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Speaker 1: So, uh, mom, we're playing your theme song and we're

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Speaker 1: playing your theme song in the background here. So Cindy

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Speaker 1: lou who Lutenberger? So we had you had a date

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Speaker 1: over the weekend? Is that right?

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Speaker 2: I did? No, this is just quick, quick, quick, Yes,

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Speaker 2: a happy birthday to my oldest daughter, Rachel.

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Speaker 1: Your favorite your favorite daughter. We know now. So the

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Speaker 1: same young fella that you had had courted you a

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Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, last week we spent this was date number two? Saturday? Saturday?

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Speaker 1: Okay, now where did this guy take you? What's the

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Speaker 1: hot spot in Fonda lag was? It? Was there like

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Speaker 1: a no. Where did you guys go for the date?

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Speaker 2: We went? We went to Waldo Waldough, so tenants to

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Speaker 2: find a town?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, gotcha, it sounds lovely.

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Speaker 2: A little bar, little pub, had some drinks, had a

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Speaker 2: nice little dinner which, by the way, ordered a chicken sandwich.

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Speaker 2: Didn't want to eat a lot. First buy the chicken sandwich.

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Speaker 2: What happens the chicken gets stuck in my teeth. You

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Speaker 2: should have seen me with tongue action trying to get

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Speaker 2: chicken out. Oh no, it was awful. Anyway, said we're

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Speaker 2: gonna go do the haunted House just a few miles

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Speaker 1: Now that's great, that's great because you usually think, you know,

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Speaker 1: if you're like twenty years old, that's a haunted that's

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Speaker 1: a date. But you know, being a little bit older

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Speaker 1: call him Daryl, he sounds like a darrel to me.

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Speaker 1: Did so you went to the haunted house together, which

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Speaker 1: is a very cute date for an older couple. I

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't just a haunted house. It was an asylum,

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Speaker 2: a former asylum it is is supposed to be haunted,

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Speaker 2: so that added to the scare factor.

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Speaker 1: So did you did you cling to him and hold

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Speaker 2: Oh? Oh, incredible, incredible. And so here's what happened.

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Speaker 3: Three quarters of the way through.

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Speaker 2: All of a sudden, we're in we're in the room.

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Speaker 2: You know, you go room to room, you know, the

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Speaker 2: ghouls and goblins, you know. I was not relatively frightened

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Speaker 2: at some points, but for the most part, it was okay.

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Speaker 2: All of a sudden, we're like alone in the room.

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Speaker 2: All of a sudden he just grabbed me. Oh, he

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Speaker 2: was going to.

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Speaker 3: Turn me around, and then I just kept going.

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Speaker 2: I kept moving.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I screwed that up, you know.

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Speaker 4: Like he was going to grab you and kiss you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but no, no, no, no, no. After we got

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Speaker 2: out and we're walking out.

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Speaker 3: Stuff, he grabbed me, sat down on I.

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Speaker 2: Think a hay bell, and planted a couple of times the.

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Speaker 1: Kiss for the first time since the Clinton administration.

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Speaker 2: No longer than that.

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Speaker 1: Astration.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, I'm like, I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: out of my head. What the heck just happened again?

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Speaker 2: So we came back to town and we just you know,

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Speaker 2: drove to the park, drove out to my daughter's house.

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Speaker 2: Just he was showing me his kid's house. He showed

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Speaker 2: me his house that we're going in. We're not doing that.

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Speaker 3: So I didn't say that.

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Speaker 2: She just so we end.

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Speaker 1: Wait, I missed the what you said we're not doing

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Speaker 1: that to what you heard that right.

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Speaker 2: Going into his home. In my head, I'm saying, I

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Speaker 2: he did not. So we kept driving around. Found the

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Speaker 2: and that was brief. I don't know, eleven thirty that ended,

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Speaker 2: and then he's got We got in the car again

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Speaker 2: and we drove out to the We have a wonderful

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Speaker 1: talking to Jenny from the show. This is her mother,

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Speaker 1: who is probably you know, I don't know, in the

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Speaker 1: in the in the later, the later, the sunset years

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Speaker 1: of her life, the sunsets, and so she hadn't had

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Speaker 1: dated the same boy, like second date. And we're listening

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Speaker 1: a lovely park there and.

