Speaker 1: It's the second date update module in the morning.
Speaker 2: Why are you not getting a callback after you went
Speaker 2: on a date? We're going to find out right now.
Speaker 2: Laura went on a date. First off, how did you
Speaker 2: guys meet Laura? Hey, Laura, Laura?
Speaker 3: Did I lose you? Laura? Please tell me I didn't
Speaker 3: lose you, Laura. I've never heard you sound like that, Laura. Laura.
Speaker 3: Does she look like she's there a Zach?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Hold on, Laura, did you meet yourself here? Pick up
Speaker 2: and see if Laura is there, and if not, we
Speaker 2: may be in trouble. Maybe she got cold feet and
Speaker 2: didn't want to go on the air with us. We've
Speaker 2: had that happen to us a couple of times. We
Speaker 2: do have Will, who went on a date with Laura
Speaker 2: on with us. Will are you there?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 4: What's up? Yeah? I'm here?
Speaker 3: Hey? Will?
Speaker 2: She got scared, which makes me even more fearful of
Speaker 2: what happened on the date. What did you guys do
Speaker 2: on your date?
Speaker 4: Yeah, went to a bar. We uh, had a couple
Speaker 4: of drinks, talked a little bit. We went back to
Speaker 4: my place and that was the extent of it.
Speaker 3: Did anything happen when you went to your place?
Speaker 4: Uh, honestly, not what I was expecting. But she's back.
Speaker 3: She's back, She's back. Hold on a second here, all right, Laura, Yes, Hi.
Speaker 1: Laura.
Speaker 5: You couldn't hear me.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So it wasn't that you were getting scared.
Speaker 2: So Laura, Laura said, how to Will? Hi?
Speaker 6: Will?
Speaker 5: How are you.
Speaker 4: Okay? How are you?
Speaker 5: I'm great?
Speaker 2: So Will was explaining to us how you guys went
Speaker 2: back to his place, and then Will kind of said
Speaker 2: that things kind of stopped right there. And I want
Speaker 2: to ask you what happened? What, Laura, what do what
Speaker 2: do you remember happening that night?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: We had a great time.
Speaker 5: You went on a date and we came back to
Speaker 5: his place and just you know, ho hung out a
Speaker 5: little bit, had a little bit of kissing, and that
Speaker 5: was it and we had a great time. And then
Speaker 5: I don't hear from him anymore.
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know why? So Will? What?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 2: Why did things end with you not calling her back?
Speaker 2: And also what happened when you were at your place
Speaker 2: that that caused for you not to call her back?
Speaker 4: It wasn't anything that happened. It was like, what didn't happen?
Speaker 4: She was being very forward. Before the date, she was
Speaker 4: like sexting me basically, so I just kind of expected
Speaker 4: something else was going to happen. I mean she was
Speaker 4: asking me like very explicit questions. She was like, do
Speaker 4: you like full bush? Do you want to show?
Speaker 5: That?
Speaker 3: Came out on nowhere?
Speaker 2: So that so you guys, so so Laura, you were
Speaker 2: talking to him about your grooming and talking to.
Speaker 5: Him very dramatic. He's exaggerating that. First of all, No,
Speaker 5: I mean I am a little maybe a little flirty
Speaker 5: or on text for sure, I'm kind of shy in person,
Speaker 5: but I don't he's being He's exaggerating.
Speaker 3: So I mean exaggerating that. Yeah, explain the exaggeration part.
Speaker 5: I I mean maybe I just you know, like I said,
Speaker 5: I'm a little flirty on text. By he's acting like
Speaker 5: I'm I'm like so forward and crazy. That's not the case.
Speaker 2: So you were sexty in a little bit, but then
Speaker 2: when you went back, uh to you Will some.
Speaker 7: Thinger flirting though, because I feel like we're getting two
Speaker 7: different versions of the story.
Speaker 5: Right to me, it's flirting to me, what did.
Speaker 3: You and Will?
Speaker 2: Why do you think you don't have to get into anything?
Speaker 2: But why besides her talking about how she grooms herself,
Speaker 2: was she talking about what she wanted you guys to
Speaker 2: do with each other?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, were you?
Speaker 1: Laura?
