Speaker 1: It's the second date update, Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2: All right, time now for second date update? Why are
Speaker 2: you not getting a call? Delaney's getting ghosted? Delaney, You
Speaker 2: guys went to a Pistons game. You probably saw a
Speaker 2: cavet the Pistons game there, and you had your first
Speaker 2: date going to a game, and now he's not calling.
Speaker 1: You back after that date? Yep?
Speaker 2: Wow, What do you think is going on? Do you
Speaker 2: think that there's somebody else in his life? You mean
Speaker 2: he's got somebody else going on?
Speaker 3: Or I honestly don't know. I'm not really that surprised
Speaker 3: when it comes to guys, but I felt like the
Speaker 3: date went really well. So that's the only reason why
Speaker 3: I'm calling you, guys, because I'm genuinely confused.
Speaker 2: That's kind of wild, though, that guys do this a lot.
Speaker 2: This is their thing. They just kind of go on
Speaker 2: on a date, have fun, you know, and then just
Speaker 2: never call back. I'll say, guys, girls, to be fair, yea,
Speaker 2: what was the last thing that was said when you
Speaker 2: guys said goodbye to each other?
Speaker 1: Said good night to each other?
Speaker 3: He literally said good night. He gave me a hug,
Speaker 3: very respectful, which I gave him points for and I
Speaker 3: was like, great, hope to see you soon, and he
Speaker 3: was like, yep.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Because I feel like if he really liked do
Speaker 4: you guys, he would have been like, Okay, let's hang
Speaker 4: out on.
Speaker 2: Thursday, or he's happy and as respectful and he's giving
Speaker 2: her a kiss or something too. But the yep is
Speaker 2: kind of let's find out what's going on. Delaney say
Speaker 2: hello to Colin.
Speaker 3: Hey, Colin, remember me?
Speaker 2: Okay, Colin, Hey Mojo in the morning, you're on the
Speaker 2: air with us, and Delaney called us to do second
Speaker 2: date update and wants to know what's going on and
Speaker 2: if there's a possibility of maybe a second date.
Speaker 5: Yeah, uh, I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: You're not sure that there's a possibility of a second day?
Speaker 5: No, did you.
Speaker 4: Enjoy your first day?
Speaker 5: I mean it was okay. I just thought I don't know,
Speaker 5: I just there was just a couple of things that
Speaker 5: made me feel like it was a little off.
Speaker 1: What were the couple of things that made you feel off? Well?
Speaker 5: I mean I don't know. I just felt like I
Speaker 5: felt like she was a little selfish, you know, selfish?
Speaker 1: Sorry, why was she selfish?
Speaker 5: I mean, you know, like, as a guy you're you're
Speaker 5: expected to, you know, do your due diligence and pay
Speaker 5: for pay for everything. But I mean I paid for
Speaker 5: everything in a car and parking and that kind of
Speaker 5: stuff and and tickets and food and and I think
Speaker 5: it would have been a nice gesture if she had
Speaker 5: offered to pay for you know, one or two things.
Speaker 5: And I really.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't Delaney, Delaney, you didn't offer to do anything.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, he asked me out, and it's very expected
Speaker 3: that when a guy asks someone out that he pays
Speaker 3: for what they're doing that day.
Speaker 5: So no, I didn't offer.
Speaker 3: But that's not weird, that's normal.
Speaker 1: So what you are saying, what, how is the date?
Speaker 1: You know? How did it happen? Like he said, Hey,
Speaker 1: I want to take you to a to a Pistons game.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have mutual friends and he reached out to
Speaker 3: me through one of my friends and asked me out
Speaker 3: on a date to go to a distance game.
Speaker 2: Okay, and so he picks you up, I'm assuming, and
Speaker 2: takes you to the game. You guys go to Little
Speaker 2: Caesars and go to the game park and she yeah.
Speaker 3: Heah, We go to dinner, we go to the game,
Speaker 3: We get a drink. He seemed really normal.
Speaker 2: He's got tickets, so he had tickets already. He paid
Speaker 2: for parking, he paid for dinner, he paid for drinks. Colin,
Speaker 2: where do you where do you think that she should
Speaker 2: have been offering to help?
