WEBVTT - 9am Hour - You Don't Have To Marry Him 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:03.960 Jenny's been on Reddit. 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:08.960 Bailey and I are in the era of dating right now, 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:11.520 and I saw this that there's a pandemic in dating 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:14.360 right now and I would like to discuss ooh. So 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:17.880 basically it says that dating isn't broken and just one 0:00:17.880 --> 0:00:19.120 city or within a community. 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:21.680 It's like more of a bigger cultural thing. 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:25.680 So it starts off with talking about the half interest era. 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:28.240 It says we're living in a pandemic of half interest. 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:31.160 Everyone is kind of talking, sort of seeing each other, 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:34.599 keeping it casual, yet everyone is still craving deep connection 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:38.639 in a world full of almost pretending to be intimate. 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:41.520 And then there's also the unhealed people and the avoidance. 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:43.800 Everyone wants emotional safety, but if you don't how to 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.680 offer it back. And then you add in the ghosting, 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:49.440 the orbiting. I guess orbiting is kind of like where 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:51.680 you circle around people but you don't actually fully commit. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.560 The bread coming and all of that stuff. And then 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:57.600 the over stimulation and replacement culture, which I think is 0:00:57.640 --> 0:01:00.240 probably the worst right now when it comes to dat 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:02.560 because there's just so much access. There's so many options. 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:05.520 You can hop on a dating app, and if you're 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:08.360 not like super interested, in someone, but you're still seeing them. 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.240 You can still go on a dating app and then 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.520 find someone else and then start dating them too, while 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:14.280 the other person might not know that you're doing that. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:16.880 So you know, like when. 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:19.800 Things get hard, they're like, oh, let's replace, distract, swipe again, 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:23.919 is what it said. Yeah, so I'm curious, Bailey, because 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:27.200 I mean, I know you're now seeing regular guy, regular guy, 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:28.039 more regular. 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:30.479 Sure do you feel like this fits? 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:33.720 Would you say that there is an issue with dating 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:36.199 and that it's a quote unquote pandemic right now? 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:37.560 Yeah? I would. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:39.960 I mean, this was like my year of dating, So 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:43.959 I dated seven different guys this year, which sounds like 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:47.440 so many but also not a lot, just going on 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:49.520 either first dates or multiple dates or whatever. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:51.840 And I don't know. 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:53.920 I feel like the my point of view of it 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:55.760 is I would go on a date with one guy, 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:57.960 he would not be perfect, and I would just be like, well, 0:01:58.360 --> 0:02:01.360 I guess this is why I'm going to get because 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:04.360 you would just think that the perfect one's not out there, 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:06.160 so I guess this is what I'm going to get. 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:08.120 And then when that one didn't work out, I would 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:11.200 compartmentalize and I'd be like, Okay, he no longer exists. 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:13.960 Now I will date this man and he's not perfect, 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:17.040 but I guess that's all the men now, none of 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:19.520 them are perfect whatever, So I kind of like have 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:21.880 a I guess, a very ere. 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:23.200 Viewpoint of it. 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:27.079 Yeah, but I definitely the whole like half half committed. 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:30.040 But also that's for me too, Like I'm also half committed, 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:32.240 because like, who's to say you're the right one if 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:34.480 I've dated a billion people in my life and none 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:37.120 of those people have been the right one either, you know, right. 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:39.880 And so obviously I started dating again this year and 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:42.000 did not think that that would ever be a part 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:45.160 of my life again after being in a very long relationship. Yeah, 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:47.840 and I did have to relearn the fact that, like, 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:50.799 you don't fall for someone right away. 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:52.560 Usually you have to give. 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:55.360 Someone a chance and you have to build a relationship 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:57.400 because I would say that when you're first going out 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:59.960 on dates, you don't show your true self necessarily. You're 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.919 a little timid, You're not like as jokey, maybe you 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:05.040 put on more of a perfect face than who you 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:05.600 actually are. 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:07.800 You're not as silly of a goose. Maybe maybe you 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:08.840 are Bailey, but I'm not. 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:11.440 I like probably don't feel as comfortable to be that person, 0:03:11.840 --> 0:03:13.600 So I feel like you have to give it more time. 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:15.800 And I also remind myself that the last person I 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:17.400 did date for a long time, I did not like 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:19.880 him at all for months, Like when we ever first 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:20.960 started dating, I didn't. 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:22.200 Like him at all. I was like, I'm not interested 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:22.799 in this person. 