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Speaker 2: Welcome back on a little bit of a Chili.

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Speaker 3: Tuesday was up.

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Speaker 2: I'm Russ Rollins along with Ryan Angela, the Dans Queen's here.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Dan's Queen, Hi.

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Speaker 4: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: How are you doing.

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Speaker 4: I'm doing well in yourself wonderful.

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Speaker 3: And then we've got an angel here who will tell

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Speaker 3: you what prizes we have in the prize Panata Russ

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Speaker 3: and today's.

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Speaker 5: Price preoda off. First, we've got a pair of tickets

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Speaker 5: to see Killer Bees Live Bees Buzz in Town Tour

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Speaker 5: at the Ormond Beach Performing Arts on January the thirty first.

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Speaker 5: Ross Sauce is part of that show as well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Bees will be in here today. He's coming

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Speaker 2: in here I think at nine o'clock or so. Killer Bees,

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Speaker 2: one of the members of the Monster guest Hall of Fame,

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Speaker 2: one of our favorite people in the world.

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Speaker 3: We'll be hanging out with.

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Speaker 2: Us, and yeah, he's gonna be It's this weekend. And

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Speaker 2: I've never I don't know they've ever seen the Ormond

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Speaker 5: Wait, and then we got a pair of tickets to

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Speaker 5: see Chris Stapleton All American Road Show Tour with special

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Speaker 5: on June the thirteenth.

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Speaker 3: That's a big deal. That is a big deal.

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Speaker 5: Those are the prizes in today.

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Speaker 3: I mean Stapleton do in stadiums.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's huge.

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Speaker 2: And you know, lady Wilson did Raymond James a couple

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Speaker 3: So that's pretty that's gonna be a big show.

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Speaker 5: Those are the prizes in today's prize pinata.

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Speaker 3: All right, who we got up that wants to go first?

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Speaker 5: And think give me a number two. Uh, that's going

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Speaker 5: to be Brandon and Palm Bay Brandon, How are you

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Speaker 2: I gotta tribua truer question for you, and if you

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Speaker 2: Here we go, All right, here we go, Brandon, Brandon.

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Speaker 2: Kenneth Sean Carson will be celebrating his sixty fifth birthday

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Speaker 2: in March, and a press release is teasing that he's

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Speaker 3: Here's the press release.

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Speaker 2: He says, after sixty five years, Kenneth Sean Carson is

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Speaker 6: I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: Do you want Ryan Holmes? Do you want angel Or

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Speaker 7: Usually I go Ryan on Tripia, but today I'm let's

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Speaker 7: No Spanish dude, Angel, Spanish dude.

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Speaker 2: Kenneth Sean Carson. We'll be celebrating his sixty fifth birthday,

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Speaker 2: and a press release is teasing a new adventure for him.

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Speaker 5: As we know him as famous surfer Ken Bradshaw. He's

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Speaker 2: It is not It is not Ken Bradshaw. I'm so

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Speaker 2: sorry you were you were close, But no film car.

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Speaker 3: Who do we got next? We're gonna go with.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna go with Manny and Tartona.

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Speaker 2: Kenneth Sewan Carson is is gonna be sixty five next

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Speaker 2: in March, and he's gonna be doing sixty five new things,

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Speaker 3: Who are we talking about?

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Speaker 3: There you go? Is that that is Ken? Barbie's barbeys Man.

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Speaker 3: Uh, And he's finally leaving Malibu, and now Ken is

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Speaker 2: So Ken will be like, you know, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: And now that he's sixty five, they're gonna let him

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Speaker 3: Out and do all kinds of other things. Were you

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Speaker 5: Barbie has never been an airport? Ken a pilot? Ken,

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Speaker 3: I don't well, okay, yeah you would know. I mean,

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Speaker 3: See my daughter was way into Barbie's.

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Speaker 2: I only remember Ken only being Malibu Ken, like he

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Speaker 2: a bunch of stuff to kind of show little girls, Hey,

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Speaker 3: All this stuff. You know. Ken was just kind of

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Speaker 3: Why are they making a big deal about him?

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Speaker 4: He turned sixty five?

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Speaker 3: New things?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, because sixty five and he's got it. He's got

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Speaker 3: And still no Penis.

