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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. I am not going

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Speaker 1: to do this. I want to know what you guys

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Speaker 1: think about this, and then maybe if everyone says, hey,

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Speaker 1: this is a good idea, maybe I do change up

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Speaker 1: my wedding.

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Speaker 2: So there is a.

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Speaker 1: Woman, there's a couple that sent out quite the interesting

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Speaker 1: note with their invitations. The note in the invitations to

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Speaker 1: these people wedding is asking attendees to pay seventy five

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Speaker 1: dollars per person for their plate. So instead of like, hey,

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Speaker 1: like you know, like give me a good.

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Speaker 2: Gift, yeah, you'll I pay for your food.

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Speaker 1: They want seventy five bucks, which will pay for their plate.

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Speaker 2: So my question is.

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Speaker 1: Is that a little too forward or are you rude

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Speaker 1: for asking for that? Or I mean you're supposed to

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Speaker 1: give a gift at every wedding. That's how much the

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Speaker 1: plate is, eight hundred four nine ninety three ninety three.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what do you think about that? Is it

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Speaker 1: a wedding that you'll attend or do you you know,

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Speaker 1: politely decline that.

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Speaker 3: I'm yeah, I'm not going I'm not paying them off plate.

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Speaker 3: I'll buy you a gift but to pay for off late.

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Speaker 3: I've never been asked then, and I feel like if

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Speaker 3: anyone where do you ask me, Like if Joe's like, hey, guys,

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Speaker 3: we're getting married, similat cash after seventy five pl.

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Speaker 1: I'll eat frot it, but you're not invited them. How

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Speaker 1: much money do you give then for a wedding? What

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Speaker 1: is the proper gift? Because I always thought it was

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Speaker 1: like fifty bucks, and then like last year, I started

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Speaker 1: doing one hundred. Well in that last year, like a

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Speaker 1: couple of years ago, I started doing one hundred. But

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Speaker 1: then I hear from some people it's like two hundred.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Then I hear from others it's like twenty five. Then

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Speaker 1: I hear from others that it's actually not that great

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Speaker 1: to give cash. You should give gifts. So what is

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Speaker 1: the proper price for a wedding?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say one hundred dollars just simply because I

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Speaker 3: don't know how much a plate costs.

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Speaker 2: But you said that lady said seventy five dollars.

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Speaker 3: So in my head, okay, if I give you a hundred,

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Speaker 3: maybe I'll cover my plate and you guys can get

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Speaker 3: something nice.

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Speaker 1: Wedding tights could be anywhere from like fifty to like

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Speaker 1: three hundred dollars. Oh yeah, oh yeah, and like there

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Speaker 1: are probably places where they're even more than that. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: when Alyssa and I were looking around at different venues

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Speaker 1: and stuff, the most expensive one we saw was three

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars.

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Speaker 4: So, Joe, they have it in tears. Based on the

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Speaker 4: relationship you have with the person who's attending your wedding,

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Speaker 4: there's coworker and acquaintance that ranges between seventy five one

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Speaker 4: hundred dollars. A friend or a distant relative should be

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Speaker 4: contributing one hundred to one hundred and fifty, and then

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Speaker 4: a close friend or immediate family member should be contributing

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Speaker 4: one hundred and fifty to two hundred and fifty plus dollars.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, if nobody can.

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Speaker 4: Be paid seventy five dollars, then I got to factor

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Speaker 4: that out.

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Speaker 1: Hey, if you're paying seventy five, I feel like if

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Speaker 1: you ask for that money, you should already assume that

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Speaker 1: you're not getting a gift, right.

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Speaker 5: You know, you know I was a gift all this,

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Speaker 5: But now that I'm thinking about it, if you give

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Speaker 5: me the seventy five dollars for my you know my

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Speaker 5: wedding for the plate, yes, and I have open bar,

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Speaker 5: you got food and drinks, and then I kind of

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Speaker 5: make my money back for the wedding.

