1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Kat w B. Hey, good morning, It's election day. It 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: is kt w B. It is a nice fall Tuesday, 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 1: some may a little like sunny. It's supposed to snow 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: on Saturday. You guys, you hear about this, Yes, like 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: a fifty chance of snow Saturday. Yeah, totally. You know 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: that time of the year is going to be November 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,159 Speaker 1: what seventh by Saturday? I have to tenth. I don't know. 8 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 2: I still have beats in my garden that I haven't 9 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 2: harvested yet. 10 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: Don't roll your eyes at me. I'm not. I did not. 11 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: I thought I thought you were like God Billy's going 12 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: on about our garden again, falsely accused. No, November eighth 13 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,239 Speaker 1: is this Saturday. But that's way behind the curve for 14 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: like a first snow. I believe last year. It's now 15 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: October thirtieth, like the day before Boo Bash. Yeah, no, 16 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: I totally believe it. Well, then the old timers talk 17 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: about a Halloween blizzard in nineteen ninety one. You know, 18 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: we were up to our next in school and snow 19 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: and we had to go treating, and a lot of 20 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: my friends never came back. They never came he came back. 21 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: They started going up here the snow well. They found 22 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: him in the springtime. They were frozen with a touchy 23 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: roll in your hand. I knew first time, like Adam 24 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: Sandler right now? Can I tell you the worst god 25 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: awful movie Hugh be Halloween? Anybody seen that movie? 26 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 3: I almost watched it on Friday because it popped up 27 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 3: on Netflix and I was like, what is this? 28 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 4: Apt Sailor? And then I got through the minute of 29 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 4: the trailer and I was like, no. 30 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: It was actually so stupid. It was funny. We watched 31 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: probably forty five minutes of it. It's called hub Halloween. 32 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: Never heard of it, but it was Halloween. So after 33 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: the kids all stopped trick or treating, we're like, uh, 34 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: see what's gone? 35 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 5: Like? 36 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, show anyway? Yeah yeah. My name is Jadim Chandler, 37 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: and I'm playing a exraduated character of the character that 38 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: I played my entire night talking to really like trick 39 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: a treat. I don't know why you wasted your time. 40 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: I just don't. It wasn't terrible. I just don't think 41 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: he's funny. You really don't think Adam Sander's funny? Did 42 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: you not watch Happy Gilmore Too? 43 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 6: The only Adam Saylor movies I've seen were grown ups, 44 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 6: and then the one he did with Jennifer anis then 45 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 6: I think murder mystery is what it's called, but a 46 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 6: good one. 47 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: I like that one to me. 48 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: You haven't seen the wedding singer. Maybe I don't know 49 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 2: for fifty first dates. 50 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: I remember he's twenty four years old, so that was 51 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: his mom's movies app movies. 52 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think he's I don't really like Adam 53 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: Sandler either, but if he asked to kiss me, I would, 54 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 2: but his. 55 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: Act right exactly. 56 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 7: Let's take a trip for chance to win a trip 57 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 7: to Los Angeles to see Sabrina Carpenter at one of 58 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 7: her sold out shows. 59 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 8: Happens now on KADWB. Talk back to the keyword Sabrina. 60 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 8: That's Sabrina on our iHeartRadio app. Okay, make sure you 61 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 8: do that because that is a chance to go to 62 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 8: Los Angeles. And this is really cool. We'll do it 63 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 8: every thirty minutes every time you hear it. You got 64 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 8: to use that keyword on the talkback feature on the 65 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 8: iHeart app, and you can. 66 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 1: I was it was the iHeart App. It's super cool 67 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: because I was listening to a song yesterday on the 68 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: iHeart app and then I wanted to listen to Fallon 69 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: and Colt in the afternoon. You know what I did. 70 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: I touched that preset button, tap vaunt. It came up, 71 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: boom there. It was like a miracle. It is Katie WB. 72 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:54,399 Speaker 1: We're gonna get an update on Justin and his reuniting 73 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 1: with his ex Danielle. If you don't remember it from 74 00:02:57,680 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: More of the Roses, it was a week ago and 75 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: basically they'd split up. Long story short, we got them 76 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 1: back together. But I want to hear how things are going. 77 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 1: So Justin's on about another ten minutes or so. Right now, 78 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: we're playing lyric shuffle. Let's get started. 79 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: Jenny first today, but can go first, Okay, Von, here 80 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 3: you go. 81 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: Roommate, I got one roommate. You have one? Hey, hey 82 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 1: you you I don't like your roommate, No, no way, 83 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: think you need a new one. Hey, no, no, there's. 84 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 4: No you honestly were gonna come in with ang of them. 85 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 4: You so. 86 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: Not a prayer, not a chance. 87 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: You used to sing like that part of the song 88 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 4: all the time. Your roommate, Beck and Bolder. 89 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: Then you know that, all right, No. 90 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 4: Points for either of you on that one. It is 91 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 4: Dave's turn. 92 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:05,839 Speaker 1: Step step by step oo baby, good job? 93 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 4: All right one for day round two. This is Bon's word. 94 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 6: Went God with Crazy Wanny paineed you the Steady swims. 95 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: Wow, it's such a beautiful song. 96 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 3: So good Okay, good job Kate had to one to 97 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 3: one Dave's word. 98 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: Should Should I stay or should I go? 99 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 5: Now? 100 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 9: You? 101 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 1: Should I stay or should I go? 102 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 5: Now? 103 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 1: Let's play that one for a boss check. Write it down, Jenny. 104 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 3: That a song that every high school band learns to 105 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 3: play as like a cover that an Island in the 106 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: Sun or whatever it's called. Okay, now Dave has Tubon 107 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: has one, and we're onto round three. 108 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 4: Hugo Van. 109 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 10: Damn, damn loving us, damn almost give me a rough 110 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 10: of my money. 111 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: That's kencha Lamar, Yes, I know what it is. Good 112 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: job I was gonna do Damn. I wish I was 113 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: your lover. No anybody, No. Sophie B. Hawkins Ah, Yes, 114 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: she came to Star party one time. She smelled really bad. 115 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 1: She's kind of a hippie like bo and and something 116 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: else right now I love that performance. 117 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, this word is for David Independent. 118 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: What happened to miss Independent? Good job? Day you one 119 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 1: of my favorite Kelly Clarkson songs. 120 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 4: That is a good one. 121 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 3: Okay, vont round four, final round right now you have two, 122 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 3: Dave has three. 123 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 4: You gotta get some points. O. 124 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 2: Thanks. 125 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 4: Okay, here you go, clear. 126 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 11: Clean. 127 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna making stuff up like over here, mister roommate. David, 128 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: I got nothing, seriously nothing no oh wow wow. 129 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 4: All right, no coins, no coins. 130 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: It's a hard one. 131 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 3: Dave does not get this one that can get the 132 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: steal and we'll go to a tie breaker. 