Speaker 5: I think I think like looking at looking at drinks.
Speaker 5: For example, I had two drinks, and I think if
Speaker 5: we had stopped it too, that would have been I
Speaker 5: would have been fine. But then she goes up and
Speaker 5: she she gets another expecting you know, me to pay
Speaker 5: for it.
Speaker 2: So wait, so you guys are you guys are at
Speaker 2: the concessions there, she orders the drink, and what did
Speaker 2: she do? Did she look at you like, hey, are
Speaker 2: you going to put your credit card down here and
Speaker 2: tap this?
Speaker 5: I mean yeah, I mean she didn't. You don't know
Speaker 5: she had money on her.
Speaker 2: So, Delaney, you didn't even like when you went and
Speaker 2: ordered a drink, and Colin, you did not order a
Speaker 2: drink at the concessions at that time.
Speaker 5: I mean I felt I felt like, well, I mean,
Speaker 5: I guess, I guess we're doing another one, okay.
Speaker 2: So Dlane, you didn't like even make an attempt to
Speaker 2: go towards your purse like you were gonna pay.
Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't know that he was like counting drinks
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, and I thought he was getting
Speaker 3: one with me. So no, I didn't reach for my
Speaker 3: purse because he had just paid for the last two.
Speaker 3: I thought we were getting another drink. I didn't think
Speaker 3: one was any different.
Speaker 2: Here's a question I'm gonna ask you, Shannon, and I'm
Speaker 2: lydia and beyond kind of stuff. As women, if you
Speaker 2: go out with a guy, do you just assume that
Speaker 2: everything's paid for or do you at least attempt to go.
Speaker 4: Toward Okay, So I'm very old fashioned with the whole
Speaker 4: first date thing. I do think a guy should pay
Speaker 4: for the first date my opinion, thank you.
Speaker 1: However, in your.
Speaker 4: Case, there were a lot of different pieces to this
Speaker 4: first date, and knowing myself, once we're ordering drinks inside
Speaker 4: of LCA, after he's already paid for tickets, parking, dinner, drinks,
Speaker 4: I would definitely be offering to pay for a drink
Speaker 4: or two.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's me. I agree.
Speaker 6: For the most part, I do think you should have
Speaker 6: given it a second chance, because I also think as
Speaker 6: a woman, it's after the first date where I'm like, oh,
Speaker 6: this guy's very nice. He did a great job the
Speaker 6: first date. Second date, I'm like, okay, my turn, Like,
Speaker 6: let me do something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Amanda, what do you think?
Speaker 7: I agree with Shannon in the sense that I probably
Speaker 7: would have offered, but I also believe that I mean,
Speaker 7: she might just be old fashioned. I don't think there's
Speaker 7: anything wrong. I don't think she's selfish, though. I don't
Speaker 7: think that was the right word to use. I think
Speaker 7: that was a bit odd and maybe he should have
Speaker 7: given her another chance. Maybe she would have paid for
Speaker 7: the next date. So I don't know. I think he
Speaker 7: just jumped the gun on that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, especially if.
Speaker 1: You guys had a good time. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: like miscommunication. That sort of stuff.
Speaker 4: On a first date can be really awkward and confusing.
Speaker 4: So if you had a good time, do I definitely
Speaker 4: go out again?
Speaker 1: What do you think, Sean? I don't know.
Speaker 5: She should have stayed for nothing. It's on the first date,
Speaker 5: for sure. Second date, maybe if she wants to offer something, yeah,
Speaker 5: go for it. I agree with.
Speaker 2: You, but I don't think it's necessarily Can I say something.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's Colin saying that she shouldn't she
Speaker 2: should pay. I think He's like, at least make an
Speaker 2: attempt second date, not for not really interesting Anthony, What
Speaker 2: do you think I I think you should pay for
Speaker 2: everything that's I was raised by my grandparents and that's
Speaker 2: the way a man is supposed to do it. But
Speaker 2: what about her not even making an attempt to try
Speaker 2: to say that, you know.
