Speaker 1: It's the second date update on Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna do second date update right now
Speaker 1: here on Mojo in the morning. Julian's being ghosted. The
Speaker 1: wildest thing is, Julian, you guys spent the night with
Speaker 1: each other?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did.
Speaker 1: That sucks, you know what? That sucks even more because
Speaker 1: you guys had not only the full date the night before,
Speaker 1: but then also spent the night with each other. And
Speaker 1: did you spend anytime the next day with each other
Speaker 1: or did you just say goodbye? And that's the last
Speaker 1: you heard? Oh, breakfast and then last I heard? Wow?
Speaker 1: So why is he getting ghosted? Macy is on the
Speaker 1: phone with us right now. Julians say hi to Macy
Speaker 1: a ghost. Hi Macy, how you doing?
Speaker 2: I'm okay?
Speaker 1: How are you good? He sounds like a really nice guy.
Speaker 1: We were talking to him a little bit off the air,
Speaker 1: and he was really fun. It sounds to me like
Speaker 1: you liked him too enough to the fact that you
Speaker 1: guys stayed the night with each other.
Speaker 2: I mean, it was fine in the beginning, and then
Speaker 2: you know, yes, it.
Speaker 3: Just got weird.
Speaker 1: It was better than fun. So I understand from talking
Speaker 1: to our producers that he should know the reason. Why
Speaker 1: explain that? What do you mean by that?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's obvious. I saw a bunch of
Speaker 2: text messages on his phone the next morning.
Speaker 1: Who about what and whom.
Speaker 2: It was? His phone was blown up the next morning,
Speaker 2: and you know, I asked to see the messages because
Speaker 2: I mean it was crazy, and yeah it was. It
Speaker 2: was his group chat that was blown up his phone
Speaker 2: about about our night. He was telling everybody about our night.
Speaker 1: What's right? What's wrong with that? Though? Yeah, if he
Speaker 1: had a good night.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean you were message messaging them while it
Speaker 2: was happening, Like you just don't tell everybody's business right
Speaker 2: on the spot like that.
Speaker 1: Oh see, yeah, see I did. I disagree with you, guys.
Speaker 1: I think that you're in the moment and you're getting
Speaker 1: on the phone and you're basically talking about a hookup
Speaker 1: that you're having. I think you feel disrespected Macy because
Speaker 1: he was doing that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he told him like everything, I'm not
Speaker 2: on my phone during the night texting my girlfriends. I
Speaker 2: mean that's after the.
Speaker 5: Fact, but not now.
Speaker 1: So who were these people that he was texting?
Speaker 6: Were?
Speaker 1: Who were you texting? Julian? It was just the bores.
Speaker 1: So and you're texting them through the time that you're
Speaker 1: doing this, and are you texting them things like did
Speaker 1: you could you see what the messages said? Macy?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What was it? What were the messages and what were
Speaker 1: they saying.
Speaker 2: Just like you know, oh, I'm with this hot chick
Speaker 2: like we're like it was just just gross stuff, Like
Speaker 2: it was really like guy talk and it was just
Speaker 2: really creepy. Honestly, I really got.
Speaker 1: The how did you see them? Again? He showed you.
Speaker 1: You asked to see his messages and he showed them
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 2: Yeah. At first he was like, oh, no, it's nothing,
Speaker 2: and I was like, no, I need to see this
Speaker 2: because this is like this is just very odd. And yeah,
Speaker 2: he willingly showed me the messages.
Speaker 1: To me, it was all good stuff.
Speaker 6: The text Like the what he was saying is sort
Speaker 6: of concerning to me. Like if he was like, oh,
Speaker 6: I had a really good time with this girl, like
Speaker 6: I'm excited to get to know her. This is how
Speaker 6: I ended, that would be one thing. But if he's
Speaker 6: like I met this hot chicken I just.
Speaker 7: And we're now we're going to go a hook up, Yeah,
Speaker 7: I wouldn't be because the texting, how the data is
Speaker 7: going as it's happening.
