1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: So just yesterday I was mentioning, how you know, oh, 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: Sky in the Boo married twenty five years, are they 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 1: just now finally starting to get annoyed with each other? 4 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: Trouble in carotis Well, listen, you know how it goes. 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: There's obviously been stuffed throughout the years that probably would 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: get on each other's nerves, but it does seem to 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: be happening a lot more lately. 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 2: When you've been married over twenty five years, your relationship 9 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: goes through seasons. 10 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: All right, what season are we in? Crazy season? 11 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 3: Crappy season? Okay, this is the season of crap. 12 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so there's ebbs and flows, ups and downs. 13 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 4: I get it. 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: And right now there is one person in the relationship 15 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: that is changing. So I won't put that on anybody. 16 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you know, horrmones are a strong thing. 17 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: And you know, I feel like you're a little less 18 00:00:55,400 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: patient with some of the little idosyncresies that are going 19 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: on and Eddie. 20 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: Some like my friend Emily may say that maybe I've 21 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: been too patient this whole time. I agree, and this 22 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 2: is the way it should be. 23 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: But I feel like it also goes both ways. That 24 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: you have a lot of quirks and things that are 25 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: doing maybe are bothering him. 26 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, you just have my back. 27 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: I mean you've I also have to sit in here 28 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: with you for four hours every day and recognize what's up. 29 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:34,199 Speaker 2: So I don't know how to take that. Doesn't sound 30 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 2: very complimentary. That's a friend. 31 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: I think it was intended to be a compliment. No, 32 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: I don't think it was intended to be a compliment. No, disagree, 33 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: Just pointing out facts that you are a little bit 34 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: of a wack of doodle and so uh, the two 35 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: of you together are starting to drive each other a 36 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: little bit crazy, which is double doodle, which is you know, 37 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: I think we see if you go and look at 38 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: like your grand parents and stuff like that, they can 39 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: barely stand each other, you know, but they've been together 40 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: for so long and they just accept it, and you know, 41 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: they they accept their wacky stuff that they do, and 42 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 1: it is what it is. The Boo and Sky got 43 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: married so young that they are approaching this you know, 44 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: space in their life that these things are starting to 45 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: get on their nerves a little bit. 46 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 3: We're grumpy old people who don't care for each other anymore. 47 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: Well, you guys spend every waking moment together too too much? 48 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 4: Okay, I mean you need space since makes the heart 49 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 4: grow fun them. 50 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,399 Speaker 2: Them, So it's a time right now. 51 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 1: Sky was mentioning yesterday that the Boo has started doing 52 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: this new thing where his sniper comments when you and 53 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,119 Speaker 1: your daughter are having like serious conversations, so like walk 54 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: through the room and say something trying to be positive, 55 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: but it's annoying and it's not a topic and all 56 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: this stuff. Well he has decided to fire back, yeah, 57 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: and has decided to say, well, you know what you 58 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: do that I don't like and he is letting it 59 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: be known that there is something that you are doing 60 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: that he doesn't care for. 61 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 62 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 2: Uh. He had a bit of a talk with me 63 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: the other day that I'm like, are you being serious 64 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 2: right now? Like really, like this is this is. 65 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: Oh, that's how you're putting well, this is what we're. 66 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 3: Gonna stop down. 67 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 2: This is out of all the things going on in 68 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 2: the world right now, this is what you're taking issue with. 69 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 3: Uh. 70 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 2: So, just a fun fact about my husband. He's a 71 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: very judgy TV watcher. In my husband's world, you don't 72 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 2: watch TV in the day unless it's breaking news or. 73 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: Sports, doesn't He go on YouTube constantly. 74 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 2: He doesn't consider that TV TV. It's the same thing 75 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 2: that is educational materials. 76 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: How people are watch TV now. 77 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's not watching like shows, he's learning things. 