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Speaker 8: Yeah Penis, that's okay, toy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she doesn't have anything down there either, so it's okay.

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Speaker 4: Did he did? I had won can in a couple

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Speaker 5: Know, thinking about it, I never like my daughter went

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Speaker 3: You never got our kid? Now, she never asked one.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she always wanted one. How do you think that

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Speaker 5: This kid? Whatever she or so she never asked, Well.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you have to give people whatever they're not asking out.

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Speaker 2: My wife, see Barbie, like when I was a kid,

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Speaker 2: Barbie will always like hang out with my g I

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Speaker 4: No, yes, No, Joe's are tiny.

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Speaker 3: No, there was nineteen seventy one.

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Speaker 5: Joe was Actually it might have been even taller than

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a little bit bigger doll.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they were straight up dolls.

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Speaker 3: It was an action figure.

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Speaker 4: No, that's a doll.

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Speaker 3: Action figures are the small ones?

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Speaker 5: You were playing with dolls?

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Speaker 3: I like dolls, that's right, they were. The bigger ones

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Speaker 5: They were not because they didn't they didn't have the

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Speaker 2: That's where it started, and they started with the little ones.

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Speaker 2: Now the komfu grip was with the big ones. No.

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Speaker 3: Man, I got cool ones.

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Speaker 5: This is a dull yeah, because the little ones had

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you get all the vehicles that had the guns.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't think they did cobra when

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Speaker 8: Shout out to Scarlett though, Ji Joe Dall. My growing

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Speaker 2: Right as a winner. So we're gonna put Manny on hold.

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Speaker 2: We come back. Mandy, you're gonna have the floor, So

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Speaker 3: Don't go anywhere.

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Speaker 2: You're listening to the March of the Morning. Hey want

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Speaker 3: It's a really cool restaurant and bar.

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Speaker 2: Will be there on February the thirteenth, that is Friday

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Speaker 2: We're also gonna do like a car show. Angel's inviting.

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Speaker 2: We're inviting, like anyone who's got a really cool car

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Speaker 5: Was that just about this yesterday?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: You can even bring up your motorcycle.

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Speaker 2: Sure, you can bring your motorcycle. Anything you want to

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Speaker 2: show off. That'd be great. We'd love to see it.

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Speaker 2: So how about a rocket ship?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I love that.

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Speaker 2: That's gonna be Friday thirteenth, Daytona. We're doing a live show,

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Speaker 2: I would love to see you out there. So welcome

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Speaker 2: back on Rust with Angel and Ryan and Angelique here

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Speaker 2: today and Manny's on the line. He is a winner

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Speaker 2: for today, Manny, congratulations, buddy, how you doing man?

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Speaker 3: This is how good? Good good.

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Speaker 7: I've been listening in two thousand and one.

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Speaker 2: That's that's awesome. I appreciate that. Ye, thank you so

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Speaker 2: very much. And then what do you what do you

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Speaker 7: I'm a general manager for a propane company, Thermotine Prope

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Speaker 4: Hell yeah, propane and propane accessories.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and we do everything, I mean everything that's propane

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Speaker 7: we got vehicles that are running propane we can convert them.

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Speaker 5: A lot of government vehicles are run on propane, buses

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Speaker 2: So if you man, if you run, if you run

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Speaker 7: You're saving a lot of money because your gas at

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Speaker 2: So when people when they do this and they turn there,

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Speaker 2: They just come to see you in Uh like you

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Speaker 7: Well you could because you got the U hauls you have,

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: What are some other things that people run off propane

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Speaker 7: Well, a lot of people, you know, of course, they

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Speaker 5: For the pal Yeah, dude, you can put those out

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Speaker 3: Okay, who did you want to play? What did you

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Speaker 3: want to plug? And promote? Man, you can do anything

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I want to plug. The company I work with

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Speaker 7: Oh definitely, because you know, you can regulate the heat

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you probably you probably installing a lot of

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Speaker 4: We have, you know, light to but we have Okay,

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Speaker 7: Those areas where where they have a lot of like

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you know what I didn't realize until I don't know,

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Speaker 2: Uh So when you get the propane, is the stinky

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Speaker 7: No, it comes with it already. It's called ethorm or captain.

