WEBVTT - Second Date Update: He Got Grossed Out  

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date up date module in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica is getting ghosted and it's after they had sex.

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<v Speaker 2>So we won't get into details, so you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to pull the kids away from the radio. But we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna find out what's going on, Jessica. How'd you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 2>We met the old fashionway.

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<v Speaker 3>It's your mutual friends.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>So none of the apps are to be responsible for

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<v Speaker 2>this guy being a bad guy not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 5>No, screw the apps, They're terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny whenever you have a situation where you meet

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<v Speaker 2>through mutual friends and you can't get a hold of them,

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<v Speaker 2>are you too embarrassed to call the mutual friends and say, hey, have.

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<v Speaker 4>You heard from In this case, his name is Andrew. Andrew.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I guess it depends on how good

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<v Speaker 3>the mutual friend is with my friend.

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<v Speaker 4>I did ask, and they haven't talked about it, so

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Which, by the way, I've been the mutual friend in

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<v Speaker 2>situation and I've gotten the call where it's like they're

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<v Speaker 2>not calling back, and it is literally more embarrassing for

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<v Speaker 2>me than it probably is for them, because I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>I thought these things was going to work, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean? And I don't want to get into it.

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<v Speaker 2>But do you think you did anything that could be

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<v Speaker 2>the reason why?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean the date seemed good. We hooked up, Like

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<v Speaker 2>if it wasn't going well, I wouldn't think you'd, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>get down with somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>But and it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was on the actual one date or was it

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<v Speaker 2>after you guys had been together for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, it was bad. It was a one date.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was a one date. All right. Andrew's on

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<v Speaker 4>the phone with us right now, Jessica, say hi to Andrew.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Andrew.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, just I'm going.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess I've been better.

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<v Speaker 4>Andrew, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>First off, your mutual friend is somebody that's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be mad at you if you don't make this right

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<v Speaker 2>and at least either take her on an other date

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<v Speaker 2>or give a good explanation as to why you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to go on another day.

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<v Speaker 4>What's going what's happening? Is everything? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, everything's okay. You know, I'm I'm sorry for ghosting.

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<v Speaker 5>I just realized I was not really interested in the

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<v Speaker 5>second date.

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<v Speaker 6>So what was it about her that you don't want

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<v Speaker 6>to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, just just didn't really work out, Like you.

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<v Speaker 6>Just didn't like there wasn't a vibe or you weren't

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<v Speaker 6>attracted or it's got to be something specific.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, I mean you have to be honest, like I

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<v Speaker 1>just I wasn't really attracted to her.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, not your type. You had sex with her, You're

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<v Speaker 4>not attracted do her? You had sex?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah no I did. I did, and it

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was fine, you know, things were going

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<v Speaker 1>well and the well, we just kind of got into it.

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<v Speaker 8>And I just the vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>Was just kind of gone after.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yeah you can.

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<v Speaker 4>When you say got into it, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>No, got into it. I got you know, clothes removed,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stuff starting happening, and it just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe just the vibes just started to Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So you said the clothes came off and something funky.

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<v Speaker 6>There was a funky vibe, but you still you still

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<v Speaker 6>had sex with her, so it couldn't have been that bad.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like you're beating around the bush, like I

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<v Speaker 6>feel like there was something and you're trying to be nice,

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<v Speaker 6>which I appreciate but there was obviously something.

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica, did you send any of this? Did you sense

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<v Speaker 2>any awkwardness? Uh? When you guys were having sex.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't know there was anything going on until

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<v Speaker 3>he just stopped responding to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so he didn't anywhere.

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<v Speaker 9>Attracted to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm wondering why.

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, he didn't say that. He didn't say he wasn't

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<v Speaker 9>attracted to you.

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<v Speaker 4>He said he was until clothes came off. That's why

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<v Speaker 4>I'm confused. I'm confused to I'm like, I'm a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, he didn't like get surprises.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I don't know what was What was it?

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<v Speaker 2>Andrew, if you can be honest about it, because I

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<v Speaker 2>think that otherwise, if you're not honest about it, it

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<v Speaker 2>makes and if Jessica's still cool with that, it makes

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica look bad. As to what you've already just said,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you got to clear up what what you mean?

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<v Speaker 8>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>Truth be told.

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<v Speaker 5>Her skin was saggy like my seal talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 10>You know she shared with me that she had, you know,

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<v Speaker 10>taken weight loss pill or shot or something.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what it was.

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<v Speaker 10>And like, you know, kudos to her for for losing

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<v Speaker 10>the weight. But she she showed me pictures of her before,

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<v Speaker 10>and I kind of preferred the before, like a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Thicker, Jessica, Jessica, you lost a lot of weight.

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<v Speaker 9>Uh.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm on a zempic.

