WEBVTT - Second Date Update: He Paid for Everything  

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update, Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, time now for second date update? Why are

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<v Speaker 2>you not getting a call? Delaney's getting ghosted? Delaney, You

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<v Speaker 2>guys went to a Pistons game. You probably saw a

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<v Speaker 2>cavet the Pistons game there, and you had your first

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<v Speaker 2>date going to a game, and now he's not calling.

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<v Speaker 1>You back after that date? Yep?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, What do you think is going on? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>think that there's somebody else in his life? You mean

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<v Speaker 2>he's got somebody else going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Or I honestly don't know. I'm not really that surprised

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<v Speaker 3>when it comes to guys, but I felt like the

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<v Speaker 3>date went really well. So that's the only reason why

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<v Speaker 3>I'm calling you, guys, because I'm genuinely confused.

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<v Speaker 2>That's kind of wild, though, that guys do this a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>This is their thing. They just kind of go on

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<v Speaker 2>on a date, have fun, you know, and then just

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<v Speaker 2>never call back. I'll say, guys, girls, to be fair, yea,

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<v Speaker 2>what was the last thing that was said when you

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<v Speaker 2>guys said goodbye to each other?

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<v Speaker 1>Said good night to each other?

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<v Speaker 3>He literally said good night. He gave me a hug,

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<v Speaker 3>very respectful, which I gave him points for and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, great, hope to see you soon, and he

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<v Speaker 3>was like, yep.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Because I feel like if he really liked do

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<v Speaker 4>you guys, he would have been like, Okay, let's hang

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<v Speaker 4>out on.

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<v Speaker 2>Thursday, or he's happy and as respectful and he's giving

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<v Speaker 2>her a kiss or something too. But the yep is

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<v Speaker 2>kind of let's find out what's going on. Delaney say

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<v Speaker 2>hello to Colin.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Colin, remember me?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Colin, Hey Mojo in the morning, you're on the

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<v Speaker 2>air with us, and Delaney called us to do second

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<v Speaker 2>date update and wants to know what's going on and

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<v Speaker 2>if there's a possibility of maybe a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, uh, I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not sure that there's a possibility of a second day?

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<v Speaker 5>No, did you.

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<v Speaker 4>Enjoy your first day?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it was okay. I just thought I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>I just there was just a couple of things that

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<v Speaker 5>made me feel like it was a little off.

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<v Speaker 1>What were the couple of things that made you feel off? Well?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I don't know. I just felt like I

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<v Speaker 5>felt like she was a little selfish, you know, selfish?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, why was she selfish?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you know, like, as a guy you're you're

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<v Speaker 5>expected to, you know, do your due diligence and pay

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<v Speaker 5>for pay for everything. But I mean I paid for

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<v Speaker 5>everything in a car and parking and that kind of

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<v Speaker 5>stuff and and tickets and food and and I think

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<v Speaker 5>it would have been a nice gesture if she had

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<v Speaker 5>offered to pay for you know, one or two things.

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<v Speaker 5>And I really.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't Delaney, Delaney, you didn't offer to do anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, he asked me out, and it's very expected

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<v Speaker 3>that when a guy asks someone out that he pays

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<v Speaker 3>for what they're doing that day.

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<v Speaker 5>So no, I didn't offer.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's not weird, that's normal.

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<v Speaker 1>So what you are saying, what, how is the date?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? How did it happen? Like he said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to take you to a to a Pistons game.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we have mutual friends and he reached out to

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<v Speaker 3>me through one of my friends and asked me out

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<v Speaker 3>on a date to go to a distance game.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and so he picks you up, I'm assuming, and

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<v Speaker 2>takes you to the game. You guys go to Little

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<v Speaker 2>Caesars and go to the game park and she yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Heah, We go to dinner, we go to the game,

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<v Speaker 3>We get a drink. He seemed really normal.

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<v Speaker 2>He's got tickets, so he had tickets already. He paid

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<v Speaker 2>for parking, he paid for dinner, he paid for drinks. Colin,

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<v Speaker 2>where do you where do you think that she should

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<v Speaker 2>have been offering to help?

