1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: To the best of my knowledge, none of us have 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: ever directly saved somebody's life. Correct, Now, yeah, I feel 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: like I would remember that. I don't remember everything, but 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: I feel like I would remember that, Right, Diane, I 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 1: want you to put yourself in this person's shoes. Well, actually, 6 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: you know what, Tyler, I'll put you in this person's 7 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: shoes as well. I don't know his name or her name. 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: A few years ago, I was directly responsible for saving 9 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: Peter's life. Now I will say this, well, no, just 10 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 1: keep reading Eliot. A few years ago, I was directly 11 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 1: responsible for saving Peter's life. I did not know Peter 12 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: before this event, and soon afterward he and his family 13 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: reached out to thank me and asked to meet me. 14 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: Obviously under better circumstances. I agreed to the meeting, and 15 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: I regret it completely. Peter is a perfectly decent person, 16 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: but we just don't have anything in common. But he 17 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: and several family members will not stop calling me, texting me, etc. 18 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm his hero, which in their eyes seems to translate 19 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 1: into being his friend. But honest to God, I do 20 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: not like him to be blunt. He annoys me. He 21 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: has done nothing wrong. He is just not someone who 22 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: I would choose to be friends with. However, I keep 23 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: responding due to feeling horrible about it and how we 24 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: actually met. I have backed off considerably in responding to 25 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: text messages, hoping they would take a hint. He and 26 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: his family have not. I know I sound horrible and 27 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I seriously need them to stop bothering me. 28 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 2: And did they specify what exactly was done for Peter? 29 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: Was it like like a kidney donation or something. 30 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: It doesn't, but I almost take it to be where 31 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: this event. They make it sound like an event if 32 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: somebody was like, don't like when Josh donated his kidney 33 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 1: to his sister, Right, that's not an event. 34 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 3: I see what you're saying. 35 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: This sounds to me like and I don't listen. I could, 36 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: I could create a million scenarios, but this sounds like 37 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 1: it's drag out of the burning car or yeah, well yeah, 38 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: I guess you would count that or CPR or something, 39 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: but like, you saved their life. This isn't a I 40 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: was a match and I gave them Like, that's not 41 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: an event to me. 42 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: It's just unfortunate. Peter's family doesn't appear to take a 43 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 2: hint and Peter, Yeah, and. 44 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: Peter, get over it. I don't like you? 45 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 3: What exactly? 46 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: Why does it sound so hard? 47 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 3: They're just they're they're texting and saying, we want to 48 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 3: hang out with you. Yeah, they're just reminded him, thank 49 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 3: you so much. 50 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: No, they want to spend time. Okay, they want to 51 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: spend time. 52 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 4: Wow. 53 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: And he's like, I don't I don't even like Peter, 54 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: like we would never be friends. I don't like him. 55 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: He's annoying. 56 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 3: God, is it strange to regret saving someone's life? 57 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 2: The I don't They say it that way, but I 58 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: seriously doubt that, right. 59 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: I don't know that he regrets it. I keep responding, 60 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: dude to feeling horrible about it and how we actually met. 61 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: I have backed off considerably, but they will not take 62 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: a hint. 63 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 5: It's more details. 64 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: Well, why do you need any more? 65 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 5: Because I'm curious. 66 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: No, I understand the curious, But why do you need 67 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: more details if you don't want to be If you 68 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: don't want to be friends, don't be friends. You can't 69 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: ghost the guy. 70 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 5: There, No, but you can like not respond. 71 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: Well, he's that he has backed off heavily exactly. 72 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's like you know maybe, Oh god, it 73 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 2: took me. I'm super busy. It took me like a 74 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 2: week to respond to that text. 75 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: That's okay, so thanks for responding. We're getting together with 76 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: a bunch of people in Peter still can't believe he's alive. 77 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: You know what, we don't take any day for granted. 78 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 5: Like I said, I'm super busy. 79 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: Right, so then you know what why I'm busy. 80 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 5: I can't answer a text. Do you think I'm gonna 81 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 5: come to an event? 