Speaker 5: I mean, that could be like possibly the first time
Speaker 5: in history.
Speaker 1: I'm in my forties.
Speaker 5: And I've always paid for the first date.
Speaker 2: You never had a girl though, say hey, can I
Speaker 2: split this with you or anything of that.
Speaker 5: I mean, if they do, I don't accept it.
Speaker 1: I pay for it, right, But I think I think
Speaker 1: that's what Colin's thinking.
Speaker 2: So when you got dropped off Delaney, you said something
Speaker 2: really interesting to us in the beginning, you said, it
Speaker 2: didn't seem like he was like he was kind of
Speaker 2: like or what was the words that you used, Yeah, yeah, yeah, like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he gave me a hug, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: like this was great. I hope to see you soon, and.
Speaker 2: He said, yep, yeah, that didn't make you go something's
Speaker 2: not good here, like I should see if he's okay.
Speaker 8: Honestly, the way that he was acting, he was laughing
Speaker 8: the whole night like he was, we were chatting, we
Speaker 8: were talking. There wasn't that many signs that anything was
Speaker 8: going wrong. And if he really felt that way, he's
Speaker 8: a man, he should say something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Laura, what did you want to say?
Speaker 3: I was texting because it sounds like this could have
Speaker 3: also been an episode of.
Speaker 7: Am I the A Hole?
Speaker 3: I definitely think she should have at least offered. I mean,
Speaker 3: I haven't been on a first date in what feels
Speaker 3: like a million years, but back when I was like
Speaker 3: I would have at least been offering or maybe, depending
Speaker 3: on the situation, like insisting like no, no, no, like I
Speaker 3: got this too, because I was very proud, like I
Speaker 3: can handle myself too. I don't need you to pay
Speaker 3: for my stuff.
Speaker 2: Interesting, Uh, we got a side opinion because we feel
Speaker 2: like we're the only ones they are saying that maybe
Speaker 2: she should offered a lot of listeners are saying she
Speaker 2: shouldn't have Katie, what's up?
Speaker 7: Good morning?
Speaker 8: I was just going to say that, in my opinion.
Speaker 3: Whoever asks for the date, whoever asks you to dinner,
Speaker 3: is the one that pays for it.
Speaker 5: Okay, it's fashional thing, but that's how we were raised.
Speaker 2: Okay, a lot of people saying that, a lot of
Speaker 2: people texting that what's up Churi, Hey, yeah.
Speaker 9: I think that that is ridiculous. Just to be totally honest,
Speaker 9: I'm with shayn It and Lydion that maybe the second
Speaker 9: or third day I would pay for something, but first date, no,
Speaker 9: absolutely not. I think that he had expectations that were ridiculous. Okay,
Speaker 9: it's to hold it against her and not communicated.
Speaker 1: That's just why she had too.
Speaker 6: Made an interesting point saying, this isn't like a traditional
Speaker 6: word just going out to.
Speaker 4: There are a lot of guess, lots of different opportunities.
Speaker 1: He paid a lot. It was an expensive first date
Speaker 1: for sure.
Speaker 9: Well he should have he should have picked a dinner
Speaker 9: then for the first date. He shouldn't have picked the
Speaker 9: game because things add.
Speaker 1: Very poifully, you know what I do have.
Speaker 2: By the way, in my text, a lot of women
Speaker 2: saying they want to know where Colin goes in dates
Speaker 2: because they want to meet Colin because anybody has taken
Speaker 2: you on a date like that for a first date.
Speaker 2: They want a date that's actually that is a pretty
Speaker 2: impressive first date. And by the way, how did Kevin do?
Speaker 2: Did he do a good job at the game. I
Speaker 2: bet he did, right, crazy question, Yeah, did you get
Speaker 2: free drinks that I don't drink? You don't drink to
Speaker 2: be a different situation, It's funny you drink on this
Speaker 2: job here, but you know, maybe I need to.
Speaker 1: That is true. Let's have one right now. The five
Speaker 1: should tell your mom to carries and Shannon's Dirty on
Speaker 1: the thirty in the morning.