1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: It's Mojo in the Morning show yesterday on the show, 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: and I got emotional when her sister called her up 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: during the show, and I thought that was beautiful that 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: Bianca posted that. If you didn't see that, you can 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: go onto our Instagram. I thought it was sweet because 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: of your sister called up and your sister said some 7 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: very very nice things about you. And then you guys 8 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: talked to each other for a brief moment and you 9 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: mentioned something about how you're going through like a little struggle. 10 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: But then after the show happened, we had one of 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: those moments as a show. 12 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: So how you doing today? 13 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 3: I'm doing okay. So something that I've always struggled with 14 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 3: is talking about how I'm feeling when I'm going through something. 15 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 3: I don't know if this is common for people, but 16 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: when I'm going through something tough, I would rather not 17 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 3: talk about it to literally anyone until I have some 18 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: sort of resolution or some answers, because I just I 19 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 3: don't what is there to say, besides everything's going terribly 20 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 3: in this situation. Yesterday, my sister called I was having 21 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: a tough day already. We have been going through something 22 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 3: that I'm not ready to share on air. Yet for 23 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 3: probably about the past month, and yesterday was just hard. 24 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,919 Speaker 3: When I woke up when she called, I got emotional 25 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 3: and started crying. So I felt that I needed to 26 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 3: tell the show of what was going on because y'all 27 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 3: are probably like, why is this girl crying right now? 28 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: So I did, and immediately after I mentioned it, Shannon 29 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 3: was like, if you ever need to talk, I went 30 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 3: through something very similar and it's just crazy to me 31 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 3: how my instinct is to not talk about it at all. 32 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 3: But when I did talk about it, I instantly had 33 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 3: some relief because I was like, wow, like somebody else 34 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 3: went through this and can help me through it. And 35 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 3: it was just a reminder that maybe it's not always 36 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 3: good to just. 37 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,959 Speaker 2: Keep your feelings in. Yeah, that's awesome. 38 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, so thank you Shannon, And yeah, definitely something I 39 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 3: will open up to the listeners about. 40 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 2: Now is just not the time. 41 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: You know, It's funny because of when your sister called up. 42 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: The thing that I loved was I loved it's cool 43 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: to have siblings, Like siblings are cool, it's cool to 44 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: also have your siblings tell you how much they love 45 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: you and how how what you mean to be and 46 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: nobody knows you better than probably your siblings. I know, 47 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: I know, we think our friends know us, but there's 48 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: something about the fact that you guys came out at 49 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: the same place. 50 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 51 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 4: And I also think a moment like yesterday, Anna it like, 52 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 4: That's one of the really cool things about this show 53 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: is I think that sometimes we have people in our life, 54 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 4: and in this case, your sister who you like, you 55 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 4: want to say things like that too. You want to 56 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 4: tell somebody how much they mean to you. Maybe the 57 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 4: occasion never arises, or you're nervous to for whatever reason, 58 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 4: or it's just like we don't talk to each other 59 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 4: that way, and so yesterday was that opportunity and I 60 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 4: could tell that that that wasn't maybe a common thing 61 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 4: or you just really needed it in that moment full transparency. 62 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 3: My sister and I are like five years apart, so 63 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 3: we've never been super close, Like we don't talk about emotions. 64 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 3: That's actually my entire family. We never have talked about 65 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 3: our emotions. So hearing her say that, I was like, WHOA, 66 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 3: that's weird because usually we're fighting or not talking. And 67 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 3: it just meant a lot. So thank you, Allisons. 68 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: Can I also to say this about it as a 69 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: show like you talk about siblings. I think that you 70 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: guys are like siblings too, all you know, like to me, 71 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: and I know that we kind of played, you know, 72 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: like we talk about family, like we're like a family. 73 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: And I always said, I always loved that, and then 74 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: I realized we're not necessarily a family, but we're a 75 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: work family and we're an extension of what a family 76 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: can be. But it's nice because we spend so many 77 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: hours together to be able to and I've done it 78 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: in the past, all of us, I think have done it. 79 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: We've come to each other and said, hey, I'm going 80 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: through this. It's nice to be able to open up 81 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:21,119 Speaker 1: and say that, and I could tell that you felt 82 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: relieved I did. And then afterwards we did shots together, 83 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: which is kind nice to have a bar. But I 84 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: in my case of where I've said something to you 85 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: guys and told you guys something that was going on 86 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: in my real family's