82 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: I understand that. So tell me a day that works 83 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: for you and then we'll build the we'll get back 84 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: to you. Okay, Please do a couple of days go by. 85 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: Oh hey, I was hoping to hear back. I want 86 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: to get a caterer. Like you could see. This is 87 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: not gonna stop. You save Peter's life. We are forever grateful. 88 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: You're Peter's angel. 89 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, and is that what it is? It's so surreal 90 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 3: what happened, and it being a near death experience, you 91 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 3: kind of lose sense of what's appropriate and what's not. 92 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know that they're being inappropriate. 93 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 5: They sound like they're badgering him. 94 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're they're harassing him. No, they hang out. Yes, 95 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 3: they are okay. 96 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 1: They also don't know. He keeps responding, we've we've hung 97 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: out before. They don't know that he hates Peter. 98 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 3: But listen, I'm defending them. I'm saying, is what went down? 99 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 3: Did you know how long ago? 100 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: This was a few years. 101 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 3: Did you really? I don't remember saying that. 102 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: Might that's how it started a few years ago. I 103 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: was directly responsible for saving Peter's life. Yeah, a few 104 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: years ago. I've never saved anybody's life directly. 105 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 3: Because I thought harassment was maybe a strong word. That 106 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 3: may not be strong enough. 107 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: But if somebody no, no, no, no, let me let me, 108 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 1: let me give you the other side of it. They 109 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: keep finding excuses and they can't do it. But if 110 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: you don't, if you do, this is your this is 111 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,359 Speaker 1: your guardian Angel. I'm trying to accommodate you. I'm not 112 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: harassing you. I'm trying to accommodate you. And by the way, 113 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: you don't it's not it's not because you've also hung 114 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: out with us before, and you've done things with us before, 115 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 1: and not only did you save Peter's life, but you've 116 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what they've done to get together, but 117 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: they've gotten together several times over the years. You've been 118 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 1: great to Peter. 119 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 5: He's your friend, I know, but it's just some people 120 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 5: can't take a. 121 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: Hint, So tell them. 122 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 5: You don't want to be outright mean to them. But 123 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 5: how is that mean? 124 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 2: You know what you mean ghosting? You can't semi ghost. 125 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: No, You're all like, hey, why don't you just say, listen, Peter, 126 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: I saved your life. I don't like you. 127 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 5: I don't know. That's a little harsh. 128 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: You saved his life. 129 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 2: No, no, no, But I'm saying like, yeah, I know 130 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 2: I saved his life, but I also don't need to 131 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: be I would I wouldn't feel comfortable saying I don't 132 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 2: like you to that person. 133 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 5: I would just distance. 134 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 1: But then you have to fully ghost. You can't periodically respond, 135 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: and the families gone by the way, the family's going 136 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 1: to keep calling. Yeah, hey, listen, I don't know if 137 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: we did something wrong. Peter really wants to see again. 138 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: You know we're coming up on the anniversary. 139 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 2: Then you can send them a text back and say 140 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 2: you didn't do anything wrong. I'm just I'm just really busy. 141 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 2: I've I've got a lot of things that I need 142 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 2: to attend to right now? 143 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: And even is that I understand? So let me know 144 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: when a weekend opens up. And then when I don't, 145 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: and then you don't respond to that, well, I'm gonna 146 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: keep I'm going to keep doing it. 147 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 5: I can't help it. If you can't take a goddamn hint. 148 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: Then why don't you just tell them? Listen, I saved 149 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: your life. I don't like you. 150 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 5: No, then I would just thinks stop responding. 151 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: Why can't you tell someone you don't like them? 152 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 3: It's hard, Elliott. You don't know this, especially with what 153 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 3: you've been through. Yeah, you know that he considers you 154 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 3: his superhero. That's hard to then break their heart. 155 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: You're not breaking their heart, saved their heart. 156 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 5: You know. 157 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: You've made it clear how appreciative you are. And I'm 158 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 2: I'm glad I was able to help out. We're not besties, 159 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: that's what you're gonna say. No, no, no, I'm just saying 160 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 2: it's like no. I think eventually you just stopped replying. 