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Speaker 1: nine ninety three ninety three. That is eight hundred four

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Speaker 1: oh nine ninety three ninety three. We talked about my

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Speaker 1: wedding a ton and then I'm sure at some point

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Speaker 1: it's going to be shut the hell up. I'm tired

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Speaker 1: of hearing about it, but we still got some time.

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Speaker 1: I am not going to do this. I want to

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Speaker 1: know what you guys think about this, and then maybe

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Speaker 1: if everyone says, hey, this is a good idea, maybe.

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Speaker 2: I do change up my wedding.

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Speaker 1: So there is a woman, there's a couple that sent

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Speaker 1: out quite the interesting note with their invitations. The note

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Speaker 1: in the invitations to these people wedding is asking attendees

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Speaker 1: to pay seventy five dollars per person for their plate.

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Speaker 1: Instead of like, hey, like you know, like give me

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Speaker 1: a good gift?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, will I pay for your food?

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Speaker 1: They want seventy five bucks, which will pay for their plate.

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Speaker 2: So my question.

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Speaker 1: Is is that a little too forward or are you

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Speaker 1: rude for asking for that? Or I mean you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to give a gift at every wedding. That's how much

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Speaker 1: the plate is eight hundred four nine ninety three ninety three.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what do you think about that? Is it

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Speaker 1: a wedding that you'll attend, or do you, you know, politely

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Speaker 1: decline that.

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Speaker 3: I'm yeah, I'm not going.

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Speaker 2: I'm not paying them off plate.

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Speaker 3: I'll buy you a gift, but to pay for off late,

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Speaker 3: I've never been asked. Then I feel like, if anyone

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Speaker 3: where do you ask me, Like if Joe's like, hey, guys'

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Speaker 3: getting married, seem my cash after seventy five dollars plate,

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Speaker 3: I'll eat it, but you're.

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Speaker 1: Not invited though? How much money do you give then

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Speaker 1: for a wedding? What is the proper gift? Because I

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Speaker 1: always thought it was like fifty, And then I'd like,

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Speaker 1: like last year, I started doing one hundred every well

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Speaker 1: in that last year, like a couple years ago, I

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Speaker 1: started doing one hundred.

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Speaker 2: But then I hear from some people it's like two hundred.

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Speaker 4: Oh n.

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Speaker 1: Then I hear from others it's like twenty five. Then

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Speaker 1: I hear from others that it's actually not that great

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Speaker 1: to give cash. You should give gifts. So what is

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Speaker 1: the proper price for a wedding?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say one hundred dollars, just simply because I

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Speaker 3: don't know how much a plate costs. But you said that,

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Speaker 3: lady said seventy five dollars. So in my head, okay,

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Speaker 3: if I give you a hundred, maybe I'll cover my

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Speaker 3: plate and you guys can get something nice.

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Speaker 1: Wedding fights could be anywhere from like fifty to like

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Speaker 1: three hundred dollars. Oh yeah, oh yeah, and like there

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Speaker 1: are probably places where they're even more than that. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: when Alyssa and I were looking around at different venues

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Speaker 1: and stuff, the most expensive one we saw was three

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Speaker 5: So, Joe, they have it in tears. Based on the

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Speaker 5: relationship you have with the person who's attending your wedding,

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Speaker 5: there's coworker and acquaintance that ranges between seventy five one

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Speaker 5: hundred dollars. A friend or a distant relative should be

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Speaker 5: contributing one hundred to one hundred and fifty, and then

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Speaker 5: a close friend or immediate family member should be contributing

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Speaker 5: one hundred and fifty to two hundred and fifty plus dollars. Okay,

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Speaker 5: but it no really can be paid seventy five dollars.

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Speaker 5: Then now I got to factor that out.

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Speaker 1: Hey, if you're paying seventy five, I feel like if

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Speaker 1: you ask for that money, you should already assume that

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Speaker 1: you're not getting a gift, right, you know.

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Speaker 3: You know I was a gift saw of this, But

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Speaker 3: now that I'm thinking about it, if you give me

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Speaker 3: the seventy five dollars for my you know, my wedding

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Speaker 3: for the plate, yes, and I have open bar, you

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Speaker 3: got food and drinks, and then I kind of make

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Speaker 3: my money back for the wedding with hopes that they

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Speaker 3: do give me a gift.