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Speaker 7: as many times as you wash your hands. Oh really, yeah,

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Speaker 3: So uh so that's why we have that requirement.

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Speaker 4: Attract spiders. What does the smell?

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Speaker 3: Uh, the smell of.

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Speaker 8: The whatever that smell is that they put in, it

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Speaker 7: Insects love it. That's another another way you could t

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Speaker 7: way that you could star. That's a leak in your

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Speaker 4: The propane leak, some rotten eggs like, oh that smells good.

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Speaker 7: Some people cannot smell it.

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Speaker 3: Oh really, some people can't smell the propane smell.

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Speaker 7: Some some people you can't smell it. It's something where

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Speaker 3: Hey, so you've been doing this for a long time.

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Speaker 2: When you go home, do you smell like propane or

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Speaker 2: does it not stick on you?

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Speaker 7: There's been times where I came in contact with you know,

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Speaker 7: you know, I've been doing it for thirty years. So

447
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Speaker 7: I mean the smell is like you cannot get away

448
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Speaker 7: from the smell.

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Speaker 4: You know, you're at a tank blow up on you Manny, No.

450
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Speaker 7: I have not, but I have, you know, study cases

451
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Speaker 7: where they did and it was you know, not nobody

452
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Speaker 7: got hurt. It was just stuff that happened in the field,

453
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Speaker 7: usually in places where like farms or some stuff like that,

454
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Speaker 7: people were messing around. Got they prove them up themselves.

455
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Speaker 8: Got so you don't feel like it's dangerous work. Then

456
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Speaker 8: you're just you're just doing a job.

457
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Speaker 7: No, if you respect it, you know, any talk would

458
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Speaker 7: be dangerous. You just got to respect it and follow

459
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Speaker 7: the protocol.

460
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Speaker 3: You know.

461
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Speaker 7: We got training. We receive a lot of training as

462
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Speaker 7: a matter of fact, last week I was helping train

463
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Speaker 7: the fire department in Palaca on how to remove you know,

464
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Speaker 7: gas from tanks, you know, in an emergency. The haffs

465
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Speaker 7: my team over there. So you know, I mean we

466
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Speaker 7: provide training and we also we we take a lot

467
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Speaker 7: of training ourselves.

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Speaker 3: You know, very cool.

469
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Speaker 7: I got that doing this thirty years.

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Speaker 2: Well, Mannie, thank you for listening as long as you

471
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Speaker 2: been listening. We appreciate that was very interesting.

472
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Speaker 4: It was that's it was a gas.

473
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Speaker 2: We've never heard about the propane. All all right, Manny,

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Speaker 2: you have a good.

475
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Speaker 3: Day, buddy. Thank you.

476
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Speaker 7: All right, you guys stick care.

477
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Speaker 2: All right, all right, hey, we take a little break.

478
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Speaker 2: We're gonna talk to our friend of ours that we

479
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Speaker 2: have to talk to you in a while. We're talked

480
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Speaker 2: to Dwight Bain when we returned. Don't go anywhere. You're

481
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Speaker 2: listening to the March of the morning. We'll come back

482
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Speaker 2: to the mansards. Morning's already one oh four point one.

483
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Speaker 2: Hold on, no, so is there a space in there?

484
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Speaker 2: Is that what it is said? Take out the space?

485
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Speaker 3: You got him? Okay, all right, we'll get it on

486
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Speaker 3: good time. Welcome back.

487
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Speaker 2: I'm Russ Rowlands along with angel and Angela and Ryan

488
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Speaker 2: and tell me when he can hear us.

489
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Speaker 3: I know we can see us here. He can hear it.

490
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Speaker 3: There you go, our buddy, Dwight Baine. Dwight, how you doing, buddy.

491
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Speaker 3: I'm good now that I have gotten into the studio.

492
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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you for your credit card information, Dwight. I'm

493
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:49,160
Speaker 4: gonna go buy dinner now.

494
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Speaker 3: Sorry about that. That should not have happened. Sorry about that.