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Speaker 3: With hopes that they do give me a gift.

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Speaker 2: Hey, who's this?

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Speaker 6: Hi? This is Chris.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Chris. Let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 1: You get an invitation to a wedding, but in that

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Speaker 1: invitation it also says, hey, we're asking that you pay

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Speaker 1: for your plate.

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Speaker 2: We need seventy five dollars.

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Speaker 1: Do you accept that invitation and go to the wedding

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Speaker 1: or are you politely declining?

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Speaker 7: I think I would go, but personally, if it was

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Speaker 7: me doing the invitation, I would do it more like

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Speaker 7: the way Spirit Airlines does it, where you say, oh,

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Speaker 7: actually we're only going to charge you one dollar for

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Speaker 7: your plate, but then you have a big asterisk next

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Speaker 7: to it, and then down there in fine print where

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Speaker 7: nobody can read it, it's like an additional fees may apply.

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Speaker 7: That way, you get the I had a card number

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Speaker 7: of all your guests that are going, and you charge

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Speaker 7: him on the back end once the wedding is done.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm just hitting this is crazy And Jed

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Speaker 1: would you please save his name?

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Speaker 2: This is straight. Chris. Yeah, it is you forever. What

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Speaker 2: have you been up to?

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Speaker 7: Oh, I don't know. I'm just saying it out, man.

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Speaker 7: I know I shouldn't. I shouldn't say this, but occasionally

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Speaker 7: I get in my car and I turn on like

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Speaker 7: Spotify instead. I know I shouldn't. I shouldn't say that.

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: You're completely okay with them or I'm completely okay with them.

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Speaker 2: Straight, Chris. See, that's a good hand.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to invite Chris to my wedding again because

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Speaker 1: I know that I get some I like that.

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Speaker 7: I don't be looking forward to my invitation here. I'm

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Speaker 7: going to read my actual address on the air.

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Speaker 2: Chris will talk to you later. Hey, Vanessa, Hey, how

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Speaker 2: are you?

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Speaker 1: You say you would not go more time? So this

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Speaker 1: is a wedding invitation. People are going crazy over it.

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Speaker 1: So the wedding invitation is a note attached to it,

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Speaker 1: and it says attendees are being asked to pay seventy

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Speaker 1: five dollars per person that will offset the cost of

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Speaker 1: the wedding, essentially paying for their plate.

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Speaker 6: So I would go, but you're like taking away from

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Speaker 6: like the gifts that you could beginning. Yeah, it's like

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Speaker 6: you're forcing You're forcing them to give you something. So

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Speaker 6: it's a party at the end of the day, and

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Speaker 6: you're inviting them and you made it. So we're just

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Speaker 6: attending and we're we're able to bring what we want.

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Speaker 6: It stillls like more forceful, like you have to pay

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Speaker 6: us or you have to give us something. You know

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Speaker 6: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: How about this? All right?

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Speaker 1: We go out, which, by the way, we still need

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Speaker 1: to go out for Jed's birthday.

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Speaker 2: So we go out for jedid, Yes, we do.

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Speaker 1: When I get back from Tucson, We're going we go

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Speaker 1: out for Jed's birthday.

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Speaker 2: What happens, Well, we take care of Jed's being. It's

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Speaker 2: his birthday, right, So people are getting Yeah, exactly should

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Speaker 2: you be taking care of their wedding? No, you choose

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Speaker 2: j choose his life. Yeah, chose for Joe.

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Speaker 4: Joe. If I'm giving you a hundred, let's I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna be a cheap ass. May give you a good

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Speaker 4: wedding gift, but let's say you give me. Let's just

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Speaker 4: say I give you one thousand dollars what I shouldn't

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Speaker 4: have to pay for a freak?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, what if I was giving you one thousand dollars.

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Speaker 6: Now you're telling me to pay seventy five dollars. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 6: I guess what.

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Speaker 2: Twenty five dollars. I'm like, God, I love that.

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