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Speaker 1: Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's

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Speaker 1: Star one on one three, it is Marcus. It is Thursday,

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Speaker 1: good morning, it is time for second date update. Y'all

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Speaker 1: already know how it works. We've done it for almost

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Speaker 1: a decade. But so you've been on a first date,

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Speaker 1: you've been ghosted. We call your date because you've probably

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Speaker 1: called them a few times, and then we try to

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Speaker 1: ask them how the date went, Why did they ghost?

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Speaker 1: Did they ghost at all? Was it a misunderstanding? Jared

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Speaker 1: is holding hoping for a misunderstanding. I'm sure, Jared? Are

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Speaker 1: you there? Yeah, Hey, I want to talk about Cassie.

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Speaker 1: So let's talk about A how did you meet? And

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Speaker 1: then B what did you do on your date? Because

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Speaker 1: I understand she's ghosted and let's try to figure this out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So we met online and that was, you know, great.

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Speaker 2: We just started off texting and then eventually we met

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Speaker 2: and I felt like things were going good. And then

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Speaker 2: you know, we had this like rooftop kind of drinks

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Speaker 2: date thing that was going on. And I think the

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Speaker 2: looftop drinks were easy. I mean, we talked about traveling,

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Speaker 2: we laughed, we talked about bad dating profiles, like, like

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Speaker 2: I could give you a few examples. Oh god, please

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Speaker 2: veno me for good vibes, and so she had some too,

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, there was one that she mentioned.

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Speaker 2: She it was, if you can't handle me at my

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Speaker 2: gym selfies, you don't deserve me at brunch.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Now, let me ask you she was as engaging

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Speaker 1: in person as she was like on text or online,

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Speaker 1: because I know, sometimes, like you meet somebody in person,

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, it just kind of falls flat,

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Speaker 1: like you feel like you've been texting with AI or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and this wasn't the case. Like we were

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Speaker 2: just having fun, laughing about the profiles, having great drinks,

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Speaker 2: and I thought that was great, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and she has ghosted sense yeah yeah, just hear

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Speaker 1: it out. Well, like I said, we're gonna call her,

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Speaker 1: so we'll have you mute your phone and then we'll

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Speaker 1: try to figure it out. Okay, okay, all right, we'll

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Speaker 1: do it. Next. Second Date Update Star one oh one

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Speaker 1: three variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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Speaker 1: it's Star one oh one three. It's Marcus. We're in

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Speaker 1: the middle of Second Date Update. I've got Jared on

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Speaker 1: the phone and I feel like there has been a

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Speaker 1: just a glut of rooftop first dates only because the

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Speaker 1: weather's been so nice. Jared, it doesn't even feel like

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Speaker 1: October right now. I mean Halloween is what like a

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Speaker 1: week away. It was eighty degrees on Monday, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was on that. I like that.

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Speaker 1: He's in position ready to go. So you guys had

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Speaker 1: drinks and everything went cool. She's ghosted. Let's call her

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Speaker 1: and figure some things out. Go ahead and go back

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Speaker 1: on mute. Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Cassie.

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Speaker 2: That's me.

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Speaker 1: My name is Marcus. I do a Hi So I

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Speaker 1: do a morning radio show here in the Bay, and

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Speaker 1: I know who you are. I O hey, it's Star

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Speaker 1: one on one three. I'm wondering if you have a

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Speaker 1: second to chat on the air. Okay, so we're doing

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Speaker 1: second date up date right now? No, yes, a minute.

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Speaker 3: I know who you're talking about too. So a baller

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Speaker 3: move on his part for Colin.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's good or bad.

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Speaker 3: Jared, right, it is. I know it because he loves

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Speaker 3: your show, jaredy either.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, so let's let's seat it out.

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Speaker 1: Let's adult for a second. I mean Jessey, you know

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Speaker 1: how it works. Yeah, Jared liked you. He liked you.

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Speaker 1: He did so I know I did too.

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Speaker 3: But stuff was weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what happened? Did you ghost?

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Speaker 3: I did? I mean, I flat out okay, Sorry, I

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Speaker 3: just can't like you. Literal pet peeves were happening, and

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Speaker 3: I just.

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Speaker 1: Can't What did he do?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: You corrected the bartender not once, but twice about the

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Speaker 3: pronunciation of negroni, And honestly, I think she had a

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Speaker 3: think she was pronouncing it correctly, but like it just

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Speaker 3: I don't know. That's like a big pet.

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Speaker 2: Peeve of mine.

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Speaker 1: Well, sidebar, how are you supposed to pronounce ngroni nigroni?

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Speaker 2: It's nicgronie. She said, nigronie. Like that's awful, it's disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: It's the same thing, literally, ronie, not nigronie.

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Speaker 2: Negronie. No. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, see, okay, but now now you're hearing it. Also,

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Speaker 3: you have a date cards, man, you had date cards,

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Speaker 3: like date cards, things written down of like just like

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Speaker 3: notes to himself.

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Speaker 2: Well, nobody just goes out and doesn't know what they're doing.

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Speaker 2: I mean, everybody's got to do some sort of study

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Speaker 2: and before they go out to the real test, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you had notes about me e since we

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Speaker 3: talked about online. That was just so weird.

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Speaker 2: I mean it made me feel like a compliment. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I put an extra effort to know you.

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Speaker 3: No, it just felt like a job application. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 3: I just felt like you were interviewing me to be

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Speaker 3: your future girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Isn't that what we were doing? Yeah, but that's kind

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Speaker 2: of that's what it is.

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Speaker 3: And it shouldn't feel like a job. No, but it

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Speaker 3: shouldn't feel like a job interview. I mean, honestly, some

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Speaker 3: of the questions that you were asking just felt so

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Speaker 3: like you read a book about dating. Where do you

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Speaker 3: see yourself in five years?

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Speaker 1: Like no, come on, okay, so that's like a hard note,

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Speaker 1: Like no second date? No, no, all right, hang on, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's not happening. It's Second Date update seven oh five

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Speaker 1: On the way, don't forget. We've got more tickets for

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Speaker 1: the Disneyland resort. I'm just gonna keep reminding you, so

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