133 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: Okay. So I was already worried from the get. 134 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 4: This is Dave's word, real. 135 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: Real real, Yeah, I'm read Jennifer Lopez, thank you. 136 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 12: Somehow it goes Bailey real. I mean it sure does, Yeah, 137 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 12: I really, I mean it is a song, but I 138 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 12: mean he's saying it like crap. I just would have 139 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 12: liked a little more. 140 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: Yeah of it. 141 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 4: I'm gonna just see if I can find it. Isn't it? 142 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 4: Is it the one with Jah rule? 143 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 144 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, let me see. 145 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: I'm strugging with Gatti Burial, gat Tip Burial. That was 146 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: way better. Not even that got to be real. Got 147 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: to that, Sheryl Lynn, that's a good like seventy eight 148 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: so yeah. 149 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 4: I don't know if what part I'm gonna get here. 150 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: Okay, just give them the point to stop. Yeah, I 151 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: would have given it. Well, of course you're gonna give 152 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: it to me because I got I'm going to give it. 153 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 4: Really was was. I'm real I needed it. I'm gonna 154 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 4: use a little bit more. 155 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 3: It's okay to usually up a little bit. Okay, whatever 156 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 3: you want. Congratulations David. You got four points to day, 157 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 3: but you got to not. 158 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 4: Really a tight race. But that's all right, because sometimes 159 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 4: it isn't all right. 160 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: Thank you, Jenny. Coming up in a second, we're going 161 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: to talk to Justin, who was on the show last week. 162 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: He reunited with his ax on War of the Roses 163 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: and it was an interesting War of the Roses if 164 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: you don't remember it. They had split up and we 165 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: got them back together. But how are things going a 166 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: week later? Is it still magical? Is it wonderful? Is 167 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: it mystical? Magical? Or is it men? Maybe we should 168 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: have stayed apart. We'll talk to Justin coming up next 169 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: on katiewb Oh, you guys are so funny, you know 170 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 1: the conversations we have here. By the way, the War 171 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: of the Roses update is coming up and more. Sabrina 172 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: Carpenter keywords to win that trip to La But I 173 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: have a doctor's appointment tomorrow because I've had belly pain 174 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 1: for like ten twelve years, and I've had every test, 175 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: done everything that you can imagine. I swallowed a camera 176 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:52,839 Speaker 1: one time, and I'm not making it up. It's a 177 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: pill about the size of your thumb and I swallowed 178 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 1: that and they're looking around in there and they're like, 179 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: oh no, So I'm going into the doctor tomorrow. And 180 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 1: Jenny out of the Blue, Out of the Blue. 181 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: Says, I said, what if you go into your doctor 182 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 3: and he's like, man, you just got one big gas 183 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 3: bubble in there. 184 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 4: You just just give me the medicine. 185 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 1: Give you apart medicine of fart, like a one half hour, 186 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: solid long fart. They squeeze you and then they start 187 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: ringing you out. At the end. You're like, yeah, I 188 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: don't know. 189 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 2: You come back and you're like thirty pounds later, We're like, hush, 190 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 2: you're so skinny. 191 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, are so full of gas gas. It was crazy. Okay, 192 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: Now this is not what people come here for. People 193 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: come here for quality, dignified entertainment. Broadway Reviews to the 194 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: speculation on the Nobel Peace Prize. That's what they're here for. 195 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: And then you get the fart bubble squeeze joke where 196 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: it comes from. We have a couple of things coming up. 197 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: First of all, Serena Carpenter keyword coming up. This is 198 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: the last week four that. But right now we've got 199 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,199 Speaker 1: a little follow up, and this is a war. It's 200 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: War of the Roses, which we do every Wednesday or 201 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: Tuesday at this time, brand new episode. So it is 202 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: a War of the Roses, but it's not Kattie a cheater, 203 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: one fake bouquet of roses at a time. Four of 204 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: the Roses starts right now. 205 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 8: On kt WB. 206 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: I love a good love story, so I have a 207 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: good love story. A lot of the time on More 208 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: of the Roses. It doesn't turn out to be a 209 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: love story. It turns out to be bitter and resentful 210 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: and spiteful and ugly. But you might remember a couple 211 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: of weeks or a week ago we had on somebody 212 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: who wanted to do a War the Roses completely different. 213 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: He said, I want to have Jenny call my ex 214 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: to see whether she will accept flowers from me. We've 215 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 1: been broken up for a year. I can't stop thinking 216 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 1: about her. I've tried to get over her. I don't 217 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: want to send her flowers because that way I won't 218 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: know whether is she threw in the dumpster or whether 219 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: she's like, oh, these are great. I want to have 220 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: Jenny call and say, hey, I'm from the flower company 221 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: trying to send you flowers. I got the what you say, 222 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: the wrong address? 223 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I said, I'm sorry, this address doesn't exist on Google. 224 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: So here's a clip of what happened when Jenny called. 225 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 4: But you are happy to get flowers from him? 226 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 13: Yeah, I really am. 227 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:31,719 Speaker 14: Hey Danielle, Hi, sorry to throw this on you. I 228 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 14: I can't stop thinking about you, and I just wanted 229 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 14: you to know that I'm sorry. I wasn't fully present before, 230 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 14: but I I'm serious. 231 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 13: Now. 232 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: How do you feel right now, Adam, after a year 233 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: of missing Danielle. 234 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 14: I feel hopeful. I'm thrilled that she accepted the flowers, 235 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 14: and I hope I can actually bring our flowers in 236 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 14: real life. 237 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 1: How do you feel, Danielle? 238 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 13: Yes, I would like the in real life, in person reconnection. 239 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 13: I've been missing that a lot too. 240 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 1: So fast forward back to today. We said, let's call this 241 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: guy and find out how things have gone down since 242 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:29,719 Speaker 1: they had kind of successfully rekindled. Yeah, guess who's on 243 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: the phone right now. Justin is on the phone. Justin 244 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: no surprise you. You knew we were gonna call because 245 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: we had to ask you if we could call Justin. 246 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 1: I know nothing about what happened after that phone call 247 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: on War of the Roses, So fill me in. I'm 248 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,719 Speaker 1: gonna guess there was some sort of rekindling reconnection. 249 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 11: Hey, yeah, nice to talk to you guys again. 250 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 9: Yeah, we uh, we just kept texting after the call. 251 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 11: We we decided to meet up like two days after 252 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 11: that call, and we went to Nina Nina's coffee. I 253 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 11: don't know if you've heard of it. It's like yeah, spot, yeah, 254 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 11: and yeah, we just. 255 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 9: I we had a lot of catching up. 256 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 11: To do, and it was just really easy. And you know, 257 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 11: it was so crazy, like after I don't know, like 258 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 11: twenty thirty minutes of talking, we were. 259 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 9: Honestly, I didn't even realize we were doing this. 260 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 11: We were holding hands like talking like just kind of 261 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 11: just really listening to each other, kind of holding hands 262 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 11: across the table. 263 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: You know, when you do that, my heart is melting. 264 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 1: So you're doing that romantic double handhold. 265 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,680 Speaker 11: But it wasn't it wasn't like a stick like really 266 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 11: like it's like it was very natural. 