WEBVTT - Break Up Texts

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<v Speaker 1>All right. It is Mojo in the Morning, eight four

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<v Speaker 1>to four Mojo Live eight four four six sixty five

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<v Speaker 1>six five four eight. The text ninety five five zero

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<v Speaker 1>zero real quick, I want to do this one. This

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<v Speaker 1>is from one of my son's college friends who sent

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<v Speaker 1>this to me because my son said, hey, my dad

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<v Speaker 1>would probably do that as a topic on your show.

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<v Speaker 1>She sent me a text and it says, ask your

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<v Speaker 1>listeners what the breakup text? Read? Mine was from an

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<v Speaker 1>a hole that I was dating, and she sent me

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<v Speaker 1>the copy of the text, and the text was, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a twenty six, twenty seven years old, twenty six

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<v Speaker 1>year old girl. This was her breakup text that she

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<v Speaker 1>just got from a guy that she had been dating

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<v Speaker 1>for a while. I'm going to be busy the next

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<v Speaker 1>six months. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That was his breakup test star Larry's, and first off,

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<v Speaker 1>breaking up by text is one thing, but breaking up

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<v Speaker 1>by text that says that probably not the greatest they

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<v Speaker 1>were Hilary's they were going through a little bit of troubles.

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<v Speaker 1>In his text exactly read I'm going to be busy

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<v Speaker 1>the next six months. Sorry, and that's why they're no

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<v Speaker 1>longer Like, no, how long did you say how long

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship was. I think they were together for at

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<v Speaker 1>least two years. Maybe there's no love in that, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no respect, ruh. I would love to know if you

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<v Speaker 1>still remember the text that your significant other broke up

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<v Speaker 1>with and would you read it to us? Would you

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<v Speaker 1>at least tell us what it what it read?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four six six

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<v Speaker 1>five six five four eight. I'm seeing break up breakups

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<v Speaker 1>happen more through text or a d M or a

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a message on social media than ever before.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's not the personal face to face and more

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<v Speaker 1>phone text or phone phone breakups where they're just picking

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<v Speaker 1>up the phone and calling and saying I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>want to get face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>Unfortunately, that's normal communication now, like if something is done

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<v Speaker 3>face to face, which, by the way, a breakup absolutely

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<v Speaker 3>should be your You think that that's like.

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<v Speaker 1>Strange, Yeah, now, because nobody wants to confront or be

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<v Speaker 1>be face to face with something.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't do anything anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of the two. I think it's wild though,

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<v Speaker 1>that that is now more accepted because I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>ten years ago or however long ago, maybe within the

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<v Speaker 1>last decade. If you broke up with somebody by text,

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<v Speaker 1>you would tell people you they would post it boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>just broke up with me by text that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>dirty whatever, and you you would see so many people

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<v Speaker 1>commenting about how horrible a person is. Now it's like, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>move on, move on.

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<v Speaker 5>It just seems like any real decisions or decisions of magnitude,

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<v Speaker 5>you have to do it face to face.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, So it wasn't a breakup text for me,

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<v Speaker 2>but he sent we need to talk. And my response was,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're going to break up with me, why do

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<v Speaker 2>I need to come see you?

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<v Speaker 1>Just say it? We need to talk? Is never good talk?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's never Hey, I bought you something?

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<v Speaker 5>You know in that situation, you didn't want to hear why.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I was like, if you're going to break

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<v Speaker 2>up with me, just say it now, Like why do

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<v Speaker 2>I have to drive to talks?

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<v Speaker 4>I want to have a conversation because I want to

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<v Speaker 4>know why.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Sarah are you there?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 6>So hey? So with what chanced about? Like a phone

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<v Speaker 6>call too? That's the worst. I was in a relationship

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<v Speaker 6>with a guy for about four four and a half

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<v Speaker 6>years or so, and we were supposed to go to

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<v Speaker 6>bell Isle and talking about like engagement. He just graduated

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<v Speaker 6>college and all this, and he was like, we're we're

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<v Speaker 6>not doing anything. And I kind of had a feeling

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<v Speaker 6>things were going like a little stouts and everything, and

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<v Speaker 6>I was like why and he's like, well, we're not

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<v Speaker 6>doing anything. I'm like, I legit had to ask him

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<v Speaker 6>if he was breaking up with me. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 6>it sucks, Like, especially when you're.

