WEBVTT - David got a second chance!!

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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update is back from the weekend. We've got

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<v Speaker 1>our guy David on the phone. David, good morning, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, everybody kind of knows how second date

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<v Speaker 1>update works. You went on a date. The lady's name

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<v Speaker 1>is Claire, and she ghosted, So we like to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what happened. Specifically, I want to get you a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. But let's for square one, like how did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys meet and then and then what did you

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<v Speaker 1>do for your date?

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<v Speaker 2>So Claire and I met online and we did ramen

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<v Speaker 2>and cocktails at a place in San Mateo. And she

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<v Speaker 2>was amazing, smart, funny, total catch.

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<v Speaker 3>We talked about everything our dogs or jobs and the

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<v Speaker 3>best places and travel solo. We had really good energy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>and yeah, unfortunately she ghosted.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, as I know you've replayed the date in your

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<v Speaker 1>head eighty seven times, you can't think of anything that

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<v Speaker 1>might have gone wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, sir, Okay, don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see if we can figure it out. Like I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>have you muted so you can listen, But we'll give

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<v Speaker 1>Claire a call. Okay, okay, crossing fingers for a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on the line. We'll do it after this it's

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update, Star one oh one three, brought to

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<v Speaker 1>you by Pomponio Ranch meets be phrased right on the

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<v Speaker 1>coast side, bold flavor. It's the Bay's beef jerky.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this Claire?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she hy Claire. It's Marcus from Star one

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<v Speaker 1>on one three? How are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Why not?

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<v Speaker 1>What? There's that? There's always that momentary lull while I

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<v Speaker 1>try to figure out if you like my show or not.

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<v Speaker 5>I love your show.

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<v Speaker 1>You're amazing. Do you listen to Second? You listen to

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<v Speaker 1>second aiight Update? By chance?

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<v Speaker 5>I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, have you been dating? Have you ghosted anybody recently?

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<v Speaker 1>I have so many questions?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you're calling me, so you are, don't the answer

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<v Speaker 5>to that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? So David is on the line, and we would

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<v Speaker 1>like to know what happened, because David, are you there?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here, I mean spoiler alert, Claire. He really likes you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to back my guy up here. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote it down. He said you had real energy?

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<v Speaker 1>So is that is that in his head? Or is

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<v Speaker 1>that for real?

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<v Speaker 5>Did he really say real energy? That sounds like something

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<v Speaker 5>a girl would.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, like that's like Barbie movie lingo. Okay, you know what,

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<v Speaker 5>I did have real energy, but there were just like

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<v Speaker 5>a few things and David, you're not an idiot, Like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sure you're You're going to know what I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>to say. Maybe not, I don't know, but well you

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<v Speaker 5>are because I pointed one thing out. First of all,

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<v Speaker 5>he came in wearing his earbuds, his bluetooth earpiece on

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<v Speaker 5>the state okay, and it was blinking blue the whole

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<v Speaker 5>darn time. And I did say something to him about it,

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<v Speaker 5>and he was like, oh, I'm sorry, I just need

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<v Speaker 5>to keep it in in case work calls. They always

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<v Speaker 5>call me after hours. I just have to be on

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<v Speaker 5>standby or whatever. But it literally kept blinking like.

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<v Speaker 1>You could take a second.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, literally, And then at one point I was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 5>did I just have a stroke, Like what's happening? Like

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<v Speaker 5>he started talking about himself in the first person.

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<v Speaker 1>Give me an example.

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<v Speaker 5>We went for ramen, So at one point we were

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<v Speaker 5>eating ramen and he just starts saying, David loves a

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<v Speaker 5>good bra and I'm like, does he can he take

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<v Speaker 5>out the bluetoothing relations that's the thing really Okay? So

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<v Speaker 5>I was like super weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, and I just felt like I was.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe hung up on those couple of things. Okay, he

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<v Speaker 5>just seemed kind of strange, even though I thought it too,

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<v Speaker 5>He was kind of strange.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a good looking guy though, Oh he's good looking,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm trying to see if you're dashing. Good looks

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<v Speaker 1>will help you play through, David. But let's let's talk.

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<v Speaker 5>About this like my type for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's unfold this a little bit. David, you do

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<v Speaker 1>realize you don't want to be you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be wearing anything that might divert your attention from the lady.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I honestly forgot that it was even on,

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<v Speaker 4>and I can see how that would be annoying with

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<v Speaker 4>the flashing.

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<v Speaker 1>What about literally referring to yourself in the third person

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<v Speaker 1>in actual conversation. That seems very strange to me.

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<v Speaker 4>I was being funny. She didn't get my sense of humor.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, Okay, what what is happening? So okay, let

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<v Speaker 1>me back it all the way up, because I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>the word energy and chemistry and Claire, what if now

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<v Speaker 1>that we have some self awareness, we can give my

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<v Speaker 1>guy a second shot? David? Can you be less? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know Claire, where are you at?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the chemistry was there, so when these things started happening,

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<v Speaker 5>it was like, oh man, you're loworky David, but you're cute.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, well, thanks.

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<v Speaker 5>Can you leave the earpiece at home on our next

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<v Speaker 5>day and not negotiate the bill, just like, maybe, don't

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<v Speaker 5>even look at it, just put your card down.

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<v Speaker 4>I will have zero flashing lights on my person.

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<v Speaker 2>Perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all anybody wants to hear. So Claire, Yes on

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<v Speaker 1>the second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes on the second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes you guys. We haven't rang the cowbell in so

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<v Speaker 1>long it hurts my heart. The cowbell of destiny has

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<v Speaker 1>been wrung. We have a second date. Thank you David,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you Claire,