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Speaker 1: All right, this is about to get wild, do you guys?

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Speaker 1: We know how it's been going with Sky her mom

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Speaker 1: and her new dad.

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Speaker 2: Not my new dad, my mom's husband.

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Speaker 3: I mean, basically, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean forty eight years old, okay, stepdad. I don't get

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Speaker 4: a new dad or a stepdad.

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Speaker 1: You don't get a stepdad. What do you mean if

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Speaker 1: you were more open to the way things are in

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Speaker 1: the relationship, I think that you would be okay with

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Speaker 1: the idea of say, yeah, I got a stepdad.

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Speaker 5: Now you know the way I put it sometimes because

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Speaker 5: my mom's remarried, talk about it.

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Speaker 6: Called my stepdad ken my bonus dad.

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Speaker 3: Oh that is that's adorable, Eddie.

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Speaker 5: I'm so lucky. I have my real dad yeah, and

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Speaker 5: a second dad, bonus. They're both amazing and different. That's

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Speaker 5: so How lucky am I?

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Speaker 4: You are very lucky. I don't have my dad, nor

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Speaker 4: do I.

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Speaker 2: Have a bonus dad.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I would like that. If I

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Speaker 3: was of that.

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Speaker 7: I got, you know, I've got divorced and my son

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Speaker 7: was saying bonus dad, I'd be pretty pitched.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't you know?

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Speaker 3: My dad though, I'm fighting for Dave. Oh okay, well whatever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I am. I. I'm not in the whole

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Speaker 4: I feel like, yeah, when you're a child and your family,

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Speaker 4: you know, splits up or whatever and remat marriage.

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Speaker 2: But when you're only.

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Speaker 6: I was, I was fourteen, fifteen.

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Speaker 4: I know, I'm almost fifty. A little different. It's a

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Speaker 4: little different. Should be at the new daddy.

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Speaker 3: So like that. That's a little creepy.

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Speaker 2: The whole thing is weird.

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Speaker 3: So Daddy, clearly, do you sit on his lap?

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Speaker 2: I clearly don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't sit on his lap.

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Speaker 4: None of this, Daddy, No, no, okay, I'm not talking

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Speaker 4: like that, all right.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what you said. It not me.

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Speaker 4: So this whole thing has been a transition from the moment, yes,

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Speaker 4: from the moment she told me that she had had

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Speaker 4: a secret boyfriend for months speak without letting me know,

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Speaker 4: till just a few months after that, her telling me

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Speaker 4: she's moving from San Diego County to live with him

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Speaker 4: and his children. Well, they don't live together. They're just

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Speaker 4: all in like the same air area cult commune.

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Speaker 2: No they're not communist.

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Speaker 3: Guy wants to get in there, but they're like.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, they're just like Laguna, except everybody stop

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Speaker 4: it they're like Laguna Long Beach.

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Speaker 2: That's like there, that's them up there.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not moving. I don't care.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't asked to move. I'm again don't live with

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Speaker 4: my mom. I'm an adult with my own family. But still,

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Speaker 4: even you know, being in my later forties, this still

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Speaker 4: has been a bit of an adjustment and something to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're kicking and screaming ettle thing that they do.

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Speaker 2: I'm not and screaming why don't you us. It's just

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Speaker 2: weird when you have.

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Speaker 4: It's just weird when you have Christmas with your mom

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Speaker 4: every single year and now you're getting every other years.

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Speaker 3: Time to grow up, Tika Bell, it's just weird.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, it's weird.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean you you are not okay with it,

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Speaker 1: and that's part of the problem. If you you could

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Speaker 1: go one way or the other. I'm fine with it.

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Speaker 1: You could be accepting and cool, which you're not, or

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Speaker 1: you could be a total brad about it, and then

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Speaker 1: you go, okay, I get it, But you're this weird

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Speaker 1: like kind of in between where we know you don't

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Speaker 1: like it, no, but you're not going to fully admit

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Speaker 1: it now. So it's like brutal, and I see it differently.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I see it differently. It's not the dream scenario.

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Speaker 4: So it's mom, and it's okay to everything that happens

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Speaker 4: is unexpected. So I then wrap my head around it,

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Speaker 3: After really okay for them, Yeah, it's happy.

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Speaker 5: It's okay to like drop a phone call to your

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Speaker 5: mom and go, hey, I really was looking forward to

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Speaker 5: spending Christmas?

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Speaker 2: Can we But that'll make her feel bad.

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Speaker 6: She's making you feel bad? Well yeah, but she you

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Speaker 2: But she's a love so it's like, what am I

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Speaker 6: What am I going to do?

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't be happy for well, no, that's

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Speaker 1: never stopping. So, yes, it's been. It's been difficult, to

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Speaker 1: say the least. And an even those guys saying you

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Speaker 1: know what she says, we know it's just tough.

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Speaker 3: And it's fine.

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Speaker 1: And so for the most part, you know, everything's going swimmingly.

