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Speaker 1: Good morning, what's happening? It is Friday, February twentieth, twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty six. Good morning, It's Rovery's morning glory. I'm Rover.

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Speaker 1: Charlie is here. Hi, Snitzer is here. Amen, Crystal is here. Hello,

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Speaker 1: And mister Jeffrey Allen laroque la oh lahahah is here

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Speaker 1: as well. You're with us eight sixty six, Yo. Rover

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Speaker 1: is the number eight six six nine six seven six

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Speaker 1: eight three seven. That's how you reach the show. Give

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Speaker 1: us a call at that number. You get text us

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Speaker 1: at that number that comes into the studio in real time.

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Speaker 1: But the best way give us a call eight six

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Speaker 1: six nine six seven six eight three seven. I'll get

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Speaker 1: to your email here in just a moment. Jeffrey, maybe

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Speaker 1: today could be your big day to shine doo. She

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Speaker 1: is not here. Maybe you maybe you come into the

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Speaker 1: main studio. I mean it's oh wow, that'd be awesome.

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Speaker 1: It's either you or it could be either you or

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Speaker 1: christ Oh he's taking Oh he's good in there, he

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Speaker 1: is taking the opportunities. Yeah, he's taking the opportunity and

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Speaker 1: there coming in he's boy, he wasted no time jumping up.

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Speaker 1: You know you have to you know you have to

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Speaker 1: grab life by the by the horns, right, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: there's some sort of phrase like that, something something along.

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Speaker 2: By the horns, you know.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, you're doing that too, all right, Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: something like that, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I've never seen him so jolly walking.

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Speaker 4: That's a new walk because it was the most not

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Speaker 4: the cool guy walk. Yeah, it reminded me of Snitzer's walker.

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Speaker 3: Remember when we all did that.

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Speaker 4: We all tried the cool guy walk, and Snitzer had

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Speaker 4: this kind of bounce to his step, and that was

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Speaker 4: what Jeffrey just did, this little jazzy walk.

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Speaker 3: He was so exciting.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you can't wait to get in the

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Speaker 1: big studio, and now perhaps this is your moment to shine.

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Speaker 1: Don't let us down, Jeffrey, try not to. Okay, let

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Speaker 1: me see here, let me get to some email. Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, this is a long email. Let's see here, Charles. Right,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Rover. Regarding the segment yesterday when you brought

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Speaker 1: up the monkey study in relation to athletes competing for

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Speaker 1: a gold medal, you were absolutely correct in your prediction

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Speaker 1: of Amber Glenn. She performed great yesterday because she had

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Speaker 1: nothing to lose. I wanted to also point out that

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Speaker 1: figure skater Alyssa lose gold medal when yesterday is a

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Speaker 1: perfect example of what you're trying to explain to Douci.

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Speaker 1: Melissa lou came into the skating competition's stating quote, I

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Speaker 1: don't need a medal. I just needed to be here

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Speaker 1: and show people what I do. And it showed unlike

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Speaker 1: many of the other competitors, she didn't compete like her

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Speaker 1: life was on the line, and she doesn't seem to

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Speaker 1: take herself too seriously. Her mindset allowed her to have

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Speaker 1: fun and in the end she won the gold night

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Speaker 1: and day attitude from amberg Line, who seemed severely stressed

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Speaker 1: about everything. Ps USA Women's Hockey kicked ass. I saw

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Speaker 1: they won an overtime. I didn't watch any of that,

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Speaker 1: think about like fifteen minutes into overtime, and they did

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Speaker 1: kick ass. You watch any of the figure skating yesterday? No?

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Speaker 1: I did not. What did you do last night? What

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Speaker 1: do you watch?

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Speaker 2: Nothing?

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Speaker 1: Really nothing, you don't.

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Speaker 5: I was just watching this episode of Frontline ware profilely

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Speaker 5: Hugo Chavas, who you see the leader of Venezuela, the

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Speaker 5: politics that he was involved in. So I really don't

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Speaker 5: have the ability to watch any of the Olympics because,

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Speaker 5: like I said, I don't have live TV.

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Speaker 1: You don't have an antenna yet?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 1: Why not not? Just free? I mean, you get the antenna.

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Speaker 1: You can watch all this this stuff on TV for free.

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Speaker 7: And it's like hundreds of channels, way more around to

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Speaker 7: getting one. Yet there's way more than you think there are.

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Speaker 7: There's not just four channels. Each channel has five channels

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Speaker 1: So invest in a quality HDTV antenna. Angelina writes, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to write an email and show appreciation for the show.

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Speaker 1: I just recently lost my dad to cancer right before

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. It's been a very rough month watching him

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Speaker 1: slowly get worse every day. Your show gives me a

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Speaker 1: Love you all, Angelina, Well, Angelina, thank you for that

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Speaker 1: makes me feel good. I like, I don't like you

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Speaker 1: know what she's going through, but I do like that

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Speaker 1: we bring a little bit of comfort to people. Emily writes,

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Speaker 1: You're over. I'm in Cape Town, South Africa for a

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Speaker 1: few weeks and I brought just two hundred dollars US

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Speaker 2: I believe that's their unit of money in South Africa.

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Speaker 1: And it was a huge stack of twenty dollars bills

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Speaker 1: in a Crown Royal bag and no one questioned it.