life, it's awesome to be able 87 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: to know that you guys can be trusted with what 88 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: you were just told and that I know that you 89 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: guys are going to protect me and protect my family 90 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: and pray for us. 91 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: And you know what, I mean, like I really do. 92 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: I think it's I feel bad when I talk to 93 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: my friends about their work. I feel bad that not 94 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: everybody gets to work in a safe environment like this, 95 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: Like there are people that just punch clocks, you know 96 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: what I mean, or some people that don't even know 97 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: who their coworkers are. And the sad part is you 98 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: don't know what you're what that person that may be 99 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: in a hole to you that you work with, or 100 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: somebody that just basically is the person you just say 101 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: hi to, you don't know what they're going through, you know. 102 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 2: YEA weight is. 103 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 5: A real thing, man, And I feel as though we 104 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 5: are all blessed with the ability to hold a certain 105 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 5: level of weight, and sometimes life provides more weight than 106 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:39,359 Speaker 5: we've been blessed with the ability to carry, and the 107 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 5: only thing we can do in many instances is give 108 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 5: it to God, but also release it. 109 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 2: And when you finally. 110 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 5: Exhale and release and you're provided a safe environment to 111 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 5: do that, then you get back to carrying the weight 112 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 5: that you were supposed to carry in the first place. 113 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 5: And I think that's a problem with like a lot 114 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 5: a society right now, is like we're holding a lot more. 115 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,559 Speaker 6: Than we're all trying to process on our own, yeah, 116 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 6: and also trying to to I don't want to use 117 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 6: the word pretend in my mind because I don't know 118 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 6: why that's in my mind though, But you know, we 119 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,679 Speaker 6: want to hold more than what we're allotted and find 120 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 6: your people, even if it's journaling or if it's whatever 121 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 6: the case is, but like let some of that weight 122 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 6: go because it's so freeing. 123 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, me is freeing, and more people feel the same way, 124 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 3: more chances than not, I think. 125 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 2: Jessica, what's happening in this mojo on the morning? Good morning, 126 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 2: guys morning. 127 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,919 Speaker 7: I was just calling in to say, you know, Anna, 128 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 7: I completely understand I do the same thing. 129 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 6: And it's my. 130 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 7: Reasoning is because everyone goes through things and I just 131 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 7: don't feel like I want to burden people with my problems, 132 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 7: like keep everything inside. And I've come to realize it's 133 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 7: not a healthy thing to do, because yes, like you 134 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 7: have said, it feels great when you do actually. 135 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 3: Let it out. 136 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:07,359 Speaker 7: And so I just I feel your pain and yeah, 137 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 7: and I hope everything. 138 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 2: Goes well for you. 139 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 140 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: In a lot of cases, you've got to be able 141 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: to develop trust before you can do that too, and 142 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: you've been so so new to things that sometimes you 143 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: don't necessarily know who you're around or who you can trust. 144 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: Aaron, what's happening, Hey, Mojo? 145 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 8: How are you? 146 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: I'm good erin what's going on? 147 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 5: Nothing? 148 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 8: I just wanted to tell And I'm so proud of 149 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 8: you girl. I'm a therapist and I just wanted to 150 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 8: say that, like, vulnerability drives connection and a lot of 151 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 8: times we hold that in because we feel shame. But 152 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 8: I'm really proud of you for reaching out to Shannon, 153 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 8: and I'm so glad that she could hold space for you. 154 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 8: And I hope you feel like a weight's been lifted. 155 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 3: Definitely do. 156 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's awesome. I'm really proud of you, and just 157 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 8: keep on keeping on. These emotions aren't going to last 158 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 8: for us. And hopefully you feel like because Shannon could 159 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 8: hold space for you, that you can reach out to 160 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 8: people in the future for sure. 161 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: Karin, where are you a therapist? Where do you live? 162 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 163 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 8: I live Downriver, So I run a practice. It's called 164 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 8: Ironwood Psychotherapy Services. 165 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah. And if you go, if you 166 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: search them, you're on there. You're you're somebody that would 167 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: be nice to talk to. 168 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 8: I hope, so I hope my clients believe me better 169 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:33,839 Speaker 8: than cave In. But yeah, I'm located on Google businesses. 170 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 8: So thanks for the shout out. I really appreciate you guys, 171 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 8: and I love. 172 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 2: Your shown and we love you too. 173 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 1: Can I tell you, Sonny, I turned my therapist onto everybody. 