Speaker 1: All right. It is Mojo in the Morning, eight four
Speaker 1: to four Mojo Live eight four four six sixty five
Speaker 1: six five four eight. The text ninety five five zero
Speaker 1: zero real quick, I want to do this one. This
Speaker 1: is from one of my son's college friends who sent
Speaker 1: this to me because my son said, hey, my dad
Speaker 1: would probably do that as a topic on your show.
Speaker 1: She sent me a text and it says, ask your
Speaker 1: listeners what the breakup text? Read? Mine was from an
Speaker 1: a hole that I was dating, and she sent me
Speaker 1: the copy of the text, and the text was, this
Speaker 1: is a twenty six, twenty seven years old, twenty six
Speaker 1: year old girl. This was her breakup text that she
Speaker 1: just got from a guy that she had been dating
Speaker 1: for a while. I'm going to be busy the next
Speaker 1: six months. Sorry.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 1: That was his breakup test star Larry's, and first off,
Speaker 1: breaking up by text is one thing, but breaking up
Speaker 1: by text that says that probably not the greatest they
Speaker 1: were Hilary's they were going through a little bit of troubles.
Speaker 1: In his text exactly read I'm going to be busy
Speaker 1: the next six months. Sorry, and that's why they're no
Speaker 1: longer Like, no, how long did you say how long
Speaker 1: the relationship was. I think they were together for at
Speaker 1: least two years. Maybe there's no love in that, there's
Speaker 1: no respect, ruh. I would love to know if you
Speaker 1: still remember the text that your significant other broke up
Speaker 1: with and would you read it to us? Would you
Speaker 1: at least tell us what it what it read?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 1: Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four six six
Speaker 1: five six five four eight. I'm seeing break up breakups
Speaker 1: happen more through text or a d M or a
Speaker 1: you know, a message on social media than ever before.
Speaker 1: Like it's not the personal face to face and more
Speaker 1: phone text or phone phone breakups where they're just picking
Speaker 1: up the phone and calling and saying I don't even
Speaker 1: want to get face to face.
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, that's normal communication now, like if something is done
Speaker 3: face to face, which, by the way, a breakup absolutely
Speaker 3: should be your You think that that's like.
Speaker 1: Strange, Yeah, now, because nobody wants to confront or be
Speaker 1: be face to face with something.
Speaker 4: We don't do anything anymore.
Speaker 1: It's one of the two. I think it's wild though,
Speaker 1: that that is now more accepted because I don't know
Speaker 1: ten years ago or however long ago, maybe within the
Speaker 1: last decade. If you broke up with somebody by text,
Speaker 1: you would tell people you they would post it boyfriend
Speaker 1: just broke up with me by text that you know,
Speaker 1: dirty whatever, and you you would see so many people
Speaker 1: commenting about how horrible a person is. Now it's like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: move on, move on.
Speaker 5: It just seems like any real decisions or decisions of magnitude,
Speaker 5: you have to do it face to face.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So it wasn't a breakup text for me,
Speaker 2: but he sent we need to talk. And my response was,
Speaker 2: if you're going to break up with me, why do
Speaker 2: I need to come see you?
Speaker 1: Just say it? We need to talk? Is never good talk?
Speaker 1: Like it's never Hey, I bought you something?
Speaker 5: You know in that situation, you didn't want to hear why.
Speaker 2: I mean, I was like, if you're going to break
Speaker 2: up with me, just say it now, Like why do
Speaker 2: I have to drive to talks?
Speaker 4: I want to have a conversation because I want to
Speaker 4: know why.
Speaker 1: Hey, Sarah are you there?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hey, guys, what's happening?
Speaker 6: So hey? So with what chanced about? Like a phone
Speaker 6: call too? That's the worst. I was in a relationship
Speaker 6: with a guy for about four four and a half
Speaker 6: years or so, and we were supposed to go to
Speaker 6: bell Isle and talking about like engagement. He just graduated
Speaker 6: college and all this, and he was like, we're we're
Speaker 6: not doing anything. And I kind of had a feeling
Speaker 6: things were going like a little stouts and everything, and
Speaker 6: I was like why and he's like, well, we're not
Speaker 6: doing anything. I'm like, I legit had to ask him
Speaker 6: if he was breaking up with me. So I'm like,
Speaker 6: it sucks, Like, especially when you're.
