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Speaker 1: All right, we're getting ready for second ate update. Cold,

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Speaker 1: good morning. What's going on in your dating world? How

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Speaker 1: can we help you?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I had a really good time with this girl

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Speaker 2: on a date. You know, we went dinner, drinks, dancing,

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Speaker 2: We even got a hotel room after the date.

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Speaker 3: It was so good.

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Speaker 2: And now I'm hearing nothing.

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Speaker 3: You got a hotel room. You got a hotel room?

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Speaker 3: Is that you?

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Speaker 2: There was nudity, There was nudity, and she won't call

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Speaker 2: you back.

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Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna deeve deeve. We're gonna deep dive

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Speaker 3: into it. That's a deep dive, deep die. Second date

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Speaker 3: update starts next with John Jane Rich.

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Speaker 4: What's up if.

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Speaker 1: John Jane Rich? Time for second date Update. You meet

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Speaker 1: somebody you got on a date and you have a

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Speaker 1: great time. He thinks there's gonna be a second date,

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Speaker 1: but there isn't. So you come to us. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: troubleshoot your date, find out where things gone wrong.

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Speaker 2: Cold, good morning, Good morning guys.

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Speaker 3: What's your story?

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Speaker 2: Cole? I've been spiraling ever since I had this amazing

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Speaker 2: date with this girl. Her name's Brie. And I'm not

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Speaker 2: even exaggering when I say the other date was unreal.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we were laughing all night, we bar hopped,

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Speaker 2: we were dancing, like everything just felt effortless, just easy

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Speaker 2: in a way that it normally doesn't for me. And

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Speaker 2: I usually am an overthinker. So when I know that

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Speaker 2: things are just kind of smooth, I know that things

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Speaker 2: are really kind of clicking. And so we ended up

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Speaker 2: getting a room and having a lovely time, and the

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Speaker 2: next morning was even better. We had like breakfast in bed,

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Speaker 2: we were cuddling, she'd still have my pancakes, which I

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Speaker 2: thought was adorable, and I just left thinking we were

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Speaker 2: absolutely going to see each other again. And it's been

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Speaker 2: a week and a half and I've heard radio silence,

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Speaker 2: So of course I'm like, we're playing everything I did.

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Speaker 2: Whether it's snoring, did I say something stupid? I just

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It was in my morning breath. I

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Speaker 2: have no idea what is going on, and it's driving

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Speaker 2: me crazy.

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Speaker 3: Man. That's a tough.

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Speaker 5: One, I know, because especially you have like the whole

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Speaker 5: morning after and it was like a pleasant experience and

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Speaker 5: not a walk of shame.

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Speaker 3: Could she be a hooker?

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Speaker 2: Totally? No, I know.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, you got a room, like suggestion like.

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Speaker 3: Sprew of the moment.

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Speaker 5: Let's get a hotel room now, Like, let's go back

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Speaker 5: to one of our houses.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we just were indulging a little on the

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Speaker 2: date and decided it would be a safer and a

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Speaker 3: Okay, so were you like joy?

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Speaker 4: Were you eating it like a restaurant that is attached

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Speaker 4: to a hotel, because that seems like a lot more involved,

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Speaker 4: Like we're going to do it. Then let's go back

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Speaker 4: to my place to hang out.

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Speaker 1: No, let's say you're at this place right down here,

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Speaker 1: which has got great restaurants, great hotel, and you hit

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Speaker 3: Let's get a hotel right here right now. I have

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Speaker 2: Well, we ended up we ended up bar hopping, so well,

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Speaker 2: one of the bars ended up being in a hotel.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that masse, which is where.

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Speaker 2: The idea kind of came and like, well we could

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Speaker 2: It was spontaneous. I've never done that before, but it

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Speaker 4: Well, could it be that you're no good at making

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Speaker 4: love and that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: Why is that always your respond?

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Speaker 5: Did you always that they are.

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Speaker 4: Bad at love?

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Speaker 2: I hope not. But that's why I'm calling you to

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Speaker 2: find out what what happened?

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Speaker 3: Well, we'll call her, We'll find out for you. Man.

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Speaker 1: You know it's funny, is like I see like you're

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Speaker 3: To leave some money for incidentals? And would you like it?

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Speaker 3: Would you like to be joining a membership? By that time,

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Speaker 3: like remember, it is all like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 3: forget it. It's gone in the car in the parking lot.

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Speaker 3: All right, Cole, we'll call brief for you. All right?

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Speaker 1: Second date update? Could you use next? With John, Jay

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Speaker 1: and Rich. We are in the middle of Second Date

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Speaker 1: Update Cole and Brie.