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<v Speaker 1>With somebody for that long, it's amazing. So you had

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<v Speaker 1>no courage to be able to tell you what he

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to tell you.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, Yeah, no, he he's through like a whole sit

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<v Speaker 6>about like giving stuff back and everything like that. I

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<v Speaker 6>just like his dad basically was getting my stuff back.

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<v Speaker 1>But you ever know somebody that doesn't know whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not they're actually broken up because I have a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of mine, oh boy, a friend of Chelsea's, and I

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<v Speaker 1>that she's like, I don't know if we're still dating

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<v Speaker 1>because he's not returning any of my calls. And the

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<v Speaker 1>last time that we talked was him saying that he

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<v Speaker 1>needed to have a conversation. And now it's like and

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, I don't know if we're together or not together?

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<v Speaker 1>Like can you imagine? Like that's how much of a

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<v Speaker 1>ghosting along relationship goes to what's up, Sandra? Hey, how's

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<v Speaker 1>it going good? What did the breakup text read?

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<v Speaker 2>She said, hey, sorry, but you sleep too much.

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<v Speaker 1>With other people or nope, nope.

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<v Speaker 2>I worked third shift and so in like the middle

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<v Speaker 2>of the day I would sleep and he didn't like

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<v Speaker 2>that apparently.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I thought she was lazy. Wait, the

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<v Speaker 1>third shift is brutal on you, right? Yeah? Yeah, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's that's horrible. How long were you

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<v Speaker 1>guys together?

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<v Speaker 4>It was just like maybe two months or so.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's not bad. Yeah, you got nothing fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>here's a text two three one says. The text read,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry I found someone else. Sorry, I'm here another texture

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<v Speaker 1>here And Lydia is trying to call these textures back.

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<v Speaker 1>So please, if you do text us, answer your your

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<v Speaker 1>phones because Lydia is trying to get you on uh

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<v Speaker 1>at nine five five zero zero, this is five eight six.

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<v Speaker 1>The text read, my mom doesn't like you and thinks

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<v Speaker 1>I deserve a guy better. And it was from a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>so it wasn't a guy that sent it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a girl. That Senta.

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<v Speaker 5>I can see a lot of these messages now happening

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<v Speaker 5>and being written through chat GPT, like putting your actual

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<v Speaker 5>reasons in but not knowing how to communicate it and

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<v Speaker 5>just letting that figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, chat GPT, give me a good text to break

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<v Speaker 1>up with somebody?

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<v Speaker 5>What to do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Right now? Jake? What's up?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't good? What's going on? What did the text read?

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<v Speaker 1>I've read? Whenever I get the text saying that somebody

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<v Speaker 1>needs to talk to me, I respond with you.

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<v Speaker 6>I think that's a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to talk to this And now we're both

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<v Speaker 1>strepping out real Wait, is this something that's going on

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Well, not currently, but I've had head enough

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<v Speaker 1>of those conversations with people to know how to.

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<v Speaker 6>Respond to those.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, please tell me that you're a good enough guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you would never break up with somebody by text.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh No, I'm somebody that likes to do things.

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<v Speaker 1>In person, especially those heart conversations, because I don't enough

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<v Speaker 1>people do that. Yeah, it's unfortunate. Can I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>how many people I know that will not do it

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<v Speaker 1>in person? And the reason why if they're looking at

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<v Speaker 1>somebody face to face they'll change their mind. They actually

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<v Speaker 1>they cannot deliver bad information. So their idea is that

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<v Speaker 1>I won't deliver the bad information to them in person

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm too weak to be able to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>which is real is interesting because then it makes me

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, then you aren't really somebody that wants to

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<v Speaker 1>break up that maybe you guys need to just try

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<v Speaker 1>to work out your issue. Uh, what's up, Artinis? What's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I got broken up over text before? What in the

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<v Speaker 1>text ring?