267 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 9: And it's been a year, but we had. 268 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 11: A lot of like life things happening when we were 269 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 11: kind of you know, getting to know. 270 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 14: Each other before we broke off, and her. 271 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 11: Mom was sick and her I was you know, I 272 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 11: wanted to know about that. And then her dog had 273 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 11: died while we. 274 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 9: Were broken up, so you know, all these things that never. 275 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 11: Reached out because I was scared too. 276 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 9: I wanted to know, you know, how she was. 277 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 11: And I think she really, you know, I felt that 278 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 11: emotion that kind of like reconnecting and wanting to like 279 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 11: be there for each other. And yeah, we talked for 280 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 11: like two hours. 281 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 1: And so would you say, I'm sorry I missed that? 282 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: What did you What did you say? 283 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 11: No, No, we just haven't really stopped talking or texting 284 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 11: or seen each other since. 285 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: Would you say you're back together? 286 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 14: Well, I didn't want to waste any more time, so yes, you're. 287 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: Well, I think that's great. I think sometimes you know 288 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 1: that that is your person, and I think sometimes you 289 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: break up and you go, well, maybe I'll find another person. 290 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: But don't you. Sometimes you break up and there's always 291 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 1: something in the back your mind it's like, hmmm, they're 292 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: not that you know I have. 293 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 11: Yeah, I've had that feeling before, but not really like this. 294 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 11: And this is just like that ache that never went away. 295 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 11: And I'm just I'm really grateful to you guys for 296 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 11: having me kind of help reconnect. 297 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: I think that's great. Just so you like talk to 298 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: her and seen her like every day since then. 299 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, I mean we were definitely like integrated in 300 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 11: each other's lives again, and yeah, it feels good. 301 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 9: I feel really good, really happy. 302 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: I'm happy to hear that. Yeah, well, thanks for letting 303 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: us catch up. I was it was a great love story. 304 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: You know. Sometimes what is it You got to break 305 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: up to make up, and people do get back together 306 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: all the time when they realize, hey, I had a 307 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: good thing. Oh justin thanks for talking to us, and 308 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: good luck. Say hello to Danielle for us. 309 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 11: Oh will, thanks guys. 310 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 1: I don't know that we've ever had a war of 311 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: the roses that ended that way ever. I mean we've 312 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: had ones that it's like it turns out that it's like, oh, 313 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: he wasn't cheating and it was all a big misunderstanding 314 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 1: or whatever, but never had one quite like that in 315 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 1: the history of War of the Roses. 316 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 4: Isn't it exciting to help a couple like get together 317 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 4: and not breaking one up one for one? 318 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nice, It was It was a nice nightstand, 319 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: right exactly? All right, it's KATWB. We are now seven 320 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: minutes away from the next to bring a Carpenter keyword. 321 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: Keep your radio on for another seven minutes. You can 322 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: use that keyword and try to enter to win that 323 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: trip to Los Angeles. But speaking of couples, get a 324 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: little update here. Vaunt and Alyssa are not They're not 325 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: speaking to each other right now. I'm in the doghouse, guy, 326 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 1: what's going on? What happened? 327 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 5: So? 328 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 6: Alyssa, my girlfriend, God bless her soul, had been talking 329 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 6: to me for months because she wants us to go 330 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 6: to going to church, right and notither of us are 331 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 6: like overly religious people, but we believe what we believe, 332 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 6: and she thought it'd be a good way for us 333 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 6: to make friends. Now, I always told Alyssa that I'd 334 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 6: be down, but I'm not committing to anything like going 335 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 6: every Sunday or going to this service on Bible study whatever. 336 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: I grew up in church. 337 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 6: I'm not against it, but there was a phase in 338 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 6: my life where I was kind of like forced or 339 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 6: coerced to go every single week. And I don't like 340 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 6: that because church shouldn't be like that, right. So well, 341 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 6: fast forward to this past weekend. She says, Oh, don't forget, 342 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 6: You're going to church for me on Sunday, and I go, 343 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 6: We'll see. Did that constantly up until this Sunday. So 344 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 6: Sunday morning she's like, oh, so you're going. Now, I'm 345 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:37,199 Speaker 6: frustrated because I've told you, please, don't make it a 346 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,199 Speaker 6: thing that I have to go, have to go, have 347 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 6: to go, have to go. That's what I don't want. 348 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 6: And she got upset because she was like, well, this 349 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 6: is something we've been talking about, and I should have 350 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 6: just told her I'm not going. 351 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 1: It is what she said. 352 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 6: I still think if I said I'm not going, she 353 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 6: would have been upset. So there was no way for 354 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 6: me to win in this situation. But now she's mad 355 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 6: at me. 356 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: You led her on, though I think you led her on. 357 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm kind of on a list's side. I love you, 358 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 1: but I'm kind of on a listed's side. It sounds 359 00:17:58,680 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 1: like you kind of let her on, Yeah, I'm going 360 00:17:59,920 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 1: to church, going to church, and then you're like, nah, 361 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 1: and you didn't go, did you? I did end up going. 362 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 6: You did because she was upset, and I told her 363 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 6: that I'd be down, but just don't push push push, 364 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 6: And because she kept push, push push, that's why eventually 365 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 6: I was like, Eh, probably not because you did exactly 366 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 6: what I asked you not to do, like I'm cool 367 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 6: to go with you. But I feel like that answer should. 368 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: Have been enough. Was she pushing you or was she 369 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: just like reminding you? 370 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 6: A little bit of both. I think it was a 371 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 6: little bit of both, because, like I said, I told 372 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 6: her from the beginning, i'd be down, but just please 373 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 6: don't make it the thing, and she kept saying, so 374 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 6: you're going, so you're going, so you're going. She's just 375 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 6: double checking, triple checking. But I don't feel like I 376 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 6: could have just straight up said. I think the only 377 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 6: answer she would have been content with was yes, and 378 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 6: I wasn't giving her that. 379 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 4: I don't know that. 380 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 3: I don't understand why it's hard to say no just 381 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 3: your partner sometimes, but I get that I think that 382 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 3: it as me personally, I would rather just someone say no, 383 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 3: I don't want to do this, But. 384 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: She wouldn't have been happy with that either. She still 385 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 1: would have been mad because she wants me to go. 386 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 1: It sounds like you said yes to play case at her, 387 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: but you didn't really mean it. 388 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 6: No, not necessarily. Originally I said yes, I'm down, just 389 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 6: please don't push it on me. And then, as you know, 390 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 6: actual appointment was getting ready to be set this past Sunday, 391 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 6: I said, we'll see, we'll see, we'll see. 392 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 393 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: I never concrete said yes or no. Well that's annoying. 