161 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: It's like that's a dick move. 162 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 2: It's better than saying something outright mean to their face. 163 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: Actually it's not you know what, you know what's rude. 164 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 5: As a coward. Yes, it is. I wouldn't do that. 165 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 3: Have you been through something last day on where someone 166 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 3: wasn't able to take a hint, because it seems like 167 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 3: you're you're calling up on first hand experience. 168 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: I don't think so other than yourself. I'm not gonna 169 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: I can take a hint. I'm not gonna badge or somebody. 170 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 3: You don't think so it's just you kept saying some 171 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 3: people can't take a hint. It's true Elliott was desperate 172 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 3: to inject himself into that real estate story last week, 173 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 3: which was but it took the one where you had 174 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 3: to bring up the paint the painting before exactly Todd Reard. 175 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 3: It just had that vibe to it the way Diane 176 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 3: was talking about hints. 177 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,959 Speaker 1: Right, So it's have have you been? Have you been 178 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: that person or someone been that peron, like take a already. 179 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 2: I feel like I've seen that happen over the years, 180 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: where you know. 181 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: Like you're you're given off ghosting h fields, but nobody's picking. 182 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 5: Up, right, Just tell them no, that's uncomfortable for me. 183 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: To tell somebody you don't like him. Yeah, say listen, Peter, 184 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: I saved your life. That's enough. I don't regret saving 185 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: your life. But I don't want to be friends with you. 186 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: I don't like you. 187 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that. Okay, well it's easier on listen. 188 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 2: I've already I've already saved this person's life. Why should 189 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,439 Speaker 2: I be made to make to feel that uncomfortable and exaggeration? 190 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: So tell him no, by the. 191 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 3: Way I said parents, But I believe when you first 192 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 3: read it you said members of the family. 193 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 2: By the way, I'll tell you in front of the 194 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: whole family. 195 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: No, no, I'll tell you. I'll tell you where you're 196 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: thinking of it only as having to tell Peter. Could 197 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: you imagine somebody saving your kid's life and all you 198 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:04,560 Speaker 1: wanted do is be there and to be like, if 199 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: somebody saved my kid's life, I would feel so indebted 200 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: to them, I would do anything. And so that's why 201 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: I keep reaching out and I keep doing all that. 202 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: Now I don't I don't understand why you're not let 203 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: me you know what, Let me bring a castle, role, 204 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: let me do Okay, you. 205 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 5: Took me to dinner that one time. That was fabulous. 206 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 1: You'll never understand. I can never do enough. That's why 207 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: we're having for the anniversary. We need you to be there. 208 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 5: You're the type who would take a hint. 209 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: And tell me I don't want to be your friend 210 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: a child. No, Peter's an adults. 211 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, because when you when you put it in 212 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,599 Speaker 3: the context of a miner, that's, oh my god. 213 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: Easier to do. If it's a minor. You save a minor, 214 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: you're like, we're good. You know what, you do anything 215 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: for achance. 216 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 5: You're with an adult. 217 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: What to say? Wait to what to say? 218 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 4: No? 219 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: Easier with a child? What easier with the child? 220 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 3: I would constantly be. It'd be sort of like people 221 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 3: wake up in the morning and whether it's a prayer 222 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: or just a spiritual thing, they think something or someone 223 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 3: for another day. I would want to thank those people 224 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 3: every single day. 225 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 5: Yeah. 226 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: But if I'm the if I'm the hero, I'm the 227 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 1: hero and I save the child, I don't need to 228 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: be friends with a kid. It's like I got nothing 229 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 1: in com friends with the kid. 230 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 3: The parents writing you. 231 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I got it. You know what, we're all 232 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: we're all human. We do anything to save a kid. Say, 233 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: is that's easy to break off? So I was adults harder. 234 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 3: Maybe you're saying that because. 