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:25.200 So I feel like, if you're out there dating right now, 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:28.480 give people a chance more so and stop just like 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.720 hopping on a dating app and swiping right away just 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:32.000 because your date was kind of me. 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:34.040 Maybe give them a little bit more of a chance. 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:37.880 Unless they're obnoxious and disgusting and you're not interested, you know, right. 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:41.520 Off the bad don't agree on some pretty big thing, Yeah, 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.280 get rid of them. But if it was kind of 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:46.000 just like eh, let it build at least a little 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:48.480 bit before you start going after someone new. 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:49.280 That's my opinion. 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:51.400 Per since I was a high school kid, my grandma 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:54.000 would always give the same advice, you don't have to 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:56.920 marry him, and I think that goes either way. You 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:58.560 don't have to marry him, you don't have to marry her. 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:01.400 You don't have to marry whomever. If you go on 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:03.600 one date with them, you don't have to marry them 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:04.760 right period. 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.480 Just why don't you go test it out see if 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:07.920 you like it. 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.600 If you don't, you fine, If you do, you still 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:13.000 don't have to marry him, you don't. 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:15.040 I feel like if Dave was in the dating era 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.360 right now, you would be swiping the left and right. 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:20.719 He'd be like, I don't know which one means swipe. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:23.600 There's grinder. I think you'd like. Yeah, you probably really 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:24.120 like grinder. 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:25.520 I mean, plenty of boys on my own. 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:26.760 Yeah, where do you go? 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:27.440 Bus station? 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.640 The bus station because they're transient, they're in and out 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:31.360 of town, they're on their way to Cleveland. They don't 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.360 want a long term relationship. They just want a hommy 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:34.400 and by the dumpster. 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:39.039 You can't dumpster. 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:44.880 No, we're not going to have a long relationship. It's 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:45.479 a hommy by the. 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.760 Dump David that it feels like a lot of work 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:49.560 for them to just like get up and leave that, Like, 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:50.960 I'm sorry, go put. 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:53.000 Your nose in the corner, Dave, and they'll think about what. 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:56.440 You banned from this conversation. Once again, trying to help out, 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:58.159 try to be I. 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:00.320 Did have a I want to hear though, because Bailey, 0:05:00.360 --> 0:05:02.040 if you're willing to share. You did have another date 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:03.039 with regular guy last night? 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:03.280 I did. 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:04.919 I did have another date with regular guy last night. 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:07.279 We went to go see Jesus Christ Superstar at the 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:10.320 ord Way, which was his first professional production that he's 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.159 ever seen, and it was very woo woo. 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:14.200 It was very contemporary, but. 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:14.599 It was good. 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:16.680 I liked it. I think he liked it. We'll see. 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:19.039 But then we also went to the Saint Paul Grill 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:23.480 beforehand for cocktails, beer and calamari. And I will say 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:26.280 something I do like about regular guy is he's always 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:29.520 paying for everything unless I force it. So if we 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:31.320 go to like get beer at a brewery or something, 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:32.800 and he just paid for a bunch of food, I'll 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.520 be like elbow so I can pay for his one beer. 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:36.960 Touch tongues last night. 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:38.920 No, we didn't touch tongues las night. We were out, 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.200 like out, we were out. 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:41.160 Did he pick you up? 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:41.560 No? 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:45.720 Because we were like in public. We're in a parking garage. 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:48.080 Don't make out while you're sitting there at the ord Way. 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:52.040 It's like him off, no drive together. 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:55.400 No, because he lives he lives very east and I 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:58.880 live very west. So we met at Okay at the 0:05:58.960 --> 0:05:59.960 ordway that makes sense. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:01.359 Okay, we'll be back in a minute. 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:05.080 From kd WB the Day Ryan in the morning Show, 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:08.240 We're gonna do a Christmas wish coming up in a second, 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.920 So hang on for Christmas wish. We love doing these. 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:14.760 We got more Christmas wishes every day, all for almost 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.560 another two weeks. Not quite another two weeks, but almost so. 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:21.760 More Christmas wishes, including one next on kd W. 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:26.760 Believe in the Magic of the Holidays, Dave Royan Christmas wish. 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:28.840 Before we get started and introduced our wisher. I get 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:32.080 a check in with our boy Brandon from College muscle Movers. 