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Speaker 1: Her mom lives up there with their new dad, and

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Speaker 1: you know, it seems like everything's fine and whatever. Yes,

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Speaker 1: there are some weird adjustments that you have to go

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Speaker 1: that just came down that. Uh I at this point,

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Speaker 1: I'm worried for you about you know, what's going to

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Speaker 1: charge of something pretty big really that I don't know

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Speaker 1: how Sky's gonna handle this.

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Speaker 4: Again, something I never thought about, something I didn't see coming.

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Speaker 2: Something I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know how I feel, because you know how you feel.

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Speaker 3: This is what is irritating. What happened? You know how

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Speaker 4: Well, like there's some common sense to it, but still

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Speaker 4: it's like, no, no, what weird?

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Speaker 3: This way weird?

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Speaker 2: We didn't have a talk about it. How did this

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Speaker 2: is what?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 4: So my mom sends me and my brother, because you know,

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Speaker 4: it's just the two of us, me and my brother

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Speaker 4: an email.

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Speaker 3: She loves to email, big communicator.

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Speaker 2: To emailer well everything like you know, just kind of

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Speaker 4: I don't know email, like when you have to type

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Speaker 4: more than a few sentences. It's in my family, it's

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Speaker 4: going to be an email.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy, yea.

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Speaker 2: And things need to be written down so they're documented.

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Speaker 4: In my family. That's always. That's always a thing, always

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Speaker 4: a thing. So she sends me and my brother an email.

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Speaker 4: The other day and on it is a c seed

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Speaker 4: her new husband.

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Speaker 3: And blind copy or.

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Speaker 4: No great okay, and she says high family, Hi, I

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Speaker 4: have revised my healthcare directive to make my new husband

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Speaker 4: the first healthcare agent in parentheses, probably first on the

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Speaker 4: scene to decide things on my behalf if needed. He

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Speaker 4: is very much wanting to work with you, guys. If

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Speaker 4: the need occurs, please print out and put in your

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Speaker 4: mom file.

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Speaker 2: Love you, mom, Emily.

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Speaker 3: Where's your mom file? Do you have one? I don't have? Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: nobody does. I definitely do so.

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Speaker 1: Basically that means in English, new dad is in charge

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Speaker 1: of pulling the plug. So Mom, you know, God forbid

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Speaker 1: and we never want this to happen. Mom goes under

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Speaker 1: some sort of sickness and you know there's nothing, not

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Speaker 1: not much left there. They'll go to him first and

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Speaker 1: say what would you like us to do? Keep her

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Speaker 1: alive or pull the plug right there? And it's up

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Speaker 1: to him now. If he wants to consult you, he can,

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Speaker 1: that's what the email is saying.

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Speaker 3: But he doesn't have to.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's pretty wild, Like we could literally show up

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Speaker 4: to the hospital and he's already pulled.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 7: I like that, she said, I like that. She said

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Speaker 7: in the email, he wants to work with you, guys.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that he I don't know that.

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Speaker 7: I would call my mom up immediately and be pretty

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Speaker 7: pissed off. Oh really, Oh yeah, you're telling me this

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Speaker 7: guy who's been your life for what two years?

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Speaker 3: Years? Years? Oh, he wants to work with me? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Oh well, how nice of him? You know about I mean,

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Speaker 3: I got forty eight years under the belt.

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Speaker 1: My opinion doesn't matter you.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well okay, look at his face, looking at his face,

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Speaker 7: Someone has someone wrapped around their finger. Well you know

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Speaker 7: what's next door? Oh we know?

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Speaker 3: Hey, f hi fan.

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Speaker 7: I just wanted to let you guys know that is

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Speaker 3: He wants to with you guys. So just to heads up,

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Speaker 6: It's going to be a team effort.

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Speaker 3: Keep yeah, keep this in mom file. It's coming. Guy.

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Speaker 3: I know you're saying, I can't talk you talk?

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Speaker 6: No, I can't talk guy?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, guy, how could.

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Speaker 6: You not call right away?

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Speaker 4: But if they're no, if they got married, shouldn't your

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Speaker 6: I guess this.

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Speaker 5: Late in life and then the fact that they've only

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Speaker 5: known each other for like three years, that's for me.

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Speaker 6: That's the thing.

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Speaker 5: Like my stepdad Ken, I'm assuming I haven't checked is probably.

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Speaker 3: The thirty years. Thirty years. It's a little different, and

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Speaker 3: I think that he should be in charge.

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Speaker 5: But I just would be so offended that, like this

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Speaker 1: And okay, it's a little bit it's a little bit tricky.

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Speaker 1: I don't I do think that a conversation should have

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking about how do you how do you feel

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Speaker 3: So whose idea was this?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I think we know if if Skuy's mom gets a cold,

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Speaker 1: this guy's pulling the plot, it's over.

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Speaker 3: I mean it's over. It's February fifth. It's February fifth.