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Speaker 1: What they did question was my makeup mirror, to the

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Speaker 1: point that they took it in a back room to

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Speaker 1: test it. I've flown quite a bit and I always

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Speaker 1: been an issue before. I'm traveling alone. And even though

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Speaker 1: for you to start the show, I do love having

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Speaker 1: a piece of home with me. What do you think

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Speaker 1: she's doing in South Africa by herself?

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Speaker 2: I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's a long day, long distance dating. Maybe she

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Speaker 1: met somebody on mine bat or business trade. Do you

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Speaker 5: I mean, like anything is not without not within the

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Speaker 5: realm of possibility.

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Speaker 2: It could be a long.

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Speaker 1: Distance maybe she's going on a solo safari.

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Speaker 2: Who knows? It could be any like I said, it

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Speaker 2: could be anything.

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Speaker 1: What kind of makeup mirror is do chicks have with

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Speaker 1: batteries in there?

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Speaker 2: One of the ones that light up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they light up. How big are these things?

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Speaker 4: Well, you can get a travel size makeup bag and

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Speaker 4: the lid of it could be a mirror, so not

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Speaker 5: I remember when my mom was a bartender. She this

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Speaker 5: her She would just sit there and style herself off

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Speaker 5: for work because she was a bartender for a long

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Speaker 5: time and that was a ritual for Heba.

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Speaker 2: But she says she was always happy.

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Speaker 5: Is when she got that when she'd when she took

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Speaker 5: said she was so relieved, so happy, not that.

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Speaker 1: To put the ship to try and impress those dudes. Right.

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Speaker 2: So now the only time that she does do some

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Speaker 1: Mmmm hm, Phil, right, you're over. I just started listening

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Speaker 1: to yesterday's show and I heard the Dougie uses baby

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Speaker 1: wipes to clean her anus and then throws those disgusting

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Speaker 1: easier to just run the faucet put some water on

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Speaker 1: toilet paper. I remember twenty something years ago my roommate

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Speaker 1: at the time said his girlfriend complained his balls smelled

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Speaker 1: was flabbergasted and asked why. I said, remember when you

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Speaker 1: but it really just smears and leaves remnants. He started

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Speaker 1: stop the disgusting habit of throwing them away in the trash.

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Speaker 1: Just wet the toilet paper.

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Speaker 7: The toilet paper would melt gross. I don't know if

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Speaker 7: I have a cheap toilet paper, you get that thing wet,

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Speaker 7: it's just going to crop. It's going to disintegrate this guy.

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Speaker 7: You're gonna be covered in dingleberries too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Phil says that you guys are stupid for not

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Speaker 1: wetting your toilet paper. You what your toilet paper?

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Speaker 2: I used to try toilet paper. Also, why does ball

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I think he's going the wrong way, Dorothy right.

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Speaker 1: I heard an email the other day where someone brought

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Speaker 1: up Jeffrey's antique gallery in Findlay, Ohio. I was excited

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Speaker 1: to hear it came up because I've been wanting to

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Speaker 1: write into the show for quite some time about this.

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Speaker 1: The fact that it's a flea market that shares Jeffrey's

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Speaker 1: name seems like a cool reason to check it out.

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Speaker 1: Are you interested in this, chef?

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Speaker 2: I might take the under advisement.

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Speaker 1: I happen to work at a restaurant one exit south

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Speaker 1: of the flea market and always thought this would be

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Speaker 1: a great road trip for the Laroque clan. The restaurant

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Speaker 1: I work at is a local gem that's known for barbecue, ribs, pizza,

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Speaker 1: and an amazing salad bar that I think Mary Elizabeth

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Speaker 1: Toma Sharon would enjoy checking out. So, Jeffrey, it sounds

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Speaker 1: bit of everything for you. My excitement dissipated slightly when

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Speaker 1: I heard how disinterested Jeffrey seemed about the idea. I

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Speaker 1: If not, I would like to offer one more stop.

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Speaker 1: I also work at a close by H and R

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Speaker 1: Block office. It's a franchise location, so our pricing is

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Speaker 1: usually significantly less than corporate offices. Furthermore, I would gladly

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Speaker 1: prepare Jeffrey's taxes free of charge through H and R Block.

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Speaker 1: He's a very hard working man and he gets picked

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Speaker 1: on at tax time. I don't want to see him

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Speaker 1: get ripped off ever again. If you're interested, I'll even

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Speaker 1: send him a gift card to the restaurant to help

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Speaker 1: offset the cost of the excursion. Well, if you're doing

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Speaker 1: his taxes, you better hope you don't claim all the

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Speaker 1: free stuff he gets as income, because watch out, man,

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Speaker 1: this guy would be paying taxes off for the next

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Speaker 1: twenty years. Are you interested in all of this?

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Speaker 5: I do you have my tax appointment set up for

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Speaker 5: for like March, you know, for for the office.

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Speaker 2: In Lakewood, the one I usually go to.

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Speaker 1: You know you could change that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and I think we have all our stuff,

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Speaker 5: so you take I'll take the under advisement.

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Speaker 1: I mean she's offering to do it for free, I believe.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that what she said? Here?

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Speaker 3: For free?

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Speaker 1: She said, for free, free of charge?

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Speaker 5: She says, Well, I gues said, I'll take the under advicement.

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Speaker 5: Means I really, I'll really think about it.

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Speaker 3: When's the tax appointment that you have set up?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Think to like the middle of March.