394 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 1: I say, concrete, when you got the church, did you 395 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: pout and did. 396 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 10: You like, you know, like I'm not standing to pray? 397 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 1: No, that wasn't me. 398 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 6: You didn't, Okay, I went because I In some cases 399 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 6: I'm learning that it's do you want to be right 400 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 6: or do you want to be happy? 401 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: Is what I'm learning. Are you a debtors or a 402 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: trespass is kind of a guy. I don't even know 403 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: what that means. Oh, we're debtors in mind? Yeah, what 404 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: does that mean? Forgive our debtors as we forgive those 405 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: who debt. 406 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 2: Against as we forgive our debtors or trespassers, trespass against 407 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 2: this as a mouthful. 408 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 1: See that whenever I always said, forgive our debtors and 409 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: we forget the debt or debt or whatever it is, okay. 410 00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: And then so I went to a Catholic church in 411 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: the athletics. You know, they're first of all, they're standing 412 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,120 Speaker 1: up and down the whole time. I got bad knees yea. 413 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 1: And they're like, they say trespasses. I said, what they say, 414 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: uh huh. And the girl next to me is Mary, 415 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 1: because every Catholic is named some form of Mary, Mary, Kay, Mary, Anne, Mary, Lynn, Mary, Sue, Mary, Mary, Mary, 416 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 1: Mary Mary so and she's like, oh, they said trespasses, 417 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,919 Speaker 1: And I'm like, what is that? Anyway, what were you saying? 418 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 1: I just if you feel like I let her on, 419 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: that's fine. 420 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,639 Speaker 6: But I also feel like she wouldn't have been content 421 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 6: with any answer except for yes, I'm going. And again 422 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:30,719 Speaker 6: that was what I didn't want in the beginning. 423 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 1: So now I'm in the dog house, even though I 424 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 1: still ended up going. Let me ask you a question. 425 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: Let me say, if you guys decided to go to 426 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: Sneaker Khan, you want to go to Sneaker Khan, it's 427 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 1: coming to Minneapolis on whatever, ye and so here it 428 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: is and she's like, yeah, I'll go, but just don't 429 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: pressure me to go. And now it's like the morning 430 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: the Sneaker Con and you're like, are you going to 431 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: Sneaker Khan? You said you would, and she's like, boh 432 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: not if you pressure me to. How would you feel 433 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: if she didn't end up going? 434 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 6: Probably pissed, but then she I still went to church 435 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 6: with her, though, so you have. 436 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: Something that can still be upset about. You did it 437 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: cranky though, I feel like I get what you're saying. 438 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: My ex would. 439 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 2: He did not like to go do anything, and so 440 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 2: when I would convince him to come with me to something, 441 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 2: he would. 442 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: Pout the entire time, and then I would regret. 443 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, So then I would stop asking him to do 444 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 2: anything with me, and then he'd. 445 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: Be like, you're never here. 446 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 6: I'm fine with everything that I was wrong in like, 447 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 6: and I guess leading her on. I just want her 448 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,640 Speaker 6: to also understand that the same way that I said, sure, 449 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 6: I'm down, but don't pressure me, she kept pressuring me. 450 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: So the same way you want. 451 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 6: Me to be straight up and say yes or no, 452 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 6: also listen to what I'm saying. 453 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 2: I think she was just reminding you. She was saying, Hey, 454 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 2: you've got a plan for Sunday morning. Don't forget your 455 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 2: plan for Sunday morning. I have to do that with 456 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,440 Speaker 2: my sister, shout out Madison. I'll be like, Hey, you've 457 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 2: got this thing on your calendar. Please don't forget it. Hello, 458 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 2: don't forget this thing that you have. Hello me again, 459 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 2: don't forget this thing. So, I don't know if she 460 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 2: was pressuring you, she was just reminding you that you 461 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 2: said you would go. 462 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 1: Well, let me read this text message. Somebody says, uh oh. 463 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,199 Speaker 6: If she was going to be mad either way, then 464 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 6: you could have at least heard on the air on 465 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 6: the side of being honest earlier on and not stringing 466 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 6: her along and hopefulness all week out of respect. Imagine 467 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,439 Speaker 6: her thoughts and her anxiety. Is he gonna come? Is 468 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 6: he gonna come? 469 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 1: Look at that? I think he's great. You're going to church. 470 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 1: Number one. I love that for a young couple to 471 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: go to church. I think that's awesome. Number two, Are 472 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 1: you gonna go on Sunday this Sunday? Yeah, we'll see. 473 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 1: I can imagine walking in and your pastor. 474 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 2: Like looking like young people oh. 475 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: Churches love young people. You know, my god good piece 476 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: of communion. 477 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 6: Brandy text messages on the other side, why does it 478 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 6: need to be a concrete yes or no. Why can't 479 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,479 Speaker 6: you just say yes, I'll go and go on your 480 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 6: own terms. And that's kind of how I looked at it. 481 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 6: Maybe I should have been more direct, but I said yes, 482 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 6: just don't pressure me, meaning like, I will go, but 483 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 6: that doesn't have to be every Sunday. 484 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. But now I'm in the doghouse for it, 485 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: so can't go during Viking season because the Vikings are on. 486 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: I was so happy that they won. The other day. 487 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 6: I was looking for my dad and he was watching 488 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 6: it and he was like, I was like, they're losing, right, 489 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:51,719 Speaker 6: He was like no. 490 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you're kidding, right, He was like no, 491 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,360 Speaker 1: you yeah. I remember we would go to church every Sunday. 492 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 1: And then one year we were on our way to 493 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 1: the church and I remember I had bets on the 494 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 1: Vikings game, or I hadn't placed bets on the Vikings game, 495 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: so I had to turn around to come home, and 496 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: then we decided not to go. And that is Vont's 497 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: church story. 498 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 8: Sorry Dave Ryan Show one on one point three kd WB. 499 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: All right, let's get on with the dirt before we 500 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: do group therapy. We've got a group therapy coming up 501 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: in a second that is like really like dicey and scandalous, 502 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: and it's I'm honestly amazed that she would go be 503 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: on the radio because it is one of those things 504 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 1: where it's like, I don't know if that was my 505 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,919 Speaker 1: story that I would want it on the radio. So 506 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 1: let's get on with Dave's dirt on kd WB. Sexiest 507 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: Man Alive was announced last night on the Jimmy Fallon Show. 508 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: Here's the announcement, Sexiest not a lot Jonathan in twenty 509 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: twenty five. 510 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,480 Speaker 6: You just think I'm sort of thrilled that People magazine 511 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 6: have invited someone. 512 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: In the study this honor on someone who can Yeah, yeah, yeah. 513 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 1: So he was in Bridgerton, he was in Wicked for Good, 514 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: and he was in some other things too, right, Jurassic Park. 515 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 1: He's in a lot of stuff, and he is really hot. 516 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 2: And if you don't know who Jonathan Bailey is, then 517 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 2: you're doing a disservice to yourself. 518 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: So look him up. And he's great, And I'm so 519 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: glad that he won. Yeah, okay, yeah. 520 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 4: If Carli ray Jebsen is pregnant. 521 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: She got married like a week ago and now she's pregnant. 522 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, just had a secret wedding. She married music producer 523 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 3: Cole mgn and they exchange vows one month ago in 524 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,679 Speaker 3: New York City, and then yesterday the couple posts for 525 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 3: their pregnancy announcement and Carly is doing well. 526 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 4: She's showing. 