235 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: Because I can go out and have dinner with the 236 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: adult and have drinks with the adult. What am I 237 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: going to do with the kid? Hey don't. 238 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 3: I'm not talking about having to befriend a child. Right, 239 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 3: But now as we discuss kids, we were all at 240 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 3: your house when somebody saved your kid. 241 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: Yes, that's true. Well didn't save them, No, that care 242 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: we go. My kid wasn't dying, but they did help. 243 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 1: Your child was drowning. Yeah, yes, okay, that's that could 244 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: end horribly. We're seeing the news this morning. Yes, what 245 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 1: did or didn't you do for that person? 246 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 3: Moving forward? 247 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: Never did a thing? Said thank you? That was it. Yeah, 248 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: never did a thing. They've jumped in with their clothes. Yeah, 249 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: but I didn't do anything. 250 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 3: Does it ever come up? 251 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: No? I didn't even tell Todd Reardon about it. No, 252 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: never comes up. No, because you just look at it 253 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 1: and go, somebody was getting in there? What me? 254 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 5: No, you were tending the girl. 255 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,719 Speaker 1: Gotta eat? Yeah, I don't even I don't even know 256 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: if if my son remembers that because your son was young. 257 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, and maybe like the defense mechanism that the brain you. 258 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: Block it out. Yeah yeah, yeah, exactly, Yeah, no big deal. 259 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: But you know what you don't see me doing right 260 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 1: letters to them all the time. 261 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:09,479 Speaker 3: Hey, hey, hey, it's an awkward situation. 262 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but Diane's being a pussy. 263 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 5: What I don't I don't. 264 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: Want I don't want to be your friend. I couldn't 265 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 1: say that, Peter, I saved your life. Which time's dinner? No, 266 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: it's a I would be as much as you try 267 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: to be. No, No, you say that, but you wouldn't 268 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: do it. Don't you agree, Diane wouldn't do it? Forget 269 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: the best, suck it up and go to dinner. 270 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 5: What is the multiple times I'll do it? Once? 271 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: Sure? 272 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 3: When you unfriend someone I r L. How are you 273 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 3: supposed to say it forget and forget that you saved 274 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 3: their lives? Just if it's just another person? Yeah, but 275 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 3: if it's you, don't say I don't want to be 276 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 3: friends anymore. There's a delicate way of handling it. 277 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 4: Right. 278 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: We don't have a We don't have anything in common anymore. 279 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: I think our time of hanging out is over. 280 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 3: What, Well, why do you sound so dismissing. 281 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: I know that's exactly what I'm doing. I'm dismissing you 282 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,319 Speaker 1: as a friend. You know I love you so much 283 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: and I would do would do anything for you, and 284 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: I will always be there if you have a problem. 285 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 1: Now that's said, I really don't enjoy spending time with you, 286 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: so let's not do that. You gotta dismiss, you gotta dismiss. Yeah, 287 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 1: it's it's fifteen minutes of uncomfortableness, a lifetime of freedom. 288 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: Instead you're walking around duck in texts. Also, what if 289 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 1: you run into you ran into Peter somewhere where you 290 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: saved his life. What if you run into the face 291 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: you walk into outback, they're it out back, celebrating the anniversary, 292 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 1: mind you, and they're like, oh my god, Diane, come 293 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: over here. Well now you're stuck. I've already dismissed you. 294 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: I walked in And what did they say? Well, there's Elliot, 295 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 1: that son of a bitch half him. I hope he 296 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: chokes on a mushroom. 297 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 3: Yep, I don't know. 298 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: That's how you that's how you break up with a friend. Listen, 299 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: we're done our days of hanging out over Did I 300 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: do anything wrong? No, you're just you like we don't. 301 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: We're like we've outgrown each other. You go your way, 302 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: I'll go my way. 303 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 3: Because and we don't know the guy's name, right, we 304 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 3: just know Peter's name. 305 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: I know Peter. 306 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, that the the good Samaritan, Yeah, the superhero. He 307 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 3: was probably very much willing to meet and say hello 308 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 3: to the family and hang out. And then he realized, well, 309 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 3: you don't hate him, did anything come. 310 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: Now You're like, oh my god, this guy is so 311 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: freaking annoying. 312 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 3: It's not like from day one you're lying to yourself 313 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 3: about liking someone and then you're stuck. That happens all 314 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 3: the time. Yeah, no, no, no, you have no idea 315 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: that he learned three years later. 