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Speaker 1: Let's see here. Excuse me, Don writes, I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: why this hasn't been mentioned, so I'm kind of wondering

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Speaker 1: if maybe you don't know about it. But after Crystal

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Speaker 1: had her adult crying session over her roof, Charlie referred

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Speaker 1: a friend of his who could help her out. That

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Speaker 1: friend went over to Crystal's house. Well, after they got

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Speaker 1: a backstabbing see you next Tuesday and told this guy

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Speaker 1: how she would how she works on the radio.

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Speaker 7: She went, she got the guy over my recommendation, Yes,

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Speaker 7: I've known since seventh grade.

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Speaker 7: Then Crystal goes over and then while she's there, she's like,

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Speaker 6: There's no roof? I mean, where do you go from there?

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Speaker 3: Oh I'm so sweet.

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Speaker 4: Now, I will tell you what I was saying to

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Speaker 1: Hey, Charlie, you're giving a weird look in there as

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Speaker 6: Well, because she knows I'm having roof problems too.

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Speaker 1: You're having roof we kind of lightly.

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Speaker 7: Mine's not really a roof problem gutter problem, to gutter

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Speaker 7: It's been two or three years. They just won't. They

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Speaker 7: I don't care about the free roof. Can I just

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Speaker 6: Just keep going back and forth, just keep NonStop.

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Speaker 1: Why would the place just fix your gutter? You're gonna

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Speaker 1: pay for it, right, Well, that's what I originally called for. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I said, hey, not going through insurance, can you can

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Speaker 7: Me the numbers to your crew? I don't know if

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Speaker 1: How does he have to talk to Ola? Is that

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Speaker 1: what he says, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he speak Spanish down there.

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Speaker 7: So then I said, can you do that? He goes, WHOA,

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Speaker 7: you don't have to You won't have to pay for it.

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Speaker 7: But don't worry, we'll hook you up. We'll come over

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Speaker 7: and we'll look at it. Go okay, cool, and I go, well,

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Speaker 7: through your insurance, we'll get it. And they get there

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Speaker 7: they go, holy roof, Oh it's bad roof. We can

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Speaker 7: the roof or do whatever with the insurance company, that's fine.

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Speaker 7: Just please get me my gutter fixed. And they said, okay.

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Speaker 7: Then there's insurance arguments. There's adjusters coming over my house.

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Speaker 7: They're trying to test lead in my sighting, they're trying

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Speaker 7: about fix the gutter. Just please fix the gut. Three

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Speaker 7: I might eve been trying to think of when it

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Speaker 7: but also very same I mean almost the same exact company,

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 1: How hard is it to put up a gutter?

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Speaker 7: I don't know, I'm sure it's not too hard. I

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Speaker 7: I really, you don't want it to look bad. I

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Speaker 6: I think. I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I'm not gonna do it because I've been waiting for

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Speaker 6: No, I'm not talking to them.

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Speaker 1: You told me to.

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Speaker 7: You told me to never them out. Oh, I think

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Speaker 7: it's all too late now now I'm in. There's it's

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Speaker 7: way too late now, the guy, oh no, because this

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Speaker 1: You forget about the insurance she's paid for out of

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Speaker 7: I don't want to now that I've done all this,

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Speaker 7: I don't want to pay for it. I have insurance.

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Speaker 7: I don't I want the insurance to pay for the

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Speaker 7: a big rainstorm and very windy, my gutter flew off.

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Speaker 7: That's the insurance. That's the whole point of having insurance.

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Speaker 7: It's the entire purpose of having the house insurance. That's

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Speaker 1: How much do you think it's going to cost to replace?

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Speaker 6: It's the principle, it's really the principle of the matter.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing you forget about. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: it's gonna cost you. I don't know how big of

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Speaker 1: one hundred dollars. I mean, how hard is It's a gutter.

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Speaker 7: It's better than just made the claims. They've made the claims.

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Speaker 7: They've made tons of claims. Again, the insurance adjuster has

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Speaker 7: been over. They've all been on my roof arguing with

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Speaker 6: And I go, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't care at the I don't care. I don't care

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Speaker 1: about the roof. Just fix the gutter, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Just pay for the gutter out of your pocket. No no,

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Speaker 1: let's see, bay, I pay insurance. Yeah, but I pay

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Speaker 6: You know, hundreds of dollars pay to an insurance.

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Speaker 1: I unders rip off.

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Speaker 6: It's a complete skin rip off.

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Speaker 7: I will make sure I get my money from only

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Speaker 7: if you're only trying to get one hundred and two

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Speaker 7: go through the insurance that insurance should be.

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Speaker 1: And now because you're gonna end up dropping, you're raising

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Speaker 2: What's the section of gutter that was damaged? What's the

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Speaker 6: Fifteen feet? Probably, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It couldn't cost that much, you know to replace?

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Speaker 5: Well, I know, but I just think that sometimes I

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Speaker 7: I think the insurance company will pay for the gutter

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Speaker 7: because the gutter fell off. They got involved with arguing

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Speaker 7: My roof is fine, And they decided to start this

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Speaker 7: As I keep going, I don't don't care about the roof,

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Speaker 7: just come over and fix the gutter. And then the call,

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Speaker 7: oh's good. Did you hear from the shirt? No, you

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Speaker 7: told me to never talk to the trance.

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Speaker 1: These guys are just trying to get the most amount

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Speaker 1: of money they can. I understand the company. Yeah, so, okay,

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Speaker 1: I get what their business. I get how their business operates.

