really, No, no, no, Normally you guys get all wrapped 169 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 5: up in the like, oh so it's just like sex 170 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 5: all the time. 171 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 2: Line four Hi Ellie in the morning. Hello, Hey, Hi, 172 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 2: who's this? 173 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 4: Hell? Yes, hey, my name is Morgan. 174 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 2: Hey Morgan, how are you doing good? How are you wonderful? 175 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 2: Thank you? Are you in a thrupple or you were 176 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 2: in a throuttle? I was? And who were the like? 177 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 2: Was it you? What's what was the setup? 178 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 4: Okay? So it was actually me, my husband and my 179 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 4: best friend and your best friend? 180 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 2: Oh man? And was your is your best friend a 181 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 2: girl or a boy? 182 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 4: A girl? 183 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: Okay? How long? How long has she been your best friend? 184 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 4: Oh gosh, it's been about nine years. 185 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 2: And you were never sexually or physically attracted to her 186 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 2: prior to being in a threuttle. 187 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 4: I mean, well, yeah, it's always. 188 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 2: Oh you always? So you always found her? Did you 189 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 2: and she ever hook up prior to you getting married? 190 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 4: Uh? No, I've been married for like ten years since 191 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 4: before I met her. 192 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 2: Oh so okay, all right, so you're married. And when 193 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 2: you two got married, when you married your husband, did 194 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 2: you did the two did? Were you guys? Were you 195 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: guys open at that point? Or were you a monogamous couple? 196 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 4: We were monogamous. We were never open. And then I 197 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 4: met this girl. She actually kind of like propositioned us initially, 198 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 4: but she and I had started hooking up already. 199 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 2: Where did where did she? Where did she proposition you? 200 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 4: Well? We actually worked together? 201 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:55,719 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh Morgan, Morgan, it's just the thing 202 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: of the mess. 203 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 4: I swear. 204 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 2: Were you guys hooking up at work? Well? 205 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 4: Not really? 206 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: I'm sorry? 207 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 4: What is not? 208 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 2: Really? One time? What'd you guys do? What did you 209 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: guys do? What'd you guys do? 210 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 4: God, I don't want to get into it. 211 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 2: Well, no, you're not going to get in trouble with me. 212 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Well we did have sex one time on 213 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 4: lunch break, did you really? 214 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 2: But not at work? Totally different? 215 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 4: No, I wasn't. No, it was during work. It wasn't 216 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 4: actually an outwork. 217 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 2: Right, No, like at lunch like you guys went in 218 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 2: the car, I had lunch there. 219 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty much. 220 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 2: That's cool. 221 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. 222 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: And now the three of you, so then you go back. 223 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 2: Did you go back and tell your husband, Hey, I 224 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 2: think I found a third that I want to be 225 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 2: in this. 226 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess like like she was interested in it, 227 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 4: and then I talked to him and he was like 228 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 4: down with it. So we all just kind of got together. 229 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 2: Can I ask you the this prior to the prior 230 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: to this this best friend, co worker yours, had you 231 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 2: ever been in a like a sexual relationship with a woman. 232 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 4: No? 233 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 2: Was it weird, dude? No, it was. 234 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 5: Really Yeah. 235 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, okay, this is me. I guess 236 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 4: you know what. 237 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 2: That actually makes me happy to hear because I see when. 238 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 5: She brought this idea to her husband. Was he aware 239 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 5: that she had been hooking up with her? 240 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 2: Great question? 241 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, because we told him before we did it. 242 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 2: You told him that you were hooked up. 243 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 244 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 5: I just read about this over the weekend the New 245 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 5: York Times. 246 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: No, that's great because how many times have couples said, 247 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 2: if you're gonna cheat on me, let me tell you. 248 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 2: So you called and you were like, hey, you know 249 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 2: Debbie from work. I'm getting ready to peel her panties off. 250 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 4: It was almost exactly like that. 251 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, what did you read the New York Times? 