Speaker 4: I need I need to know these things because of
Speaker 4: what I've got planned. I mean, like, I think nothing's
Speaker 4: going to happen when someone says something like that, Laura,
Speaker 4: that's what you.
Speaker 5: Said, I may have I'll have to go back and
Speaker 5: look at exactly what was said.
Speaker 2: I'm okay, all right, So so that happens before you
Speaker 2: guys go back and then well, I'm assuming nothing happened,
Speaker 2: and you're now disappointed over the fact that nothing happened.
Speaker 4: I mean, nothing happened other than just making out a
Speaker 4: little bit, and like that's fine, that would have been fine.
Speaker 4: But like when you're I don't know that like just
Speaker 4: a little bit of a tease. I'm just not interested
Speaker 4: in like being kind of jerked around like that.
Speaker 3: That's the reason it was the first date.
Speaker 6: Did you did you try to say things further and
Speaker 6: she denied you or no?
Speaker 7: No, no, Wait to take the lead because of the.
Speaker 4: Time, I mean, when she's yeah, when she's sending me
Speaker 4: texts like that, I figure she's got a plan. So
Speaker 4: I'm gonna let her execute that plan.
Speaker 2: Okay, So why don't you why don't you ask her
Speaker 2: for another date and then maybe that becomes the next
Speaker 2: thing that you guys end up doing, or maybe it doesn't.
Speaker 3: Why don't you at least explore.
Speaker 4: No? I mean, because, like I said, it's kind of
Speaker 4: kind of felt like being jerked around and I'm just
Speaker 4: not into that, not into like tease, like, so I
Speaker 4: just was like, cut my losses. I'm not that into it.
Speaker 2: So you're thinking to yourself, Hey, everything seemed like we
Speaker 2: were going to, you know, be having sex with each other.
Speaker 2: It didn't happen on the first date. I'm not going
Speaker 2: to give it a second date. I'm not even gonna
Speaker 2: give her another chance to get a second date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because it just didn't seem worth it. It felt like
Speaker 4: a weird, weird way to start things off.
Speaker 2: So Okay, so I'm going to ask the listeners, and
Speaker 2: I'm going to ask everybody around the room.
Speaker 3: Here, we'll go around the room and ask your thoughts
Speaker 3: a four to four Ojoe Live.
Speaker 2: If she's sending text messages that lead to him believing
Speaker 2: that they are going to have sex, they don't have
Speaker 2: it on the first date. Do you think that he
Speaker 2: is in the wrong for not wanting another date and
Speaker 2: giving another chance. I think he is. I think I
Speaker 2: would at least give it another date. Especially did you
Speaker 2: enjoy her, like being with her and hanging out with her?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was fine. I mean I was not like
Speaker 4: bowled over. It was fine. There was nothing, you know.
Speaker 7: I feel like your answer would be very different if
Speaker 7: the end of the date went differently, Like to me,
Speaker 7: it's coming across as and yes, did she lead you
Speaker 7: on a little bit? Yeah, I think we could all
Speaker 7: acknowledge that. But it comes across to me that you
Speaker 7: only wanted one thing, and because you didn't get it,
Speaker 7: you're like, I'm kicking my ball and I'm going home.
Speaker 3: I don't want anything to do with her anymore.
Speaker 4: No. No, if she had said nothing, I would have
Speaker 4: been like, she's a cool girl, and we made out
Speaker 4: a little bit and maybe I'll check out what a
Speaker 4: second date would be like. But again, it like it's
Speaker 4: a I think it's I actually think it's like weird.
Speaker 1: But you like you.
Speaker 7: What I'm saying is you liked her enough, though to
Speaker 7: want something to happen, and you're disappointed that it didn't.
Speaker 4: I'm again, I'm not really disappointed that it didn't. I
Speaker 4: could live with it either way. I think it's a
Speaker 4: weird thing to send such forward text messages and then
Speaker 4: show up and act totally different. It was the technolages. Okay,
Speaker 4: what a lot, They're a lot.
Speaker 3: Vicky comment from you?
Speaker 4: What do you think Will's got to go?
Speaker 3: Sorry, dude, you got to go?