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:34.800 He what did you bench yesterday? You were down at 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.880 Snap Fitness and didn't you bench like two eighty yesterday? 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:42.240 Brandon? Is that what it was? Okay? Thought? 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.040 So yeah, I'm making up numbers. I don't even know 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:45.400 if that's good. Is that a good number to bench? 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:45.720 Jenny? 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:46.000 Yes? 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:46.160 It is? 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:49.440 Ye Is it? Okay? People? 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:52.559 I was bragging to Jenny the other day at Snap 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:54.719 I was doing seventy pound lawnmowers. You know what a 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:55.839 lawnmower is, Brandon? 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:57.120 Don't? 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:59.000 Okay, that's where you never mind. We'll talk about this 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:01.840 l now the dance move. Okay, So Brandon is from 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:05.360 College muscle Movers. Brandon, what city are you in this morning? 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:07.159 I'm no deal today? 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:11.040 Where what is your scope? Where does college muscle Movers 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.600 go to? Can you move anywhere in Minnesota or what's 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:14.040 your limit? 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:15.120 Yeah? 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:17.560 We can even go to our neighbors in Wisconsin and 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:21.200 Iowa and the Dakotas even Oh wow. 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:22.400 You hit the hole Midwest. 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:25.160 Then very good. Thank you Brandon for doing what you do. 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:27.240 He's delivering the wish and also is our backup in 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:30.120 case our wish e does not answer the phone. Let's 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:34.080 meet our wisher this morning. Hi Tara, Hi, you've been 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:36.760 listening to KWB for a long. 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:37.680 Time, A long time. 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:39.679 Did you used to call in and request songs? 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:39.840 Oh? 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:40.120 Yeah? 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:41.360 What did your request? You remember? 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:45.080 Uh? I think sound Garden or something? 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:48.000 Wow, choice and you sit on your bedroom floor with 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:50.480 your cassette recorder and the DJ would talk over the song. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:54.480 Yeah great, the words done that too, I did that too. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:58.240 Tara is doing a Christmas wish for Kobe. How do 0:07:58.280 --> 0:07:59.160 you know Kobe? 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:04.880 So, Kobe's my brother in law. He is the boyfriend 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:06.040 on my sister that passed away. 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:07.160 Okay, gotchah. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:11.200 We're gonna call Kobe and talk about your Christmas wish 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:15.200 and what we can do for Kobe and four kids, 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:18.000 four little kids like seven and under. 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:22.680 Fifteen, another eleven, two and two. 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.440 All right, we're gonna call Kobe right now. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:28.160 Jenny's making the phone call and we will pick up 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:29.240 and put Kobe. 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:29.400 On the air. 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:33.120 He does not know exactly what's going on, but he's 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:35.600 waiting for a phone call from somebody who's making a delivery. 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:45.360 Yes, literally, yeah, he literally is Hello, I'm calling for Kobe. Please. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.600 Hey, Kobe, It's Dave Ryan on the radio over at 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:53.600 kd WB. Can I talk to you about something good 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:54.120 for a minute? 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:55.480 Sure? 0:08:55.679 --> 0:09:01.079 Okay, good Kobe. I'm here with your in law Tara. 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:06.040 Tara say hi to Kobe. Hey Kobe, Kobe, would you 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:08.600 have any idea why we're calling you this morning? 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:10.400 No? 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:11.520 Not really? 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:13.959 Okay, Well, Katie Able to Be does something that we're 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:16.480 really proud of every year called Christmas Wish, where we 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:18.280 ask people to tell us about a family that has 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:22.120 struggled and has faced some really challenging circumstances. And we 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:26.000 heard from Tara about your situation. And Tara wrote in 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:30.400 a letter to tell us about your situation. And I 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.520 know you've got kids in the background, You've got stuff 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:35.360 going on, but if you can, can you do you 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.760 have a few minutes to listen to Tara read this letter? 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:40.960 Kobe? Sure, okay, whenever you're ready. 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:42.280 Tarah, all right, let's see if I can make it 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:46.880 through without crion. I understand that, all right. So, my sister. 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:49.040 Tiffany and I would like to nominate our brother in law, 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:53.560 Kobe and his four beautiful children for this Christmas wish. 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:56.520 Kobe is the boyfriend of our youngest sister, Tina, who 0:09:56.559 --> 0:10:00.160 passed away five months ago. Our sister Tina was such 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:02.800 an amazing mom to her four kids. She was so 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:05.160 selfless for her family and she gave all of herself. 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:09.600 Tina struggled for many years with unresolved childhood trauma, untreated 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:11.200 mental health, and substance abuse. 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.480 She always put everyone else first to a fault. 