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Speaker 1: This one didn't work. That's fine. That's what they do

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Speaker 7: They they look at roofs, they look at shingles that go, okay,

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Speaker 7: we get a roof. We'll we'll say this is gonna

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Speaker 7: I get their whole business. I get what they're doing.

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Speaker 7: Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't work. This time it's

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Speaker 1: Just pay for the gutter out of your pocket. Forget

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Speaker 1: about insurance paying for this.

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Speaker 6: I just won't have a gutter. How important is that?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. You really want the gutter for

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Speaker 1: some reason. I'm assuming it must be doing something.

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Speaker 4: To steer water away from your house to make foundation stronger.

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Speaker 1: Right, That's what your insurance company will say is now

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Speaker 1: they'll say, oh, you haven't had a gutter for three years.

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Speaker 1: You're the and you knew about it. You're the problem.

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Speaker 6: Why your roof is they have the clean of the cleim.

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Speaker 1: Michelle says, how much is Charlie's deductible? It's probably more

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Speaker 7: So the fact that you let insurance companies just run

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Speaker 7: over you. I'm not going to pay an insurance company

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Speaker 7: and then not make them pay me.

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Speaker 1: So if you have one thousand dollars deductible, you want

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Speaker 1: to make a file acclaim for a two hundred dollars gutter.

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Speaker 6: And end up I don't know how much the gutter is.

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Speaker 1: You have to pay that out of your pocket anyways.

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Speaker 6: Okay, maybe the insurance company's going to pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I give them money. They're going to then pay me back.

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Speaker 1: No, No, that's how you know. That's not how it

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Speaker 1: works with your deductible. They go, you have to pay

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Speaker 1: the first X amount of dollars. Anything over we'll cover,

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Speaker 1: and if we'll see, well, we've got to be seeing

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Speaker 1: for years. It's been going on for years, Dan, I'm sorry, Ben,

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Speaker 1: writes Rover. Why does Crystal get a pass over Jeffrey?

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Speaker 1: I was going to write in after she cried about

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Speaker 1: most likely embarrassing her entire neighborhood. She is an adult,

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Speaker 1: and at least Jeffrey has an excuse and a second job.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's time putting down a phone screener job and

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00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: getting an adult job bare minimum. She needs a second

436
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 1: job she has h Okay, now he's just getting mean.

437
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 1: No wonder these days and kids these days display no

438
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 1: to little work ethic. It's people like Crystal having kids

439
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 1: and setting a slough like example. She doesn't need to

440
00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 1: worry about Netflix, who, et cetera if she's working. My

441
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 1: mom was a single, divorced mom of two by the

442
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,639
Speaker 1: age of eighteen, She worked her ass off to support

443
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,959
Speaker 1: my sister and me. My sister and I did the

444
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: same and are successful professionals, earning well into these six figures.

445
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: Does she not care about her daughter in her future?

446
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 1: Maybe Jeffrey can have a talk with her. She's the

447
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: type of person who blames society for her condition. I

448
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Why is everyone going after Crystal?

449
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,679
Speaker 1: I could take it, especially for her roof, which I

450
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 1: don't know that hasn't even been broad up.

451
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 2: Well, I could.

452
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Speaker 5: The roof is pretty costly, you know, a costly thing

453
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 5: to repair in a house, you know, I mean she

454
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 5: doesn't have the money, the money, you know, you know.

455
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, huh, you know, all right.

456
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 5: So it's just, you know, she has the one job,

457
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 5: and you know she has other expenses she's got to pay.

458
00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 5: You know, she's got to find a way to scroll

459
00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 5: money away for a new roof.

460
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 3: My job lets me pay my bills. Could pay my bills.

461
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 3: I can eat.

462
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,199
Speaker 4: I'm always appreciative of that. I could eat, you know,

463
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 4: I spend most of my money honestly on food. But

464
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 4: I can pay my bills. I just don't have any

465
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 4: extra money to set aside two hundred dollars a month

466
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 4: to pay for a roof. Every month. I don't have

467
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 4: that extra money to put away in savings. I don't

468
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 4: That's where I'm running into the problem. If I can't

469
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 4: save any money and I'm just getting by paying my bills,

470
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 4: paying the credit card minimum, then it's kind of hard

471
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 4: to get ahead. I am not making six figures. Boy

472
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 4: do I wish I was? Then maybe, yeah, I could

473
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,679
Speaker 4: pay for a roof. I would be able to do

474
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 4: all of these things without complaints. But I'm doing the

475
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 4: best that I can as a single mother, and I

476
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 4: do often think about getting a second job, which I've

477
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 4: had three jobs.

478
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Speaker 3: In my life before.

479
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 4: I mean, I've worked my ass off to get to

480
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 4: sit here and be a sloth and watch Netflix and

481
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 4: things like. I feel like I've earned that privilege by

482
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 4: this point to put my money to things that I

483
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 4: think are leisurely. So when I get home, I don't

484
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 4: want to, you know, shoot myself. I mean, because if

485
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 4: I get to that bare minimum, what's the point of

486
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 4: going to work and doing all those things that to me,

487
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 4: I need a little bit of pleasure to keep me going,

488
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:24,479
Speaker 4: keep me motivated, so that way I can earn more money.

489
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 4: Why do you think I'm going to these comic cons

490
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 4: on the side because I'm trying to earn extra money

491
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 4: get my name out there.

492
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 3: Like of course, I'm trying my best.

493
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Speaker 1: I thought you were trying to I thought you wanted

494
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Speaker 1: to meet a celebrity and run away with it. No.