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Speaker 4: Fall brings new love the season blossom for Cole in

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Speaker 4: Brie is they laughed through dinner and then decided to

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Speaker 4: had a magic night. Brie is ghosting him. Could he

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Speaker 4: be terrible at love making? I think he is and

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Speaker 4: that is why she's ghosting it. But we'll find out,

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Speaker 4: all right, col that's a little recap. That's pretty much it.

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Speaker 3: Step for it. Richie did leave out that she ate

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Speaker 3: half his pancakes.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, maybe he made a cute little comment about

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Speaker 1: that and she's like, screw you man. All right, we're

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Speaker 3: Whoa are you ready?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 3: Hold on, here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, is breather there?

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, this is her.

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Speaker 3: Hey Bree, my name is Peyton.

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Speaker 5: I'm with John Jaye rich and we just wanted to

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Speaker 5: talk to you on the radio really quickly if you

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Speaker 5: got some time this morning. Uh sure.

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Speaker 1: So we're talking to this guy about a great date

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Speaker 1: that he went on.

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Speaker 3: He was fantastic the date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like the way he described the date and

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Speaker 1: the way the date ended seemed like a home run.

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Speaker 1: You were the date, by the way, and how he

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Speaker 1: told us about bar hopping, the great dinner, great conversation.

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Speaker 1: says you're blowing him off, and we were like why.

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Speaker 1: So we don't understand why, because you ended up spend

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Speaker 1: have liked him. So we thought we would call you

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Speaker 1: and if you wouldn't mind telling us your thoughts, your

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Speaker 5: Oh uh okay, Yeah, Cole was great. I had a

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Speaker 5: lot of fun on the date. He's super easy to

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Speaker 5: I don't know, we laughed a lot. The sex was great.

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Speaker 5: It was just one of those things that you know.

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Speaker 5: I got home and reality kicks in and I'm I

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Speaker 5: hope he doesn't like touch. I don't know, God, it

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Speaker 5: sounds like a caught feelings or something. I just I

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Speaker 5: don't know. I don't know. I can't really see myself

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Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, hold on, what do you mean this

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Speaker 2: is like some sort of fantasy thing right now?

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Speaker 5: Cole yello?

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Speaker 3: What wait?

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Speaker 5: What is this? Hold on? Sorry?

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Speaker 3: What this is called? Second update?

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Speaker 1: Cole called us because you wanted to know why you're

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Speaker 5: Oh and he's on the Okay. Uh, I'm sorry. I

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Speaker 5: didn't understand that. I am I okay, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't like trying to be mean or anything. I'm

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Speaker 5: just I don't I don't know if you heard anything

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Speaker 2: But the whole day, in the morning, the breakfast, in bed,

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Speaker 5: No, that's not true, and I was ay you that night.

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Speaker 5: It's just I thought sounds horrible. I'm I'm in a

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Speaker 5: I'm in a weird place, and I'm not ready to

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Speaker 5: just I kind of just thought it was like a

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Speaker 5: one night thing. I didn't I didn't expect you to

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Speaker 2: So I mean I didn't catch feelings. I just I

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Speaker 2: definitely had a connection like you made feel like we did, I.

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Speaker 5: Know, I know. Well, sorry, I mean I did say

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Speaker 5: I just you know, I'm not looking to date anyone.

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Speaker 3: So it was just a fun day night.

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Speaker 1: It was a rate you needed, like to be touched

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Speaker 1: enough to get you over till the next time, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Well everyone needs that, you know. I felt like I

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Speaker 3: Well, he likes you.

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Speaker 2: I I guess I feel like a little confused because

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, it feels like we were

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Speaker 2: feeling my clad nine and.

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Speaker 4: Well, it sounds like she was in the moment what

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Speaker 4: you want. She just doesn't want anymore moments like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, you're great. It has nothing to do with you.

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Speaker 5: I just don't I'm not in a place where I

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Speaker 5: want to have a serious relationship. And I you know,

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Speaker 5: especially now talking to you, I feel like that's where

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Speaker 5: that's just not I'm just not interested in that right now.

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Speaker 5: And I'm sorry. And I did have a great time with.

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Speaker 2: You, and.

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Speaker 5: Don't love that you put me on blasts on the radio,

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Speaker 5: to be honest.

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Speaker 1: But how about this, What if what if he reaches

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Speaker 1: out to you a couple of weeks when you need

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Speaker 1: needs more attention?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I mean you said the sex was great, So I

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Speaker 3: would think every once in a.

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Speaker 1: While, we need to when you need a little, when

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Speaker 1: you need some effecttion, you give him a call.

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Speaker 2: Not a bad idea if he's down, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe see keeping the door open. Is that what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying, all right, you guys, you

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