252 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 5: You didn't see the New York Times magazine article from 253 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 5: the ethicis They got panned for the How I mean, 254 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 5: I was attracted to it because of the guy being 255 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 5: such a cock, That's what a listener would say. 256 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: But no, it was a guy who essentially. 257 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 5: Told someone to go off and cheat, like this is 258 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 5: what you want, and then was grieving for the loss 259 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 5: of his month. 260 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 2: Oh I gotcha, I gotcha. 261 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 4: I mean it's not cheating when they know Oh exactly. 262 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 2: No, No, being in a thrupple is not cheating. Hey 263 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 2: they were yet No, no, but she called and said 264 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 2: I wanted to do this, and that was fine. So 265 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 2: now so now now the three of you mess around together. 266 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 4: We were for a while. Yeah, a few years. 267 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a while. Okay, I thought you were gonna 268 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 2: say a couple of weeks. So wait, so did you No? 269 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 4: No, no, no, it was longer. 270 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: Did all three of you did all three of you 271 00:13:59,400 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 2: live together? 272 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 5: No? 273 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 4: We were going to we talked about it, but it 274 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 4: was like what we were looking at how this things 275 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 4: kind of like started. Well, it wasn't like they were 276 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 4: falling apart then, but we went on like a trip together. 277 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 2: The three of you. 278 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, we went to Japan. Oh wow, Yeah, and things 279 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 4: are going fine. But then I was kind of interested 280 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 4: in seeing someone else. But at that point, well, no, 281 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 4: it's just someone on the side. I'm also Polly, so. 282 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I can't keep up with that. I can't 283 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 2: keep up with Polly. I can't keep up with Polly. 284 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. So then they actually kind of I kind of 285 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 4: like it was more or less pushed out of the relationship. 286 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 2: And you were the wife. Yeah, so what they say 287 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: to you, what they say to you, I. 288 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 4: Mean, I guess like she wasn't. I guess like he was. 289 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 4: They were interested in seeing each other. She said she 290 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 4: didn't really want to see me anymore, because I think 291 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 4: she was, like I don't okay, at the time, she 292 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 4: was identifying a straight Now she identified the spy. But 293 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 4: like I think it was like a weird like saying 294 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 4: where she didn't want to be like in a relationship 295 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 4: with like a woman anymore. 296 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 2: Right, by the way, just so you know I would 297 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 2: have labeled her as by during that first lunch break. 298 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 4: Well that's what I said. Oh so finally identifying spy. Cool. 299 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 4: I kinda told you that. 300 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 2: But god, damn, do you still work with her? 301 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 4: No? Thanks, that had nothing to do with that, had 302 00:15:58,000 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 4: nothing to do with it. 303 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 2: I want to see her day. She's with your ex 304 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 2: husband or your husband. 305 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, we're still together my husband and I. 306 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: I thought you said you got pushed out. 307 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 4: I was pushed out of that part of the relationship. 308 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm not following you. I'm not following you. 309 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 4: We're making it. I mean, you know, we make it work. 310 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 4: It's not a big deal. 311 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's very coo. 312 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 4: But then I still have the relationship with him. 313 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 2: Wait, so you're still married to him? 314 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 4: Uh huh yeah. 315 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 2: And he's still banging her. Yeah, and what are you doing? 316 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 4: Dang at someone else? 317 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 2: Sorry? 318 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 5: Sorry, I couldn't stop the laugh. And it wasn't laughing 319 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 5: at you. I just so, this is what happened when 320 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 5: I read my mom's eulogy, the once she gave not 321 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 5: her own. She's a liar. 322 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 2: Oh no, so wait a minute, So are you okay? 323 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 2: So you are married to your husband. I'm using a 324 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 2: different color pen to draw lines. So you, Morgan, you 325 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 2: are married to your husband. Your husband is also still 326 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 2: dating your co your ex co worker. Who's the new person? 327 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,120 Speaker 2: Who's the new person you're with? 328 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 4: I'm dating another girl that I met online. 