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<v Speaker 5>I think I think like looking at looking at drinks.

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<v Speaker 5>For example, I had two drinks, and I think if

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<v Speaker 5>we had stopped it too, that would have been I

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<v Speaker 5>would have been fine. But then she goes up and

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<v Speaker 5>she she gets another expecting you know, me to pay

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<v Speaker 5>for it.

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, so you guys are you guys are at

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<v Speaker 2>the concessions there, she orders the drink, and what did

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<v Speaker 2>she do? Did she look at you like, hey, are

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<v Speaker 2>you going to put your credit card down here and

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<v Speaker 2>tap this?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean yeah, I mean she didn't. You don't know

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<v Speaker 5>she had money on her.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Delaney, you didn't even like when you went and

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<v Speaker 2>ordered a drink, and Colin, you did not order a

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<v Speaker 2>drink at the concessions at that time.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I felt I felt like, well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I guess, I guess we're doing another one, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So Dlane, you didn't like even make an attempt to

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<v Speaker 2>go towards your purse like you were gonna pay.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I didn't know that he was like counting drinks

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<v Speaker 3>all of a sudden, and I thought he was getting

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<v Speaker 3>one with me. So no, I didn't reach for my

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<v Speaker 3>purse because he had just paid for the last two.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought we were getting another drink. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 3>one was any different.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a question I'm gonna ask you, Shannon, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>lydia and beyond kind of stuff. As women, if you

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<v Speaker 2>go out with a guy, do you just assume that

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<v Speaker 2>everything's paid for or do you at least attempt to go.

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<v Speaker 4>Toward Okay, So I'm very old fashioned with the whole

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<v Speaker 4>first date thing. I do think a guy should pay

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<v Speaker 4>for the first date my opinion, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>However, in your.

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<v Speaker 4>Case, there were a lot of different pieces to this

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<v Speaker 4>first date, and knowing myself, once we're ordering drinks inside

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<v Speaker 4>of LCA, after he's already paid for tickets, parking, dinner, drinks,

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<v Speaker 4>I would definitely be offering to pay for a drink

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<v Speaker 4>or two.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's me. I agree.

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<v Speaker 6>For the most part, I do think you should have

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<v Speaker 6>given it a second chance, because I also think as

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<v Speaker 6>a woman, it's after the first date where I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>this guy's very nice. He did a great job the

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<v Speaker 6>first date. Second date, I'm like, okay, my turn, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>let me do something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Amanda, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 7>I agree with Shannon in the sense that I probably

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<v Speaker 7>would have offered, but I also believe that I mean,

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<v Speaker 7>she might just be old fashioned. I don't think there's

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<v Speaker 7>anything wrong. I don't think she's selfish, though. I don't

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<v Speaker 7>think that was the right word to use. I think

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<v Speaker 7>that was a bit odd and maybe he should have

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<v Speaker 7>given her another chance. Maybe she would have paid for

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<v Speaker 7>the next date. So I don't know. I think he

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<v Speaker 7>just jumped the gun on that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, especially if.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys had a good time. I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like miscommunication. That sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>On a first date can be really awkward and confusing.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you had a good time, do I definitely

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<v Speaker 4>go out again?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Sean? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>She should have stayed for nothing. It's on the first date,

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<v Speaker 5>for sure. Second date, maybe if she wants to offer something, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>go for it. I agree with.

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<v Speaker 2>You, but I don't think it's necessarily Can I say something.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's Colin saying that she shouldn't she

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<v Speaker 2>should pay. I think He's like, at least make an

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<v Speaker 2>attempt second date, not for not really interesting Anthony, What

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<v Speaker 2>do you think I I think you should pay for

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<v Speaker 2>everything that's I was raised by my grandparents and that's

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<v Speaker 2>the way a man is supposed to do it. But

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<v Speaker 2>what about her not even making an attempt to try

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<v Speaker 2>to say that, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that could be like possibly the first time

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<v Speaker 5>in history.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in my forties.