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<v Speaker 4>So what can I ask you a question of how

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<v Speaker 4>much weight did you lose?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm down like seventy pounds.

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<v Speaker 4>That's good for you. And so she lost seventy pounds.

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<v Speaker 2>She's getting healthier, and you're saying that you thought that

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<v Speaker 2>things look different than what you had thought that they

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<v Speaker 2>were going to look. The woman is being healthier.

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<v Speaker 1>She's being healthier, and like seriously, like Kudo's on that,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it's just not my preference in a girl.

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<v Speaker 4>But you liked her with her clothes on.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you all of a sudden change it and

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<v Speaker 2>say I don't like her with her clothes off.

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<v Speaker 1>Just things gotta got real once you know, came off,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw things differently, And.

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<v Speaker 4>How would you feel?

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<v Speaker 2>How would you feel if she did the same to

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<v Speaker 2>you and said, oh, this guy looks great with his clothes,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, on, and then all of a sudden you

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<v Speaker 2>take your clothes off, and there's something that's distinctive about

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<v Speaker 2>you that she doesn't like I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, I probably wouldn't like it. And that's honestly why

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of ghosted. I felt bad about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know how to deal with it. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>mutual friend thing. I don't I didn't want to. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to have to say this because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>if she.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't, if she didn't tell you that she had lost weight,

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<v Speaker 2>do you think you would have noticed?

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty apparent.

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<v Speaker 4>Because there's there's a lot of okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 6>I know there are I know a lot of women

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<v Speaker 6>who have lost significance about of weight, whether it was

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<v Speaker 6>Osempic or just naturally or whatever. And this is an

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<v Speaker 6>issue and one that they are aware of and very

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<v Speaker 6>self conscious of in the first place. And you know,

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<v Speaker 6>one of my friends, she wants to have a surgery

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<v Speaker 6>to get that fixed, like it's some it's this has

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<v Speaker 6>to be so tough for her because you're not You

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<v Speaker 6>look in the mirror every day at yourself, and she's aware.

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<v Speaker 4>What, Jessica, what are you thinking when you're hearing this?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I mean I just kind of I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>first and foremost, when I took my clothes off, if

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<v Speaker 2>you were not into it.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have stopped the action there.

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<v Speaker 3>But also it just kind of feels like you can't win.

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<v Speaker 4>With men, Like, yeah, when you're overweight, they're.

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<v Speaker 7>Not They're down to after you, but they don't want

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<v Speaker 7>to update you because you're overweight, and then you lose weight.

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<v Speaker 3>Now your skin is saggy.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just like it's yeah, I'm also I feel like

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<v Speaker 6>any woman who's had a baby right now is feeling

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<v Speaker 6>is feeling something.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I know I am Tina. What did you want

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<v Speaker 4>to say, Tina?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean he did try to be nice and not

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<v Speaker 7>say but I agree with her, like he should have just.

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<v Speaker 8>Not went through with it. If the skin was gonna bug.

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<v Speaker 4>That would have hurt too. Though.

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<v Speaker 9>Imagine imagine you find a gentleman so attractive, you finally

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<v Speaker 9>able to lay down with him. Everything's good, you take

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<v Speaker 9>off your clothes and he says, wait.

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<v Speaker 2>A second, we're not going to go any further. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Like that would have been terrible too. You don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to say, wait a second, we're not gonna go any further.

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<v Speaker 2>You can stop, you can stop short, just kiss or

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<v Speaker 2>do other stuff.

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<v Speaker 11>But I I think it's interesting though that he was

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<v Speaker 11>so wildly attracted to her to get her to a

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<v Speaker 11>point to do that, and then all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 11>he looks at a little bit of skin as this

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<v Speaker 11>is too much.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Jeff, Jeff, what's going on? Yep?

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<v Speaker 8>I agree, Mojoe. I think I think she made the

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<v Speaker 8>typical mistake of putting not on.

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<v Speaker 1>The first date.

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<v Speaker 8>And then you know, he he's saying is not attracted.

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<v Speaker 8>But he was attracted enough, you know, to bake cookies

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<v Speaker 8>with her. But then all of a sudden, now that

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<v Speaker 8>he's got his trophy, he wants to move on.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I mean, they will say this.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want people to saying that you made the

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<v Speaker 2>mistake of sleeping with it on a first date, because

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, people sleep on the together on the

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<v Speaker 2>first date. They're grown acid. Yeah, and let them be

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<v Speaker 2>able to do that. I hate when people sit there

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<v Speaker 2>and now and I do not want this call. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to call of going this is what you

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<v Speaker 2>get when you sleep with somebody on the first date.

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<v Speaker 4>You know it goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Screw yourself, because that is not yours to tell Jessica this,

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<v Speaker 2>because you're absolutely right, Jessica, he also did it too,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's doing that when you give somebody the intimacy

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<v Speaker 2>of your sex, I think that you owe them more

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<v Speaker 2>than just a I'm going to not call you back,

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<v Speaker 2>or I'm going to come on Mojo in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm going to tell.