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Speaker 7: I say, by June we get the Hey family email

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Speaker 7: that he's director without.

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Speaker 3: You know it's gonna happen. You know it's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and obviously you know you you you have every

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Speaker 7: right to think that. But did you think this was

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Speaker 3: Good point? Did you think he was going to move

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Speaker 3: months ago? I didn't think this was gonna happen. Your

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Speaker 7: Do you think your mom was going to move and

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Speaker 7: sell our house? So not around your family anymore?

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Speaker 2: Like I like.

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Speaker 4: No, these are thoughts that never crossed my mind. But

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Speaker 4: if somebody came to me and say, hey, do you

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Speaker 4: ever see a day where your mom puts her new

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Speaker 4: husband in charge of, you know, pulling the plug?

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Speaker 2: I would be like, oh crap, she she might, you know, because.

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Speaker 4: My mom is obsessed with like planning and end of

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Speaker 4: days and life trapping. That's why, like I've planned everything.

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Speaker 4: You know, you're also a wat Yeah, yeah, apple doesn't

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Speaker 1: So if somebody kids you had said, do you think

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Speaker 2: I do not believe.

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Speaker 3: Well, you don't think that's in the realm.

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Speaker 4: So those are two different things. So executor of the

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Speaker 4: those are two different things. So executor of the will

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Speaker 4: just means he's in charge of making sure everybody gets what's.

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Speaker 3: On the page.

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Speaker 1: No, that's not what the Then the will has changed

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Speaker 3: Of the will.

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Speaker 4: So my mom's already set that, like she's already basically, hey, absolutely,

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Speaker 4: you know me and my brother, you guys are the

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Speaker 2: And here's a list of the things that are going.

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Speaker 3: Can be adjusted to my new husband. So if somebody

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Speaker 3: came to.

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Speaker 4: Me and said, do you think she will adjust that?

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Speaker 4: Do you think she will change that to make like

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Speaker 4: him equal with you and your brother, I would say

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Speaker 4: no way.

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Speaker 2: I would say no, no way.

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Speaker 3: This is when that finally happened. I don't even know what.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what we're gonna be.

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Speaker 7: She'll finally say something because money's involved, so she'll finally

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Speaker 6: Why not pick up the phone today after the show?

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Speaker 5: We cannot like, why not say say hey, you know

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Speaker 5: it was just thinking about the pull and the plug thing.

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Speaker 6: I know there's a different way to put it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I started my will spinning, Medical Director, My

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Speaker 5: wheel started spinning, and I just wanted to touch base

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Speaker 5: with you again about the will and the trust and

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Speaker 5: is that going to change for this guy.

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Speaker 6: I feel like you should sort that out.

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Speaker 4: Oh God, you because you know I don't like these conversations.

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Speaker 4: You know, it makes me feel awkward. I don't want

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Speaker 4: to make her feel bad. I don't want to talk

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Speaker 4: about awkward you. I.

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how much therapy will help you

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Speaker 1: talking to somebody about your not willing to communicate for

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Speaker 1: fear of hurting somebody's feelings. Yeah, that's such a bad thing.

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Speaker 1: And it's like something that only talking to somebody about

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Speaker 1: it is you going to get you over that? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because that's not reality. Sometimes conversations need to be had

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Speaker 1: and there are going to be feelings on both sides,

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Speaker 1: and you just accepting all of the bad feelings and

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Speaker 1: going that's just the way it is is not good.

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Speaker 1: It's not good for you. You've got to be able

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Speaker 1: and and if they feel bad because of it, so be.

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Speaker 1: It's you. That's your mom's job. Your your mom is

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Speaker 1: your mom, and she's got to understand this. This is

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Speaker 1: rainbows is not reality. Like she knows that, but I know,

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Speaker 1: but she's blinded right now because she's in a newer

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Speaker 1: relationship and things are going great and whatever. But she's

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Speaker 1: got to understand her kids, even though they are adults,

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Speaker 1: aren't gonna be like this is all great.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait for the Netflix documentary about this document

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Speaker 3: it's gonna be called it's gonna be called New Dad.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. He just comes in and changes everything.

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Speaker 2: Every day. That's not a thing.

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Speaker 3: It's a gift that he has. Oh my god.

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Speaker 7: And then Emily comes in here every day, Eddie, did

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Speaker 7: you watch Could you believe they moved?

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Speaker 3: I know, can you believe sold the house and it

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Speaker 3: was right in front of her. And then when they

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Speaker 3: changed the will, they changed the will.

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Speaker 7: And everyone in the country saying she saw only her

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's gonna be meme is flat all over.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 4: On Netflix documentary, they're gonna be interviewing uh sky like

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Speaker 4: I didn't see a clients see a comment, and everyone's like.

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Speaker 1: Everybody everybody told her interview. He told her told her

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Speaker 1: she had to do with say one thing. Good lucks guy. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean this is uh, this is crazy.