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<v Speaker 5>She said, when we say goodbye it means goodbye. You

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<v Speaker 5>can't come to me anymore to serve your emotional needs.

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<v Speaker 1>You will figure it out by wow? Wa, Say how

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<v Speaker 1>long ago was that that that text was sent? That

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<v Speaker 1>was about twenty twenty? Wow? So you still haven't saved

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<v Speaker 1>your respond Yeah? I saved it in my notes just

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<v Speaker 1>so I can remember that day. Wow, she broke your heart? Anna,

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<v Speaker 1>Rob just said did you respond? Did you respond?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 6>I listened to Jealous by uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro telling you.

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<v Speaker 5>Got me through?

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's a song.

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<v Speaker 5>Bro?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Now what song are you listening to? I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see if you're in a relationship with lawyer. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mess with you, big Shaw. That's good, Adriana.

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<v Speaker 1>What did the text The breakup text read.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry I love you too much to do this to

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<v Speaker 6>you and then blocked me from everything.

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<v Speaker 3>No, so, no explanation whatsoever as to what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you ever find out?

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<v Speaker 6>I was just like, what, no, nothing, no clue what happened?

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<v Speaker 6>We're moving to California with me, well not in with me,

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<v Speaker 6>but to California. The day after that text.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, cav want to know how long was the relationship?

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<v Speaker 6>He was gonna maybe like eight months something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so it wasn't like it was crazy long, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's a I don't know, that's the short time to

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<v Speaker 1>be together and then I want him to move. What's up, Allison?

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<v Speaker 1>I what did the text read? The breakup text read.

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<v Speaker 2>First time long time?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, here you go, by the way, that's what people

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<v Speaker 1>should text after they had sex for the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>first time long what's going on it? What did the

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<v Speaker 1>breakup text rate?

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<v Speaker 6>He texted me and told me that he was too

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<v Speaker 6>immature for a relationship, and then six months later he

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<v Speaker 6>started dating somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course that's usually the pattern. Yeah, that's crazy. Sorry

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<v Speaker 1>they had to deal with that. Allison, what's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>So we can make sure that he's scarred forever. Jared, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>it's always a yeah, what's up? Sierra?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, what did the breakup text read?

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<v Speaker 6>First of all, first time?

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<v Speaker 2>Long time? But the text read that he wanted to see.

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<v Speaker 1>If he could love someone as much as he loved me.

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<v Speaker 4>That the biggest bunch of crap.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, But we weren't in high school though, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not that mad at him, but yeah, it was heartbreaking.

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<v Speaker 3>Out of the high school breakup was always I just

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<v Speaker 3>I think we should just be friends, like that was

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<v Speaker 3>the one that everybody used.

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<v Speaker 1>What is the what did chat?

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<v Speaker 5>Chatgypt has three different versions respectful and gentle, short and

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<v Speaker 5>kind or clear infirm which you want to hear infirmed.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think it's always important to say what the

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<v Speaker 5>prompt is. So I say, give me a good text

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<v Speaker 5>to sin if I want to break up with someone.

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<v Speaker 5>So this is the clear infirm I need to be

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<v Speaker 5>honest with you. I don't see us working out, and

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's best for me to end the relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I hope you can respect that decision. Wo. And

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<v Speaker 1>what's what's the other option? Glee? The gentle one? Uh, Mojo.

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<v Speaker 1>This is you want to know?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it says, Hey, I've been doing a lot of thinking.

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<v Speaker 5>I care about you and the time that we've shared,

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<v Speaker 5>but I don't feel like I can continue this relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>You deserve someone who can give you what you need,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't think I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>I like that one. I like that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I can use it Lydia. Any of these

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<v Speaker 1>other last ones? Good ones?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, so you should what should we text them? Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on hold. You're not getting true to Mojo.