316 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: The no over the course of over the course of 317 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 1: three years, And shame on him. He should have after 318 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: the first meeting. He should have been like, but he was, 319 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: this is great, thank you for dinner. Just FYI, we're 320 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: never doing this again. 321 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 5: Just trying to be polite. 322 00:15:57,480 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, but being polite could have said. 323 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 2: He probably could have phrased it in a nicer way 324 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: like thank you for this. This is absolutely more than 325 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 2: more than enough. I was happy to help him out, right. 326 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: Can I speak on behalf of Peter's parents. You don't understand, 327 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: as as his parent, there is nothing you saved our. 328 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 5: Child, and I'm glad to have helped out. 329 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: Good come over for dinner. Who A lot of people 330 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: have saved someone's life. 331 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 3: Or have the similar approach to how he can break 332 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 3: this off? 333 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: Where Oh give it to him. 334 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 3: It's a reminder of a very traumatic day. So it's 335 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 3: bringing up bad memories. 336 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: So I have to lie and hey, I can't. I can't. 337 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: I can't see you anymore. This brings up a bad 338 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: memory for me. 339 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 5: Genius. Oh that's good, genius. 340 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: Actually it's not. Your saving me was a bad day 341 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 1: for you. It was a great day. You saved my life. 342 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 5: But you have to understand where I'm coming from. Baye. 343 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: I like that. Every time I see you, all I 344 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 1: think about is those chest compressions. Yes, yes, yeah, okay, 345 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: but you saved someone's life. 346 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 3: But it's still there are things. 347 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you can't handle it. Well. 348 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 3: Now it sounds like we're fighting. Now we are going 349 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 3: to break up. 350 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: I don't like that. Now you're a boat to be in. 351 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 5: A pussy, Dylan says. 352 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 2: Elliott would tell the person they don't want to be friends, 353 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 2: but also hold it over their head for the rest 354 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 2: of your life. 355 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 1: Oh, there's Elliott here. We're out back. I hope he 356 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 1: chokes on a mushroom. 357 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 3: I saved your life, And Donna writes, really only one 358 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 3: word from a story that I'm focusing on, and it 359 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 3: was supposed to be scar tissue. Her phone auto corrected 360 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 3: it to titties. What t I D D I S for? 361 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 3: What tissue? 362 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: Oh? 363 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 3: She wrote scar tissue or wanted to write that, and 364 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 3: her phone said, no, no, you mean titties. 365 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: Yes, scar titties, scar titties. 366 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 3: What are you texting your husband regularly? 367 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 1: Want to see my titties? Honk if you liked Donna titties. 368 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 3: Because it was a text involving or a message involving 369 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 3: her husband, just saying, my husband attempted to donate his 370 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 3: liver to a coworker's husband went so far as getting 371 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:30,680 Speaker 3: cut open, and there were scar titties that prevented the donation. 372 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but they don't. They don't keep calling and going, hey, 373 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 1: come over for dinner. 374 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 3: She writes, We don't keep in touch with them. 375 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: Of course you don't. 376 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 3: And is that because the transplant never happened? 377 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you don't know anybody anything at that point. 378 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 1: If any if anything, you delayed me, I'd still know 379 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 1: you would dead have for the person who didn't give 380 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: it to. 381 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 3: You for going through that and and getting cut open. 382 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: I'll tell you this. Remember I told you that when 383 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 1: when when I was working in film, we did a 384 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: there was there was an officer who was horribly injured, 385 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 1: and we did a blood drive with the for the 386 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 1: for the officer and Sam came back. We all had 387 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: to go down and get tested and Sam came back positive. 388 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 1: And that I had nothing to do with the officer. 389 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 1: But years later he donated bone marrow. Right, but we 390 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 1: were all part of that. I didn't expect the family 391 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:23,239 Speaker 1: that got the bone marrow to thank me for at 392 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 1: least trying. 393 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 394 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know them anything. If anything, they owe 395 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: you a thank you, because if not, Donna didn't know, 396 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 1: she's got scar titties. Her husband the same thing. 397 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 3: Tanya, right s. I agree. People do that in situations. 