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Speaker 2: It was called the Sky I know people. Yeah, it

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Speaker 2: was like the word of the year. Nobody said that

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Speaker 3: I just keep my eyes peels, I'm looking out, I'm helping.

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Speaker 2: Does that mean that's what I do?

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Speaker 1: Your perfect job would be running.

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Speaker 2: In h o A.

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Speaker 4: Oh, amazing, amazing, amazing.

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Speaker 3: Oh if I could just walk around and criticize other

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Speaker 2: Hell, yeah, I remember having people like this guy. People

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Speaker 2: hate ho a people. If you're okay with that.

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Speaker 4: I'm living my best life in the neighborhood looking great.

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Speaker 2: Sky is the person you remember yesterday we talked about

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Speaker 2: the people to ticket meter that was giving, that was

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Speaker 2: Sky would get joy out of that. She gets joy

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Speaker 2: out of You get joy at a market, attire some fun, but.

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Speaker 3: No, I need real estate stuff. Oh h o A

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Speaker 3: all day that.

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Speaker 2: That's more up. You're out. That's me.

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Speaker 1: So Sky's Karen, But we know that she kind of

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Speaker 1: wants to be the cool mom and hang out with

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Speaker 1: her daughter and the crew and you know, give them

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Speaker 2: She wants. She wants like to be the nark and

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Speaker 2: you know, drink a martini. I don't want my daughter

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Speaker 2: to drink Yeah, boba martina. That's not a thing. Let's

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Speaker 2: go a fiesta island, have a blast bonfire.

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Speaker 3: Yes the island, that is That is true. I let

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Speaker 3: my daughter and her friends hang out just themselves. I

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Speaker 2: Okay, can you.

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Speaker 1: Not are doing each other's hair and that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not doing I don't do anyone hunger. I make

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's my husband, and no, that doesn't happen.

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Speaker 1: So this guy's having a real issue here of you know,

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Speaker 1: she can do a full I'm one of her daughter's friends. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Well, and it's not really one of my daughter's friends.

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Speaker 3: It's somebody who used to be in my daughter's social circle.

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Speaker 3: You know how they all evolve and have different friends.

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Speaker 3: But the point is is I know these people and

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Speaker 3: my neighborhood sometimes like to get daughter no women my age,

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of wine. There's just a lot of wine.

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Speaker 3: Well, like somebody will bring up the name of a book,

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Speaker 3: but it doesn't go farther than that, so it's really

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Speaker 3: an excuse to drink wine. So I'm hanging out with

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Speaker 3: don't know very well because she's a boy mom, and

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Speaker 3: like you, when your kids are younger, you normally get.

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Speaker 2: To know the people of the same gender because they're on.

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Speaker 3: boy moms. But there was a boy mom at this thing,

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Speaker 3: right and the kids now are you know, fifteen sixteen

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Speaker 3: And that's when she asked, me, Hey, do you know

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Speaker 4: Like back in the day.

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Speaker 3: And you know, we don't really talk anymore, but yeah,

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Speaker 4: She goes, I want to get your take on something.

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Speaker 2: She said, that's a risk. Why would you ever imagine

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Speaker 2: asking Sky I want to get your take on something anything,

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's rude and her call as one of

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Speaker 3: And that is when the mom looked through the phone

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Speaker 1: You're saying sex. You're saying sex.

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Speaker 2: Sex has been getting sex sex sex.

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Speaker 1: You're not putting the emphasis on the right salable sex.

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Speaker 3: To sixt sext message, is that sex sext? A sext anyway,

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Speaker 2: Next, a sixth and she found.

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Speaker 2: Nudi petuities.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think one of them is fifteen, one of

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Speaker 2: It's crazy and I feel weird even talking about it.

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Speaker 2: if I was a fifteen, sixteen year old, I'd be

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Speaker 2: sending I'd be saying send a pick lola. Of course,

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Speaker 3: And this mom was basically saying, uh, would you feel

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Speaker 3: And she says I I don't know this other mom

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Speaker 1: Well, are you even considering this?

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Speaker 3: All I can think about is if my daughter was

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Speaker 4: It's been years since we like hung down.

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Speaker 1: That's part of the major problem. Yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 2: What do I always say, they're going to kill the

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Speaker 2: If anything, maybe take the opportunity to talk to your

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Speaker 2: because I honestly the advice I would give my own kid,

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Speaker 2: and I've told Haley this, I have a five week

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Speaker 2: That's the advice because you're not gonna be able to

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you've already kind of know that this is

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Speaker 2: So make sure your face isn't it. I'd rather you

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Speaker 2: If you do do it, don't be stupid because you're

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Speaker 2: It's like being me said, he's never gonna drink. Well,

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Speaker 4: I'm so torn because at this age it's like they're kids.

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Speaker 3: But again I go back to what was I I mean,

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Speaker 3: I wasn't even a virgin the age of sixteen. I

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Speaker 3: you don't have to scream out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Emily think do you think that mom is like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, Mom, So I I mean, you don't

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Speaker 5: I would just that mom needs to worry about her

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Speaker 5: it on her. And I talked to Read about this

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Speaker 2: I didn't. I said, don't do that in the first place. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've never ever had your.

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Speaker 5: Face in any photos because those photos live on forever.

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Speaker 5: They'll spread like wildfire through the school. Everyone'll be making

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Speaker 2: So I've had that exact same discussion.

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Speaker 5: But if I saw this on my son's phone and

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Speaker 5: like if that wasn't a close close friend, if it

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Speaker 5: it was a close close mom friend, I'd probably say

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Speaker 2: If it was Sky and you found out that her daughter, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: anything else, like God, no, it's not my business.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well I'm not I'm not good with confrontation, like I'm.

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Speaker 2: Not how awkward it would be skyl Oh my god, like.

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Speaker 4: You know the words that would come out of my

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Speaker 2: Be all wrong?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, so you know you know that this is

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Speaker 1: probably not a wise decision.

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Speaker 3: Is it okay for me to give the contact info

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Speaker 3: of the girl mom to you're not involved at all?

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Speaker 2: I would just act like I never even heard that conversation. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I got amnesia. I don't know because it's none of yours.

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Speaker 2: It's just none. It's not even and you're not it's

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Speaker 2: annoying that this mom even asked you to do this

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Speaker 3: No, No, I don't need I don't need gossips.

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Speaker 2: The kids priority know what's going on. I mean, come on, okay,