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<v Speaker 5>And I've always paid for the first date.

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<v Speaker 2>You never had a girl though, say hey, can I

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<v Speaker 2>split this with you or anything of that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, if they do, I don't accept it.

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<v Speaker 1>I pay for it, right, But I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's what Colin's thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you got dropped off Delaney, you said something

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<v Speaker 2>really interesting to us in the beginning, you said, it

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<v Speaker 2>didn't seem like he was like he was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like or what was the words that you used, Yeah, yeah, yeah, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he gave me a hug, and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>like this was great. I hope to see you soon, and.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, yep, yeah, that didn't make you go something's

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<v Speaker 2>not good here, like I should see if he's okay.

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<v Speaker 8>Honestly, the way that he was acting, he was laughing

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<v Speaker 8>the whole night like he was, we were chatting, we

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<v Speaker 8>were talking. There wasn't that many signs that anything was

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<v Speaker 8>going wrong. And if he really felt that way, he's

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<v Speaker 8>a man, he should say something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Laura, what did you want to say?

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<v Speaker 3>I was texting because it sounds like this could have

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<v Speaker 3>also been an episode of.

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<v Speaker 7>Am I the A Hole?

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<v Speaker 3>I definitely think she should have at least offered. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't been on a first date in what feels

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<v Speaker 3>like a million years, but back when I was like

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<v Speaker 3>I would have at least been offering or maybe, depending

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<v Speaker 3>on the situation, like insisting like no, no, no, like I

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<v Speaker 3>got this too, because I was very proud, like I

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<v Speaker 3>can handle myself too. I don't need you to pay

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<v Speaker 3>for my stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, Uh, we got a side opinion because we feel

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<v Speaker 2>like we're the only ones they are saying that maybe

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<v Speaker 2>she should offered a lot of listeners are saying she

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't have Katie, what's up?

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<v Speaker 7>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 8>I was just going to say that, in my opinion.

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<v Speaker 3>Whoever asks for the date, whoever asks you to dinner,

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<v Speaker 3>is the one that pays for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, it's fashional thing, but that's how we were raised.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, a lot of people saying that, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people texting that what's up Churi, Hey, yeah.

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<v Speaker 9>I think that that is ridiculous. Just to be totally honest,

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<v Speaker 9>I'm with shayn It and Lydion that maybe the second

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<v Speaker 9>or third day I would pay for something, but first date, no,

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<v Speaker 9>absolutely not. I think that he had expectations that were ridiculous. Okay,

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<v Speaker 9>it's to hold it against her and not communicated.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just why she had too.

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<v Speaker 6>Made an interesting point saying, this isn't like a traditional

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<v Speaker 6>word just going out to.

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<v Speaker 4>There are a lot of guess, lots of different opportunities.

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<v Speaker 1>He paid a lot. It was an expensive first date

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<v Speaker 1>for sure.

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<v Speaker 9>Well he should have he should have picked a dinner

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<v Speaker 9>then for the first date. He shouldn't have picked the

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<v Speaker 9>game because things add.

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<v Speaker 1>Very poifully, you know what I do have.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, in my text, a lot of women

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<v Speaker 2>saying they want to know where Colin goes in dates

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<v Speaker 2>because they want to meet Colin because anybody has taken

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<v Speaker 2>you on a date like that for a first date.

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<v Speaker 2>They want a date that's actually that is a pretty

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<v Speaker 2>impressive first date. And by the way, how did Kevin do?

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<v Speaker 2>Did he do a good job at the game. I

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<v Speaker 2>bet he did, right, crazy question, Yeah, did you get

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<v Speaker 2>free drinks that I don't drink? You don't drink to

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<v Speaker 2>be a different situation, It's funny you drink on this

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<v Speaker 2>job here, but you know, maybe I need to.

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<v Speaker 1>That is true. Let's have one right now. The five

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<v Speaker 1>should tell your mom to carries and Shannon's Dirty on

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<v Speaker 1>the thirty in the morning.