Speaker 1: Like, I feel like I did that a million times.
Speaker 7: My friends were very very invested, you know, like when
Speaker 7: Wes and I started dating, and so if I went
Speaker 7: to the bathroom, they were like, wow, is it going?
Speaker 7: And I would text them an update. I think I
Speaker 7: did that forever.
Speaker 1: I think as a guy, if a girl was doing that,
Speaker 1: you'd be like, it would be an honor to have
Speaker 1: that happens. I think as a girl, though, you're you're
Speaker 1: at a guy's place and you're hooking up with her
Speaker 1: and a guy's going man. Just basically it's a play
Speaker 1: by play of the hook up. That's very different to me.
Speaker 1: That's the only part I'll like everything else.
Speaker 4: I feel like if she was on the other foot,
Speaker 4: like in Shannon's perspective, she was doing the same thing
Speaker 4: and to be okay, once he started going with it,
Speaker 4: I just smashed her.
Speaker 1: This was going on. That's when he gets a little
Speaker 1: too much. Were you doing that, Julian, Were you getting
Speaker 1: a little too graphic with the stuff? I omitted some details?
Speaker 1: You omitted some details. Okay, that's a bad move. What's up, Amanda?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 1: How are you guys, good, what did you want to say?
Speaker 4: I'm kind of on his side at the fact, like
Speaker 4: why why is she even trying to see his phone? Though,
Speaker 4: Like it's you know, right away. I would have been
Speaker 4: a little weirded out if someone asked me, can I
Speaker 4: see your phone? I want to see who's texting you
Speaker 4: this much? When we just got to other.
Speaker 2: I mean, the phone was blowing up the whole time,
Speaker 2: right next to us, and it was just like this,
Speaker 2: It was just very suspicious, like why is your phone
Speaker 2: blowing up this much? So, yeah, I kind of want
Speaker 2: to see what's happening. You know, you get that girl
Speaker 2: that woman instinct where you're like, something's up, so I
Speaker 2: need to see what's being said. I get that.
Speaker 4: Maybe if you were dating a little longer, though, I
Speaker 4: just I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that right away.
Speaker 1: It's interesting though, that he was willing to give you
Speaker 1: the phone, which means he doesn't think he did anything
Speaker 1: wrong or wasn't trying to hide that nothing. D Yeah,
Speaker 1: boys are invested, Derek. What's up? Derek?
Speaker 3: He was going on with everybody.
Speaker 1: Nothing, what's happening?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 5: My thing is like this is the first date?
Speaker 6: Correct?
Speaker 3: Yes, Like what rights do you have to ask somebody
Speaker 3: you see that takes on the first date.
Speaker 1: And for me, well, she should take it as.
Speaker 3: A compliment because it's a lot of times where we're
Speaker 3: talking about you and we you know, we dogging you,
Speaker 3: like I can't wait to get drop this chick off
Speaker 3: or something like that. So he might have just been showing,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, he just wants to brag you.
Speaker 1: So you think there's a problem, there's a little bit
Speaker 1: of a privacy issue. You're saying, Yeah, I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: not not even that.
Speaker 2: He might have just been bragging you.
Speaker 3: Ever had you know what I mean? He was just
Speaker 3: feeling this silk even in the moment.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was bragging. And that's what got him in
Speaker 1: trouble was she didn't like the bragging. Can you imagine
Speaker 1: if he was saying bad things, if it was like yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3: But I don't think she has the right to ask
Speaker 3: to see his ticks on.
Speaker 1: The first date. Yeah, he gave it. He had no problem. Liz.
Speaker 1: What's up? Second date update? Hi, Liz, I so I
Speaker 1: just wanted to comment.
Speaker 5: So I kind of got to x from the female from.
Speaker 2: Asking right away on a first date to see his text.
Speaker 1: That's what people are saying, like, yeah, the last caller, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: what did you say?
