WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Texted The Boys During Dinner  

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update on Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we're gonna do second date update right now

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<v Speaker 1>here on Mojo in the morning. Julian's being ghosted. The

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<v Speaker 1>wildest thing is, Julian, you guys spent the night with

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<v Speaker 1>each other?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we did.

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<v Speaker 1>That sucks, you know what? That sucks even more because

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had not only the full date the night before,

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<v Speaker 1>but then also spent the night with each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>did you spend anytime the next day with each other

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<v Speaker 1>or did you just say goodbye? And that's the last

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<v Speaker 1>you heard? Oh, breakfast and then last I heard? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>So why is he getting ghosted? Macy is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us right now. Julians say hi to Macy

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<v Speaker 1>a ghost. Hi Macy, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you good? He sounds like a really nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We were talking to him a little bit off the air,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was really fun. It sounds to me like

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<v Speaker 1>you liked him too enough to the fact that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys stayed the night with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was fine in the beginning, and then

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<v Speaker 2>you know, yes, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Just got weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It was better than fun. So I understand from talking

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<v Speaker 1>to our producers that he should know the reason. Why

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<v Speaker 1>explain that? What do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean it's obvious. I saw a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>text messages on his phone the next morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Who about what and whom.

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<v Speaker 2>It was? His phone was blown up the next morning,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, I asked to see the messages because

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it was crazy, and yeah it was. It

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<v Speaker 2>was his group chat that was blown up his phone

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<v Speaker 2>about about our night. He was telling everybody about our night.

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<v Speaker 1>What's right? What's wrong with that? Though? Yeah, if he

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<v Speaker 1>had a good night.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean you were message messaging them while it

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<v Speaker 2>was happening, Like you just don't tell everybody's business right

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<v Speaker 2>on the spot like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh see, yeah, see I did. I disagree with you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you're in the moment and you're getting

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and you're basically talking about a hookup

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<v Speaker 1>that you're having. I think you feel disrespected Macy because

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<v Speaker 1>he was doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean he told him like everything, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>on my phone during the night texting my girlfriends. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean that's after the.

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<v Speaker 5>Fact, but not now.

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<v Speaker 1>So who were these people that he was texting?

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<v Speaker 6>Were?

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<v Speaker 1>Who were you texting? Julian? It was just the bores.

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<v Speaker 1>So and you're texting them through the time that you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing this, and are you texting them things like did

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<v Speaker 1>you could you see what the messages said? Macy?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What was it? What were the messages and what were

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<v Speaker 1>they saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Just like you know, oh, I'm with this hot chick

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<v Speaker 2>like we're like it was just just gross stuff, Like

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<v Speaker 2>it was really like guy talk and it was just

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<v Speaker 2>really creepy. Honestly, I really got.

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<v Speaker 1>The how did you see them? Again? He showed you.

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<v Speaker 1>You asked to see his messages and he showed them

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. At first he was like, oh, no, it's nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, no, I need to see this

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<v Speaker 2>because this is like this is just very odd. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he willingly showed me the messages.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, it was all good stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>The text Like the what he was saying is sort

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<v Speaker 6>of concerning to me. Like if he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I had a really good time with this girl, like

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<v Speaker 6>I'm excited to get to know her. This is how

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<v Speaker 6>I ended, that would be one thing. But if he's

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<v Speaker 6>like I met this hot chicken I just.

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<v Speaker 7>And we're now we're going to go a hook up, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>I wouldn't be because the texting, how the data is

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<v Speaker 7>going as it's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I feel like I did that a million times.

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<v Speaker 7>My friends were very very invested, you know, like when

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<v Speaker 7>Wes and I started dating, and so if I went

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<v Speaker 7>to the bathroom, they were like, wow, is it going?

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<v Speaker 7>And I would text them an update. I think I

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<v Speaker 7>did that forever.

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<v Speaker 1>I think as a guy, if a girl was doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be like, it would be an honor to have

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<v Speaker 1>that happens. I think as a girl, though, you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>at a guy's place and you're hooking up with her

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<v Speaker 1>and a guy's going man. Just basically it's a play

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<v Speaker 1>by play of the hook up. That's very different to me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the only part I'll like everything else.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like if she was on the other foot,

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<v Speaker 4>like in Shannon's perspective, she was doing the same thing

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<v Speaker 4>and to be okay, once he started going with it,

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<v Speaker 4>I just smashed her.

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<v Speaker 1>This was going on. That's when he gets a little

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<v Speaker 1>too much. Were you doing that, Julian, Were you getting

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<v Speaker 1>a little too graphic with the stuff? I omitted some details?

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<v Speaker 1>You omitted some details. Okay, that's a bad move. What's up, Amanda?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys, good, what did you want to say?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm kind of on his side at the fact, like

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<v Speaker 4>why why is she even trying to see his phone? Though,

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's you know, right away. I would have been

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<v Speaker 4>a little weirded out if someone asked me, can I

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<v Speaker 4>see your phone? I want to see who's texting you

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<v Speaker 4>this much? When we just got to other.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, the phone was blowing up the whole time,

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<v Speaker 2>right next to us, and it was just like this,

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<v Speaker 2>It was just very suspicious, like why is your phone

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<v Speaker 2>blowing up this much? So, yeah, I kind of want

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<v Speaker 2>to see what's happening. You know, you get that girl

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<v Speaker 2>that woman instinct where you're like, something's up, so I

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<v Speaker 2>need to see what's being said. I get that.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe if you were dating a little longer, though, I

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<v Speaker 4>just I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that right away.

