1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: What's up? Good morning everyone up? Hold on there you, 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: Good morning, Joseph hah, good morning Ashley, Jed and myself, 3 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: Joe show and maybe someone new on the show very soon. 4 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: I'm not allowed to talk about that yet, am't I 5 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I don't know either. Wait, 6 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: like a rule of I don't know. We'll have more 7 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: meetings about that coming up. Leave that in the podcast 8 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: for everyone. Could you do that? Jet? I will. 9 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: So. 10 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: I'm curious eight hundred and four oh nine ninety three 11 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: ninety three. I am curious if anyone else is like 12 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: one of my friends who won't come on the show 13 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: right now. 14 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: But. 15 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: He's gone through a breakup and he said that his 16 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 1: dad told him, I knew your relationship wasn't gonna aast 17 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: because she was ugly, uglier than you. Oh god, that's 18 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: not nice. Uglier than you. Well, so what he said 19 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: was and I don't I don't know if this is 20 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: true or not, but I want to know what you 21 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: guys think. He said that you should always try to 22 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: date more attractive than you. What are your thoughts. 23 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 3: I feel like we all try to date attractive people. 24 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 3: I don't know, like do some people really think that 25 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 3: they're ugly. 26 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: I think I'm ugly, Ashley used to me, I did 27 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: not know that he disagrees and said he tries to 28 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: date women uglier than him. 29 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 3: Ah okay, okay, exactly. 30 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, and this is I am not saying this at all. 31 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: I do believe that Alyssa my fiance. I believe that 32 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: she is more attractive than me, and I think that 33 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:27,559 Speaker 1: she does take care of me. But this unnamed person, genuinely, 34 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: in his heart of hearts, believes only ugly people take 35 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: care of their significant others. Who I heard this, I 36 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: didn't even laugh because I'm just kind of like, whoa. 37 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: But then I started to think more and more about it, 38 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: and I don't know. I don't know now I disagreed 39 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: at first. Now I don't know. I don't know what. 40 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: I don't know what I think. And that's why I 41 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: wanted to come in here and kick off the show 42 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: with this, because I was told this, and it's really 43 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: only been on my mind since I was told this. 44 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: I mean literally, Alyssa and I debated it all night. 45 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: Would she say she doesn't know either? That's why I 46 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: wanted to kick off the show because it is kind 47 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: of it's kind of interesting. 48 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 3: So does he think he so he thinks he's ugly 49 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 3: an I want to say, uhly, unattractive, not the most attractive. 50 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: Or he can't attract women that are higher level than him. No, 51 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: he thinks that he can. Okay, he just he goes purposely, 52 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: goes for not so uh atractive. It's going to be 53 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: the hot one in the relationship. Is that what it 54 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: is like? He wants to Yes, he believes that if 55 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: he is more and and I thought about it, and 56 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: I do think that Alyssa is more attractive than me. 57 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: And I thought, hmm, when we first started dating, there 58 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: was a part of me that's like, wow, she can 59 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: get someone a lot more ATTRACTI than me. I got 60 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: to make sure I'm on like I'm on top of it. 61 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: She gets someone better get someone probably definitely with more money. 62 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: She can gets someone that might have a six pack, 63 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: tan skined, a few inches taller, better hairline. I got it. 64 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: I gotta make sure I keep her happy. You do. 65 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: That's why you're funny, Joe? Why is that the truth? 66 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: Think about it, Joe. 67 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 4: My dad always said growing up, he said, never make 68 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 4: a pretty woman your if you will actually know it 69 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 4: goes like this, If you want to be happy for 70 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 4: the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman 71 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 4: your wife. From my personal point of view, have an 72 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: ugly girl, marry you. And then he would pause for 73 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 4: like five seconds, and then he would go and I 74 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 4: am miserable. 75 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 3: Okay, that's funny, though I left the little dingle he man, 76 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 3: Hey o, my man. 77 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 2: You know I have to butt in on this one. 78 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 2: You know, I'm not going wuld man. I kind of 79 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 2: agree with whoever that is. No, you know what, you know, 80 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 2: it's it's kind of true though, like a man, I 81 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: dated a person that was considered hot. I don't know. 82 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess laois hot. I don't know. I've 83 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: dated some butters. You know what butters is like, Yeah, 84 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 2: I've dated you know, I've dated some butters. And honestly, 85 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 2: the butter was where it was at, like man treated 86 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 2: me like I was a king. The only thing I 87 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 2: hated was the low self esteem that came with It 88 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 2: was like, you're too hot for me, You're too hot 89 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 2: for me, and I'm like, no, I love your personality, 90 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: like you're you're freaking amazing, and but you know, the 91 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 2: butter faces and you know the ones I had a 92 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 2: bigger girl at one point and treated me like a 93 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: king man. And people say the same thing too, and 94 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 2: I would I would hate when it's like you're too 95 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 2: hot for me. I'm like, enjoy at the moment. Let 96 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 2: me be your all chances. 