398 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 3: They'll say they they will call you back. They never 399 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 3: do so ghosting. I'd rather people say something. I was 400 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 3: kicked out of a book club once and given a 401 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:53,199 Speaker 3: crazy answer that it had become too big and someone 402 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 3: old wanted to return. I would have been I would 403 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 3: have preferred to be told uh ct texted, what does 404 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 3: that mean? 405 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:06,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, did she. 406 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 3: Write the C word. Let's put a little slashing there. 407 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: By the way. I'm going to disagree with that one, 408 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 1: because do you really want to be told you're too 409 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: lame to be in a book club? 410 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 5: I'm obnoxious at book club. 411 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 3: That's not what happened. Yes, No, it had become too big. 412 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: It had That's what she was. That's what she meant. 413 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a lie. 414 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: Oh it was too big, and we're bringing somebody else back. 415 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 1: I can tell you what the problem is. 416 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 3: They didn't like her, Okay, Tanya, I was not trying 417 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 3: to make this about. 418 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 1: You, but it is. 419 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 3: That's what you want to say. 420 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 1: No, she's saying, I wish somebody would have told me 421 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 1: the truth. That she wasn't told the truth. She was 422 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: told to lie. That's what she's saying. I wish somebody 423 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 1: would have told me the truth instead of saying, oh, 424 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 1: it's just too big, you can't come here anymore. What 425 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: they were really saying to her is nobody here likes you, 426 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,119 Speaker 1: so go find a new I have an idea. Go 427 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: start your own annoying people's because you ain't in this one. 428 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 3: Maybe you should be by all these people's. 429 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 1: Sides, or why don't I make the phone call for Pete. 430 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. 431 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 1: Yes, I'll tell them. Hey, it's not me. You sound 432 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: like a great person, but your friend Jim hates you. 433 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 1: Hi Elliet in the morning. Hey, Yeah, Hi, who's this? 434 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 3: Hey? 435 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,120 Speaker 4: Hi? This is Jen. 436 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: How are you? 437 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 4: Yeah? 438 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: What can I do for you? Joan? 439 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 5: Okay? 440 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 4: So I got one like it, but this one's a 441 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 4: little worse of an ending. But I looked. I'm in 442 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 4: Richmond and I lived on Monument in an apartment and 443 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 4: I heard an accident, car accident outside and this older 444 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 4: lady had like hit somebody behind from behind, and her 445 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 4: airbags came, you know, blue. And it was really really 446 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 4: cold in February, and she couldn't get her windows down, 447 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 4: like her automatic windows down, and I kept trying to 448 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 4: point John. So ended up the fire fire you know, 449 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 4: men came and they had to bust her back window out. 450 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 4: So I got in the back with her because she 451 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 4: was refusing to go to the hospital. The ambulance was there, 452 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 4: so I asked if I could call her family for her, 453 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 4: and so she said, call my son. She was crying 454 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 4: because her son had just bought her this car. So 455 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 4: I called the son from my phone, and he laid 456 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 4: her out, I mean cussed her out about the car, 457 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 4: the whole thing, and she was crying, and I said, well, 458 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 4: who else can I call? So I called her daughter, 459 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 4: and her daughter's like, well, I can't come get her 460 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,679 Speaker 4: because I just had knee surgery. And I said, well, 461 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,679 Speaker 4: she won't go to the hospital. And we had been 462 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 4: out there by an hour and a half at this point, 463 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 4: and which was freezing. So I asked the daughter if 464 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 4: I could take her to her house. Rop her at 465 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 4: the house because she was sitting here freezing with that 466 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 4: back window busted out. And so I went to her car. 467 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 4: She had gone shopping in Williamsburg, and I brought all 468 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 4: of her packages into my car, and I was almost 469 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 4: at the interstate, and she started like really breathing hard, 470 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 4: and then she ended up dying, like right in my 471 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 4: passenger seat, in your car, your car, mom car, My 472 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 4: mom's brand new car. She had let me use her 473 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 4: boodle Bug. It was years ago and it was brand new. 474 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 4: And she died in your car, sitting in the passenger seat. 475 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 4: And then like she started to like fall like on 476 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 4: my shoulder, and I was right getting ready to get 477 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,120 Speaker 4: onto the Interstate there at Hamilton, and I just grabbed 478 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 4: her shoulder to push her off me, and I did 479 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 4: a U turn in the middle of broad Street over 480 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 4: top the media, and I went right back to the 481 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 4: intersection because all the police and everybody were still there 482 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 4: for an hour and a half. 483 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: They were still at the crime scene or the accident scene. 