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Speaker 1: out everything that we did. It's worth it. Fun, happiness, joy,

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Speaker 1: Right you were with her when she found out. She

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Speaker 1: Yeah, eight hundred and four and ninety three ninety three.

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Speaker 2: Tell me after let me enjoy my fun and then

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know on my vacation. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: Ignorance is bliss And I feel like, also not to

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Speaker 1: Didn't you find out the late great Nikki g passed

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Speaker 3: I do, because you can't focus in that situation. It

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Speaker 1: Hey, Abby?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: First off, before we even say anything, I am so

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Speaker 4: So my husband died like first thing in the morning,

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Speaker 1: Was he sick if you don't mind me asking, No,

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Speaker 5: It was sudden. There was a car accident. Was unexpected.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I mean I feel like there's no

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Speaker 2: probably waiting for dad to come home.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, question for you with that, how is your

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Speaker 1: So Yeah, well, Abby, you got a guardian angel and

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Speaker 1: you dating, you get remarried, what's you deal with that? No?

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Speaker 1: No, I get it. I get it. Well listen, Abby,

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Speaker 1: is Kate. Did they tell you what we're talking about?

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Speaker 5: Yes, you were talking about me. How you guys do it?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? A lot happened on the cruise.

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Speaker 1: Let's first talk about grandpa though. How are you feeling?

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Speaker 5: I am, it's still surreal. You know, it's hard, but

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Speaker 6: having shortness of breath. But then he was doing better

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Speaker 1: You know, we've been discussing what we would have wanted,

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Speaker 1: Were you happy with not? How to I ask this?

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Speaker 1: Was that how you wanted to find out or did

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Speaker 1: you wish that they waited till after? No?

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Speaker 6: I would have been very upset if they would have waited,

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Speaker 6: I would have I wanted to know right then and there.

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Speaker 6: I would have been very sad if I got home

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Speaker 6: after having a fantastic time and heard that. So at

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Speaker 6: there with you guys was a blessing. You guys completely

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Speaker 5: You know. We celebrated him, We did shots for him,

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Speaker 5: just like he would have wanted. Yeah, so that meant

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Speaker 1: Well, let's end this on a happy note. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, and Alex had so much fun. Not

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Speaker 5: waiting until next year. I'm waiting for you guys to

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Speaker 5: announce it, like I want to win this money, so

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Speaker 1: You're coming next year. We have to make that happen.

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Speaker 1: You and Alex. Alex is fun for sure.

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Speaker 5: Are you booked out?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 5: God? The name a house?

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is an offair You and I are going

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Speaker 1: to have an off air conversation at some point. Well, listen,

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Speaker 1: I love you as always.

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Speaker 6: Just love you.

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Speaker 5: Love you guys a little blast.

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Speaker 1: Thinking about your praying for your family and uh. I

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, our cheeseburgers and Margarita's coming out of my.

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Speaker 1: Poor It's so good. Kate, have a good rest of

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Speaker 5: I love you you too, Love you guys, Nye.