495
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Speaker 2: So you know, the things are usually and this is

496
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Speaker 2: a terrible thing, Dwight, Usually there's something bad going on

497
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Speaker 2: when I want.

498
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Speaker 3: To talk to you.

499
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Speaker 2: But I figured that to the audience. A lot of

500
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Speaker 2: our people, people in our audience might need a little

501
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,439
Speaker 2: i don't know, little little kind words, a little words

502
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Speaker 2: to kind of help them.

503
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Speaker 3: And I do my best to stay away.

504
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Speaker 2: From politics, because you know, politics and religion. Talking about

505
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 2: it in the mixed company it never usually goes well.

506
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Speaker 2: But there's something we all can agree on, and we

507
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Speaker 2: all can agree that right now, people have anxiety. A

508
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 2: lot of people are stressed, and I know from my

509
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Speaker 2: experience I have a lot of friends who are Hispanic

510
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Speaker 2: who are who are super concerned, super filled with anxiety.

511
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Speaker 2: We've heard that there are a lot of people from

512
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Speaker 2: Ice that have moved into the Kassemi area and a

513
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Speaker 2: lot of my Hispanic friends are afraid about that. A

514
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Speaker 2: lot of my friends who have friends that are Hispanic

515
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Speaker 2: are afraid about that, not.

516
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Speaker 3: Because they're illegal, but because they're.

517
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Speaker 2: Just afraid they're going to be pulled over just because

518
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Speaker 2: of the way they look.

519
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Speaker 3: The anxiety is there.

520
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Speaker 2: So no matter where you fall on whatever side of

521
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Speaker 2: the you know, Aisle, that anxiety, that whole thing is real,

522
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Speaker 2: whether you like it or not. And you've always been

523
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Speaker 2: really great at helping us kind of deal with that.

524
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Speaker 2: Like if you are one of these people and you're

525
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Speaker 2: you're in your house scared to go out, like, how

526
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Speaker 2: does one deal with that?

527
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Speaker 6: Dwight, Well, I'm glad we're talking about this because it's happening.

528
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 6: It's real, it's in our backyard, it's around the country,

529
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Speaker 6: and people are scared. Now on the other side, people

530
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Speaker 6: are angry. And here's what happens. When you take fear

531
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Speaker 6: and you take anger, rage, and you mix it together,

532
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Speaker 6: you have a big old mess. So today we're going

533
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Speaker 6: to calm things down with what I like to call

534
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Speaker 6: a common unity conversation. If you're watching on video right,

535
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Speaker 6: So here's common and here's unity, common values that we

536
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Speaker 6: all believe in and watch this. I put it together

537
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Speaker 6: and I have community. So in a community when we

538
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Speaker 6: talk about what's happening, doing that today, and I want

539
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Speaker 6: people to do that with their kids, with their partners,

540
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Speaker 6: with their coworkers. So when people are on the scared

541
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Speaker 6: side of the page, and that's a lot of my friends,

542
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Speaker 6: I spent time last night with a wonderful friend from

543
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Speaker 6: Mexico and she's been here her whole life, since she

544
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Speaker 6: was a little kid, and she said, people are scared.

545
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

546
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Speaker 6: Right, So if you're on the scared side of the page,

547
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Speaker 6: we want people talking about fear, and then the other

548
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Speaker 6: side of the pages is anger. I'm losing my jobs.

549
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Speaker 6: These people are here illegally at law enforcement, first responders,

550
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Speaker 6: people in hospitals having to take care of people they're

551
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Speaker 6: scared or we're going to get hurt. Right, So I

552
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Speaker 6: got anger and fear and mixed together and Russ today,

553
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Speaker 6: we're going to calm it down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I was. You know.

555
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Speaker 2: I called on my heart to talk to you actually

556
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Speaker 2: on Sunday, and I thought about doing on Monday, and then,

557
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Speaker 2: to be honest with you, I get afraid to talk

558
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Speaker 2: about it because people are They get so angry. And

559
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Speaker 2: then I thought to my and I talked to the

560
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Speaker 2: guys yesterday after the show.

561
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Speaker 3: I said, I.