78 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,119 Speaker 1: What is the difference? 79 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 2: Again, a very judgy person about what you're consuming, very 80 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: odd cousin his mind. If you're watching a YouTube video 81 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 2: where you're learning how to rebuild a car, that's not entertainment. 82 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: But if you're watching, you know, a soap opera, you're. 83 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: The He was watching the YouTube video to look how 84 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: to rebuild a car and then went out and immediately 85 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,839 Speaker 1: rebuilt a car. Okay, yeah, he may have a point. 86 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: He doesn't do that though. 87 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 2: Well, what he does is he watches financial videos now 88 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 2: all day and then he tinkers with stocks and and 89 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 2: the such. 90 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: Soakers with stocks. 91 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 4: I feel like he's put this on himself because he 92 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 4: hasn't worked. 93 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 3: In twenty years or however long, and so this is 94 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 3: like a rule he's put for himself so that he 95 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: doesn't sit around. 96 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: Watching mindless TV all day. 97 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 3: But the fact that he puts it on you is 98 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 3: like on another level. 99 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, you would think because you work all morning, so 100 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 4: if you were to watch mindless soap opera for two 101 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:43,679 Speaker 4: hours in the middle of the day. 102 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 1: You should do that. 103 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you would think that what you're saying totally 104 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 2: makes sense. But he's always been like this, even when 105 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 2: he worked and had a job when we first got together. Like, 106 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 2: if the TV is on in the middle of the 107 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 2: day to watch TV, no, no, say what I want 108 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 2: say news, sports, and you're sick, that's the other time 109 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 2: you can watch. There's three you watch you in the day, 110 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 2: so whatever. So he's judging about that, And he's also 111 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: judging about what you watch, Like if your favorite network 112 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 2: is Bravo. 113 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 3: He's judging you. 114 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: Sorry, Emily, Yeah, if you're a real housewa or like 115 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 2: Love I Live, Marry You, Blind or whatever. 116 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 3: That show it's amazing. 117 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: Okay, Like again, Judge, So but he could watch the 118 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: gold Rush or whatever the heck the thing is you watch. 119 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because again he feels that's educational, educational about history, 120 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 2: about the prices, about how these different machines. Very, it's crazy, 121 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: very Judge. 122 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 3: And then just I mean, I'm not saying it makes sense. 123 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 4: It's like not only stupid people watch that stuff, like 124 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 4: like they I remember reading. 125 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 3: That Michelle Obaba is like a Bravo person. 126 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: She loves just sitting down list. 127 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 3: Right, people watch that stuff, oh of course. 128 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 2: And I you know, I don't think he thinks you're 129 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: not a smart person. It's just like a waste of 130 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 2: your brain space, you know what, I mean, to watch 131 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 2: that stuff. 132 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 3: So whatever, So that's the backstory on the boot. 133 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 2: Well, there is one show that I watch that I 134 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 2: know is like kind of trash TV. It's probably the 135 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 2: trashiest of the shows I watch, but I love it 136 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 2: and I can't stop. And it's selling Sunset on Netflix. 137 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 2: It's this real estate show. All the real estate agents 138 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: are supermodels that dress like hookers. They all like get 139 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 2: in verbal arguments with everybody, think they're better than everybody. 140 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 2: I mean, the typical stuff. Right. So I love this 141 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 2: show and I get all excited when a new season 142 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 2: comes out and all that. Well, and I try my 143 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 2: best not to watch it in the day, just because 144 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 2: I know he's already judging the fact that I watch it. 145 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 2: If I add the daytime on it, I'm like double judge. 146 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 3: So out of nowhere. 147 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: The other day, he goes, yeah, because a new season 148 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 2: came out and I've started watching it, and he goes, yeah, 149 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 2: I don't like who you are when you watch that. 150 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 2: Excuse that is quite a strong statement, and he says, 151 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: you're very sassy when you watch. 