Speaker 1: Second date Update is back from the weekend. We've got
Speaker 1: our guy David on the phone. David, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 1: At this point, everybody kind of knows how second date
Speaker 1: update works. You went on a date. The lady's name
Speaker 1: is Claire, and she ghosted, So we like to figure
Speaker 1: out what happened. Specifically, I want to get you a
Speaker 1: second date. But let's for square one, like how did
Speaker 1: you guys meet and then and then what did you
Speaker 1: do for your date?
Speaker 2: So Claire and I met online and we did ramen
Speaker 2: and cocktails at a place in San Mateo. And she
Speaker 2: was amazing, smart, funny, total catch.
Speaker 3: We talked about everything our dogs or jobs and the
Speaker 3: best places and travel solo. We had really good energy. Okay,
Speaker 3: and yeah, unfortunately she ghosted.
Speaker 1: Okay, as I know you've replayed the date in your
Speaker 1: head eighty seven times, you can't think of anything that
Speaker 1: might have gone wrong.
Speaker 4: No, no, sir, Okay, don't know.
Speaker 1: Let's see if we can figure it out. Like I said, well,
Speaker 1: have you muted so you can listen, But we'll give
Speaker 1: Claire a call. Okay, okay, crossing fingers for a second date,
Speaker 1: hang on the line. We'll do it after this it's
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Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 1: Is this Claire?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 1: This is she hy Claire. It's Marcus from Star one
Speaker 1: on one three? How are you?
Speaker 5: Why not?
Speaker 1: What? There's that? There's always that momentary lull while I
Speaker 1: try to figure out if you like my show or not.
Speaker 5: I love your show.
Speaker 1: You're amazing. Do you listen to Second? You listen to
Speaker 1: second aiight Update? By chance?
Speaker 5: I do?
Speaker 1: Okay, have you been dating? Have you ghosted anybody recently?
Speaker 1: I have so many questions?
Speaker 5: Well, you're calling me, so you are, don't the answer
Speaker 5: to that?
Speaker 1: Yes? So David is on the line, and we would
Speaker 1: like to know what happened, because David, are you there?
Speaker 1: I'm here, I mean spoiler alert, Claire. He really likes you.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to back my guy up here. He said,
Speaker 1: I wrote it down. He said you had real energy?
Speaker 1: So is that is that in his head? Or is
Speaker 1: that for real?
Speaker 5: Did he really say real energy? That sounds like something
Speaker 5: a girl would.
Speaker 2: Cool.
Speaker 5: Oh, like that's like Barbie movie lingo. Okay, you know what,
Speaker 5: I did have real energy, but there were just like
Speaker 5: a few things and David, you're not an idiot, Like
Speaker 5: I'm sure you're You're going to know what I'm going
Speaker 5: to say. Maybe not, I don't know, but well you
Speaker 5: are because I pointed one thing out. First of all,
Speaker 5: he came in wearing his earbuds, his bluetooth earpiece on
Speaker 5: the state okay, and it was blinking blue the whole
Speaker 5: darn time. And I did say something to him about it,
Speaker 5: and he was like, oh, I'm sorry, I just need
Speaker 5: to keep it in in case work calls. They always
Speaker 5: call me after hours. I just have to be on
Speaker 5: standby or whatever. But it literally kept blinking like.
Speaker 1: You could take a second.
Speaker 5: Yeah, literally, And then at one point I was like, wait,
Speaker 5: did I just have a stroke, Like what's happening? Like
Speaker 5: he started talking about himself in the first person.
Speaker 1: Give me an example.
Speaker 5: We went for ramen, So at one point we were
Speaker 5: eating ramen and he just starts saying, David loves a
Speaker 5: good bra and I'm like, does he can he take
Speaker 5: out the bluetoothing relations that's the thing really Okay? So
Speaker 5: I was like super weird.
Speaker 2: Sure, and I just felt like I was.
Speaker 5: Maybe hung up on those couple of things. Okay, he
Speaker 5: just seemed kind of strange, even though I thought it too,
Speaker 5: He was kind of strange.
Speaker 1: Is a good looking guy though, Oh he's good looking,
Speaker 1: So I'm trying to see if you're dashing. Good looks
Speaker 1: will help you play through, David. But let's let's talk.
Speaker 5: About this like my type for sure.
Speaker 1: Well, let's unfold this a little bit. David, you do
Speaker 1: realize you don't want to be you don't want to
Speaker 1: be wearing anything that might divert your attention from the lady.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I honestly forgot that it was even on,
Speaker 4: and I can see how that would be annoying with
Speaker 4: the flashing.
Speaker 1: What about literally referring to yourself in the third person
Speaker 1: in actual conversation. That seems very strange to me.
Speaker 4: I was being funny. She didn't get my sense of humor.
Speaker 1: I guess, Okay, what what is happening? So okay, let
Speaker 1: me back it all the way up, because I've heard
Speaker 1: the word energy and chemistry and Claire, what if now
Speaker 1: that we have some self awareness, we can give my
Speaker 1: guy a second shot? David? Can you be less? I
Speaker 1: don't even know Claire, where are you at?
Speaker 5: Well, the chemistry was there, so when these things started happening,
Speaker 5: it was like, oh man, you're loworky David, but you're cute.
Speaker 4: I mean, well, thanks.
Speaker 5: Can you leave the earpiece at home on our next
Speaker 5: day and not negotiate the bill, just like, maybe, don't
Speaker 5: even look at it, just put your card down.
Speaker 4: I will have zero flashing lights on my person.
Speaker 2: Perfect.
Speaker 1: That's all anybody wants to hear. So Claire, Yes on
Speaker 1: the second date.
Speaker 5: Yes on the second date.
Speaker 1: Yes you guys. We haven't rang the cowbell in so
Speaker 1: long it hurts my heart. The cowbell of destiny has
Speaker 1: been wrung. We have a second date. Thank you David,
Speaker 1: Thank you Claire,