Speaker 1: With somebody for that long, it's amazing. So you had
Speaker 1: no courage to be able to tell you what he
Speaker 1: really wanted to tell you.
Speaker 6: Now, Yeah, no, he he's through like a whole sit
Speaker 6: about like giving stuff back and everything like that. I
Speaker 6: just like his dad basically was getting my stuff back.
Speaker 1: But you ever know somebody that doesn't know whether or
Speaker 1: not they're actually broken up because I have a friend
Speaker 1: of mine, oh boy, a friend of Chelsea's, and I
Speaker 1: that she's like, I don't know if we're still dating
Speaker 1: because he's not returning any of my calls. And the
Speaker 1: last time that we talked was him saying that he
Speaker 1: needed to have a conversation. And now it's like and
Speaker 1: they're like, I don't know if we're together or not together?
Speaker 1: Like can you imagine? Like that's how much of a
Speaker 1: ghosting along relationship goes to what's up, Sandra? Hey, how's
Speaker 1: it going good? What did the breakup text read?
Speaker 2: She said, hey, sorry, but you sleep too much.
Speaker 1: With other people or nope, nope.
Speaker 2: I worked third shift and so in like the middle
Speaker 2: of the day I would sleep and he didn't like
Speaker 2: that apparently.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I thought she was lazy. Wait, the
Speaker 1: third shift is brutal on you, right? Yeah? Yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's that's horrible. How long were you
Speaker 1: guys together?
Speaker 4: It was just like maybe two months or so.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's not bad. Yeah, you got nothing fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: here's a text two three one says. The text read,
Speaker 1: sorry I found someone else. Sorry, I'm here another texture
Speaker 1: here And Lydia is trying to call these textures back.
Speaker 1: So please, if you do text us, answer your your
Speaker 1: phones because Lydia is trying to get you on uh
Speaker 1: at nine five five zero zero, this is five eight six.
Speaker 1: The text read, my mom doesn't like you and thinks
Speaker 1: I deserve a guy better. And it was from a girl,
Speaker 1: so it wasn't a guy that sent it. It was
Speaker 1: a girl. That Senta.
Speaker 5: I can see a lot of these messages now happening
Speaker 5: and being written through chat GPT, like putting your actual
Speaker 5: reasons in but not knowing how to communicate it and
Speaker 5: just letting that figure it out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, chat GPT, give me a good text to break
Speaker 1: up with somebody?
Speaker 5: What to do it?
Speaker 1: Right now? Jake? What's up?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 1: I don't good? What's going on? What did the text read?
Speaker 1: I've read? Whenever I get the text saying that somebody
Speaker 1: needs to talk to me, I respond with you.
Speaker 6: I think that's a good idea.
Speaker 1: I need to talk to this And now we're both
Speaker 1: strepping out real Wait, is this something that's going on
Speaker 1: right now? Well, not currently, but I've had head enough
Speaker 1: of those conversations with people to know how to.
Speaker 6: Respond to those.
Speaker 1: Now, please tell me that you're a good enough guy
Speaker 1: that you would never break up with somebody by text.
Speaker 6: Oh No, I'm somebody that likes to do things.
Speaker 1: In person, especially those heart conversations, because I don't enough
Speaker 1: people do that. Yeah, it's unfortunate. Can I tell you
Speaker 1: how many people I know that will not do it
Speaker 1: in person? And the reason why if they're looking at
Speaker 1: somebody face to face they'll change their mind. They actually
Speaker 1: they cannot deliver bad information. So their idea is that
Speaker 1: I won't deliver the bad information to them in person
Speaker 1: because I'm too weak to be able to do it,
Speaker 1: which is real is interesting because then it makes me
Speaker 1: feel like, then you aren't really somebody that wants to
Speaker 1: break up that maybe you guys need to just try
Speaker 1: to work out your issue. Uh, what's up, Artinis? What's up?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I got broken up over text before? What in the
Speaker 1: text ring?