527 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 3: She was obviously showing at their wedding. I guess is 528 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 3: what they said. 529 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:41,640 Speaker 4: Yep, yeah, yeah she is. So she posted this phohoto 530 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 4: and just said, oh hi baby. Apparently was the announcement. 531 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 1: That's cute. 532 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 2: Kelly Clarkson is feeling well enough to reschedule her Las 533 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 2: Vegas residency. She had canceled a bunch of her summer 534 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 2: shows after her ex husband died, and so now tickets 535 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 2: are going on sale for the new dates, which are 536 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 2: in August of next year. 537 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: So August something eighth. 538 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 2: At fourteenth and fifteenth at Caesar's Palace for her studio 539 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 2: sessions that she had canceled before. So I'm glad that 540 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 2: she feels better to at least reschedule those. 541 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, Dick Cheney died. He was the Vice president. I 542 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 1: believe under Bush. I'm sorry that I've kind of forgotten, 543 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,640 Speaker 1: but he was eighty four years old and he died. 544 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 1: Just in the last twenty four hours or so. We 545 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 1: just heard about that. One federal judge granted the request 546 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 1: of Diddy for a fast track appeal so he could 547 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: be back in court as early as April to see 548 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 1: whether he can get out on an appeal. 549 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 3: So, Dakota Johnson and Chris Martin from Coldplay have been 550 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 3: dating for quite a while, and apparently they're saying that 551 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 3: Dakota Johnson is feeling a little bit jealous after reports 552 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 3: of Chris Martin rebounded with Sophie Turner and I do 553 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 3: want to correct myself. 554 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 4: They were engaged, by. 555 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 3: The way, So Dakota said that she or a rep 556 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 3: for her so that she seems lighter and more at 557 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 3: peace now. And Dakota has been slowly dating again and 558 00:25:59,119 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 3: she's happy. 559 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 4: Okay, let's take a. 560 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 7: Trip to win a trip to Los Angeles to see 561 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 7: Sabrina Carpenter at one of our sold out shows. 562 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 8: Happens now on KDWB tunk. That's the keyword busy, that's 563 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 8: busy on our iHeartRadio app. 564 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: Okay, that is to win that trip to see Sabrina 565 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 1: Carpenter in Los Angeles. So I know you've heard us 566 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,880 Speaker 1: do it before. Don't lose sight of the fact that, yes, 567 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 1: you've done a dozen times, but do it again because 568 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 1: it is a cool trip, probably your best trip of 569 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: the year unless you went to Rome. If you went 570 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,639 Speaker 1: to Rome, then maybe it's a different story. Paris a 571 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 1: little bit which one would be the right, But this 572 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,360 Speaker 1: is a really cool trip to go to La see 573 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter in concert. From KTWB. Keyword is busy. We 574 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 1: had an email just yesterday and we actually pushed this 575 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,680 Speaker 1: one to the front of the stack because we thought 576 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: you might want to have some answers sooner rather than later. 577 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: And so we called Bethany not her real name, and said, 578 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 1: will you be on the show? And I'll be honest 579 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 1: with you, I was surprised that she would be on 580 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 1: the show. And it's not that you've done anything wrong. 581 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: It's just a kind of an awkward email. Bethany, not 582 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 1: your real name. The email is long ish, so if 583 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: I can ask you to kind of shorten her up 584 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 1: a little bit so we can help you out. Thanks 585 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,360 Speaker 1: for being on Bethany, what's going on? 586 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 13: Hi guys, good morning. Can you hear me? Okay, I 587 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 13: hear you? Fine, beautiful, Okay, great. So, long story short. 588 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 13: I have two sisters. I'm the middle, and recently my 589 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 13: older sister contacted me to tell me that she suspected 590 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 13: that our father was not her biological father. 591 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: What suspicion? What brought that on? 592 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 13: So she did an online Dunite test. I won't say 593 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 13: the company name, but just out of curiosity. I think 594 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 13: she'd gotten it as a gift. And so online you 595 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 13: can build a family tree and you can find relatives 596 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 13: and things like that. 597 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,359 Speaker 1: So cutting to the chase, and I'm not trying to 598 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: rush you along, but to keep it simple. You then 599 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: took a test and found out she is not your 600 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,200 Speaker 1: full sister, which you've grown up and you're forty something 601 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 1: years old or so. She is half sister, oh, meaning 602 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: your dad is not her dad, which she'd spent forty 603 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 1: years of her life thinking you have the all three 604 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: you had the same dad. 605 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 9: That's right, that's right shocking. 606 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 13: So yeah, I mean it's it's been a couple of 607 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 13: weeks now and we're still reeling from it. She of 608 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 13: course was devastated. There's no question myself and my younger 609 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 13: sister are my father's daughters. We look so much like him. Yeah, 610 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 13: so we're just kind of just you know, the three 611 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 13: of us know nobody else really does. And she's just 612 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 13: going through it. You know, I'm checking on on our 613 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 13: every day and you know, trying to be encouraging and supportive. 614 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 1: And it's not going to be devastating to think that 615 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 1: this guy who took you on camp outs and taught 616 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: you how to put a worm on a fish hook 617 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: and ride a bike and was there for you on 618 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 1: chrisp whatever, that this guy as it was a great dad, 619 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: but he's not your body. That's just got to be 620 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: a weird thing. Yeah, and she probably feels does she's 621 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: a mess? Does she feel deceived after forty two years 622 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: of deception? 623 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 13: I think so. I mean I certainly do. But we 624 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 13: also wonder if they don't know. 625 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 2: Right, That's what I was thinking, doesn't know if her 626 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 2: parents don't my parents, Yeah. 627 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 1: Well mom would have to have an inkling, wouldn't Mom 628 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: has to have an inkling. She might think like, well 629 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 1: it could be this guy, this guy, Sure it could, right, 630 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: but she would have an inkling. 631 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 13: Yeah, so running running through the scenarios. I mean, my 632 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 13: parents were they dated in high school and they got 633 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 13: pregnant around seventeen, and then got married at eighteen and 634 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 13: had my sister shortly after. So now knowing that, you know, 635 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 13: we've known this all of our lives. My mom dropt 636 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,760 Speaker 13: out of high school, my dad, you know, dropped out 637 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 13: of college in order to start a family and raise 638 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 13: my older sister. So, and this was in the early eighties. 639 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 13: It's what you did. And I know that their parents 640 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 13: were like, no, you're getting married. 641 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. That was kind of a thing back then. If 642 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 1: you got somebody pregnant a lot of the time, it's like, oh, 643 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 1: like that, get married. 644 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 13: Yeah yeah yeah. So so, you know, and I reminded her, 645 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 13: you know that all of us, my younger sister and 646 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 13: I and all of ours, we have beautiful families, and 647 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 13: we're all very healthy and happy, and we have wonderful lives. 