484 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,439 Speaker 4: We yeah, because she they kept trying to go her 485 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 4: to go to the hospital, and so they sat there 486 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 4: the whole time, and she was shaky. I was shaky 487 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 4: because I sat there with her the whole time. And 488 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,199 Speaker 4: finally I was like, I'm just going to take her home. 489 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 3: Is that okay? 490 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 4: Can I just take her home? So, of course, as 491 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 4: soon as I get her into my car, within two 492 00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,679 Speaker 4: minutes later, she died in my car. I just flipped 493 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 4: my car right back around, and they had not left it. 494 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 4: They were writing their paperwork, and I put it in 495 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 4: park and I was yelling, I said, she's dead, and 496 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 4: they better they got a helicopter to come and take 497 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 4: her down to Ducum. So the whole night I'm just 498 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 4: sitting here worried. I'm like, she's she's not alive. Her 499 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 4: eyes were wide open, and then of course, you know what, 500 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 4: happens when they die. My mom's seats, so I already 501 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 4: knew that she was yes, so I get a call. 502 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,640 Speaker 4: I had to call the daughter and tell the daughter 503 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 4: what happened. I didn't tell her that she died, but 504 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 4: I said that she was there and she was freaking out, 505 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 4: so she called the sun. 506 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 3: So it ends up. 507 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 4: The next morning it was confirmed that she died and 508 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 4: they are begging me to come to her feel which 509 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 4: I did not want to go at all. Like the 510 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 4: whole thing had traumatized me. I'm thinking they're then sue me. 511 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,120 Speaker 4: So she was alive and well until she got into 512 00:24:59,160 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 4: my car. 513 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:01,479 Speaker 1: Nobody thought you killed her. 514 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 4: No, I know, but like it was just like she 515 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 4: was fine talking to me five minutes ago. I did 516 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 4: end up going, knowing I was going to have to 517 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 4: see the sun that cuts her out and would not 518 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 4: come and get her, and he walked over to me. 519 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 4: The daughter came over and was talking to me, and 520 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 4: the sun tried too. He got right to me and 521 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 4: he chickened out and turned around and walked away. But 522 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 4: it doesn't end there because then they were non stop 523 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 4: calling me. The first thing they asked was, hey, you 524 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 4: know buying chanting of mom was wearing her seat belt. Now, 525 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 4: I was like, I have no idea. I was just 526 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 4: trying to get her to get the windows down to 527 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 4: help her because I didn't want them to break. She 528 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 4: didn't want them to break her back window. She was screaming, 529 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 4: don't break it. So it was just panic at that time, 530 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,159 Speaker 4: like I was looking at the seatbelt. And then they 531 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 4: wouldn't stop calling. This was before cell phones. I couldn't 532 00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 4: block them because the insurance company was ain't going to 533 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,440 Speaker 4: pay the settlement unless they knew that her seat belt 534 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 4: was gone right, And it was just did day just 535 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,919 Speaker 4: harassment about trying to get me to talk to this company. 536 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 4: And I was nice about it for a while and 537 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 4: then I ended up yelling. I was just like, this 538 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 4: has this has done a serious number on me. I think, 539 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 4: do not ever you yelled at the family at the 540 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 4: lady after like ten times of her asking me to 541 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 4: lie to the insurance company saying that she was wearing 542 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 4: her seat belt when I had no idea. 543 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: So you yelled at her at the end. 544 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, so this has been harder on me. 545 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 4: I was like, do not contact me again. 546 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sorry, this is hard on you. You know 547 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 1: my mother's dead, well you know the sounds for. 548 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,439 Speaker 4: Me, the one feeling battery wouldn't come to pick her up. 549 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so now you're going to blame my family twice. 