Speaker 1: That's like red flag behavior.
Speaker 3: Actually, because he's from Well, I think he was expecting
Speaker 3: to just have like a hook up.
Speaker 1: I don't think he was ever expecting more based on.
Speaker 4: The text.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, though, Laura, because obviously you
Speaker 2: think that Will's in the wrong. Was Laura at all
Speaker 2: in the wrong and being too forward in her texting?
Speaker 1: I that I wouldn't know. It just depends on the person.
Speaker 3: Some people are like that, some people aren't.
Speaker 7: I think too forward is the wrong phrase. But misleading
Speaker 7: is probably a great word, you know.
Speaker 4: Yep, that could be.
Speaker 8: But also, nobody should expect anything one way or the other.
Speaker 6: And if you're communicating that something's gonna happen. Though, Like,
Speaker 6: I think the only reason we're kind of viewing it
Speaker 6: from this way of misleading is.
Speaker 3: Because it's sexually related. If it was.
Speaker 6: Anything else that she put forth an expectation for and
Speaker 6: didn't follow through, I think we'd be having a different conversation.
Speaker 6: He wants what was promised, I guess, and because it
Speaker 6: wasn't promised, he's kind of like, all right, well, you know,
Speaker 6: maybe this is a sign of how she operates. Is
Speaker 6: this just a tale of who she is where she
Speaker 6: says something is going to happen and it doesn't happen.
Speaker 3: I would have given her a second.
Speaker 2: Date, but I just assume that there's always flirtation, like
Speaker 2: she's texting to him, But I would not assume that
Speaker 2: I'm getting, you know, anything at that moment past that
Speaker 2: I would say if I'm into her, I'm asking for
Speaker 2: another date obviously, But they have Bush talk. They did
Speaker 2: talk Bush what's going on? Jennifer?
Speaker 8: Hello, Hi there, I first time, long time.
Speaker 5: The flo.
Speaker 8: So yeah, I just wanted to make a little comment here.
Speaker 8: You know, there's a problem with I think expecting to
Speaker 8: get laid on a first date, and a lot of
Speaker 8: men seem to, you know, think that this is where
Speaker 8: things are at these days. So what she sent some
Speaker 8: flirty text messages, that doesn't mean she has to have
Speaker 8: sex with him. That night. Having sex with someone is
Speaker 8: like kind of an intimate thing, and you know what,
Speaker 8: she could be flirty. A lot of people are flirty.
Speaker 8: Men are flirty, women are flirty, But that doesn't mean
Speaker 8: that someone has to you know, put out on the
Speaker 8: first date like and I.
Speaker 2: Think that is and that she obviously was affectionate with him.
Speaker 2: They cast and did what other stuff. But you're right,
Speaker 2: I think there there is a little bit of an
Speaker 2: expectation that he has or thinking.
Speaker 3: That he wanted.
Speaker 6: His expectation didn't just come out of the blue, and
Speaker 6: we don't have the text message in front of us,
Speaker 6: or it's hard for us to decide exactly what was
Speaker 6: said and what he should have expected. But if we're
Speaker 6: taking what he's saying at phase value as the truth,
Speaker 6: then she communicated in such a way where he felt
Speaker 6: that she was ready to go there, and when he
Speaker 6: showed up, he was expecting her to go there and
Speaker 6: she didn't go.
Speaker 2: But but maybe he should have expected that. Maybe her
Speaker 2: thing was she was just gonna get kiss him and
Speaker 2: do all that stuff, and maybe he's got to go.
Speaker 2: Maybe there's a to be continued, and maybe episode number
Speaker 2: two is when they end up doing that. But he
Speaker 2: doesn't want an episode number two. He wants this to
Speaker 2: be a one night and that's it. What's going on?
Speaker 3: Hunter?
Speaker 4: I don't know?
Speaker 6: Hello?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hunter? What's going on?
Speaker 8: All right?
Speaker 3: I was more excitement than Will got from Laura. What's up?
Speaker 1: I don't think it's to play in the wrong.
Speaker 4: I really don't. I think he was set up for it.
Speaker 1: How could you?
Speaker 5: How can you really haven't been wrong?
Speaker 1: You think about it this way. If my girl tells me, hey, I'm.