495
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Speaker 4: I think they're just people honestly, and it's nice to

496
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 4: meet them. But they're just people like us, So no

497
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 4: big deal to meet.

498
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 1: You know.

499
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 4: Throughout my career here, I've met so many people that

500
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 4: does not matter whatsoever to me. It's really about perfecting

501
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 4: my skill set, which is talking all right.

502
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 3: I think that's been a good.

503
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 4: Mom, honestly, trying to show my daughter, Hey, I'm trying

504
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 4: to do my best. Look at me work hard.

505
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:05,719
Speaker 3: I don't know.

506
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 4: For ten years I worked at the radio station doing promotions.

507
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 4: It's not like I've just sat behind a computer. I

508
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,479
Speaker 4: was out there hauling gear all the time. So I

509
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 4: still do that stuff on the side. So I would

510
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 4: say I would be a really good role model.

511
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 1: Leslie says, I love the show Dougie trying to justify

512
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: Michael Jordan molesting that kid is unbelievable. As a mother,

513
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 1: I would kill someone if I saw a video of

514
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 1: someone doing this to my kid. Worse if it was

515
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: an uncle like Uncle Mike, As Dougie stated, what if

516
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: she saw Uncle Rover or Uncle Charlie or Uncle Jeffrey

517
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: do this to her kid? What would she say and do? Now?

518
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: I don't know what was going on with Michael Jordan

519
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 1: at the Daytona five hundred, and I don't know I would.

520
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: I would say this for whatever reason. The father this

521
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: race car driver doesn't seem to have an issue with it,

522
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 1: so he must they must have had, he must have known,

523
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: or I don't know what was going on. It is

524
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: a weird looking video, I'll grant you that, but maybe

525
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: there's more to the story. I don't know, Tammy says.

526
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: I watched the entire Daytona five hundred and the celebration

527
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: and the winner circle after the race. Michael Jordan was

528
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,959
Speaker 1: messing with the ice in the shirt and removing a

529
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 1: piece of confetti that stuck to the kid's leg. There

530
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: are multiple angles of the celebration from the winter circle,

531
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 1: and one of the angles shows this completely innocent interaction.

532
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: Michael Jordan is a friend of the family of the

533
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: winner and there was nothing to farious behind the action.

534
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: I haven't analyzed all the different angles Jen Rights Rover.

535
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 1: I have a Jeep compass, and within the last couple

536
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: of months of rock flew up and hit my windshield

537
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: on the freeway and left a big mark. I went

538
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: to a glass place to have it patched. I hated

539
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 1: the way it looked. So my insurance covered all but

540
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars of having the whole windshield replaced. If

541
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: you have full coverage, you should be able to have

542
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: coverage on your windshield as well. Also, it did not

543
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: affect my rate at all. Nothing went up, nothing changed. Yeah,

544
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: I got to figure out what's going on with the

545
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: Luckily this little teeny tiny nick it hasn't grown. But

546
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: we'll see what happens. Tony says, if you tie Crystal's

547
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,479
Speaker 1: hands behind her back, would she be able to talk?

548
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: Her arms are like one of those inflexible things in

549
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: front of a car dealership.

550
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 3: Probably not.

551
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 4: Honestly, I've been seeing a therapist and they think that

552
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 4: I might have ady h D and that I should

553
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 4: test for it. And if you ever notice, I'm always

554
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 4: shaking my legs or doing something. So my boyfriend has

555
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 4: actually restricted my hands before, and then once he does,

556
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 4: then I started moving my legs.

557
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, what does he do He ties you up, restricts

558
00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 1: your hands.

559
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, because he notices that I'm always doing something with

560
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 4: my hands, with my leg I'm always moving a body

561
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 4: part and so he'll sometimes just stop my foot from shaking,

562
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 4: but then my hands will start doing something.

563
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 3: So I'm just constantly what are you.

564
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 1: Going to a therapist for? And how long have you

565
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: been seeing this? The actually hold on to that thought.

566
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: I've got to take a break. Eight six six yo

567
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 1: Rover is our number will be right back. Hang Crystal,

568
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 1: you before they break. You said that you're in therapy now,

569
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 1: I don't know how long you've been in therapy and

570
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: what are you in therapy for?

571
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 4: Well, we actually get eight sessions for free every year

572
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 4: as part of our health insurance. Oh I do, so

573
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 4: you should take advantage of it if you ever want

574
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 4: to just talk to somebody for a little bit. And

575
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 4: that's what I am doing right now because I go

576
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,959
Speaker 4: through bouts of depression my whole life, and sometimes it's

577
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 4: nice to just talk to somebody who is, you know,

578
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 4: just a person not in your life. They have no idea.

579
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 4: You could just kind of gush to them and then

580
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 4: they can either tell you you're you're wrong, or maybe

581
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 4: you should look at it in a different way or

582
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 4: make you feel better sometimes be able to relate to

583
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 4: what you're feeling. And so it's just nice to bounce

584
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 4: ideas back and forth through somebody.

585
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: You do this online or in person.

586
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,719
Speaker 4: I'm doing video, which is nice that you don't have to. Actually,

587
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 4: I hated going into someplace when I was younger. It's fine,

588
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 4: but I'm I don't know, it's so awkward sometimes to

589
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 4: just be sitting there in person. So the video calls

590
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 4: nice because I'm in the comfort of my own home,

591
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 4: so I feel a little bit more relaxed. But it's

592
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 4: been three weeks that I've been back in.