562
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Speaker 2: Really want to talk about this on the air, but

563
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Speaker 2: I know half the audience gets all ticked off. But

564
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Speaker 2: I feel like it's a responsibility just to kind of

565
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Speaker 2: help calm things down a little bit. But once again,

566
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Speaker 2: what do you do? But when you're even afraid to

567
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Speaker 2: even talk about it?

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Speaker 6: Dwight, Well, and that's why I'm glad we're talking.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 6: One of the principles I learned and I shout out

571
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Speaker 6: to the district Fire department. Behind the scenes at Walt

572
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Speaker 6: Disney World for years we talked about peer support is

573
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Speaker 6: life support. And so when we come together and we

574
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Speaker 6: start to talk about stuff, difficult things, but we turn

575
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Speaker 6: off the news and we focus on the news. In

576
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Speaker 6: our world, doesn't matter what happens on their street. It

577
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Speaker 6: matters what happens on my street. And so getting people

578
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Speaker 6: to talk about it at work, at home, with their

579
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Speaker 6: kids at school. As we open the conversation, here's what happened,

580
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Speaker 6: fear or anxiety starts to go down. When I first

581
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Speaker 6: bring it up, it will spike and russ. I know

582
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Speaker 6: there are people that are that are saying, are you

583
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 6: guys sure you want to talk about this right And

584
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Speaker 6: the answer is absolutely. This is our hometown. We have

585
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Speaker 6: to talk about it. So as we talk through it,

586
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 6: we start to get through it. So and as we

587
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Speaker 6: unpack it, and I know there are a lot of

588
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Speaker 6: listeners today and they're gonna want to unpack. But as

589
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Speaker 6: we unpack the anxiety or the anger, as those start

590
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Speaker 6: to go down, then now all of a sudden, we

591
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 6: can talk about something called emotional self control. We start

592
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Speaker 6: with self awareness and then we go to self control.

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Speaker 3: By the way, Dwight Bain is a.

594
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Speaker 2: Renowned grief counselor and has worked, you know, some of

595
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Speaker 2: those horrible things in the world nine to eleven, any

596
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 2: school shooting and stuff like that. He knows exactly what

597
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Speaker 2: he's talking about, you know, Dwight, We've talked.

598
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Speaker 3: About this before, But this is just my observation. You know,

599
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Speaker 3: I have a little world in a little bubble.

600
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Speaker 2: But in my little world and my little bubble, I

601
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: found that I took a trip to New Orleans. And

602
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: when I took this trip to New Orleans, I got

603
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 2: to meet and talk to a bunch of different people,

604
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: all races, different ethnicities, a bunch of different folks, and

605
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 2: they weren't as hateful as everybody is online. They weren't

606
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 2: as hateful and they didn't didn't at least the folks

607
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Speaker 2: I met didn't seem to be like they were at

608
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Speaker 2: each other their throat. How much of this do you

609
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 2: think is the social media aspect of it.

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm glad you said social media, because right now

611
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Speaker 6: Mark Zuckerberg and all of his billionaire tech buddies feeling

612
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Speaker 6: a little bit of anxiety. They're in Los Angeles District

613
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Speaker 6: Court this morning for a trial that will set the

614
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Speaker 6: tone of over a thousand teenagers that have been hurt, suicide, stalked, kidnapped.

615
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 6: Horrible stuff because the parents are saying this is because

616
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Speaker 6: of social media, and the social media tech guys are saying,

617
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Speaker 6: you're the parent, You need to police your children, right.

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Speaker 4: You need.

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Speaker 6: And so what's happening is it's being settled in the court.

620
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Speaker 6: And if I can get people to talk about a

621
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Speaker 6: basic thing, in my opinion, social media or news media

622
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Speaker 6: can ramp things up. I'm not against social media, I'm

623
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Speaker 6: not against news media. I'm against people being addicted, and

624
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Speaker 6: really against people sting in silence, sting and fear. So

625
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Speaker 6: if I'm nervous, I'm scared, I'm afraid, I'm angry, they're

626
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Speaker 6: taking my jobs. What's happening? If I can turn off

627
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Speaker 6: that news, my anxiety is going to go down, My

628
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 6: anger is going to go down. And now all of

629
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Speaker 6: a sudden, I've calmed my brain and I can start

630
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Speaker 6: to have some good clear thinking and hopefully open up

631
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Speaker 6: some conversations just like this one with other people who

632
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Speaker 6: might feel scared or they might feel angry. But as

633
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 6: we come together and we talk through it, we can

634
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Speaker 6: get through it. That's the goal.