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:16.360 It was almost as if she didn't know how to 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:19.240 take care of herself. Tiffy and I prayed for her 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:21.280 for many years that she would get the healing that 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:23.679 she needed. Since we knew that recovery and healing was 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:27.800 possible since we both received it Unfortunately, she never got. 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:29.960 The help that she needed and continued to. 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:33.160 Drink until we found out that she had early stages 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:36.319 of liver disease, still even knowing that her addiction was 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:41.760 so strong that she could not quit. She was hospitalized 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:44.079 over the summer in July, and over just a span 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.080 of a week, she had been placed on life support. 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.000 We had to decide to take her off of it 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:51.800 so she could pass away peacefully. It was one of 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:53.800 the hardest things that we've ever done in our life. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:58.680 After this, Kobe became a single dad of four children, 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:02.360 ages two, seven, eleven, and fifteen. He tackled getting them 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:04.920 into school just a month and a half after she died, 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.040 getting school clothes, and figuring out how to manage it all. 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.680 I cannot imagine how challenging it has been for him 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:15.040 to navigate this new way of life. He has worked 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:18.280 so hard to carry his family emotionally, mentally, and financially, 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:20.840 and there is only so much one person can do. 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:23.840 Through all of this, Kobe has been the pillar of 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:27.640 his four children and has pushed through such a hard time. Kobe, 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:29.000 I want you to know that we see you, and 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:30.800 we love you, and we are here for you. We 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:32.920 think of you as our own brother. I hope that 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:36.560 this Christmas the Adams family will experience a brighter holiday 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:39.680 season since this is the first Christmas without their mother 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.800 and girlfriend. And lastly, I just want to say that 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:46.400 if you're struggling with substance use out there, there is 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.559 hope for recovery and to reach out to EOSIS Recovery. 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:51.600 And we'll get more information about that in a second. 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:57.360 I'm so sorry about Tina. There's just an unimaginable loss 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:01.040 and that the addiction was so powerful that she knew 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:03.920 that it was killing her basically and she just could 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:06.960 not stop. Yeah, that had to have been a very 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:08.479 hard thing to see somebody. 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:11.080 You love go through that, Kobe, Yes, it was. 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:16.600 And now life without Tina, who of course you miss, 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:21.000 and four kids? How's that going, Kobe? 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:25.440 It's the day by day thing. 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:27.160 Might just take one day at a town. 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:33.840 M Yeah, struggle, but you know how much your family 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:35.320 loves you and how much support you have. 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:38.920 I hope, yes, I'll do, and I appreciate that. 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:40.760 How are the kids doing, Kobe? 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.480 You're good, You're doing the right You're doing good. 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:46.400 Yeah, and they miss mom? 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:49.679 I'm sure, yes, Yeah, I. 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:53.640 Can't imagine four kids with two parents is challenging. Four 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:57.800 kids with just Kobe really challenging. It sounds like you 0:12:57.880 --> 0:12:59.960 got this though. What's going on now? Are we making breakfast? 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:00.840 What are we doing right now? 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:01.760 Kobe? 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.400 I'm getting kids ready for school, getting ready for work. 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:07.360 Okay, Well, we have some good news for you. With 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:09.760 Katie wdb's Christmas Wish, we try to make Christmas a 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:13.240 little bit brighter, a little bit easier, give you some 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.800 things that you might know that you want and some 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:17.400 of the things that you didn't know that you needed. 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:20.520 So we're going to start off with some things for 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:23.120 you to make you and the family, the Adams family, 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.360 I love that, to make it a little bit easier. 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:28.040 We're going to start off with this is very simple. 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:30.400 Gas. Everybody needs gas. 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:34.839 Every Christmas Wish from Holiday Station Stores gets one hundred 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:38.000 and one dollars Holiday gas card. Every fuel purchased now 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:41.600 through December seventeenth, Holiday Station Stores donating a portion to 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:44.240 Christmas Wish, so make sure fuel up you do it 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:48.240 at holiday. There's some other cool stuff. You got a 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:50.679 big family there to feed. We got one hundred dollars 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:54.000 Broadway Pizza gift card. Thanks to Sarah everybody over Broadway Pizza. 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:57.240 There's more, There's so much more. Two hundred dollars gift 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:02.760 card does Saint Paul Tapp Paul Tap. Wow, that sounds awesome. 