648 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 13: All of us exist, and all of this is here 649 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 13: now because of her, I mean, regardless of who her 650 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 13: biological father is. They decided to get married and raise 651 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,479 Speaker 13: this family and build a family, and we had a 652 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 13: really great childhood and we're all, you know, we're close 653 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 13: I mean everybody, every family has their things, but so 654 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 13: we have a great family dynamic. And her first thought was, 655 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 13: I don't know if I want to bring this to 656 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 13: them because what if they don't know? 657 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 1: What if that the thing? What if dad? There's so 658 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: many possibilities. You mentioned this in your email. Basically you 659 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 1: just turn your radio one. We're talking to somebody who 660 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: is in her Fortyes, she's got three sisters. She's the 661 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 1: middle sister. DNA test kind of just for fun, turned 662 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 1: out that the oldest sister, not the caller, but the 663 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 1: oldest sister's dad is not the dad of the other 664 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 1: two girls. Nobody's known this. They're all about forty years 665 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 1: old or so, and it's just kind of devastating, shocking, hurtful. 666 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 3: Your question is he's not the dad just to clarify 667 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 3: of the old secessari not the two girls. 668 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably said it wrong. So so your question 669 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,800 Speaker 1: is do what is your question do you approach mom? 670 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: What do you want to ask? 671 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 13: So so you know, my younger sister and my older sister, 672 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 13: you know, they're like, how do we how do I 673 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 13: how do I go to Mom with this? And my 674 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 13: first thought was, I don't know that we should. My parents, 675 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 13: you know, they had a rough go of it the 676 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 13: first few you know, first dozen years of marriage. You know, 677 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 13: they were children themselves, raising a young family, and my 678 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 13: dad worked three jobs, and you know, it was just 679 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 13: it was tough. And you know, so now they're retired, 680 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 13: they have these grandkids that they love so much. They're 681 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 13: you know, living life. They're traveling and they're very happy. Yeah, 682 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 13: and I worry that if you know, to mom cheated 683 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 13: on my dad at seventeen, or went to a party 684 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 13: and got dronger, something happened and she got pregnant by 685 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 13: somebody else, and my dad doesn't know or well. 686 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 1: And that's kind of what I'm thinking, is like your dad, 687 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: there's so many scenarios. Your dad might know. He might 688 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: know and decided, you know what, I love her. It 689 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 1: might be mine. I don't know that they had DNA 690 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: testing back then, so maybe he's like, I know, it 691 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: could be this other guys, but it might be mine, 692 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: and I love her. She could have been deceitful, she 693 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 1: could have been made a big mistake. They there's so 694 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 1: many different things. The question is, I think, if I'm 695 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: getting this right, is should you ask them or tell 696 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: them that you know, right, Yeah, yeah. 697 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 13: And so you know, and it's not my this isn't 698 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 13: my dilemma. I'm trying to be a supportive to my 699 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 13: sister as possible. 700 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 1: What does she want? 701 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 13: To my mind, Well, she she's it's eating her up. 702 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 13: And that's the part where I feel this heartbroken for her, 703 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 13: you know, like you said, Dave, she's having this existential 704 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 13: moment of like, well, everything that I thought, you know 705 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 13: isn't isn't right? 706 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: Right? And side note, didn't you say her biological dad. 707 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 1: You looked him up and he died years ago, a 708 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 1: few years ago. 709 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 13: Yeah, the man who we suspect is a biological father. 710 00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 13: Through this, you know, she had contacted some people in 711 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 13: this family tree that she built online who she was 712 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 13: a first cousin left. So this guy that they suspect 713 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 13: is the guy. He died a few years ago. 714 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: So there's no going back to this guy and kind 715 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 1: of rekindling or whatever. So there's so much more we 716 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: could talk about. But I think that my opinion is, 717 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: because I'll be honest with you, I've talked about this before, 718 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:59,239 Speaker 1: there's always been a little bit of doubt. Because I 719 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: did a DNA test. It turned out that I'm twenty 720 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: percent Asian, and I'd look nothing like my sisters and 721 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 1: brother nothing. I look like my mama. But I know 722 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,760 Speaker 1: mom and dad had some troubles back around the time 723 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 1: that I was around, and so there's always in speculation. 724 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:21,360 Speaker 1: Susan is certain that I am not my dad's Son's. 725 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 4: Very different than sings. 726 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,919 Speaker 1: They have a look that is like no other look, 727 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 1: and it is a very strong look through my entire 728 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 1: like extended family, I don't have it. So Susan's like, yeah, 729 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,279 Speaker 1: but I my dad was such a good dad, and 730 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 1: if he knew, he never treated like anything I'm almost 731 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,760 Speaker 1: gonna cry. H. He never treated me like anything less 732 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 1: than his son. So I know it's not your decision, 733 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,439 Speaker 1: but I would say just for your sister to kind 734 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,080 Speaker 1: of leave it alone. I don't care to know the 735 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 1: guy who was Asian that got my mom pregnant. And 736 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,279 Speaker 1: I'm exaggerating a little. I don't care. I don't want 737 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: to know anything about him. He wasn't my dad. Yeah, 738 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: dad was my dad, right, the guy who raised you 739 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 1: as your dad. 740 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 13: And I'm so proud of her that she's come to 741 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 13: those revelations. She's you know, she'll call me you know, 742 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 13: because I keep saying, if you need me, I'll come down, 743 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 13: because she's she's about an hour's south of me, and 744 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 13: you know, I'm like, you know, I'll talk this out 745 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:14,600 Speaker 13: with you, and she's like, no, I just want to 746 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,000 Speaker 13: be alone and process this, which I completely understand. But 747 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 13: and I'm not trying to persuade her anyway. I just 748 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 13: want to be supportive. But I do worry that. I mean, 749 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 13: my parents, they're sixty five, and they're they both are 750 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,759 Speaker 13: in heart beds. Let's be honest. I worry that what 751 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 13: if she told them and they both dropped dead right there, 752 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,879 Speaker 13: you know, or well what if what if. 753 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,319 Speaker 1: They didn't have a lot of life left and they 754 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 1: spent the last few years of their life kind of 755 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 1: agonizing over that? So, okay, we and you and I 756 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 1: could talk and talk, but I want to find out 757 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,400 Speaker 1: what people think. So let's read some text messages and 758 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 1: get some phone calls. Let's start off with the phone calls. 759 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: If you got a minute, Danielle, Danielle, Hello, I didn't 760 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: just lose her. Are you still there? 761 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:52,840 Speaker 4: That's Bethany. 762 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 10: Bethany, Oh, Bethany, Okay, who's Danielle? 