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<v Speaker 6>Them this, Taylor, and to be very honest with you, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to keep hating on him, because if

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<v Speaker 6>you're not attracted to somebody, you're not attracted to somebody,

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<v Speaker 6>and you're allowed to think that and feel that way.

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<v Speaker 6>It just really sucks. It sucks that this is the

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<v Speaker 6>reason for her because now she's going to be even

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<v Speaker 6>more self conscious about that. So he's he is not

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<v Speaker 6>in the wrong for saying I'm simply not attracted to you.

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<v Speaker 4>He's in the wrong for not lying. I hate to

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<v Speaker 4>say it. I would if I'm him, I'm lying and

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<v Speaker 4>not telling her the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>I really wouldn't because I wouldn't tell the truth in

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<v Speaker 2>this one because it's hurtful.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just forced to me to tru things wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you come up with, Hey, you know what, bro,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know what's up Taylor better than one.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So a while back, I had like a similar experience

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<v Speaker 3>where I met a guy. He looked good dressed, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>his face was attractive, and as soon as we got

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<v Speaker 3>along the clothes came off. He had on like the

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<v Speaker 3>actual like full body like girdle like she would say,

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<v Speaker 3>and yeah, all.

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<v Speaker 4>The game was loose. It was like kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>a sharp pay.

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<v Speaker 11>And that was it?

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<v Speaker 6>Like that killed. Did you have sex talks that are

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<v Speaker 6>like super super wrinkling, have lots of folds?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you have sex on him wrapping?

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<v Speaker 6>I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I was really young back then, so it was like

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<v Speaker 3>the pressure of the expectation, you know, but it was

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<v Speaker 3>not attractive and he never heard from me again.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I ask you? Can I ask you a question?

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<v Speaker 8>Though?

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<v Speaker 4>Was he at least good at taking care of you?

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<v Speaker 1>It was?

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<v Speaker 4>It was not the worst experience. Okay, so the sharp

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<v Speaker 4>day actually did well. That girdle had girth?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I I had a friend one time that said

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<v Speaker 2>to me when I lost Wade, they said, there's rumors

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<v Speaker 2>that when you lose weight, your d gets bigger. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's like not really, it's just that now you can

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<v Speaker 2>actually see it. What's going on, Sarah?

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<v Speaker 4>How you doing good?

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<v Speaker 9>How are you?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't really have much new to say.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just kind of you drug the story out of

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<v Speaker 6>him and then you roasted him.

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<v Speaker 9>For telling that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, though I drug the story out of him,

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<v Speaker 2>he could have easily stopped short and said something different.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you know you think that it's not hurtful.

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<v Speaker 4>Jessica's hurt. I can tell that she's hurt. She's not

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<v Speaker 4>saying anything. It's hurtful.

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<v Speaker 6>But when he when you push him and push him,

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<v Speaker 6>he didn't.

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<v Speaker 7>Want to say the story, and you kept.

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<v Speaker 9>No will say the true, exactly the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you blame the god for being true. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>there's certain times where it's okay to lie. Hey, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on, Jamie?

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<v Speaker 4>It's crazy?

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, I just want to say, like so, I'm a

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<v Speaker 7>three time seat session mama. I've recently lost ninety pounds.

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<v Speaker 7>I did body dys Marcia. I have looked in the

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<v Speaker 7>mirror every day and I find think that I don't

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<v Speaker 7>like again that I didn't like when I was heavy,

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<v Speaker 7>And I just have to you have to learn to

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<v Speaker 7>love like every part of yourself no matter what. But

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<v Speaker 7>I just want to say that there are real men

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<v Speaker 7>out there that will pick all that up like pizza,

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<v Speaker 7>go and put it on my lap. And if that

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<v Speaker 7>doesn't work, she can only go to women because.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, listen, I'm happy for you, Jessica. I'm happy

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<v Speaker 2>that you lost weight. I know the feeling has to

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<v Speaker 2>be great. Seventy pounds ain't no joke. You're better for it.

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<v Speaker 2>You're you know, going to be healthier for it. And Andrew,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're going to find yourself that perfect woman

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<v Speaker 2>that you're looking for.

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<v Speaker 4>Good luck, she'll probably be crazy. Andrew doesn't want to talk.

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<v Speaker 4>I think so as I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you all.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date update, I'm gonna stand up for my uh people.

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<v Speaker 4>You feel personally attacked, I do. I feel personally attacked.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna show you my sharpay. Have you know your.

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<v Speaker 8>Your home of the Roses, It'll find life to tell

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<v Speaker 8>your mom, Tones, cams, and Shannon's dirty on the thirty.

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<v Speaker 4>This is in the morning.