Speaker 5: She said, when we say goodbye it means goodbye. You
Speaker 5: can't come to me anymore to serve your emotional needs.
Speaker 1: You will figure it out by wow? Wa, Say how
Speaker 1: long ago was that that that text was sent? That
Speaker 1: was about twenty twenty? Wow? So you still haven't saved
Speaker 1: your respond Yeah? I saved it in my notes just
Speaker 1: so I can remember that day. Wow, she broke your heart? Anna,
Speaker 1: Rob just said did you respond? Did you respond?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 6: I listened to Jealous by uh.
Speaker 1: Bro telling you.
Speaker 5: Got me through?
Speaker 1: That's that's a song.
Speaker 5: Bro?
Speaker 1: Hey, Now what song are you listening to? I want
Speaker 1: to see if you're in a relationship with lawyer. No,
Speaker 1: I don't mess with you, big Shaw. That's good, Adriana.
Speaker 1: What did the text The breakup text read.
Speaker 6: Sorry I love you too much to do this to
Speaker 6: you and then blocked me from everything.
Speaker 3: No, so, no explanation whatsoever as to what happened.
Speaker 4: Did you ever find out?
Speaker 6: I was just like, what, no, nothing, no clue what happened?
Speaker 6: We're moving to California with me, well not in with me,
Speaker 6: but to California. The day after that text.
Speaker 1: Wow, cav want to know how long was the relationship?
Speaker 6: He was gonna maybe like eight months something like that.
Speaker 1: Okay, so it wasn't like it was crazy long, but
Speaker 1: that's a I don't know, that's the short time to
Speaker 1: be together and then I want him to move. What's up, Allison?
Speaker 1: I what did the text read? The breakup text read.
Speaker 2: First time long time?
Speaker 1: Oh, here you go, by the way, that's what people
Speaker 1: should text after they had sex for the first time,
Speaker 1: first time long what's going on it? What did the
Speaker 1: breakup text rate?
Speaker 6: He texted me and told me that he was too
Speaker 6: immature for a relationship, and then six months later he
Speaker 6: started dating somebody else.
Speaker 1: Of course that's usually the pattern. Yeah, that's crazy. Sorry
Speaker 1: they had to deal with that. Allison, what's his name?
Speaker 1: So we can make sure that he's scarred forever. Jared, Jared,
Speaker 1: it's always a yeah, what's up? Sierra?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 1: Hey, what did the breakup text read?
Speaker 6: First of all, first time?
Speaker 2: Long time? But the text read that he wanted to see.
Speaker 1: If he could love someone as much as he loved me.
Speaker 4: That the biggest bunch of crap.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 2: I know, But we weren't in high school though, so yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm not that mad at him, but yeah, it was heartbreaking.
Speaker 3: Out of the high school breakup was always I just
Speaker 3: I think we should just be friends, like that was
Speaker 3: the one that everybody used.
Speaker 1: What is the what did chat?
Speaker 5: Chatgypt has three different versions respectful and gentle, short and
Speaker 5: kind or clear infirm which you want to hear infirmed.
Speaker 5: So I think it's always important to say what the
Speaker 5: prompt is. So I say, give me a good text
Speaker 5: to sin if I want to break up with someone.
Speaker 5: So this is the clear infirm I need to be
Speaker 5: honest with you. I don't see us working out, and
Speaker 5: I think it's best for me to end the relationship.
Speaker 1: Okay, I hope you can respect that decision. Wo. And
Speaker 1: what's what's the other option? Glee? The gentle one? Uh, Mojo.
Speaker 1: This is you want to know?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it says, Hey, I've been doing a lot of thinking.
Speaker 5: I care about you and the time that we've shared,
Speaker 5: but I don't feel like I can continue this relationship.
Speaker 5: You deserve someone who can give you what you need,
Speaker 5: and I don't think I can't.
Speaker 4: I like that one. I like that one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I can use it Lydia. Any of these
Speaker 1: other last ones? Good ones?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so you should what should we text them? Sorry,
Speaker 1: you're on hold. You're not getting true to Mojo.