635
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Speaker 2: Hey, Dwight, Dwight being once again grief counselor has been

636
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Speaker 2: for many, many years, is that one of the number

637
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Speaker 2: one things that you are dealing with now when you

638
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: are talking to folks about grief and everything social media? Well,

639
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: is it like the third biggest problem? Is that the

640
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: fourth is the number one?

641
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Speaker 3: Like?

642
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Speaker 2: Where is it for you with the actual folks you

643
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: speak to every day these days?

644
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Speaker 6: Well, thanks for the question, because it's certainly top five.

645
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 6: And if I think about the term social media, it

646
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 6: was supposed to connect us, and the research shows us

647
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 6: that it makes us feel more isolated, more alone, more desperate,

648
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 6: because isolation can lead to desperation. Yeah, real relationship, real conversations.

649
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 6: And for some people it's right here with the monsters.

650
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 6: For other people it's their coworkers and the peer support

651
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 6: they For other people it's their faith community and they

652
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 6: plug into church or they plug into people where they

653
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 6: work out at their CrossFit box. If I can open

654
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 6: up those conversations, people's brain will calm down and they

655
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 6: can talk through things. Now, I can't do anything about

656
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 6: what's happening in Chicago, but just like you pointed out

657
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Speaker 6: in New Orleans, when you meet people, because I'm a

658
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Speaker 6: person of faith, and when I was growing up in

659
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Speaker 6: Sunday School, red and yellolow, black and white, they are

660
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 6: precious in a sight. Right you heard the song. Yeah,

661
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 6: when you meet people, you realize, wait a minute, you

662
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Speaker 6: know what, These these New England Patriot fans are not

663
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Speaker 6: nearly as crazy as I thought they were. And these

664
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Speaker 6: Seattle fans, we're.

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Speaker 3: Crossing lines there, blurred lines. You're using fandom.

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Speaker 5: You're using fandom, and some of us are irrational fans.

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Speaker 6: I'd here for the Cowboys.

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Speaker 3: You just lost a Hey, Dwight.

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Speaker 2: One of the things I only had one New Year's

670
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Speaker 2: resolution this year, and it was this, I wanted to

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Speaker 2: learn how to first off, to be an example of

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Speaker 2: how to learn how to disagree better. Like, like I

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Speaker 2: think that was that's some of the and everything else

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I think I'm pretty good on but learning

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Speaker 2: how to disagree better with folks and to be an

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Speaker 2: example of how to do that, because it seems to

677
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Speaker 2: me like we've lost that with with politics and with

678
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Speaker 2: everything else. People are just they don't know how to disagree.

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Speaker 2: Do you have any examples of how to do that better?

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Speaker 2: Because I might need some help.

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Speaker 6: I think we all need help on that one. So

682
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Speaker 6: here's the principle. So we can agree to disagree. We

683
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 6: can agree that instead of saying I'm right, you're wrong,

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Speaker 6: which always causes a fight. I'm going to lead with

685
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Speaker 6: help me understand. Right now, there's different generations in the workplace.

686
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Speaker 6: I'm the very tail end of something called the baby boomers,

687
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Speaker 6: right at Generation X, but Gen Z communicates very differently,

688
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Speaker 6: and then Gen Alpha is sixty seven all of us.

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's like and we're going, what are they

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Speaker 6: talking about? If I can say help me understand, and

691
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Speaker 6: this generation can say help me understand. So instead of

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Speaker 6: being right, it's about relationship. Instead of saying I'm right,

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Speaker 6: you're wrong, it's saying, you know what, we each have

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Speaker 6: a point of view, Help me understand. And I'm going

695
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Speaker 6: to give you an example from New Jersey. The first

696
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Speaker 6: time I went to New Jersey, perfectly good place to

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Speaker 6: get breakfast, I watched people put ketch up on scrambled eggs,

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Speaker 6: and I did not understand, made no sense whatsoever. And

