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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa accident Attorneys. He has been to

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Speaker 1: talk about spending too much time on phones, or how

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Speaker 1: long did it take to get the ring? Oh?

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Speaker 2: How long did it take to get the ring?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so eight hundred and four oh nine ninety three,

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Speaker 1: ninety three? How long did it take you to finally

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Speaker 1: get that ring? You're your dating life is good. You're

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Speaker 1: sitting there wondering, well, why are you gonna pop the question?

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Speaker 1: Did you ever hit that point with Sean Katie where

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Speaker 1: you're like, are you gonna ask me to marriage?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 4: Well, we would talk about it all the time, but

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Speaker 4: I was just like, I want a ring.

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Speaker 1: So when you guys would talk about it, was there

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Speaker 1: like a point where you're like, did did he tell you?

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Speaker 4: Because I know he went to International Diamond Center. Did

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Speaker 4: he tell you he like.

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Speaker 1: Went, Now, it was totally a surprise, like he picked

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Speaker 1: it out all by himself.

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Speaker 4: He went with his brother. He went a couple of

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Speaker 4: times because he said the first time he.

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Speaker 1: Was like really, but he said they were amazing there,

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Speaker 1: they are amazing in IDC.

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Speaker 4: And then he went back and then he did it,

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Speaker 4: got it to Corey Mama.

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Speaker 1: Did you ever have a conversation and then say hey,

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Speaker 1: get me that to Corey Mama, Like, did you ever

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Speaker 1: say like, hey, you are taking too long?

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Speaker 4: Like I would like for this to happen. Now, I

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Speaker 4: knew it was going to happen.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know when, but I didn't have to like

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Speaker 1: throw it on an ultimatum or anything like that.

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Speaker 4: How many years?

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Speaker 3: Four?

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Speaker 4: Okay, together? Four years Listen and I were together? Or

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Speaker 4: maybe three?

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Speaker 2: I think it's three.

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Speaker 1: Listen, I were together for three years, So it happened, No,

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Speaker 1: three and a half, almost four, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: don't know round about, but it happened right around then.

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Speaker 1: How long is too long? Or did you wait too long?

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Speaker 1: I guess Jed's got a friend who's complaining about not

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Speaker 1: getting married or what's the deal.

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Speaker 2: They've been together since college and they've been together for

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Speaker 2: seven years now and they still aren't engaged or anything.

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Speaker 2: But they bought a house together, They pay each other,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It's it's just to me,

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Speaker 2: it's weird, like maybe.

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Speaker 5: They don't want to get married, But dude, think about

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Speaker 5: it from this perspective, Joe, I'm a greedy bastard. Okay,

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Speaker 5: I always think about when you're married the tax benefits.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but but but but but with that, my cousin

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Speaker 1: Madeleine is a lawyer, and she said that the amount

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Speaker 1: of people our age who are getting divorces and thinking

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Speaker 1: that they don't have a lot of money, but then

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Speaker 1: they're losing even more money because of like they don't

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Speaker 1: have a prenup. So it's just like the courts just

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Speaker 1: take the money. So while you think that you're getting

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Speaker 1: a tax break, what happens if, like, you know, doesn't

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Speaker 1: you love your girlfriend? You guys did break up for

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Speaker 1: like a little bit. What if you guys decide you

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Speaker 1: don't want to be together and then she takes Because

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Speaker 1: I'm not thinking that far ahead.

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Speaker 4: I'm here for the dude.

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Speaker 2: I live for the moment. I live for myself, and

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Speaker 2: I answer to nobody.

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Speaker 4: Guy, listen, Chandler, are you married?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yes, I'm married?

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Speaker 4: How long did it take?

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Speaker 3: Can we say? What's too soon?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 4: Kardashian?

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Speaker 3: Me and my wife The day we met, somehow, we

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Speaker 3: were walking around in downtown. Some homeless man came up

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Speaker 3: to us and said we were such a beautiful couple

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Speaker 3: and did our whole ceremony and everything we said I

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Speaker 3: do and everything on that first day just play because

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Speaker 3: you know it was some homeless man doing it. But

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Speaker 3: literally one month later we went to the courthouse and

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Speaker 3: got married, and yesterday was our one year anniversary. Oh

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Speaker 3: my god.

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Speaker 4: Wow, how is life now?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely amazing? I married a therapist?

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Speaker 4: Your right, you did, pull up Tim Kardashiann right.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys ever get into arguments and stuff and

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Speaker 1: you go, oh, god, maybe I made this decision too quick?

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Speaker 3: No, Like, so she's autistic, so there has been a

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Speaker 3: learning curve for me. But she sees everything black and white.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, after grabbing that concept, it's made everything

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Speaker 4: Would be my biggest challenges might be autistic? Would have

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Speaker 4: been your biggest challenges with her?