Speaker 5: Gonna make you some nice chicken cutlets to get Oh,
Speaker 5: I got Chef Boy r D and McNuggets?
Speaker 1: How about be bad?
Speaker 4: That's not what I was told there was.
Speaker 1: Where's the plan going?
Speaker 2: So this man was expecting that he was going to
Speaker 2: get himself chick chicken cutlets and instead he got a
Speaker 2: can of Chef Boy r D.
Speaker 4: You're saying that's what we're working with here, are we?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay? Well? I don't know, Hunter.
Speaker 2: Do you get laid the first time all the time
Speaker 2: that you're out because you sound like a guy that
Speaker 2: is away with your words?
Speaker 1: No, No, I really don't.
Speaker 3: Okay, I do that.
Speaker 4: I mean, if I get it? Hey, we're hell, aren't we?
Speaker 3: Okay? I kind of like, what's up, Joe?
Speaker 1: How you doing?
Speaker 3: Are you guys doing? What'd you want to say?
Speaker 4: Joe? I, I just have a quick little snippet for
Speaker 4: you guys.
Speaker 1: But I'm pretty sure here's what happened.
Speaker 4: This girl texted her.
Speaker 2: Texted him a bunch of stuff.
Speaker 4: They got into it and the text he went out.
Speaker 1: He didn't perform and didn't close the deal, and now
Speaker 1: he's upset about it.
Speaker 2: Well, it sounded to me like he wasn't able to perform,
Speaker 2: so he didn't get to even do a performance.
Speaker 4: I wasn't interested in performing. I'm all set. It wasn't
Speaker 4: about that. It was about the text that came in before.
Speaker 4: It's weird to me once again, I will say I'm
Speaker 4: not interested in having sex with this girl.
Speaker 3: I wasn't then.
Speaker 4: I think it's weird that she was so forward in
Speaker 4: her text messages and then a completely different person when
Speaker 4: we actually met. That's the issue here.
Speaker 5: No, I like his perspective, because how could it be
Speaker 5: all my fault? Maybe I didn't like how you were
Speaker 5: handling things.
Speaker 1: So.
Speaker 4: Okay, but you're the one wondering why you've been ghosted,
Speaker 4: so you're obviously the one who hasn't let it go.
Speaker 5: Right, because why would why I never promised anything. I
Speaker 5: never promised anything on the first date, So for you
Speaker 5: to expect that, I mean, maybe I'm not.
Speaker 4: In So then before a first date, why would you
Speaker 4: send me such messages? I mean if people saw them,
Speaker 4: I think they'd have a different story.
Speaker 5: Well you have, you have to earn the other side
Speaker 5: of me, so just you get there.
Speaker 3: That's unfortunate for you.
Speaker 4: So far as to go on the radio. You're the
Speaker 4: one who felt, oh, I gotta go on the radio
Speaker 4: to figure this out. Well and I and I'm glad.
Speaker 5: I did because now I see who you are.
Speaker 3: So I'm glad I did. Jeff, what's up?
Speaker 1: So I got I gotta defend my boy? Will? Like
Speaker 1: so I know, like the thing it's gotta it's got
Speaker 1: to drop. I think it's the personality change. That's what
Speaker 1: I see. Is weird. Like so like you're expecting the
Speaker 1: vibe that's in the text, you get a completely different
Speaker 1: persons like a team moo switch.
Speaker 2: But by the way, shout out to our callers and
Speaker 2: Lydia and these these are the best second date update
Speaker 2: callers we've had in a while.
Speaker 3: Give it a nice round of applause, But it sounds excellent.
Speaker 2: The team reference to Chef Boy r D reference, those
Speaker 2: are unbelievable. But I, after hearing Laura and Will go
Speaker 2: back and forth, I think you guys both got the
Speaker 2: answer that you're looking for. And I think, honestly, Laura,
Speaker 2: I think you've got to be walking away from this
Speaker 2: happy that you got your answer because now you can
Speaker 2: just move on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm happy about that.
Speaker 4: I'm happy.
Speaker 3: All right, Thanks guys, we appreciate it. By Will, I
Speaker 3: appreciate you, guys,