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Speaker 6: then I went to New Mexico and I saw them

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Speaker 6: put salsa on scrambled eggs, and I thought, what is wrong?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 6: And here's the fast forward. Sometimes putting stuff on your

703
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Speaker 6: scrambled eggs is okay. I don't have to have it

704
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Speaker 6: my way. You don't have to have it your way

705
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Speaker 6: because instead of it being about me, my eye, when

706
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Speaker 6: it's about us and we an hour now we're back

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Speaker 6: to common unity. Gotcha, Hey, help me understand why you

708
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Speaker 6: guys do it that way and what happens is we

709
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Speaker 6: connect and realize that's a pretty cool idea.

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Speaker 2: But okay, what if and that is going to a

711
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Speaker 2: little get a little thick here, But I'm just gonna

712
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Speaker 2: ask the question, because this is my curiosity. What if

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Speaker 2: it's something that's as complex.

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Speaker 3: As there is.

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Speaker 2: There's video of a shooting five or six different ways.

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Speaker 2: You see exactly what happened, and someone describes it one

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Speaker 2: hundred percent different than what it was, and you're like,

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Speaker 2: you're not you're not telling the truth. I can see

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Speaker 2: it for myself. Like, so you're talking to someone that

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Speaker 2: is making no sense and telling lies.

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Speaker 3: How do you get past that?

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Speaker 6: So when somebody says, oh, this never happened, right, the

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Speaker 6: world is flat right? And here's my go to question

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Speaker 6: because frequently I'm dealing with people that are very unhappy

725
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Speaker 6: with each other, and I'm able to step back and go, okay,

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Speaker 6: what do you base that on? So they say, here's

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Speaker 6: what I saw, Okay, so what do you base it on?

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Speaker 6: What's your interpretation of that? What's the takeaway? What do

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Speaker 6: you think should be done?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 6: Notice, for us, I'm asking a bunch of questions, right,

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Speaker 6: instead of attacking them and telling them that they're wrong. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: when people are unpacking with questions to be able to say, well,

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Speaker 6: you know we should all get along, great, I'm going

735
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Speaker 6: to ask how does that work? We should do this?

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Speaker 6: And when people have, you know, bunches of opinions. I

737
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Speaker 6: did this once. It didn't work, so I don't recommend it.

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Speaker 6: But I have some friends in high places, and this

739
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Speaker 6: guy was really yammering about how he could solve the

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Speaker 6: problems at the I know some people with the Pentagon,

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Speaker 6: and I said, you know what your ideas are, genius,

742
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Speaker 6: let me get you in contact with a friend of

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Speaker 6: mine who's a general up there, and we'll get you

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Speaker 6: on FaceTime and you guys can talk. And he got

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00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 6: very quiet. I'm very angry at me, right, And so

746
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Speaker 6: instead of saying I'm right to solve the problems of

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Speaker 6: the world, watch this. Here's what I need to do

748
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 6: in my world. Here's I can calm down in my

749
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Speaker 6: world if something horrible happened, and I promise you horrible

750
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Speaker 6: stuff happens. Okay, what do I need to do in

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Speaker 6: my backyard? How can I make sure that we can

752
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Speaker 6: get along on my street? I'm not focusing on Wall Street.

753
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Speaker 6: I'm focusing on my street, right, So when I see

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Speaker 6: something I don't understand it, I'm going to check the source,

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Speaker 6: all right. So if this is what this news media said,

756
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Speaker 6: what are these news media people say? And then what

757
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Speaker 6: do I need to do about it? And if somebody

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00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:59,280
Speaker 6: says we should do something, okay, great. If you can't

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Speaker 6: fix something another city, what can you do to fix

760
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 6: things here? And here's a recommendation, because I heard from

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Speaker 6: some of my first responder friends this morning. They have

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Speaker 6: hard jobs. The police have really hard jobs. Right, Bring

763
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Speaker 6: them some gift cards. Don't bring them cookies, they don't

764
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Speaker 6: know what's in it. But to be able to say wow,

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Speaker 6: or if you see a family that you know are

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Speaker 6: really afraid and you don't see their kids playing in

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00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 6: the yard anymore, to be able to say, Hey, you

768
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 6: know what, We're going to have a cookout in our backyard.