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Speaker 2: Hey, who's this.

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 6: This is Chris.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Chris, let me ask you a question. You get

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Speaker 1: an invitation to a wedding, but in that invitation it

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Speaker 1: also says, hey, we're asking that you pay for your plate.

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Speaker 1: We need seventy five dollars. Do you accept that invitation

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Speaker 1: and go to the wedding or are you politely declining?

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Speaker 6: I think I would go, but personally, if it was

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Speaker 6: me doing the invitation, I would do it more like

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Speaker 6: the way Spirit Airlines does it, where you say, oh,

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Speaker 6: actually we're only going to charge you one dollar for

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Speaker 6: your place, but when you have a big asterisk next

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Speaker 6: to it, and then down there in fine print where

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Speaker 6: nobody can read it. It's like an additional fees may apply.

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Speaker 6: That way, you get the credit card number of all

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Speaker 6: your guests that are going, and you charge them on

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Speaker 6: the back end once the wedding is done.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm just hitting this is crazy and Jed

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Speaker 1: would you please save his name?

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Speaker 2: This is straight Chris, Yeah, it is forever. What have

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Speaker 2: you been up to?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm just saying it out, man. I

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Speaker 6: know I shouldn't. I shouldn't say this, but occasionally I

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Speaker 6: get in my car and I turn on like Spotify instead.

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Speaker 6: I know I shouldn't. I shouldn't say that. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: You're completely okay with them or I'm completely okay with them?

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Speaker 2: Straight Chris. See, that's a good hand.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna invite Chris to my wedding because I know

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Speaker 1: that i'll get some gift.

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Speaker 2: I like that a lot.

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Speaker 6: I don't be looking forward to my invitation here. I'm

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Speaker 6: going to read my actual address on the.

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Speaker 1: Airy Chris, We'll talk to you later. Hey, Vanessa, Hey,

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Speaker 1: how are you? You say you would not go one

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Speaker 1: more time? So this is a wedding invitation. People are

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Speaker 1: going crazy over it. So the wedding invitation is a

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Speaker 1: note attached to it and it says attendees are being

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Speaker 1: asked to pay seventy five dollars per person that will

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Speaker 1: offset the cost of the wedding, but essentially paying for

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Speaker 1: their plate.

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Speaker 4: So I would go, But you're like taking away from

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Speaker 4: like the gifts that you could beginning. It's like you're

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Speaker 4: forcing You're forcing them to give you something. So it's

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Speaker 4: a party at the end of the day, and you're

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Speaker 4: inviting them and you made it. So we're just attending

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Speaker 4: and we're able to bring what we want. It steels

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Speaker 4: like more forceful, like you have to pay us or

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Speaker 4: you have to give us something. You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 2: How about this? All right?

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Speaker 1: Go out, which, by the way, we still need to

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Speaker 1: go out for Jed's birthday. So we go out for

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Speaker 1: ja Yes, we okay, when I get back from Tucson,

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Speaker 1: We're going we go out for Jed's birthday.

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Speaker 2: What happens we take care of Jed's mia.

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Speaker 1: It's his birthday, right, So people are getting yeah, should

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Speaker 1: you be taking care of their wedding?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 2: No, you choose Jed, choose his life.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Joe Joe, if I'm giving you a hundred less,

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Speaker 5: I'm not gonna be a cheap ass. May give you

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Speaker 5: a good wedding gift, but let's say give let's you

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Speaker 5: say I give you one thousand dollars what.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to pay for a freak day?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? What if I was giving you one thousand dollars,

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Speaker 4: Now you're telling me to pay seventy five dollars. I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: I guess what.

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Speaker 2: Twenty five dollars.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going I love that, Vanessa, this is this

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Speaker 1: is this is good. I'm taking notes on all of this.

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Speaker 1: Do not send a bill with the invitations? I suppose

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, it looks like

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Speaker 1: too by the way, reading everything, people are calling it atrocious.

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Speaker 1: That was like the most used word with this so interesting.

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Speaker 1: Seventy five bucks a plate seems like an awful lot.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: That feels like to have a panic, like the biggest

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Speaker 5: scam ever.

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Speaker 2: Probably the reason I don't want to get married is

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Speaker 2: that what it is? No, is that what that is?

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Speaker 5: Until Jesus rises from the dead.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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