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:05.400 It's over on Jefferson and Saint Paul, Saint Paul Tap 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:08.560 dot com. Oil changes from Valveeline. I know these are 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:10.520 little things, but let's get to some of the more 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.800 fun stuff. I mean, they're all fun, don't get me wrong. 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:15.720 Two hundred dollars gift card to Dick Sporting Goods, shopping 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:17.440 or whatever you want to get down there for you 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:21.800 and the kids, new parent Nikes. Three hundred dollars Cub 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.480 Foods gift card. Do you think that'll come in handy Toobe? 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:28.840 Definitely? What's your specialty there at the house? Is it 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:33.680 mac and cheese? You? What's your specialty? My daughter does 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:36.760 the mac and cheese, chicken sportshops. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.600 Okay, well, you can load up the cart with Cub Foods. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:42.880 We've got a two hundred dollars visa gift card for 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:45.840 you and the family that's donated by Plugs Electric and 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:49.360 Forrest Lake. They called the other day and they donated 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.200 a stack of visa gift cards, so safe home. Start 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:57.840 at plugs with a z plugselectric dot com. Kalina is 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.000 your fifteen year old. How's Coleena doing? 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.080 And she's so good. 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:06.880 She's the one that's most effective because she spent the 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:07.720 most time with the mirth. 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:10.960 But she strong, so she's she's a big help right 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:11.400 now too. 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:15.920 I'm sure we've got some things for Kalina. We've somehow 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:18.480 heard she wanted a Vivitar digital camera, so we got 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:21.960 her a digital camera. We got a white vanity with 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:23.880 chair that is shipping to you. We got a heated 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:27.080 blanket because in Minnesota, that's just a good thing to happen. 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:30.840 Ulter many black ugs boots they're ordered in shipped to you. 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:34.080 Tell me about Kingston. What is Kingston into? He's eleven. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:40.000 Kingston is into video games, Roadblocks Fortnight. 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:43.680 Well, you know you can take that two hundred dollars 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:45.760 visa gift card and get him in any events and stuff. 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:47.760 But if you've also got some ug slippers. 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:51.280 We've got a Jordan beanie hat and Nike gloves, some 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:55.080 other cool stuff Jordan sweatsuits. Cayenne is your seven year 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:57.000 old and she's still into little kids. 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:59.160 Stuff right, Yes, she is. Yeah. 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.440 Well, we got a Gabby's dollhouse, Gabby's Dollhouse, light up 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.800 cat ears, and a Squish mellow because kids love that, 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:09.040 some Nike stuff and Jordan's banching hat and gloves, just 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:11.080 so all the kids get something. Now, I'm gonna guess 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:13.720 Cairo two years old, they're probably into bluey am I right. 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:17.800 Josh, Yes, she loves bluey. Yeah. Two year olds love blue. 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:22.720 So we got her bluey everything, blue toys, blue pajamas, sweats, jeans, 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:26.320 we had here, a dinosaur hoodie, fleece line flannel, blue sneakers, 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:29.520 another Sarah sneakers, so when she loses one or whatever, 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:32.320 she got another one, a blue Squish mellow, and then 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:34.760 some other stuff. We got tickets for you guys to 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:37.360 go see the timber Wolves take on the Clippers in Sunday. 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.840 It's in February, to give us some time to plan 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:44.240 for that. And then Treasure Island heard that you could 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:45.280 use some new furniture. 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:46.560 Is that true? 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:52.320 Yes, So they said, can we give the family a 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:56.360 Treasure Island bonus? We said, yeah, So we've got a 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:59.600 check this out, Kobe. It's a two thousand dollars gift 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:00.800 card to Slumberland. 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:03.320 Oh my gosh, so you can. 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:06.560 Pick out what department of the furniture store you go 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:11.080 into first at Slumberland, I mean couches. 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:14.160 Yeah. 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:17.119 Hey, you know what, Kobe. I know that we can't 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:20.919 you know, we can't fix things. But I hope that 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.000 you feel the love from your family and the people 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.520 who listen to k w B and work at KBB 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:28.840 and all these wonderful people in the community Treasure Island Holiday, 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:31.960 just to feel the support. And I wish we could 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.399 do more. But hopefully this makes a Christmas for you 0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:37.000 and the four kids a little bit better. 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:38.480 And definitely does. 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:39.760 I appreciate it so much. 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:43.600 Kobe, you take care. There's a guy outside your house 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:46.399 named Brandon. He's got a van full of stuff to 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:49.800 bring in for the kids. And what I would do 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:51.760 is I would sip hot chocolate and watch him work. 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:53.320 But you know you can. You can do whatever you 0:17:53.359 --> 0:17:53.679 want to. 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:58.439 But Kobe, Mary, the merriest of Christmas is possible to 0:17:58.480 --> 0:17:59.840