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Speaker 6: You guys want to come over. When think about the hurricanes,

770
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Speaker 6: When the hurricanes come through, disasters come through, neighbors get

771
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Speaker 6: to know each other. Common unity is community. And so

772
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Speaker 6: instead of trying to say, I know what I saw

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Speaker 6: on Facebook, because we all know about things that are

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Speaker 6: called deep fakes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we very rarely change anyone's mind. You know,

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Speaker 2: when you get into it. That's the other thing about disagreeing,

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Speaker 2: You very rarely change anyone's mind. Ryan, question for a

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Speaker 2: Dwight Bain, by the way, who is a renowned incredible

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Speaker 2: grief counselor, and I've known him forever.

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Speaker 3: He's a super great guy. But go ahead that.

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Speaker 4: Ryan, Dwight.

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Speaker 8: I'm I learned recently that I'm doom scrolling and doom

783
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 8: scrollings where your algorithm just shows you this bad stuff

784
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Speaker 8: I'm getting. I've seen this this murder from like twenty

785
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 8: different angles now and I found that, Like, I'll sit

786
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Speaker 8: in my car sometimes for up to an hour.

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Speaker 4: Just doom scrolling. I have two problems with this one.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know how to break this

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Speaker 4: addiction from it.

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Speaker 8: I've never been I've never felt mentally addicted to something before.

791
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Speaker 8: And every time I got a free hand, my phone

792
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:40,439
Speaker 8: possed back up my hands.

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Speaker 4: Suddenly I'm doom scroll. What can I do about this?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 6: So what's happening is something called dopamine. And that's the

796
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 6: reason you called Berberg and what'd you call me? So?

797
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 6: Dopamine is a part of the brain that says, oh, look,

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Speaker 6: I remember the algorithm. The reason that Zuckerberg and those

799
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 6: guys are in is because parents are saying, my kid

800
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Speaker 6: died because you built technology that's addictive. And every research

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Speaker 6: thing that I have seen from credible researchers say they

802
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 6: built it to be addictive. So if I know, oh,

803
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 6: this is addictive, right, Krispy Kreme donuts, Oh, I'm just

804
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 6: you know, laced potato chips. If I know something's addictive,

805
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 6: then I have to put it down and Ryan the

806
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,919
Speaker 6: research says it takes about three days and it'll feel

807
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Speaker 6: like you're detoxing, and then what happens is your brain

808
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 6: will go Oh. In fact, if you remember the very

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Speaker 6: end of the Truman Show, that Jim Carey movie. At

810
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Speaker 6: the very end when that TV show went off and

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Speaker 6: Truman was gone, people went back to their lives and

812
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 6: to unplug into real life. It'll open up conversations. It'll

813
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Speaker 6: also detox and it'll make you a little moody for

814
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Speaker 6: a day or two, maybe a little more than usual,

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Speaker 6: but you'll get through it.

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Speaker 3: Dwight, You're always You're always the best buddy. I really

817
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Speaker 3: appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: If people feel like they need like a personal attention

819
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Speaker 2: from you, or they need.

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Speaker 3: To get hold of you, what do they do? Dwight.

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Speaker 6: You can find me on any social media at Dwight

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Speaker 6: Bain and I'm just started at a substack. I'm very

823
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Speaker 6: excited about substack. So we're posting coping skills, how to

824
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 6: deal with different challenges of life. So just look me up.

825
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Speaker 6: I help people get through tough times, to help people change.

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Speaker 2: If I ever texted Dwight, it's about three minutes he

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Speaker 2: gets back to me.

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Speaker 3: I mean like right away. And you're always there for us,

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Speaker 3: and I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: I thought This was actually good timing a lot of

831
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Speaker 2: people super stressed, and I think your words are very

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Speaker 2: helpful and sure do appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Dwight.

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Speaker 6: Well, it is an honor to be with you all.

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Speaker 6: I'm thankful for our time.

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Speaker 2: You got it, buddy, Dwight Bain. All right, well take

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Speaker 2: a little break, we come back. Angel's going to bring

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Speaker 2: you Master sports. You're listening to the Monxes Morning