550 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 4: Oh I'm sorry, but no I did. I tried to 551 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 4: be nice. I went to the funeral. Didn't want to 552 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:55,439 Speaker 4: do that rder. 553 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:57,160 Speaker 5: Went. 554 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 4: I did not want to feel and what the one 555 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 4: lady I worked with them, she would go with me 556 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 4: and and it was just I hated every second of it. 557 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 4: But I got to see like all of her stuff. 558 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,120 Speaker 4: I mean, she was at Juilliard, she was a big 559 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 4: pianist and the whole thing. So I got to learn 560 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 4: a little bit about it. 561 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: Did they offer to pay to clean your seats? No? 562 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,479 Speaker 4: I didn't even tell them about that. The only one 563 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 4: that I told was my mom. 564 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: And I don't think when they pulled her out of 565 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,400 Speaker 1: your car, they were like, god, damn. 566 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 4: Woman, no, because this was at nighttime, like it was, 567 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 4: it was late at night. And I didn't even really 568 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 4: notice that part until the next day and I looked down. 569 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,199 Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, on her brand new 570 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 4: leather seat, just someone with the phone calls and like 571 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 4: I felt like I did enough at the by going 572 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 4: They're like, we just want to meet you. They didn't 573 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 4: want to meet me, and they just wanted to get information. 574 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 2: Out of me. 575 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: Wouldn't hurt you so much to just tell the insurance 576 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 1: coming she had her seatbelt on, Like you. 577 00:27:55,960 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 2: Don't because you don't know what she's saying. 578 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 5: She didn't know because she didn't know she was telling 579 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 5: the truth. 580 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: So there's a chance that it was on. 581 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,199 Speaker 2: So there was there's a chance that I'm gonna get 582 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 2: busted for insurance fraud ninety taking. 583 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:12,200 Speaker 1: That chance you thought it was one. Yeah, I feel 584 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 1: good about that. Well, you know, we did a there 585 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 1: was no seatbelt mark. I guess I was wrong. Yeah, 586 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: I don't know. What are you like a medical examiner, 587 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 1: just say yes, go on? 588 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 3: What not? 589 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 4: A thank you for getting for helping her, sitting in 590 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 4: the car with her for two hours and bringing her 591 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 4: home getting. 592 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: Thank you note because you won't lie about the goddamn 593 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 1: insurance claim. 594 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 4: Wow, God, I'm Diana though, like I'm not. At that 595 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 4: point they were just kissing me off. 596 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: Wow, that is I appreciate it. 597 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 4: Thank you. 598 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 1: I mean that's I mean old Donna had with scar Teddies. 599 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 600 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a little more intense than your story. 601 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: Can you imagine they die in your car? Now? I 602 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: was at the beginning, I was question whether I would 603 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 1: have jumped into the car to sit with the woman. 604 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 1: You would have? I think I would have. Yeah, I 605 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: know who wouldn't have? Who? 606 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 3: I didn't even hear it. 607 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, you're certainly not leaving your apartment on monument. 608 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 1: You got it. But that's where you got to tell 609 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: the family. I just I can't. I can't be around 610 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 1: you people anymore. Sorry, I'm breaking up with you. 611 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 2: You can make it a little more delicate, but yeah, 612 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 2: you can just say I'm I'm legitimately traumatized by. 613 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 5: This, Yes, and I can't. 614 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but they don't care. 615 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 2: And then they just they just want you to commit 616 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 2: insurance fraud. No, you and he should feel like a dick. 617 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 2: That's because the last conversation, Yeah, with your mom, you're 618 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 2: a blessing arout because she had no one accident. 619 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 1: But you don't know that they're gonna die. 620 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 2: If it's an older person. Lard, I know, but it's 621 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 2: an older person who got into a car accident. You know, 622 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 2: it's not like she did anything intentionally. But and you're 623 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 2: yelling at her, and you won't come and pick her. 624 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 1: Up because it's like, come on, mom, Jesus a brand 625 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: new car. She ruined two cars. 626 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that when it comes to your excuse, 627 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 3: that one's a lot easier to pull off. I wanted 628 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 3: to say I was traumatized by saving your life, and 629 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 3: I understand that a reasonable person might hear that and 630 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 3: think it's ridiculous. 631 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 1: There was a death in the car. She had to 632 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 1: shoulder up to get the old lady off of her.