329 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 2: For somebody that had never for somebody that had never 330 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 2: been with a girl. Do you got a lot of 331 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 2: girl experience? 332 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, I see, I've yeah, now I've been with 333 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 4: a few for sure. 334 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 2: Now, Morgan, let me ask you this. The new girl 335 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 2: that you're with, you're not you haven't. It's not you 336 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: and your husband with her. It's you by yourself with her. 337 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 4: It's just me. Yeah. 338 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 2: And are you and your husband going to stay together? 339 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 4: Yeah? 340 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 2: Like only they're making it work when you're When your 341 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 2: husband and your co worker came to you and said, 342 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: we don't want to be a thrupple anymore. Were you 343 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 2: were you? Were you mad? 344 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 4: I was pretty upset? 345 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you were like, let's just make it 346 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 2: where my husband dates both of us, but separately instead 347 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 2: of together. 348 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 4: Pretty much. 349 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and now you and the co worker don't do 350 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 2: anything together though. 351 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 4: Okay, well we're not flowing around anymore, but we're still 352 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 4: best friends. 353 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 2: How how do you stay best It wasn't always that. 354 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 4: It wasn't always that great though. I mean like there 355 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 4: was like definitely like a year or two that we 356 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 4: didn't really see But now we're best friends again. 357 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 2: But with no no like no hookn like not even 358 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 2: for fun, Like you don't go by her and go 359 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 2: booby and like give her a poke or something. 360 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,160 Speaker 4: No. I mean that we used to do that more often, 361 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 4: but not anymore. I was I just decided, like I 362 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 4: was like, I can't. I was like to invest it 363 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 4: in her that I was kind of like, I can't 364 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 4: have this kind of relationship with her if I expect 365 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 4: our friendship to survive. 366 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 2: So you're still married to your husband, You're still friends 367 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 2: with the coworker. 368 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 5: And the co workers are okay with that relationship still 369 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 5: being intact at least on the marriage. 370 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 2: Wait, which one the marriage? Hey is your cowork your 371 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: coworkers still cool with you being married? 372 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is all understood at the time. 373 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 2: Yeah at the time. What about man? 374 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 4: Fine? Yeah, I mean we all hang out and stuff. 375 00:19:56,400 --> 00:20:01,160 Speaker 4: It's not like who do you live with my husband? 376 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 2: So you and your husband do you share a bed 377 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 2: like a marital bed? 378 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 4: Yeah? 379 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:07,360 Speaker 2: We do right and so. 380 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,679 Speaker 4: Like when you when when you you. 381 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 2: I told you I'm not a moving part. I'm not Polly. 382 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 2: You're with more women than I am. I love you 383 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 2: the like when you go like when you go see 384 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,399 Speaker 2: your girlfriend? Is that when your friend goes over to 385 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:22,880 Speaker 2: have sex with your husband? 386 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 4: Pretty much? I mean like, well, I mean we do 387 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 4: like kind of like fair spaces. So like I might 388 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 4: spend a few days at my girlfriend's house, she might 389 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 4: spend some time at my house. 390 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: Wait, she comes to your house with your husband with 391 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:43,360 Speaker 2: your husband there, yeah, but the three of you don't 392 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 2: hook up. No, so your husband's like listen caps play 393 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,679 Speaker 2: at ten. They're in Seattle. I'm gonna watch that. So 394 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 2: why don't you guys, Why don't you guys go do 395 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 2: whatever you're gonna do for a couple hours. 396 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 4: I think they're just weird people. I mean, oh, I 397 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 4: don't know. 398 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, I don't want you to 399 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 2: I don't want you to think that I think you're weird. 400 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 2: Not at all. No, no, no, I'm being ser I 401 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 2: don't want I don't want you to think that I 402 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,880 Speaker 2: think that I look down on you, not at all. 403 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, you live it, but for us to learn it. 404 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 2: It's taking a moment to comprehend all the other. 405 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 4: This is just my life. 406 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 2: So do your parents know? No, Oh, they'd be pissed. 407 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 2: Your mom and dad don't listen, do they? 408 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 4: They do not? I think, like, I don't know if 409 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:44,120 Speaker 4: they would be pissed, but I think they would be perplexed. 