593
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: Therapy, and so what do you do once a week?

594
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 3: Yeah? Once a week?

595
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,239
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're going to do five more weeks of this?

596
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 8: Yeah?

597
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: Yes, Now have you seen any improvement after three weeks

598
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: of three sessions? Have you learned anything or made any strides? Well?

599
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 3: I actually like this therapist more than my last one.

600
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 4: The last one was just somebody who I did chitchat

601
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 4: with and she would talk back and forth with me. Fine,

602
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 4: no big deal, easy enough. But this one gives me homework.

603
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 4: So there's videos for me to watch after our sessions.

604
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 4: She wants me to record how I'm feeling throughout the week.

605
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 4: There's all sometimes prompts on things like what are my

606
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 4: values in life? And I was like, I've never actually

607
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 4: sat down and thought about my values before. And to

608
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 4: be able to put that, you know, kind of pen

609
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 4: to paper and think about some things. She does want

610
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 4: me to think about quitting marijuana.

611
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: Oh no, you don't want to hear that.

612
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 4: That is something she goes no pressure to, but think

613
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 4: about it. She's like, they've made strides in medicine nowadays too,

614
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 4: And since she does think I was misdiagnosed younger, She's like,

615
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 4: maybe there might be something that actually might benefit.

616
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: Well I diagnosed with when you were young. Depression depression, depression, okay?

617
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: And what is why? Why do they think? Why does

618
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: she think you were misdiagnosed?

619
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 4: She says that ADHD actually depression and anxiety. And I

620
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 4: struggle a lot with anxiety. It's part of my shak

621
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 4: shaky move all the time. That she sometimes that can

622
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 4: those little symptoms are actually symptoms of ADHD. And in women,

623
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 4: it's especially back in the day, a little harder to

624
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,959
Speaker 4: diagnose women with ADHD and especially now as an adult.

625
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 4: So she thinks that that is really more where I

626
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 4: lean than being depressed.

627
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 3: But you can be depressed and have ADHD.

628
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: So if we were to, if I were your therapist

629
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: and we're doing a session, how does it? What do

630
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: I say? Okay, Crystal, what do you want to talk

631
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: about today? Or do they tell you what to talk about?

632
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 4: It's kind of like here where you might start off

633
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 4: talking about nonsense, just everyday things, see and little things.

634
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 3: Oh I love coffee. Oh you have a coffee. I

635
00:31:58,720 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 3: love coffee.

636
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,479
Speaker 4: What do you have in your And that way you

637
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 4: can open up a little bit before you jump into

638
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 4: whatever it is that's on your on your mind, and

639
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 4: then she might ask you like how has your week

640
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 4: been or and then you can go, oh, you know,

641
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 4: it's been rough.

642
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: I not doing What did you talk about in your

643
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: last session?

644
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 3: A little?

645
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 4: I talk a little bit about everything, even some past

646
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 4: things that I don't realize. I was actually talking about

647
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 4: my family and my dad's passing and then my uncle's

648
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 4: passing a year later, the involvement of my dad in

649
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 4: my life, and kind of going through those things and

650
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 4: kind of pinpointing some things even though like I talk

651
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 4: about my sexual assault as a young person. When I

652
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 4: talk about it there in more detail, some things will

653
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 4: click more for me in my mind on why I

654
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 4: am the person I am today because of certain experiences

655
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 4: I had when I was younger.

656
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? What have you determined?

657
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: What how are you today?

658
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 4: Welly, finally I was like, you know, I finally put

659
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 4: two and two together that when I was twelve years

660
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 4: old trying to have sex with a boy in my

661
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 4: mom's house secretly because I thought that if I had

662
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 4: sex younger it would hurt less. And I think that

663
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 4: was because of my sexual assault, Because that hurts so

664
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 4: much that I correlated those two things for the rest

665
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 4: of my life. And that's why, even years later, was

666
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 4: still thinking, this is gonna hurt so much and I

667
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 4: don't want it to. So just those kinds of things

668
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 4: that I you know, I talk about here a little bit,

669
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 4: but to talk about it in greater depth and explore,

670
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 4: you know, reasonings I'm behind my personality.

671
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, but talking about it here it's free.

672
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 3: Right now, it's free. I have eight free sessions.

673
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 4: I was like to discuss and learn and then and

674
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 4: then yeah, I have these lessons to learn about different

675
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 4: things and what depression is, what it really.

676
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: Is, what is Yeah, I'm worried about like if well,

677
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: I can't say I've never been therapy. I guess I

678
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: don't know if I was ever in therapy. I remember

679
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 1: my when I was a young kid. I think I

680
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: went to a counselor a couple of times for something,

681
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: you know, bad behavior or something when I was like

682
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: ten or eleven or twelve or something like that. And

683
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: that didn't last long because you know immediately you go,

684
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: this is a waste of time, this is stupid. Now,

685
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: as an adult, I think I would be concerned. And

686
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: I don't know how it all works, but aren't you

687
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 1: concerned that you will now be flagged in the system

688
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: somewhere as you know, being a cuckoo or something. I'm

689
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: just like, does your employer know you're taking advantage of

690
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: these therapy sessions?

691
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 3: Well, this is the second time I have.

692
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: Uh huh.