Speaker 6: The thing?
Speaker 3: But this was kind of like a hook up.
Speaker 1: Hey, Macy, what do you want to say?
Speaker 2: I said, I'm glad that I saw it because now
Speaker 2: I can you know, know right away what kind of
Speaker 2: a creep he is, because like he wrote a basically,
Speaker 2: he wrote a graphic.
Speaker 5: Novel on our night.
Speaker 2: Like that's not okay, that's it. I mean yeah, everybody's
Speaker 2: thinking like, oh, it's an invasion of his privacy, and
Speaker 2: like me looking at his phone, but like at the
Speaker 2: end of the day, it's an invasion of my privacy.
Speaker 2: And there are like intimate moment like that's just new
Speaker 2: to me.
Speaker 1: What's up for that?
Speaker 2: Hi? Lee?
Speaker 1: Her first time? Long time Lee's on the phone?
Speaker 2: Yeah, So to me, it just feels like if she
Speaker 2: wants to see his phone immediately like that, that just
Speaker 2: screams insecurity.
Speaker 1: I get it. I also I get the idea that
Speaker 1: she seems insecure by asking for the phone, But I
Speaker 1: also get that she feels like, why is he texting
Speaker 1: people throughout the whole date? I think that people are
Speaker 1: talking about me. That would make me insecure. What's that, Nick?
Speaker 7: Hey, Well, obviously I'm a dude, but if I was
Speaker 7: a girl and a guy called me a hot chick,
Speaker 7: I'd be pretty flattered.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be nice. That ain't way Okay, it
Speaker 1: was what followed that? Yeah, what's up Amy?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 1: Hi, what's going on? Nobody's in favor of Macie on
Speaker 1: this one?
Speaker 3: Here?
Speaker 1: What's up Amy?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 5: I mean what he did was yeah, not great, but okay.
Speaker 5: Is she being a little hypocritical and calling.
Speaker 1: The kettle black?
Speaker 5: I mean, she hooks up with him on the first
Speaker 5: date and she has the nerve to talk about his integrity.
Speaker 2: What Yeah, that literally has nothing to do with that.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, thanks Amy. Wow in Paris, what's up Paris?
Speaker 3: Hey, she's nervous about asking the see of pigments, but
Speaker 3: no one's saying what if he was hiding his girl,
Speaker 3: trying to find out where he's at, or his wife
Speaker 3: or somebody who's hiding from bet So that's why she
Speaker 3: was trying to look at. That's a measure that he
Speaker 3: should be It should have been blown up on a
Speaker 3: first date. So, I mean, he's not focusing on her.
Speaker 3: He's focused on either hiding from the text message or what.
Speaker 1: Honestly, that would be the thing. And I don't know
Speaker 1: if that was anything that Macy was thinking about. Is
Speaker 1: you see him on his phone the whole time, you'd
Speaker 1: wonder if he's got a girl and who is he
Speaker 1: texting that. I don't know if that's the reason why
Speaker 1: you actually asked for him right away, but.
Speaker 2: Well, right, it was just suspicious that he was constantly
Speaker 2: texting and head down in the phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Joanne's got a question, and this is actually an
Speaker 1: interesting one, Joanne, what's your question?
Speaker 5: What if he had had this group chat after the fact,
Speaker 5: she never would have seen the messages, So would it
Speaker 5: have made a difference at that point?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Would you? Would you have enjoyed the date enough
Speaker 1: to want to go out with him again? Macy? If
Speaker 1: you never saw the text message but knew that he
Speaker 1: would ye iver.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if I never saw the text messages, that's different
Speaker 2: because you know, I my girlfriends everything. But after the fact,
Speaker 2: so that's fine, But like while I'm there and while
Speaker 2: the date and stuff is happening, No, I guess that's
Speaker 2: just like what's the rude and gross? I guess what,
Speaker 2: Like what they say, ignorance is.
Speaker 1: Bliss, So you know, yeah, all right. Second date update
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