174 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: And it's kind of wild that I never run into 175 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: people because so many people have gone there to go 176 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 1: see them. But sometimes the best way to get a 177 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 1: therapist is through somebody who you trust, you know what 178 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: I mean? And I reckonist. Yeah, So can I say 179 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: something real quick? My sister. This is something interesting. My 180 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 1: sister miscarried and and she's a She is a bakery 181 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 1: manager one of our favorite grocery stores. Okay, she goes 182 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: in every single day as a bakery manager. And she 183 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: asked Tom set up the hours and all this for 184 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: people that are working there. And I asked her, I said, so, 185 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: how are your coworkers with you know, you being off 186 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 1: from work because of what happened mah, And She's like, 187 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: I don't tell anybody. And I said to her, I go, 188 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: you don't tell anybody? And she goes, no, because honestly, nobody. 189 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: I know, nobody's going to care. And I said, why 190 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: do you feel that way? And she goes, because even 191 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: if you have a cold or something like that day, 192 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: nobody ever says anything to you like, hey, how you 193 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: feeling today? Or oh man, you don't you know you 194 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: don't look like it looks so good today or whatever 195 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 1: the deal is. And it was a customer that came 196 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: up to her. Then the next day after we had 197 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: that conversation and said to her, hey, yeah, she's putting 198 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 1: cakes into a refrigerator and said, hey, I see you 199 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: every single day and I can tell there's something that 200 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: seems like it's. 201 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 2: Burdening you right now. Are you doing okay? 202 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: And literally my sister just went what it opened up 203 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 1: to this person and started having a conversation, and then 204 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: coworkers started asking her and I said, sometimes we don't 205 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: as people that every single day we work ten twelve 206 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: hours a day or whatever we're doing with people every 207 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: day just go hey, how are you? 208 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 4: Like, for real, how are you doing? 209 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 2: And I will say this to you. 210 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: There's a guy that works here at the station and 211 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say his name, but Tom came in studio 212 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: for a backstage past with friends of his. And I 213 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: had no idea Tom's story. And it was a person 214 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: that came that he brought in and another person that 215 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: was here that told me about you know, Tom and 216 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: all the things that he's got going on in his life. 217 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: And you know, he's got a beautiful family, but he's 218 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: got you know some you know some a child that 219 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: deals with a handicap, you know, wife also and stuff. 220 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: And this guy every single day sits in the African 221 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: office right there with a smile on his face and 222 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: helps every single one of these salespeople. 223 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 2: And all of our people. 224 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I look at that guy going and this 225 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: guy's got a life. I mean, I think my life 226 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: is tough because my one kid's not coming home and Thanksgiving, 227 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: the other's not coming home at Christmas. And I look 228 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: at the stuff going on, and I will say this 229 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: to you that we should all take the moment and 230 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: this is us too on the show to walk up 231 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: to somebody that we normally don't talk to, that maybe 232 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: we work with, or we see every single day. The 233 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,559 Speaker 1: security guard up at the front, the guy that's sitting 234 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: across the street that works at the corn beef place. 235 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: You know what, I mean a sales rep or traffic 236 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: person and just say how are you doing? Not what 237 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: can what are you doing? Or you know, hey, weather's great, 238 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: but how are you doing? Yeah, because you never know 239 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: if you're going to be the blessing to that person's day. 240 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: And honestly, you never know if that person has anybody 241 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: that they go home to that they can actually talk to. 242 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: You know, you're great at that country. We're so good 243 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 2: at it. 244 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: Ken Kevin, Kevin's a master of I got we had, 245 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: we've we've had like engineers forever that honestly, I was 246 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:00,599 Speaker 1: afraid to even talk to because I was afraid I 247 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: was gonna get barked at and stuff. And I look 248 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: and I see Kevin given like this hand slapped. 249 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 4: The lady that sits in her car every morning when 250 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 4: we're walking in. 251 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: You're like friends with her. 252 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: See so, But that's but that as honestly, it's like 253 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: that stuff has to happen. More like we talk about 254 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: the things that have to happen. We got to be 255 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: the people that And this is not just us as 256 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: a show, but I'm talking about anybody else listening. You 257 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: gotta we gotta lead by the example of what we 258 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: want you want. 259 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 4: To see and Anna, I think that you you gave 260 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 4: a really good reminder today of if somebody is trying 261 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 4: to process something really heavy on their own, let somebody in. 262 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 2: Just let somebody in today. 263 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 3: I agreed