97 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 3: For a little while. 98 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: Did I mean. 99 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: Did you see long term with any of them? Or 100 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: was it purely uh, this is a short time but 101 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: a good time? 102 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 2: No? No, no, you know something it was long term? Well, 103 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 2: one of them, like the hour difference is like she 104 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: wanted to have a kid immediately, and I was like, 105 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: I'm not going into the bakery shooting this place up 106 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: within set of having kids. 107 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: You know, is one of them happen to be your 108 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: ex baby mama? 109 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 2: No, man, my ex baby mama. My ex baby mama 110 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: looked like a mini Kim called Dash, isn't it. 111 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: I'm just speaking, sure, I'm just listening. Figure it out 112 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: when I shoot. 113 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 2: The club uppers, because I know that you know, the 114 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 2: babies are gonna be fire man. 115 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: Yes, I so this is this is good That Jules 116 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: says that it's interesting that that the jet and I'm 117 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: not saying it's good as in like I completely agree, 118 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,799 Speaker 1: it's more so just all right, there's another person. Yes, 119 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: but what do you You've been awfully? Do you know 120 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: what happened? I said that I want to know more. 121 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: I want to know more from you as you hear this. 122 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: As a woman, we need a woman representation right now. 123 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 3: I know, but there are I mean, I think when 124 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 3: it comes to looks, women and men think the same, 125 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 3: Like there are women who probably feel us like who 126 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 3: Jed feels when he's like, oh, I don't think that 127 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 3: I'm that attractive. Some women, like Jules even said, they 128 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: know that they're not attractive and they will go all 129 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 3: out for you. That's why a lot of men prefer 130 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 3: to date women less attractive. I wouldn't say a lot 131 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 3: of men, but some men who don't feel attracted as like, 132 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 3: you know, I'm just gonna go for a woman who's 133 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: not attractive and she's gonna take care of me, because 134 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: like Juels says, I'm gonna piggyback off him. Some women 135 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 3: who don't look attractive and they get a man that's 136 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 3: more attractive than them, or a woman that's rather larger 137 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 3: than the guy, she's gonna take care of you. I've 138 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 3: seen it, and. 139 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: I don't know why, right after you can make a 140 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: point right after. I want some attractive You want someone 141 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: more attractive. 142 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 3: I want someone equally more attractive because I think I'm 143 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 3: one of the most attractive people ever, Like I've that 144 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 3: very high self a Steve, so you gotta be bad. 145 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: What do you think, Jewles? 146 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 2: So this is I have another point to make. It 147 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 2: just seemed like, you know, my experiences with the ones 148 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 2: that are supposedly hot, because some people could be beautiful 149 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 2: on the outside and writing on the they think that 150 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: they're poop. Their poop don't stink. They think they're the greatest. 151 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 2: But I have one that was like that. And but 152 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 2: you know what it was like, It was like a 153 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 2: constant you know, because of the day and age we're 154 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 2: in with the social media, it was a constant battle 155 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 2: of a million people trying to message the hot girl, 156 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 2: as opposed to when I had Butterface. Butterface ain't had 157 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 2: nobody even trying to hit her off, just me. 158 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: You know. 159 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 2: She was like she made me feel like I was 160 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 2: the only boy in the world. 161 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 5: By the way, Jules was the one that told a man, 162 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 5: I'll talk to you later. Here's what the research said. Here, 163 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 5: here's what the research says Joe people. Yeah, I did 164 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 5: some research on ugly people in dating. Okay, you want 165 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 5: to hear it. So this is according to chat GPT. 166 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 5: It says people considered less conventionally attractive report more stable 167 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 5: relationships that they said it's probably because it's uglier, or 168 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 5: perceive relation relationship security, and physical attractiveness doesn't predict long 169 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 5: term happiness. 170 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, I went to school with a 171 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 3: girl who is probably the least attractive in our entire class, 172 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 3: and the girl is in a thrupple, and I was 173 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 3: just like, yo, how do you have a boyfriend and 174 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 3: a girlfriend and look at me? 175 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: Look at that. Yeah, you'll find lifetime happiness with both sexes. 176 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 3: At the same time, it looks saying everything, baby, it's 177 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 3: all about personality. 178 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: Well, hey, you heard it here. First two uglies, what attractive? 179 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: That's the Joe Show.