763 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:56,279 Speaker 15: Oh? 764 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,279 Speaker 1: That was the reunited war. Okay, I got it. I 765 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,400 Speaker 1: got it, okay, and he's sit tight. Here we go. 766 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,279 Speaker 1: We got some phone calls, Bethany. Here we go. Let's 767 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: go to Gabby. Gabby, we've been really windy today and 768 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,400 Speaker 1: it's mostly my fault. So if you can keep it 769 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,400 Speaker 1: kind of short, what would you tell Bethany that she 770 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: should do. 771 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 5: I did reach out to my father. I found out 772 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 5: at twenty six years old, and I before I did 773 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 5: the DNA test, I reached out to the man that 774 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 5: raised me and told him about it. He did have speculation, 775 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 5: so they both know now. And then I reached out 776 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 5: to my biological father and wasn't unable to meet him, 777 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 5: but sibling wise and father wise, it it all. The 778 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 5: connection still stayed the same. My father is still my 779 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 5: father who raised me. He's a genuine man, and all 780 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 5: my siblings we still have a very strong connection, so 781 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,439 Speaker 5: it didn't change that way. But deep down, I did 782 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,799 Speaker 5: really want to know who myological family is. And I 783 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 5: have half siblings that live in the same town as me. 784 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:59,080 Speaker 5: I know just yet of even about me, and so 785 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 5: I'm working on and working on writing letters to them 786 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 5: to just let them know I'm here and if they 787 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 5: want any kind of relationship either way, I'm fine, but 788 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 5: it definitely was a whirlwind and it put a lot. 789 00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 1: Of therapy that. See, I wouldn't want to know any 790 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 1: of my half sibling step siblings whatever, I don't. They 791 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: don't exist to me, you know what I mean? If 792 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:23,400 Speaker 1: they are, you're right, but that's just me for sure, Jordan, 793 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:26,320 Speaker 1: what would you suggest to Bethany. 794 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 16: So this happened to me and my brothers and how 795 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 16: it all went down as my dad basically got upset 796 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,800 Speaker 16: with my mom and filled the beans they've been divorced 797 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:36,840 Speaker 16: for years and years. 798 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 9: And what my brothers and I did. 799 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,360 Speaker 16: Is we actually went and spoke to my mom about 800 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 16: it and just brought the situation up and at the 801 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,840 Speaker 16: end of everything, emotions were high, things were crazy. The 802 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,359 Speaker 16: biggest part throughout the whole experience was to make sure 803 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 16: that the person who was affected in this case, my 804 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,280 Speaker 16: little brother, knew that no matter what happened, it didn't 805 00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 16: change the way anybody thought of them. And the look, 806 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,160 Speaker 16: that's the weird silver lining in the whole thing that 807 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 16: although my dad wasn't his biological dad, he still did 808 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,840 Speaker 16: every single thing he did for my older brother and 809 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,359 Speaker 16: I for my little brother making him feel that sense 810 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 16: of inclusion. 811 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 1: So that was my experience too, because I got probably 812 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,440 Speaker 1: treated a little bit better than because I was the baby, 813 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 1: I probably got treated better than some of the siblings. 814 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:22,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, that was my experience too, Thank you, Jordan. 815 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 1: So what do we want to wrap up with? What 816 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,320 Speaker 1: should she do? Should she encourage be supportive of whatever 817 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 1: your sister wants to do? 818 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a lot of the text messages that 819 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 2: we're getting is to say, if you want to mention 820 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,720 Speaker 2: it to anybody, you have to mention it to mom first. 821 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, because if it's the plan, Yeah, if it's eating. 822 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,560 Speaker 2: Up your sister, it might be eating up your parents 823 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,799 Speaker 2: or at least the mom. So like talk to mom 824 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,640 Speaker 2: alone before anyone else. And some people do make some 825 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 2: really good points about like medical reasons that you would 826 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,799 Speaker 2: want to know who your dad is in case there 827 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 2: is some kind of condition that runs in his side 828 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:54,800 Speaker 2: of the family. 829 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:55,919 Speaker 4: Yeah that's true. 830 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 13: Yeah, that's My sister actually made that comment as well, 831 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,319 Speaker 13: because she's got an auto immune disease that she's been 832 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:06,400 Speaker 13: dealing with. Yeah, so yeah, it's just yeah, my my 833 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 13: biggest concern was, you know, if we just if she 834 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 13: does go forward with it, that she meets with mom 835 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 13: alone and you know they both have a mental breakdown. 836 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,360 Speaker 13: But you know, because my dad, while my mom you know, 837 00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,200 Speaker 13: can give answers, my dad might not be able to right. 838 00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,439 Speaker 1: And that's that's the thing is nobody knows for sure. 839 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,920 Speaker 13: You know what, maybe you want to protect my dad 840 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,520 Speaker 13: here because he did do the right thing. I mean, 841 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,400 Speaker 13: he's a wonderful dad and he treated us all the 842 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,400 Speaker 13: same with love, and he's a wonderful man. So I 843 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 13: would hate for this to, you know, destroy our family. 844 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 1: I'm glad what I don't think it would. I'm glad 845 00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 1: you called in. I think that there's so many different 846 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 1: options and none of them is perfect and none of 847 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: them is wrong. So you know what, I'd say, be 848 00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,359 Speaker 1: supportive of her sister because it is something you're like, you're, 849 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 1: you know, secondary dealing with it, but she's the one 850 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:58,920 Speaker 1: who's really dealing with it. Hey, I hope we helped you, Bethany. 851 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 1: Thanks for calling in or thanks for letting us put 852 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 1: you on the radio. Yeah, she wrote in, and like 853 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 1: I said, I wasn't sure she'd want to be on 854 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 1: the radio, but she did. I've got a group therapy. 855 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:08,839 Speaker 1: We'd love to help you out. Somebody listening has been 856 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 1: through the exact same thing. Send that into a Ryan 857 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 1: Show at KDWBT dot com. Never more than thirty minutes 858 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 1: away from another keyword. That keyword is gonna get you 859 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: that trip of the year to Sabrina Carpenter in Los Angeles, airfare, hotel, 860 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 1: tickets for the show, and we will do that coming 861 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 1: up with another fifteen minutes. I'm katiewb It is your 862 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,839 Speaker 1: friend BoNT with stirring the pot. But are we doing 863 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,799 Speaker 1: our twist today? Yeah, Vonnie is stirring nothing. I tap 864 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 1: passed the baton or the ladle or the whisk over 865 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: to you. David. You're gonna stir the pot today. I 866 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 1: get to stir the pot today every day this week, 867 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: you guys are gonna take the start. The teachers should 868 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 1: be able to spank kids, all right, I said it. 869 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 1: This is old kids say need and let me tell 870 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: you something. The teachers should be able to spank kids 871 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: because a lot of the time the kids are the 872 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 1: little a holes at school and the teachers are like, 873 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 1: so what does a teacher do? She calls little Jimmy's 874 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 1: mom and says, yeah, old Jimmy brought firecrackers into school 875 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 1: and he was throwing them at me during class. Bet my, 876 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,560 Speaker 1: little Jimmy would never do that. He's a little angel. 877 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,759 Speaker 1: So the parents then they get mad because now the 878 00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,800 Speaker 1: teacher is like, oh, being accused of harassing little Jimmy. 879 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,279 Speaker 1: This happened in my family. There's one person in my 880 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,240 Speaker 1: family who is he can be a little brat at school. 881 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,319 Speaker 1: He claims that the teacher will just look at him 882 00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 1: and send him to the office for no reason whatsoever 883 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: the case, and I'm like, that is never the case. 884 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,800 Speaker 1: But I think sometimes the mom believes, yeah, that teacher's 885 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 1: got a thing out for him, so she'll look at 886 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 1: him and say, for no reason whatsoever, go to the office. 