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Speaker 2: Find a lac and they had built a beautiful bridge,

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Speaker 2: huge bridge. Never saw it, never go to this side

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Speaker 4: So it's like midnight at this point, and there's just

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Speaker 2: It's probably one. Maybe it's one, but oh so yeah,

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Speaker 1: But then we went, okay, let's let's stop right there,

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Speaker 1: a little bit of the show. What what was the

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Speaker 2: It was just no, it was not anything like that.

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Speaker 2: So it was just very nice.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know it.

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Speaker 3: It was good, a lot of good conversation, a lot

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Speaker 2: At one point, like looking across the table at the

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Speaker 2: top of this, looked at his ice and they were

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Speaker 2: just so wonderful. Why if we finished the sentence with

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Speaker 2: the same word, does that mean something? I don't know. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I So then we went back to his car and

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Speaker 2: we looked at photos of the work he's done for

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Speaker 2: the past year for about an hour. And that's all.

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Speaker 1: Now. Now I believe you. I believe you, but me

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Speaker 1: and I believe everything. And if you say nothing happened,

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Speaker 1: I believe you. But we were hoping for like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's been date number two. At what point, how do

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Speaker 1: I ask this question? At what point? What date do you?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, I'm asking you, guys, what point

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Speaker 3: does that happen?

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Speaker 1: Well, Jenny, I don't know. I don't know what what

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Speaker 1: the dating world was like anymore. Soenny, how many dates

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Speaker 4: I don't know, to each their own. Some people are

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Speaker 2: If you talked about certain things. And then here's my

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Speaker 2: other question though, it's about I text him first on

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Speaker 2: Sunday morning and said, you know, I'm still trying to

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Speaker 2: catch my bra. Thank you for a wonderful time right away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so that was good, right right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very good? Yeah, really good, make it a first move.

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Speaker 3: Touched back. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And so he text back and said, you know,

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Speaker 2: just reciprocated, wonderful time, thank you very much, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: So you know, it's like Monday. I wanted to text

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Speaker 2: My clients of course that I have shared all this

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Speaker 2: information with. It's like, well, Cindy, it's only Monday, so

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Speaker 2: now we're up to Wednesday. So do I plan something

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Speaker 5: And yeah, because you've done the last two weeks, you know,

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Speaker 5: because I got some things ready, you know, and and

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Speaker 5: it's okay, I do it today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, yeah, yeah, you you you don't really want

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Speaker 1: to play too much games because you don't want to, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, be that person. So yeah, if you're excited

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Speaker 1: that if we like somebody, we get excited when we

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Speaker 1: find out they like us too. It's like, oh, my god,

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Speaker 1: he likes he likes me too. Oh there's no feeling

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Speaker 1: in the world. So you go do your thing. Cindy,

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Speaker 1: we're out of time, but thanks.

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Speaker 2: For talking to us.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk to you next week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Get a girl, all right.

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Speaker 1: I really thought that was gonna be the hook up tape.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think.

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Speaker 4: So my mom is you know, she's related, and she

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Speaker 4: waits a little bit longer.

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Speaker 1: She said she gave the people in the cars a show. Show.

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Speaker 4: She means that they smooched for two seconds and that

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Speaker 4: was a show to her.

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Speaker 1: But that is adorable. Some text messages Holy Minnesota woman. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but she's yeah, I hear you.

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Speaker 4: Someone else said if this man breaks her heart, we

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Speaker 4: go to war, and I fully agree with that. I like,

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Speaker 4: am so protective of my sisters and my mom that

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Speaker 4: I swear if this man hurts her, I will show

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Speaker 4: up to fanalac and be like where are they?

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Speaker 2: Where is he?

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Speaker 1: By love It? Thanks Cindy. All right, it's one of

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Speaker 1: one point three Kate