152 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: I can see that. I can see that. 153 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: He claims, I like walk different, like like I almost 154 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 2: like walk like I'm wearing imaginary stiletto heels like what 155 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 2: I'm like. 156 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 4: When the girls walk into a property the way they 157 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 4: do a model struck when they walk in. 158 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: He claims, I like get a little of that going. 159 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: He also claims that I'm no longer satisfied with our 160 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 2: own home that I then nitpick why we didn't put 161 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: a waterfall edge on our kitchen island and why did 162 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 2: we go with chrome fixtures. 163 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 3: Like so he doesn't like that. 164 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 2: And then he also thinks it's weird that I occasionally 165 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 2: drive by the Oppenheim office in La Joya, and that's 166 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: the name of the real estate group they opened a 167 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 2: La Joya office. He thinks it's weird that sometimes I 168 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 2: drive by and I've taken pictures of the outside of 169 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 2: the building. Are the people there, uh, the La Joya 170 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 2: people are occasionally some of the OC people come by. 171 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 2: I've driven by the Oh yeah, they got a motorcycle 172 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 2: right in the showroom as like a decoration piece right. 173 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: In the window. 174 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, do that, And then he said the final straw 175 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: was when I was looking at outfits in my closet 176 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: and because I was going to try and go to 177 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 2: an open house that they were having down the street 178 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 2: and Oppenheim open House, and I felt I needed to 179 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 2: dress up. And he's like, you don't get out of 180 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 2: your pajamas for everything. He's like, this show changes you. 181 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 2: It makes you too sassy. He claims, I like wave 182 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: my finger more. 183 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:43,719 Speaker 1: You're doing it right now. 184 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 2: Well, okay, because I'm talking about it, but he claims 185 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 2: I use a lot more hand gestures and like wick 186 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 2: my hair more when I'm watching Selling Sunset and he 187 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: doesn't like it. 188 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 1: Emily, you watch the show as well? Do you get 189 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: extra sassy afterwards? 190 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 4: I personally don't. I think I live sort of sassy 191 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 4: my life. I don't hold back. I feel like you're 192 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 4: very loud once in a while. 193 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 3: You don't mind me say, but I think this is 194 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,319 Speaker 3: actually the best thing for you. 195 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: Oh you like sassy Sky, It'll it'll make you. 196 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: You know, maybe get out of your pajamas. 197 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 3: Maybe not where the slippers that you're wearing to work today. 198 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 3: I'm actual slippers. 199 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 4: These are new, by the way, you've never seen and 200 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 4: then have you, you know, clap back here? I just 201 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 4: saw you look at I want to think it's a pullover. 202 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 4: Have you clapped back your husband? Stand up for yourself? 203 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: More? Go No, I'm going to watch this right now. 204 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 3: I think it's good. 205 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: Wait, hold on, I think it's good for you. Maybe 206 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: just because you act a certain way with your relationship 207 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: and Sky doesn't doesn't mean that that's one way is 208 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: better than the other. 209 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 4: Right, I disagree on better than the other, especially with 210 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 4: this this enough is enough Scott. 211 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: No, I don't think anybody wants sassy Scott. Don't know, 212 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: but it's do you do you so you disagree that 213 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: you act a certain way? Or do you see what 214 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: he's saying? 215 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 2: No, Like I get when you watch a show and 216 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,839 Speaker 2: you kind of really get into it, Like if it's 217 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 2: a horror show, I'll be like scared. I'll have extra 218 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: lights on in the house, you know, Like I get that. Okay, 219 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: maybe I'm picking up a tinge, but I'm not a 220 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 2: different person. I'm not gonna go on the Bravo network 221 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 2: Like I think he's overreacting and yeah, like just let 222 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 2: me do it. 223 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: But if you do, if you try to dress up 224 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: to go to an open house of a house that 225 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: you have zero interest in buying, that is that is 226 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 1: odd behavior. 227 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:41,079 Speaker 3: It is fun. At least she's not were of those slippers? 228 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: Thank god? Yeah, they're pretty bad, right well, I guess y. No, 229 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: not a fan.