887 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 1: I say teachers should be able to like say, okay, 888 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,320 Speaker 1: I got a paddle up here. You see this paddle, 889 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 1: it's like a pickleball paddle. They should be able to 890 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,279 Speaker 1: spank kids and get them kids in line, so they're 891 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,880 Speaker 1: paying attention, not worried about whether they're like, oh, I 892 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 1: don't know this, or that he'd turn them over your 893 00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,279 Speaker 1: knee and give him a good paddling. Okay, So they'll 894 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: listen because they're fearful that is exactly right. Yes, what 895 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: a wonderful way. You don't paddle every kid if the 896 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,800 Speaker 1: kid is w be You know you used one kid, Jimmy, 897 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,439 Speaker 1: as an example. You paddle Jimmy and say anybody else 898 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 1: want this, they'll be like no, Miss Johnson, you said 899 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 1: you said an example as a kid. 900 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest. I just don't think spanking 901 00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,600 Speaker 3: really works these days anymore. Mine. 902 00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,760 Speaker 4: If you gets spankings all the time, he's numb to it. 903 00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 1: It's another one. 904 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 4: My sister doesn't even try to spank like whatever. 905 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,880 Speaker 6: See, but I think that's different. It's your parents, so 906 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,239 Speaker 6: you expect your parents to discipline you. Your teacher, you're 907 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,120 Speaker 6: not expecting that. So if miss mss Rogers gives you 908 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,719 Speaker 6: a little you'll probably start acting right. 909 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 1: Teach how to count one? No, three, four, five? What? 910 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,879 Speaker 3: We didn't even have spankings when I was growing up, 911 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 3: did you being no, I did not. 912 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,920 Speaker 1: Of course you did. There was a refrigerator box in 913 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: our classroom in first grade. Because my job was to 914 00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 1: be a little a hole, so I figured out if 915 00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:59,359 Speaker 1: I climbed up on top of a chair and then 916 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,480 Speaker 1: somebody stood on their shoulders or something, I could get 917 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: into the top of the refrigerator box. Now, the teacher 918 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 1: wasn't looking when I did it, but when I fell 919 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,880 Speaker 1: down ten feet into the refrigerator box, she heard the 920 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 1: big thump ten feet. Oh, however, tall refrigerator. 921 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 2: Is O dunk school you're going to there's a refrigerator 922 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:17,360 Speaker 2: box in the classroom. 923 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:21,640 Speaker 1: Good point. We were ha seed. So anyway, she hears 924 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:25,240 Speaker 1: a big her thump. Miss Plumba comes over. She's pissed. 925 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,360 Speaker 1: I knew better than to get and she poured me 926 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,160 Speaker 1: out of the box like a kid being poured out 927 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 1: of a box of cereal. And she spanked me, and 928 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:35,759 Speaker 1: I deserved it. 929 00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,400 Speaker 6: I love how many people are texting agreeing that teacher 930 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 6: teacher should number one, they should wear body cams. 931 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,000 Speaker 1: Number two, they should be able to spank kids earlier 932 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:44,359 Speaker 1: they were. 933 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,440 Speaker 6: People were pressed texting in that teacher should dress more appropriately. 934 00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:50,520 Speaker 1: But we should just spank kids. Where's the way it 935 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 1: makes sense? You know what I'm saying. Spanked in brats, 936 00:43:54,640 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 1: spanked in brats your political act. 937 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:02,800 Speaker 4: Violin solves. 938 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 1: It's not violence, It's it's called discipline. 939 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't think it's I don't think they should 940 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,279 Speaker 6: spank all the time. But I do think you have 941 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 6: said one good example. I bet you that kid won't 942 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:12,400 Speaker 6: act up. 943 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 3: I don't have fond memories in my gram but because 944 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,279 Speaker 3: all he ever did was threatened to spank us, I 945 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:18,719 Speaker 3: honestly like, do you. 946 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 4: I just don't think there's. 947 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 1: A good way. There's a difference between having the eternal 948 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 1: threat of like, you know, unnecessary. But if the kid 949 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 1: knows you got a wooden spoon hanging on the wall 950 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: behind you, next to the globe and you're gonna like 951 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,160 Speaker 1: paddle the ass if they act up, that kid's gonna 952 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,440 Speaker 1: be a good kid. Kids, Johnson, I. 953 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 2: Think that's a weird expectation to put on teachers though, 954 00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,320 Speaker 2: because like if I was a teacher and my principal 955 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 2: was like, Okay, when tim decides to act up, you're 956 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 2: gonna spank them, I'll be like, that's weird because even 957 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 2: touching a kid now, But. 958 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 6: It's only weird because because it's not normal right now. 959 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 6: If we made it normal, teachers would definitely take advantage. 960 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 3: But like just touching kids in general, like as a 961 00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 3: tear is not allowed anymore. 962 00:44:58,960 --> 00:44:59,480 Speaker 4: So then can you. 963 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: Imagine you problem? That part of the problem. 964 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,880 Speaker 6: I've always said it takes one good ace whooping to 965 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:06,720 Speaker 6: set somebody straight. 966 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: That don't even that, not even just teachers. 967 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 3: Get it's still a little And he gets lots of 968 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 3: ace whooping. 969 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 1: But does he get them from? Like what does he 970 00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:15,880 Speaker 1: get in fights at school? 971 00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 3: No, he's an angel at school, but at home he 972 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,280 Speaker 3: does whatever he wants to go ahead. 973 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 6: I even think that at school, like you can tell 974 00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 6: which kids get in fights and which kids get ace 975 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,000 Speaker 6: swoopings at home too, because there's some of them. 976 00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:30,840 Speaker 1: Are spoiled by Yeah, yeah, yeah, the mouth off the teacher. 977 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,000 Speaker 1: A lot of teachers listen to the show. Here's a 978 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 1: Texas says, as a teacher, I love the idea. As 979 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 1: someone who is very against spanking, absolutely not. But another one, 980 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,480 Speaker 1: juan Nita says, give them kids an ass whooping. Yeah, 981 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,880 Speaker 1: And I'm like you, each teacher should get one spanking 982 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,120 Speaker 1: they can give out per year, just like everybody at 983 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 1: work should get one punch that they can give somebody 984 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:50,919 Speaker 1: per year. And I work in HR. 985 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't disagree with that. I actually think I'm 986 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 3: all for that. Give give me your face punch. Oh 987 00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,359 Speaker 3: we all know who I punched. Give me your face, Oh. 988 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 1: Dave you wind it up. 989 00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,880 Speaker 4: No, it's definitely Dave. Because let me tell you something. 990 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,680 Speaker 15: What did I not predict, yes, when we were show 991 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,399 Speaker 15: planning yesterday, that I would get a text from Dave 992 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:14,240 Speaker 15: asking him to remind him who he was in charge 993 00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,879 Speaker 15: of for a political ad bit we're doing later, I said, and. 994 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:18,760 Speaker 1: I ask God forbid. 995 00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,919 Speaker 3: I cover my bases, actually said to you, I said, Dave, 996 00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,640 Speaker 3: were you listening? Yeah, okay, who are you doing your 997 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:25,360 Speaker 3: political ad with? 998 00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure. 999 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,880 Speaker 3: And then at six thirty pm, Jenny, who am I 1000 00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 3: doing my political ad with? 1001 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 1: That's exactly what happened. 1002 00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 4: So, yeah, I want to punch it. 1003 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 1: You look at my face, this very punchable face. I 1004 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 1: got one of those faces that just says, you know 1005 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 1: why I need good punching. 1006 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, your face would like accept my knuckles. 1007 00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:51,000 Speaker 1: Wind it up anyway. So there it is. You want 1008 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,600 Speaker 1: to stir the pot? There it is. The pot is stirred. Bailey. 1009 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,560 Speaker 4: How Bailey and I have to do next? 1010 00:46:58,280 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 1: Yes? 1011 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,640 Speaker 6: So every day this week, yaller, we're for starting the pot. Okay, Bayle, 1012 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 6: you go next tomorrow. 1013 00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 4: Okay, I can go next. Okay, save her for Thursday. 1014 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:10,440 Speaker 1: Sounds good? Alright, day Thursday, pot I love it.