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Speaker 3: So, like, she even started crying the other day because

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Speaker 3: she didn't understand like the social norms. She you know,

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Speaker 3: something happened, her nephew was over at the house. Something

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Speaker 3: happened where I got aggravated with her nephew and I

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Speaker 3: went into the bedroom and I come back out thirty

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Speaker 3: minutes later, and she's got you know, her nieces and

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Speaker 3: nephews packed up and headed home right then, and there

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Speaker 3: and are taking them home, and you know, didn't want

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Speaker 3: to talk about it or anything of that nature whatsoever.

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Speaker 3: She thought that I was just you know, because I

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Speaker 3: said I was upset and I didn't want the kids around.

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Speaker 3: You know, you just completely shut down the situation and

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Speaker 3: separate people, and it had you know, like that had

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Speaker 3: nothing to do with it. I was just a little upset.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want them to leave or anything. But you know,

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Speaker 3: you just thought, once somebody is upset, you you know

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Speaker 3: you're done.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, yeah, it is black and white.

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Speaker 1: Am I might be slightly autistic because that's the way

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Speaker 1: I feel as well, Chandler. Besides grilled cheese whenever you want.

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Speaker 1: Because we just talked about negatives, what is the positives

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Speaker 1: of being married to someone with autism?

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Speaker 3: Being able to just know the difference from like what's

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Speaker 3: really wrong and right? There's so many gray areas for everything.

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Speaker 3: Just being able to see things in black and white

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Speaker 3: has been pretty awesome. Being able to be shown like

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Speaker 3: this is how things would go on paper, this is

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Speaker 3: how things wouldn't go on paper. The gray area is imaginary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's pretty awesome. I love it. Well, Chandler,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Uh thank you so much for calling in

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Speaker 1: and nothing. I love your laugh. Everyone always talks about

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Speaker 1: jem laugh when you call in, Chandler, and we get

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Speaker 1: you to laugh.

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Speaker 4: Life is good.

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Speaker 3: And somebody somebody called right after I talked to you

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Speaker 3: all one day and they're like, I knew it was you.

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Speaker 3: I love your laugh. I heard your laugh. I knew

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Speaker 3: it was you, and I was just like, I love

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Speaker 3: to hear that. Thank you so much, guys, welcome. It

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Speaker 3: made my day.

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Speaker 4: You make our day, Chandler. We'll talk to you later, homie.

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Speaker 3: All right, have a good one, guys, enjoy the girl.

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Speaker 2: Cheese.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Michelle, Hello, Hello, two.

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Speaker 1: Months to get that ring? It took you two months.

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Speaker 1: You're dating someone for two months and then he got

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Speaker 1: the ring.

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Speaker 6: Everything went super fast. So we started dating. He moved

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Speaker 6: in after a month. He proposed a month later, We

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Speaker 6: got married a month later, and then I got was

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Speaker 6: pregnant with twins a month later, and we were happily

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Speaker 6: married for eleven years of today.

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Speaker 1: Wow, congratulations. Where people in your life be going like, hey,

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Speaker 1: too fast?

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Speaker 6: It was because they come from an old school Sicilian family,

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Speaker 6: so they did say it was too fast.

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Speaker 1: He much.

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Speaker 6: This is not how we do things in the Sicilian family.

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Speaker 6: But they were really supportive. And here we are eleven

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Speaker 6: years later with two beautiful twin boys.

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Speaker 2: So I love that.

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Speaker 4: How old are you boys?

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Speaker 3: They turned eleven?

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Speaker 6: You guys sent them to Bush Gardens on their seventh birthday.

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Speaker 3: Actually wait really, yes, yes, they.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys.

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Speaker 3: They listen to you guys every morning on the way

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Speaker 3: to school. They absolutely love you guys.

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Speaker 1: We'll figure it out. Let's send them to Busch Gardens again.

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Speaker 1: We can, Yeah, we can make it. We'll talk to

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Speaker 1: Mark and Kim and they'll they'll get out. That's hard

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Speaker 1: to Michelle. We got tickets for your boys and you

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Speaker 1: and your husband.

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Speaker 6: Oh, you guys are awesome. I even posted it. It was

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Speaker 6: during Marty Grid posted years ago.

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Speaker 4: So we got it. We'll take another picture and we'll

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Speaker 4: do like a whole big thing again.

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Speaker 6: Okay, awesome, Love you guys, have a great rest of

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Speaker 6: your day.

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Speaker 4: Love you more. What do we meet?

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Speaker 1: Didn't we meet someone recently who I took a picture

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Speaker 1: with him? It was a picture uh the opening, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your but it was it was pretty sick too. That's

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Speaker 1: how long we've been on the air. Now now we're

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