410 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 2: Worse than me. 411 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 412 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 2: Probably, Hey, you want to call and tell him? 413 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 4: No. 414 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 2: Now do you think let if all of this, let's 415 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 2: say everything everything blows up, would do you think you 416 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 2: and your husband would survive? 417 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? I think we've I think so. We're kind of 418 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 4: like also best friends, so. 419 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,479 Speaker 2: You're like, what's friends? Right? 420 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? No, and we support each other. 421 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 2: I think it's great. I mean, you figured out how 422 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 2: to make it work. But in but like when when 423 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 2: when your husband and your best friend pushed you out? 424 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 2: Were your feelings hurt or no? No, you were all right? 425 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 4: No, they were her definitely, I think more by her 426 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 4: than by him. 427 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 428 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 4: I just felt like kind of like i've been. I 429 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 4: don't know if I want to say, like live too, 430 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 4: but I think like this the dynamic was what was 431 00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 4: starting to make her uncomfortable, and even though she was 432 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,239 Speaker 4: the one that kind of like one of us. So 433 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 4: I felt like it definitely did like her my feelings, 434 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 4: which is why we didn't talk for a little while. 435 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 2: Hey, can I ask you this when you're in a 436 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 2: throuttle or at least in your threattle. Yeah, like with 437 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 2: your with your coworker and your husband, Like, were there 438 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 2: were there nights where it would be like physically not 439 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,160 Speaker 2: like like emotionally and friendship wise, like that's the three 440 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 2: of you together, but like, would there be nights where 441 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 2: it would just be was it always like your husband 442 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 2: with one of you? Or was it always all three 443 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 2: of you? 444 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,360 Speaker 4: It wasn't like always all three of us, like sometimes 445 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 4: she would just come over or like or we would 446 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 4: all be together. I mean it was like you know, 447 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 4: whoever was kind of available. I guess, I don't know. 448 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 4: I'm not sure if I'm answering your question. 449 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 2: No, I'm just imagining it. 450 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, like I'm like a pro 451 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 4: at this point, Like, so, yeah, this is just like 452 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 4: my normal life. 453 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 2: So are you the initiator? Would you like, would you 454 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 2: like kind of sit between the two of them and 455 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 2: get them all get it like we have everybody's engine. 456 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 4: Sometimes? Yeah? 457 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, all right, very good, All right, very good, 458 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: very good. I'm glad. I'm glad that you called. And 459 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 2: if you ever want to tell your parents you let 460 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 2: me know. I conferenced them in That's all right, Morgan, thank. 461 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 4: You, all right, take care of it. 462 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 2: You got it. Thank you. 463 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 1: Marley. 464 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 2: Isn't that great? Oh? 465 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 5: Listen, life is short? So I want her to live 466 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 5: her life. She and her husband and her friends choose. 467 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 2: To live in the other friend friend. 468 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 5: It's not affecting me. It was just it wasn't like 469 00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 5: we weren't down with it. We were just trying to 470 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 5: pick up the pieces she had put down. Yeah. 471 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, it ain't me, but I'm not. 472 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 5: I don't. 473 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 2: I don't look down on that. 474 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 5: No, He's right. 475 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 2: Life is short, Okay, Dunnya, Please don't say that like 476 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 2: you're into it. I'm not saying I'm into it. It 477 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 2: doesn't affect me, So why should I hate on it 478 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 2: it affects me? How does it affect you? 479 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 3: No? 480 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 2: Not. How does Morgan's relationship affect you? Oh in a 481 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 2: good way? O good way? 482 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, so someone did wonder Wait let me make it. Yes, 483 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 5: hold on, if you were constantly adjusted. 484 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 2: I wasn't standing isn't that amazing? 485 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:48,119 Speaker 5: Though that one I can't even say a direction you 486 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 5: weren't expecting. It went so many different directions, and none 487 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 5: of us, starting with the coworker who's your best friend, 488 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 5: were expected. 489 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 2: No, but I love it.