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<v Speaker 1>It's interesting though, that he was willing to give you

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, which means he doesn't think he did anything

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<v Speaker 1>wrong or wasn't trying to hide that nothing. D Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>boys are invested, Derek. What's up? Derek?

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<v Speaker 3>He was going on with everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey?

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<v Speaker 5>My thing is like this is the first date?

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<v Speaker 6>Correct?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Like what rights do you have to ask somebody

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<v Speaker 3>you see that takes on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>And for me, well, she should take it as.

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<v Speaker 3>A compliment because it's a lot of times where we're

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<v Speaker 3>talking about you and we you know, we dogging you,

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<v Speaker 3>like I can't wait to get drop this chick off

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<v Speaker 3>or something like that. So he might have just been showing,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean, he just wants to brag you.

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<v Speaker 1>So you think there's a problem, there's a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a privacy issue. You're saying, Yeah, I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not not even that.

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<v Speaker 2>He might have just been bragging you.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever had you know what I mean? He was just

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<v Speaker 3>feeling this silk even in the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he was bragging. And that's what got him in

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<v Speaker 1>trouble was she didn't like the bragging. Can you imagine

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<v Speaker 1>if he was saying bad things, if it was like yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't think she has the right to ask

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<v Speaker 3>to see his ticks on.

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<v Speaker 1>The first date. Yeah, he gave it. He had no problem. Liz.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Second date update? Hi, Liz, I so I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to comment.

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<v Speaker 5>So I kind of got to x from the female from.

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<v Speaker 2>Asking right away on a first date to see his text.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what people are saying, like, yeah, the last caller, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you say?

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<v Speaker 6>The thing?

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<v Speaker 3>But this was kind of like a hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Macy, what do you want to say?

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm glad that I saw it because now

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<v Speaker 2>I can you know, know right away what kind of

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<v Speaker 2>a creep he is, because like he wrote a basically,

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<v Speaker 2>he wrote a graphic.

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<v Speaker 5>Novel on our night.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's not okay, that's it. I mean yeah, everybody's

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<v Speaker 2>thinking like, oh, it's an invasion of his privacy, and

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<v Speaker 2>like me looking at his phone, but like at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day, it's an invasion of my privacy.

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<v Speaker 2>And there are like intimate moment like that's just new

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<v Speaker 2>to me.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up for that?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi? Lee?

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<v Speaker 1>Her first time? Long time Lee's on the phone?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So to me, it just feels like if she

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<v Speaker 2>wants to see his phone immediately like that, that just

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<v Speaker 2>screams insecurity.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. I also I get the idea that

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<v Speaker 1>she seems insecure by asking for the phone, But I

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<v Speaker 1>also get that she feels like, why is he texting

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<v Speaker 1>people throughout the whole date? I think that people are

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<v Speaker 1>talking about me. That would make me insecure. What's that, Nick?

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, Well, obviously I'm a dude, but if I was

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<v Speaker 7>a girl and a guy called me a hot chick,

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<v Speaker 7>I'd be pretty flattered.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that would be nice. That ain't way Okay, it

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<v Speaker 1>was what followed that? Yeah, what's up Amy?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, what's going on? Nobody's in favor of Macie on

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<v Speaker 1>this one?

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<v Speaker 3>Here?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up Amy?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean what he did was yeah, not great, but okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Is she being a little hypocritical and calling.

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<v Speaker 1>The kettle black?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, she hooks up with him on the first

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<v Speaker 5>date and she has the nerve to talk about his integrity.

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<v Speaker 2>What Yeah, that literally has nothing to do with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not, thanks Amy. Wow in Paris, what's up Paris?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, she's nervous about asking the see of pigments, but

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<v Speaker 3>no one's saying what if he was hiding his girl,

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<v Speaker 3>trying to find out where he's at, or his wife

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<v Speaker 3>or somebody who's hiding from bet So that's why she

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<v Speaker 3>was trying to look at. That's a measure that he

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<v Speaker 3>should be It should have been blown up on a

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<v Speaker 3>first date. So, I mean, he's not focusing on her.

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<v Speaker 3>He's focused on either hiding from the text message or what.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, that would be the thing. And I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if that was anything that Macy was thinking about. Is

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<v Speaker 1>you see him on his phone the whole time, you'd

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<v Speaker 1>wonder if he's got a girl and who is he

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<v Speaker 1>texting that. I don't know if that's the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>you actually asked for him right away, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, right, it was just suspicious that he was constantly

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<v Speaker 2>texting and head down in the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Joanne's got a question, and this is actually an

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<v Speaker 1>interesting one, Joanne, what's your question?

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<v Speaker 5>What if he had had this group chat after the fact,

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<v Speaker 5>she never would have seen the messages, So would it

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<v Speaker 5>have made a difference at that point?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Would you? Would you have enjoyed the date enough

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<v Speaker 1>to want to go out with him again? Macy? If

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<v Speaker 1>you never saw the text message but knew that he

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<v Speaker 1>would ye iver.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if I never saw the text messages, that's different

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, I my girlfriends everything. But after the fact,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's fine, But like while I'm there and while

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<v Speaker 2>the date and stuff is happening, No, I guess that's

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<v Speaker 2>just like what's the rude and gross? I guess what,

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<v Speaker 2>Like what they say, ignorance is.

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<v Speaker 1>Bliss, So you know, yeah, all right. Second date update

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