693
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 4: I was like, and we get a lot of messages

694
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 4: about it. Hey, you get eight free therapy sessions. Use

695
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 4: these sessions. So that's how I've known about it, is

696
00:34:55,920 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 4: because I'll get emails or in your work day it'll say, hey,

697
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 4: and your benefits you have this, so take advantage of it.

698
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 4: And you pay for the insurance, you might as well

699
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 4: use it while you know like what you're paying for.

700
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 4: And since it does benefit me to talk about some

701
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 4: things that are going on in my life with somebody

702
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 4: that's a non you know, bias person, it's kind of

703
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 4: it's nice, it's freeing, it's a little bit of release,

704
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 4: it's reflection a lot, and I feel like that helps

705
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 4: me grow as a person.

706
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: Kimmy says, don't quit weed for a pill. Only a

707
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: non smoker would suggest this.

708
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 3: I also always have felt that way.

709
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 4: I would rather smoke a little weed than take medicine

710
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 4: every single day.

711
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,399
Speaker 3: I did do that for years. I hated it.

712
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 1: What did you take?

713
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 3: I was on well Bututrin for depression.

714
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 4: So maybe if I was on something else that was

715
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 4: geared more towards what I have, then maybe it would

716
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 4: benefit me more. But well Buttrin made me feel like

717
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 4: I was a zombe be. I was just living inside

718
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 4: a meat puppet walking around and you're just living your

719
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 4: life but not actually living h.

720
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Speaker 1: H Now. Jake says that depression medication will make your

721
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: sex drive nonexistent for sure. It then took me three

722
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: months to feel normal again once I stopped taking it. Now,

723
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: you are hyper sexual. If you were to take that

724
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: with that really interfere with this. This might be your

725
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 1: hyper sexuality might be one of the reasons why your

726
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: boyfriend likes you.

727
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 4: So I think it worries him. He's like, I need

728
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 4: to make sure I keep her please. She likes it

729
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 4: a lot, But I, I mean, I really love him

730
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:50,720
Speaker 4: a lot. We honestly if we didn't have a therapist.

731
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 1: Because I would just puke when I hear something like this.

732
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 4: I love him that much that I do love sex,

733
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 4: but I love him more than sex, definitely.

734
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I wouldn't want to take it as

735
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 3: an adult.

736
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 4: I feel like I've never taken it as an adult,

737
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 4: and I don't know how low my sex drive would go,

738
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 4: and I don't. It's a luxury, a pleasure in life

739
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,439
Speaker 4: that I don't want to give up. I told you guys,

740
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 4: I wouldn't no matter how much money was thrown at me.

741
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 4: I would never give up sex because I do think

742
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 4: it is a great connection moment in a relationship and

743
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 4: that you should have that.

744
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: So I wouldn't fore to.

745
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 1: Have billion dollars if they said we'll give you a

746
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: billion dollars, but you have to give up sex or

747
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: you can only have sex once a year. You'd say, nope,

748
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: forget it. Yeah, no, no, Charlie, with you for a

749
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: billion dollars? One billion dollars? They said, okay, you can

750
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 1: have this cash, but you can only have sex with

751
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: your girlfriend once a year or anybody once a year.

752
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: What do you do?

753
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 6: No, what's the point of living.

754
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: You have a billion dollars, So do what? You have

755
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: a yacht, you have a man, you have a helicopter

756
00:37:58,520 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 1: to give a private sex.

757
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's the whole point of all that stuff. So

758
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 7: if you said once a year, well, then maybe that's

759
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 7: what I say once a year. You did, well, okay,

760
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 7: we'll got sex once a year. He said never, Okay,

761
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 7: once a year. Maybe that's a maybe.

762
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: Uh. You think about it and think about that. You'd

763
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 1: only have how old are you have? Forty one? Say

764
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: you'd only have sex. You take this billion dollars. Let's

765
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: say you croak at age 'll just say eighty five.

766
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: You would only get to have sex forty four more

767
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: times in your entire life. Charlie, that's it.

768
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I have billions of dollars. That's pretty sweet.

769
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: What would you do? I don't know. That's pretty temp,

770
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: like a billion dollars give up sex for a billion? Man?

771
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: I might. I might have to do that. My wife

772
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: would probably be like, please, I'll do that for free.

773
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: I'd pay a billion dollars to stop having sex so much.

774
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I I minimum once a week. I

775
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 4: mean I don't think I could go any lower than

776
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 4: that once every two weeks. Maybe I feel like I've

777
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 4: done that now with skinny here and there where we

778
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 4: don't see each other for a period of time, and

779
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 4: two weeks is very long because I had decided kind

780
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 4: of went on the deader route and decided no pleasuring

781
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 4: myself with any kind of toys or anything when my

782
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 4: boyfriend isn't around. So I hold out and wait for him.

783
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 4: And so you tell me, really long.

784
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: You don't masturbate any longer.

785
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 3: It's very rare.

786
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 4: If we are going to go at two weeks without

787
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 4: seeing each other, I might that's a long time. But

788
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 4: if it's going to be a week, I hold out

789
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 4: for the week until I see him.

790
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: And has that improved your sex life? Would you say.

791
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 4: It has definitely changed it for sure, that I'm having

792
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 4: orgasms in different ways that I didn't think were possible.

793
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: And what do you mean orgasms in different way?

794
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 4: Well, I was so used to because I was married

795
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 4: for a long time using a device to help get along,

796
00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 4: and now I don't have to, And that's really nice, giving.

797
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: You orgasm after orgasm, Yeah, for sure. And you believe

798
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 1: that's because you've stopped using a vibrator.

799
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 6: Yeah.

800
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 4: And when I worked at the adult shop there was

801
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 4: they do say, you know, once you start using vibration,

802
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 4: then you have to use more and increase it or

803
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 4: change it. They're and same for goes for if you're

804
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 4: watching porn. That once you start watching some porn this

805
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 4: it gets boring. So then you go, I need a

806
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,240
Speaker 4: little more. I need something else is a little more exciting,

807
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 4: and you start venturing into different things. So I think

808
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 4: me pulling back from that has been I've also pulled

809
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 4: back from watching porn. I also, I don't think I

810
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 4: ever really click into pornhub anymore.

811
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: I mean, ever, you don't watch porn at all anymore.

812
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 3: It is very but I've turned a corner with this guy.

813
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: It's almost turning it into approved. Jeffer would have ever

814
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 1: thought Crystal will be approved?

815
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, you gotta remember they love each other

816
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 5: so much, so much. Yes, but like I said, as

817
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 5: Crystal said, you know she can go. Maybe here's the thing.

818
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 5: You can't put sex out of schedule. It just you

819
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 5: just let it happen. That's right, that's the that's that's

820
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 5: the same thing with my wife and I, you know,

821
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 5: back when we were actually still doing it. We when

822
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 5: she was in the mood and I knew I was

823
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 5: in the mood, I was like, okay, let's hit the sack.

824
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: How often would you guys go at it?

825
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 5: Would you say back with like to Beck, before we

826
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 5: had kids, we were going at at least twice a week.

827
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 1: Okay, well that's like twenty five years ago. After you

828
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 1: had kids. What happened?

829
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 5: We still we still had but it kind of like

830
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,280
Speaker 5: gradually dropped off because more and more attention to the kids,

831
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 5: making sure that they were taken care of and everything.

832
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 5: But we still managed to get get a session in,

833
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 5: you know, like even when the kids are smaller they're taking.

834
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 2: A nap or whatnot. And I and then the jobs.

835
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 2: I had the disgusshift job ahead time.

836
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 5: I worked pretty odd hours, so that was kind of tough,

837
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 5: but we found a way to try to work around it.

838
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 4: The kids are grown. Now does Mary Elizabeth ever get

839
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:00,919
Speaker 4: in the mood ever?

840
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 3: Now, not really, but.

841
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 7: We've seen videos of her trying to caress your penis,

842
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 7: Like there's actual videos of her talking to your penis.

843
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 6: She still does that.

844
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 1: You're not interested?

845
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's you, you know, I mean like this this

846
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 5: morning for example, she she uh, you know, she hugs

847
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 5: me and she says she loves me very so very much,

848
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 5: and I love her too, and make sure always make

849
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 5: sure I kiss her before I leave her work in

850
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 5: the morning.

851
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 6: You know, she grabbed your dong.

852
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 2: Yeah she grabbed it. Well yeah, not not you know,

853
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 2: like just like you.

854
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 6: Know, yeah, she's she's ready to go.

855
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 7: If Jeffrey said, right, then let's go to the bedroom,

856
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 7: she'd be like, let's do it. But Jeffrey just you're

857
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 7: just not interested.

858
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 2: I just can't because I can't get I can't get

859
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 2: it up.

860
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 6: No, get some medication.

861
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: I here's somebody that says, if you had the billion dollars,

862
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: you could still get BJ's and jos. Would that mean

863
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: if you can get that then for sure? So all

864
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 1: right billion dollars. Umm, here's somebody that says you better

865
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 1: check on Jeffrey, because if he hasn't gotten a if

866
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: he hasn't gotten it up from all this talk from Crystal,

867
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 1: then he's definitely gay. She says, no, nice try, dude,

868
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 1: you know, nice try. Well, it's Lisa's who sent that,

869
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: so not.

870
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 2: A dude, like I said, nice try dude.

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Speaker 1: Uh, Dave, you're on Rover's Morning Glory. Good morning, Dave,

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Speaker 1: Hey morning Rover. Hey man.

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Speaker 8: Hey, Hey, you know, I wonder if Doozy is on

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Speaker 8: some sort of medication. I know we give her flack

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Speaker 8: or well I do personally probably, but you guys definitely

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Speaker 8: do about not having sex since she broke up with you, well.

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Speaker 1: With somebody after me. It was this young guy who

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Speaker 1: said that she reminded him him of her mother, his

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Speaker 1: mother rather, and he was unable to climax when he

880
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Speaker 1: was with her, and that sort of scarred her, I

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Speaker 1: think for the rest of her life.

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Speaker 8: Ah, that could be right.

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Speaker 1: The medication you think, you think she's on some sort Well,

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Speaker 1: there was a potentially bombshell revelation in the aftermath yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Charlie was not here yesterday, so Dougie and I set

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Speaker 1: in on the aftermath, and there was a potential bombshell revelation.

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Speaker 1: I've had what could only be described as somebody tipped

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Speaker 1: me off to this, or a couple of people tipped

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Speaker 1: me off to this, But I said, I don't believe

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Speaker 1: that this is true, and then when it was brought

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Speaker 1: up yesterday during the aftermath, I think that there might

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Speaker 1: be something to this. So I'll explain it here in

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Speaker 1: just a minute, and it does regard Dougie. I've got

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Speaker 1: to take a quick break. We'll be right back on

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Speaker 1: Rover's Morning Glory. Hang on,